1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Jewell and Woody podcast many is it okay to hit 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: on someone at the gym? The reason we're talking about 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: a TikTok. There's a trend going calling out Jim harassment 4 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: against women, the hashtag Jim creep Jim weirdo. It's got 5 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: more than one hundred million views with wow male gym 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: goers either approaching or staring at women while they're working out. 7 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, totally wild. 8 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 2: I just thought like it was such an obvious no, no, 9 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 2: right yes to walk up to someone at the gym. 10 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:36,279 Speaker 1: Well, I don't, like, I'm often so gassed that like 11 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: I haven't got you know, is my own thing, you know? 12 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 2: And so are they like what you tap them on 13 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:45,199 Speaker 2: the shoulder? They probably got headphones in most likely and 14 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 2: it's like, oh excuse me. Yeah, I just wanted to say, yeah, 15 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 2: what if that tag say made in Heaven? Like, what 16 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 2: in what world? I was an attended pick up one? 17 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 3: Good to roll that out? In? 18 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: What world? 19 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 2: Do you think as the guy? 20 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 1: There is there a place? Is there is like? Is 21 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:08,559 Speaker 1: there a time? 22 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 3: Though? 23 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: Like has that ever? Surely someone has successfully? Do you know? 24 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 1: Like I feel like with all these things is obviously 25 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: you know you've got harassment and at the level of 26 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: staring and annoying someone, which is totally inappropriate. Not to 27 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: mention touching them, but that's obviously totally inappropriate. But is 28 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 1: there a place there where you can go to the 29 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: gym and pick up Okay, yeah, great, Steph question. Let's 30 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: let's hear from Steph from can I step Hi? 31 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 3: What do you think? 32 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: Whiz? 33 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 3: But I mean, I think, let's just look at the 34 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 3: end of the day, we're all very different from what 35 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 3: I know from our community to kick. For the most part, 36 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 3: women are going to the gym for me time and 37 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 3: to work on themselves and more often than not as 38 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 3: for their mental health. They're not going there to be 39 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 3: picked up. And then I suppose to those like Lizzy, 40 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 3: I'm sure as she's as she pointed out, she puts 41 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 3: herself out there and does certain things for it. So 42 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 3: I feel like it's also a part like read the 43 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 3: room if you're thinking someone else out, if you're checking 44 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 3: someone out and they're not giving you anything back, like 45 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 3: do not approach them? Yeah, I just think it's it's 46 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 3: just not a space. I don't get it. It's not 47 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 3: the space that I go that I'm hoping to get 48 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 3: checked out or anything. It's my time where I'm setting 49 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 3: up my corner, I'm putting my headphones in and getting 50 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 3: my workouts. 51 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 2: So, Steph, has it ever happened to you in the past? 52 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 2: Have you been approached in the gym or have you 53 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 2: had a guy trying to flirt with you? 54 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I have. I don't go to the gym 55 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 3: much anymore, but it's less to do with gym in 56 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 3: timidation and more so just to do with my time, 57 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 3: my schedule. It's easier for me to work out from home. However, 58 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 3: I've actually got a funny story. This was actually not 59 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 3: outside of a gym, but I was working out. I 60 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 3: was on a run outside and this is when I 61 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 3: was being in New York, and this guy was on 62 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 3: roller blades and corn up to me. I was literally 63 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:58,239 Speaker 3: brinking on my last bit, soo, my last straight and 64 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 3: the last bit of the run where you've got the 65 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 3: most energy, and he taps me on the shoulder and 66 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 3: I'm thinking, Okay, something something big must have happened here. 67 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 3: So I stop and I puff and he says some 68 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 3: corny pickup line like what you were saying earlier. 69 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 1: Ye, let's say it. Let's say as well as the line. 70 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 2: Obviously, he checked your tag and said made in Heaven. 71 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 2: So he says that a line like that, it was. 72 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 3: Honest something like that, and I actually said to him, 73 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 3: are you joking? And I pull my headphones back in 74 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 3: and kept running back. 75 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: Wow, good call. 76 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: Wow, I love it. I'll tell you it's a bit 77 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: of an insight in though, like if you're going to 78 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: try and pick up staff, curse me if you're you're 79 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: approaching the wrong woman, Like he's absolutely gassed rollerblades, she's running, yeah, 80 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: and she's still a flawed him, and then she's got 81 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: enough poise to turn around and tell him to bug 82 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: her off. 83 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I look, I think like obviously, the bigger 84 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 3: issue is hopefully that you know people who are being 85 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 3: intimidating in the gym, that they change their tune. However, 86 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 3: from our point of view, we don't want people to 87 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 3: be fearful of going to the gym, so, I mean 88 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 3: we recently literally talked to our community about this, and 89 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 3: our tips are basically, put your headphones in, put your 90 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 3: confidence booster tunes on, plan your work out, get your 91 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: space done, and just put your head down and know 92 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 3: that everyone else is just there doing their own thing 93 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 3: as well, and there's probably a lot of other people 94 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 3: in there thinking the same sort of thing you are, 95 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 3: and so just get in and get out. 96 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 2: Love that. 97 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:20,559 Speaker 1: If you want to hear more from Steph Claire Smith 98 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 1: and Laura hen and share their website keep It Cleaner 99 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: dot com tips on exercise, nutrition, mental health, the works. 100 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: They're wizards, those two women. 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