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Speaker 2: Laura, What is on your phone's lock screen?
Speaker 3: Marley May in the pool wearing a pair of goggles.
Speaker 1: Okay, cute, but mine rotates, you know when it comes
Speaker 1: to like your screen savers how you can save. So
Speaker 1: I've got it set up so that it changes every
Speaker 1: I think twenty minutes, an hour whatever, and it just
Speaker 1: rotates between photos of the kids and then every soft
Speaker 1: and there's a rogue photo of Matt that comes up.
Speaker 2: I did try that once. Then I spread the nudes
Speaker 2: had pop up, so I had to take it off.
Speaker 3: See I'm in a long distance relationship.
Speaker 2: It didn't work well.
Speaker 3: Now I question this though.
Speaker 1: I reckon that they must have some sort of AI
Speaker 1: technology or something, because I.
Speaker 3: Mean, I've got not that nudes in my phone.
Speaker 1: But no, I just have lots of pictures of the
Speaker 1: kids when they were really little, when they were like
Speaker 1: in the bath or like, you know, all very innocent stuff.
Speaker 1: But in terms of rotating pictures, those ones never come up.
Speaker 1: So I actually think that maybe it kind of knows
Speaker 1: like that's not something that someone wants on their front
Speaker 1: of their screen.
Speaker 4: Well there's a clinical psychologist. Doctor Rebecca has revealed what
Speaker 4: it means about you who you are as a person
Speaker 4: depending on what you've got on your lock stre This is.
Speaker 3: Not an accurate way to psychoanalyze someone.
Speaker 2: I don't think it is.
Speaker 3: He is much better go to therapy.
Speaker 2: But if you went to a therapists now like show
Speaker 2: me your phone.
Speaker 1: And that was how they do, don't you They're like,
Speaker 1: well that's a frien Japany, so it says you really
Speaker 1: need a holiday.
Speaker 3: Well, she says.
Speaker 4: We usually choose images we connect with emotionally, so your
Speaker 4: lock screen can reflect what you value or love. For example,
Speaker 4: Donald Trump has a photo of Donald Trump on his
Speaker 4: he doesn't.
Speaker 2: Yes, Donald Trump has Donald Trump.
Speaker 1: I do find it weird and like, don't take this personally.
Speaker 1: This is you and I don't mean it to hurt.
Speaker 1: I do find it a bit strange when people just
Speaker 1: have photos of themselves on their lock screen, unless it's
Speaker 1: an important day. Like actually, I was gonna say, maybe
Speaker 1: it's your wedding day, but then you should have a.
Speaker 3: Photo of you and your partner, just not you and your.
Speaker 2: Do I have me, but it's me and Ben on
Speaker 2: our wedding day.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, not.
Speaker 2: Just me, it's the both of us.
Speaker 4: And it's one of my favorite photos from our wedding
Speaker 4: and I got married like a month.
Speaker 2: Ago, so that's still fresh.
Speaker 1: That's different because it's a photo of the two of
Speaker 1: you embracing.
Speaker 4: I'm going to you what that means. Sorry, let's get
Speaker 4: back to Donald Trump first. Actually, let's sit on Donald Trump.
Speaker 4: Donald Trump has a photo of Donald Trump. So if
Speaker 4: you have a photo of yourself, it can be a
Speaker 4: sign of confidence, self celebration.
Speaker 3: Or motivation.
Speaker 2: But most people see it as.
Speaker 4: Narcissism, which but I have seen people before in the
Speaker 4: public eye, like motivational speakers and things like that, say
Speaker 4: that they put a photo of themselves from a time
Speaker 4: that they might be striving to be that person again.
Speaker 4: So it might have been a time of their life
Speaker 4: where they were really fit or doing really well, or
Speaker 4: or somewhere in the world where they're travel to that
Speaker 4: they want to go again, so that when they look
Speaker 4: at the screen, that's their motivation to get back there.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would get the ick faster
Speaker 1: than seeing a dude just having like a photo of
Speaker 1: him with his abs out, but he doesn't have abs
Speaker 1: now and he's like, that's what.
Speaker 3: I used to look like. I would be like, is
Speaker 3: this for you or for me? Or for who?
Speaker 4: A photo of your partner or you and your partner
Speaker 4: reflects love connection and emotional closeness, which I feel like
Speaker 4: is really obvious, But it's supposed to be a way
Speaker 4: of keeping that person in front of mine during the day,
Speaker 4: so every time you look.
Speaker 2: Down, you're looking at your partner, you're feeling that connection.
Speaker 3: I think it's the same reason having your kids.
Speaker 4: Right well, yeah, Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey would photographed
Speaker 4: recently on their phones and they had each other on
Speaker 4: their phones, which I think is really cute, but I
Speaker 4: don't think I think that would be the standard phone
Speaker 4: savers like your partner, what have you got?
Speaker 3: Grace me and my partner at your wedding?
Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, see, I think that's normal.
Speaker 4: Wild Bell got okay friends, Okay, that falls in still
Speaker 4: just to like loving connection.
Speaker 2: The other interesting one was inspirational quotes.
Speaker 4: You know people, Laura, you would have done this at
Speaker 4: some point when you're in your quote face pray love
Speaker 4: no love, know thy worth, thy flower blooms or.
Speaker 1: Whatever that you shot. I think if you've got an
Speaker 1: inspirational quote on your phone. It shows that you're going
Speaker 1: through a bit of inn turn oil. I've been there,
Speaker 1: I see you, I understand it. I used to have
Speaker 1: inspo quotes as well.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 4: Doctor Ray says that you just benefit from positive thinking,
Speaker 4: no and positive mantra.
Speaker 2: Recite your daily mantra. Whatever that quote is, you see it,
Speaker 2: you live it, you feel it, you believe it.
Speaker 3: Once again.
Speaker 1: I think at that point in my life I could
Speaker 1: have benefited from therapy.
Speaker 3: It's definitely.
Speaker 2: I think you's probably still good.
Speaker 4: O