Speaker 1: I still feel in my twenties. Yeah, I still don't
Speaker 1: feel ready for kids. That's the creepy thing, because I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm almost almost on the other end, like it's almost
Speaker 1: too late, and I don't feel ready.
Speaker 2: That's what's scary. Yeah, but if you talk to most people,
Speaker 2: they say, like, I don't feel right down fore right
Speaker 2: answer ready. But it happens. So I just spoke to
Speaker 2: a band about it. Then like, what, Yeah, we've got
Speaker 2: baby's frozen.
Speaker 3: Different people's fertility deteriorates at different rates, and mine's not great.
Speaker 2: So I froze some eggs to be safe.
Speaker 3: And then when Bette and I met and you know,
Speaker 3: decided we want to be together, we thought, well, we
Speaker 3: knew we had a better chance of having kids.
Speaker 2: If we froze embryos. And I'm very happy to say
Speaker 2: we got three embryos.
Speaker 3: And for many women that's not many. For many women
Speaker 3: that's a lot. And for me, I'm great. I'm stoved.
Speaker 3: So it's a weight off my shoulder in a sense,
Speaker 3: but it's also something I think about all the time.
Speaker 1: He'd happily have them now, there's nothing out of the world.
Speaker 1: Just want to be together in the same country. Like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be doing it on the other
Speaker 1: side of the world. I would have liked to have
Speaker 1: been married, Yeah, but I don't want to do it
Speaker 1: on my own, and that's what that's what I'm doing.
Speaker 1: I'm literally saying, yeah, cool, I'll go down the hardest
Speaker 1: thing I've ever done alone.
Speaker 2: Because you've been building your career, being amazing, you're doing
Speaker 2: all that, it would be really hard to just say
Speaker 2: walk away, bye, I'm going to go. I'm going there
Speaker 2: and I'm going to go with your kids. Yeah, so hard.
Speaker 2: You know. Ben is the love of my life, but
Speaker 2: he lives in Scotland.
Speaker 3: His career is there, and my career is here and
Speaker 3: he can't really do his career here and I can't
Speaker 3: really do mine there.
Speaker 2: So we're in a super tough situation.