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Speaker 1: Jonesy and Amanda's well.

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Speaker 2: Our next guest is the new expert joining married at

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Speaker 2: first sight. She's a sexologist. She's going to help couples

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Speaker 2: with intimacy and she's also probably going to help them

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Speaker 2: with this.

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Speaker 3: I learned about the passion in Australia. So has there

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Speaker 3: been pash?

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Speaker 2: We have a lot of questions. Alessandro Rampola, Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hello was mourning. Beautiful job on my last name. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: It's so satisfying to say, yeah, yeah, it speaks volumes ramolia.

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Speaker 1: I thank you. Thank you.

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Speaker 4: With your title as a sexologist, do you have that

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Speaker 4: on your business card?

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Speaker 1: I don't actually have a business card. I have business managers,

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Speaker 1: but I would have clinical sexologists absolutely. When I have

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Speaker 1: my private practice years ago, when I first started, I

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Speaker 1: did have business cards and it's a certified clinical sexologists

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Speaker 1: right out there, very proud of it.

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Speaker 2: And what exactly does a clinical sexologist do well?

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Speaker 1: A sexologist in general is an expert in human sexual behavior.

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Speaker 1: In my case, I combine that expertise with my training

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Speaker 1: as a marriage and family therapist, so I look at

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Speaker 1: couple of dynamics and the way that sexuality, you know,

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Speaker 1: lives in that dynamic, how it's expressed, and how it

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Speaker 1: works for or against the couple. So I'm all about

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Speaker 1: sexual understanding and connection and pleasure on big on pleasure

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Speaker 1: and satisfaction and communication and just having a really good,

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Speaker 1: sexy intimate time with your partner.

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Speaker 2: How does it work on a show like Married at

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Speaker 2: First Sight when these couples haven't started with a sexual

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Speaker 2: attraction necessarily, they haven't started with a friendship they pushed together.

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Speaker 2: How do you get them to be intimate in a

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Speaker 2: natural way.

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Speaker 1: Well, the first thing is I'm trying to get nobody

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Speaker 1: to be intimate, like I just want to make that

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Speaker 1: very clear. That's never the go I want out whatever

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Speaker 1: they want to do as adults who have chosen to

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Speaker 1: go into this experiment and live a life as quote

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Speaker 1: unquote a married couple having met at first sight and

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Speaker 1: only you know, having our expertise of putting them together

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Speaker 1: according to what we believe would be compatible, which is always,

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Speaker 1: you know, a crapshoot, because you really don't know, there's

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Speaker 1: no formula. I think if they go into it, they

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Speaker 1: know and they have their own certain expectations. And we

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Speaker 1: saw with us Popley. So some couples, right off the

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Speaker 1: that had very strong sexual chemistry and we're very liberal

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Speaker 1: and open and comfortable with sharing sexually right off to that,

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Speaker 1: and they did, and for some others it really didn't happen,

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Speaker 1: either the whole time or for most of the time.

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Speaker 1: So it's about going at your own pace, knowing yourself

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Speaker 1: well enough, and being able to negotiate as you get

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Speaker 1: to know the other person, what feels good for them

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Speaker 1: and where do you overlap.

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Speaker 2: I say that in one of the promos, you're asking

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Speaker 2: a couple to cup each other's genitals.

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Speaker 1: Yes, how did you know happen? Think happen in math? Yes,

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Speaker 1: certainly there's going to be moments in the season where

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Speaker 1: I interact with the couples and give pointers as far

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Speaker 1: as you know, different exercises they can do that will

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Speaker 1: help build and strengthen their bond. And if they're so

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Speaker 1: inclined and are willing and ready and feel comfortable, then

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Speaker 1: they are you know, as to go ahead and practice

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Speaker 1: these exercises. And one of them is about sexual energy

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Speaker 1: and connection and I dazing and synchronized breathing and copying

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Speaker 1: of genitals, all that included.

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Speaker 2: It's all about the correction and do you in your

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Speaker 2: own relationships. Is it intimidating for a partner to know

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Speaker 2: what you do for a living because I think I'm

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Speaker 2: you know, hype on a ride, I'm good at it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it can be very intimidating. In my case,

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Speaker 1: not only am I as astrologist, that I am a

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Speaker 1: public figure and I do this very public work in

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Speaker 1: all these different countries, so there's a lot of like

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Speaker 1: everybody knows. It's not just them knowing, it's them knowing

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Speaker 1: that the world grows talk about this, and that can

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Speaker 1: be very intimidating for a lot of men. And to

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Speaker 1: be quite honest, it's a nice It's kind of like

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Speaker 1: a nice alert for me because I'm not interested in

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Speaker 1: people who would be intimidated by my profession. If somebody

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Speaker 1: can't see past my profession to see the woman that

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Speaker 1: I am, then you know, that's just not cool, not

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Speaker 1: good enough. So it helps me e gauge whoever's intimidated

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Speaker 1: or whoever, on the contrary, is like I say, maybe

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Speaker 1: salivating a little bit too much because she's a six slogy,

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Speaker 1: she's gonna be in me, and so that turns me

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Speaker 1: up too, because there's too much pressure on me. So no,

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Speaker 1: either way is not good. It has to be somebody

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Speaker 1: that likes me as a person.

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Speaker 4: Well, you could be like a mechanic, Like a mechanic

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Speaker 4: at home. All the cars at home don't work because

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Speaker 4: he's seek of, you know, dealing with mechanics.

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Speaker 3: So as sexologist, you could be just the same as

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Speaker 3: our and go to bed. I'm going to bed, see you,

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Speaker 3: that's me.

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Speaker 1: It could be the taste for Fortunately for me it.

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Speaker 2: Is you have to cup yourself now, I'm covering myself as.

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Speaker 4: We Yeah, Alessandra, it's great to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Married at First Sight returns tonight seven thirty on Channel nine.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, yay, thank you so much. I'm so excited

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Speaker 1: with the premiere. Thanks for having me. Jonesy and Amanda's

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