WEBVTT - We have BIG BIG NEWS! 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.200 This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land. 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:14.160 Hi guys, and we'll welcome back to another episode of 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:14.720 Life on Cut. 0:00:14.760 --> 0:00:17.560 I'm Brittany and I'm Laura, and wait, I really want 0:00:17.560 --> 0:00:19.720 to know who actually set their alarms at five am 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:20.280 this morning? 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:20.680 Not me. 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:26.880 We did say, if you listen to ask gunkat, we 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:29.200 did bread crumb that we have some big news on 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:32.080 today's episode, and so we told you to set your 0:00:32.080 --> 0:00:34.640 alarms at five am, and there were Look, the debate entered, 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:36.159 the chat as to whether a five am or a 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:38.680 six am release was a good idea, and a lot 0:00:38.680 --> 0:00:39.519 of you think five. 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:41.000 Am is the way to go. So it's the new 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:41.760 lay of the land. 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:45.200 Everyone, Yeah, I will say message received, Okay, five am 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:47.200 is the new time. We did not get a single 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:50.240 message of someone saying, no, I prefer it released at six. 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:53.680 We did get many saying please release it at five o'clock. 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:54.000 Okay. 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:57.240 So we do have some big news today to share. 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:00.360 And if you want to speculate, like now's your time speculate, 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:02.240 you've probably got about fifteen minutes before we tell you 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:02.959 what that news is. 0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:05.319 There already has been a lot of speculation. What have 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:07.319 some of them been a lot of people think that 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:08.240 I'm already married. 0:01:08.880 --> 0:01:10.720 Oh, A lot. 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:14.280 Of people think that I got married secretly, which I understand. 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:17.680 Why can I say not one person message me a speculation. 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:20.960 Everyone messaged you, all messaged life on card, but no 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:23.679 one speculated about me. Yep, They're like, Laura's not mess 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:26.840 that'd be just got nothing going on. 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:29.000 There were some two speculations too. 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:31.640 I got actually I got a merch one. Yeah, merch 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:33.600 when you merch with all things. 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:35.400 That we should have done, Yeah, but unfortunately not. 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:38.440 There were some speculations that I wasn't coming back from Italy. 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:41.919 I got that. I thought that I was one way ticket. 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:43.120 Wouldn't do that to you guys. 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:45.440 I wouldn't be like, mate, you will get some morning. 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:47.480 I don't doubt that it's going to happen though soon. 0:01:47.680 --> 0:01:52.040 I do understand why the speculation came that I was married. Firstly, 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:55.680 I was trialing, like what size wedding ring I wanted. 0:01:55.960 --> 0:02:01.520 So I was putting different bands on my engagement finger to. 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:03.320 See like what would fit and what looks good. 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:04.920 And I was practicing and I forgot to take them 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:07.040 off for a while, and some of you, like hawk Eyes, 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:09.800 saw that I had another ring on, so I understand 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:10.680 why it does. 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:12.360 Look like I was wearing a wedding ring. 0:02:12.440 --> 0:02:14.880 Also, Ben's photos were inverted, you know how if you 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:17.600 can take a photo, sometimes it flips it. So Ben 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:19.440 wears a ring on his right hand, but it made 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:20.880 it look like he had on his left, so it 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:22.720 did look like we ran away in a lope. 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:25.080 Guys, we have a podcast. We would share with you everything. 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:27.400 We don't keep any of our personal lives to ourselves, 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:27.840 like don't. 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:29.680 But also, my wedding is not a secret. 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:32.240 Britt is not getting married without us telling you every 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:34.359 single detail. At some point, I don't know, We're not 0:02:34.360 --> 0:02:37.359 going to tell you live because you know, no, there's 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:39.440 got to be some secrets, just but they're always delayed 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:40.680 secrets we tell you very soon. 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:43.000 But they're the speculations. So we are going to tell 0:02:43.000 --> 0:02:44.600 you in what do you reckon twenty minutes? 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:46.919 Well, I don't know. We're like, who knows? Just keep listening, guys. 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:48.480 Do you not get one speculation? 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:52.640 Nothing about nothing? People are like, no, no, what are 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:53.600 they going to speculate about? 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:55.959 People like Laula slept through the night, She slept in 0:02:55.960 --> 0:02:57.200 her own bedding. 0:02:57.240 --> 0:03:01.720 Fairy came back well, the only speculation I received was 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:04.000 because I went to a wedding on in New Zealand 0:03:04.000 --> 0:03:06.079 over the weekend and I got messages. 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:08.080 Asking where Delilah was if both of us were away. 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:11.000 I get that a lot too. The only speculation I received. 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:12.440 I don't think that's speculation. 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:16.240 That's just pure concerned people like Dalilah's only two mums 0:03:16.240 --> 0:03:17.440 in the world have left the country. 0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:19.360 I'll put your minds at ease. She was with my 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:22.359 mum and then came and picked her up. That was 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:24.760 the only kind of Yeah, I got nothing as well. 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:27.520 Are we the boring ones of it? Everyone just expects 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.520 everything exciting to come from brit I think that. 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:32.760 We're the predictable ones. That's the problem, although you shouldn't be. 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:34.360 I'm pretty impulsive. 0:03:34.400 --> 0:03:36.120 Should we talk about the elephant in the room? 0:03:36.800 --> 0:03:39.000 Yeah, okay, So look, before we do get to the 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:40.800 big news, we want to talk about the two pays 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:43.360 taken over. You all know about the clip in Fringe. 0:03:43.680 --> 0:03:45.920 Keisha is a big fan of the clip in Fringe. 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:48.360 She vibed it on Vibes and unsubscribed. She wears it 0:03:48.400 --> 0:03:51.120 often and it is like it's kind of like flirting 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:52.640 with the person that you think you want to be, 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:54.680 but you don't want to commit. So every so often 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:56.720 Kish comes in and it's a clip in fringe day. 0:03:56.880 --> 0:03:57.520 It's a really good. 0:03:57.560 --> 0:04:00.160 If your hair is dirty, it's really good. If like me, 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:02.280 I get botox and I haven't had it for like 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:03.440 six or seven months. 0:04:03.840 --> 0:04:05.040 It covers the forehead. 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:07.040 I just feel as though I feel a lot more 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:08.640 creative and I kind of feel a bit. 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:10.440 More artsy, and I feel artsy. 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:11.080 Yeah. 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:11.880 Yeah. 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:15.240 So we walk in today into the studio and there 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:19.799 is Brittan Hockley, first proper record back from holidays in Italy, 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:23.160 wearing a lovely red top which does look very Italian. 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:26.440 You could be in Positano right now with the most 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:28.919 aggressive two pay clip in fringe you have seen, and 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:29.640 it looks great. 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:32.360 Calling it a Topez, it's a wispy fridge. 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:35.159 I feel like Donald Trump. It's not a tie. 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:36.839 She's also orange. 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:38.839 I'm not got no sign in Italy. 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:41.559 Okay, So when Kishi got her fringe, we all actually 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:44.680 got a fringe. Laura Shock, I think leftoes on top 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:46.200 of a car and flew off on the Humborbridge. 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:49.559 No, no, let me tell you, Keisha Nessi's in the corner, laughing. 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:50.599 She knows it's true. 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:52.800 Everything ends up on your car flying off. 0:04:52.920 --> 0:04:54.159 Do you know what actually happened? 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:56.040 Keisha handed me the clip in fringe, and like, the 0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:58.200 reason why I'll never do a clip in fringe is because, 0:04:58.200 --> 0:05:00.520 like in the morning, I have a shower, I get 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:02.800 ready for work, and I do one hairstyle which is 0:05:02.839 --> 0:05:03.440 slicked bad. 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:05.600 I was gonna say you with a slick back, and 0:05:05.640 --> 0:05:06.919 the fringe would not work. 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:07.480 That's it. 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:08.120 That's all I do. 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:10.080 So like the effort that I would have to do 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:12.120 to make sure that I had dried, neat hair in 0:05:12.279 --> 0:05:14.080 order to do the fringe is a level of effort 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:17.600 I don't have and can't comprehend. But Keisha gave me 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:20.400 the fringe. I put it in the door of my car. 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:21.920 That was eight months ago. 0:05:22.040 --> 0:05:23.599 It is still in the door of my car. 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:27.799 And Keisha gave me my fridge when I had orange hair, 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:29.560 so I was never able to wear it. So I've 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:31.520 gone back now and I finally wore. Can I tell 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:35.400 you how upset I was. I had big plans for 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:38.240 this fringe. This fringe was going on an Italian tour 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:41.359 and I got there on day one in Milan, and 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:42.880 I was like, oh. 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:45.280 The fringe screams Milan forgot it. 0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:47.520 Forgot to pack my fringe to Italy, and I was 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:50.200 so it wasn't rational how upset I was. 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:51.800 I was so upset to Ben Ben like, what's wrong? 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:54.320 I was like, I forgot my fringe. He was thank fuck. 0:05:56.400 --> 0:05:57.359 He hates it. It is. 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:00.640 Yeah, if you've ever been through a breakup cositted cutting 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:02.680 a fringe, which I think every single person has. 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:03.880 Done, I have done it. 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:04.840 I love done it. 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:06.800 I love the fringe, but you usually only love it 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:08.720 for like a couple of weeks and then it goes 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:11.719 through that awkward growing out stage. There is a company 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:14.360 will tag it because, like I said, Keisha's vibed it before, 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:17.200 who make these great clip in fringes. I am yet 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:18.960 to be converted, and I do feel like this is 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:20.680 going to be the time when I was coming to 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:22.760 the studio wearing crocs and you guys were all like 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.320 you're a loser, and then within six months you were 0:06:25.320 --> 0:06:27.480 all wearing crocs. So I know that in six months time, 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:28.960 I'm going to come in with a fringe and I'll 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:29.719 eat my own shit. 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:33.120 But that is why it is so good, because you're 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:35.080 not stuck with it. I could not have a fringe 0:06:35.080 --> 0:06:36.080 by the end of this episode. 0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:38.320 Look, this is our first episode back since being on 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:40.760 Break and Britain. You have been in Italy updates. You've 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:43.160 also been trying to learn your wedding dance. There's a 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:44.520 lot been going on in your life. 0:06:44.640 --> 0:06:47.039 Do you know this is so unusual and it's only 0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:49.080 relatable to people that are in a long distance relationship 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:51.279 or maybe yeah, their partners might work away or you're 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:53.440 in like the flying fly at whatever it is. Yeah, 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:55.760 but every single time I go to see Ben, and 0:06:55.920 --> 0:06:59.040 to be fair, this was the longest time apart, so 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:01.240 we hadn't seen each other since Christmas, basically like the 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:06.200 first week of January. And I genuinely like we talk 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:08.120 every day on FaceTime. But if you think of FaceTime, 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:10.400 you hold a phone up and you see their face. 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:14.080 I forget what he looks like every time I see him. 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:14.880 Like find the neck down. 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:18.800 Yeah, I'm shocked every time, Like I'm literally taken aback. 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:20.280 I get out of the car and I'm like, oh 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:22.560 my god, I forget what you look like. 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:25.120 I forget how tall you are, I forget how you feel. 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:28.640 I forget like it's like rediscovering each other again every time. 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:31.000 I'm not mad about it, but it always takes me 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:34.120 by surprise where I'm like, oh, that's right, Like you're 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:36.440 a real human that I can touch, because I feel 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:38.640 like I'm in a relationship with an AI robot half 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:39.000 the time. 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:41.400 But he's changed, Like it's really weird. 0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:44.920 I think when you're seeing someone every day, you don't 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:47.720 notice changes. And yeah, So he plays for his new 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:50.640 team in Italy now and for anyone that doesn't know football, 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:52.560 the team he's in now or the league he's in, 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:55.280 is like one of the best leagues in the world. 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:58.760 It is so professional and so strict. 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:00.080 I don't know what stricts. 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:02.320 The word, but it's just different to anything he's ever done. 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:06.040 So the training is so intense and everything's so serious. Yeah, 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.960 and so he trains so much more than ever and 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:12.680 he's always been very dedicated. But you should see the 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:17.120 Kardashian booty on this guy. I have never seen a 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:18.520 squat booty because he has to work. 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:23.040 Bro, it's all I could look at. I was like, 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:25.440 let me feel that, and it was like I could 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:29.720 put a drink on it. He's got this huge muscly bubble. 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:32.480 Butt thing, and I'm like, I love what's happening, but 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:35.600 it's just such a weird concept to I don't know 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:37.280 how to explain it. I don't know if I'm explaining 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:39.280 it right, but to look at someone that you are, 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:41.560 I'm getting married to him, like I love him and 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:43.280 I'm rediscovering him every time. 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:47.240 You literally walked in and said Ben has a massive ass. Yeah, 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:50.200 got a huge but it is in the best possible wedding. 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:50.880 It's great. 0:08:51.280 --> 0:08:52.200 I don't know where it came from. 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:53.800 Should we get then to do that photo shoot that 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:56.640 Kim d with the champagne glass on his butt, you 0:08:56.720 --> 0:08:58.320 know how it's like squirting over her. 0:08:58.559 --> 0:09:00.920 Yeah, Kim Kardashian is such a Kim though, like going 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:03.439 from having like, you know, a little buttshelf to having 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:05.360 no butt like and I feel like it just happens 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:06.359 so rapidly. 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:09.720 To be fair, and I don't reckon that that photo 0:09:09.720 --> 0:09:12.280 of her with the champagne on the butt that has 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:13.600 to have been like enhanced. 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:16.440 Oh it was, yeah, Yeah, they do is in hands? 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:20.160 It was they are in Hands's been that was unpacked 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:21.120 in twenty twenty. 0:09:23.160 --> 0:09:25.920 Okay, moving forward, why didn't want to call someone out 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:26.800 without knowing for sure. 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:27.920 That's how I am. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:30.880 You know, Britney's really abreast of all the pop colch. 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:33.320 Defamation in Australia. 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:39.600 Really just wanted to allegedly, allegedly keep cut ash spot 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:40.880 in that photo was enhanced. 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:42.560 Do you like the dump truck ass? 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:42.800 No? 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:46.080 Yeah, we had amazing sex, so that wasn't the question. 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:49.400 I think everyone thinks that when you're in a long 0:09:49.400 --> 0:09:51.160 distance relationship that when you see each other again that 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:54.480 it's just like intense so much sex every single day 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:57.760 is absolutely not like the first two days a fire flame, 0:09:58.040 --> 0:10:00.360 but you just go back to normal sex like couple 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:02.640 of days and because it's normal life, right, like you 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:04.760 got your tie, you get like jig training. But the 0:10:04.800 --> 0:10:09.040 first sex was reminiscent of the first time we ever met, 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:10.680 you know how I said, it was like Hollywood movie 0:10:10.720 --> 0:10:12.920 sex on our first night stand. It was like picking 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:14.440 up I had somewhere to see it becau sudden his 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:17.599 butt like he was putting on his shelf. But it 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:19.720 was it was really really nice, and it was special 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:21.520 because we got to spend it with Sherry and Jay 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:23.840 and baby Maya came over and so we had like 0:10:23.880 --> 0:10:25.840 a really nice little family reunion. 0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:26.400 It was cool. 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:30.280 It's so much nicer to visit now than Romania. Yeah, 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:33.400 Like when I was in Romania it was really hard 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:35.559 because I didn't feel like I could walk around by 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:37.320 myself when Ben's away or working. 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:39.719 I didn't feel safe a lot of the time. And 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:41.400 in Italy it was just different. 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:44.240 I was very comfortable exploring on my own and just 0:10:44.240 --> 0:10:46.320 going to restaurants and cafes on my own and doing 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:49.040 things like that. So I hope he stays there more 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:51.439 long term. I could see myself there more than I 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:53.560 could see myself in Romania, like I was never going 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:54.319 to live with Dracula. 0:10:54.400 --> 0:10:57.079 Ever, what happens with his contracts now? So he is 0:10:57.120 --> 0:11:00.160 obviously on a short term contract in Italy. When is 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:02.560 the contract period and what is the hopes? Is it 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:04.480 so that next year he gets a long term one 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:05.840 and is based in Italy? 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:09.079 Yeah, So the decision basically will be this June July. 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:13.000 So that's when every transfer window for every footballer is 0:11:13.240 --> 0:11:16.480 and that is when he will hopefully sign, hopefully a 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:20.360 long term contract where he is, but if not, wherever 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:22.640 he goes will be the next big contract. 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:25.640 So that is the decision where we both want to 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:26.240 make sure that. 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:28.360 I could be happy to be there, because obviously I 0:11:28.600 --> 0:11:31.040 hopefully will have a family in the coming years, and 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:32.920 I want to make sure that it's somewhere that I 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:33.600 would want to be. 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:37.080 But also he's not going to sign somewhere like, for example, Romania. 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:39.160 Well it's a place that you didn't feel as though 0:11:39.240 --> 0:11:40.560 it could be home for you as well. 0:11:40.640 --> 0:11:43.160 Yeah, it's a joint decision this time. Yeah, obviously it's 0:11:43.160 --> 0:11:45.720 what's best for his career, Like his career is important, 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:47.400 but family is important as. 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:50.559 Well, and you're feeling safe as well, feeling safe wanting 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:53.360 to visit. You know, it's obviously an expensive relationship. I 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:55.000 don't want to have to travel the whole time, Like, 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:57.840 we want to spend more time together and less time traveling. 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:01.040 So where he moves is like the biggest decision we 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:03.360 will make. Yeah, so this is a really big year 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:06.120 for us. Big decisions obviously getting married, choosing what last 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:08.160 name I'm going to have, and choosing where Ben's going 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:09.520 to spend the next couple of years. 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:10.920 What have you guys been up to? 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:13.679 That's very exciting. I went to New Zealand over our 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:16.160 little break for one of my actually two of my 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:18.480 wonderful friend's weddings. We went and spent some time in 0:12:18.520 --> 0:12:21.360 Queenstown and in Warnica. But I want to ask you guys, 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:24.480 because something happened on our way to the airport, and 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:26.520 I think it was one of those moments where I 0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:29.920 had that realization. You know how with a lot of things, 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:32.680 it's like one person in the relationship is A and 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:34.839 the other person in the relationship is B, and they 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:35.360 always end. 0:12:35.320 --> 0:12:38.200 Up to I have never had content blow up in 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:40.120 the same way. So Matt and I made it reel 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:41.840 quite a while ago, and it was like the two 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:43.880 types of people when it comes to a dishwasher. So 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:46.680 the people who like stack a dishwasher perfectly, which is Matt, 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:49.280 Like Matt does the dishwasher like it's a game of Tetris. 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:52.040 Yeah, it is immaculate Scandinavian architecture. 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:52.280 Yeah. 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:53.720 And then there's me and I just kind of throw 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:55.760 it all in and it gets washed. Every so often 0:12:55.800 --> 0:12:57.160 there's a ball flipped up the wrong way, you just 0:12:57.160 --> 0:12:58.480 tip that one out put it in the next cycle. 0:12:58.600 --> 0:12:59.440 I'm a thrower too. 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:05.120 And Vanessa Vanessa, who is our video editor who also 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:07.679 was my housemate for many years, is looking at me like, 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:11.560 you fuckhead is looking at me like I hate you 0:13:11.600 --> 0:13:14.600 and I hated living with you. The amount of passive 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:16.680 aggressive text I would receive. 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:20.959 No, but it's true then the way who packed the 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:21.640 dishrusher today? 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:21.880 Laura? 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:23.480 But there was somebody Laura. 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:25.400 Do you know there was this one time when Ne's 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:27.640 just collected all of the empty toilet paper rolls that 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:29.640 were in the bathroom and put them in my bed. 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:33.280 I think that's. 0:13:32.400 --> 0:13:34.920 Passive aggressive, that's flat aggressive, and I love it. 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:37.280 No, when I go to Laura's house still now I 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:39.319 have to bring my own toilet paper because you. 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:41.120 Will go into the toilet, never toilet. 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:44.720 There is never toilet paper anywhere. I'm like, how is 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:46.920 there a house of five people here? What are you 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:47.800 wiping your butts with? 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:48.120 No? 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:49.920 Do you know why? Because there is toilet paper, it's 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:50.600 just in the cupboard. 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:53.280 But we have two kids and also Matt, so like 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:56.200 none of them replaced the role when the role gets empty. 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:59.200 So it's not until you're sitting on the toilet. 0:13:59.240 --> 0:13:59.679 No I do. 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:02.240 I just don't go as often as they seem to. 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:04.600 But it's not until I am sitting on the toilet 0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:07.839 and I'm like, there's no toilet paper here, I will 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:10.280 shuffle across and go and get a roll. But the 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:13.200 problem is is I never take the cardboard empty roll 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.000 off into the bin. I just kind of put it 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:16.280 on the floor and then put the other one on. 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:17.920 So like I am part of the problem. 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:18.520 I'm well aware. 0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:21.280 But anyway, there's two types of people, people who do 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:22.680 things correctly and people who don't. 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:23.960 And I fall into the don't. 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:26.080 I think I fall into the dot in most things, 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:28.920 although I do replace a toilet roll. But for us, 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:31.480 it was Anzac Day, so it was Friday morning, and 0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:34.440 our flight was the really early one, so six fifteen 0:14:34.560 --> 0:14:37.120 was the time it took off. Checking clothes is at 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:39.840 five point fifteen, right, So we had a conversation the 0:14:39.920 --> 0:14:41.560 night before and it was the whole like, what time 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:43.000 do we need to set the alarm? Yeah? 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:44.200 How long do we need to get there? 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:44.560 Yeah? 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:46.480 Yeah, yeah, International fly And I was like, look, we 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:48.320 don't leave that far from the airport. You know, it's 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:50.520 so early in the morning, there's not going to be traffic, 0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:51.920 the airport won't. 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:53.280 Be busy, it'll be fine. 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:57.640 I give myself just enough time, like not a minute 0:14:57.680 --> 0:14:59.560 more than what I think, And because I value sleep 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:01.160 and I want to as much sleep as I possibly 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:04.120 can get. So Friday morning comes around, the alarm goes 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:07.360 off at four. We get up, quick shower, get dressed, 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:10.160 go to order the uber sans ac day. 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:11.000 There's no ubers. 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:13.440 There weren't as many who bus as I was expecting 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:14.960 because people are getting. 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:15.800 Them to dawn services. 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:19.200 So I was like, oh, okay, that's slightly concerning. Anyway, 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:22.360 as the times ticking along and we're still waiting, you know, 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:24.520