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Speaker 1: Podcasting now, Woodrow, fine topic for everyone to get involved

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Speaker 1: in is scheduling in special time with your partner something

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Speaker 1: that you need to do in a long term relation.

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Speaker 1: Isn't necessary Evil.

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Speaker 2: Woods First question, well do you do you schedule it in?

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Speaker 1: Good? Good question? Thank you, good question. I look, I

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Speaker 1: floated it over the weekend, and I'm starting to think

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Speaker 1: that maybe I didn't schedule hard enough. It was much

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Speaker 1: more of a you know, how about we engage in

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Speaker 1: a bit of horizontal refreshment over the long weekend.

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Speaker 2: That's what that's work on it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, freshman, I don't call whatever you want, but

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Speaker 1: like I just kind of floated it out there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, sorry, So you said so leading into the

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Speaker 2: long weekend, you got away, didn't You got down to

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Speaker 2: the beach and you just said.

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Speaker 1: I was driving the car, turn to my girlfriend and

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Speaker 1: I said, hey, how do you feel about dancing the

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Speaker 1: pathyan jig when we get down there?

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Speaker 2: And what was her response?

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Speaker 1: She said, yeah, sounds good, you know, like baby speaking.

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Speaker 2: We'll give it a crack, but not very committed. She

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Speaker 2: said that.

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Speaker 1: She said that, and then I was brushing my teeth.

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Speaker 1: Happened quickly, well, like you know, fastward five hours on

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Speaker 1: radio Woods. I thought you were driving, and if you

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Speaker 1: really want to know, we've got a pizza and watch

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Speaker 1: the sunset. But anyway, I got back to each I

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Speaker 1: got back to the bedroom. I was brushing my team them.

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Speaker 1: By the time I got back into the bedroom, I

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Speaker 1: was ready to, you know, take a turn amongst the cabbages.

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Speaker 1: And she's gone. She's got the eye mask on. Nothing

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Speaker 1: says I am not interested like the eye mask. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's just like, you know, take my eyes. But please,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to have anything to do right now.

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Speaker 2: My girlfriend, my ex girlfriend, now she's go bed fully closed.

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Speaker 2: She even leave the shoes on. I go, all right,

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Speaker 2: I get it, I get it. But okay, I don't

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Speaker 2: think you were specific enough though, like you obviously said

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Speaker 2: this weekend, so that first night she wasn't to know, Like,

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Speaker 2: should you have got more specific with your schedule?

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's right. So the reason I'm bringing this up

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Speaker 1: is Tevin sirs suck or tesman sir suck. I should

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Speaker 1: say sock to sock who was a home and away star. Yes,

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Speaker 1: she you've seen an article today that it saved a marriage. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: scheduling in a little bit of time to churn butter

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Speaker 1: with one's tail was really important to making sure that

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Speaker 1: her relationship stayed on track, because, you know, like a

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Speaker 1: lot of people, the argument against it is you lose

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Speaker 1: the romance, you lose the spontaneity. But I think she's saying, look,

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Speaker 1: once you've got kids and you both got careers, like

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Speaker 1: that's just you have to forego that stuff like that's

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Speaker 1: a pipe dream. And if you actually want to get

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Speaker 1: it done, you've got to put the time in the calendar.

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Speaker 1: And I've always been against it because of those reasons,

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Speaker 1: and that's why I'm kind of asking you out there

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Speaker 1: on thirty one oh six five. Is this something that

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Speaker 1: you should do? Do you have to schedule in a

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Speaker 1: bit of special time with your partner.

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Speaker 2: I'd love to hear from some people if they actually

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Speaker 2: do schedule it in, and I want to hear if

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Speaker 2: it actually works. Are you concerned with it right now

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Speaker 2: in your relationship? And that's quite a personal question. But

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Speaker 2: you've been going out four you don't have kids, areadyth them?

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Speaker 2: You've been going out for three years?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just bit over three years?

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Speaker 2: Over three years, have you found that it has started?

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Speaker 2: I don't want to say, you know, drying up? But

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Speaker 2: woods has it wained? Is the river a bit dry?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 1: I was going to use those words, but I like

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Speaker 1: to wet my whistle on a Saturday night, Absolutely I would.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, so it has, it's dried up a little.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Sorry, I don't mean a scoff because

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Speaker 2: I'm not getting anything about that. But have you found

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Speaker 2: that in your it's dright up a bit?

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Speaker 4: No, I'm not saying no.

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Speaker 1: That's a very personal question.

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Speaker 2: Yeah about on Tuesday after the radio?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, look, look the wind hasn't blown through the willows

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Speaker 1: in a long time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know. So are you open to if we

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Speaker 2: get some calls now again thirty one or six other

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Speaker 2: people who schedule, are you open to the idea of

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Speaker 2: maybe making it a bit more? I think you just

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Speaker 2: threw it away on your way. You went, oh, should

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Speaker 2: we do this on the weekend?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Whereas I think it. Can we lock a six thirty

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Speaker 2: pm Thursday night? What do you reckon?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think that's a good idea. But before I do that,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to ask some taking women as opposed to

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Speaker 1: a single thirty year old man, if that's cool with you,

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Speaker 1: totally fair? Why dot you give us a call. I'd

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Speaker 1: love to hear this has worked for its podcasting woods

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Speaker 1: right now, thirteen one oh six five is the phone number.

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Speaker 1: All I want to hear from people is do your

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Speaker 1: schedule in a bit of special time with your partner?

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Speaker 1: And when I say schedule, I don't mean like a hey, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're both free on the weekend, let's make some time

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Speaker 1: for it. I mean like, do you send them a

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Speaker 1: goddamn calendar invite?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Do you tell Siri? You know, put this in my calendar.

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Speaker 1: Siri this Tuesday, six o'clock, caressing the mango with insert

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Speaker 1: partner's name, you know, like, you know how how intense

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Speaker 1: is that we've got John that's called I want to

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Speaker 1: know if this works, you know what, I'm gonna extend this.

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Speaker 1: I want to know if people are that adamant about

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Speaker 1: this that it makes it? Is it a necessary evil

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Speaker 1: of a long term relationship? Do you get to the

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Speaker 1: point where it's like we have to do this otherwise

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Speaker 1: it doesn't happen. Because that's what Tasman sur Suck is saying.

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Speaker 2: Taman, for the last time, go again, And you're you're

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Speaker 2: genuinely considering this, aren't you?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I am.

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Speaker 1: Well it's working for sirsock who used to be sick.

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Speaker 1: You said it was suck. Anyway, joh, John, talk to us.

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Speaker 1: Do your schedule in the special time? Mate? Are you

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Speaker 1: a proponent of it? Does it work for you?

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Speaker 6: And one hundred percent works?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we've got we've got three little kids. We both

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Speaker 6: worked full time and okay works if you don't. And

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Speaker 6: we saw just fizzle out and the windows.

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Speaker 5: So John, do you talk about it?

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Speaker 2: Do you talk about it like it's a dental appointment,

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Speaker 2: Like do you sit down with your wife, you get

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Speaker 2: your calendars open and your doors open on Sunday and go, okay,

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Speaker 2: how are we looking for whatever?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Is that now?

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Speaker 6: We have date night? So we try and to like

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Speaker 6: like a fortnightly sort of thing. Obviously the kids schedule

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Speaker 6: is pretty heavy, but yeah, you don't you don't have.

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Speaker 1: An eye calendar clash with the old hockey training there.

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Speaker 6: Well, we'll we'll go to a movie, go over dinner

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Speaker 6: and then obviously thoughts up there a little bit later.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, John, do you ever get worried though that? It

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Speaker 2: takes away a little bit of the spontaneity and and

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Speaker 2: the passion when it's in the diary.

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Speaker 6: Oh really, no, get always to throw some role playing?

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Speaker 2: Oh who is Johnny boy?

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Speaker 1: Yah?

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Speaker 2: Knee boy? I wasn't expecting that. Nobody saw it, wasn't

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Speaker 2: I didn't see that.

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Speaker 4: Married with three kids, gee's apologies to any one of

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Speaker 4: the kids that just managed to catch down on the

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Speaker 4: radio on the Just throw a bit of role playing there. Jeez, John,

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Speaker 4: you moved from A to B to C pretty a

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Speaker 4: bletic quickly. We've got April and thirty one or six

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Speaker 4: five April talk to us scheduling, scheduling in a special time. Hello,

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Speaker 4: what do you reckon about?

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Speaker 1: It? Is this necessary evil of the long term relationship?

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Speaker 1: Have you just got to start doing it? Yes?

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Speaker 3: I think?

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Speaker 5: Sorry, Well, personally, i've been married to my husband for

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Speaker 5: five years now, and we've been together for ten. We've

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Speaker 5: got a six year old and a.

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Speaker 3: Nineteen month old.

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Speaker 5: With a busy schedule like that and plus work and

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Speaker 5: everything else in between, you've got to schedule it.

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Speaker 3: Wow, have time, so do it?

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Speaker 2: April.

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Speaker 1: How long you've been doing it for? Like, what's your

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Speaker 1: what's your time on there?

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Speaker 3: Well, I would say we've been doing it since my

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Speaker 3: son was born, so about six years now six years.

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Speaker 2: Well, have you ever have you ever missed a session? April? Like,

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Speaker 2: when it's locked in the diary, how strict? How strict

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Speaker 2: are you on keeping it?

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Speaker 3: We haven't, so.

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Speaker 2: You've missed. Do you have any advice for Will is

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Speaker 2: considering this? And I know over the weekend he tried

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Speaker 2: to book one in and then his girlfriend put the

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Speaker 2: sleeping mask on and it was all over. Do you

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Speaker 2: have any advice for Will on how you can ensure

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Speaker 2: that you don't miss the session? Yeah? Very good.

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Speaker 3: Well, a trick that we've been doing is we keep

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Speaker 3: a reminder on our phones about it, so you do.

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Speaker 3: Can we can schedule our days around that's great. About

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Speaker 3: the time we get home, we won't be too tired,

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Speaker 3: try to finish all the chores the home house.

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Speaker 2: Choices, right, So sorry, April. What does the reminder actually

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Speaker 2: say though, because I've just got a feeling that Siri

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Speaker 2: wouldn't really be setting in the mood. But what does

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Speaker 2: the reminder say?

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Speaker 5: Flower?

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Speaker 3: Flower blossoming? Oh?

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Speaker 5: I like it.

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Speaker 1: And that's a lot safer than John. That's just gold

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Speaker 1: and took it straight to the role John.

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