1 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the podcast, the BTS podcast. 2 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 2: And you know when you have it. 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 3: So what you just heard that say with the podcast 4 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 3: is for sure. Yeah, it's just the podcast where we 5 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 3: answer your work questions. Please dms at Will and Woody 6 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 3: if you've got a question for. 7 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 4: Us here And sometimes this isn't part of the structure, 8 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 4: but sometimes who have a quick comment to make at 9 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 4: the start of the podcast. 10 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: I've got one of them. 11 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 4: You might have heard me saying like I was ganging 12 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 4: on something when the mics went on there, I had 13 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 4: one drop of water left in my drink bottle. Question 14 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:31,159 Speaker 4: for you, Will, Because I'm allowed to put questions in 15 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 4: the box? 16 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 1: Have you put questions in the box? 17 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 2: Couple? 18 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 3: Have you? 19 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: But here's actually I don't believe that. 20 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 2: A lot of things I want to know about you. 21 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 4: You know, when you've got one drop of water left 22 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 4: in your drink bottle drinking, sometimes that's worse than having 23 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 4: no water left. 24 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 2: Oh yeah right, that was such a tease. 25 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 3: Ah, why why worse? Yeah? 26 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 4: I would have rather not knowing I had any water, 27 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 4: accepting the fact that I'm going to be thirsty. 28 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I put a drop of water in my mouth 29 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 2: and it did nothing. It tastes so good. 30 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: You might have it's just water. It's not like he's 31 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: having a delicious cocktail. 32 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 5: But when you really and you just want more, and 33 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 5: then you get one little bit, it tastes so good 34 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 5: that one little bit, and you're like, I had more 35 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 5: first year. 36 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 3: You pick up your water bottle, you shake it, You go, oh, 37 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 3: I've got a couple of drops there. 38 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: I have that. 39 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 3: This is confused columber. You pick up your water bottle. 40 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 3: There's nothing there. I need something and you got nothing. 41 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 3: I mean, I'd rather be looking at it than for it. 42 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 3: I tend to tend to be in My point is. 43 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 3: I shook it and I was like, I've got to 44 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 3: drop there. That's good, that's good news. Put the drop 45 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 3: in my mouth and I was like, that did not 46 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 3: quench me out all. Can I add something to this 47 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 3: place dilemma? Which is I think that you also have 48 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 3: similar to what I'm when I've got the desk here, 49 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 3: which is one of these insulated metal water bottles. 50 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 2: They're heavy. 51 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it's often deceptive as to how much water 52 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: is put A lot in there. 53 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 3: Well no, but at the end it's really hard to 54 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 3: tell how much got left in it because of the 55 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 3: weight of the bottle I thought I had because it's 56 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 3: obviously an air an air rated insulated gap between the 57 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 3: outside metal and the inside metal. 58 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: It's really hard to know how much of a golp 59 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: is left. 60 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 4: I thought it was a golp. It was like a tipple. Ah, 61 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 4: less than a tipple. And now I'm real thirsty. But 62 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 4: let's get to the question. 63 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 5: It's like if you've got one square of chocolate left 64 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 5: in the house and you eat that one square and 65 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 5: you're like, oh, I wish I had more. 66 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 3: That is a great, perfect, examply perfect example of one 67 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 3: square left. 68 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,959 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, unbelievable. I'd rather have nothing. 69 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: Once it hits your lips. 70 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 3: Once it hits your lips, will I like little bits 71 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: of things, you know, after you've eaten it, I like 72 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,800 Speaker 3: little bits of these perfect I'm like, great, a little 73 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 3: bit of that. 74 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 4: I don't know how you do that. You're one of 75 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 4: these people that can go and just have one drink. 76 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 2: What is that all about it? Yeah, like, how do 77 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 2: you do that? 78 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 4: I'm not saying it's a problem for me, but I'm 79 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,959 Speaker 4: just saying, like you come from You're amazing that you 80 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 4: got the bottle of do you have your dream? You 81 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 4: go delightful satisfied, and I go no. 82 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 3: I never I never say you do you satisfying my 83 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: lips satisfied? 84 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 4: Will another certain? No, I am perfectly satisfied. 85 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 2: I don't know how. And you you are. You don't 86 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:18,959 Speaker 2: even lying. 87 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: It's nice. 88 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 4: You're actually like, yeah, I've got I've had a comfortable 89 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 4: amount of fluid in my in my body now and 90 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 4: I'm very happy. 91 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I do. I do that. 92 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 2: I think that's ever happened in my life. 93 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: Okay, let's get to the question. 94 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 2: Now. 95 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 3: You said you've written some of these wood. I'm not 96 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 3: sure if you wrote this one. I don't think it's 97 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 3: your handwriting, so I was a lot of these are 98 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 3: transcribed from our socials, I imagine by digital producer kV, 99 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 3: given that. 100 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: She doesn't do much else with their day. All right, 101 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: here we go. The question is if you weren't in radio, she's. 102 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 2: Going to kill you. She's going to kill you. 103 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 1: What rag your finger across their throat? Just if you 104 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: weren't in radio, what job would you do? Question Mark? 105 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 4: Do you know I've actually got a comment on that 106 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 4: which you might find interesting. Previously, up until very recently 107 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 4: and even now I'm not fully through the woods, but 108 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 4: I am always thinking that there's a part of my 109 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 4: brain that's always like, if you get sacked tomorrow, what's 110 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 4: the plan? And you've got like really have a good 111 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 4: thing about what your plan. 112 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 3: Is, which is just savvy media brain, media brains, Like 113 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 3: it's like a Hunger Games brain. 114 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 2: Because you could get sacked at any moment. 115 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 3: You just kind of know that absolutely somebody could come 116 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 3: up with you, behind you and just give you those 117 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 3: poison blueberries just gone. 118 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 119 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 4: But I've realized that that was actually when I was, 120 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 4: I think at my most insecure. I realized that was 121 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 4: taking away from my enjoyment of what I really love doing, 122 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 4: which is radio with you five days a week, and 123 00:04:54,520 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 4: for the time that that exists, which currently is ongoing. Now, boy, 124 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 4: I got it tonight and I'm pretty sure we're on 125 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 4: tomorrow to get most. 126 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 2: Enjoyment out of that. I actually can't be thinking about. 127 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,799 Speaker 1: How if it all falls apart, what might happen? 128 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 2: Well, what might happen? 129 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 4: And also like have a think about what you would 130 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 4: what your life looks like if you get sacked tomorrow. 131 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 4: That was really taking away from like, oh God, I 132 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 4: love doing this, so so yeah, I think the reason 133 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 4: I brought that up is because, to answer that question, 134 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 4: I don't. 135 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 2: Think about that a lot. 136 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 4: Oh that's great, Yeah, trying not to. 137 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 1: Man, you've been. 138 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 3: Lulled into a false sense of security. 139 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: You're in the Hunger Games arena, my friend, they're coming 140 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 1: for you. 141 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 3: Backup. Very funny if I weren't. I agree. I think 142 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 3: that's a really different question from when we probably started 143 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 3: doing radio ten years ago to now. 144 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: I think that I mean, this is going to get 145 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 1: very real. 146 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 3: But like cards on the table, if we got sacked 147 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 3: now for no reason which could happen, which could happen, 148 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 3: they would have to give us a shitload of cash 149 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 3: for the for the rest of our contracts three year deal. 150 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 3: So we're walking away and going I've got time up 151 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 3: my sleeve, because I've got money out my sleeve. And 152 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 3: anyone that gets a golden handshake doesn't matter. What if 153 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 3: you've got a contract for a fixed term. If they 154 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 3: kick you out and they han't got a good reason for. 155 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: It, you've got money. Ye. 156 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 3: So I probably wouldn't think about doing anything for a 157 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 3: little while because I'd just be pumped it. 158 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 1: I could be a dad like that. 159 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and how rare to have the opportunity to 160 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 4: have there's still there's financial security there for a period 161 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 4: of time and. 162 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 3: Time to time time because I remember actually spoke to 163 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 3: Jules Lund after he was sacked from Sydney Breakfast. They 164 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 3: signed him for four years billion dollars a year of 165 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 3: four years classic Sydney Breakfast. 166 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 1: They sacked him. He was literally on Sidy. 167 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,359 Speaker 3: The Breakfast radio money for three years, and he was 168 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 3: just like, oh my god, well you know I've got 169 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 3: how many kids he's got. 170 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be a dad for a while. Like, 171 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: how good is that? 172 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 2: We should get sacked? 173 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,119 Speaker 1: We should try? The problem is he is the catch. 174 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: If you try and they point out that you've tried. 175 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 3: Then then I have to pay because you've repudiated delete 176 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 3: this audio, have to delete this. Yeah, no, we're not trying, 177 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 3: so it doesn't matter. But I think you actually brought 178 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 3: something interesting as well. There would in terms of you 179 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 3: weren't in radio, what job would you do? I feel like, 180 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm going I'm definitely sort of stealing from 181 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 3: a from a. 182 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: Ben Crow style thought here. But who's the who's the guru? 183 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:41,679 Speaker 3: Generally guru you might hear him on the Imperfect podcast 184 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 3: quite a bit. But I think there's a difference between 185 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 3: purpose and goal, and I think he taught me that concept, 186 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 3: which is like, if you're waking up every morning and 187 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 3: you're thinking about what you need to do to get 188 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 3: through the day, which might be I've got to pack 189 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 3: a thousand boxers, I've got to teach, I've got to 190 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 3: get through ten lessons across the day. If you're teacher, 191 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 3: whatever your if that's your goal for the day, that 192 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 3: can be quite that's totally unsustainable, and you will burn 193 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 3: out because that's what you're thinking about, you know you 194 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 3: kind of that's that's what I got to get through 195 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 3: to get through to day. That's when you're missing out 196 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 3: and you're not focusing on the thing that you should 197 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 3: focus on, which is what's your purpose. 198 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: And your purpose should be. 199 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 3: Really the thing that you enjoy within getting through those 200 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 3: ten lessons. So if you got into being teaching because 201 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 3: you like teaching other people, or if you got into 202 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 3: when I say, backing boxes because you're you have the 203 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 3: fastest hands in the West and you and you know 204 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 3: you've packed boxes. 205 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that wasn't my Maybe you enjoy the process. 206 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 3: I don't know, whatever, whatever the thing is that you're doing, 207 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,319 Speaker 3: if you have some level of job satisfaction around that thing, 208 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 3: that will probably be because there's a part of it 209 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 3: which you really connect with. And I feel like that 210 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 3: can manifest in many different ways. So right now, when 211 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 3: I love I love being creative, I love I love that, 212 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 3: and I feel radio is amazing for that He's coming 213 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:06,079 Speaker 3: here and get to a new show. 214 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:06,559 Speaker 1: Everything good. 215 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 3: But if I wasn't doing radio, I would probably have 216 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 3: to go, which might be a really interesting process. There 217 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 3: are ways to the drawing board and go fundamentally, what 218 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 3: how can I still tick that box? Which I think 219 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 3: is a really interesting conversation in general, because I think 220 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:29,319 Speaker 3: you and I were loving doing things creatively together before all. 221 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: Of this started. 222 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, And it could. 223 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:33,680 Speaker 1: Have gone in any number of ways. 224 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 3: You know, we might have started up an advertising firm. 225 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. 226 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know what that is, but yeah, but 227 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 3: I think that would probably inform what I did after 228 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 3: radio if I wasn't doing radio right. 229 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 2: Now, Have you written an your purpose? 230 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 3: I tried, but I found it really hard because I mean, 231 00:09:58,240 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 3: you know me, I feel like there are a lot 232 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 3: of things, is that I get a lot of joy 233 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 3: out of doing so. I find it really hard to 234 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:10,319 Speaker 3: distial exactly because I like processes. I like distilling information, 235 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 3: like communicating, and like creativity. 236 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: I find it hard. How did you go? 237 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 4: I I'm not ready nice because I'm really I don't 238 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 4: want to get a reaction from either from anyone at 239 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 4: this point, I'm. 240 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: You're tweaking it constantly. Isn't that the idea? 241 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 4: And it had like I had one written down for 242 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 4: a while, and then I realized that that that was 243 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 4: not my why. That was definitely more my It wasn't 244 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 4: making me birth out of bed every morning. It was 245 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 4: almost like, this is the reason you do what you do. 246 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's not the why why. 247 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, which is interesting. They're to differentiate between them. If 248 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 3: you're listening right to this right now, and you're thinking, 249 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 3: here's why I do what I do, And you can 250 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 3: fill that question in with to put food on the 251 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 3: table for my family, to make sure I get out 252 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 3: of the house every day, to make sure I contributed 253 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:10,079 Speaker 3: to society. That's different too. That's the reason why you 254 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 3: might do something, yes, But if you're looking for your enjoyment, yes, 255 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 3: quite answer the why you enjoy doing that thing exactly 256 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 3: because why you find full well why you find fulfillment 257 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 3: in doing. 258 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 4: That thing, and that that money can be a big factor, 259 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 4: by the way, like if the reason, that's. 260 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: Probably that's probably the reason as opposed to the why. 261 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 4: So there's one that's I've had down for I did 262 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 4: it over the break, not that we had a break 263 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 4: over Easter, but if we had a break, I may 264 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 4: have sat down and written something down and I was like, 265 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:42,719 Speaker 4: this is this is ringing true? But yeah, I'm not 266 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 4: one hundred percent sure yet, but it's nice. But it's 267 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 4: it's the closest I've come to. Ben talks about how 268 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 4: if you do find your purpose and you really hone 269 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 4: in on that, then the work that you're doing when 270 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 4: you're focusing on that actually energizes you a bit. Yeah, 271 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:01,679 Speaker 4: and this is the first time I've been like, I 272 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 4: think this is I think I know what he's talking about. 273 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good. 274 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a really great thing to think about. 275 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:11,559 Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, I find it really tricky because there are 276 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:13,439 Speaker 3: so many things. Yeah, as I was saying that I 277 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 3: can do that, I get a lot out of that 278 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 3: I can't, Like, for example, this is going to strike 279 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 3: a lot of you as very strange. But like, I 280 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 3: love making coffee. Like I was a barista for a really, 281 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 3: really long time, and if you told me that I 282 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 3: was making coffee for eight hours a day in a 283 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 3: coffee shop, I actually get a lot. 284 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 1: Of pleasure out of doing that. 285 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 3: I like conversing with people. I like the process. I 286 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 3: like tinkering with the grain. I sound like I'm a 287 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 3: peasant in Russia. No, I like I like tinkering with 288 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 3: the grind, is what I mean to say. I like that, 289 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 3: and I like being locked in, and I like conversing 290 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:52,719 Speaker 3: with people, and I like having my station, and I 291 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 3: like applying myself to something. But then on the other 292 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 3: end of the spectrum, I like writing plays and I 293 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 3: like making music. 294 00:12:58,559 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: So it's I like DJ. 295 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 3: It's very I find it very tricky to do that, 296 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 3: so I wouldn't know. I also like science. Like the 297 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 3: other day I thought to myself that sometime in my fifties, 298 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:09,719 Speaker 3: I might go and be a marine biologist. 299 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, lovely, wow? Do you yeah? 300 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:13,480 Speaker 1: Which thing to do? 301 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 2: You're so right here in all it's very hard to 302 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 2: steal an all. 303 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 1: You can't get it. 304 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 4: Out of all the things you just mentioned. There forget 305 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 4: marine biology that really opens doors. But if out of 306 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 4: like making coffee every day, so just just the process 307 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 4: of the grinding and the beans, et cetera. Take the 308 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 4: people out of it, and then same thing with writing music, 309 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 4: or same thing with writing the novel. 310 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 311 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 2: Which one do you think you'd want to do? 312 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 4: This you might have be able to answer this, which 313 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 4: one would you want to do knowing that the coffee 314 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:46,079 Speaker 4: that's made or the things that the thing that is 315 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 4: written is just put in a bin after you've done. 316 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: Oh interesting, that's a good question. 317 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 2: Probably the coffee fascinating. 318 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 3: But that's that's because I don't That's because I feel 319 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 3: like a part of making music or writing for me 320 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 3: comes down to the fact that I like the idea 321 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 3: that I'm sharing something like I like the idea that 322 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 3: even though I don't want people involved in the creative 323 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 3: process because that's mine, the sharing of ideas and connecting 324 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 3: with other people is a huge part about making art 325 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 3: for me. 326 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: But that's not to say with all art. I mean, yeah, 327 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 1: I want to get too deep. 328 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 3: But one of the questions I one of the things 329 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 3: that I discovered about purpose recently when I was talking 330 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 3: to my therapist was. He was like, when were you 331 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 3: sort of like happiest when you were a child. 332 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. 333 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 3: Well, and I said it was when I was in 334 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 3: my room by myself playing Lego. Yeah, tinkering, tinkering, And 335 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 3: I would literally throw that out at the end and 336 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 3: I'd be in there for hours, clothes door, No one 337 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 3: bothered me. 338 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 1: I would just get to build little things. 339 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 4: Would you would you want mom and dad. 340 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 2: To see your creation? 341 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: Didn't give a ship, pull it down, and then we'll. 342 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 2: Make something new tomorrow. That is so interesting. 343 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, and now it's really funny. 344 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 3: As I said it on my daughter as well, Max, 345 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 3: just anything to like fiddle with. 346 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 1: She's just like, get me in there. 347 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's great. 348 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: Anyway, Well, guys, now it's not going to marine biology Jesus. 349 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 3: I like to think that, oh, because you got this 350 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 3: whole ocean of like stuff that's giving you all this 351 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 3: different information. And then you can be like, oh, if 352 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 3: we move this slightly, if we think of that, that's 353 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 3: going to affect that. 354 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 1: That could affect that. 355 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 4: I was like, you did get rocks off on water 356 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 4: temperatures and stuff like, well. 357 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 3: I think so like like salinity and like and Also 358 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 3: you're you're isolated on a boat as well, you're isolated 359 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 3: like you're in the middle of nowhere. 360 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, been on a boat. 361 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 3: I love that. Something about being by yourself that I 362 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:07,760 Speaker 3: just enriches me anyway, but on a boat would believable. 363 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 1: Believe maybe, but I don't know. 364 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 3: Hopefully that kind of despite the fact that I ended 365 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 3: up talking about playing Lego in my room, I hope 366 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 3: they didn't bore you. But I do think that's a 367 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 3: good exercise for people listening. Hopefully that stimulated a bit 368 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 3: of a conversation in your own hand about what you're 369 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 3: doing every day. And as you were there were good 370 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 3: questions that you asked Woods about. Yeah, throwing it out 371 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 3: at the end of the day, would you still do 372 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 3: it? It's a really good one. 373 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: Yea. 374 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 4: Also google Ben Crow. I don't know I'm throwing There 375 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 4: is Simon Sinek. He's an American, very similar thing, but 376 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 4: they go at it in different ways. 377 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 5: And tomorrow on the show and William would he get fired? 378 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, we're not trying. 379 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 5: I think it's a regular segment. 380 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 1: The Golden handshake. 381 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 4: Oh my god, have we just given them a reason 382 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 4: to sack us? And then not pay us out because 383 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 4: they'll go to this audio and be like, see they 384 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 4: were trying little. 385 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 2: It's a joke, a whole bit. It's been a it's 386 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 2: obviously a 387 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: Track, obviously obviously same borkm