WEBVTT - ABBIE CHATFIELD TALKS SEX POSITIVITY AND JUNGLES! 💞

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to TV reload. This is my last quick

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<v Speaker 1>chat with the stars of I'm a Celebrity, Get Me

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<v Speaker 1>Out of Here for twenty twenty one, featuring the winner herself,

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<v Speaker 1>Queen Abby Chatfield. We first met this young woman less

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<v Speaker 1>than two years ago when she turned up on The Bachelor,

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<v Speaker 1>lying for the heart of scientist Matthew Agnew but famously

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<v Speaker 1>coming second. And while she now is probably the most

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<v Speaker 1>famous Batchy girl in history, her journey on television wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>always rosy, polarizing the audience during her time on the

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<v Speaker 1>popular dating show for Channel ten. Things over the years

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<v Speaker 1>started to turn around for this young woman as she

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<v Speaker 1>took on the haters and proved to her followers that

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<v Speaker 1>speaking your truth is more than just an oprah winfree special.

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<v Speaker 1>The path to glory has been faster than a concord,

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<v Speaker 1>as frenemies to enemies, loathes to lovers Dialed nineteen ninety

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<v Speaker 1>five ten ten for her to win the celebrated show,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to welcome to the program, Queen Abby Chatfield.

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<v Speaker 2>The biggest thing is that I have to understand that

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<v Speaker 2>everything will part.

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<v Speaker 3>So when I do, some reality moments cut through more

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<v Speaker 3>than others. The thing is people ask me who I'm

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<v Speaker 3>bigguse trolls are and always women. I still can remember

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<v Speaker 3>too you walking down red cover. If I told myself

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<v Speaker 3>a week ago, you've won the jungle and there's mine

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<v Speaker 3>the winner.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a celebrity.

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<v Speaker 2>To get me out of here is I didn't think

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<v Speaker 2>that it's silly that I talk about sex so much, like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I mean, I still can't believe that

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<v Speaker 2>I won.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like I don't have that much sex. I just

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<v Speaker 3>want to have sexual freedom.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations, Abby, you are the queen of the jungle. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I feel amazing. I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not even sure if it happened. You know, like when

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<v Speaker 3>my name was read out, I thought, surely they meant

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<v Speaker 3>Grant Danya, I didn't mean the bachelor of Villa Babbage,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel but no, I'm over the moon. I just

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<v Speaker 3>spoke to the CEO of Dementia Australia, so I'm so

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<v Speaker 3>excited to get them one hundred Grant.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that is so powerful.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting. I was talking to Grant just a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of hours ago and he was saying how much he

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<v Speaker 1>saw the little girl in you once you won. You

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<v Speaker 1>know he could see the honesty.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, Oh, Grandania is just such an amazing man.

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<v Speaker 3>But I was genuinely shocked, and I was genuinely so

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<v Speaker 3>happy and grateful because a year and a half away,

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<v Speaker 3>I was a bachelor villain getting death threats and I

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<v Speaker 3>was suicidal for more patrolling than I was. Getting them

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<v Speaker 3>to win a show that is for charity and through

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<v Speaker 3>popular vote is just something I could never have imagined

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<v Speaker 3>eighteen months ago.

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<v Speaker 1>What would you say was the biggest concern that you

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<v Speaker 1>had saying yes to something like this, to saying yes

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<v Speaker 1>to going back to reality television?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I mean, you understand how fickle it can be

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<v Speaker 3>relody tv. And my biggest concern was that I've spent

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<v Speaker 3>a year and a half working on.

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<v Speaker 2>My brand, and so I was you understanding who I was.

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<v Speaker 3>And what I stood for When I was really scared.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, there's always a chance for a bad edit.

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<v Speaker 3>There was more time to edit this time, and I

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<v Speaker 3>just thought it could be really bad or it could

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<v Speaker 3>be really good, and say, god, it was the ladder.

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<v Speaker 3>But I was kind of on the fence. And then

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<v Speaker 3>my Grandma passed away and I thought, Mat, I've got

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<v Speaker 3>to do it, so I'm glad I end up doing

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<v Speaker 3>it because I've got the crown and one hundred grand

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<v Speaker 3>with the mentor Australia.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you have such an incredible fan base who

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<v Speaker 1>have really supported you through thick and thin. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think helped win over Australia in the end.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, did you see my friend got a tattoo

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<v Speaker 3>with SMS Abby too one nine nine five ten on

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<v Speaker 3>a risk?

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<v Speaker 1>I did see that that could have helped someone had

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<v Speaker 1>you your name tatted on them so that they could

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<v Speaker 1>get people to vote for you. Is that right? No?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think a lot of my fans they're so lovely

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<v Speaker 3>and they're kind of my age. They kind of can

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<v Speaker 3>relate to me in that way. They're like I'm like

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<v Speaker 3>their friend. I meet them out often wind up having

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<v Speaker 3>a drink with them. That they're so lovely and cool.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think they also are quite defensive me after

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<v Speaker 3>the Bachelor. I think people a bit shocked about how

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<v Speaker 3>I was treated during the Bachelor, whether they were part

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<v Speaker 3>of that or have they witnessed that, And they get

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<v Speaker 3>quite defensive and they get very passionate about me because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so polarizing, which is great because I love seeing

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<v Speaker 3>women send up for what they believe in, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>very lucky that they support me the way they do.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think has been probably the biggest learning

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<v Speaker 1>since being on the Bachelor. I mean, you know, you've

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<v Speaker 1>come such a long way since they're and you've obviously

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<v Speaker 1>had to learn coping mechanisms. Yeah, what would you say

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<v Speaker 1>is something that has been the biggest learning curve?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean the thing is I still struggle with all

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<v Speaker 3>the trolling, and I still struggle with things. I mean

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<v Speaker 3>I tried to take my mental health earth therapy once

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<v Speaker 3>a week, like it's very it's still very hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm sure you want to stay like a

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<v Speaker 2>year and a half in This isn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Very long really, And I'm I was twenty three when

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<v Speaker 3>I when I got all that trolling. So I think

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<v Speaker 3>the biggest thing is that I have to understand that

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<v Speaker 3>everything will pass, like things that seem so hard to

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<v Speaker 3>get through and so people were so mad about when

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<v Speaker 3>I was in a Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I literally laughed my friends and be like, why

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<v Speaker 2>would someone told me about that? Like stealing Elie's date card,

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like, why do you get like what do

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<v Speaker 2>you do?

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<v Speaker 3>So, I think just knowing that everything will pass and

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<v Speaker 3>it will get better. I mean, like I said, I

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<v Speaker 3>was genuinely suicidal when The Bachelor was airing, and now

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so over the moon happy, so everything can change.

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<v Speaker 1>My sister and all of my female friends are so

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<v Speaker 1>positive about you, and so it's so interesting to listen

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<v Speaker 1>to them talk about the positive influence that you have

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<v Speaker 1>over women. Do you think, you know, being twenty three,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four and moving into being twenty five, is that

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<v Speaker 1>a young age to be a spokesperson or really an

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<v Speaker 1>example for women?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>My god, absolutely. I mean there are things I don't

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I'm an adult yet. I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like a mid twenty what's going on? But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I do feel like I'm a bit too young to

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<v Speaker 3>be doing this. But I will happily keep trying to

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<v Speaker 3>do what I'm doing. And it means so much you

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<v Speaker 3>will that are older than me, especially as you mean

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<v Speaker 3>to say, I love what you do and I look

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<v Speaker 3>up to you even though I'm, you know, in my

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<v Speaker 3>mid thirties.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just what I don't care. I don't want young

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<v Speaker 4>girls or young women to.

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<v Speaker 3>Hear that thing said and think it's normal and don't

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<v Speaker 3>feel like they can stigu out for themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Should women be more supportive of each other? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that's one of the things that I've noticed today. We're

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<v Speaker 1>doing a lot of research on you seeing, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>an amount of positis of support, but then also people

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<v Speaker 1>being quick to try and tear other people down. What's

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<v Speaker 1>something that you'd like to address or something that people

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<v Speaker 1>could change in their behavior, you know for women talking

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<v Speaker 1>about women?

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<v Speaker 3>There are so the thing is people ask me who

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<v Speaker 3>I'm biggaus trolls are, and it's always women.

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<v Speaker 2>Men very very rarely troll me.

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<v Speaker 3>I think because I kind of hit a nerve with

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<v Speaker 3>women and I kind of am like, I don't really

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<v Speaker 3>care what people think. So I do think that they

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<v Speaker 3>I maybe have always wanted to do or they've thought

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<v Speaker 3>and they think it's inappropriate, so they want to punish

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<v Speaker 3>me for that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the biggest thing I just wish that women.

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<v Speaker 3>Would learn to that the more we support each other,

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<v Speaker 3>the more we support ourselves. And if you embrace this

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<v Speaker 3>culture of newness and your embraces culture of progression and

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<v Speaker 3>different thought, then will all benefit from it Rather than

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<v Speaker 3>tearing to the down and keeping each other in check.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, And I think also, you know, some of the

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<v Speaker 1>conversations you've been having online was funny. It was only

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<v Speaker 1>just as you were going into the jungle that I

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<v Speaker 1>was out for lunch with my mum for her birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>and my sister brought it up that you were going

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<v Speaker 1>into the jungle, and then we had this long conversation

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<v Speaker 1>about sex positivity for women. And when it started off,

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<v Speaker 1>we were like, what an interesting conversation to be talking

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<v Speaker 1>about it your mum's sixty seventh birthday, But here we were,

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<v Speaker 1>with multi generations of women and men talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like it's an amazing thing to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about sex positivity for women at this particular point in

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<v Speaker 1>our lives?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Absolutely, I love.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so amazing, inter generational chat about sex potivila.

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<v Speaker 2>That's amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, absolutely, I mean I think it's it's it's I

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<v Speaker 3>think in my world anyway, it's becoming very It's like

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<v Speaker 3>exponential the rate at which sex and masturbation and all

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<v Speaker 3>these things are good to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, a huge form of control.

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<v Speaker 3>For women is sex sexuality and slut shaming, and I

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<v Speaker 3>guess some men as well. In purity culture, so I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>it's great that we can change that and hopefully get

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<v Speaker 3>rid of some of those ties to purity culture and

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<v Speaker 3>the patriarchy. I feel like it's all it's arang twined,

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<v Speaker 3>and it seems like it's I think we think that

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<v Speaker 3>it's leave that I talk about sex so much, like

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<v Speaker 3>you know, the trolls who're like he is it says

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<v Speaker 3>with sex, it's like I don't have that much sex.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to have sexual freedom. Like it's like

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to have the option talg about sex.

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<v Speaker 3>So I just talked about all the time. So I

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<v Speaker 3>pushed the mits.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the roomors I read online today, which I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know necessarily how much of anything you read online

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<v Speaker 1>these days is true, but it said something about the

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<v Speaker 1>last guy that you'd been seeing didn't want to publicly

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<v Speaker 1>come out and talk about your relationship because he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to jeopardize his reputation, you know, dating a batchy girl.

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<v Speaker 4>Is there any truth to that story?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean last person that I was in a relationship

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<v Speaker 3>with MYX boyfriend who'd been on and off for four years,

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<v Speaker 3>and that was I was in April last year. So no,

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't dated anyone.

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<v Speaker 4>So well, the person I read it about was Danny Clayton.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh Danny, Oh my god, Danny Clayton, Oh my god. No,

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<v Speaker 3>Danny is literally he was there last night. He's my

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<v Speaker 3>number one supporter. Danny is so so proud of me.

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<v Speaker 3>He is I can't describe the matters of what I

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<v Speaker 3>get Danny Clayton. So no, he's he's very very proud

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<v Speaker 3>of me and to and t hang around me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>people were saying in the audience lastlight he was the

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<v Speaker 3>loudest on cheering, which is the cutest thing in the world.

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<v Speaker 3>So no, he doesn't care to know about your girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you look over and see him having a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with Ash Williams at one point and think, what is

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<v Speaker 1>this strange world I've found myself in?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>I literally when the passion was getting it, I looked

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<v Speaker 3>over to him and he was just shaking his head

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, Oh, this is so so.

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<v Speaker 2>Bad, but it's all good. We haven't spoken about it.

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<v Speaker 1>What happens to Ash after the show? I mean, did

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<v Speaker 1>he want more? Did like, did you get out of

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<v Speaker 1>the jungle? And did he try and then again try

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<v Speaker 1>to slide into the DMS.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, to be frank, to be frank.

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<v Speaker 3>After we finished filming, we were passing offset, we passed,

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<v Speaker 3>we're pashing after in the control room. We'll be able

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<v Speaker 3>to pass the next day. During socials like there was

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<v Speaker 3>there was a bit of fun passion. Then we got

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<v Speaker 3>to Sydney and then it just kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 3>got a coffee and we're like, yeah, nah, this is

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<v Speaker 3>like a jungle tension thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, so many people in the media today, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Colin Jack, you know, everybody asking you about whether or

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<v Speaker 1>not you'd be the Bachelorette, and you know there's a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot of people out there that would love to

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<v Speaker 1>see that. But you've added to the conversation, which you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Angie Cant has spoken about about the need for diversity

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<v Speaker 1>on shows that we're seeing, and we need to see

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves on television. I think we need more representation and

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<v Speaker 1>diversity on television. Is there someone like maybe Paulini? What

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<v Speaker 1>did you talk to Paulinie about doing? Can we hit

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<v Speaker 1>her up for this?

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<v Speaker 3>I've been campaigning, I've got a social media campaign, I've

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<v Speaker 3>got a start up on my campaign to win celeb

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<v Speaker 3>that's tick. Next next stop is Paulinie bachelorette. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to try and make it happen. She is

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<v Speaker 3>the absolute But she's such a lovely human. She's talented,

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<v Speaker 3>she's gorgeous, she's everything, she's open to looking for love.

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like she's it. She's the next one.

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<v Speaker 1>You were such a fantastic and dynamic contestant, probably one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most in some ways polarizing, but some ways

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<v Speaker 1>the most likable contestant. We've seen something really quite new

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<v Speaker 1>for television. The thing I think is probably going to

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<v Speaker 1>sound like the weirdest question I have for you, But

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<v Speaker 1>what advice do you have for yourself moving forward?

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<v Speaker 4>Like what are you going to do? What are you

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<v Speaker 4>going to do?

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<v Speaker 2>Now?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you going to be kind to yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I think A big thing that I struggle with, and

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<v Speaker 3>this is even happening right now, is not being able

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<v Speaker 3>to enjoy wins or joy enjoy moments like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>if I told myself a week ago, you've won the jungle,

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<v Speaker 3>Ather's o mine. But I'm just saying, like, God, I'm tired,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think, Okay, what's next, what's next? What's next?

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<v Speaker 3>I see you learn to enjoy things, have a breather

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<v Speaker 3>and then move on to the next thing, rather than

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<v Speaker 3>just being like k tick and kind of I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's a bit of imposter syndrome, you know, when you.

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<v Speaker 2>Achieve things and you go, what does matter now?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I don't talk about it, It's fine, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>actually really proud of myself to this, So yeah, be

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<v Speaker 3>a bit kind to myself and acknowledge my little and

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<v Speaker 3>big wins.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is a big one.

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<v Speaker 4>This is a big one.

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<v Speaker 1>I've actually been I saw you on social media, you

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<v Speaker 1>flip the bird to the trolls out there that didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, support it, and I think you've brought flipping

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<v Speaker 1>the bird back. I think I think it was huge

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<v Speaker 1>in the eighties and nineties. I feel like it's coming back.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anyone out there that you like to flip

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<v Speaker 1>the bird to at this point, or just just to

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<v Speaker 1>say to those trolls calm.

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<v Speaker 3>Down, Oh my god, all I mean everyone that's commenting

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<v Speaker 3>saying she didn't served to win, and I'm like, but

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<v Speaker 3>mathematically I did, because it's a voting system.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, but but I simply but I did.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm not sure what you want me to say, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>what do you want me to prove to you you

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<v Speaker 3>should have voted more.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, like I want, like yeah no, big

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<v Speaker 2>big for the bird to them.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely well. Thank you so much for being so generous

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<v Speaker 1>with your time. I really hope that you enjoy the ride.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Australia is just getting started with their love

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<v Speaker 1>affair of you, and I look forward to seeing more

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<v Speaker 1>of you on Australian screens.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much being so lovely loved to speak

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<v Speaker 2>to you