1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda's. 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 2: Well, we've heard in recent days that Martin Bascher, who 3 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 2: did that incredible palace door blowing off interview with Princess 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 2: Diana over twenty years ago. You do remember the interview, 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 2: don't you know? This is where Diana said there are 6 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 2: three in our marriage. She's the first royal to speak 7 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 2: so openly about how unhappy she'd been and really what 8 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 2: it was like to be a member of the royal family, 9 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 2: and how she was unhappy and. 10 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: Terrified she was doing Harry before Harry. 11 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 2: Well, yes, that's right. Well we now know it's only 12 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:37,559 Speaker 2: just come to light and the BBC has admitted this 13 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 2: that Martin Bisher got that interview under false pretenses. He 14 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 2: showed false receipts to Diana to claim that other members 15 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 2: of the royal family or her security detail people around 16 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 2: her were being paid to monitor her and to maybe 17 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 2: sell her secrets, maybe to speak out. So she was 18 00:00:55,760 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 2: in a heightened state of paranoia. 19 00:00:59,120 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: And. 20 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: Both her sons have spoken out about how this obviously 21 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: has made them feel. We had Prince William saying that 22 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 2: the BBC's failure has contributed significantly to her fear, her 23 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 2: paranoia and her isolation that I remember from those final 24 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 2: years with her. Hard hard stuff, isn't it. And Harry 25 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 2: has spoken out about how hard those years were. He's 26 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 2: just a snippet of what he said. 27 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: But unfortunately, when I think about my mum, the first 28 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 1: thing that comes to mind is always the same one 29 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 1: over and over again, struts in the car, seatbelt across 30 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 1: with my brother and the car as well, and my 31 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: mother driving and being chased by three four five mopas 32 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: with paparazziong and then she was almost unable to drive 33 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: because of the tears. There was no protection. 34 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 2: He said he felt powerless as a young boy to 35 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 2: help his mum would have been terrible, terrible. And I've 36 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: been a bit critical of Harry speaking out about his family. 37 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 2: He has said in recent days on a podcast that 38 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 2: the way he was parented from by his father was terrible, 39 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 2: and the way his father was parented didn't name people, 40 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 2: but presumably Queen and Prince Philip was terrible, and people 41 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 2: have lashed him because of this. But I've had a 42 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 2: bit of a change of heart. I've got a new 43 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 2: new empathy for Harry. I read an article by this 44 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 2: fantastic journalist called Marina Hyde and the Guardian in England, 45 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 2: and she said, here she's talking about how we've rewritten 46 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 2: our own history about Diana, and how absurd it is 47 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 2: and how hypocritical for Fleet Street, the newspapers and the 48 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:41,239 Speaker 2: magazines to be moralizing and to blame the BBC. She said, 49 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 2: Fleet Street know very well the terrible things they and 50 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 2: others did on countless occasions to get stories relating to 51 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,959 Speaker 2: Diana or her wider family. Defund the BBC was last 52 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 2: night's pontification from former Son editor who once put Diana's 53 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 2: covertly recorded private phone calls on a premium rate line 54 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 2: so readers could ring in and have a listen. The 55 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 2: tabloids made not like Prince Harry's reincarnation as a super 56 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 2: rich Californian wellness bore. But it does have the moral 57 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 2: edge of a pulling people's medical records and hacking the 58 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 2: phones of murdered thirteen year old girls, she said. But 59 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 2: of course few have rewritten their own history more than 60 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 2: Fleet Streets Diana Watches. She goes on to say that 61 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 2: when the Paris crash happened, when Diana was killed, already 62 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 2: the early editions of the Sunday Papers had been released 63 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:23,839 Speaker 2: and in those papers that same morning that Diana's death 64 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,959 Speaker 2: was being announced, the papers were saying, troubled Prince William 65 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: will today demand his mother dump her playboy lover. The Princess, 66 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 2: I fear said the Sunday Mirror suffers from the open 67 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 2: God before brain engages syndrome, a condition which afflicts the 68 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 2: trivial and the brain dead. So these were the headlines 69 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 2: the morning Diana is passing away. 70 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: Wow. 71 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 2: And then this journalist, Marina Hyde goes on to say, 72 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 2: twenty four years later, a full spectrum failure to acknowledge 73 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: any of this means that many of these same people 74 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 2: sit and now venerate Diana and slag off her troubled son, 75 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 2: Prince Harry. They know very well the pain and turmoil 76 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: of Diana's final years, having been such a helpful part 77 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 2: of it, yet they can't tolerate the understandably damaged child 78 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 2: raised amidst it. And she goes on to say attacks 79 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 2: on Harry do great business, so they continue. He in 80 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 2: turn points to these attacks as continued evidence of persecution, 81 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 2: and this toxic cycle continues again. She said, and I 82 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 2: think we've seen this footage too, that once the Queen 83 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 2: and Prince Philip returned home from a royal tour, leaving 84 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 2: their children for six months, Prince Charles a mere part 85 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 2: of the welcome party. An unsmiling five year old waits 86 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 2: dutifully simply required to shake his mother's hand. Anyone claiming 87 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 2: that this was normal in those days behavior has royal brainworms, 88 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 2: she said. Yet Harry's recent suggestion that neither he nor 89 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 2: his father had an especially healthy childhood is regarded as 90 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 2: sometime kind of grotesque blasphemy, mostly by people who would 91 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 2: be quite happy to refer to the above vignette as 92 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:53,919 Speaker 2: child abuse were it not the Queen who was involved. 93 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 2: And the daily male fuming that Prince Harry, how dare 94 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 2: he bring his mother into this? His own, his own story, 95 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:03,559 Speaker 2: And she says, and this is the thing that brings 96 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 2: us all up short, which brings us to the final 97 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 2: group not to own their actions, she says, the great 98 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 2: British public. But it's all of us, millions brought insatiably 99 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 2: into Diana's pain, a newspaper sales spiked for all of 100 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 2: the most obviously intrusive stories. The pall of blameness sanctimony 101 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 2: that descended after her death was an exercise in mass 102 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 2: hypocrisy from Diana to Harry. Damaged people do damaged and 103 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 2: sometimes damaging things. But it's important to remember as far 104 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 2: as the royal family is concerned that the public likes 105 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 2: it that way, Royal pain sells more than Royal happiness. 106 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 2: Panorama and the BBC may have lied, but the sales 107 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 2: tallies and the ratings never do, so we're all complicit. 108 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 2: We have candy coated and whitewashed what we did to her, 109 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 2: and this is such a reminder of how it was, 110 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 2: and now we're doing the same thing to her son, 111 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 2: who was destroyed by those actions. I mean, it's just 112 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 2: the saddest of story one begets the out it does, 113 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 2: so a bit of empathy and a bit of sympathy 114 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 2: all round, I think as all the royals and those 115 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 2: sons navigate their way through this, just read those women's 116 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 2: magazines for the Apricot Chicken and do the crosswords. 117 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:11,600 Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda's Damnation