Speaker 1: Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut.
Speaker 2: I'm Laura and I'm Britney.
Speaker 1: And today today we have a very very special episode
Speaker 1: for you. Now, Laura, you actually say this every week,
Speaker 1: today's a special app, but today actually is a special app.
Speaker 2: It is a special ap.
Speaker 1: Why because we're talking about Britney. So, as you all know,
Speaker 1: Paradise Paradise episode last night, Brittany went home.
Speaker 2: It was a bit weird.
Speaker 1: We're going to get into it, but we decided that
Speaker 1: today we're going to not do any acciently unfiltered. We're
Speaker 1: not going to do any ask guncuts because we're recording
Speaker 1: this episode at nine point thirty pm and we are here.
Speaker 2: In my bedroom bla la la la in the studio.
Speaker 3: I mean, and we really thought we'd bring you an
Speaker 3: episode that is all about BRIT's experience in Paradise, what
Speaker 3: is happening now in her life, where she's at, so
Speaker 3: that you can get your story across.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and you guys, I appreciate your patience.
Speaker 1: You guys have waited a very very long time for
Speaker 1: me to be able to openly speak about my life
Speaker 1: and what's been going on. So I appreciate that obviously
Speaker 1: there is a lot to talk about and we will
Speaker 1: get into it. And everyone's been so patient with the
Speaker 1: lack of dating stories that you've brought to this podcast,
Speaker 1: because from the very beginning, that was your one fucking job.
Speaker 1: But that was what we just meant when I said,
Speaker 1: you guys my patient, that's literally what, man? Where do
Speaker 1: we start? I actually thought, I'm like, Laura and I
Speaker 1: were just talking and now Laura obviously knows everything, and
Speaker 1: we look at each other and we're like, how do
Speaker 1: we even do this? Like there's so much to get
Speaker 1: through and so many weird things. I mean, how weird
Speaker 1: was that exit? Oh?
Speaker 2: Like, jump straight to the end.
Speaker 1: How weird was that? I'm still like, what the fuck? Like,
Speaker 1: why did no one say goodbye? Why didn't you tell
Speaker 1: anyone that why you were leaving? Why did you just
Speaker 1: walk out?
Speaker 3: Why did Tim just say hey, I want to leave
Speaker 3: and you're like, okay, let's go. I was a three
Speaker 3: second conversation, which I'm going to take a guess that
Speaker 3: there was more to it than that. But let's like
Speaker 3: rewind to probably the first and most important question that
Speaker 3: I think everyone would want to know.
Speaker 2: Are you still with Tim?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: I am not with Tim. Do you want to start
Speaker 2: there with what happened? Let's just start day one. Okay, Go,
Speaker 2: you take the bike. You're supposed to be an interview
Speaker 2: on you talk. I'll sit here. This is a great
Speaker 2: therapy session for me.
Speaker 1: I guess one of the big questions we had that
Speaker 1: came in was, I mean Tim and I got together
Speaker 1: on day one, and people are sort of like, didn't
Speaker 1: see that coming, and everyone wanted to know why and
Speaker 1: what it was and what the attraction was there, because
Speaker 1: obviously I think, I mean, yes, we are very very
Speaker 1: polar opposite humans. And to be honest, I had never
Speaker 1: dated anyone like Tim never ever, didn't ever think I would.
Speaker 1: But what I look for in someone, what I always have.
Speaker 1: It was the same thing with Nick was humor. Someone
Speaker 1: that makes me laugh and he's just silly, it doesn't
Speaker 1: take life seriously, and someone that makes me feel good.
Speaker 1: And Tim was that from day one. I was just
Speaker 1: constantly in hysterics and that wasn't shown a lot, but
Speaker 1: that was my initial attraction.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, we all know how much you.
Speaker 1: Like a red flag fucking love. I think he had
Speaker 1: a red hat on red shorts on day one and
Speaker 1: I was like, that's like a moster a flame adam, Okay,
Speaker 1: but like jokes aside, How are you feeling now? Also,
Speaker 1: I do want to say that the way I deal
Speaker 1: with a lot of things, and you probably know this
Speaker 1: by now, but it is laughter and humor, So I
Speaker 1: might joke a lot, but like my heart hurts.
Speaker 3: How are you feeling now about everything now? But like
Speaker 3: now that you can talk openly, now that you can
Speaker 3: kind of tell your story, now that you're no longer
Speaker 3: having to live in this purgatory or limbo about where
Speaker 3: your life is at and whether you're with him or
Speaker 3: not with him, or what's happening, how are you feeling.
Speaker 1: Straight up relief? I'm just so relieved. It has been
Speaker 1: nine or ten months, which is such a long time
Speaker 1: to be in this in purgatory, like you said, just
Speaker 1: to be in limbo, not being able to publicly date
Speaker 1: and not being able to tell everyone in your life
Speaker 1: what's actually really going on. You just feel like this
Speaker 1: sense of responsibility because you sign your life away. I'm
Speaker 1: just so relieved that I can get my life back
Speaker 1: on trop Tell me how long does the actual filming
Speaker 1: of Bachelor and Paradise go for the filming from day
Speaker 1: dot to the end. The filming from the beginning to
Speaker 1: the end. Literally the whole thing is just under a month.
Speaker 1: It is so short, like The Bachelor's three and a
Speaker 1: half months Paradise one month max.
Speaker 2: And how many weeks were you in there?
Speaker 1: So I left about three and a half weeks, so
Speaker 1: only a few days I guess before the end, which
Speaker 1: in the grand scheme of things, when you think about it,
Speaker 1: like three and a half weeks is such a short
Speaker 1: period of time to be dating someone and to be
Speaker 1: getting to know someone. And we opened up said, like
Speaker 1: yesterday I put a thing up on our Life on
Speaker 1: cut podcast Instagram page and asked you guys, what questions
Speaker 1: you have for Britain? What you want to know about
Speaker 1: the mechanics of how the show works, and also just
Speaker 1: like her experience on the show. And one of the
Speaker 1: main questions that we got that kept on coming up
Speaker 1: time and time again was people asking like, what was
Speaker 1: it that you saw in Tim when it's so obvious
Speaker 1: to the viewer that he was behaving so badly and
Speaker 1: he was stirring the pot and kind of just being
Speaker 1: a little trouble maker, Like what, like, how did you
Speaker 1: overlook that, and why didn't you see that at the time.
Speaker 1: I totally get where that question comes from. After watching,
Speaker 1: after living it for three and a half weeks, and
Speaker 1: now watching the edit back, I can I get that
Speaker 1: question one hundred percent.
Speaker 2: I would be asking the same question. I think. What's
Speaker 2: really hard to understand, but really important.
Speaker 1: To understand, is that we filmed twenty four hours a
Speaker 1: day day and you guys have shown an hour max
Speaker 1: of fifteen people, So you're seeing that. You're seeing like
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes worth of day's worth of filming of someone.
Speaker 1: And Tim definitely is a shit stirer, and he definitely
Speaker 1: ruffled some feathers, and he had some behavior that was
Speaker 1: very questionable. He had behavior I was really unimpressed with.
Speaker 1: But the things you didn't see were some really sweet
Speaker 1: moments with us on our own him making a lot
Speaker 1: of people laugh and still feel good. But you have
Speaker 1: to remember too that you guys have seen a lot
Speaker 1: of the conversations that the boys have together that are
Speaker 1: quite toxic and quite horrible, and you have to remember
Speaker 1: that I don't see those. That's just the boys off
Speaker 1: talking together. So I don't see most of what you see.
Speaker 1: I didn't see the extent.
Speaker 2: Of what was going on.
Speaker 1: I didn't see the conversations behind closed doors and the
Speaker 1: conversations between the boys.
Speaker 2: I didn't see it.
Speaker 1: I saw snippets in a group where you know, he
Speaker 1: got angry in the fight, where all the boys did.
Speaker 1: But from what I know actually happened, that was equal
Speaker 1: between all the boys. That was not one person that
Speaker 1: started anything. It was just a big build up and
Speaker 1: everybody imploded. So I guess that's how it happened. A
Speaker 1: lot of people just think that he was like that
Speaker 1: twenty four to seven, and how could I be with
Speaker 1: someone like that?
Speaker 2: But there were definitely some nice moments.
Speaker 3: But also I think what people don't realize is this idea,
Speaker 3: like when we watch the show back as a viewer,
Speaker 3: you get this real three sixty view of what's happening.
Speaker 3: You see contestants when they're on their own with their friends,
Speaker 3: when they're with their partner, you see and you get
Speaker 3: to really get this insight into all aspects of them
Speaker 3: and three sixty degree of their personality. But when you're
Speaker 3: in it, it's like you only still see what you're
Speaker 3: exposed to, what you actually experienced one on one with
Speaker 3: that person. But then in such a short timeframe. I
Speaker 3: think we've all been guilty of this. When you've dated
Speaker 3: someone for only three weeks, it takes that long to
Speaker 3: actually start to see the things that are the red flags.
Speaker 3: Sometimes red flag can be diluted by the fact that
Speaker 3: they're also doing really nice things throughout the day as well,
Speaker 3: so you kind of forgive that first one and forgive
Speaker 3: that second one, and then eventually you're like, who the
Speaker 3: fuck am I the so many red flags here?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we're in paradise, so we would spend hours.
Speaker 2: On paddleboards and having fun and.
Speaker 1: Having really cute, sweet little moments and all of us
Speaker 1: playing volleyball together. And it's the honeymoon phase on steroids.
Speaker 1: That's what paradise is. It's the honeymoon phase on steroids.
Speaker 1: And it's also like obviously drama phase on steroids.
Speaker 2: And then there's single beds as well, which is every skid.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it make sleep me hard, but it's yeah, it's
Speaker 1: a different world everything. It's like The Bachelor, same thing,
Speaker 1: you know, how heated it gets and how driven and
Speaker 1: sped up everything is. It's like three months on the Bachelor,
Speaker 1: it's like dating somebody for a year, it's like it's
Speaker 1: very intense and emotions flying being in that environment. And
Speaker 1: I know obviously from Matt and Night it's a complete
Speaker 1: pressure cooker. Like in our season, like it's three and
Speaker 1: a half months of filming Max, so we'd been a
Speaker 1: not each other for three and a half months, and
Speaker 1: at the end of it, you're in love with someone,
Speaker 1: like genuinely in love with someone, Like those feelings aren't manufactured,
Speaker 1: I think for you know, we're definitely not for the
Speaker 1: couples who have ended up long term together with being
Speaker 1: married and having kids and whatnot. But it just really
Speaker 1: like condenses those feelings down and reduces it down, and
Speaker 1: so you you just end up having this really intense
Speaker 1: and euphoric relationship when you're in that environment. It's really sad, Like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's just really hard to explain this story because I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm going to be jumping forward and back
Speaker 1: all the time. There's so much I want to say,
Speaker 1: but it's really I found it really sad, and I'm
Speaker 1: really disappointed with what were shown of Tim and I
Speaker 1: because we were the strongest couple on there for sure
Speaker 1: during the show. We were together from day one, and
Speaker 1: they didn't show it. They did not show any of
Speaker 1: their story, didn't show all the really sweet moments. They
Speaker 1: really just showed a lot of the drama, which I
Speaker 1: found really disappointing because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: it's supposed to be a show about people finding love
Speaker 1: and being happy and that just wasn't shown. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: guess I'm a bit sad that, finally on a show,
Speaker 1: I did find some happiness, And sure you didn't get
Speaker 1: to see it.
Speaker 2: So what happened when you left Paradise? There was a
Speaker 2: lot you did not see.
Speaker 1: That was the strangest exit, Like why did anyone even
Speaker 1: ask where we went?
Speaker 3: Literally, you guys walked out and nobody even was like, hey,
Speaker 3: where's Tim and Brittany, Which is what led me to
Speaker 3: think instantly, and like, I obviously we've spoken about it now,
Speaker 3: but which is what led me instantly to think that
Speaker 3: that's not the ending, Like there had to have been
Speaker 3: more to it that didn't make sense from like an
Speaker 3: edit and production perspective, that they had to sniff it
Speaker 3: and reduce it down. So I think anybody watching that
Speaker 3: felt it was bizarre. And I know from our Facebook
Speaker 3: group chat that every single person who was commenting on
Speaker 3: last night's thread was like, what the fuck was that?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my whole inbox is I'm so perplexed, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't get what just happened. You just ghosted everybody,
Speaker 1: like literally I single person in Paradise. Hi Josh's message
Speaker 1: and he's like, I love how you just walked out
Speaker 1: of Paradise and you've never seen it again. No one
Speaker 1: asked where you were. What Lowen says anything. No one
Speaker 1: says goodbye. And it's true.
Speaker 3: It was the strangest ending that Paradise has ever had
Speaker 3: taught me through what happened when you left Paradise and
Speaker 3: you and Tim were like, bla la la, we love
Speaker 3: each other, let's be together.
Speaker 1: What happened firstly, when we did leave, the ending was very,
Speaker 1: very different, and obviously a lot more went on, and
Speaker 1: Channel ten that's what they've decided.
Speaker 2: They've just decided to.
Speaker 1: Show a snippet of us leaving happily, which you know,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, Tim did ask me
Speaker 1: to leave. He didn't want to be there anymore. And
Speaker 1: at the end of the day they're making the TV show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I did. He said he wanted to leave, and
Speaker 1: I never questioned that to be honest, I could tell
Speaker 1: that this environment was not right for him anymore.
Speaker 2: That environment was not right for me. It was so toxic.
Speaker 1: And I think that's why you never really saw me
Speaker 1: on there, because I would just like scurry awayne put
Speaker 1: my head in the sound like an ostriach every time
Speaker 1: this drama came out, which was every day, so I just.
Speaker 2: Everyone every day was like, hey, where were you last night?
Speaker 2: I was like, who knows? You're Like, how I wasn't
Speaker 2: there sipping to martini by the pool, babe.
Speaker 1: When we left Tim, Tim was lovely and saying all
Speaker 1: the right things. He was always very sweet to me
Speaker 1: in the show. For the majority of the time anyway.
Speaker 1: He was like, you're my right or die. I can't
Speaker 1: wait to have this relationship with you, and like We're
Speaker 1: going to do so many amazing things together. You're the
Speaker 1: best thing I've ever come across. You know. He just
Speaker 1: thought I was the ants pants, and I just thought
Speaker 1: he was great as well, because he just made me
Speaker 1: laugh so much. And I really, really from the bottom
Speaker 1: of my heart, thought, wow, like this is it. I
Speaker 1: found someone that makes me really happy, and I found
Speaker 1: someone that really wants to be with me, and I
Speaker 1: believed everything he ever said to me. It turns out
Speaker 1: that I feel like everything he ever said to me
Speaker 1: was not true. I don't want to say a lie.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's the right word, but I think
Speaker 1: it was exaggerated. I think he was exaggerating those feelings.
Speaker 1: And I say that because it was pretty horrific time
Speaker 1: after the show. To be completely honest, we only really
Speaker 1: saw each other at one time for about five days.
Speaker 2: We visited. He visited me straight after the show.
Speaker 1: We went and met his family, and I say, to
Speaker 1: his family, he met my family, like.
Speaker 2: All my family.
Speaker 1: I'm talking like, oh, cousins and everything. This is Christmas time,
Speaker 1: Christmas party, so like it was a baptism for five baby,
Speaker 1: imagine me, but like fifty of me was there and
Speaker 1: he was like, who's this scaley wag you brought in?
Speaker 2: Exactly. Everyone was a bit perplexed. Everyone was like, who
Speaker 2: is this guy?
Speaker 1: Yeah. It's really hard to say because I don't want to.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to go into deep detail because there
Speaker 1: are some things that should stay between two people, for sure,
Speaker 1: But I think to put it lightly and to sum
Speaker 1: it up, Tim was a very different person outside of
Speaker 1: Paradise to who he was in Paradise and everything he
Speaker 1: said to me, the way he made me feel, the
Speaker 1: way he was speaking, the things he promised me, none
Speaker 1: of that translated to the outside world none. And I
Speaker 1: was so gobsmacked at the person that he became. The
Speaker 1: second we walked outside of those doors. It was just
Speaker 1: like I was talking to a different person.
Speaker 3: And then how did it end up resolving? Like how
Speaker 3: did you guys end up not being together? Like was
Speaker 3: that your call?
Speaker 2: Was that? His call?
Speaker 3: Was it in this five days? Like how soon after
Speaker 3: paradise did you guys call it quits?
Speaker 2: I guess no.
Speaker 1: One actually really called it. So basically, he just wanted
Speaker 1: to party. He in no way wanted to be in
Speaker 1: a relationship with anyone. He wanted to party hard, and
Speaker 1: he just didn't want anyone around. So I was there
Speaker 1: with him and he basically just left me alone. And
Speaker 1: when partied hard. Again, I'm not going to go into detail,
Speaker 1: but he just didn't come home one night and I
Speaker 1: was there with him, and that's it. So I didn't
Speaker 1: know where he was, he.
Speaker 2: Didn't contact me, nothing like, nothing like that.
Speaker 1: And then the next day we just had this really
Speaker 1: big argument and I said, is this who you are?
Speaker 1: I was he'd done a few times that week, like
Speaker 1: just had just gone out and gone hard. And I
Speaker 1: just said, is this who you are? Because this isn't
Speaker 1: the person that This isn't the person that I signed
Speaker 1: up for. And you're not the person that you were
Speaker 1: showing me, and you're not doing any things you said
Speaker 1: you want to do, and you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, words and actions are kind of not really aligned here, buddy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And we had this big fight. We'll not a fight,
Speaker 1: but I was just so because I don't fight, but
Speaker 1: I was just really beside myself. I was in tears,
Speaker 1: and I just thought, how could I have waited eight
Speaker 1: years to find someone to finally open up to and
Speaker 1: love and be with and be vulnerable with. And this
Speaker 1: is who it is and this is how you're treating me.
Speaker 1: I was like, I have not waited this long to
Speaker 1: be walked all over. So I said, I can't be
Speaker 1: with someone like this. If you're if you want to
Speaker 1: be with me, you need to step up and you
Speaker 1: can't do this and you've got to treat me with
Speaker 1: some respect. And he basically just said no. He said, no,
Speaker 1: I can't. This is what I this is what I
Speaker 1: am and I'm not in a place to be with you,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, why did you ask me five days ago?
Speaker 1: So leave paradise with you? Because all you want to
Speaker 1: do is be with me, and you can't imagine life
Speaker 1: without me. Five days earlier, none of I just felt
Speaker 1: like none of it was real. I felt like it
Speaker 1: was just a big trick.
Speaker 3: How do you feel now, especially like watching it all back,
Speaker 3: like that's.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I mean, I like, I love you, Britt, and I
Speaker 3: know how hard this has been in the last couple
Speaker 3: of weeks and months, and I know that, Like now
Speaker 3: there is this relief of being able to talk about it,
Speaker 3: but there is also this like feeling of what, Like
Speaker 3: how the fuck did I put up with that? Like
Speaker 3: how did that even happen? What am I doing? But
Speaker 3: how do you feel now that it's put to bed
Speaker 3: a little bit?
Speaker 2: I remember it leaving him.
Speaker 1: I remember having this argument and getting in my car
Speaker 1: and being like, I have to drive back to Sydney
Speaker 1: then right now. I cried the whole way back. And
Speaker 1: I'm everyone that knows me knows I'm not overly emotional
Speaker 1: the majority of the time, but I really just thought
Speaker 1: that this was my happy ending, and I was just
Speaker 1: so hurt that I felt like I'd been lied to
Speaker 1: and I felt like the wool had been pulled over
Speaker 1: my eyes, and I felt like I'd finally opened up
Speaker 1: to someone that just didn't have an ounce of respect
Speaker 1: for me. I cried all the way back to Sydney,
Speaker 1: and then I'm not kidding, I don't think I ever
Speaker 1: heard from him again. That's it.
Speaker 2: So I didn't.
Speaker 1: I just came back and was really upset, and I thought, okay,
Speaker 1: let's just have a few days to cool down, you know,
Speaker 1: because I'm big on not sending a message or anything
Speaker 1: when you're mad.
Speaker 2: So I wrote to him and I just I basically, you.
Speaker 1: Know, when you go through like a breakup of sorts,
Speaker 1: you still don't see what's actually in front of your eyes.
Speaker 2: And you still trying to make excuses, and you still
Speaker 2: want a.
Speaker 1: Person in your life, like I really loved having to
Speaker 1: him in my life, and I liked the way he
Speaker 1: made me feel on the show, and I missed that
Speaker 1: feeling and I missed that and I thought, Okay, maybe
Speaker 1: we'll stay friends and we'll see.
Speaker 2: Where it goes down the track.
Speaker 1: So I messaged him and still just said like, if
Speaker 1: you're going through a hard time, know that I'm always
Speaker 1: here for you and be really great. You know, we've
Speaker 1: been through so much together, and really great if we
Speaker 1: stay in contact and we're friends and see what happens.
Speaker 1: And he just didn't write back because I'd just never
Speaker 1: heard it from him again until literally the day the
Speaker 1: show started. Nothing not a thing now zero. Branni got
Speaker 1: ghosted hard, like hard and for no reason, like I
Speaker 1: just I can't even you could give me a million
Speaker 1: dollars to tell you a reason why he would have
Speaker 1: done that to me, and there's nothing. So yeah, I
Speaker 1: didn't hear from him until like recently when the show started,
Speaker 1: and he explained some things to me, and he just
Speaker 1: said he didn't know how to handle everything. He didn't
Speaker 1: know how to He'd just come off Angie season of
Speaker 1: a Bachelor, where he was dumped basically straight onto Paradise,
Speaker 1: thrown into this world he hadn't had been exposed to before,
Speaker 1: so all of a sudden, the limelight was on him.
Speaker 1: He went straight from there to dating me, and he
Speaker 1: said he just didn't know how to handle that. And
Speaker 1: then when we got into the real world, obviously it's
Speaker 1: a secret, like you can't date in public, you can't
Speaker 1: go out, you can't go get a coffee, you can't
Speaker 1: be seen together. And Tim's very recognizable, so it's not
Speaker 1: like you can just sneak down the road. And he
Speaker 1: just said he just didn't handle it well, he didn't
Speaker 1: know what to do with it. It all got too
Speaker 1: much and he has since apologized. Now, after all this,
Speaker 1: Simon said that he never wanted to hurt me and
Speaker 1: everything like that. So I do want to say we
Speaker 1: had some really, really great times on the show, and
Speaker 1: Tim does have a soft side as well, and unfortunately
Speaker 1: that side wasn't really shown. That's unfortunate for him because
Speaker 1: he does have some really good moments, but he just
Speaker 1: has a lot of growing up to do, and I
Speaker 1: think that's what we've seen.
Speaker 3: Obviously, he came off the back of the Andrew season
Speaker 3: and like Tim was the sweetheart of Andrew season, like
Speaker 3: everybody was rooting for him, and I think that then
Speaker 3: it must be now, especially with how this season has
Speaker 3: panned out, that there has been a real flip and
Speaker 3: there's definitely been some backlash towards his behavior and also
Speaker 3: Kieran's behavior on the show and how they've done the
Speaker 3: whole bro code thing in Kieran and Tim's defense. From
Speaker 3: what I've seen, they've never come out on their social
Speaker 3: media and been like it's it's a bad edit and
Speaker 3: blame the edit. But there has been loads of people,
Speaker 3: not just from Paradise but also from Batch series in
Speaker 3: general who have blamed the edit for how they've been portrayed.
Speaker 3: What is your opinion on this whole edit and like,
Speaker 3: is it a little bit from Colin A, a little bit
Speaker 3: from Colin B. Or is it producers making good people
Speaker 3: look bad?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Look, it's a really hard one because obviously, obviously people
Speaker 1: production can edit people. They can take snippets of conversations
Speaker 1: and put them in construct sentences basically to make you
Speaker 1: look like you've said something. It's called frank embarding people
Speaker 1: or frank and barting.
Speaker 2: They do do that.
Speaker 1: But you can't completely make someone's whole storyline like say
Speaker 1: the villain. You can't make a whole storyline of someone
Speaker 1: being a villain if they don't have that in them,
Speaker 1: or they do haven't said some of these things, because
Speaker 1: they've got to have sat it and they've got to
Speaker 1: have done these things.
Speaker 2: And it's like I wasn't.
Speaker 1: Ever shown to do anything say anything nasty because I
Speaker 1: just don't say anything nasty, so they can't even construct
Speaker 1: a sentence. So I think for the particular season, I
Speaker 1: think a lot of people's edit has been pretty accurate,
Speaker 1: to be honest, a lot of it's exaggerated. It's these
Speaker 1: people exaggerated for sure, Like I don't think any of
Speaker 1: them are as bad as what they've been made out
Speaker 1: to be. What happens is, I think I just said
Speaker 1: this before. So you see these bits where people are
Speaker 1: being nasty or this toxic masculinity or bullying or you
Speaker 1: see that, right, if you just saw them do one thing,
Speaker 1: you'd be like, oh, that sucks. They shouldn't have said that.
Speaker 1: But then if the rest of the edit was showing
Speaker 1: them being funny and nice and sweet, you don't remember it.
Speaker 1: What's happened on this season is that these people are
Speaker 1: only being shown so like Tim and Kieran for example,
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, what they've done and said has
Speaker 1: been pretty horrible, but they haven't shown any other part
Speaker 1: of them, which they do have some really great parts
Speaker 1: to them, both of them.
Speaker 2: It's just that you're getting a diluted version.
Speaker 1: You're getting really warded down and you're getting the tiniest,
Speaker 1: tiniest little piece.
Speaker 3: It almost makes like a character one dimensional. It stops
Speaker 3: them from being a person and they're you know, multifaceted
Speaker 3: who behave in all different ways and say all different things.
Speaker 3: It makes them at cast.
Speaker 1: To a role like you're a villain, you're the sweetheart,
Speaker 1: you're this person. I've always said as well, like from
Speaker 1: my experience, that they don't create villains, and they don't
Speaker 1: create bitchiness, Like the bitchiness is there, the villains are there.
Speaker 1: They just amplify a person's personality. So I completely agree
Speaker 1: with what you've just said.
Speaker 3: And obviously I wasn't in Paradise, so I can't speak
Speaker 3: for that experience, but I can speak for my own
Speaker 3: experience on the show.
Speaker 2: And I know, like from my season, all of the.
Speaker 3: People who were portrayed badly actually behaved badly on the show.
Speaker 3: And when people come out and totally blame the edit,
Speaker 3: I think that there is a level of responsibility to
Speaker 3: take on their own because it's so easy to come
Speaker 3: out and blame the edit.
Speaker 2: Anyone can do that.
Speaker 3: Anyone can act poorly and say really nasty things and
Speaker 3: behave really bitchy and then turn around and say that's
Speaker 3: not me, that's the edit. But there is an element
Speaker 3: of like, you had to say those bitchy things thinking
Speaker 3: it was funny and it's not funny.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think people use it as an excuse a lot.
Speaker 1: There are a lot of people, a lot of people
Speaker 1: I'm know and you know that I've said that I
Speaker 1: have used as an excuse. I'm sick of getting a
Speaker 1: bad edit. Things like that, exactly what you just said.
Speaker 1: You can't edit a whole show of someone, you know,
Speaker 1: the one person I do think, Oh okay, let me
Speaker 1: touch on the bro code thing with Tim and Kieran.
Speaker 1: I just cannot get on board with that. I think
Speaker 1: it was really really disrespectful. I think it was really
Speaker 1: unfair and also like crazy hypocritical, so hypocritical. I can't
Speaker 1: get on board with that at all.
Speaker 2: A lot of people have written.
Speaker 1: To me and commented on the Facebook page and stuff
Speaker 1: and said, you know, this is actually the.
Speaker 2: Thing that pissed me off the most. A lot of.
Speaker 1: People saying, control your man, Brittany, whyn't you controlling your man?
Speaker 1: You should be saying something too about you, And I
Speaker 1: just thought, hang on a second, I've got a lot
Speaker 1: of feels about this.
Speaker 2: Ay, I have known this guy for some of.
Speaker 1: This period one week, two weeks, three weeks when these
Speaker 1: things are happening. One week I've known this guy two
Speaker 1: It is not my responsibility or any woman's responsibility to
Speaker 1: control and be in charge of her partner, her boyfriend,
Speaker 1: her husband, her whatever it is, especially someone that you've
Speaker 1: known for two weeks. He's a grown adult. He can
Speaker 1: look after himself and he can make his own decisions.
Speaker 3: But exactly in the same vein that, like, you wouldn't
Speaker 3: allow someone to say control your woman, you know, from
Speaker 3: a guy if a female is behaving ballei or females
Speaker 3: doing something that somebody else doesn't like, saying control your
Speaker 3: woman is like, it's so objectifying. So I mean, it's
Speaker 3: not going to work on the flip side either.
Speaker 1: No. But also I definitely let it be known my
Speaker 1: thoughts on what was happening. I let him know how
Speaker 1: disappointed I was in his behavior, that what he was
Speaker 1: saying wasn't okay, that he had there were aspects of bullying.
Speaker 2: I let him know all of that.
Speaker 1: But I'm not the person that's going to bring him
Speaker 1: down and embarrass him and cause a scene in front
Speaker 1: of everyone else, because I think it's something that should
Speaker 1: be shared between two people. And I had those words
Speaker 1: to him in price, and he knew exactly how I felt,
Speaker 1: and he knew I was disappointed, and I think he
Speaker 1: even made a comment like I can't even look at
Speaker 1: Brittany at the moment because I know how disappointed she is.
Speaker 3: I'm sure there were times where you had those conversations,
Speaker 3: or even if you had had those conversations, there's no
Speaker 3: knowing for sure whether or not they would be shown
Speaker 3: on the show either, Like get we get such a
Speaker 3: small glimpse of what's happening on these shows. And like
Speaker 3: the thing to remember as well, guys, is it's a
Speaker 3: TV show. It's produced, it's created to be entertaining, So
Speaker 3: they're only going to take the most dramatic and like
Speaker 3: wild and insane bits because that's what makes the best TV.
Speaker 3: Like there's plenty of other ordinary, boring but lovely conversations
Speaker 3: that go on back and forth, and you just never
Speaker 3: see that stuff.
Speaker 1: And I did have conversations in front of people to
Speaker 1: Tim saying that it wasn't on it and that he can't.
Speaker 2: Speak like that. It's just that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys, you just don't see it. And I
Speaker 1: can't stress enough you. You hardly saw anything of me unfortunately,
Speaker 1: so you didn't get to see a lot of that
Speaker 1: sort of thing. But you, or if you listen into this,
Speaker 1: you know who I am, and you know what I'm about,
Speaker 1: and you know what I stand for, So you know
Speaker 1: that a lot of that I wouldn't have let flown.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have let fly. I wouldn't have let it
Speaker 2: flow flew, and it wouldn't have fled.
Speaker 3: One question, we did get a lot which I really
Speaker 3: want to ask you as well, is in regards to
Speaker 3: the edit. Talk to me about Jamie's edit, because that's
Speaker 3: been like the most controversial I think, like obviously Kieran
Speaker 3: and Tim and Kira and other people who have had
Speaker 3: you know, in quotation marks bad edits, but Jamie seemed
Speaker 3: to be the most unstable of edits, and I kind
Speaker 3: of want to know what your feelings are towards that
Speaker 3: and whether he had drawn a bit of the short straw.
Speaker 3: I do think that everyone on the show pretty much
Speaker 3: got an edit true to themselves, a little bit exaggerated,
Speaker 3: like I said, but you know, pretty true. Jamie is
Speaker 3: the only one that I feel like his edit was
Speaker 3: it was too much.
Speaker 1: How can I explain that Jamie? I really like Jamie.
Speaker 1: I have a lot of time for Jamie. Jamie has
Speaker 1: copped a lot of heat right for constantly wanting to
Speaker 1: give out roses. For example, he was ridiculed for that.
Speaker 1: I even laughed him on the show. I was like
Speaker 1: paining him out, like he's Oprah. But as a friend,
Speaker 1: I was like.
Speaker 2: You get a rose, you'll get a rose.
Speaker 1: But if you actually look at what he's doing and
Speaker 1: you listen to what he's saying and you think about it,
Speaker 1: he doesn't have a malicious bone in his body. The
Speaker 1: reason he's offering everyone his rose is because he talks
Speaker 1: to them and his heart breaks for them, and he's
Speaker 1: very empathetic. He feels for them, and he's like he
Speaker 1: takes it on. So he's like, look, don't worry, I'll
Speaker 1: sort it out.
Speaker 2: I'll get your rose.
Speaker 1: But then he doesn't think how he's going to sort
Speaker 1: it out. He just wants to in this moment, make
Speaker 1: this person feel better. And if you can go back
Speaker 1: and watch the whole thing again, you don't see Jamie
Speaker 1: say anything bad about anyone. His edit is that he's
Speaker 1: too emotional and basically too caring, too caring for Tim,
Speaker 1: too care for Brittany, too caring for everyone.
Speaker 3: The hypocrisy of it, because I think in today's day
Speaker 3: and age, we want a hero and we want to
Speaker 3: talk about how it's okay for men to have feelings
Speaker 3: and it's okay for men to be vulnerable, and it's
Speaker 3: okay for men to be and show a sighte of
Speaker 3: themselves that's soft and potentially a bit more insecure, you know,
Speaker 3: like that we're supposed to be creating an environment where
Speaker 3: that's okay. And so then to almost ridicule and make
Speaker 3: it a mockery and a joke and like really kind
Speaker 3: of dramatize and try and draw out the comedy element
Speaker 3: of somebody who's clearly a very sensitive person and a
Speaker 3: sensitive man. Oh I think he's a bit of a
Speaker 3: dangerous it's a dangerous day and age to do that stuff.
Speaker 2: In Yeah, I don't think it's cool.
Speaker 1: I don't think I don't think the amount of attention
Speaker 1: Jamie got and the kind of attention he got was right,
Speaker 1: and I don't think it was fair.
Speaker 2: And I think I think.
Speaker 1: People got on this bandwagon It's like it's a little snowball,
Speaker 1: you know, like one or two people start laughing and
Speaker 1: to make jokes, and then ten people do it, and
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, Australia was just jumping on
Speaker 1: board and sort of like they're all like cheap, but
Speaker 1: no one stopped to break it down and be like,
Speaker 1: hang on, this guy hasn't actually done anything bad. He's
Speaker 1: been thrown under the bus for what loving Tim too
Speaker 1: much because he just like they just adore each other.
Speaker 1: Jamie definitely endors Tim more. You're like, I just wish
Speaker 1: that I was a part of that. They're just like yeah,
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, guys, I'm also here. I had
Speaker 1: a lot of d MS with Jamie and yeah, the
Speaker 1: man cries, but there's nothing wrong with that. And like
Speaker 1: you just said, as a nation, we're always encouraging men
Speaker 1: to be themselves and be open and vulnerable and emotional,
Speaker 1: and then as soon as someone does it.
Speaker 3: This is what we do to them. We still make
Speaker 3: fun of them, I know. And that was my one
Speaker 3: thing that I don't think. I'm not putting this back
Speaker 3: on editing necessarily, but it is. It was people's first
Speaker 3: reaction to it, I think was to laugh at him
Speaker 3: being so vulnerable and like, you know, he expresses himself
Speaker 3: in a unique way. There's definitely no arguing that. But
Speaker 3: is that wrong and is it something that we should
Speaker 3: make jokes about. No, I don't think so. And when
Speaker 3: you said nobody had stood up for it, there was like,
Speaker 3: so Punky, you know what Punky does every week they
Speaker 3: do that recaps and Punky recaps.
Speaker 2: My loves Punky. We live for it, guys.
Speaker 1: But people had asked, you know, why did they leave
Speaker 1: Jamie's meltdown out of the recap, because that was such
Speaker 1: a pivotal part of one of the episodes, And Punky
Speaker 1: came out and said, well, we don't think it's funny.
Speaker 1: Like we make funny jokes because we love the show,
Speaker 1: but we don't think it's funny to make jokes at
Speaker 1: someone's mental health or at someone's expense in that way.
Speaker 1: So no, we left it out because it's it's irresponsible.
Speaker 1: And I think that was such a strong and important
Speaker 1: stance that a media outlet took. Tim was Jamie's support
Speaker 1: in there. He was his support network. And Jamie came
Speaker 1: to me and he was in tears and he's like,
Speaker 1: this is how I found out that Tim was going.
Speaker 1: He came to me and he said, Tim's going. He
Speaker 1: was crying, Tim's going. Tim's going. Please please stop him
Speaker 1: for your sake, For my sake, I was never going
Speaker 1: to make someone stay if they don't want you. And
Speaker 1: I said that to Tim and it wasn't shown. I said, look,
Speaker 1: I want you to stay, and I want to make
Speaker 1: this work, but I'm never going to make someone do
Speaker 1: something they don't want to do. And if you leave
Speaker 1: it because you don't want to be with me, and
Speaker 1: that's fine. Whilst I'd be okay without Tim, Jamie wouldn't
Speaker 1: be like.
Speaker 2: Jamie has to come with us.
Speaker 1: Yeah, their romance was real, and I don't know, I
Speaker 1: just feel like I feel like we need to cut
Speaker 1: Jamie a little bit of slack. And Jamie and Brittany,
Speaker 1: everyone's like Jamie has been asked to Brittany and they
Speaker 1: are really good friends. They're really really close. They always were.
Speaker 1: It's just that Brittany couldn't keep giving him friendship Rose
Speaker 1: and she's like, I love Jamie's a friend, but I'm
Speaker 1: not here for a friend. So she just made a
Speaker 1: decision based on herself and her happiness and I'm all
Speaker 1: for that. I think she's a bloody legend and I'm
Speaker 1: so glad Australia's finally on board with Brittany to see who.
Speaker 2: She is, because we've always known who she is.
Speaker 1: She was on my season obviously, she's always been a
Speaker 1: bit of the crazy Alaraken and this year we got
Speaker 1: to see who she really is and that's just like
Speaker 1: a really caring, emotional, soft loving person that just.
Speaker 2: Wants to be loved like everyone.
Speaker 3: So well, I think that that comes back to this
Speaker 3: idea that like when when you only see a certain
Speaker 3: side of someone, they become two dimensional.
Speaker 2: And I think before.
Speaker 3: We've only ever seen Litnany, We've never seen Brittany, and
Speaker 3: in this season we've obviously seen someone who has been
Speaker 3: more vulnerable and has been more real and has.
Speaker 2: Been more them.
Speaker 3: We were only ever exposed to the like whoo girl
Speaker 3: before and now we're actually getting a real insight to
Speaker 3: her as a whole person. Well, yeah, so I roomed
Speaker 3: with so I roomed with Eleanor for the first half,
Speaker 3: and then I roomed with Brittany slash Litnany the second half.
Speaker 3: And so when I say you roomed with them, you're
Speaker 3: in a bungalow with them, you get really close, and
Speaker 3: Brittany and I would have these huge dnms and she
Speaker 3: would be so upset at the end of every night,
Speaker 3: and I just remember saying to her, this is who
Speaker 3: Australia needs to see. Don't go out and put your
Speaker 3: front on and don't be the crazy person all the time.
Speaker 3: They want to see some vulnerability and they, like, I said,
Speaker 3: you're such an amazing human and what we're seeing, what
Speaker 3: I'm seeing from you now is what people need to see.
Speaker 1: And be softer and show your emotions and be vulnerable
Speaker 1: and tell these people how you feel and tell them
Speaker 1: what you're looking for. And I was like, that's so fine,
Speaker 1: and I'm so glad Australia's got to see that. She
Speaker 1: deserves it. She deserves to not be Littany but also
Speaker 1: be Brittany. She's not just Littany.
Speaker 2: She's a bloody legend.
Speaker 3: And I reckon, people have watched this now and they're like,
Speaker 3: that girl needs to be Bachelorette.
Speaker 2: She's a joy to watch on TV.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, could you imagine why I'm so ready
Speaker 1: stratwean Scotty, So before we get into like some of
Speaker 1: the other questions that people have written in.
Speaker 3: I just kind of want to go back to you now,
Speaker 3: And I mean, I don't know if we're gonna like
Speaker 3: this question, but I'm gonna ask you. But anyway, I
Speaker 3: guess like one of the things that I know has
Speaker 3: upset you or like has been difficult for you over
Speaker 3: the last couple of weeks as well, is like seeing
Speaker 3: this play out on TV and then obviously like we
Speaker 3: do this podcast and you talk a lot about your
Speaker 3: life and we give relationship advice, like how those two
Speaker 3: things haven't really matched up, and how what you wanted
Speaker 3: and your expectations weren't met.
Speaker 2: How do you feel about all that? Now?
Speaker 1: This has been the hardest year I have ever had,
Speaker 1: I reckon, especially emotionally, Like you know, are we so
Speaker 1: honest with you guys? Laura knows do reck Can I
Speaker 1: have a breakdown once a week? How often d Reckon
Speaker 1: I cry? There's been a good once a week cry. Like,
Speaker 1: to be honest, guys, I've been able to guess that
Speaker 1: Britain team weren't together. She hasn't been the happiest this year,
Speaker 1: but I mean it hasn't been like that. That unhappiness
Speaker 1: hasn't like penetrated and perforated throughout her whole life. But
Speaker 1: I mean there's definitely been days where you have sort
Speaker 1: of said to me, like, I just want my fucking
Speaker 1: life back. I've been sadder this year than I have
Speaker 1: ever been, and I think it's because, well, it's a
Speaker 1: lot of things.
Speaker 2: The year's shit. Twenty twenty shit anyway.
Speaker 1: So twenty twenty, Hell, it's drunk and it needs to
Speaker 1: go to the fuck home. Twenty twenty can go to
Speaker 1: bed now, Oh, like for any for this, Oh it's
Speaker 1: just like shit anyway.
Speaker 2: But on top of all the other shitness.
Speaker 1: Okay, he's been sorry to every single person who's in
Speaker 1: Melbourne right now. Our thoughts, our prayers, everything is with you.
Speaker 1: Stay inside, go to bed early. APM.
Speaker 2: Well they have to. Yeah, I know it's horrible, don't laugh.
Speaker 1: No. Yeah, it's been a in terms of emotionally for
Speaker 1: me because I did finally feel what it was like
Speaker 1: to be happy and you know the potential of being
Speaker 1: with someone in a relationship and just having the support.
Speaker 1: I don't think I realized how much I missed having
Speaker 1: someone in my life because I always I always tell
Speaker 1: you guys how strong and fine I am and how
Speaker 1: being singles great and it is.
Speaker 2: But when I did have this tiny, tiny, tiny.
Speaker 1: Tiny minuscule it was a few weeks, but it was
Speaker 1: a great few weeks. When I had this tiny like
Speaker 1: feeling of what it's like to have someone think of
Speaker 1: me and care about me and want to help me
Speaker 1: and want to love me, I was like, Wow, I
Speaker 1: just forgot what this feeling was like. And then to
Speaker 1: have that taken away so quickly was really really tough.
Speaker 1: And I have literally I have cried so many times,
Speaker 1: but not just like necessarily over Tim, but at the
Speaker 1: fact that, first of all, how hurt I was. Second
Speaker 1: of all, how I got you know, I got angry.
Speaker 1: How could I have trusted? And how could I have
Speaker 1: let my walls down again? And then it got to
Speaker 1: the point where it was like, Okay, I want to
Speaker 1: tell people and I can't, so that's really hard. Then
Speaker 1: you want to get on with your life but you can't.
Speaker 1: You want to date but you can't, And it's just
Speaker 1: like a tumultuous year. And I would find myself just
Speaker 1: like Laura would call me and she'd be like.
Speaker 2: What are you doing? You are right, and then I
Speaker 2: just start crying. She's like whoa baby.
Speaker 1: She's like, what happened is like having a good day,
Speaker 1: I know, and I was, so it's been I've been.
Speaker 2: Yeah, i've been.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, I've been really sad.
Speaker 3: But I think it's really important to keep perspective on
Speaker 3: this as well, and not just for you, Britt, but
Speaker 3: I think that there's power in saying that, because as
Speaker 3: much as we can sit here and say, yeah, be single,
Speaker 3: you'd be a big boss lady and fucking own your
Speaker 3: single life and love your single life. Just because you
Speaker 3: own your single life and you love your single life
Speaker 3: doesn't mean that there isn't times where you'll feel lonely,
Speaker 3: doesn't mean that there isn't times where you're going to go, oh,
Speaker 3: I wish I had someone at the end of the day.
Speaker 3: And I think that we need to recognize that those
Speaker 3: feelings are very, very normal and that it's okay to
Speaker 3: feel that, and it doesn't take away from the fact
Speaker 3: that you still are a boss single lady and you
Speaker 3: are still living an awesome and happy life like you're
Speaker 3: entitled to feel the full spectrum of emotions. And for
Speaker 3: every single person out there who's single and who sometimes
Speaker 3: they think they're killing it, and then sometimes they're like,
Speaker 3: no one fucking loves me and I'm on my own.
Speaker 3: Like those feelings are all normal, but you also have
Speaker 3: to be able to rationalize and know that you're not
Speaker 3: always going to be on your own and people do
Speaker 3: love you, and you are worthy of being treated and
Speaker 3: being loved and being respected and being treated in the
Speaker 3: way that you deserve to be treated, not just being
Speaker 3: with someone because it feels a loneliness whole.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's easy to forget that sometimes, but it was
Speaker 1: really hard. It has been really hard to watch it back.
Speaker 1: I didn't think it would be. I think I thought
Speaker 1: I got to a point where I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's so far done now, like I couldn't care less.
Speaker 2: I'm so over it.
Speaker 1: Tim has moved on, and he's very publicly moved on,
Speaker 1: which was also like, as another story, that.
Speaker 2: Is another question of mine which I was.
Speaker 1: A kicking a guy, but we'll get there in a second.
Speaker 1: But to watch it back when I thought I was fine,
Speaker 1: the second I saw him like talking about me and
Speaker 1: seeing it grow on TV, it was really triggering. I
Speaker 1: just took me back to this place where I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I remember what that felt like and how nice it
Speaker 1: would be imagine if we were together now and it
Speaker 1: would be able to watch our story back. And but
Speaker 1: knowing he's publicly with someone else, he doesn't care about
Speaker 1: me I had heard from him, it was really really hard.
Speaker 1: And to see everyone saying, you know, I'm so here
Speaker 1: for this couple and like we love you together, it
Speaker 1: was really hard. And then you know, to try and
Speaker 1: be happy on social media and just like it's just
Speaker 1: like living a lie.
Speaker 2: It's so hard.
Speaker 3: One silver lining is like the more that he stirred
Speaker 3: the pot, the more that people were like, I just
Speaker 3: hope you're happy, Brittany, whether it's with him or not,
Speaker 3: well matter all.
Speaker 1: When people were like I don't get it, yeah, they're like,
Speaker 1: no way, I've just known him for a while because
Speaker 1: he know me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you.
Speaker 1: And it's like, it's not possible for you to pretend
Speaker 1: like you're happy all the time or to like try
Speaker 1: and keep this secret. You know, it's it's actually too
Speaker 1: big And to try and keep a secret, whether you're
Speaker 1: happy in a relationship or not in a relationship, from everyone,
Speaker 1: it's impossible, and the people closest to you are always
Speaker 1: going to be able to figure out what the hell's
Speaker 1: going on. But I think one of the questions I
Speaker 1: did have for you was that a couple of weeks ago,
Speaker 1: there was a Daily Mail article that came out with
Speaker 1: loads of paparazzi photos very prematurely ousting the fact that
Speaker 1: Tim is back with his ex girlfriend. How did you
Speaker 1: feel about that, knowing that you had worked so hard
Speaker 1: to kind of keep the secret and to try and
Speaker 1: maintain appearances almost for them, that to just be all
Speaker 1: that to be undone, it was a kicking the guts,
Speaker 1: Like it was a major kicking the guts, because it's
Speaker 1: been nine months that we put our life on hold
Speaker 1: and done the right I had done the right thing
Speaker 1: and tried to pretend that, you know, I guess, not
Speaker 1: that we're not together, and not that we are together,
Speaker 1: but just nothing just to be like this happy medium
Speaker 1: and then to have gotten so close to the show,
Speaker 1: like we've waited no months, and then Tim can't even
Speaker 1: be bothered and doesn't even have the respect to wait
Speaker 1: what two more weeks, fourteen more days? I just feel
Speaker 1: like there's a bit of a slap in the face.
Speaker 1: I feel like it was like I don't care, Like
Speaker 1: this is what I'm doing. I don't care about you,
Speaker 1: I don't think about you.
Speaker 2: I'm happy. That's why I was like, you were so
Speaker 2: close to the finish line, as like fucking hell boy,
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 3: Doing I guess the upsetting part of that for you,
Speaker 3: And maybe I'm putting words in your mouth, but it
Speaker 3: kind of takes away the opportunity for you to be
Speaker 3: able to say how you're feeling, or for like the
Speaker 3: storyline to play out. It's kind of like without any explanation,
Speaker 3: without any information, it's like, oh, oh, there's Tim, and
Speaker 3: Tim's happy now with someone else.
Speaker 2: And there's so many.
Speaker 1: Stories that have been accompanying that that have been really hard,
Speaker 1: Like a lot of articles have said that he never
Speaker 1: really wasn't with her, like he's been on and off
Speaker 1: with her all through Angie season, through Paradise, like not
Speaker 1: that he was I don't. I absolutely don't think that
Speaker 1: he was with her on the show. But it just
Speaker 1: seems like this is his ex, he's we it's not
Speaker 1: a new girlfriend. So I just feel like this story
Speaker 1: has been very ongoing and it was never over.
Speaker 2: Why did I just go through that?
Speaker 1: Like, Like, why did I just put myself through that
Speaker 1: for someone that was never gonna be available.
Speaker 2: It's like, literally, Honey Badger two point zero.
Speaker 3: The one thing you said to me was like, it's
Speaker 3: just like it can't end as badly as it did
Speaker 3: last time.
Speaker 1: I did go in thinking that, like, okay, the say
Speaker 1: my saving grace is it can't be as bad as
Speaker 1: my ending with Nick Honeybedger. I just thought it can't
Speaker 1: be like what else, It just physically can't. Like I've
Speaker 1: got nothing to lose, I guess coming out now, I
Speaker 1: just feel like I can't win, feel like to be honest,
Speaker 1: like I'm unlovable. I don't know where I go wrong,
Speaker 1: and I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just feel like I've tried so many avenues, like
Speaker 1: maybe it's not meant to be for me.
Speaker 3: It kills me when you say that, because the rejection
Speaker 3: of being on a reality TV show is not indicative
Speaker 3: of the real world.
Speaker 2: It's really not.
Speaker 3: And like you've got to remember, like, yeah, but the
Speaker 3: reality is is like hardly anyone from Paradise is together.
Speaker 1: And I know, but you can't help it be deflated.
Speaker 1: And that's the feeling that I felt when I left.
Speaker 1: I've kicked myself out of that now. But yeah, you
Speaker 1: can't help it feel like super rejected, like something's wrong
Speaker 1: with you, but I know it's not. But like I'm
Speaker 1: going to be honest, of course they have the feelings.
Speaker 1: You go through the motions, and when something like this happens,
Speaker 1: and happens twice, that's going to cross your mind.
Speaker 2: For sure.
Speaker 3: That's going to cross anyone's mind who goes through a
Speaker 3: bad breakup, do you know what I mean? Like, the
Speaker 3: fact that your breakups are on a public scale adds
Speaker 3: a whole other element to it. I think as well,
Speaker 3: you know, but I think that most people who go
Speaker 3: through a breakup that's beyond their control feels like, well,
Speaker 3: what's wrong with me? I think that's a very normal feeling,
Speaker 3: and I think that's a very relatable feeling that anybody
Speaker 3: else who's been through a breakup and feels unlovable as
Speaker 3: a result of it, or feels like there's something wrong
Speaker 3: with them. But I know that there's gonna be like
Speaker 3: thousands of chicks listening to this, who go, fuck if
Speaker 3: Britney feels like that, what.
Speaker 2: Good is there for me?
Speaker 1: You know? And that's why I want to That's why
Speaker 1: I just want to be really honest I felt that
Speaker 1: for sure, but I kicks myself out of that, and
Speaker 1: I want people to know that those feelings are going
Speaker 1: to be normal and you almost are not going to
Speaker 1: be able to stop them from coming.
Speaker 2: Because you're human.
Speaker 1: You have feelings, You're vulnerable, you're feeling hurt, and it's
Speaker 1: okay to feel that as long as you can tell yourself, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pick myself up now, because I know what
Speaker 1: I deserve and I know who I am, and it's
Speaker 1: important to jump back on the bandwagon to know your
Speaker 1: self worth, your self worth.
Speaker 3: And also knowing that like your self worth and this
Speaker 3: goes for everyone, but your self worth is not determined
Speaker 3: by what somebody else wants and a relationship that somebody
Speaker 3: else isn't ready for, like that's that's not like you're
Speaker 3: so much more than that, being where you're self worth
Speaker 3: lies second to that as well. Surely there is something
Speaker 3: therapeutic in watching the showback though, and seeing behavior and
Speaker 3: seeing things that you couldn't see at the time, and
Speaker 3: then being able to realize, Okay, this was never going
Speaker 3: to be the relationship for me anyway. Surely there's something
Speaker 3: about that that in retrospect, you go ah, it makes
Speaker 3: sense now, ab it?
Speaker 2: So fucking lowly?
Speaker 1: You know, I definitely watched it back and I saw
Speaker 1: some things and I was like, this, this is comforting
Speaker 1: in a way because if that's really who he was
Speaker 1: or what he was about or his thoughts, then like
Speaker 1: we wouldn't have worked.
Speaker 2: We were too different.
Speaker 1: I only know that now nine months later, so I
Speaker 1: haven't seen any of this play out. I didn't know
Speaker 1: these sort of things. So I've just had to think
Speaker 1: that I just wasn't good enough the whole time.
Speaker 3: And I just think, like I wish, I wish that
Speaker 3: like major breakups in your life could come with a
Speaker 3: Bachelor in Paradise, like viewing schedule afterwards, so that every
Speaker 3: time you try and romanticize behavior, every time you try
Speaker 3: and like make excuses for things that happened, and then
Speaker 3: you look back in your relationship, Oh, actually it was
Speaker 3: so great, and then you watch it on screen and
Speaker 3: you're like, oh, that's why we're not together.
Speaker 2: I get it. I get it. To get it.
Speaker 3: Everything makes sense now. This is what I'm hoping for.
Speaker 3: So good twenty twenty one, twenty.
Speaker 1: Twenty one, when you're allowed out of your house again.
Speaker 2: But I do want to.
Speaker 1: Reiterate like I wish nothing but the best for Tim.
Speaker 1: I would never have any ill wishes for anyone. And
Speaker 1: he's happy now, I believe, and I think that's great.
Speaker 2: It's not with me. That's fine. Our paths.
Speaker 1: This wasn't supposed to be our journey, and this wasn't
Speaker 1: supposed to be the way we ended. And I know
Speaker 1: something will come from it because I do believe that
Speaker 1: everything HAPs for a reason. And I'm on my path.
Speaker 1: It's a bloody long path, my one fucking hell.
Speaker 2: You know that rob made, oh made bluddy shining arm.
Speaker 1: I got fucking lost up a path that Robert Frost
Speaker 1: like the path less travel path. My path is the
Speaker 1: most traveled path in the universe. But look, my path
Speaker 1: is leading me somewhere, and I'm excited to Okay, I
Speaker 1: have some other questions that have been written in so
Speaker 1: like hear me. I feel like I feel like we've
Speaker 1: gotten like the heavy lifting out of the way, but
Speaker 1: I have some like more lighthearted questions that I want
Speaker 1: to know.
Speaker 2: So many people.
Speaker 1: Asked how you guys get food and paradise, like is
Speaker 1: it all hated or do you.
Speaker 2: Have to cook?
Speaker 3: I want to guess you ain't cooking in that tiny,
Speaker 3: little one bedroom studio with a single bed.
Speaker 1: No, So on day one you get like a little
Speaker 1: basket and a spear and then you have to send
Speaker 1: for yourself. And the show is actually called Survive it's
Speaker 1: Hunger Games. No you, I mean it's a it's a resort.
Speaker 1: So there's just like a restaurant there. It's like a
Speaker 1: normal cafe. You go and you can order any time
Speaker 1: of the day. You just go up and there's a
Speaker 1: normal menu like it would but literally burgers, chips, salads,
Speaker 1: a steak that it's just like what you would think
Speaker 1: you would get at a Fijian resort that like wound back.
Speaker 1: We're not getting oysters, we're getting we're getting casava chips.
Speaker 2: We ate so many cassava chips. It's like this root vegetable.
Speaker 1: So yeah, you can you order any time the day
Speaker 1: and then as soon as you finished filming at night.
Speaker 1: This is probably my favorite part of Paradise. They bring
Speaker 1: out trays probably a hundred, like toasted cheese and tomato sandwiches,
Speaker 1: and they're so good because you've been filming all day,
Speaker 1: you're hungry, you've had drinks, and there's nothing better it's
Speaker 1: like akabab when you're drunk, you know, you know, when
Speaker 1: you've been out all night, you're like out drem kabab.
Speaker 2: But it's a toasty and it's a lit.
Speaker 3: My other question which you kind of just touched on, then,
Speaker 3: so many people also asked about the drinking.
Speaker 2: Let's talk about your.
Speaker 3: Drinking, Brittany, But like, do you guys just start in
Speaker 3: the morning and power on through the day? Is there
Speaker 3: like RSA? Are they like counting? So for example, in
Speaker 3: Bachelor when we would have cocktail parties, they didn't really
Speaker 3: do it at the start, but like as it kind
Speaker 3: of progressed, they would start keeping count of how many
Speaker 3: drinks we'd had. And they were very like as much
Speaker 3: as you might think people are lit city by the
Speaker 3: end of a cocktail party, majority of the time they
Speaker 3: usually just tired because.
Speaker 1: Exhausted emotionally, physically.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because they really do control and they tally up
Speaker 3: your drinks. Yeah, so you have to go out of
Speaker 3: your way to get drunk, like really drunk, Like you've
Speaker 3: got to kind of try and trick producers because they're
Speaker 3: not producers are not wanting you to be obliterated. That
Speaker 3: doesn't make for good TV that actually makes for terrible
Speaker 3: TV and would get them into a lot of trouble.
Speaker 3: So they need to be socially responsible that you're not
Speaker 3: wasted drunk.
Speaker 1: Yeah, look after having done both, I only got drunk
Speaker 1: once ever on The Bachelor, because, like you just said,
Speaker 1: it's not easy to do.
Speaker 2: Like you have to go.
Speaker 1: You have to try and steal people's drinks if you
Speaker 1: want to get drunk. I got drunk at the end
Speaker 1: when I knew there could be no damage done because
Speaker 1: there's nothing left of film. So just Sophie Cass and
Speaker 1: I got drunk. This one's different. You can't start drinking
Speaker 1: until midday. The bar opens at twelve, and then you
Speaker 1: get two drinks an hour and you can basically drink
Speaker 1: until midnight. But two drinks an hour, but that's a
Speaker 1: lot of drinks still over in the sun.
Speaker 2: They do.
Speaker 1: They have a duty of care right, so you can
Speaker 1: you're allowed whilst you're allowed that many. The second they
Speaker 1: think you've had too much or you're intoxicated, they will
Speaker 1: cut you off. Jamie got cut off a few times.
Speaker 1: I think Little Litnany got cut off once. Blessless Soul
Speaker 1: love you, so they do. They still still do that
Speaker 1: because it's different. There are more on the Bachelor. You
Speaker 1: don't get a second alone with the Bachelor's like there's
Speaker 1: nothing that could possibly happen. Paradise is people everywhere, guys
Speaker 1: and girls. Anything could happen and they have to keep
Speaker 1: their eyes on you.
Speaker 3: So but also I think the thing to keep in
Speaker 3: mind is like you're all adults, like as much as like,
Speaker 3: you know, we say that there's a responsibility and a
Speaker 3: duty of care and everything of the producers, which of
Speaker 3: course there is.
Speaker 2: There also has to be.
Speaker 3: Some personal responsibility that comes into play in these situations,
Speaker 3: like you're an adult, you're a consenting adult.
Speaker 2: You know how much you should and shouldn't drink.
Speaker 3: And I think that there is a level of responsibility
Speaker 3: that falls on the people who are in the show.
Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, But ultimately, if something goes wrong, the show's
Speaker 1: not going to say you're an adult the show, but they.
Speaker 2: Do, so Okay.
Speaker 3: I think that that's important because I do think that's
Speaker 3: sometimes watching Paradise, it just looks like you guys lay
Speaker 3: around and get boozed all day, But it's like not
Speaker 3: necessarily the case.
Speaker 2: People. The worst thing is like at least you a holiday.
Speaker 2: It is. I cannot stress this enough. This is not
Speaker 2: a holiday. It is not.
Speaker 1: It is constant. It's a show you're making. You're like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to say.
Speaker 2: I mean you're working.
Speaker 1: Yes, you are working, and I know it's not like
Speaker 1: we're not laboring all day.
Speaker 2: Love is hard work, baby, but you don't like love
Speaker 2: is bloody hard made.
Speaker 1: Love's the hardest job I've had and I haven't even
Speaker 1: had it, but I imagine it would be hard.
Speaker 2: No, it is a job.
Speaker 1: And to be honest, there are moments that you'll be
Speaker 1: like laying around and they'll come out and they'll be
Speaker 1: like up you get you're all boring, and you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: we're gonna go do something.
Speaker 2: You have to go do something fun.
Speaker 3: Okay, So doing something fun leads me into my next question,
Speaker 3: which is in regards to your bathtub date with Tim Karenne. Okay,
Speaker 3: So the tiny little dates like that, like the dates
Speaker 3: that are obviously on site where you haven't been given
Speaker 3: a date card, are they your idea? Are they the
Speaker 3: producer's idea? Will you like, hey, Tim, come with me
Speaker 3: into this beautiful bath that I've poured for you, just
Speaker 3: like one that you had with Angie a few weeks back. Okay,
Speaker 3: in my defense, I didn't know Tim had a bath
Speaker 3: with Angie.
Speaker 2: I was in Mexico when his season was airing. I
Speaker 2: never saw.
Speaker 1: I didn't know he His finale aired whilst we were filming,
Speaker 1: so I didn't even know what position he came. I
Speaker 1: didn't watch his show. I didn't know he'd had the
Speaker 1: exact date three weeks earlier with Angie, but dates like that.
Speaker 2: Essentially.
Speaker 1: They came to me and they were like, do you
Speaker 1: want to do something nice for someone?
Speaker 2: We ran your bath?
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, I don't want to. I don't want to
Speaker 1: like spoil everything. But they were like, Britain is a
Speaker 1: bath over there to take someone and I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I was like, it's only two
Speaker 1: days in. I don't want to take anyone in a bar.
Speaker 2: But like do it?
Speaker 1: So I was like, well, I mean, I've just been
Speaker 1: on a date with Tim the night before.
Speaker 2: I liked him. I was like, I'm not gonna take
Speaker 2: anyone else. I'll take Tim. And so I went and
Speaker 2: said I asked him to have a barth.
Speaker 1: They didn't know he wasn't gonna fit in there, and
Speaker 1: I didn't know he had it day before he was
Speaker 1: like a baby jar.
Speaker 2: You have limbs everywhere, And.
Speaker 3: How far away was the bath from the rest of
Speaker 3: the of the people in Paradise, Like the bath secluded
Speaker 3: and private?
Speaker 2: Or were you like just like having a bath off camera?
Speaker 1: So there's like really really beautiful baths on this little
Speaker 1: platform overlooking the ocean, the sunny setting, this champagne, this grapes,
Speaker 1: think of like this music in the background. It's absolutely
Speaker 1: beautiful and it's about thirty meters away from everyone else.
Speaker 1: It's exactly like dating on The Bachelor. It was It
Speaker 1: was insane. It was like Tim and I as the
Speaker 1: couple that were together from day one until the end.
Speaker 1: The whole time, we were never with anyone else. They
Speaker 1: didn't ever give us a date. We never had a date.
Speaker 2: On our own, not once.
Speaker 1: So fucking gypped. I fucking got Jim Man didn't get
Speaker 1: a date. They didn't show our love story.
Speaker 2: We didn't do we just I just feel like I
Speaker 2: haven't even been on a love shore.
Speaker 1: I feel like when on days of our lives slash
Speaker 1: home and away days of our away home of our lives, what.
Speaker 2: You were like? Who am I? What am I doing?
Speaker 2: I don't know anything? But are there people do you think?
Speaker 3: This is a controversial question, but I want your honest opinion.
Speaker 1: You know, I'll give it to you. Do you think
Speaker 1: that there are people on there or have left or
Speaker 1: they're still on there, who are faking it just to
Speaker 1: stay on the show, like faking a relationship or faking
Speaker 1: who they.
Speaker 3: Are, faking their feelings and faking their relationship just to
Speaker 3: stay on the show.
Speaker 1: Yes, Oh, I want the tea.
Speaker 2: Can you say, who are you all going to do that? No,
Speaker 2: I'm not going to do that. I don't think.
Speaker 1: What I'll say is I think all the couples that
Speaker 1: are on there are couples for sure.
Speaker 2: I think that's real.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say that the couples are faking
Speaker 1: it because I don't think that they are. I think
Speaker 1: there are people in there, and I mean Australia on
Speaker 1: you guys, if you've been watching it, you can you're
Speaker 1: smart people. There are some people on there that seem
Speaker 1: to have gravitated to a lot of people, seem to
Speaker 1: have manipulated people's feelings staying and there's things like that,
Speaker 1: and that was all. I think that that was all.
Speaker 1: I mean, they were just trying to stay out the show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: gameplay people are going to try it on Friendship Rose whatever. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that definitely happens. I was never gonna if I
Speaker 1: didn't hit it off with Tim, I would have just left.
Speaker 1: Like I was never gonna be that person that wanted
Speaker 1: to go on, Like why would I I don't understand
Speaker 1: why you would want to try and stay on this
Speaker 1: show to the point, like to the end. If you've
Speaker 1: gotten three or four weeks in and you still haven't
Speaker 1: made a connection with anyone, You're not going to If
Speaker 1: you are that deep into the show, you're not gonna
Speaker 1: make the connection.
Speaker 3: No, But let's be honest, Like people aren't necessarily I mean,
Speaker 3: there's definitely two sets of people that go on. For
Speaker 3: people who wouldn't want to find a relationship and like
Speaker 3: are open to the even if it's not necessarily find
Speaker 3: a relationship. They're like positive about the experience, They're like
Speaker 3: open to new experiences, and they're hopeful that they'll find someone.
Speaker 3: Then there's also people who just want to amplify their profile.
Speaker 3: Like there are definitely people who are motivated by different
Speaker 3: things on the show. And I think that if you're
Speaker 3: still there by the at the end without being in
Speaker 3: a relationship or even like remotely lacking anyone but still
Speaker 3: wanting to stay. It's probably a reflection that you're to
Speaker 3: amplify your profile.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I guess it just I guess it just
Speaker 2: doesn't make sense.
Speaker 3: Okay, So from all the drama and stuff aside, who
Speaker 3: was the person that you were closest to, all the
Speaker 3: people that you were closest to, and not just in proximity,
Speaker 3: since you guys were sleeping in single beds on.
Speaker 1: Top of y, on top of each other, so paradise
Speaker 1: from day one, I roomed with Eleanor. We literally walked
Speaker 1: in and gravitated towards each other. I think we're very,
Speaker 1: very very similar. We have the same sense of humor.
Speaker 1: We got along really well. We could we had a
Speaker 1: lot in common. I don't think her personality was shown
Speaker 1: a lot either. I don't think either of our personalities
Speaker 1: who we are. I'm lucky that I have this platform
Speaker 1: to show you guys who I am. But Eleen is
Speaker 1: so bloody funny man, and she's so smart, and I
Speaker 1: don't know, I just love her. So we were really close.
Speaker 1: When she left, I roomed with Litany also adore her.
Speaker 1: She's brilliant. She is a smart girl and I and
Speaker 1: people don't get to see that. In terms of the boys,
Speaker 1: Alex and Jackson, I adore I.
Speaker 2: I got along with them really well.
Speaker 1: I've always gotten along with guys really well, maybe because
Speaker 1: I'm such a tomboy growing up. They're both really, really,
Speaker 1: genuinely good people.
Speaker 3: Okay, So there's been a few people on our Facebook group,
Speaker 3: our life and cut Facebook group who have been speculating
Speaker 3: that maybe there's something going on with you and Jackson.
Speaker 1: I know because Jackson and I do spend a lot
Speaker 1: of time together. I can confirm that I have no
Speaker 1: romantic relationship with Jackson. I have never had a romantic
Speaker 1: relationship with Jackson, will never. We got along really well
Speaker 1: as friends. We live down the road from each other.
Speaker 1: He owns a pie company. I love pies. I'm here
Speaker 1: for it. Actually wish it gets who.
Speaker 3: He's too young, I know my twenty seven year olds
Speaker 3: for you, Brittany, I'm putting a fucking band on it.
Speaker 1: It's not even that it is that. It's fucking that.
Speaker 2: I get younger people.
Speaker 1: You know that, and that of them have worked out yet,
Speaker 1: so I always have put.
Speaker 2: A Nah, he's really great and Alex is.
Speaker 1: I think Alex was so hot, Like he walked in
Speaker 1: and I was like, you were adorable. His personality is
Speaker 1: really really sweet and someone I don't know who he
Speaker 1: ends up with anyone from the show. I don't know
Speaker 1: if he's with someone in the real world, but whoever
Speaker 1: he does end up with is gonna be lucky Alex.
Speaker 1: If you're listening, Brittany, that was a very not so
Speaker 1: subtle Oh no, not for me. Oh I'm just chooting
Speaker 1: some people's horns, Like I just like these people, they're
Speaker 1: my friends.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it definitely sounded like you were like and only
Speaker 2: what could have been?
Speaker 1: Do you know what when you spend twenty four hours
Speaker 1: a day with people and I'm talking all day and
Speaker 1: all night, drinking not drinking, seeing him in love, having
Speaker 1: deep and meaningfuls. I was training every morning, like exercising
Speaker 1: with Jackson and Alex. You get to know them on
Speaker 1: a different level and you get to know them really quickly,
Speaker 1: and I just think they're both really good humans.
Speaker 2: That's all.
Speaker 3: Do you feel like Paradise as well? It's like, do
Speaker 3: you feel like it's a bit like a summer romance?
Speaker 3: You know, you go away on holidays, you meet someone
Speaker 3: because you're in this like suspended animation almost.
Speaker 2: It's just like you're in a.
Speaker 1: Beef a partying like in a summer and it's just
Speaker 1: party with your friends.
Speaker 3: And then you kind of come out of it and
Speaker 3: you're like, oh, that's why that that's why that holiday
Speaker 3: romance didn't work out, because it's.
Speaker 2: An real laugh exactly.
Speaker 1: It's not at all like I can totally understand why
Speaker 1: in the past no relationship has worked.
Speaker 3: So how do you feel about it now in retrospect?
Speaker 3: Do you wish you had not done it? Are you
Speaker 3: glad you did it?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: Do you live with no regrets? For me?
Speaker 1: I don't like to regret anything. It didn't work out
Speaker 1: for me, unfortunately, but I had a really great time
Speaker 1: doing it. I learned a lot about myself. I learned
Speaker 1: a lot about other people. I think it's opened up
Speaker 1: a lot of conversations about a lot of different things
Speaker 1: to the Australian public, a lot of sort of deeper
Speaker 1: topics like toxic masculinity, a lot of the things that
Speaker 1: boys were doing. There's been a lot of open conversations
Speaker 1: about bullying. And there are some love stories that come
Speaker 1: out of this too, So that's super exciting. I don't
Speaker 1: regret anything going on there. It's been a really, really
Speaker 1: tough year, but I know and I'm trusting the pro
Speaker 1: and I'm trusting the universe that is leading me to
Speaker 1: where I need to be.
Speaker 2: So like hashtag norogroats and.
Speaker 3: We always say that, like from some of your shittiest
Speaker 3: times and some of the hardest things that you go through,
Speaker 3: like that's where you do your best growth. That's where
Speaker 3: some of the most amazing things can come out of
Speaker 3: And like then you know, there's always the saying, which
Speaker 3: is everything will be okay in the end, and if
Speaker 3: it's not okay, then.
Speaker 2: It's not the end. So it's not my end.
Speaker 1: Yes, So deep deep like a puddle, come here for
Speaker 1: all of the wise wise advice.
Speaker 2: I guess this is a different episode, guys, but it.
Speaker 1: Was one that we had to tackle. I think it's
Speaker 1: been a long time coming. We've had so many questions
Speaker 1: and I think it was important to just like wrap
Speaker 1: it all up in one big salad wrap and get
Speaker 1: it out there.
Speaker 3: And we've been wanting to be able to talk about
Speaker 3: all things Paradise. And I guess because of like Brittany's contract,
Speaker 3: the fact that the show was on, you know, we
Speaker 3: didn't all weren't able to talk about what the ending
Speaker 3: is and all the restrictions around that.
Speaker 2: I think we.
Speaker 1: Actually I don't know if I ever mentioned this or
Speaker 1: if you guys know this, but I was a hard
Speaker 1: note for Paradise until Laura was like, Babe, you're getting
Speaker 1: on that show.
Speaker 2: My bad. No, But Laura was like, look, my fucking bad.
Speaker 1: I was no until I remember I signed on officially
Speaker 1: probably like eight pm on Sunday night and I flew
Speaker 1: out Monday morning. I was no until the last minute,
Speaker 1: and Laura was like, look what happened to me. I'm
Speaker 1: engaged to the love of my life, I have a baby.
Speaker 1: These things can happen, like good things can happen from
Speaker 1: saying yes. I would have been a hypocrite because I
Speaker 1: always say things come from saying yes, say yes opportunities.
Speaker 1: And between my sister Sharry and Laura, who convinced me,
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, once in a lifetime,
Speaker 1: and we did say, like, how could it possibly be
Speaker 1: worse the last time? It's got to be better than that.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be fine. No, But I mean you were swaying.
Speaker 1: I think like, let's be fair, you were swaying between
Speaker 1: yes and no, yes and no.
Speaker 2: You were never you were never know and maybe you
Speaker 2: were never in the no camp. You were like, at
Speaker 2: least I was ball shit.
Speaker 1: If you knew the convos I had had with those producers.
Speaker 3: Nay, what about the converse your head with me? Yes
Speaker 3: the no, then yes the no. And you were like
Speaker 3: do I don't know? And I was like, just fucking
Speaker 3: do it? Yollow your life away because.
Speaker 1: I was at a wedding. I was at a wedding.
Speaker 1: I wasn't even I lie that. We just had a fire.
Speaker 2: Then I was I love how you know what my
Speaker 2: brain was.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not going to take full responsibility
Speaker 1: for making you go on the show. Of course you
Speaker 1: didn't have many many you had very much an important matters.
Speaker 1: I was swaying between maybe and no, but I had
Speaker 1: never at once said yes to them until the night before.
Speaker 1: That was exactly how my Bachelor journey started. I had
Speaker 1: said no, no, no, no, no up until the day
Speaker 1: and then I was like, ah, fuck it, let's see
Speaker 1: what happens here. I love Sherry set my life on fire.
Speaker 1: Sherry was like, you didn't really get your personality was
Speaker 1: so subdued on The Bachelor, like you didn't know one
Speaker 1: so how funny you were, no one saw your energy,
Speaker 1: no one how nice you were. Like, go and be
Speaker 1: you and show Australia. So I was like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna show Australia. Then they cut me the whole season.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm so perplexed, Like I love that
Speaker 1: I went on to show who I was and you
Speaker 1: don't even see who I was. All right, guys, well,
Speaker 1: I think that we've covered. Unless there's anything else that
Speaker 1: you want to throw out there, I think I think
Speaker 1: it's fine.
Speaker 2: Guys.
Speaker 1: We can always just pop in some answers to questions
Speaker 1: over the coming weeks two. If there's anything you really
Speaker 1: drastically want to know that I can answer, just put
Speaker 1: in our own box and if we get to it,
Speaker 1: we'll throw one in here.
Speaker 3: And there, or we can chuck it into an Ask
Speaker 3: on Cut special if you like. But like we said,
Speaker 3: this is a bit of a different episode, but we
Speaker 3: thought it was very much needed, So we will have
Speaker 3: our ask on Cut on Thursday. So send us through
Speaker 3: your questions so that we can start putting them together
Speaker 3: for that episode.
Speaker 1: Yeah, look, I am going to activate my hinge right now,
Speaker 1: there you go.
Speaker 2: I live.
Speaker 3: So if you're out there and you're a single man
Speaker 3: over thirty, we're cutting out the twenty year olds. Now
Speaker 3: I'm still going under thirty with a no, I'm only
Speaker 3: thirty two.
Speaker 2: Come on, stick to thirty dude. We need to broaden
Speaker 2: that age rang, I need to broaden my.
Speaker 1: Pool brought up or just span your kilometer radius, just
Speaker 1: leave your age bracket alone. But of course I'm going
Speaker 1: to veto like you need to like bring them to me. Now,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna like, ah, show me your resume a kind
Speaker 1: ser Nope, you're not good enough. Next you literally veto
Speaker 1: everyone good No one has good enough for you. Brandan
Speaker 1: antil the day di guys.
Speaker 2: That's it, thanks for tuning in.
Speaker 1: We just want to say big shout out to everyone
Speaker 1: on the Facebook group. You guys have all been amazing.
Speaker 1: Your support means the world last few weeks and I
Speaker 1: love how engage you guys are getting. Laura and I
Speaker 1: read everything, We see everything, and we really appreciate it.
Speaker 1: If you haven't jumped on the Facebook group yet, guys,
Speaker 1: where are you at?
Speaker 2: Also? What do you mean we read everything?
Speaker 1: I literally sit there in the Batch and Paradise thread
Speaker 1: riding back to people being like the fucking two I
Speaker 1: am so sick for it guys. So yes, if you
Speaker 1: haven't joined the Facebook group, it's lifel on Cut podcast,
Speaker 1: the same handle if you want to find us on Instagram.
Speaker 1: But like we said, this episode was a little bit
Speaker 1: different to how we normally do these episodes, and that
Speaker 1: is because for it's time on Paradise deserved a whole
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