1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:06,279 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Combomb 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:11,120 Speaker 1: Merry people. They've been having conversations and telling stories on 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,320 Speaker 1: this land for thousands of years, and we show our 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 1: gratitude and respect for their contribution to our environment and culture. 6 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: This is Rise and Conquer, the podcast where we strive 7 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 1: to become the highest version of ourselves through curious conversations, 8 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 1: healthy mindsets, laughter, connection, and a deep desire to evolve. 9 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson. Join me as we explore parenthood, business, manifestation, 10 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: and so much more. It's positive, it's practical, and it's 11 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: about putting you in the driver's seat of your own life. 12 00:00:58,720 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 2: Are you ready? 13 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: Hello, my loves, and welcome back to the potty. We 14 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: have a reflection episode of twenty twenty four for you, 15 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 1: and I'm going to tell you the highs, the lows, 16 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: the lessons, the milestones and the realizations. 17 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 2: Twenty twenty four for me. 18 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: Was probably the biggest year of my life. If January 19 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 1: twenty twenty four, if I told her what had happened 20 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 1: this year, I don't think she would have believed you, 21 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 1: or you know, she would be very confused and very like, 22 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: surely that's not actually going to happen, because there was 23 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: just so many twists and turns and things that happened 24 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: that I was like, wow, this, like how is this 25 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: real life? A lot of great humbling moments, a lot 26 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: of great realizations, and I currently still am in my 27 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: Satin return, which, if you guys don't know, a Sadden 28 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: return is basically a very turbulent time of your twenties 29 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: where it's like you close out of your twenties and 30 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: you enter your thirties. 31 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: It depends on your birth chart. 32 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: It can't happen from when you're like twenty seven to 33 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: like thirty one. 34 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure. 35 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: So mine actually finishes in February, and thank the. 36 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 2: Lord because it has been bumpy. 37 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: But before we get into the episode, I just wanted 38 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:40,399 Speaker 1: to let you guys know, if you haven't seen already, 39 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 1: we launched a brand new course called the Magnetic Blueprint, 40 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: And this course really was birthed from a lot of 41 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 1: my realizations this year actually and also me wanting to 42 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: create twenty twenty five to be different and better. A 43 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: huge realization which I'm sure i'll get into, is how 44 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: I probably didn't really goal set and plan my year 45 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: in a great way and from my very authentic self, 46 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 1: and I'm doing things differently, and so I've created a 47 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 1: goal setting template, a blueprint for you guys, and we 48 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: can do it all together in January. It is going 49 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 1: to start on the eighteenth of January and then we 50 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: have fourteen days together. But here's where it is so 51 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: different to anything else that you have done around goal setting. 52 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: And the first week we're not even going to think 53 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: of our goals because the first week I'm going to 54 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:52,119 Speaker 1: take you through a whole bunch of exercises for you 55 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: to take off your mask and really dig deep and 56 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: find that person within you, guys. Because when you are 57 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: locked into that person inside you, like your your higher self, 58 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: your true self, everything falls into place, everything is drawn 59 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: to you. That's why we're calling it magnetic, because it's like, 60 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: once you've finished it, you will become a magnet for 61 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 1: your desires. That twenty twenty five will just like roll 62 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: around and you'll go through the year, and of course 63 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: you're gonna work for what you want and you're going 64 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:34,160 Speaker 1: to go through it, but it's going to feel different. 65 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 2: It's going to feel easier, flowier. 66 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: Not so bumpy, and it's because you're doing it in 67 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: this beautiful magnetic way. 68 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 2: It's such a unique course. 69 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 1: So the first seven days we are like finding our 70 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: true self and undoing the mass and undoing our conditioning 71 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: and getting rid of any negative like routines or habits 72 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 1: or patterns. I'll talk about patterns in this episode in 73 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: twenty twenty four. And then we're actually creating our plan, 74 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: our goals for twenty twenty five. And that was my 75 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: biggest realization is I didn't really do that in John 76 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: of twenty twenty four. I think I actually remember being 77 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: on this podcast saying I'm just surrendering this year, and look, 78 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: I did surrender and a lot came up, but to 79 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: be honest, I kind of regret not having some more 80 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: clear goals in intentions. And so that's what I'm doing differently, 81 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 1: and I want you guys to join me. It's a 82 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 1: very affordable course. 83 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 2: It is only going to. 84 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: Be about, you know, ten to twenty minutes a day 85 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 1: every day. There's either a training, a workbook, or a meditation, 86 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 1: and so it is very easy to finish and implement 87 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 1: and integrate. So I'm so excited for that. Enrollment is 88 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,679 Speaker 1: now open and we do have an early bird price, 89 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 1: but once December finishes, the price will go up, so 90 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 1: make sure you check it out the link. 91 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,119 Speaker 2: It will be in the show notes. There'll be stuff 92 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 2: on social media. 93 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 1: But let's get in to this episode. Let's start off 94 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: with my first high and my first lesson of twenty 95 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: twenty four, and that was launching the Rise app. So 96 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 1: the Rise app really was birth from this place where 97 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 1: I saw such a gap in the market and a 98 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 1: gap in self development where people would do this life 99 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: changing course. 100 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 2: Like people would do the project. 101 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: Which is my seven week manifesting course, and it would 102 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 1: change their lives and they would be like, oh my god, 103 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: this is incredible. I've got so much new knowledge. But 104 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 1: then a couple of months later, because they aren't integrating 105 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: it and they're not continuing their practices and who they 106 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,159 Speaker 1: are and how they show up, they drop it and 107 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: they full off and they don't get the benefits from manifestation. 108 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: And so I've seen this in all my courses and 109 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: in the self development industry. It's like they get motivation, 110 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 1: they get high from something, but then it's not continued. 111 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: And that's really what the Rise app is. It's a 112 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: tool so every single day you have something to go 113 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 1: to that is going to enhance your day, is going 114 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: to get you on the vibration. And so we have 115 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: a whole bunch of pep talks, we have meditations, and 116 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 1: basically the whole thing is like your mindset bestie. 117 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 2: In your pocket. 118 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: So I have worked with a lot of coaches over 119 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: the years, and like they usually have like a vox 120 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: era or like a telegram situation where if you have 121 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: like a problem or you're dysregulated, you can like telegram 122 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: them and be like, hey, this happened, blah blah blah, 123 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: and then they pop in and they're like, hey, breathe, 124 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 1: this is the advice whatnot. And obviously coaches, you're looking 125 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: at like fifty thousand dollars for three months kind of vibes. 126 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: It's not something every one is able to afford. So 127 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: what I wanted to do was put it into an app. 128 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 1: So it's like every single day when you're looking for something, 129 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: you can have it. And so we you know, we 130 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,239 Speaker 1: have meditations where it's like if you want to feel grounded, 131 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 1: listen to this. 132 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 2: If you're going for an interview, listen for this. 133 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: If you want to feel inspired, if you want to 134 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: feel motivated, if you're about to go to gym, Like 135 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: we have built a beautiful audio experience for every sort 136 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: of situation. That's like, that's what the Rise app was for. 137 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: But when we launched it in January I think February, sorry, 138 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: we actually did that. 139 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 2: But then we did a lot more. 140 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 1: So we also put like master classes on there, we 141 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 1: put training videos, we put workbooks, and we basically just 142 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 1: wanted to give our audience everything and just like make 143 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: it so worth their while. But now in December, I 144 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 1: can kind of see in hindsight that it was such 145 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: a potent tool that had such a direct and clear 146 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 1: purpose which I just spoke about, but we kind of 147 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 1: of muddied it, like we kind of tried to do 148 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 1: too much and please too many people, and so the 149 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: message often got lost and people didn't really understand what 150 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 1: the app was, which was on our side. And so 151 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: now like as I'm talking, we have changed things. So 152 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: we have removed the master classes and the video and 153 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 1: we've kind of like simplified it and made it easier 154 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 1: to use and use it friendly, and we've also like 155 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: reduced the price because we're you know, half the stuff 156 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 1: is available but it's very like niched and on purpose 157 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: and clear that was like the best thing we could 158 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: have done. But we had to go the year figuring 159 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: out putting content on there, taking it down, and it 160 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:49,319 Speaker 1: was a very messy experience. And also there's something interesting 161 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: about being a business owner and having a product like 162 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: this and trying. 163 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 2: To figure it out as you go, and you know, 164 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: we had. 165 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 1: To email people and being like this content will be 166 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: taken off, and of course that those people who were 167 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: like no, I love that content, and so like, trying 168 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: to keep everyone happy is hard. But my lesson for 169 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 1: that is, first of all, your mistakes are your greatest teachers. 170 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:16,559 Speaker 1: You cannot fail. So even if something doesn't go exactly 171 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: to plan, it's not a failure because you're learning a lesson, 172 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: you're understanding. And so for me, I'm like, okay, wow, 173 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 1: I tried to do too much. Like we tried to 174 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: do too much, and really we should have just stuck 175 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: with this is what the app is for a very 176 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: specific purpose and only done content on that. 177 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 2: For example, on the Rise app, now it's only audio. 178 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: There is no video content, and some people, you know, 179 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 1: we're unhappy about that, but I'm like, no, I'm so 180 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: clear on what this app is, it's important that we 181 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 1: stick to it. 182 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 2: So that was that was a great long lesson. 183 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 1: Now we move to some highs of the year and 184 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,320 Speaker 1: a big intention that I had, actually, this was one 185 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: of my goals for twenty twenty four was speaking at events, 186 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:17,439 Speaker 1: and I think I spoke at three events, which was incredible. 187 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 1: And I loved this because even though I have a 188 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: podcast and even though I show up on social media, 189 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: showing up in real life, you know, having to talk 190 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 1: and having to remember and having to articulate yourself is 191 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:36,119 Speaker 1: actually I find it so scary. Like on this podcast, 192 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:38,959 Speaker 1: we have an editor and so she will snipe it 193 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 1: if I stuff up or have to start again, but 194 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 1: in real life, like you have to be kind of perfect. 195 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 1: And so I've always been like, oh no, don't want 196 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: to do in person key speaker vibes. But I did that, 197 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: and even for like International Women's Day, and I am 198 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: so proud of myself for getting out of my comfort 199 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:02,959 Speaker 1: zone and for doing something that I'm going to tell 200 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 1: you like scared me shitless. So that was like a 201 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:09,839 Speaker 1: huge high. Another high was we did a whole bunch 202 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: of in person retreats, so We did the Rise Retreat, 203 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 1: which was in collaboration with yogabl and we did the 204 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 1: n H Retreat. The RISE Retreat was more like manifesting 205 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: creating vision boards based, and then the n H Retreat 206 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: was really kind of like trauma based and kind of 207 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: health fitness, and we got into trauma and they were 208 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 1: the most amazing experiences. I crave in human connection and 209 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 1: that deeper conversation and that deeper connection, and to have 210 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: that with my community, like some of the women that 211 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 1: I had moments with at these retreats, was extraordinary, totally 212 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: such a high from the year. I definitely want to 213 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 1: do more retreats in twenty twenty five. Actually, we do 214 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: have a Naked Harvest retreat. I'm not sure it's if it's. 215 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 2: Sold out or not. 216 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: I will put a link if it's not and you 217 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:08,719 Speaker 1: guys can check that out. So the kind of true 218 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: lessons from that though, is your time and energy is 219 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:17,559 Speaker 1: your greatest currency, and it matters so much what you 220 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: pick to do with it that you have to be 221 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: really careful and intentional with your time. And I am 222 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 1: just so glad that I put time and energy into 223 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 1: in person events because you know, they are a lot 224 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: of energy being with people for over a weekend. The 225 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 1: planning that goes into these events, and sometimes the return 226 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 1: isn't as much as you know, maybe a campaign that 227 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 1: you would do with a product, but the fulfillment that 228 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 1: I felt was just so much. So I'm so glad 229 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: that we did those and I'm so glad that I 230 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 1: was intentional, intentional with my time and energy. So the 231 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: next the next what we're going into is family and 232 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: my relationship with Tim. 233 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 2: Let's start on a high. 234 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: And I am so fucking proud of the mom I 235 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: was this year. I really feel like this was the 236 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: year that I was just so solid in being a 237 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: working mom and showing up for Ivy and not feeling 238 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: any guilt, being so present with her, bit so strict 239 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 1: on my boundaries to make time for her and to 240 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: make sure that I had no guilt. And I haven't 241 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 1: always got that right in previous years, but this year, 242 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 1: like wow, it's just I was so clear on how 243 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: I wanted to show up and who I wanted to 244 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: be for her, and I really feel like I did 245 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 1: that and I'm so so proud of myself. And that 246 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 1: was because of the previous self development work that I 247 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: have done in twenty three and twenty two around Ivy, 248 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 1: because that feeling is not how I previously felt about 249 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: being a mom. 250 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 2: I really struggled. 251 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, so proud of myself, but it was because I 252 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: put in so much work on myself and it has 253 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 1: bled out into our relationship. 254 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:17,479 Speaker 2: Me and Tim. 255 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be really honest with you guys, like when 256 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 1: am I not? And I like, I really trust this 257 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 1: communication style, Like I would never post this over you know, 258 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: Instagram or whatnot, but like the podcast is sacred to me. 259 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 1: And if you're going to spend twenty to forty minutes 260 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: listening to my podcast, I feel like we have a 261 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: certain understanding and you're an amazing, respectful human and so 262 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 1: you will hear this and there will be no judgment 263 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: or if there is, like you have complete understanding. Bit 264 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:54,040 Speaker 1: Twenty twenty four was a rough year for me and Tim. Obviously, 265 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 1: we were trying to conceive while I'm a working mom, 266 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 1: he's looking after a three year old, and. 267 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 2: The economy went to shit. 268 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: There was just a lot of stresses happening on our relationship, 269 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: you know, stuff where I was like, I feel like 270 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: we've been through this before, Like why are we're going 271 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 1: through this, but I truly believe our relationship had to 272 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 1: break down to fall back together. In twenty twenty four, 273 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: we went through it, and like the biggest realization that 274 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: I have from this me and Tim, we've been together 275 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 1: since I was seventeen and he was twenty one, so 276 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: over twelve years now, thirteen years now, and we previously 277 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 1: kind of like if we're talking about interactions and like 278 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: shadow work, we played certain loops out together. And you 279 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: will do this with all your key relationships. So you'll 280 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 1: act in a certain way with your mom, and then 281 00:16:57,280 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 1: maybe act a tiny bit different with your dad, and 282 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 1: then maybe act a tiny bit different with your partner 283 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 1: and your best friend, and. 284 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 2: These are all parts of yourself. 285 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 1: But basically what has happened is as we grow up, 286 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 1: we learn certain coping mechanisms and we learn certain let's 287 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 1: call them strategies, where for example, my dad is someone 288 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 1: where he's emotionally intelligent, but he really can't deal when 289 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: people aren't happy, like I think he's you know, he's 290 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 1: gone through a lot in his life, and so if 291 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:39,160 Speaker 1: someone is really sad and down, he gets really uncomfortable 292 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 1: and he can't deal with it, like him going to 293 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:43,640 Speaker 1: a funeral, he freaks out, was my mum isn't She's 294 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 1: very sensitive? So who I am with my dad is 295 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: probably a little bit more emotionless and a little bit 296 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: more like, smile on my face, I'm all good, love you, 297 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: let's have a joke. I can talk about deep things, 298 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 1: but they're about kicking goals at work. 299 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 2: Good things happening. 300 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,439 Speaker 1: So I will be a certain person for him, and 301 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: that's like that's a loop. That's like something that we 302 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:11,399 Speaker 1: play out, and that's like our relationship. And just like 303 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,440 Speaker 1: with my mom, I can go deeper and I can 304 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:15,479 Speaker 1: be like I'm really fucking sad, and I can like 305 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:18,639 Speaker 1: show that emotion. She can really hold me just like 306 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 1: I have a different let's call it mass. So if 307 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 1: you think about it me being seventeen, since knowing Tim, 308 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: there's been a lot of mass that I've worn with 309 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 1: him where I have leant into certain strategies and the 310 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:34,200 Speaker 1: way that I have dealt with life in our relationship 311 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 1: to like make things work or to like get what 312 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:41,199 Speaker 1: I want and like we all will do it. So 313 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 1: for me and Tim's relationship, I often would you know, 314 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: he was my safe place. He was like my punching bag, 315 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:51,439 Speaker 1: and you know, if I was too stressed, it was 316 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 1: too much, I would often take it out on him. 317 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,680 Speaker 1: There was also this weird dynamic I would play where 318 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: if he was doing something I didn't like doing or 319 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,200 Speaker 1: anything like that, I wouldn't have a lot of space 320 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: for him. Not like an ultimatum, but you know, like 321 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 1: we'll stop doing that because I didn't like it. If 322 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:12,640 Speaker 1: you're gonna act like that, I'm out, Like not actually out, 323 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 1: but you know, like that sort of vibe. And it's 324 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: always been like kind of that dynamic in our relationship, 325 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:21,399 Speaker 1: and in the last couple of years we have like, 326 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: you know, fixed it and worked on it. And I 327 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 1: think it's because, like we met when I was younger 328 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:27,440 Speaker 1: and I was the young girl, he was the older boy. 329 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 1: He always looked after me. I was always like the 330 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 1: little princess. And so this year I felt like there 331 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 1: was this new layer of Tim calling me out of 332 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: my shit and not playing into my cycles and into 333 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:45,160 Speaker 1: my strategies and basically just being like, no, you need 334 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 1: to fucking look at your shit, and me being like, 335 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 1: oh my god, how dare you? And so I'm gonna 336 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 1: take a lot of responsibility for this year and say like, 337 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: we came up to a lot of tough moments because 338 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 1: I hadn't pre viously dealt with my shit and he 339 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: has also done a lot of self development work, and 340 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 1: he's like, no, like, I'm not dealing with your shit anymore, 341 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:10,399 Speaker 1: Like change it. We need to do life differently. And 342 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:13,960 Speaker 1: I did listen, and obviously there was vice versa stuff 343 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 1: with him that we worked through, but I felt like 344 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 1: we have never worked through so much shit than we 345 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 1: did in twenty twenty four in our relationship. He was 346 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:28,479 Speaker 1: actually wild on top of trying to conceive and like 347 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 1: doing life. And I think for me, the biggest lesson, 348 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: like I said, is for twenty twenty four in our 349 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:39,879 Speaker 1: relationship is some things have to die in order to 350 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:45,120 Speaker 1: be rebirth. And I honestly feel like our past relationship 351 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 1: is dead, Like I feel like we have a brand 352 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 1: new relationship. I want to say, like probably like midyear, 353 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: the first half of the year was really turbulent, and 354 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:58,880 Speaker 1: then right before Europe, we basically sat down and had 355 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 1: this whole thing where we were both like do you 356 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 1: want this? And we both obviously was like, yes, we 357 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: want this, and we promised to be one hundred percent 358 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:09,679 Speaker 1: in so yeah, that was a wild ride and like 359 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 1: not something I foresaw because we've always been like very 360 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: solid and you know, together forever and whatnot. But I'm 361 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 1: so glad I went through that. And I would just 362 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:21,679 Speaker 1: want to say, like, if you're currently going through a 363 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:25,439 Speaker 1: turbulent time in your relationship, it doesn't have to be 364 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: a bad thing. It can actually be an incredible thing 365 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:33,680 Speaker 1: because maybe your old relationship has to die for this new, 366 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:37,920 Speaker 1: beautiful relationship to come through. And even if you think 367 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 1: about it, like me and Tim have probably had a 368 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 1: thousand deaths in our relationship over the thirteen years together, 369 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 1: this one was just like really really big and really prominent. 370 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 1: So don't be scared if you're having relationship issues. That's 371 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: what I would say, Like, I really feel like we 372 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:57,920 Speaker 1: could work anythink out and we did seek help and 373 00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 1: we got that, and so talk to professionals about it. 374 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: Just like keep communicating. That's my advice is, like just 375 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 1: keep communicating and don't judge, So like, let the person 376 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:13,639 Speaker 1: communicate and say their feelings, but don't judge them for 377 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 1: their feelings. So yeah, in saying that, I feel like 378 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: now at the end of the year, I have never 379 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:24,240 Speaker 1: felt so solid and so good about us. I feel 380 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 1: like it all happened for this next baby to come through, 381 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 1: and I really feel like this baby is going to 382 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: come through soon because that needed to happen in our relationship, 383 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 1: and then this baby comes through. I don't know, it's 384 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: just like a feeling. Who knows, but yeah. 385 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:40,119 Speaker 2: That was wild. 386 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: And then we went to Europe and that was incredible. 387 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I like we had never been to Europe. 388 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 1: We did the whole we're not going to Europe, going 389 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,120 Speaker 1: to save our money and buy a house, which very 390 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: grateful for younger Georgie for making that decision because we 391 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 1: then got to do Europe super bougie and just like vibes. 392 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 2: And I think my. 393 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: Kind of takeaway from this was it's not selfish to 394 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 1: prioritize yourself and still have fun in your relationship for yourself, 395 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 1: even if you're a parent. 396 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 2: I know. 397 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,160 Speaker 1: I think we triggered a lot of people by going 398 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 1: to Europe without Ivy. 399 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 2: It was only two weeks. 400 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:25,720 Speaker 1: I'm so glad we did it because it was incredible 401 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 1: and it really like filled the whole inside of me 402 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: of like what I wanted to do In saying that 403 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,159 Speaker 1: I did miss her so much that I was like, 404 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,719 Speaker 1: I don't think I could do this again. And we 405 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:40,120 Speaker 1: were very strategic because we knew we wanted to get pregnant, 406 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 1: and we knew that like now, it kind of it 407 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: would be like now or never, because we never wanted 408 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: to leave two children while we're in Europe. And Ivy 409 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 1: is such an independent baby, like it's actually wild, like 410 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 1: she'll go to anyone, and she's obsessed with my parents, 411 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,199 Speaker 1: and we just we knew she would be fine. But 412 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 1: I just have these intuitive vibes that our next baby 413 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 1: is like really sensitive. I just I don't know, I 414 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,919 Speaker 1: get the vibes. And so I said to Tim, I 415 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:12,200 Speaker 1: don't think we'll ever be able to travel again ever again, 416 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:14,640 Speaker 1: No like travel, because I just feel like this baby, 417 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 1: next baby is sensitive and I just don't think we'll 418 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: be able to leave it. And I know that's like 419 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,760 Speaker 1: a really weird thing to say to you guys, and 420 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,200 Speaker 1: I understand that, but it makes sense in my head. 421 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 1: So anyway, we did it. Obviously, we had the means 422 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 1: to travel and do a bougie holiday just for two weeks, 423 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 1: because it is a lot of money to spend just 424 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,919 Speaker 1: for two weeks. We had the grandparents I could do 425 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: it with work, like we had all the ticks. 426 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 2: But in saying that, I did have that moment. 427 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 1: Of realization where I was like, it is a time 428 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 1: in our life where we just enjoy going up the coast, 429 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 1: staying in an airbnb with our kids and just relaxing 430 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 1: and not flying off to Europe and being okay with that. 431 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,119 Speaker 1: And I totally am I think I just needed to 432 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,160 Speaker 1: do it. And I was like, oh, yeah, like I've 433 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: done it. But also, this is the time to just 434 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 1: enjoy the baby baby stage. So I know that's kind 435 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 1: of contradicting, but also I'm gonna go with it, okay. 436 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:14,120 Speaker 1: So the next thing was n h's fifth birthday. This year, guys, 437 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 1: when I say twenty twenty four was turbulent with businesses. 438 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 1: We still scaled, we still expanded, we still had growth, 439 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 1: We still had some epic milestones and awesome things happened 440 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 1: in the business, but it didn't feel really hard this year. 441 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:39,720 Speaker 1: It felt like we were pushing shit upper hill. It 442 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 1: really really did, and it was very much like what 443 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 1: could go wrong was going wrong, Like we were having 444 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,199 Speaker 1: like issues with our manufacturer, like getting products, we were 445 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 1: having to push you know, launchers, our product pipeline, which 446 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:55,119 Speaker 1: is just like how long it takes to get out 447 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,879 Speaker 1: of product was blown right out, and so it was 448 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 1: really hard for the marketing team to like be ready 449 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,120 Speaker 1: when we never knew when a product was coming because 450 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 1: it never came on time. 451 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 2: It was really hard to plan things. 452 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it it honestly like it just felt hard. But 453 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 1: also I'm taking that as growth isn't always comfortable, and 454 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,200 Speaker 1: I think it's just because the previous couple of years, 455 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 1: Like I feel like the start of NH was really hard, 456 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,640 Speaker 1: and then we had these like breezy couple of years 457 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: COVID happened, everyone was spending their money like it felt 458 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,879 Speaker 1: really breezy and fun, and then I felt like this 459 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 1: year has just been like hard but also great reminder 460 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 1: that good things aren't meant to just like be easy 461 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 1: all the time. And I feel like we grew so 462 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 1: much as like business owners, the team grew so much. 463 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 1: My biggest lesson in business and twenty twenty four is 464 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:52,679 Speaker 1: consistency always wins. If you keep showing up, if you 465 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 1: keep trudging through the mud, if you are just so 466 00:26:55,480 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: strong on your purpose and your intentions in your business. Yeah, 467 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 1: it might be hard, but it will always be worth 468 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 1: it and you will always. 469 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 2: Win in the end. And then I had some really cool. 470 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 1: Like work milestones, like being featured in the Curia Mail. 471 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,640 Speaker 1: So thank you to my past self who worked her 472 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: ass off, because I felt like being featured in like 473 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 1: mainstream media in the social media world, recognized, but not 474 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: really in like the mainstream world. And I felt like, 475 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:31,000 Speaker 1: you know, your aunt, your grandma reads the Curia Mail, 476 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 1: so to be featured on there as a business owner 477 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 1: was incredible and that was just that was such a highlight. Okay, 478 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:46,399 Speaker 1: So then we go on to my thirtieth birthday. 479 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 2: Guys, I turned thirty this year. 480 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 1: My thirtieth birthday was just like everything I could have imagined. 481 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 2: It was so beautiful. I basically just had a long. 482 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,439 Speaker 1: Lunch with girlfriends at my house, but I fully got 483 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:02,119 Speaker 1: it like style, and I got a chef in you know, 484 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:03,679 Speaker 1: I had a champagne tower. 485 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 2: Like super Georgie, super bougie. And it's funny because when 486 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 2: I used. 487 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 1: To think about my thirtieth previously, I was I'm gonna 488 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,119 Speaker 1: be like out clubbing. I'm gonna like go on a boat. 489 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: There's gonna be a lot of people. That was like 490 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,679 Speaker 1: the last thing I wanted for my thirtieth birthday. I 491 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:24,160 Speaker 1: really wanted this intimate long lunch with like souls whoe 492 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,160 Speaker 1: were like, these are my ride or dies. These are 493 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:30,639 Speaker 1: like my closest girlfriends who are so interesting and so 494 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:34,200 Speaker 1: incredible and love me so much. 495 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:35,880 Speaker 2: That's who I had there. 496 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: And it was so beautiful and it was so incredible, 497 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 1: and I just had the best time and I just 498 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: feel so good. I honestly feel like I've been thirty 499 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 1: four years, but I feel so good being thirty, and 500 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 1: I'm just so excited of like what my thirties are 501 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 1: going to bring. And then so next up we launched. 502 00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 2: The Abundance Academy. 503 00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 1: So this has its own little spot in this year 504 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 1: because this course had been brewing in my subconscious, in 505 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 1: my brain, in the atmosphere for years. I have been 506 00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:13,080 Speaker 1: adding notes on this course for years and finally brought 507 00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: it into fruition, which I'm so proud of. It's incredible. 508 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 1: We have so many testimonials. 509 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 2: And what I. 510 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 1: Loved about this specific time is previously I didn't bring 511 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 1: out this course because I knew money was such a 512 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 1: triggering topic to people, and I didn't feel like I 513 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 1: could hold their projections and judgments previously, but this year 514 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,280 Speaker 1: I felt like I could, which if you think about it, 515 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 1: like now that I've told you everything during my year, 516 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 1: if you think about that, the fact that I could 517 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 1: hold everything else happening in my year, and I was like, Yeah, 518 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 1: let's bring out a course that's going to be triggering 519 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 1: this shit. Like you can see how solid I am 520 00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:58,720 Speaker 1: in myself and who I am and why I'm here. 521 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 1: So I'm so proud of me. I'm so proud of 522 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 1: the team. And we had the most amazing launch. We 523 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,960 Speaker 1: had like over fifteen hundred people joined, which just exceeded 524 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 1: my expectations for a first time course with no testimonials. 525 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,240 Speaker 2: And then after we have had. 526 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 1: Incredible testimonies, like people literally being like I wanted to 527 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 1: half my debt this month because it's a thirty day 528 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 1: course and it's only eight days in and my debt's gone, 529 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 1: and like just stuff like that where I'm like, wow, 530 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,479 Speaker 1: so so proud about that. And then it also like 531 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 1: it did come with people being triggered. It did come 532 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,480 Speaker 1: with clearly me not being everyone's cup of tea and 533 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 1: judgments and you know, those sorts of things, and I 534 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 1: was just able to hold myself and literally not care 535 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: and just be like I know who I am, I 536 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 1: know what I stand for, I know my heart, and 537 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: I just I really don't care if you're triggered about this, 538 00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 1: because this course is needed to other people and it's 539 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 1: going to change their lives. Say what you want. So 540 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:05,520 Speaker 1: so fucking proud on myself. Honestly, guys, if you struggle 541 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 1: with getting triggered by people, if it would disregulate you 542 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,480 Speaker 1: to get comments about you being greedy or like you know, 543 00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 1: maybe you've got a course or a business about something 544 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:15,760 Speaker 1: and you get comments and they trigger you. Go to 545 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 1: my last podcast last week all about triggers and do 546 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 1: that because it will be so helpful. 547 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 2: And then the last big. 548 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 1: Milestone is Ivy's third birthday. My baby Curl turned three, 549 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 1: which I just I can't guys like the fact that 550 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 1: only a couple of years ago I was like holding 551 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 1: sweet little newborn this time of year and she literally 552 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 1: turned three. 553 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm gonna let cry thinking about it. 554 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 1: But like I said, I'm so proud of like how 555 00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 1: I showed up this year as a mum. This year 556 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:57,120 Speaker 1: me and Ivy's relationship has just grown and strengthened as 557 00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:01,360 Speaker 1: the working parent who doesn't spend every day with her. 558 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 2: That's really special to me. 559 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it just has been incredible for me, and I 560 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 1: have this year really highlight of my year as of course, 561 00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 1: but yeah, we had her third birthday, which I was like, 562 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: time is flying by, Like it's literally just flying by. 563 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 2: So that was really really special. 564 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 1: But that is kind of summing up my reflections on 565 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 1: twenty twenty four, and I hope you guys loved it. 566 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 1: Like I said, I am just so clear about twenty 567 00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 1: twenty five, not that it's like put this year in 568 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 1: the bin. This year has just been challenging and fuck 569 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 1: it has shaped me and grown me, and I'm so 570 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: proud of myself for how I have shown up this year. 571 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: But I am ready for twenty twenty five to be different. 572 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 1: And I know if I'm the same person and doing 573 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:57,120 Speaker 1: the same things as twenty twenty four, twenty twenty five 574 00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,680 Speaker 1: is going to be the same as twenty twenty four, 575 00:32:58,960 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 1: and I just. 576 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 2: App absolutely refuse. 577 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 1: So I'm really cleaning things up. I'm setting intentions and 578 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: I'm goal setting in a very specific way for twenty 579 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,840 Speaker 1: twenty five, and I want you to join me because 580 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 1: it's going to be so powerful. It's going to be 581 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:21,520 Speaker 1: incredible for you to get clear of what you don't 582 00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: want to bring in with the year, that marsh you 583 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 1: want to take off and who you want to step 584 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:32,080 Speaker 1: into so you can be magnetic. So magnetic just means 585 00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 1: that things are drawn to you. 586 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,760 Speaker 2: You don't have to push shit up a hill. They 587 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 2: are drawn to you. 588 00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 1: And guys, I guarantee you watch me set up my 589 00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:46,280 Speaker 1: year through the Magnetic Blueprint and just watch twenty twenty 590 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 1: five unfold for me, like I just feel it in 591 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:52,040 Speaker 1: my bones. But I also know there's work. Just like 592 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 1: I said, I've had the best year as a working 593 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 1: mom with Ivy, but it's because of the work I 594 00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 1: did for the last two years before this year. And 595 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 1: so I know I have to put in work to 596 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:07,320 Speaker 1: have an extraordinary twenty twenty five. 597 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,319 Speaker 2: And you know I'm willing to do it. 598 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,759 Speaker 1: And so if you're willing to do it, come and 599 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 1: join us with the Magnetic Blueprint. It is currently on 600 00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:18,440 Speaker 1: early bird pricing. Get it, don't think about it, and 601 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 1: then we start jan eighteenth. All right, my loves, I 602 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:24,799 Speaker 1: adore you guys so much. I hope you love this episode. 603 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:28,960 Speaker 1: Connect with us via Instagram, or continue the conversation on 604 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:32,680 Speaker 1: our beautiful Facebook community page. All the details are in 605 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 1: the show notes and I will chat to you for 606 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:40,719 Speaker 1: our next one next week. Bye,