WEBVTT - MINI: What your lock screen says about you

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<v Speaker 2>Laura, What is on your phone's lock screen?

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<v Speaker 3>Marley May in the pool wearing a pair of goggles.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, cute, but mine rotates, you know when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to like your screen savers how you can save. So

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<v Speaker 1>I've got it set up so that it changes every

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<v Speaker 1>I think twenty minutes, an hour whatever, and it just

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<v Speaker 1>rotates between photos of the kids and then every soft

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<v Speaker 1>and there's a rogue photo of Matt that comes up.

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<v Speaker 2>I did try that once. Then I spread the nudes

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<v Speaker 2>had pop up, so I had to take it off.

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<v Speaker 3>See I'm in a long distance relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>It didn't work well.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I question this though.

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<v Speaker 1>I reckon that they must have some sort of AI

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<v Speaker 1>technology or something, because I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean, I've got not that nudes in my phone.

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<v Speaker 1>But no, I just have lots of pictures of the

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<v Speaker 1>kids when they were really little, when they were like

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<v Speaker 1>in the bath or like, you know, all very innocent stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But in terms of rotating pictures, those ones never come up.

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<v Speaker 1>So I actually think that maybe it kind of knows

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<v Speaker 1>like that's not something that someone wants on their front

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<v Speaker 1>of their screen.

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<v Speaker 4>Well there's a clinical psychologist. Doctor Rebecca has revealed what

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<v Speaker 4>it means about you who you are as a person

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<v Speaker 4>depending on what you've got on your lock stre This is.

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<v Speaker 3>Not an accurate way to psychoanalyze someone.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it is.

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<v Speaker 3>He is much better go to therapy.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you went to a therapists now like show

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<v Speaker 2>me your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was how they do, don't you They're like,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's a frien Japany, so it says you really

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<v Speaker 1>need a holiday.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she says.

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<v Speaker 4>We usually choose images we connect with emotionally, so your

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<v Speaker 4>lock screen can reflect what you value or love. For example,

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<v Speaker 4>Donald Trump has a photo of Donald Trump on his

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<v Speaker 4>he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Donald Trump has Donald Trump.

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<v Speaker 1>I do find it weird and like, don't take this personally.

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<v Speaker 1>This is you and I don't mean it to hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>I do find it a bit strange when people just

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<v Speaker 1>have photos of themselves on their lock screen, unless it's

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<v Speaker 1>an important day. Like actually, I was gonna say, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's your wedding day, but then you should have a.

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<v Speaker 3>Photo of you and your partner, just not you and your.

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<v Speaker 2>Do I have me, but it's me and Ben on

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<v Speaker 2>our wedding day.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like, not.

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<v Speaker 2>Just me, it's the both of us.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's one of my favorite photos from our wedding

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<v Speaker 4>and I got married like a month.

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<v Speaker 2>Ago, so that's still fresh.

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<v Speaker 1>That's different because it's a photo of the two of

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<v Speaker 1>you embracing.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to you what that means. Sorry, let's get

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<v Speaker 4>back to Donald Trump first. Actually, let's sit on Donald Trump.

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<v Speaker 4>Donald Trump has a photo of Donald Trump. So if

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<v Speaker 4>you have a photo of yourself, it can be a

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<v Speaker 4>sign of confidence, self celebration.

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<v Speaker 3>Or motivation.

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<v Speaker 2>But most people see it as.

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<v Speaker 4>Narcissism, which but I have seen people before in the

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<v Speaker 4>public eye, like motivational speakers and things like that, say

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<v Speaker 4>that they put a photo of themselves from a time

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<v Speaker 4>that they might be striving to be that person again.

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<v Speaker 4>So it might have been a time of their life

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<v Speaker 4>where they were really fit or doing really well, or

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<v Speaker 4>or somewhere in the world where they're travel to that

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<v Speaker 4>they want to go again, so that when they look

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<v Speaker 4>at the screen, that's their motivation to get back there.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I would get the ick faster

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<v Speaker 1>than seeing a dude just having like a photo of

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<v Speaker 1>him with his abs out, but he doesn't have abs

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<v Speaker 1>now and he's like, that's what.

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<v Speaker 3>I used to look like. I would be like, is

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<v Speaker 3>this for you or for me? Or for who?

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<v Speaker 4>A photo of your partner or you and your partner

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<v Speaker 4>reflects love connection and emotional closeness, which I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>is really obvious, But it's supposed to be a way

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<v Speaker 4>of keeping that person in front of mine during the day,

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<v Speaker 4>so every time you look.

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<v Speaker 2>Down, you're looking at your partner, you're feeling that connection.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's the same reason having your kids.

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<v Speaker 4>Right well, yeah, Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey would photographed

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<v Speaker 4>recently on their phones and they had each other on

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<v Speaker 4>their phones, which I think is really cute, but I

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<v Speaker 4>don't think I think that would be the standard phone

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<v Speaker 4>savers like your partner, what have you got?

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<v Speaker 3>Grace me and my partner at your wedding?

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, yeah, see, I think that's normal.

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<v Speaker 4>Wild Bell got okay friends, Okay, that falls in still

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<v Speaker 4>just to like loving connection.

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<v Speaker 2>The other interesting one was inspirational quotes.

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<v Speaker 4>You know people, Laura, you would have done this at

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<v Speaker 4>some point when you're in your quote face pray love

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<v Speaker 4>no love, know thy worth, thy flower blooms or.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever that you shot. I think if you've got an

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<v Speaker 1>inspirational quote on your phone. It shows that you're going

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<v Speaker 1>through a bit of inn turn oil. I've been there,

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<v Speaker 1>I see you, I understand it. I used to have

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<v Speaker 1>inspo quotes as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 4>Doctor Ray says that you just benefit from positive thinking,

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<v Speaker 4>no and positive mantra.

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<v Speaker 2>Recite your daily mantra. Whatever that quote is, you see it,

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<v Speaker 2>you live it, you feel it, you believe it.

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<v Speaker 3>Once again.

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<v Speaker 1>I think at that point in my life I could

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<v Speaker 1>have benefited from therapy.

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<v Speaker 3>It's definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you's probably still good.

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<v Speaker 4>O