1 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This podcast is 2 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: for women who want to take ownership of their lives, 3 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 1: live unapologetically, and are ready to turn their biggest dreams 4 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: into their reality. If you're ready to be armed with 5 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: the tools that will inspire to take bold action, feel 6 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: confident within yourself, and conquer your goals, then you've come 7 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 1: to the right place. I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson. I'm 8 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 1: a lawyer turned entrepreneur, co founder of Naked Harvest Supplements, 9 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: and social media personality with a community of over three 10 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: hundred thousand. I grew up believing I had to pursue 11 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: the safe option and fit into a mold others had 12 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: created for me. But then I entered my corporate law 13 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: job and I realized that settling for a reality that 14 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: did I didn't set my soul on fire, was something I 15 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: was not prepared to do. I wanted more, and I 16 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: have a feeling you do too. Join me and special 17 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: guests weekly as we get down to the nitty gritty 18 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: on all things health, mastering your mindset, creating lasting habits, 19 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: thriving in your career and relationships, plus so much more, 20 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: and together we'll gain the knowledge and perspective to pursue 21 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: our wildest dreams and kick fear to the curb. Well 22 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: what are you waiting for? Let's rise and conquer. Hey guys, and. 23 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 2: Welcome back to the Rise and Cocker Podcast. Today's chat 24 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 2: is with the vicarious and down to earth Riley Hempson. 25 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 2: You may also know her on Instagram as healthy Chick 26 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 2: one oh one. In our chat today, Riley shares how 27 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: she studied for four years obtaining her degree and paramedicine, 28 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 2: and then how she made the decision and to take 29 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 2: on her social media career full time. We got down 30 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 2: to what it was like to steer away from a 31 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 2: job in paramedicine with some practical, realistic tips on how 32 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 2: to take next steps if you're also in that situation. 33 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,679 Speaker 2: We also chat about Riley's health journey and how when 34 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 2: she started on social media it was all about weight loss, 35 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 2: but now her message has changed and evolved into being 36 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 2: more than just her body. Riley also shares her diagnosis 37 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 2: of lipodemia with us and how she treats the condition 38 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 2: that affects eleven percent of women. We also get some 39 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 2: really exciting insight into Riley's new activewear brand called Remy 40 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 2: by Riley, which she designed after becoming frustrated with the 41 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 2: lack of options available to all bodies. I can't wait 42 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 2: for you guys to hear this one. Let's get straight 43 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 2: into it. Hey, Riley, welcome to the show. Hello, how 44 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 2: are we Very good? 45 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good, very excited for you to 46 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 1: be on the show and have this chat because you 47 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 1: had some really epic news happened on the weekend. Before 48 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 1: we get into that, something I asked all my guests 49 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: on the pod is what season are you currently in? 50 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 1: So what I mean by this is just what are 51 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 1: you prioritizing at the moment. 52 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 3: When you first said that, I was like, is it summer? 53 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: I'm not sure I do explain this question because. 54 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 3: I've never been asked this before, but I guess for me, 55 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 3: I'm prioritizing my business, my new business that's going to launch. 56 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 3: But I know, you know, alongside that, the world's pretty 57 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 3: heavy at the moment with a lot going on. So 58 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 3: it's also been important for the last you know, month 59 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 3: or so to be looking after my own mental health. 60 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 3: I suppose. 61 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, so you're in a bit of a season 62 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: of hustle but also making sure you know you prioritize 63 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 1: your mental health. For the listeners who don't know who 64 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: you are, can you give us a quick snapshot of 65 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: who are? 66 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, I'm a twenty four year old girl. I 67 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 3: live on the Gold Coast. I was actually born here, 68 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 3: but I've loved most of my life in New Zealand. 69 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 3: Moved over a year ago here, so we're a bit 70 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 3: set up now. I am full time social media, so Instagram, 71 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 3: bit to YouTube. Yeah, I started an Instagram called healthy 72 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 3: check one O one when I was taking the past 73 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 3: one day, like it was not meant to be my 74 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 3: job or even meant to like have people see it 75 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 3: that weren't my friends. And it started as a weight 76 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 3: loss page basically to hold myself accountable. And so yeah, 77 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 3: that started about four years ago now, and then I've 78 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 3: just sort of as I lost weight and gain weight 79 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 3: and grew and all sorts, I've just, yeah, sort of 80 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 3: got to a point where it's all about balance for me, 81 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 3: and I guess my following and all that has sort 82 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 3: of grown as I've grown. And yeah, I feel like 83 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 3: that's sort of the rundown. 84 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 1: Amazing, And do you want to tell the audience a 85 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: little bit about your new business that you just launched. 86 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's been in the works for quite a 87 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 3: long time. I sort of underestimated that. I was like, 88 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 3: surely a couple months we can get it up and 89 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 3: up and running. But no. So we are launching an 90 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 3: active wear brand. When I say we, my partner Vita, 91 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 3: He's been a massive part of this as well. So 92 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 3: launching an active web brand that is made from recycled 93 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 3: So eighty eight percent of the fabric is recycled. So 94 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 3: that's from they sort of gather fishing nets and waste 95 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 3: from the ocean to make the fabric. And so we're 96 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 3: doing sizes for EXL down to extra small. So yeah, 97 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 3: it's just I mean, I've been a size twenty, I've 98 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:07,239 Speaker 3: been a size fourteen and over. You know that period 99 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 3: of time of me going you know, different weights and 100 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 3: different sizes. I really struggled to find active where you 101 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 3: know that you can wear to the gym or we're 102 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 3: at to lunch because I just live an active wear 103 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 3: as we all do. I struggled to find cool active 104 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:27,039 Speaker 3: wear that catered for all different sizes and that just 105 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 3: made it a normal thing. Like we do see some 106 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 3: brands that will cater to bigger sizes, but they'll change 107 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 3: things or make it really obvious that you know, you've 108 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 3: gone up into those curvy sizes. And I just that 109 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 3: was one thing that I struggled to find was a 110 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 3: brand that was just like everyone looks hot, it doesn't 111 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 3: matter what size you are, you can wear it sort 112 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 3: of thing. So yeah, that has been a you know, 113 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,359 Speaker 3: a year and over a year in the making and 114 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 3: it's finally launching this month. So yeah, crazy. 115 00:06:55,080 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: Times exciting, and I absolutely love your messaging, your why 116 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 1: behind the brand that is just epic. So we will 117 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:08,840 Speaker 1: get back into that, but I just want to go 118 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: back because I know that you studied pharmacy. 119 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 3: It was a degree in health science, but it's a 120 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 3: paramedicin Yeah, so Bachelor of Health Science and paramedicine. Yeah, yes, 121 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 3: that was all right, the topeze, you know. 122 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, uh, and you landed yourself a 123 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: job in the field, and then, much like me, you 124 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: took on social media full time. Can you kind of 125 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: run us through, well, I guess take us through why 126 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: you decided to go full time with social media and 127 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: also what does a dan a life look like for you? 128 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? So I studied for four years and then applied 129 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 3: for it. Well, when I finished my degree, I worked 130 00:07:56,720 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 3: for sorry, did full time social media for six months 131 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 3: until I got my internship. So did that for six 132 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 3: months as sort of like a you know, it was 133 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 3: over Christmas in between that sort of stage, and so 134 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 3: I knew what that was going to be like. But 135 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 3: I had all the intention to get an internship. They're 136 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 3: just really hard to get. So anyway, applied for it, 137 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 3: went through the whole process of interviews and all sorts, 138 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 3: and got a job. This was a New Zealand, So yeah, 139 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 3: I was over the moon, like it was such a 140 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 3: massive moment for me to you know, study for four 141 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 3: years and then finally get the internship and my dream career. 142 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 3: And so I started working and at this point I 143 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 3: was balancing my social media and my paramedic job. I 144 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 3: absolutely loved, you know, working as a medic paramedic on 145 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 3: the road. Absolutely love it. Still still would absolutely love 146 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 3: to do that. I just sort of found myself I 147 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 3: was getting offered opportunities that were not going to come 148 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:02,319 Speaker 3: up again. And yes, to get back into paramedicine, it 149 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 3: isn't going to be a walk in the park. There'd 150 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 3: be a whole lot of skills i'd have to redo. 151 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, I sort of 152 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 3: waded it up and I was like, I've got my degree. 153 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 3: It got to a point where I was juggling the 154 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 3: two and I just couldn't do it anymore. It was 155 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 3: like I needed to go full steam ahead in one 156 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:22,719 Speaker 3: direction or the other. And so it took a lot 157 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 3: of sort of talking to colleagues, talking to friends, talking 158 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 3: to family, and then yeah, I just came to the 159 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,719 Speaker 3: decision that I was like, I'm going to regret if 160 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 3: I don't do social media full time, Like it's such 161 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,679 Speaker 3: a rare position to be in where I can, you know, 162 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 3: do this as a job. So yeah, that's sort of 163 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 3: what made my decision up for me. And absolutely no regrets, 164 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 3: Like if I just look back on all the things 165 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 3: that I've done, I'm just like, how is this my life? 166 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 3: So yeah, that's really cool. And I guess the day 167 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 3: in the life for me is every day is different 168 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 3: because it depends what content I am Joe, It depends 169 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 3: what emails are coming in, it depends if I have 170 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 3: travel on or events on. But most of it, I 171 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 3: guess is at home. Which can I talk about this, 172 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 3: you know on my YouTube channel or on my stories 173 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 3: that being in this job you can get quite lonely, 174 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 3: and you do have to be sort of willing to 175 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 3: hold yourself accountable for the work because you know, if 176 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 3: no one's there to say you need to edit this video, 177 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 3: then you just don't have to do it. So I 178 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 3: guess it's about making sure that I'm doing what I 179 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 3: need to do and holding myself accountable. But yeah, editing, 180 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 3: replying to emails, shooting photos. I've also started doing a 181 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 3: bit of modeling for other brands in the last sort 182 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 3: of six months, so some days I'll have shoots for 183 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 3: things like that, and yeah, I guess with my own 184 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 3: brand launching as well, there's like a whole lot of 185 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 3: stuff like setting up you know, Australia post and doing 186 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 3: the website and going back and forth with the manufacturer 187 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 3: and all sorts. So yeah, it's a whole bunch of 188 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 3: random stuff every day. 189 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 1: I love it. I totally feel you on that. I 190 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: love what you were saying in regards to how you 191 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: know you had this sort of secure job, what you 192 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: had worked for in your degree, and then you have 193 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: this other opportunity where you just thought, you know, I 194 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 1: have to risk it, I have to see what it 195 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: looks like. And then now you're saying you don't regret 196 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: it at all. What would you say, Because on this podcast, 197 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: I'm all about giving the audience sort of actionable tools 198 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: and tips. So what would you say to that person 199 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 1: who is maybe at a not similar but just a 200 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 1: crossroads where they do have to make this sort of 201 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: big life decision of going either way? What would you 202 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 1: say to that person? 203 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I love that you've said you know that 204 00:11:56,400 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 3: it's all about actionable things, you know, because it's very 205 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 3: well and good to say, you know, take a risk, 206 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 3: but you need to make sure that you also can 207 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 3: back yourself. And that's one thing that I guess was 208 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 3: very important for me because money is not everything, but 209 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 3: it is also important and you know, to be able 210 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 3: to live your life and pay your rent and all 211 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 3: sorts like that. So for me or advice for people, 212 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 3: I'd say, do a pros and cons plan out what 213 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 3: it's actually going to look like for you, what a 214 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 3: week's going to look like financially, what it's going to 215 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:38,559 Speaker 3: look like on you know, either or of the routs 216 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 3: that you need to take, and then make sure that 217 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 3: it's you know, there's a good chance that it's going 218 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 3: to work for you. Obviously there's people that take massive 219 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 3: risks all the time and they turn out fantastic, but 220 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 3: there's always that planning behind it. And for me that 221 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 3: was a really important thing. I sort of had to 222 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 3: sit down and go, if I'm going to let my 223 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 3: paramedic job. You know, I love doing social media, I 224 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:06,199 Speaker 3: love doing paramedics. I had to, you know, what was 225 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:08,079 Speaker 3: the thing that was going to be, like I can 226 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 3: or can't do that? And when I knew that I 227 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 3: was going to be okay financially going this way and 228 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 3: leaving you know, a stable job that I could be 229 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 3: in for basically the rest of my life, that was 230 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 3: the deciding factor. I guess at the end of the day, 231 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 3: if it wasn't going to work out with social media 232 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 3: wise straight you know, straight off the bat, and it 233 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 3: could we don't know how long this is going to last, 234 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:34,439 Speaker 3: so it is a resk in itself, but just making 235 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 3: sure that it is a feasible. 236 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 1: Thing, oh a hundred percent. And I was definitely the 237 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 1: same like when I quit my law degree, I waited 238 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: and when I was doing my social media stuff on 239 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: the side, I guess you can call it our sort 240 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 1: of side hustles. I waited to a point where I 241 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: was earning the you know, like a similar or the 242 00:13:55,840 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: same amount as my position as a lawyer. So yeah, 243 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 1: just because it's a huge sort of lifestyle change and 244 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: you do want to be smart about it, and of 245 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 1: course there's you know, trusting your guard and your intuition 246 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: and making sure you're passionate all that sort of stuff. 247 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:17,840 Speaker 1: But I love that you touched on that side. 248 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it just all kind of like you can't 249 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 3: make a decision for someone else, that you never know 250 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 3: what people are feeling. And but like we said, you know, 251 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 3: you do have to weigh up those things and it 252 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 3: is important as much as trusting your gut is. 253 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 1: For sure. Love that. Let's switch gears a little bit. 254 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 1: And in your intro you did sort of discuss your 255 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 1: health and fitness journey, and so you started your Instagram 256 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 1: at the start of your journey of wanting to lose weight, 257 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 1: and now you say that your approach is a bit 258 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 1: more balanced. Can you sort of run us through your 259 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 1: health and fitness journey, how it started, how it is now, 260 00:14:56,880 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: and how you approach things differently, Like what that looks 261 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: like for you. 262 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I've always been an active person, Like I've 263 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 3: always played sport, but I've always been sort of like 264 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 3: a bigger girl all through my life. In school, you know, 265 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 3: I was playing everything water, polo, netball, basketball. I was 266 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 3: never a runner though, cross country I'm out. So I've 267 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 3: always just been an active person. I was going to 268 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 3: the gym from you know, as soon as we were allowed. 269 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 3: When I was in I think it must have been 270 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 3: year nine because the years are different with Australia and 271 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 3: New Zealand. We go to the gym after school. So 272 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 3: I was always sort of living, I guess, a balanced lifestyle, 273 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 3: but with that pressure of kids at school, you know, 274 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 3: like me just being a bigger girl. So I was 275 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 3: always conscious that I was overweight. When I left school, 276 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 3: I went straight into studying. So I guess with that 277 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 3: lifestyle change and routine change, I'm driving everywhere. I'm not 278 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 3: walking to school anymore. I'm not eating at you know, 279 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 3: morning sea lunch, after school dinner. I'll breakfast in the morning. 280 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 3: I'm not you know, I'm just eating when I can 281 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 3: and eating things that are quirk and just I didn't 282 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 3: have a good routine. I got to a point where 283 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 3: I will I hurt my ankle playing netbooks, so then 284 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 3: I needed surgery and then that sort of stopped all 285 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 3: my physical activity and so things that I love to do, 286 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 3: like playing sport just completely went out the window. And 287 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 3: then I use that as an excuse basically for lack 288 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 3: three years. I was like, oh no, ankle still saw 289 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 3: so I yeah, I basically stopped doing all the things 290 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 3: that were a healthy lifestyle for me and the things 291 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 3: that I enjoyed. And I would eat like a whole 292 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 3: large pizza and large chips for afternoon snack and then 293 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 3: go home and eat dinner like it just got And 294 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 3: that was most days. And then the thing that sort 295 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 3: of landed me in a place that I was unhappy. 296 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 3: I thought I was mainly unhappy with what I looked like, 297 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 3: but now looking back on it, I realized it was 298 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 3: always about my lifestyle and the balance. I got to 299 00:16:59,880 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 3: a point where I was every day going, Okay, I'm 300 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 3: going to start again tomorrow. I'm going to eat you 301 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 3: know nothing, I'm going to drink water and have a 302 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 3: kale smoothie for lunch and then you know, some veggies 303 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 3: for dinner. And so it was this really unrealistic expectation 304 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 3: that I put on myself, and then every single day 305 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:21,159 Speaker 3: you can guess what would happen. I'd fail by the morning, 306 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 3: and then I'd go, okay, well, then I'm going to 307 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:26,000 Speaker 3: start again tomorrow, so I might as well eat everything 308 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 3: I can today. And so it was just like yo yo. 309 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:31,400 Speaker 3: What wasn't even yo yo? Because I wouldn't even make 310 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 3: it through, you know, two days of my new healthy 311 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 3: lifestyle before I'd then go, oh no, I need to 312 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 3: have like pizza, ice cream, hot chipped pasta, all the things, 313 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 3: and you know, a few hours before I start again tomorrow. 314 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 3: So it was this whole I was just in a 315 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 3: very bad space with it all. So I basically started 316 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,639 Speaker 3: my Instagram because I was like, once I start that, 317 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 3: I'm going to be held accountable and I have to 318 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 3: lose weight, so as I so I started my Instagram. 319 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:00,919 Speaker 3: It was very like just my friends. It was a 320 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 3: private Instagram. I ended up losing I think it was 321 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 3: just under thirty kilos in quite a short amount of time. 322 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 3: I think it was a few months. And that was 323 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:14,680 Speaker 3: purely just because of the lifestyle changes. You know, I 324 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 3: was working out again, I was drinking enough water, I 325 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 3: was having vegetables instead of a whole large pizza and chips, 326 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:24,719 Speaker 3: which go for it, but every single day wasn't a 327 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 3: healthy lifestyle for me, And so yeah, I ended up 328 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:31,679 Speaker 3: losing a whole lot of weight. And then over the 329 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 3: course of me sort of losing weight and then maintaining 330 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 3: weight and putting on weight, I sort of realized, your 331 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,399 Speaker 3: life doesn't become this incredible. You don't change as a 332 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 3: person when you lose weight. You know, it's not like 333 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 3: you lose ten kgs and everything's better and getting better grades. 334 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 3: I've got, you know, everything going for me. It's just 335 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:54,199 Speaker 3: not how it works. And so yeah, I sort of 336 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 3: as I went on, I realized that I'm still the 337 00:18:56,640 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 3: same person. My friends and my family love me for me. 338 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 3: It doesn't matter what size I am. I'm still I've 339 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 3: got the same values, and so yeah, it's sort of 340 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:11,640 Speaker 3: just merged into this whole have a balanced lifestyle. And 341 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:17,120 Speaker 3: now I guess the differences are that I will work out, 342 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 3: not because I'm punishing myself and I need to lose weight, 343 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,479 Speaker 3: but because I actually enjoy going to the gym. I 344 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 3: love feeling strong, and it's just, yeah, I guess that 345 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:30,159 Speaker 3: whole I'm so much more than what I look like. 346 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 3: I'm so much more than just my body, and a 347 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:36,959 Speaker 3: healthy lifestyle for me is important, and my healthy lifestyle 348 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 3: will look different to yours. You know, we're all just 349 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:44,639 Speaker 3: so different. And I think that's what I'm most proud 350 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,919 Speaker 3: of pushing that message across to people, that it's just like, 351 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 3: as long as you're living your balance lifestyle or your 352 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:54,479 Speaker 3: lifestyle that you want to live, it doesn't matter what 353 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 3: you look like or what size you are. 354 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 1: That is so powerful, and I love what you said 355 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: about how you realize that, you know, when you lost 356 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 1: weight and then you maintained it and then you put 357 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 1: on weight, you realize that it, you know, didn't change everything. 358 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:13,200 Speaker 1: And I think that's like the biggest misconception when people 359 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 1: like go on a diet or something because they think, oh, 360 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,199 Speaker 1: I'm going to lose weight and then just like my 361 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,679 Speaker 1: whole life is going to get better, and it's just 362 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 1: so inaccurate because what we don't realize is like, even 363 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 1: if you're in a smaller body, you still have, you know, 364 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: a lot of the same issues and feelings and emotions, 365 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 1: and usually it's not even tied to that. So I 366 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 1: love that you touched on that. 367 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:37,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so true. And the things that you worry 368 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 3: about when you know, the things that I worried about 369 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 3: when I was at my biggest, you still have worries. 370 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 3: I still have worries now. I still I had worries 371 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 3: when I was at my smallest. It just the things 372 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 3: that you focus on change. So I would still feel, 373 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 3: you know, the feelings, but it would be like you 374 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 3: see towards something else. 375 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 1: You know. 376 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 3: There were times where I'd have financial problems, or I 377 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 3: wouldn't be happy in my job because of you know 378 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:05,639 Speaker 3: this reason or that reason, or i'd get a bad grade. 379 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 3: You know, it's just different things take over. It was 380 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 3: just that when I was at my biggest store, when 381 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 3: I was the most unhappy with my last dole and 382 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 3: my body, I was just putting all of the emphasis 383 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 3: on that, And so you think to yourself, well, then 384 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 3: if I fix that, I'm not going to have the 385 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,280 Speaker 3: worries because all I'm worrying about right now is that. 386 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 1: Yes, one hundred percent. 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And so you already just touched on this, 414 00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: but I want to go back to it. So, and 415 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 1: I know this is in your bo to on Instagram 416 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:04,560 Speaker 1: and you've got I'm so much more than just my body. 417 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 1: Can you sort of expand on what this means for you? 418 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 1: Because for me, I love this aspect of you realizing 419 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: I guess like coming from like either a self love 420 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 1: or a self acceptance, and realizing that you don't even 421 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: have to be consumed in what you look like. Like 422 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 1: there's so much more to life, if that makes sense. Sorry, 423 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: I kind of went off on a herrant. No, yeah, 424 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 1: expand on that for us. 425 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:37,959 Speaker 3: Yeah. So, I guess some people could probably say that it's, 426 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,440 Speaker 3: you know, contradicting what I do, because I postpones on 427 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:46,119 Speaker 3: myself every day on Instagram. But I guess for me, 428 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 3: it's just that whole I am so much more than 429 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 3: just what I look like. And I think a great 430 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 3: way to explain that is if we all looked the same, 431 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,400 Speaker 3: if we all looked exactly the same, what would suit 432 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 3: you Apart why other people that like to be around 433 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:06,159 Speaker 3: you around you. Is it because you're funny? Is it 434 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 3: because you're caring? Is it because you you know, you 435 00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 3: put others first? Is it because you're a great cook? 436 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:14,639 Speaker 3: Is it you know? There's so many other important things 437 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,199 Speaker 3: and life other than just what we look like like. 438 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,159 Speaker 3: If I could go back to the years that I 439 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 3: spent worrying about what I looked like, there are just 440 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 3: you know, it's just wasted time. 441 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 1: I'm just like resonating with you right now, and I'm 442 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 1: also thinking back because I have a pass with disorted 443 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 1: eating habits and something that I chat about a lot, 444 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 1: and I don't know if you'll agree with this is 445 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:46,199 Speaker 1: just so much like wasted brain capacity. And something I 446 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: talk about is like when I was really stuck in diet, 447 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: the diet cycle and diet culture, I realize, like everything 448 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 1: else in my life was pretty stagnant. So I did 449 00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:00,639 Speaker 1: finish my law degree, but like everything else, it's almost 450 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 1: like I did not have the time because I had 451 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 1: this other full time job of worrying what I looked 452 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:08,359 Speaker 1: like and worrying what the next meal was compared to now, 453 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:12,959 Speaker 1: when I no longer have those constraints of a diet 454 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 1: or consumed by it, I'm like, oh my god, I 455 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 1: have all this other time to like think of businesses 456 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:22,160 Speaker 1: and think of these new ideas and do this new stuff. 457 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 1: Do you kind of agree with that? 458 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred percent. It's just it's time wasted, it's 459 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 3: brain capacity wasted, like it actually is. And it takes 460 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 3: a lot to get to this point though, like you know, 461 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 3: I get it. We're not sitting here going, oh, you know, 462 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 3: you know, just think about something else, because it's not 463 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 3: like that. It's you know, it takes time to get 464 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 3: to a point where you can listen to your body 465 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,880 Speaker 3: and know what it needs without actually listening. 466 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:54,639 Speaker 1: That's one hundred percent. And do you have any tips 467 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 1: for someone who is maybe you know, the previous you 468 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 1: who is quite consumed and what they look like and 469 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,879 Speaker 1: in that space, do you have any tips for that person? 470 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? I think I feel like you need to accept 471 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:15,479 Speaker 3: yourself before like self love and the whole accepting yourself 472 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,119 Speaker 3: and then going, you know, I'm more than my body. 473 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 3: I feel like it's almost like three steps, like it's 474 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 3: first of all, tackling it head on and going why 475 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 3: do I feel the way that I do? And going, 476 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,959 Speaker 3: you know, I love these parts of myself and learning 477 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,199 Speaker 3: to love them, learning that everybody has I don't know, 478 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,199 Speaker 3: let's just say saluli, everybody has it. Most people do, 479 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,880 Speaker 3: and tackling that head on and going why do we 480 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 3: feel like we hate that? Because no one's actually said 481 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,959 Speaker 3: everyone needs to hate that. It's just come from you know, 482 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,439 Speaker 3: the media and growing up and seeing a whole lot 483 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:51,160 Speaker 3: of different weight loss things or whatever. And then moving 484 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 3: on to the self acceptance, which is sort of going like, 485 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 3: because self love is great and everything, but then I 486 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,399 Speaker 3: feel like it also holds its how we need to 487 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 3: focus yeah, and we need to focus on that, and 488 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:07,119 Speaker 3: we need to love that, whereas an actual fact, we don't. 489 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,239 Speaker 3: The whole thing is that we're more than what we 490 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 3: look like. So it's almost like realizing that and going, Okay, 491 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to learn to love these things about 492 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,639 Speaker 3: myself and then also learn to go it doesn't actually matter. 493 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,639 Speaker 3: So I feel like it's sort of those steps that 494 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 3: you have to take, and for me, I had to 495 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 3: go through that telling myself that these parts of me 496 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 3: were normal and you know, they don't hold any value 497 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,640 Speaker 3: over who I am, and then move to a point 498 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 3: where you can go okay, well, regardless of whether I 499 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,600 Speaker 3: have these things, what else is going on for me? 500 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 1: Yeah? And I love I love what you said about 501 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 1: the self acceptance. And that's also something like I'm big 502 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,439 Speaker 1: on in It's not like you have to stand in 503 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,879 Speaker 1: front of the mirror and be like, oh my god 504 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 1: that you know that cellulite is sexy, like I look 505 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 1: so good. Like it's not about that. It's being able 506 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,479 Speaker 1: to stand in front of the mirror and not you know, 507 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 1: attack that part of your body like kind of not 508 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 1: even notice and not be consumed or focused on it. 509 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. And I think again, it's not a 510 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,199 Speaker 3: point where you get to and you're like, oh my cellular, 511 00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 3: I don't even see it. You know, It's not that. 512 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 3: It's just some days you're gonna feel like all you 513 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 3: can see is cellular, and then some days it's not 514 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,679 Speaker 3: going to matter at all. And it's normal. It's completely normal. 515 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,680 Speaker 3: I feel like that as well. But yet it totally 516 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 3: is about that whole just going I you know, it's 517 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 3: me and the mirror and that's it. 518 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: And also like you've got to think like how long 519 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,480 Speaker 1: do you want to be? And I just did a 520 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 1: podcast about this priestly, but like how long do you 521 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: want to be at war with your body, because it's 522 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 1: like you've got this, you know, life is short, Like 523 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 1: how long do you want to be at war and 524 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 1: consumed with your body? Or do you want to just 525 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 1: like get on with life? If that makes sense. I 526 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 1: know it's not that easy at all, but okay, perfect, 527 00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 1: I'm going to switch gears here because I feel like 528 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:13,480 Speaker 1: we had a good rant on that and so something 529 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,360 Speaker 1: else I wanted to chat about, and you did just 530 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 1: touch on this, but like scrolling through your feed, you 531 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 1: can see you just absolutely radiate confidence and it is 532 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 1: infectious and it really does feel like you have confidence 533 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 1: and you have self acceptance, and it really feels like 534 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 1: you are authentically yourself, like something I was actually supposed 535 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 1: to tell you before the podcast started, but like I'll 536 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,479 Speaker 1: watch your stories and I'm just like, I like this person. 537 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 1: Like I can tell you're being just like one hundred 538 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 1: percent yourself and it's very engaging and just authentic. And 539 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you, you know, is that something 540 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 1: that you have always been like that or was there 541 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 1: a process in that and when did you sort of 542 00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 1: you find this authentic self. 543 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 3: First of all, thank you because that means a lot. Yeah, 544 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 3: I guess with my Instagram, as I've sort of moved 545 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 3: forward with you know, changing my messaging, I guess it's 546 00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:17,720 Speaker 3: been a really big thing for me to show, don't tell, 547 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 3: like I feel like to make or to feel like 548 00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 3: everybody is worthy of, you know, loving your body and 549 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 3: just being seen as a body as opposed to a 550 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:34,360 Speaker 3: fat body or a skinny body or whatever. It's sort 551 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 3: of about just going I don't need to post a 552 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 3: photo of my roles and tal everyone to love their roles. 553 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 3: I can post a photo my roles and just not 554 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:45,160 Speaker 3: even talk about it and just showing that confidence instead 555 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 3: of constantly nitpicking at it. I feel like I'm past 556 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,719 Speaker 3: the point of just focusing in on it and instead 557 00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 3: just going, well, this is me, and I'm just going 558 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 3: to be myself and be confident. I feel like I've 559 00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 3: always been quite a confident person, Like even at my 560 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 3: biggest I you know, I was probably still rocking the 561 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 3: crup tops and all sorts. But I guess it comes 562 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 3: from knowing that at the end of the day, it 563 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 3: actually doesn't matter what I look like. And I know 564 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 3: that that can sound contradicting because I love, you know, 565 00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,680 Speaker 3: putting on makeup and I love wearing clothes that make 566 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 3: me feel good, and I do care what I look like, 567 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 3: but I also know that there's a lot more to 568 00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:30,520 Speaker 3: life and a lot more to me than what I 569 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,720 Speaker 3: look like. And I also like, without being oh my god, 570 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 3: you know up myself, I'll be the first of them 571 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 3: I look good, you know, like I'm I'll I'll say that, 572 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 3: I'm not posting a photo off. I don't think I 573 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:45,440 Speaker 3: look good, you know. So I feel like it's also 574 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 3: about being able to hype yourself up and go whatever. 575 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 3: So you like, cool, yeah, except it you look good. 576 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:58,480 Speaker 1: I absolutely love that. And that's such like a bold answer, 577 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 1: and you're so right because so many people they almost 578 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 1: like don't want to uh what's the word I'm trying 579 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 1: to think of. They don't want to be bold and 580 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 1: they don't want to be showy and that sort of thing. 581 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 1: But it's like when you are so self accepting of 582 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 1: yourself and you're just like, this is me, this is it. 583 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 1: So I love that. Thank you for sharing that. I 584 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 1: want to chat about something. So in a recent vlog, 585 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:33,200 Speaker 1: you bravely spoke out about a diagnosis of lipindemia. Is 586 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: that how you say it? 587 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 3: Yo? It depends where you're from, some people say lipodema, 588 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 3: and some people say, but we can say maybe lipidema. 589 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 1: It might be with that, thank you. Can you explain 590 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 1: to the listeners what this diagnosis means for you and 591 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 1: how you're currently managing and treating that, if that's something 592 00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:58,200 Speaker 1: you're comfortable with. 593 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:05,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, So lipidema is basically a disease to the fat. 594 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 3: It affects one and eleven women, So it's pretty common, 595 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 3: but not like not knowing about at all basically, well no, 596 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 3: not at all. Some people know about it, but not enough. 597 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 3: So yeah, it affects mainly the legs, sometimes the arms, 598 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 3: and so basically this fats diseased fat and it can't 599 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 3: be exercised away. It worsens if you sort of if 600 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:32,840 Speaker 3: you just want to, you know, if you're listening at home, 601 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 3: want to have a little google. There's different stages to it. 602 00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 3: If you don't manage this disease or this condition, it 603 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:45,800 Speaker 3: basically just progressively gets worse. So the fat for me 604 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 3: is in my sort of thighs and my calves. Apparently 605 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 3: I've got a little bit in my arms as well, 606 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 3: but the fat's painful, so it's for me, I get 607 00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 3: aches at night while I was getting acs at night 608 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 3: really really badly, almost feels like restless legs. You need 609 00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,719 Speaker 3: to get up and move them around. If I was 610 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,200 Speaker 3: to you know, if I'm doing let's say, like side 611 00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 3: crunches on the ground, the side of my leg that's 612 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 3: on the floor is like extremely painful. If my little 613 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,600 Speaker 3: dog Wilson walks along my legs, I get little bruises 614 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,359 Speaker 3: all over them. So that's sort of just how it's 615 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 3: affected my life. And I guess when you know, I 616 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 3: was on my weight loss journey having and for a 617 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 3: lot of people that have lipadina that live, you know, 618 00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,560 Speaker 3: a lifestyle where they're exercising all the time and the 619 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,880 Speaker 3: hopes that they you know, if they want to slim down, 620 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,680 Speaker 3: it can be really frustrating and confusing to think, you know, 621 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 3: why is my top half a size ten and my 622 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 3: bottom half a size sixteen or eighteen. So it can 623 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:50,600 Speaker 3: be really confusing obviously quite debilitating to I'm in quite 624 00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,799 Speaker 3: a few Facebook groups where it's really sad to see 625 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,360 Speaker 3: a whole lot of older women who never got this 626 00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,360 Speaker 3: diagnosis early enough to manage it and now are just 627 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,360 Speaker 3: and so much pain and it's affecting their mobility hugely, 628 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:07,280 Speaker 3: and yeah, something that an early diagnosis is really important. 629 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 3: So I ended up actually having quite a few messages 630 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,719 Speaker 3: from girls on Instagram that had seen me and sort 631 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 3: of said, you know, have you ever heard of this? 632 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:18,880 Speaker 3: I'm sorry if you know this feels really awkward, but 633 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 3: I've got this disease. I think you might have it. 634 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:23,399 Speaker 3: So that was sort of the first thing I ever 635 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,680 Speaker 3: heard about it, and I had a few messages, mostly 636 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 3: from people sort of in European countries. It's quite well 637 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:33,879 Speaker 3: known in like Germany and places like that. So yeah, 638 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:35,919 Speaker 3: I had a few messages. Ended up going to see 639 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,280 Speaker 3: a GP This was maybe two or three years ago, 640 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 3: and I sort of laughed it off. I was like, 641 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:41,759 Speaker 3: do I have this or am I just fat? And 642 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,040 Speaker 3: he was like, oh, you know, I don't know much 643 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 3: about it, but you can look into getting a vein 644 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 3: scan and we can look into that if you want to, 645 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 3: but it'll be you know, around one thousand dollars. And 646 00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,000 Speaker 3: I just sort of left it. And then over the 647 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,400 Speaker 3: last few years I've kept getting messages. So finally went 648 00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 3: to see a specialist in the Gold Coast and yeah, 649 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 3: it was diagnosed. So I guess when I first had 650 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 3: the diagnosis. I sort of went into it hoping that 651 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 3: I didn't have it, but then having the diagnosis is 652 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,959 Speaker 3: also a relief, like it's you know, it explains a lot, 653 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,720 Speaker 3: and then it meant that, Okay, I can now start 654 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 3: doing things to manage this. The only treatment for lipedema 655 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:25,080 Speaker 3: is lipose suction, so that's when they remove the fat 656 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 3: and then it obviously isn't meant to come back because 657 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:32,080 Speaker 3: once it's gone, it's gone. But there are ways to 658 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 3: manage it. So different ways of eating can help people. 659 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 3: You can get manual lymph drainage massages, you can wear 660 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:43,480 Speaker 3: flattnet compression. There's different ways of managing it, and I 661 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:47,959 Speaker 3: guess different things work for different people. So something I've 662 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:51,400 Speaker 3: done is I've started eating in a low carb I 663 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 3: don't want to say keto, but lots of people do 664 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 3: eat keto. I'm just way more about balance and being 665 00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:00,400 Speaker 3: flexible and being able to adapt to different, you know, situations, 666 00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:02,319 Speaker 3: and giving my body what it needs. So I'm not 667 00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:04,279 Speaker 3: going to be like, well, a carrot has a mini card, 668 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:05,880 Speaker 3: so I'm not going to have it like a carrot's 669 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 3: a carrot. 670 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 1: Shut up. 671 00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:10,919 Speaker 3: So I still, you know, pretty flexibly and I'm also 672 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:16,239 Speaker 3: getting manual limp drainage massage. The flattnet compression. They're these 673 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 3: sort of like big thick, tight like pants basically that 674 00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 3: you are meant to wear every day. But as far 675 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,839 Speaker 3: as managing it goes for me, I'm like, I need 676 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:29,160 Speaker 3: to weigh up what's going to actually be enjoyable and 677 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,799 Speaker 3: also what do I need to just suck up and do? 678 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:36,560 Speaker 3: And so the yeah, the compression flat nut stuff just 679 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 3: wasn't really for me. But I've seen massive improvements in 680 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:42,560 Speaker 3: terms of pain with what I've been doing, which is 681 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:45,000 Speaker 3: the main thing for me. It's just you know, I've 682 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 3: accepted my legs, I've accepted my body, and I had 683 00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:52,239 Speaker 3: before I had the diagnosis. So yeah, that's sort of 684 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:53,239 Speaker 3: where I'm at with it all. 685 00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:56,440 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for sharing that. And so if 686 00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:00,480 Speaker 1: a woman does think she has this, you what would 687 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:01,359 Speaker 1: you recommend she. 688 00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:05,239 Speaker 3: Does see that? And this is a discussion I'm having 689 00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,440 Speaker 3: in my dems at the moment, because if you're not 690 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 3: going to go down the path of getting liposuction, which 691 00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:15,040 Speaker 3: is seen as the only treatment, which isn't funded, Like 692 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,000 Speaker 3: even though it's seen as the only treatment for this, 693 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 3: it's not funded so it's sort of upwards of thirty 694 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:24,160 Speaker 3: thousand dollars. So if you're not looking at getting that, yes, 695 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,319 Speaker 3: seeing you know, if you want to talk to your GP, 696 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 3: I suggest you go in with as much information as 697 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,319 Speaker 3: you can because lots of gps don't know about it. 698 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,080 Speaker 3: You could book an appointment with the specialist, but at 699 00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,359 Speaker 3: the end of the day, like I sort of got 700 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,919 Speaker 3: the diagnosis and they sort of helped me with ways 701 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,920 Speaker 3: that I can look at managing it, which was great, 702 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,960 Speaker 3: But then it's sort of like up to me. You know, 703 00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,520 Speaker 3: there's not a lot that someone else can do, and 704 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,560 Speaker 3: it's just all about trying different things. So doing a 705 00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 3: whole heap of research is probably the key thing. Talking 706 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:56,879 Speaker 3: to your family and friends about it because that's one 707 00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,840 Speaker 3: thing that has helped me, having supported people around me. 708 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,799 Speaker 3: Like anything, you know, you want someone there that's going 709 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:04,520 Speaker 3: to be you're going to be able to talk to 710 00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,799 Speaker 3: them about it. But yeah, I think lots of the 711 00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:13,480 Speaker 3: specialists of Skype consultations if that's something that you want 712 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 3: to look at doing. But yeah, it's all about finding 713 00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:16,440 Speaker 3: what works for you. 714 00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,800 Speaker 1: And can I ask a bold question, would you ever 715 00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:24,879 Speaker 1: consider the liposuction route or is that something that you've 716 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:25,799 Speaker 1: kind of ruled out. 717 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:33,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely would consider it, And for me, I've 718 00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 3: sort of seen it as a last resort situation. But 719 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 3: when I went to see the specialist about it, they 720 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,280 Speaker 3: were sort of like, don't see it as a last result, 721 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 3: see it as the only actual treatment. But for me, 722 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:49,360 Speaker 3: I guess I would just rather see if these ways 723 00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 3: that I'm you know, managing it work for me, and 724 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:55,279 Speaker 3: if they do, then I'll just you know, live my 725 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 3: life and just manage it. But yeah, I never say never, 726 00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:01,640 Speaker 3: because I I don't know what it's going to be 727 00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:03,160 Speaker 3: like for me in a year. I don't know what 728 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:04,760 Speaker 3: it's going to be like for me in two years. 729 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:09,319 Speaker 3: And another thing to note with lipidima lapadma is that 730 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,520 Speaker 3: it is hereditary and it can come on So if 731 00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:16,239 Speaker 3: you carry the gene, it can come on at puberty, pregnancy, 732 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:20,160 Speaker 3: or menopause, so some women won't even know they have it, 733 00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,880 Speaker 3: and then after pregnancy it's you know, hit them like 734 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:27,279 Speaker 3: a truck. So that's something that I have to sort 735 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 3: of consider whether I get the surgery before, if I'm 736 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,960 Speaker 3: going to have kids to get rid of it to 737 00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:36,040 Speaker 3: stop that from getting worse, or Yeah, so I guess 738 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,160 Speaker 3: it's just trying things seeing how they go. But I 739 00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:39,839 Speaker 3: definitely haven't ruled that out. 740 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for spreading awareness on that 741 00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:47,319 Speaker 1: topic and being so open about that. I'm sure there 742 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,759 Speaker 1: are women out there who are experiencing that that I 743 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 1: really appreciate it. 744 00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:53,439 Speaker 3: Yeah. I think that's one of the things I'm really 745 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 3: grateful for, is having a platform to you know, be 746 00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 3: able to spread awareness on something that isn't known by 747 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:01,719 Speaker 3: many people. So yeah, it's really cool. 748 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:06,680 Speaker 1: Awesome. Okay, so you literally just announce your new active 749 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:10,600 Speaker 1: wear Remy by Riley. I think it was last weekend. 750 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:16,799 Speaker 1: So exciting, tell us everything. I feel very excited to 751 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 1: get kind of the firstcop on this all. So, first 752 00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 1: of all, like, what compelled you to start your inactive 753 00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 1: wear brand? 754 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, so, I guess it's just like we sort of 755 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,719 Speaker 3: touched on a start, like I have struggled to find 756 00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,920 Speaker 3: cool active wear that caters to all bodies and you 757 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 3: can be, you know, a size twenty, size eighteen, size 758 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 3: eight and just be wearing the same thing and feel 759 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 3: good about yourself. Sort of at my biggest when you 760 00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:52,439 Speaker 3: look at what active with there is available even now 761 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,759 Speaker 3: you know I'm sixteen to eighteen, and I struggle to 762 00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:59,399 Speaker 3: squeeze into most brands XL. But I you know, I 763 00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:02,120 Speaker 3: love wearing stuff that's cool, and I love being on trend, 764 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:07,319 Speaker 3: and so I wanted to It's basically just channeling how 765 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:11,759 Speaker 3: I'm feeling and going, Okay, everyone needs us, so I yeah, 766 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:15,480 Speaker 3: we decided to start looking into it a year ago. 767 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:20,239 Speaker 3: Another thing that was really important for us was being 768 00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:23,120 Speaker 3: as sustainable as possible. So we've done that with our 769 00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:29,399 Speaker 3: fabric being eighty eight percent recycled, and then we've done 770 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:33,600 Speaker 3: it with our packaging, so like biodegradable bags, no swing tags, 771 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:37,480 Speaker 3: things like that, and yeah, I guess that's sort of 772 00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 3: the rundown of it. We're so excited, also nervous because 773 00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:43,360 Speaker 3: I've never done something like this before. So I'm like, 774 00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 3: so in the. 775 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:48,520 Speaker 1: Debate, can I ask when you expect to launch? 776 00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:55,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's this month that so June, yes, June. 777 00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 1: I don't know when this episode's coming out. It's so 778 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:01,399 Speaker 1: gay I might have just come out. I thinking that's 779 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:05,400 Speaker 1: the timeline wise, but I'll also pop a link in 780 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 1: the description for you guys to check it out. But 781 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:12,080 Speaker 1: that is so exciting and good luck with the launch, 782 00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:14,200 Speaker 1: I'm sure it's going to do amazing. I had to 783 00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:17,960 Speaker 1: look at the grim and the pieces look exactly like 784 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 1: you said, like on trend, really lovely, and they look 785 00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:25,000 Speaker 1: amazing because I know that you have models of all 786 00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:28,319 Speaker 1: bodies and everyone looks amazing. So I feel like you've 787 00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:28,799 Speaker 1: killed it. 788 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. That was also something that's, you know, 789 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 3: obviously important for me, is just showcasing what it looks 790 00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 3: like because you know, when I got to buy something, 791 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:39,520 Speaker 3: I want to of course I want to see it 792 00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:41,680 Speaker 3: on different body types. I want to see what I'm 793 00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,319 Speaker 3: going to look like in it. So yeah, I love 794 00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:45,000 Speaker 3: that we've done that. 795 00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:49,800 Speaker 1: Amazing. Okay, so I am going to wrap up this interview, 796 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:53,000 Speaker 1: but I want to do just some quick fire fun questions. 797 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 1: I don't usually do this, but I thought it would 798 00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:57,360 Speaker 1: be a bit of fun. So I'm just going to 799 00:43:57,400 --> 00:43:59,560 Speaker 1: ask you some cues and just yeah give us you 800 00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:03,439 Speaker 1: straight out. So, first one, if you could eat any 801 00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,520 Speaker 1: meal for the rest of your life, what would it be? 802 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:11,040 Speaker 3: Oh, I have to go hot chip? Sorry, I love 803 00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,680 Speaker 3: hot chips. Like, give me like a good chunky hot 804 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,640 Speaker 3: chat with some young light herb soul or like something 805 00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:18,000 Speaker 3: like that. 806 00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:21,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm so with you. That's awesome. Okay. Next one, 807 00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:23,080 Speaker 1: what is your favorite quote? 808 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,680 Speaker 3: I think it have to be You're so much more 809 00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:29,719 Speaker 3: than just your body. I think if I didn't say that, 810 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:31,880 Speaker 3: I'd be like a fraud. It's on my bio. 811 00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,120 Speaker 1: I feel you all right? That is awesome. Next one, 812 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:37,080 Speaker 1: are you a morning or night person? 813 00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:43,120 Speaker 3: Oh? Night, honey? Really yeah? I struggle to get up 814 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:46,240 Speaker 3: even at ten am on weekend. I struggled. 815 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:50,880 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have think that. That is crazy. Okay, sorry. 816 00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:55,600 Speaker 1: Next one, what is a game changing habit or routine 817 00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 1: that you have implemented into your life that you want 818 00:44:58,440 --> 00:44:58,759 Speaker 1: to share? 819 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:05,279 Speaker 3: Game changing routine? The first thing that comes to my 820 00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:07,840 Speaker 3: head is the balance thing, because that has one hundred 821 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:11,560 Speaker 3: percent changed my life. But if it's like a you know, 822 00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:16,360 Speaker 3: a thing that happens every day, it's got to be coffee. 823 00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,920 Speaker 1: It's life changing, it really is. And you just can't 824 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:23,680 Speaker 1: like once you're once that it's a habit. It's a habit. 825 00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:27,600 Speaker 3: Hey, yeah, for sure. I just got a new machine 826 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:28,560 Speaker 3: as well, so I'm like. 827 00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,720 Speaker 1: Oh, we can get then espresso machine. 828 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like amazing. 829 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,360 Speaker 1: And with you, we've got a new one. At the 830 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:38,000 Speaker 1: start of the year. I just I'm like, oh, God, 831 00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:43,520 Speaker 1: send amazing well Riley before we wrap it up. I 832 00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,640 Speaker 1: know keep saying this, but you just have achieved so 833 00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:49,920 Speaker 1: much at the young age of twenty four. And something 834 00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:54,120 Speaker 1: that I asked my guests is what does success look 835 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,880 Speaker 1: like to them? And also what is their biggest source 836 00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 1: of motivation? Because I love asking this question because everyone 837 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:06,040 Speaker 1: is usually so different. Yeah, so what does success look 838 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 1: like for you? And then what is your biggest source 839 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:08,719 Speaker 1: of motivation? 840 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:10,719 Speaker 2: Yeah? 841 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:17,399 Speaker 3: I think success, to me, it's a balance between happiness 842 00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:20,480 Speaker 3: and just having you know, good relationships with all the 843 00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:25,879 Speaker 3: people around me, and then also being financially stable. Those 844 00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:28,960 Speaker 3: are the two things that is successful to me, you know, 845 00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:32,200 Speaker 3: like with my business or if it's a job, just 846 00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,360 Speaker 3: being financially stable and then yeah, the good relationships. I 847 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:39,160 Speaker 3: feel like those both equal success and happiness. And I 848 00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:44,240 Speaker 3: think the biggest source of motivation is probably my younger self. 849 00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:48,360 Speaker 3: I just I'm like, I need to do her proud 850 00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:52,320 Speaker 3: and give you know, her what she needed back in 851 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 3: you know, the times where I was working three jobs 852 00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:58,719 Speaker 3: and trying to you know, make money and all those 853 00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:01,080 Speaker 3: sorts of things and being in life the negatives and 854 00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:04,120 Speaker 3: my bank account, and also just wanting someone to look 855 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,839 Speaker 3: up to and having to be that for myself and 856 00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,719 Speaker 3: being the confident person that I'd have to look up 857 00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:12,319 Speaker 3: to for myself. So I feel like that is my 858 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:13,840 Speaker 3: biggest source of motivation. 859 00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:19,040 Speaker 1: Those two answers were amazing. You are such a treasure 860 00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:22,120 Speaker 1: and I just appreciate you coming on the show so much. 861 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:24,280 Speaker 1: Thanks for coming on the show. 862 00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:28,040 Speaker 3: Thanks for having me. It's been good. I feel like 863 00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 3: we've covered on what Also. 864 00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,719 Speaker 1: Before we leave, can you let the audience know where 865 00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,680 Speaker 1: they can follow you and all that sort of social 866 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:37,680 Speaker 1: media jazz. 867 00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:42,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, so my Instagram and I think my YouTube are 868 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,200 Speaker 3: saying just healthy check one oh one and then yeah 869 00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:46,759 Speaker 3: that's all. 870 00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:50,640 Speaker 1: Maybe that's only awesome. Thank you so much, Riley. 871 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:52,359 Speaker 3: Thank you. 872 00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,560 Speaker 1: And that's a wrap on another episode of the Rise 873 00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:59,759 Speaker 1: and Conker Podcast. 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