WEBVTT - UNPACKED REALITY - FARMER WANTS A WIFE - FARMER DUSTIN 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:01.760 It's in the news today, but it was actually on 0:00:01.800 --> 0:00:05.160 TV Reload the podcast last week Their Life. Hey guys, 0:00:05.200 --> 0:00:07.400 welcome back to TV Reload. I want to thank you 0:00:07.440 --> 0:00:10.639 for clicking and downloading on today's episode with Farmer Dustin 0:00:10.680 --> 0:00:13.760 from Farmer Wants a Wife, which continues this Sunday night 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:16.800 at seven thirty on Channel seven. He is a third 0:00:16.840 --> 0:00:20.079 generation farmer, and Dustin has always felt a huge sense 0:00:20.120 --> 0:00:23.720 of responsibility to continue his family legacy. From watching the 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:26.360 first week, I think that Dustin has a heart of gold. 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:28.880 I don't think he takes himself too seriously either, and 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:30.960 I think he's quite confident compared to some of the 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:32.920 other farmers that we've seen on the show so far. 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:37.720 Dustin describes himself as girlfriend friendly, whose ideal partner is happy, 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:40.800 fun loving, thick skinned, and has a good sense of humor. 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:43.839 Dustin does come from a very tight knit family, so 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:46.440 it's really important that his partner also will get along 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:49.559 with them. We will unpack Farmer Dustin's connections so far 0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:51.800 with the women and if there were any tricks in 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:55.680 remembering the girl's names. You will get some interesting insights 0:00:55.680 --> 0:00:58.319 into his thoughts on being friend zoned and how that 0:00:58.440 --> 0:01:00.600 may have been an issue with Anne, one of his 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:03.360 potential love interests. We are going to do a deep 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:05.520 dive on what's happened so far, so you'll get some 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:08.440 really good insights into what Farmer Dustin thinks of a 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:10.560 lot of these women. I'm also going to find out 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:12.640 how hard it is to keep the outcome of this 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:15.440 show a secret, and what he thinks of watching himself 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:17.840 on the show. So far. There's actually so much to 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:20.679 unpack with Farmer Dustin, So sit back and relax as 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:24.399 we unpack the world. A farmer wants a wife? How 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:24.640 are you? 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:25.800 How are you? 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:27.959 I'm really well. Hang on a second, my dog is 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:31.679 literally trying to escape from this room, so just bear 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:34.800 with me for one second. Yeah, the dog is sorted. 0:01:34.920 --> 0:01:37.840 It's so funny. I was talking to Samantha Armitage yesterday 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:40.319 and the dog was wanting to come in to listen 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:43.399 to the podcast being recorded today. The dog wants to 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:44.399 leave the room. 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:45.440 Oh, I don't blame you. 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:47.600 How are you? By the way, I mean, you must 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:49.600 be the talk of the town from where you're from. 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:51.360 This must be quite surreal for you. 0:01:51.680 --> 0:01:52.520 I'm really good. Thanks. 0:01:53.000 --> 0:01:55.160 Yeah, I haven't been in to talk with town I 0:01:55.200 --> 0:01:57.320 have been for a little while now, and it's a 0:01:57.360 --> 0:01:57.919 bit weird. 0:01:58.080 --> 0:02:01.320 Yeah, having every somebody talk about and know what's going on. 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:03.600 I'm usually sort of keeps myself fairly well. 0:02:03.440 --> 0:02:05.880 And stay out of trouble, but are not there ea day. 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:07.760 Has anyone asked for your autograph at the Is it 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:10.000 the Imperial? I think the pub that's near yous called 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:10.960 the Imperial, isn't it. 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:12.720 Well, it's a few pubs in town. I haven't been 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:15.200 asked an autographed yet. I think I've got a few photos. 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:17.440 The other day I went down to a little puby 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:19.359 go down to the broil that you have long and 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:21.519 now I've got a few got a few fans down there, 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:24.320 a couple, couple of young kids, and one of my. 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:25.480 Cousin's wedding Saturday. 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:27.600 Yea, I've got a few photos and with a few 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:29.920 people if you realize, and they're all pretty excited. A 0:02:29.960 --> 0:02:31.919 bit weird people asked them to get photos with you 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:34.760 one usually yeah, I don't get not really a photo type. 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:38.400 So I just want to say, after watching the first week, 0:02:38.600 --> 0:02:42.280 I realized that you seem to be the most confident 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:45.040 farmer this season. After watching that first week, I think 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:48.400 you and Farmer Joe seemed the most natural on camera. 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:51.720 Does that seem about right to you from your experience 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:53.240 of filming, It couldn't be. 0:02:53.280 --> 0:02:56.080 Any further from the truth. But I think Joe definitely, 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:59.320 he's quite confident. That's just Joe. But me, I think 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:00.679 during the show I. 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:03.160 Was probably more confident, a lot more confident at normal 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:06.639 In general, I'm I'm not confident, but I'm not more 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:09.640 I'm fairly shy actually, and I'd love to keep to 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:11.520 myself and that type of thing. But I think during 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:14.720 the whole fielding, I think because he's pretty daunting, especially 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:16.240 for the girls and stuff like that. So I think 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:19.520 trying to lead by example and if I'm sort of 0:03:19.520 --> 0:03:22.160 confident and things, making it sort of look easy to 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:22.760 get massed a. 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:25.000 Lot easier for the girls. So well, I thought, or 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:25.640 what I was going for. 0:03:25.720 --> 0:03:28.120 Anyway, I kept watching you, and I kept thinking, this 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:31.240 guy's are natural, like usually the first few weeks of 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:33.520 watching Farmer, and I guess, you know, up against Farmer 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:36.520 Burt and maybe some and some of the others, you 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:39.640 just seem more comfortable in front of a camera. 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:41.480 Yeah, yeah, maybe, I don't know. 0:03:41.840 --> 0:03:44.520 I'm pretty good at calm of a nerve, so I 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:46.040 don't know, it's a lot look like he's pretty. It 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:48.840 is very nervous, Yeah, nerve racking when you're sort of 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:50.920 in that whole environ, especially that first week. 0:03:50.880 --> 0:03:53.040 And you don't know what's going on. You don't really 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:55.840 know anybody. Everyone was really good, but it's still well 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:57.040 and all the things you're going to do. 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:59.440 And talking to girls and stuff like that, and I think, yeah, 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:02.200 just some some reason I can just settle on nerve 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:04.280 so well, which makes a lot easier, and then I 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:06.080 just forget about it and move on. 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:08.840 I'm pretty laid back generally, so keep it nice and 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:10.839 casual and yeah, go from there. 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:14.040 Really, I'm always terrible with people's names. It was it 0:04:14.120 --> 0:04:17.320 hard to remember everyone's name. And is there a system 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:19.760 in the process, Like is there a producer holding up 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:22.599 a big card with like the name Felicity on it 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:25.000 so that you don't, you know, halfway through the date 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:26.400 call her something else. 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:29.000 It is very daunting to like have I'm going to 0:04:29.040 --> 0:04:31.520 remember these girls' names. But I had a pretty good idea. 0:04:31.560 --> 0:04:33.560 I think once you're sort of because you don't know, 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:34.159 you don't. 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:36.120 Really know who they are in a way. 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:37.280 Like you do you sort of get you get it, 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:39.920 you sort of have like a you see photos of them, 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:41.800 but then when you actually see them in person. And 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:43.640 I'm when I first sort of walk in and see them, 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:45.840 I was like, oh, God, which one's whitch? And like 0:04:45.880 --> 0:04:47.240 there's a few that I was like, oh, I know 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:48.839 who that one is, and I just sort of like 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:49.360 settled down. 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:51.040 You're like, yeah, I think I know this one is. 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:53.360 And then obviously producers just like just to remind you 0:04:53.480 --> 0:04:53.760 this one. 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:55.440 I'm like, yeah, I don't know all over it. 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:57.599 I mean, you had Anna, but yeah, it was a 0:04:57.600 --> 0:05:03.920 bit Felicity, Isabelle, Kara, Kiana. I think, yep, okay, great, 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:06.040 I've written them down and I still can't remember them, 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:10.200 which is fantastic. But you sent Beck, Kiana, and Felicity 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:12.520 home first, and I kind of picked that those were 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:14.760 the three that you'd send home. I'm wondering, does this 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:16.480 mean that we have the same taste in women? Or 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:18.440 am I just really good at being able to pick this. 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:20.520 Maybe it's a bit of both. 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:22.920 You know, it's such a small pace of time, like 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:25.320 you've literally had like what a five minute date with them, 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:27.960 and then you're sending them home. Is that even enough 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:31.159 time to really make a judgment call and then send 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:33.440 them home. I mean some of them are crying when 0:05:33.480 --> 0:05:35.600 they're leaving. What was that like for you? 0:05:35.720 --> 0:05:38.120 Yeah, no, it is like not Tomain like I think 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:38.440 it was. 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:40.159 Some of the girls got left time than the others, 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:42.400 which is a bit yeah with sharks, but I think 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:43.760 two with the whole process. 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:45.799 I put down when you're go into. 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:48.080 Like vacasions, my arts, you're like, what are your like, 0:05:48.160 --> 0:05:50.120 didn't get in you like in women and stuff like 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:53.680 that kind of girlfriend and wife you're looking for. I 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:56.200 put down certain things, and I think all the girls 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:59.080 sort of had those, had all those sort of characteristics 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:01.760 and lights, so that sort of made it a bit more, 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:04.200 a bit easier. It was more when you meet them. 0:06:04.240 --> 0:06:07.039 It's more whether it really sort of there's something there 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.480 or not to go off because at the end of 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:12.080 the day, all the girls would have fitted sit it 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.960 in fine on the farm. It's just whether we're a 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:17.680 match or not pretty much so, and yeah to whoever 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:20.320 we've hit it off with or not, and whoever you're 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:21.520 attracted to and stuff like that. 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:22.280 It is tough. 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:24.479 It's because it's so much in such a short amount 0:06:24.520 --> 0:06:26.840 of time, and you're like, what am I going to do? 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:28.800 It is a good problem to have. I'm done. 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:30.960 Yeah, yeah, I mean you do say that. In one 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:32.760 of the episodes, you know, one of the other farmers 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:34.479 is and how are you going you and you sort 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:39.920 of go, well, these ladies are hot. Yeah, he looks 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:42.919 like a pig and shit, I mean that's not the 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:46.360 right term for it. I'm trying to look for a farmaty. 0:06:47.160 --> 0:06:48.039 That line when I was on there. 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:51.440 Yeah, probably wrong, probably wrong, But you know, I guess 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:54.000 for me as a person watching this show, I always 0:06:54.040 --> 0:06:56.719 wonder whether or not you can establish whether or not 0:06:56.720 --> 0:06:58.840 you have a connection with someone straight away, Like when 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:02.080 you get an anchie, she'll sit down with someone. Could 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:04.600 you work out pretty much straight away from that how 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:06.359 it was going to play out? Like did you just 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:08.680 know there's no connection here, so I'm moving you to 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:10.320 the side. How did you work that out? 0:07:10.400 --> 0:07:12.560 Yeah? I think it does take a little bit. 0:07:12.760 --> 0:07:16.240 Obviously you see them and you're like, she's pretty or whatever, 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:19.320 and so there is a bit of a I sort 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:21.320 of push out a side because you don't want to 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:23.680 get sort of blinded by that, and then watch actually 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:24.440 talked to them. 0:07:24.600 --> 0:07:25.480 Within the first. 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:28.080 Few minutes you really know whether they're for you or 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:31.040 not when just a certain things you talk about questions are. 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:32.400 How they answer and stuff like that. 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:34.960 Yeah, because he's pretty important, like living where I live. 0:07:34.880 --> 0:07:36.760 And stuff like that, and where they come from as well. 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:39.240 I think their backgrounds like well, to be honest, I 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:40.960 thought they're all going to be all city girls if 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:43.320 I come into it, so to have a couple of 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:45.440 farm goals and that was very surprised. So it's like 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:47.320 you sort of it's hard to like sort of look 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:49.760 past them the country girls in a way because it's 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:51.720 like you've got already got so much in common and 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:53.840 they speak so much better well. 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:55.440 With some of the girls being thrown in there that 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:58.920 are from sort of growing up in farm areas, they 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:00.640 seem to sort of have a leg up, you know, 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:02.880 on on the others that were from the city. 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:03.920 Yeah, they definitely do. 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:07.080 And it definitely tough one because yeah, they got they've 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:09.480 got that bit of advantage. But I'd saying that too, 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:12.600 like it it's all about that, Like it's just because 0:08:12.600 --> 0:08:15.040 they've got the farm advantage doesn't really mean they're the 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:16.800 right one for you or not. So yeah, you get 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:19.320 to sort of forget about that and really get to 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:22.119 know them who they are, and takes a little bit longer, 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:24.600 I think, and they haven't got that sort of farm edge. 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:28.600 Yeah, background, I don't know if I see oh minor 0:08:28.640 --> 0:08:30.320 shopping that leg up. 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:33.000 But yeah, at the end of the day, I think when. 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:34.560 You get give enough time with them and you have 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:36.320 a bit of a you have a pretty good idea. 0:08:36.360 --> 0:08:37.679 I think it's a bit like. 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:39.200 Anything, like you meet someone and you're like, oh, I 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:42.800 really like this person, like they're they're great or whatever, 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:43.920 so it's not too bad. 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:46.679 What are your deal break is? Because Farmer Burt sent 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:49.559 this check home, right, and Farmer Burt sent her home 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:51.800 because she was sort of causing some drama. I mean, 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:53.760 she came full credit to her, she came up to 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:56.240 him and pleaded her case and said what she thought 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:58.120 was going on, and Burt just was like, oh, no, 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:00.560 I think you're the problem and send her home. And 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:03.200 I was wondering, have you got deal breakers like that? 0:09:03.280 --> 0:09:05.600 I mean, Farmer Burt's like, Oh, this this chick just 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:07.600 I can't work out if she's wrong or right, but 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:09.559 she seems like she's the drama. I've got to I've 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:10.480 got to send her packing. 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:11.880 That's definitely do break for me. 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:14.880 If there's the drama going on, also does append but 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:16.440 like I do not, I'm not. 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:18.520 A big span of drama at all. I can't stay 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:19.960 clear of it at all times. 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:21.360 I was going to say to you, the thing that's 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:24.360 really funny about this, though, is I set up a 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:27.240 maid of mine with two girls. Right there were very 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:30.120 different women. One of them is like, loves a drink, 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:32.199 loves to go out, have a night on the town, 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:34.520 and she's a bit of drama. And then I had 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:37.320 this other friend who's got a really nice job, lovely chick, 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:39.520 like really the sort of chick you'd want to take 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:42.520 home to your mum. And my friend didn't want the 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:45.800 nice one. Like my friend, I couldn't sell her to him. 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:47.600 And so like, I think there are some guys out 0:09:47.600 --> 0:09:49.800 there that you know, don't mind if I sto girl. 0:09:50.120 --> 0:09:53.079 That's definitely true. Some people do love it, which that's 0:09:53.120 --> 0:09:53.400 not me. 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:56.480 Like it does if you don't mind a little bit 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:57.959 of a bit of five, But like, you don't want 0:09:57.960 --> 0:09:59.400 someone that's going to be an act of trouble make 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:01.720 especially in the setting were in with all the girls 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:03.880 and it's tough for everybody and laughing. 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:05.240 You need to somebody. 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:08.680 Stirring them up and pause it because it's long hours 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:10.240 and stuff like that, and you don't really want to 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:12.480 be dealing with things you should have to be dealing 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:15.839 with on That's how I sufought anyways, Luckily I was 0:10:15.920 --> 0:10:19.440 lucky enough not to have that, so but that's definitely 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:20.400 one of my deal breakers. 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:22.120 I just yeah, I'm not a big drama guy. 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:24.160 I like to speak cruising and stuff like that, and 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:25.520 I got a big. 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:29.040 Of deal breakers. No horse girl, Oh my. 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:31.880 God, that one gets me. There was I can't remember 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:34.480 if it's you now, but there was someone one of 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:37.400 the farmers gets this very horsey girl in the first 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:40.559 week and she looks more interested in the horse than 0:10:40.600 --> 0:10:42.520 she is in the farmer. Now, I can't remember who 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:44.640 this is. The viewers will come for me, but I 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:48.000 was like, oh, she's got to go. I can't know. Hilarious. 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:50.440 So look in the first you get you get this 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:52.880 challenge in the first week, which is that you have 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:55.760 to pick two girls to take on a date. And 0:10:55.800 --> 0:10:57.520 that must have been a really hard process for you 0:10:57.600 --> 0:10:59.520 because you knew when you were picking them that you 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:00.800 were going to have to send one of them home. 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:04.120 So you picked Anna and Kara for this double day. 0:11:04.360 --> 0:11:06.559 How did you go about doing that? Did you feel 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:09.120 like both of those girls could easily go home and 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:10.199 that's how you picked them? 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:12.920 Yeah, Yeah, it was a pretty tough situation. That is 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:15.440 very early on, Like I barely even had a chance 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:16.240 to have a. 0:11:16.200 --> 0:11:18.719 Decent conversation with Daniel really because it's just so for long. 0:11:18.800 --> 0:11:20.599 But yeah, it was a good opportunity to get to 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:22.400 know a bit better. And so it was gone on 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:24.480 and sort of had with Cara, sort of I'm not 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:25.160 really sure about it. 0:11:25.160 --> 0:11:26.479 She was a little bit younger and stuff. 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:28.520 Like that, and then with Anna it was sort of 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:30.319 scanned office, I suppose. 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:32.800 And it's a bit hard to tell you interested or not. 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:36.360 And well you talk, yeah, you talk about being friend zoned, 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:39.559 and I actually think that Anna is stunning, like a 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:42.679 really beautiful and not to say anything different about Kara, 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:45.160 but I did just look and think Anna was quite 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:48.520 striking and quite confident with who she was. And then 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:51.480 when you started talking about being friend zoned, I started 0:11:51.480 --> 0:11:53.640 to think maybe you'd been friend zoned in the past 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:56.839 and that was triggering something for you. So I just wondered, 0:11:56.960 --> 0:11:58.520 is that something that's happened to you in the past. 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:01.120 I speak for most blogs have all been friends at 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:06.600 some point. Okay, true, yeah, yeah, I mistake. 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:09.480 I mean Anna's cute. I don't know. I just kept 0:12:09.520 --> 0:12:11.920 looking at Anna and just thinking she's a she's a 0:12:11.960 --> 0:12:14.319 good looking woman, like she's I think she's a good 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:16.280 match for you. So I guess we'll just have to 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:18.640 wait and see how that evolves over the show. 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:21.600 Yeah we will, Yeah she is. That's a great girl. 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:24.680 Anna say to you that she was struggling to read 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:27.360 you a little bit. I was wondering, are you hard 0:12:27.400 --> 0:12:29.680 to read? Would you consider yourself to be someone who's 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:32.200 an open book? Do you maybe take a little bit 0:12:32.240 --> 0:12:34.520 more time to get used to someone, To be honest. 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:35.720 I thought I was a bit of an open book 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:36.880 and I was quite easy to read. 0:12:36.920 --> 0:12:41.640 But I soon learned that I was not gott I 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:43.319 got a few comments to say that I'm quite hard 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:43.720 to read, but. 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:45.880 That's probably because of the whole situation too. 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:49.040 I didn't want to be favoring somebody and making the 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:50.959 other girls feel like they didn't have a chance and 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:53.520 make them feel bad, so I think I probably did 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:56.040 pull back a bit, but it was probably the best 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:58.960 in the end really because yeah, I understand myself. I 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:02.599 was in that situation and it's a bible was like 0:13:02.720 --> 0:13:04.000 just favoring someone the whole time. 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:05.240 I just feel like I wouldn't. 0:13:04.880 --> 0:13:06.320 Want to be there and the like, even when you 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.600 did have time together, it makes it hard. It's like, oh, 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:10.840 he's just interested in her own thing. So I was like, well, 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:12.360 I don't want to do that to them because I 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:13.200 wanted to know them all. 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.840 So it's probably I got a favorite to do with that, 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:19.320 but yeah, generally I'm not I'm well, I don't think so. Anyways. 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:21.280 It's not a normal situation though, do you know what 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:23.120 I mean? Like as in, it's not like you've just 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:25.439 met someone down the street or on a night out. 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:27.960 You know, you're filming a TV show. So look, there's 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:30.120 just so much going on for you in your mind 0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:33.800 about how unnatural that situation is, and then to try 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:36.040 and be natural must be hard, you know. 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:39.920 Yeah, it's definitely. It's definitely tough, Like they're very unusual 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:41.360 and it's tough for me. 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:44.240 The other girls, they all the girls sounded really hard 0:13:44.320 --> 0:13:47.720 because yeah, it's sort of luck. Everybody's sort are all friends, 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:50.320 but they're all half in the same bloke. You're got 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:52.920 to sort of tread on eggshells a bit, and it 0:13:52.960 --> 0:13:55.040 gets it gets hard and hard as you go along, 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.559 so especially especially on a farm, and made it really 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:58.360 really hard for the girls. 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:00.920 They get really really hard for everybody but producers. 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:03.640 So that I go to you hang on a second 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:05.720 and give you the wind up. Or do they try 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:07.320 and say to you before you start talking to them, 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:09.800 maybe don't tell them the footy scores or you know, 0:14:09.880 --> 0:14:12.240 like how do they go about making sure that you 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:14.840 were establishing the right sort of connections with these girls 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:17.880 and getting it to happen faster than maybe it naturally 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:18.839 would if you're at the pub. 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:21.040 Yeah, I suppose the producers sort of know that they 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:22.680 know a lot more what's going on than I do, 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:24.440 so they would give. 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:25.920 You a bit of a chip every now and then. 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:28.000 Like sort of maybe give you them an idea what's 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:31.360 going on, or they you there's something. 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:32.960 To talk about. But they're pretty good really, Like I. 0:14:32.920 --> 0:14:35.760 Think obviously I would have missed a few things, but 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:38.080 I think I picked up on most things for a bit. 0:14:38.200 --> 0:14:39.280 But they're always there. 0:14:39.120 --> 0:14:41.200 To help you, give you the help and hand take times. 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:42.080 It doesn't go astraight. 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:45.120 Well, next week you're all getting together for this first 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:48.000 social catchup. The ad looks really exciting. It looks like 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:50.080 something that's definitely going to go down there. Looks like 0:14:50.120 --> 0:14:52.400 some of the girls might not behave as well. What's 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:54.560 it like once you get into a group setting where 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:56.800 there's all the other farmers and there's all the other girls. 0:14:57.200 --> 0:14:59.120 Does that sort of curd all their brains a little bit? 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.160 And do they go a little bit more wild in 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:03.520 that kind of a scenario? Like, how did your girls 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:07.040 behave when getting together for that first social situation? 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:10.400 Yeah? I really enjoy getting together to the social things 0:15:10.440 --> 0:15:12.000 all all our farmers. 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:14.160 It was really nice to sort of catch up. So 0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:16.200 it's been going on right top thing. I think my 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:17.520 girls they ham were pretty good. 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:21.440 I think we're definitely the boring farm man of everybody. 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:24.680 Else, the wholesome fun, the wholesome far Yeah, yeah, we're not. 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:26.760 We're not boring. We're just when it comes to drama, 0:15:26.840 --> 0:15:29.760 we're just not. We're just not the farm we're the 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:32.240 fun farms. Yeah. 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:34.880 It was very interesting sitting there and saying everything that 0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:36.800