WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: No-Hit Piñatas & Peeing Yourself 0:00:10.379 --> 0:00:11.859 Hihart podcasts. 0:00:12.019 --> 0:00:14.819 Here more Kiss Podcast playlist and listen live on the 0:00:14.819 --> 0:00:16.099 Free iHeart app. 0:00:18.339 --> 0:00:22.178 A good Pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura. 0:00:21.979 --> 0:00:26.859 Burn Bady your work, our windows downe, that's my worries 0:00:26.939 --> 0:00:27.739 in the dust. 0:00:27.939 --> 0:00:32.178 Only good tabs are all down. I've done much now, 0:00:32.619 --> 0:00:35.659 but you I know our big get and what I want. 0:00:35.939 --> 0:00:37.538 It don't matter where RAD goes. 0:00:37.699 --> 0:00:40.259 This is the pick up you're listening to the Pickup 0:00:40.259 --> 0:00:42.059 with Britt Hockley and Laura Burne. 0:00:42.099 --> 0:00:44.019 Hi everyone, Hey guys, Happy Thursday. 0:00:44.499 --> 0:00:47.979 Happy Thursday for some except for my poor husband Matthew Johnson. 0:00:48.019 --> 0:00:48.739 Do you know what he did? 0:00:49.139 --> 0:00:49.339 Well? 0:00:49.419 --> 0:00:51.619 Actually literally this morning. But I just got a call 0:00:51.659 --> 0:00:52.419 about an hour ago. 0:00:52.739 --> 0:00:54.179 What do I want to know? 0:00:54.339 --> 0:00:56.659 So Marley's been in vacation care for some of our 0:00:56.779 --> 0:01:00.019 school holiday time, and we're gonna call from vacation care. 0:01:00.499 --> 0:01:03.419 Mind you, Marley's in kindergarten, She's been going to kindergarten 0:01:03.419 --> 0:01:04.099 for full half a. 0:01:04.139 --> 0:01:06.779 Year now, and vacation care is part of school, right, 0:01:06.819 --> 0:01:10.459 so it's the same company. It's after school care, same 0:01:10.539 --> 0:01:11.219 rules apply. 0:01:11.099 --> 0:01:11.939 During vacation care. 0:01:12.019 --> 0:01:14.658 Gotcha, got a call from the lovely people who take 0:01:14.658 --> 0:01:16.979 care of my child to ask us why we've sent 0:01:17.098 --> 0:01:18.899 her to school with peanut butter sandwiches. 0:01:18.938 --> 0:01:19.938 Matt just assumed. 0:01:20.699 --> 0:01:24.458 He assumed that the rules don't apply during vacation care. Yeah, 0:01:24.539 --> 0:01:26.619 and he sent her to school with peanuts where there 0:01:26.658 --> 0:01:29.539 are children who are anaphyletics. So now I feel like 0:01:29.578 --> 0:01:31.539 I've been accused of trying to kill some kids off. 0:01:31.699 --> 0:01:32.219 Well, to be. 0:01:32.259 --> 0:01:35.059 Fair, you could have very well killed some kids off. 0:01:35.179 --> 0:01:37.259 No, they do check their lunch. Do you know what 0:01:37.339 --> 0:01:39.379 I did realize once? It took me a while to 0:01:39.378 --> 0:01:40.938 get to that point. I think I spoke about on 0:01:40.938 --> 0:01:44.339 the show. I didn't realize that Natella was actually I 0:01:44.419 --> 0:01:46.578 just didn't think about it. I know it's very obviously 0:01:46.578 --> 0:01:48.898 in the name, but I sent Molly to school several 0:01:48.939 --> 0:01:50.619 times with Natella and it wasn't until I got a 0:01:50.659 --> 0:01:52.659 phone call that they were like, what are you doing? 0:01:52.779 --> 0:01:54.979 I do remember that. That's why this makes it worse 0:01:54.979 --> 0:01:56.859 for Matt, because you guys have done it before. 0:01:58.819 --> 0:02:01.379 It is time for something we do every Thursday, and 0:02:01.419 --> 0:02:03.819 that is ask Guncut. It has become as staple of 0:02:03.859 --> 0:02:06.898 our podcast Life Uncut, and it's where you guys call 0:02:06.979 --> 0:02:09.379 in with your deep You're dark and your questions, and 0:02:09.459 --> 0:02:11.899 even though we are completely unqualified, we do our best 0:02:11.939 --> 0:02:12.418 answer them. 0:02:12.819 --> 0:02:13.138 We have it. 0:02:13.259 --> 0:02:14.339 Emily on the phone. 0:02:14.459 --> 0:02:16.619 Hey Emily, Hi Emily, what's the problem? 0:02:16.739 --> 0:02:22.258 Hi guys. Okay, So, basically, there was a guy I dated, 0:02:22.538 --> 0:02:27.659 maybe like three or four years ago. We were quite serious, 0:02:27.859 --> 0:02:31.579 but like we never like were boyfriend and girlfriend, and 0:02:31.899 --> 0:02:34.979 due to like careers and stuff in the sense that, 0:02:35.099 --> 0:02:37.619 like I work a normal job and he would work 0:02:37.698 --> 0:02:42.939 weird hours, it just never eventuated and my work took 0:02:42.978 --> 0:02:47.299 me other places. Anyways, I just have never been able 0:02:47.339 --> 0:02:50.059 to stop thinking about him, Like you think. 0:02:49.899 --> 0:02:51.299 He's kind of the one that got away. 0:02:52.258 --> 0:02:54.699 Yeah, And the worst bit about it is I'm never 0:02:54.779 --> 0:02:57.179 one to like I'm such a girl's girl, right, Like 0:02:57.179 --> 0:03:00.698 I would never do anything. But he has a girlfriend 0:03:00.739 --> 0:03:04.619 now and they've been together for a year, and I 0:03:04.659 --> 0:03:06.899 thought it would just go away, but it's not. 0:03:07.418 --> 0:03:09.299 Have you dated other people and then it just doesn't 0:03:09.299 --> 0:03:11.739 feel right? Are you in a relationship now? Doesn't feel right. 0:03:12.739 --> 0:03:14.739 I have dated other people in the past, I have 0:03:14.819 --> 0:03:17.418 had a relationship in those three to four years, and yeah, 0:03:17.418 --> 0:03:18.659 I was still thinking about him. 0:03:19.019 --> 0:03:21.939 Do you have any contact with him? 0:03:22.538 --> 0:03:27.979 This is so bad? I do swear, I swear such 0:03:27.978 --> 0:03:30.059 a girl's girl, Like I would never move in on him, 0:03:30.179 --> 0:03:32.939 but we still chat yeah here in there about like 0:03:33.418 --> 0:03:35.819 whatever's happening in the world, and like things I know 0:03:35.939 --> 0:03:36.579 he likes. 0:03:36.779 --> 0:03:38.859 Okay, so does he I know he likes. 0:03:39.419 --> 0:03:42.939 Does he ever give you the indication like, does he 0:03:43.019 --> 0:03:44.819 ever overstep the mark? Or is he giving you the 0:03:44.859 --> 0:03:47.979 indication that like, had it been different, he would have 0:03:48.019 --> 0:03:48.939 wanted it to work out. 0:03:49.699 --> 0:03:54.779 So basically, back in October, we had like a drunk 0:03:54.899 --> 0:03:57.859 phone call and he was in a relationship at this time, 0:03:58.179 --> 0:04:00.179 and he said, oh, like we just didn't work out 0:04:00.179 --> 0:04:02.899 because our life paths didn't go that way. And he 0:04:02.939 --> 0:04:07.059 still thinks of me nicely. But he tells his partner everything, 0:04:07.179 --> 0:04:10.139 and he's completely open with her and trusting with her. 0:04:10.219 --> 0:04:13.059 And I would never do anything to her a relationship 0:04:13.219 --> 0:04:16.099 or I wouldn't even like let him do something to 0:04:16.179 --> 0:04:18.619 affect that, because I know what that could mean if 0:04:18.659 --> 0:04:20.619 I were to get in a relationship with him and stuff. 0:04:20.619 --> 0:04:22.779 By that, Emily, I know what I mean, Yes I do, 0:04:22.859 --> 0:04:25.219 But I also just think that sometimes the fantasy is 0:04:25.219 --> 0:04:27.099 better than the real life. Like I think that you 0:04:27.099 --> 0:04:28.579 can build it up in your head and be like, 0:04:28.899 --> 0:04:31.059 he's the one that's got away. If we had another chance, 0:04:31.099 --> 0:04:32.419 maybe he's my person. 0:04:32.139 --> 0:04:33.899 But sometimes they do get away. 0:04:33.539 --> 0:04:34.779 But he's not your person. 0:04:34.859 --> 0:04:36.979 He's got a girlfriend, so if he wanted to be 0:04:37.019 --> 0:04:40.219 your person, he would free up. He's a calendar that 0:04:40.299 --> 0:04:43.219 he hasn't done that, and he's definitely stayed committed in 0:04:43.259 --> 0:04:44.019 a relationship. 0:04:44.259 --> 0:04:44.659 I don't know. 0:04:44.699 --> 0:04:47.459 I kind of think there isn't much that you can do. 0:04:47.939 --> 0:04:51.139 And I don't know if I would be putting myself 0:04:51.139 --> 0:04:52.738 in the firing line of telling him how I feel 0:04:52.779 --> 0:04:55.059 when he's in a relationship, for it doesn't agree with me, 0:04:55.059 --> 0:04:56.779 for it's looking at me like she's. 0:04:56.579 --> 0:04:57.939 The message just doesn't happen. 0:04:58.459 --> 0:05:01.779 No, I'm not saying that doesn't happen often. I genuinely 0:05:01.819 --> 0:05:04.659 don't know what to tell you, because I am like 0:05:04.739 --> 0:05:07.859 a quite a romantic and I like the idea of 0:05:07.899 --> 0:05:10.259 like I I do believe that there can be right 0:05:10.299 --> 0:05:13.259 people for each other at wrong times, like I know 0:05:13.299 --> 0:05:14.259 people wherever that's happened. 0:05:14.299 --> 0:05:15.059 I believe in that. 0:05:15.499 --> 0:05:19.139 I do believe in going after what she want, but 0:05:19.379 --> 0:05:22.179 obviously within reason. I don't mean that about like being 0:05:22.179 --> 0:05:25.619 a homewreck and breaking up relationships but it's if you 0:05:26.019 --> 0:05:29.219 genuinely believe someone is the one that makes me be Like, 0:05:29.499 --> 0:05:31.219 if he was in a relationship, I'd be like turn 0:05:31.299 --> 0:05:33.179 up to his house, like tell him. If he says 0:05:33.219 --> 0:05:35.259 he's not interested, it's fine, move on. At least you 0:05:35.339 --> 0:05:37.019 know that and you can put it to bed. This 0:05:37.099 --> 0:05:39.019 is what I think he do. It's wrong to try 0:05:39.019 --> 0:05:40.659 and break up a relationship, is wrong to do the 0:05:40.699 --> 0:05:43.339 wrong thing and emotionally cheat and cheat and things like that. 0:05:45.259 --> 0:05:47.899 You are well, I'm just saying she has not stopped 0:05:47.899 --> 0:05:49.739 thinking about him. She loves him, she thinks he's the one. 0:05:49.779 --> 0:05:51.139 This is what I would say, get a dog. 0:05:51.379 --> 0:05:54.339 No, I would say, hey, really, honestly, I don't think 0:05:54.379 --> 0:05:57.219 we can maintain this friendship anymore. I still have feelings 0:05:57.219 --> 0:05:59.259 for you, so I don't think it's right, and I'm 0:05:59.299 --> 0:06:01.299 going to do the right thing by your relationship and me. 0:06:01.419 --> 0:06:03.739 That way, you are being a good person and pulling back. 0:06:03.779 --> 0:06:06.019 As long as you commit to pulling back, You've also 0:06:06.299 --> 0:06:08.939 let him know why, which is like, my feelings are 0:06:08.939 --> 0:06:10.579 still there. Then he can go and do. 0:06:10.579 --> 0:06:11.219 With it what he will. 0:06:11.219 --> 0:06:13.459 He'll either feel nothing for you and say like I 0:06:13.579 --> 0:06:16.619 understand and get on with your life, or he'll be like, wow, 0:06:16.659 --> 0:06:18.699 I've always felt the same way and didn't think she did, 0:06:18.739 --> 0:06:19.939 and then something problem. 0:06:20.059 --> 0:06:23.019 Okay, The problem I have with it is that no 0:06:23.179 --> 0:06:25.539 matter what you do, even if you do throw that 0:06:25.579 --> 0:06:27.699 out there and he goes and turns around and says like, oh, 0:06:27.739 --> 0:06:31.219 now I have confused feelings. The amount of like back 0:06:31.259 --> 0:06:33.339 and forth because no one's going to receive that information 0:06:33.379 --> 0:06:35.619 and then instantly go, you know what, I have those 0:06:35.659 --> 0:06:37.419 feelings for you too. I'm going to break up with 0:06:37.459 --> 0:06:39.739 my girlfriend, move out of the house, and then we 0:06:39.779 --> 0:06:41.699 can start a consensual relationship together. 0:06:41.739 --> 0:06:43.019 I'm not going to cheat. I'm going to be a 0:06:43.019 --> 0:06:43.659 stand up guy. 0:06:44.019 --> 0:06:47.859 There's nowhere in between except for it to either be 0:06:48.099 --> 0:06:50.379 he agrees, and then there's cheating for him to like 0:06:50.419 --> 0:06:52.339 get the validation that he needs in order to leave 0:06:52.339 --> 0:06:55.139 the relationship. He's not going to from a one line 0:06:55.139 --> 0:06:57.499 of you saying he's still got feelings, break up with 0:06:57.539 --> 0:06:59.259 his current girlfriend and move out of the house they 0:06:59.259 --> 0:07:02.539 live in. He's going to need way more validation, which 0:07:02.579 --> 0:07:06.819 just means you're putting yourself in a drama filled unnecessary 0:07:07.459 --> 0:07:10.179 relationship with someone who has got a relationship and I 0:07:10.219 --> 0:07:11.499 just think you don't need this in your life. 0:07:11.659 --> 0:07:14.059 She does need him in his life when he's her penguin. 0:07:14.219 --> 0:07:16.939 No, there's more than one person for everyone. You meet 0:07:16.979 --> 0:07:18.579 someone else, Emily, what are you gonna do? 0:07:18.899 --> 0:07:20.339 Whose advice you're taking? Laurs on? 0:07:20.419 --> 0:07:20.619 Mine? 0:07:21.379 --> 0:07:23.899 Part of me is still like do I just suffer 0:07:23.939 --> 0:07:24.579 in silence? 0:07:24.739 --> 0:07:29.699 Just keep waiting, don't keep waiting, Just don't wait, Emily, 0:07:29.819 --> 0:07:31.019 date other people I have? 0:07:31.179 --> 0:07:33.219 I have none of them. 0:07:33.259 --> 0:07:35.099 Oh, Emily, I do not envy you. 0:07:35.219 --> 0:07:37.019 Good luck with this, and make sure you us a 0:07:37.019 --> 0:07:38.419 call back and tell us how it all goes. 0:07:39.259 --> 0:07:41.659 I will, Thanks, guys, Thanks Emily. 0:07:43.739 --> 0:07:45.019 I mean, I'm sure some of you know if you 0:07:45.059 --> 0:07:46.579 listen to the show, but it might be used to 0:07:46.859 --> 0:07:51.619 anyone who's new. I am currently pregnant with my third baby, 0:07:52.099 --> 0:07:55.179 and let me tell you, third pregnancy is a whole 0:07:55.379 --> 0:07:57.179 different kettle of fish to the first one, and the 0:07:57.179 --> 0:07:57.939 second one just. 0:07:57.899 --> 0:07:58.979 Like doesn't even touch the sides. 0:07:59.019 --> 0:07:59.779 Really for you, does it? 0:07:59.819 --> 0:07:59.979 Well? That? 0:08:00.059 --> 0:08:01.859 Yeah, the baby's just gonna shoot straight out. 0:08:02.099 --> 0:08:04.779 Isn't even gonna have any resistance. No, I no, I 0:08:04.819 --> 0:08:07.339 didn't mean. I don't mean you're loose when you said it. No, 0:08:07.379 --> 0:08:10.099 I meant life doesn't watch the size. I was like, 0:08:10.379 --> 0:08:12.379 I can put your legs in steir it to shoot 0:08:12.419 --> 0:08:12.779 it out. 0:08:13.179 --> 0:08:16.739 I menage him, like it HiT's different, Like again, that 0:08:16.779 --> 0:08:17.699 could be taking the wrong way. 0:08:17.739 --> 0:08:19.699 It is going to touch the sides on the way out. 0:08:20.099 --> 0:08:20.539 I mean it. 0:08:20.539 --> 0:08:23.299 He's different, Like you're less involved in Like you're like, 0:08:23.299 --> 0:08:25.299 it'll come in nine months because you've done it twice 0:08:25.299 --> 0:08:25.859 and you're busy. 0:08:26.099 --> 0:08:28.459 Yeah, look and love that. You were like, no, I 0:08:28.499 --> 0:08:29.579 still will touch people. 0:08:29.739 --> 0:08:31.659 I was like, one can only hope that it does 0:08:31.699 --> 0:08:35.539 still touch the size as it comes out. But anyway, look, 0:08:36.019 --> 0:08:38.139 it is very different. And I say this because I 0:08:38.179 --> 0:08:40.659 feel like this pregnancy has just completely gotten away from me. 0:08:40.819 --> 0:08:44.019 And sometimes I feel pretty good since I've gotten my 0:08:44.459 --> 0:08:45.419 refleux under. 0:08:45.179 --> 0:08:47.579 Control that I often actually just forget that I'm pregnant, 0:08:47.619 --> 0:08:48.858 and I forget you're pregnant. 0:08:48.659 --> 0:08:50.619 Yeah, until I get Britt was talking about just how 0:08:50.659 --> 0:08:52.779 we should do this morning. She was like, Oh, we 0:08:52.779 --> 0:08:55.619 should really do this, like you do a big party 0:08:55.619 --> 0:08:57.419 at the end of the year, like a show party, 0:08:57.859 --> 0:08:59.579 and we'll invite all our listeners and we can do 0:08:59.579 --> 0:09:00.939 it on a boat. And I was like, I'll have 0:09:00.979 --> 0:09:02.819 a six week old baby. But she sounds good. And 0:09:02.819 --> 0:09:05.019 I was like, what completely blanked that I was having 0:09:05.019 --> 0:09:07.619 a kid. But anyway, look, every so often I get 0:09:07.619 --> 0:09:09.979 a reminder like I'll get a massive thump to the 0:09:10.059 --> 0:09:11.979 uterus because I'll get a big, solid kick, and I'm 0:09:12.219 --> 0:09:14.419 I'm well passed halfway now. I think I'm about twenty 0:09:14.499 --> 0:09:18.019 five weeks. And I just the other day discovered that 0:09:18.059 --> 0:09:20.379 I've hit a part of pregnancy or a new stage 0:09:20.379 --> 0:09:22.819 that I never got to in my first or second 0:09:22.859 --> 0:09:25.339 and it was incredibly humbling. So we were all in 0:09:25.379 --> 0:09:28.819 the office having a little dance. We were filming some content, 0:09:28.859 --> 0:09:30.259 and part of that was that we had to, like, 0:09:30.299 --> 0:09:32.139 you know, really kind of get into this dance that 0:09:32.179 --> 0:09:32.699 we were doing. 0:09:33.219 --> 0:09:34.019 And I did. 0:09:34.179 --> 0:09:36.859 I was really channelling my nineteen year old self being 0:09:36.859 --> 0:09:39.419 at the nightclubs. And I dropped it like it's hot, 0:09:39.739 --> 0:09:41.339 and I did a liberated woman. 0:09:41.219 --> 0:09:45.499 Drop, I live my best life drop, and I got 0:09:45.539 --> 0:09:47.339 to the bottom of that drop. I got low and 0:09:47.379 --> 0:09:48.939 I got low. I got low, I got low, and 0:09:48.979 --> 0:09:50.979 then I pissed my pants at the bottom of bottom Jean. 0:09:51.099 --> 0:09:53.499 It was I didn't and no, I'm not just talking 0:09:53.499 --> 0:09:56.059 about tiny bit of bladder leakage. I got to the 0:09:56.059 --> 0:09:58.699 bottom of that drop and I fully wet myself. Well 0:09:58.699 --> 0:10:01.019 maybe it won't, Cutch the scientist. This just got to 0:10:01.019 --> 0:10:04.499 shoot right in and there was something incredibly I don't 0:10:04.499 --> 0:10:05.979 even want to say humbling, because I know I've said that, 0:10:05.979 --> 0:10:08.819 but it was just humiliating having to stop and like, 0:10:08.819 --> 0:10:11.219 sorry everybody, I have to go to the bathroom. And 0:10:11.259 --> 0:10:12.979 now the problem is is like I don't know whether 0:10:13.019 --> 0:10:15.539 I did damage, or whether I've just set things off, 0:10:15.659 --> 0:10:16.779 or this kid is. 0:10:17.219 --> 0:10:18.979 Just on my bladder in a way that it shouldn't. 0:10:19.019 --> 0:10:21.459 I don't think you need damage in your liberated woman 0:10:21.539 --> 0:10:25.379 drop because it's just it's part and parcel right third pregnancy. 0:10:25.019 --> 0:10:27.779 Potentially, but it had never happened prior. And now if 0:10:27.819 --> 0:10:31.539 I cough too hard, if I sneeze too hard, yeah, 0:10:31.619 --> 0:10:34.699 it's just it's become part of my everyday staple. 0:10:34.819 --> 0:10:35.699 You're not alone, Laura. 0:10:35.779 --> 0:10:38.618 There are some pretty high statistics on women that having continence. 0:10:39.019 --> 0:10:41.739 It's I don't want you to be embarrassed. We all 0:10:41.779 --> 0:10:43.979 pretended it didn't happen. We all turned a blind eye, 0:10:44.379 --> 0:10:47.499 and I even spilt my water bottle to try and cover. 0:10:47.299 --> 0:10:48.539 And someone mopped up the puddle. 0:10:48.739 --> 0:10:50.819 So someone said, what is this and I said, sorry, 0:10:50.859 --> 0:10:52.699 clumsy me again, I spilled. 0:10:52.979 --> 0:10:54.899 It's my lime cordial juice. Apologies. 0:10:55.299 --> 0:10:57.619 You know why I think I forget you're pregnant is 0:10:57.659 --> 0:10:59.739 because on the rare occasions I do remember, I try 0:10:59.779 --> 0:11:01.939 and feel it moving, and you're like, oh, it's so movie. 0:11:02.019 --> 0:11:03.659 Every time I go and try and touch it, it 0:11:03.819 --> 0:11:06.459 just freezes, like it doesn't want to move for me, 0:11:06.579 --> 0:11:07.459 I think it knows. 0:11:07.259 --> 0:11:10.259 It's because you're very aggressive anytime you come over. Yeah. 0:11:10.619 --> 0:11:12.379 So like just before this is literally just before we 0:11:12.379 --> 0:11:14.259 started the show, I was like, oh, the baby's kicking. 0:11:14.259 --> 0:11:16.779 Heaps come and feel and Brick came over and she 0:11:16.819 --> 0:11:18.099 didn't stick her hand on my belly. 0:11:18.139 --> 0:11:20.939 She gave me an alf a caut You just you 0:11:20.939 --> 0:11:23.139 don't rest your hand, you like really get in there. 0:11:23.179 --> 0:11:24.979 And then had to sort of poke it to make 0:11:25.019 --> 0:11:25.458 it move. 0:11:26.459 --> 0:11:28.819 Do you not. I'm still trying to like feel it out. 0:11:29.059 --> 0:11:30.739 And then Britt says, oh, don't worry, I have a 0:11:30.779 --> 0:11:33.019 technique to get it to move. She lifts up my 0:11:33.179 --> 0:11:36.819 shirt and gives me a raspberry on my stomach. 0:11:36.899 --> 0:11:39.259 I'm a full grown woman having my third. 0:11:39.019 --> 0:11:41.939 Baby, and I don't think I've had a raspberry. 0:11:41.379 --> 0:11:42.659 In a whole lot. 0:11:42.819 --> 0:11:44.979 Fifteen years, No, fifteen years, twenty five. 0:11:44.859 --> 0:11:46.979 Years, A long time, you're well, long time, you're welcome. 0:11:47.219 --> 0:11:47.979 I enjoyed it. 0:11:47.979 --> 0:11:50.259 It is a trick that you are supposed to do 0:11:50.339 --> 0:11:52.179 like it must be like the vibrations or something like 0:11:52.219 --> 0:11:54.979 when you do a raspberry it makes it tickle or something. 0:11:55.019 --> 0:11:56.139 I don't believe that for a while. 0:11:56.259 --> 0:11:58.939 Second, I don't believe that giving someone a raspberry makes 0:11:58.939 --> 0:11:59.979 a baby move in their belly. 0:12:00.299 --> 0:12:05.099 Here we go. No, actually, I stand correction. 0:12:05.379 --> 0:12:08.059 No, blowing raspberries on a pregnant belly is unlikely to 0:12:08.099 --> 0:12:11.059 do anything. There you go. Well, I just treated you 0:12:11.099 --> 0:12:14.539 to a little little raspberry for your for your Tuesday. 0:12:14.579 --> 0:12:16.259 Well, I stand corrected. I've been raspberry and a lot 0:12:16.259 --> 0:12:18.979 of pregnant women. I hope you enjoyed it as much 0:12:19.019 --> 0:12:23.219 as I did. You're living your learning. I'm mind blown. 0:12:23.259 --> 0:12:24.139 I'm really mind blown. 0:12:24.699 --> 0:12:27.259 Sorry, Laura, because you don't have to apply. Okay, Well, 0:12:27.259 --> 0:12:28.419 after the break, let's just. 0:12:28.539 --> 0:12:30.219 Really get out of here, because I feel really embarrassed 0:12:30.219 --> 0:12:30.539 and all. 0:12:32.299 --> 0:12:33.099 Over the weekend. 0:12:33.299 --> 0:12:37.339 Last weekend it was my oldest daughter, Marley May. It 0:12:37.379 --> 0:12:39.219 was her six year birthday party. 0:12:39.379 --> 0:12:40.459 Six years. 0:12:40.499 --> 0:12:41.539 Just what it is? 0:12:41.819 --> 0:12:46.819 Six six. It's her sixth year. I'm just six on 0:12:46.859 --> 0:12:48.739 the planet. Yeah, she was six. 0:12:48.779 --> 0:12:51.379 We had a birthday party for her and we had 0:12:51.419 --> 0:12:53.939 a pinata. I think the pinadas are just like the 0:12:53.939 --> 0:12:57.339 most staple kid's birthday party. If you need something to 0:12:57.339 --> 0:12:59.179 do that's going to tie them over for ten minutes, 0:12:59.379 --> 0:13:00.779 and you also want to get all all these out 0:13:00.779 --> 0:13:02.659 of your own house. You stuff at Pinada, you hang 0:13:02.699 --> 0:13:04.379 it up and you let the kids whack. 0:13:04.219 --> 0:13:05.939 It for a while. I'm a pinard A super fan. 0:13:05.979 --> 0:13:07.859 I'm not gonna lie. You're a Pinada super fan. 0:13:08.019 --> 0:13:10.499 Every year. I pinada once a year. 0:13:10.819 --> 0:13:12.779 People. People don't know this about me. 0:13:13.179 --> 0:13:17.939 I am a secret pinata just by yourself or Pinada. 0:13:18.099 --> 0:13:22.379 It is my family's Christmas tradition since literally there's not 0:13:22.419 --> 0:13:23.979 a year we don't have a photo since we were like. 0:13:23.979 --> 0:13:24.579 Three years old. 0:13:24.579 --> 0:13:28.259 Like our whole family, all my cousins and Narnie's and everyone, 0:13:28.339 --> 0:13:30.139 Pinarda is every single Christmas. 0:13:30.179 --> 0:13:32.219 So I posted it on Instagram. 0:13:32.379 --> 0:13:34.019 Right there was a couple of photos from the birthday 0:13:34.019 --> 0:13:35.499 party that I put up and I posted one of 0:13:35.499 --> 0:13:39.139 my stories on Instagram. I never realized that pinadas were controversial. 0:13:39.659 --> 0:13:41.779 I didn't know this well, apparently they are. And the 0:13:41.779 --> 0:13:44.019 reason why I say this is because not you, I 0:13:44.059 --> 0:13:49.179 mean sorry, people like just have some fun, let's go home. No, 0:13:49.219 --> 0:13:52.099 there was quite a few people in my DMS who Firstly, 0:13:52.259 --> 0:13:55.859 the question was raised around the violence of pinadas. There 0:13:55.899 --> 0:13:59.099 was also questions about you're. 0:13:58.899 --> 0:13:59.939 Trying to get a lolly. 0:14:00.699 --> 0:14:04.019 You're getting a lolly. I'm sorry, I can't even I'm 0:14:04.019 --> 0:14:06.139 going to go home. I can't even listen. It is okay. 0:14:06.299 --> 0:14:09.819 Let me let me explain to you when it was raised. 0:14:09.939 --> 0:14:11.899 Firstly, I did read one of these comments that was 0:14:11.899 --> 0:14:13.779 sent to me and I was a bit like, oh, 0:14:13.819 --> 0:14:15.739 I see your point, but I think it's a stretch. 0:14:16.259 --> 0:14:19.539 So we always talk to our kids about not being. 0:14:19.379 --> 0:14:22.259 Violent, right about like never hit things, don't hit people, 0:14:22.579 --> 0:14:25.339 don't throw your toys, like behave in a way that's 0:14:25.859 --> 0:14:27.579 showing kindness, I guess, and that's the thing that you 0:14:27.619 --> 0:14:31.499 always try and uphold with your children. And then at 0:14:31.579 --> 0:14:34.419 birthday parties or once a year, apparently if you're Brittany Hockley, 0:14:34.739 --> 0:14:37.539 you get your kid's favorite thing, like what's their most 0:14:37.539 --> 0:14:40.699 favorite thing in the entire world world a unicorn, Let's 0:14:40.779 --> 0:14:44.099 stuff it, let's fist it with lollies and then give 0:14:44.099 --> 0:14:45.819 it a noose and hang it up by the neck 0:14:46.179 --> 0:14:47.939 and get all the kids in the line to smack 0:14:47.979 --> 0:14:51.659 it with a pole. Now, this person was so, I know, 0:14:52.019 --> 0:14:54.299 I know, I know, and I agree with you. I 0:14:54.339 --> 0:14:56.379 was like, guys, I think that we've gone too far. 0:14:56.459 --> 0:15:00.499 The PC police need to calm down. However, someone then 0:15:00.659 --> 0:15:03.499 sent to me that there are a type of pinnata 0:15:03.899 --> 0:15:06.139 called a no hit pinada. 0:15:06.259 --> 0:15:07.859 So it's a pinada that's been. 0:15:07.779 --> 0:15:13.419 Specifically the parents who want to have no violence. It's 0:15:13.539 --> 0:15:16.059 not violent, wait for it, and it comes with all 0:15:16.059 --> 0:15:18.139 these strings in the belly, and so it's kind of 0:15:18.179 --> 0:15:20.019 like a lucky dip. So it's got all these different 0:15:20.019 --> 0:15:22.379 strings that hang down from it. And the little kids 0:15:22.379 --> 0:15:24.819 go and they pull a string, and then that one 0:15:24.819 --> 0:15:25.539 didn't do anything. 0:15:25.539 --> 0:15:26.699 Another pull a string. 0:15:26.499 --> 0:15:28.259 That one didn't do anything, And if you get the 0:15:28.339 --> 0:15:31.619 right string, you go boom, and then the belly of 0:15:31.699 --> 0:15:34.419 the unicorn opens up and all the lollies rain down 0:15:34.459 --> 0:15:35.779 and the kids downing underneath. 0:15:35.779 --> 0:15:41.299 Fun does it? No? No kid wants to pull a string. Guys. 0:15:41.819 --> 0:15:45.099 I'm all for being progressive, but this is ridiculous. 0:15:45.139 --> 0:15:47.259 Like, just okay, hear me out. 0:15:47.579 --> 0:15:50.259 You don't have to have a unicorn. Why don't you 0:15:50.339 --> 0:15:52.859 get a criminal a pinata in the shape of a 0:15:52.899 --> 0:15:55.499 house and call it renovation. Teach your kids young, we're 0:15:55.539 --> 0:15:57.099 knocking the house down, we're gonna rebuild. 0:15:57.179 --> 0:15:58.339 It's an episode of the block. 0:15:58.499 --> 0:16:01.579 It's not violent. You're literally trying to have fun to 0:16:01.859 --> 0:16:03.499 It's like like playing baseball. 0:16:03.499 --> 0:16:05.539 You're swinging about what we're gonna not play baseball? 0:16:05.739 --> 0:16:08.459 Like, what's the problem here? Stop taking away all fun 0:16:08.539 --> 0:16:09.179 from the kids. 0:16:09.339 --> 0:16:11.459 Okay, well you heard it here first. Britney's against it. 0:16:11.659 --> 0:16:14.779 I'm not giving I can see that, and no one, 0:16:14.859 --> 0:16:16.499 no one's ever gonna ask you to. I will never 0:16:16.579 --> 0:16:18.299 ever give you a no hit pinada. 0:16:18.339 --> 0:16:19.219