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Speaker 1: My Heart podcasts, hear more kids podcasts, playlists, and listen

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Speaker 1: live on the Free I hard look, my.

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Speaker 2: Partner is thirty two weeks pregnant. Sent me you're doing

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Speaker 2: a wonderful job. She caen with the weather heating up,

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Speaker 2: and you know, all in all, I think shows brilliantly

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Speaker 2: but well done. Thank you. She she's got to be

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Speaker 2: of an issue with with with the snacks at the moment.

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Speaker 2: With the sweet snacks not an issue. I think she's

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Speaker 2: got an issue. The other night we finished dinner and

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Speaker 2: she got up and she grabbed the car keys. I

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Speaker 2: was like, where you're going, and she was like, I'm

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Speaker 2: going go to the servo to get licorice.

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Speaker 3: Awesome.

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Speaker 2: She's done that every night this week.

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Speaker 3: That's awesome, that's great.

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Speaker 2: And then again neat the baby, and then again she

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Speaker 2: eats as much as she can on the way home,

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Speaker 2: and then she throws the packet in the bin.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well issue, she's throwing out something every night.

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Speaker 1: That's starting to become a wasted issue. She needs it.

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Speaker 1: She needs a lockbox and you need the key.

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Speaker 2: But she just drive to the servo again. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: she's got full access.

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Speaker 3: Speak to the servo.

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Speaker 2: Guy. Probably having a sugar addiction is unlike any other,

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Speaker 2: you know, drug addiction. She can get it whenever she wants.

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Speaker 2: Most shops on the corner sell it.

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Speaker 3: If she always goes to the serbo that you should

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Speaker 3: put a little photo up of her. Serg do not.

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Speaker 2: Do woman asks for licorice. She wants this, don't let

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Speaker 2: her around. So look, it's killing me that she's throwing

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Speaker 2: out our shared sweets though, because she can't handle herself

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Speaker 2: around them. Sugar can't be in the house at the moment.

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Speaker 2: And you know, I like a sweet trade woods you do.

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Speaker 2: She threw out my no shoe bars. Yeah, and no

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Speaker 2: shoe that's a hello shreep, it's a healthy and thir

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Speaker 2: one and six five. Then you throw away shared snacks

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Speaker 2: if you can't control yourself.

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Speaker 4: I can't control myself.

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Speaker 5: I'm a cereal snacker. Yeah. If I don't get rid,

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Speaker 5: I won't go over half.

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Speaker 4: So I have to get rid of it because I

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Speaker 4: give the other half of my partner. I want to

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Speaker 4: eat half of him. Yeah, I just throw it out,

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Speaker 4: straight up, throw it out.

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Speaker 2: So there's your partner annoyed about this. Anna what I

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Speaker 2: was saying before, Like it's it's frustrating from his perspective.

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Speaker 4: Nah, she knows the deal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sounds like we all know who wears the pants

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Speaker 2: in that relationship. Had He's called on thirty one and

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Speaker 2: six five hot do you can you throw out shared

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Speaker 2: snacks if you can't control yourself?

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Speaker 4: I can't throw them out. And my husband, Oh, hello,

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Speaker 4: by the way, boys, I'm so sorry to jump.

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Speaker 5: Straight in.

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Speaker 2: In there, get in there. We assume you're well, wear well,

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Speaker 2: Merry Christmas. No into your story.

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Speaker 4: Perfect, I can't. I hate wasting food. It's one of

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Speaker 4: my number one pet hates.

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Speaker 5: Got my husband.

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Speaker 4: Recently, I found out that he's been gaslighting mete. We

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Speaker 4: have a big tool cupboard and it's really tall and

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Speaker 4: really deep, and I can't actually see the top shelf,

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Speaker 4: let alone see what's at the back. So he's been saying, oh, no,

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Speaker 4: like I've thrown it out, you can't control yourself. And

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Speaker 4: then I've come out when he's watching TV and he's

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Speaker 4: for all the snacks out and he's put them in

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Speaker 4: the back of the top up in the cupboard, and

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Speaker 4: I found my whole stash there.

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Speaker 1: But you can't but have found the stash up because

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Speaker 1: he was doing you a favor before. I think there

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Speaker 1: was a nice middle ground where you want to throw

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Speaker 1: them out. He obviously wants to keep the snags, so

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Speaker 1: you can't control yourself. Aren't you happy with that situation, Hanny?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 4: I just think if he wants the same snacks, he

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Speaker 4: should buy them himself.

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Speaker 2: Are you saying you can't control yourself with the snacks? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: That is fair. That is for me. That's a perfect scenario.

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Speaker 3: Inspiration for me. Yeah, I think this is perfect. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: this is.

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Speaker 2: He's doing you a favor. He still gets the snacks,

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Speaker 2: and that's the way it should be.

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Speaker 1: He's doing the efforts to climb up your tall pantry

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Speaker 1: and against one.

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Speaker 2: It is a little bit like that if you can't

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Speaker 2: control yourself. He's taken over the agency, taking control of

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Speaker 2: the situation. Now you're angry at him for it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my god.

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Speaker 1: It needs a better hiding spot though, he's unfortunately because

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Speaker 1: you know now now you're the pantry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, have you have you got have you got the

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Speaker 2: ladder out yet? How do you have you got the

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Speaker 2: ladder out?

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Speaker 4: I this is the issue. We've also got really high

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Speaker 4: ceilings and I can't even reach it with the stepladder,

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Speaker 4: So I get on top of the stepladder and I

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Speaker 4: can see the back. I've got the tongs out four

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Speaker 4: to try, and I'm quite dangerous. My children look at

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Speaker 4: me like, mom, what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Get to be dangerous? But desperate as well. You know

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Speaker 2: you don't want to be doing that in front of

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Speaker 2: you don't have to be getting snacks off the top

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Speaker 2: drawer on a ladder with tongs in front of your children.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, but desperate times. You know we've all

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Speaker 1: been there. Let's got Jason here.

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Speaker 2: Have you read something desperate in front of Remy before?

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Speaker 4: Look?

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Speaker 2: Have you been You're watching your reading habits around ram or.

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Speaker 1: Are you no?

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Speaker 2: Because I'm you're spooning the peanut butter in front of Remy?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, blackout.

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Speaker 1: And then she starts doing it so she licks plates

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Speaker 1: as well now because when I have dinner, I'm a

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Speaker 1: plate liquor.

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Speaker 3: And then she's seen me on all knees.

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Speaker 2: Pretty range, the plate looking is pretty ran.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want more as soon as the finishes, like

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Speaker 1: more more. And then she's seeing me on all like

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Speaker 1: all fours being diving.

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Speaker 3: It's gream. And then how do you tell your daughter

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Speaker 3: to get like get out of the beIN. That's thirty.

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Speaker 3: It's like, Dad, that's what there last night?

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Speaker 2: Now, Jason, it's really grim.

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Speaker 3: Find at the bottom of the barrel wheel.

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Speaker 2: Jason, how you doing both? Your wife steals your snacks one.

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Speaker 5: Hundred percent to me and the kids adult kids. We'll

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Speaker 5: get choco buster and chocolate bags and chips, all sorts

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Speaker 5: of stuff all around the house. I'm talking hiding on

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Speaker 5: the wall in the theater room behind DBD.

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Speaker 2: She can't control herself. Is that what you're saying, Jays.

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Speaker 5: Ah, Well, I'm a bit the same. But I love

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Speaker 5: to have chocolate in the cupboard when I want chocolate

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Speaker 5: in the cupboard. Sometimes sit there for a week and

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Speaker 5: I just kind of want it there when I want it.

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Speaker 5: But one hundred percent is never there when I want it.

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Speaker 5: And then she'll replace it and she'll point it out

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Speaker 5: to me and go, hey, I bought another block of

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Speaker 5: chocolatecause I eight the last one. It's in the cupboard.

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Speaker 5: I'll go the next day to grab it.

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Speaker 2: Gone, oh wow, wow, she gets through it.

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Speaker 5: Oh she loves it. I mean we all, we all

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Speaker 5: love it. But yeah, she's like some sort of sixth sense.

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Speaker 5: She knows exactly where they all are.

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Speaker 3: You could start doing what my mom does to my dad.

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Speaker 1: So my dad's a serial snack at real problem in

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Speaker 1: the family home. So what my mom did is she

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Speaker 1: set up a fake hiding position for the snacks.

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Speaker 3: So Dad believed he'd found the hiding place, but this

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Speaker 3: was it was It was fraudulent.

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Speaker 1: It was a fake hiding spot, so they were both

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Speaker 1: thinking that they'd nailed the system, whereas mum had an

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Speaker 1: actual hiding place for the snacks.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's awesome. And what did she put in the

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Speaker 2: fake hiding bot? Just rations healthy snacks. It's like an

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Speaker 2: apple