1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: Jump Mission with Jonesy and Amanda our next guest. 2 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 2: Well, she's the inspiring woman and the real life mum 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 2: behind Nicole Kidman's character in the blockbuster movie lion Lyne 4 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 2: was written by his son Saru about his journey to 5 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 2: find his birth mum, using Google Earth to travel to 6 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:21,799 Speaker 2: a small Indian village. Well, now Sue has written about 7 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:23,959 Speaker 2: her own path and it is just as incredible. 8 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: Hello Sue, Good morning. 9 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 2: Hello Sue. I had the absolute pleasure of doing a 10 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 2: story with the living room with Saru. I was in 11 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 2: Tasmania and spent an afternoon with him. What a delightful 12 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 2: young man. 13 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: He is, Well, he certainly is, but he's not so 14 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: young anymore. 15 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 2: How old is he now? 16 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: His next birthday will be forty Wow? According to our 17 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: thirty nine to his first mother. So before Gray Area, well. 18 00:00:55,680 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 2: You your journey, your journey to adopt Sarhu and his brother. 19 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:02,959 Speaker 2: It was sixteen years in the making. It wasn't very 20 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 2: easy at. 21 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: All, No it was. It certainly was a journey and 22 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: a half. And I don't know who picked that song 23 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 1: just before Runaway Train. 24 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, world, Yes, was that a quite dig actually it 25 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 2: was it? But maybe sup for those who aren't. You 26 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 2: aren't as familiar with the story as we are. Before 27 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 2: we get to your journey to adopt Seru, maybe tell 28 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 2: us what his story was before he came to you. 29 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 1: Well, just by sheer chance, as a little boy, somewhere 30 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: between four and five years of age, he got on 31 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 1: the wrong train just an hour or so from his 32 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: village and ended up traveling from the center of India 33 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: to Calcutta on the other side, so it was thousands 34 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: of kilometers and there he was lost and on the 35 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: streets for some time before being rescued and taken to 36 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: a wonderful institution called Navajavan, which is run by the 37 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: Indian Society for Sponsorship and Adoption, And that's where we 38 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: found Saru and adopted him and brought him to Australia 39 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: to live with us. 40 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 2: You make that sound so straightforward, but sixteen years you said, 41 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 2: of trying to adopt a child from overseas. 42 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: The problem was here, not there. You know, it's because 43 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: of the bureaucratic system that we function or really don't 44 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: function with. It just was like that there were issues 45 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: there that we couldn't comply with, and the program was 46 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: predominantly open for infertile couples. We couldn't prove that. We 47 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: just had to stay the course and wait till that changed. 48 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: And really within about seven and a half months after applying, 49 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: after the changes had occurred, that was when Sarah who 50 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: came to Australia. 51 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 2: You say that you you had a vision of a 52 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:10,799 Speaker 2: small child with brown skin coming towards you. How old 53 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 2: were you when you first had this. 54 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: I was probably about somewhere between thirteen and fourteen, you know, 55 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: very early puberty. I guess. You know, so that sort 56 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: of early year when life was very tough, and also 57 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 1: your emotions are very delicate, and I was very fragile, 58 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: and I just had a moment, I guess, but you 59 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: know it really gave me some comfort and I thought, well, 60 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: here's something I can take with me to keep me 61 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: company in my heart. And I stuck with it. I 62 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: never I just took it as a sign. I thought, yep, okay, 63 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: I saw it. I believed I saw it. I didn't 64 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: discuss it with anyone. I just took it with me 65 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: and continued on. 66 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 3: Did you think, at any time before this movie did 67 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 3: you think, oh, someone should make a movie about this. 68 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 1: No, I didn't think that because predominantly my life and 69 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: my decisions, and the same with John. We lived our 70 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: life very privately with our personal views on forming a family, 71 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: which of course originated when I met John when I 72 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 1: was sixteen, and we didn't openly discuss it really except 73 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: with our very closest family and friends. So for all 74 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 1: of that time, a lot of people really didn't have 75 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: a clue what we were up to. 76 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 2: It is an extraordinary tale. And then, as you say, Jonesy, 77 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 2: suddenly there are cameras in your life, and in fact 78 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:51,720 Speaker 2: you went with Saru to meet his birth family in 79 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 2: India in twenty thirteen. Must have been hugely emotional and 80 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 2: there were cameras there. How did you feel seeing him 81 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 2: touch base with his birth family. 82 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: For me, it was like a coming home because never 83 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 1: for a moment had I forgotten he was born in India, 84 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: He was an Indian child, even though he was growing 85 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: up here in Australia. You know, you can't just forget 86 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: about your roots and your identity. They are a part 87 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 1: of you forever, and so I'd always thought of him 88 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: as Indian Australian second. But for me it was it 89 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: was just an absolute joy, and so I'm very happy 90 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:41,160 Speaker 1: that that opportunity was there for me, and I really 91 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: felt very supported during the process because I know that 92 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,280 Speaker 1: some people might think, oh, fancy doing that in front 93 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: of the cameras, blah blah. But for me, I was 94 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: doing my thing and it was I think it was 95 00:05:55,720 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: as natural and heartfelt as if there were no cameras 96 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: there that that didn't really affect anything. In fact, it 97 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 1: probably aided my experience because I had access to a 98 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: good translator. I was able to communicate and find out 99 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:18,720 Speaker 1: the things that I really wanted to know, and primarily 100 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 1: that was, you know, to find out if Fatima had 101 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: always had a feeling in her hearts that her son 102 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: was still alive. 103 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 3: So that's a good thing. And that's such a good thing. 104 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 3: And there's so many things that people do on camera 105 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 3: that's unworthy of being broadcast. You're actually doing something that's 106 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 3: really good, So that's a good thing. So see your 107 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 3: new book LINEUS is available in all good bookstores today. 108 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 3: So really thank you for joining us. 109 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: Thank you, sir, my pleasure, thank you so much. Pleasure 110 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 1: with join Z and Amanda