1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,759 Speaker 1: If you're listening to Will and Woody. 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 2: Over the weekend, I found out my husband of seven 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 2: years has been subscribing to my best friend's Only Fans page. 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 2: Popped up in a message over the weekend. He was 5 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 2: outside with the two boys in the pool, did some 6 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:18,479 Speaker 2: digging with the huge name and realized it was my 7 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 2: best friend's page. 8 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 3: Have you told your friend? 9 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, I asked her to confirm. If it was in 10 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 2: fact her, then she has his account he created. Isn't 11 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 2: a different name which is not his? 12 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 3: Emily, what are your thoughts? 13 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, look, I agree with the other caller just before, 14 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: a little bit different if he was on Only Fans 15 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: and looking at my best friend gone in a second. 16 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: Three kids, Yeah, I've got three kids myself. We've been 17 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: together a really, really long time. We watch porn together. 18 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: We know. I know he watches porn. I mean where 19 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: we share each other's phone. There's no secrets. I see 20 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: his porn side cities on. He's mine if I watch 21 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 1: my own corn, and that's fine. He's actually happy with that. 22 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 4: Drop the P word a lot at four o'clock. Let's 23 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 4: be a little bit careful, Emily. But yeah, no, that's good. 24 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, we watched. 25 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 1: We watch our videos together. But if he ever watched 26 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: a video of anybody I knew as my best friend 27 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: gone in an instantly. 28 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 3: What if he came to you and was like, hey, 29 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 3: I've heard let's just say your best friends called Shelley. 30 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,320 Speaker 3: I've heard Shag. 31 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 4: And shelleyday Disney. 32 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 3: I'm not throwing a real name, So Shagg and Shelley 33 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 3: is your best friend. And he goes, I've heard your 34 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 3: friend Shelley, Shagg and Shelley. He's only fans goodbye even, 35 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 3: But he's just coming to you saying I've heard that 36 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 3: he hasn't watched it. He's just saying, what do you trust? 37 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: Where did you hear it from? And that sort of thing. 38 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: That doesn't worry me. We're very open and honest, and 39 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: I know he'd come to me if he wanted to 40 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: watch it, But the instant he watches somebody that we 41 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: go out for dinner with, or we spend our weekends 42 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: with with all of our kids, where we were a 43 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: family friendly. 44 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 4: Is it a jealousy thing, Emily? 45 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: Sorry? 46 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 4: Is it just a jealousy thing that you couldn't handle? 47 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 4: How jealous you'd feel about that? 48 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: No, it wouldn't be a jealousy thing at all. I 49 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: think I'd be more concerned of why don't you want me? 50 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: But somebody you actually know personally, like he's got an 51 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: emotional connection with my best friend. 52 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:20,959 Speaker 4: Already emotional connection. 53 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: You want that emotional connection, and then you see the 54 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 1: physical side. Then that's crossing a line for me. 55 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 3: Interesting. 56 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 4: That's great thought, Thanks, Emily. I'm trying to think what 57 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:30,959 Speaker 4: analogy is for you, and I like, if I found 58 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 4: out that you were watching, if you'd subscribe to and 59 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 4: only fans of I don't know, I don't know another radio. 60 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 4: If Joel Creasy had an only fans probably does you 61 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 4: and you'd subscribe to it without telling me. 62 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 3: I don't think that's the same. 63 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 4: I think that's the same. Sophie. See Sophie, Sophie, Sorry 64 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 4: you are the woman? 65 00:02:58,840 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: What what? 66 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 3: What has happened? I hope you're okay with this discussion. 67 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 3: So it's just it's just this dilemma that you know 68 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 3: a lot of people have opinions on and views on. 69 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 3: How's everything going? 70 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know it's. 71 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 5: It's going okay. I've been watching the comments. Yeah, I've 72 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 5: you know, I've been taken in everyone's side, and you know, 73 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 5: it's hard because I know exactly what's happened, and people 74 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 5: are judging from what's there. So it's difficult because I 75 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 5: didn't know prior to falling pregnant with our third child, 76 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 5: that this addiction was real, and for it to come 77 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 5: out halfway, it's just like I'm hormonal and emotional enough 78 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 5: as it is, and then for this just to be 79 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 5: blown up in your face, it's yeah, like it's you know, 80 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 5: like I love him and that's the thing, but there's 81 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 5: a fine line where you know I trusted him and 82 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 5: I don't know. 83 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 4: If yeah, oh so mate. We were literally talking in 84 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 4: this song when you couldn't hear us before, but we 85 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 4: were saying, like, there's degrees of I think anyway of 86 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 4: deeds that are like, you know, you good people stuff up, 87 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 4: I think anyway. And I don't know your partner from 88 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 4: a barsop, but it sounds like you've got two kids 89 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 4: and you guys have been happy previously. 90 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: Is that fair to say? 91 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 4: Yeah? 92 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 5: I can say like we have been entirely happy. And 93 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 5: you know, when I say I support him, I support 94 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 5: him in getting through it. I don't support you know, 95 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 5: the thirty times a week. I don't you know, but 96 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 5: I want him to pull through and come out because 97 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 5: I want him there for our kids, like he's a 98 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 5: great father. But you know, when something like this is 99 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 5: thrown up in your face, it's is it the same 100 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 5: person I thought I knew? Like, is that all that's 101 00:04:56,440 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 5: going on? I don't know. And it's tolerable. I wouldn't 102 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 5: even wish this on my worst enemy, of course. 103 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 6: Oh, Sophie, Well, I hope you guys can work through it, 104 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 6: you know, like I think if you're yeah, if you 105 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 6: if you chat with it, I think that's the that's 106 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 6: the key, talking to him about it and if he 107 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 6: understands why this has hurt you so much and why 108 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 6: it's so wrong as well. 109 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 3: I do think you guys can work through it. 110 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like we're the great It's just going to 111 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 5: be small steps forward. It's, you know something. If he 112 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 5: really wants it, then we will work towards it. I'm 113 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 5: not I'm not going to kick him to the curve. 114 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 5: But at the same time, he needs to know that 115 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 5: what he did wasn't in my opinion, he wasn't rightly. 116 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, and and so far it might be a hard 117 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 4: time to do it. But also folks, on positives. You've 118 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 4: got a baby on the way. Exciting. Yeah, babies are amazing. 119 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: That's so. 120 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, get there, be strong and then I 121 00:05:56,480 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 5: suppose you know, IM will tell if he has changed 122 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 5: then if not, then that's one I need to step 123 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 5: back and be like, well, yeah, now I need to 124 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 5: Yeah for sure. 125 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 4: So thanks so much for joining us again, love it 126 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 4: here voice. Didn't know you were going to do this 127 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 4: this afternoon. You heard your dirty laundry head on the radio. 128 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 4: I mean you can, you can join and you can 129 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 4: join the debate here. Do you think that Woody subscribing 130 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 4: to Joel Creesey's only Fans is sort of a similar 131 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 4: setup to you guys? 132 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 5: I mean, I'll be asking questions. 133 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 3: Hear more of the boys on the full show podcast 134 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 3: all on the iheard radio a app. 135 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 4: Oh worry me, get your podcast.