1 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families Podcast. It's the podcast for the 2 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: time poor parent who just wants answers. 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 2: Now, good day, this stops. Justin Colson, Welcome to the 4 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 2: Happy Families Podcast. Today a special guest having a chat about. 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: Kids and cash. 6 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 2: That's right, children and money. How do they manage it 7 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 2: or how do they mismanage it? What are they doing 8 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 2: with their dollars that we give them their hard earned 9 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 2: pocket money, their birthday money, their Christmas money. Yesh Co 10 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 2: is the MD, the managing director of a new app 11 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 2: that's called kit k I Kit and Yes, joins me 12 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:39,279 Speaker 2: now to talk about kids, money and the app. By 13 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 2: the way, I will mention this is not a sponsored podcast. 14 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:45,919 Speaker 2: I came across yesh through a mutual friend saw some 15 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 2: of the data that had been collected by kit and 16 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 2: the things that they're doing with the app. I thought 17 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 2: parents need to know about this, so hashtag not sponsored. 18 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 2: Yesh thanks for joining me on the Happy Families Podcast. 19 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 2: It's great to have you here. 20 00:00:58,400 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 3: Thanks for harvary. Justin. 21 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 2: So parents need to teach their kids about money. You've 22 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:05,279 Speaker 2: done a survey and found that a lot of kids 23 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: think that the most effective way to teach kids about 24 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 2: money is through standardized lessons at school. That surprised me. 25 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 2: Tell me about the percentage of parents that were going 26 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 2: in that direction and why you think that's important and 27 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 2: do you reckon that they're on the ball there or 28 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 2: do you think the parents should be doing it. 29 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 3: So sixty one percent of parents that we surveyed, and 30 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 3: there were two thousand parents that we surveyed across Australia 31 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 3: so that they thought that schools are best faced for 32 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 3: kids to learn about money. And I agree that schools 33 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 3: are a very important place to learn about what we 34 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 3: call financial literacy, which is the knowledge and concepts when 35 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 3: it comes to money. But there's much more to being 36 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 3: good at money than just financial literacy. We talk about 37 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 3: financial capability, which encompasses things like the values you have 38 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:53,559 Speaker 3: around money, positive money mindsets and behaviors. And parents actually 39 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 3: play a really strong role, not just in role modeling, 40 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 3: but also talking to their kids about money so that 41 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 3: they do have those skills when they're in everyday money 42 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 3: moments like it's a supermarket or when they're buying lollies 43 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 3: or things that they might be saving for. So you know, 44 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 3: it has to be both. 45 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 2: I don't think that I learned very much about money 46 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 2: until I had money and then started spending it all 47 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 2: and realized that I didn't have any money again, And 48 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 2: that wasn't necessarily when I was at the touch shop 49 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 2: spending money on my twenty cents worth of eucalyptus drops. 50 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: And my meat pie. Do you reckon that? 51 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 2: It's one of those things so that no matter how 52 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 2: much you talk about money, the kids eventually have to 53 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,519 Speaker 2: go and live it and experience it. 54 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 3: Absolutely nothing is teaches kids faster about money than spending 55 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 3: all their pocket money and wanting something and realizing they 56 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 3: don't have enough to teach them to save. So no, 57 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 3: I agree, it's not just talking about money. Talking is 58 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:45,239 Speaker 3: very important and financial socialization. Talking about money is a 59 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 3: key indicator financial capability. The other side of it is 60 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 3: having hands on experience and kids being able to make 61 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 3: their own decisions. And I think sometimes parents are afraid 62 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 3: of worrying their children because they don't want them to 63 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 3: have to deal with money. You know, they're young and 64 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 3: want to have fun, and then yes, you can do that, 65 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 3: but you can also do in a really controlled way, 66 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 3: so you know, the giving of pocket money and getting 67 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 3: them to earn money through chores ways that kids can understand, Yes, 68 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 3: money's not free, You've got to do things to earn money. 69 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 3: And then the decision they make about money, You know, 70 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 3: the idea that if you want something, actually, why don't 71 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 3: you earn it? Or why don't you save up for 72 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 3: it so that you can then buy it? And how 73 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 3: amazing that is to be able to delay gratification and 74 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 3: then get something that you really wanted. 75 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 2: It's so funny that you use those two words. I 76 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 2: was literally about to say delayed gratification. It's such a 77 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,359 Speaker 2: challenge for so many kids. I want to talk to 78 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 2: you about something specific that came up in your research. So, 79 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 2: as you said, two thousand Australian parents, you found that 80 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 2: fourteen hundred of them, more than in fact, more than that, 81 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 2: more than seven in ten are concerned about the impact 82 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:51,119 Speaker 2: that online games are having on their kids' money behavior. 83 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 2: But about half of parents are actively avoiding having conversations with. 84 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: Kids about money. 85 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 2: Can we unpack that a little bit because there's so 86 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 2: much there that we could talk about. 87 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 3: Oh, yes, and online games are I think they're very 88 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 3: dangerous because you know, as millennial parents sort of parents 89 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 3: of young children are millennials, and they play games growing up. 90 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 3: You know, you know, we'll PlayStation and maybe you go 91 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 3: to the store and you buy PlayStation game. But the 92 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 3: world of online gaming today is actually very different and 93 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 3: much more dangerous in some So you know, you have 94 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 3: games where kids can spend money within the game, so 95 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 3: enop spending. And then you have skins and things that 96 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 3: kids are marketed to within the games. You know, there'll 97 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 3: be sales saying, you know, don't miss out on this 98 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 3: laterst drop. You don't buy this now, you know it 99 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 3: won't be this price forever. So all these marketing tactics, 100 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 3: kids aren't really being protected against when it comes to 101 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 3: online gaming. So I'm not surprised that seven out of 102 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 3: ten parents are really worried about it, particularly when it's 103 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 3: online as well. And you no longer have that tangible 104 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 3: link between here's money and I'm handing it over to 105 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 3: buy something, but actually they're just clicking and then some way, 106 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 3: you know, on the parent's credit card or something, money 107 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 3: is just being deducted and the kids don't necessarily have 108 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 3: that link that actually it's real money being spent. 109 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, and because it's not their money anyway, there's even 110 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 2: more distance between them and the money. 111 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: I had a funny experience. 112 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 2: When I bought a meal just in the last couple 113 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 2: of days. For whatever reason, I decided to pay cash 114 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 2: instead of tapping my card. I can't remember the last 115 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 2: time I used cash for anything, but I opened my 116 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 2: wallet and saw this cash that had literally been there 117 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 2: for I reckon about six months. 118 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: I thought, oh, I might just spend the cash. 119 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 2: The lady held the machine out for me to tap 120 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 2: my fifty dollar note on the top of the machine. 121 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:37,919 Speaker 2: Like it didn't click with her that I was actually 122 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 2: giving her a pineapple, a little sort of golden colored 123 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 2: fifty rather than tapping my card. It was such a 124 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 2: bizarre thing because we're so in the habit of now 125 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,559 Speaker 2: not really dealing with money, but just dealing with bits 126 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:54,919 Speaker 2: and buy its with the computerized elements that transfer money 127 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 2: without us ever touching it. Our kids are not experiencing 128 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:01,359 Speaker 2: money the same way that we used to. And I 129 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 2: guess the other thing that stands out to me when 130 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 2: you're talking about what's happening with the online gaming is gambling. 131 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 2: We know now that our kids, because they've got access 132 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 2: to our credit cards, they're connected to all of our 133 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 2: devices and that sort of thing. We know that online 134 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 2: gambling is becoming a bigger and bigger issue, right. 135 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 3: Yes, And it's not just sort of gambling in the 136 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 3: sense of they are children are having access to gambling, 137 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 3: but also in online gage themselves. You pay your money, 138 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 3: but you don't necessarily know what's going to be inside. 139 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 3: You have a chance of something that's really valuable, and 140 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 3: so that sort of invariable reward actually you know, works 141 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 3: from the addiction centers of the brain, and so you know, 142 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 3: it's one thing for a parent and a slot machine 143 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 3: and an adult sort but when you're talking about kids 144 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 3: being exposed to exactly those same mechanisms, it can be 145 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 3: really dangerous and addictive. And trying to explain to them 146 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 3: that to kids that this is something that they're trying 147 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 3: to trick you into buying more and more again and again. 148 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: Yesh. 149 00:06:56,920 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 2: Another question for you in relation to kids and money. 150 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: In your survey, did you ask parents whether they feel 151 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:08,239 Speaker 2: like they're equipped well equipped to teach their children about 152 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 2: how money works, both in real life and in the 153 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 2: I mean, the online world is still real life, but 154 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, in the virtual world and 155 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: in the real world, do parents feel like they're across it, 156 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 2: they feel like they've got enough knowledge to really effectively 157 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 2: teach their kids to grow their money sense. 158 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. So, you know, more than half parents that we 159 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 3: surveyed said that they teach their children of money based 160 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 3: on their own knowledge, but pretty much all of them 161 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 3: with thirty two percent, so that they could use help 162 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 3: from other sources. And this is particularly this case for 163 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 3: the sort of online and cashist society that parents just 164 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 3: when we just didn't grow up in a world of 165 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 3: money that was like that. 166 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 2: After break, I want to ask you a couple of 167 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 2: questions about what parents can do to help their kids 168 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 2: to be better educated about money because it is such 169 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 2: a challenging topic and there are so many different ways 170 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 2: that we can go about this. I know we've talked 171 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 2: about it previously on the Happy Families podcast, but I've 172 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 2: got a couple. 173 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: Of specific questions for you. 174 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 2: Yesh Yeshko is the managing director of a new app 175 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 2: called kit It's a money app for kids. This is 176 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 2: a not sponsored conversation about kids and money and what 177 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 2: they're doing online. 178 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: Back right off the break. 179 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 2: Starting school is an exciting time, but it can also 180 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 2: be a little worrying. 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Ishko is the managing director of a new 191 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 2: app called kit That's k. 192 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:52,679 Speaker 1: Yesh. 193 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 2: I'm really enjoying our conversation. I want to talk about 194 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 2: how parents can help their kids to become more money literate. 195 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 2: You've done all this research, You've got a couple of 196 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:05,959 Speaker 2: thousand parents who are giving you their information. When you 197 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 2: sifted through all the data, what were the key points 198 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,199 Speaker 2: that stood out for you? If parents want their kids 199 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 2: to become more money literate, what would you point them towards? 200 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 3: So I put them towards sort of three different things. 201 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 3: So the first one is it is really important to 202 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 3: talk about money. You know, more than almost half of 203 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 3: parents are avoiding talking to their kids about money, and 204 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 3: you know, usually because they don't want to worry their 205 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 3: kids about money, or they feel that they themselves aren't 206 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 3: great about money. But you don't have to talk about 207 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 3: it in a way that will worry your kids. You know, 208 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 3: you talk about things like the fact that you work 209 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 3: to earn money, talk about the importance of saving things 210 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 3: you might be saving for, how you make decisions on 211 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 3: what to buy, and even things like you know, superannuation 212 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 3: or the cost of living. You can talk about it 213 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 3: in generic terms without going into the specifics to worry 214 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 3: your kids about what specifically is happening. 215 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 2: Yes, I want to pick up on that because there's 216 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 2: this sense when when somebody says you need to talk 217 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 2: to your kids about money, talk about your own financial situation. 218 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:05,839 Speaker 2: A lot of parents are like, I don't want to 219 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 2: tell the kids how much I'm earning. I don't want 220 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 2: them to go and tell the neighbors or their friends 221 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:10,560 Speaker 2: or all these other people. I don't want the schools 222 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 2: each other find out how much I'm earning. But that's 223 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 2: not really what you're saying. We do an activity with 224 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 2: our kids every few months where we print up the 225 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 2: credit card statement and we. 226 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 1: Actually go through it. 227 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 2: Well, actually we have a debit card, but credit card 228 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,439 Speaker 2: debit card whatever, the same principle that is, I'm using 229 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 2: a card for all of my purchases because I get 230 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 2: my outline points when I do that, right. But we 231 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 2: sit down with the kids and we go through line 232 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 2: by line and categorize what our expenses are. So there's fuel, 233 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 2: and there's food, and there's schooling, and there's clothing, and 234 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 2: there's haircuts and blah blah blah blah blah. And we 235 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 2: do that for every month or every couple of months 236 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 2: so that the kids can see where the money goes. 237 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 2: And then we'll ask them who's getting most of our 238 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 2: money and how do you feel about the money going there? 239 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 2: And how much money are we spending on on our 240 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 2: Indian and our tie when we buy out? How much 241 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 2: money coals and woolies getting every fortnight from us? So 242 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 2: we're giving coals and woolies too much money? Are we 243 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 2: traveling too much? How much are we spending on fuel? 244 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 2: Is that okay to spend that much money every single week? 245 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 2: And we're teaching them how to divide it so you 246 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 2: can work out what it is per week, and then 247 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 2: times are by fifty two so you can work out 248 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 2: what it is annually. And it's those conversations talking about 249 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 2: what we're spending our money on and how we're making 250 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 2: those decisions. We review our subscriptions regularly, so we'll say 251 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 2: how much are we using Netflix? Do we really watch Disney? 252 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 2: How important is it that we have the Spotify subscription? 253 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 2: Should we go and get this new one that's just 254 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 2: come out that everyone's talking about? How important is TV? 255 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 2: We recently had one about Foxtel. My parents came to 256 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 2: stay for a couple of nights, and my dad loves 257 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 2: his footy, and so we got the free trial of Foxtel. 258 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 2: I think it's like a ten day free trial. And 259 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 2: I sat down with the kids and I said, okay, 260 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:56,560 Speaker 2: Foxtel costs. I think it was I don't know, seventy 261 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 2: bucks a month or something, or if you have the 262 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 2: full package, it's one hundred and ten dollars month. And 263 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 2: I said, is it worth one hundred and ten bucks 264 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 2: to have Foxtail? And they didn't even ask what's on Fox? 265 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 2: Till they just looked around and said, oh, that's a 266 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 2: lot of money. Because they know that Netflix, because we've 267 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 2: had these conversations, they know that our Netflix subscription is 268 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 2: less than twenty bucks a month and they're going, foxtail 269 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 2: is not five times better, We're not willing to pay that. 270 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 2: By the way, Foxtel, I hope they're not listening. 271 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: To his podcast. They're now I'm going to advertise with 272 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 1: us after that. 273 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 2: But but you know, I think when you say talk 274 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 2: about money, sometimes parents will say, oh, no, I'm not 275 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 2: going to have those conversations. 276 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:35,679 Speaker 3: Really interesting we had around Easter one of our colleagues 277 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 3: had a young son, and we rats and testing with kids, 278 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 3: and we asked, kids, you know, what are your parents' 279 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 3: attitude towards money, And there was a hilarious nine year 280 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 3: old who said, you know, my parents just dishout. They 281 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 3: just spend on everything, you know, just like this, and 282 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 3: the parents podby. She said, we just went to the 283 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:55,680 Speaker 3: Easter game, to the Easter show, and we had budgeted 284 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 3: that the kid would be allowed one toy and like 285 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 3: one showbag, and you know, they they've actually told him 286 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 3: that they had budgeted that in their mind, and so 287 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 3: in his mind he was like, I just got whatever 288 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 3: I wanted. And so there was actually a really interesting 289 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 3: learning point for their parents. They said, actually, from now on, 290 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:13,319 Speaker 3: like now that we've heard our kids say that these 291 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,439 Speaker 3: things that we just spend money really nearly that we're 292 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 3: going to talk to them about, like why we set 293 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 3: a budget upfront and what the rationale was. 294 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 2: I love that insight. That's so great, and like you said, 295 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:24,559 Speaker 2: a couple of other things, I just want to draw 296 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 2: them out. I drob them down here. You said, talk 297 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 2: about what you're saving for. So the Easter show is 298 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 2: a perfect example of that, right or whatever the holiday 299 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 2: that's coming up. How much money do we want to 300 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 2: have as spending money when we go away for this weekend? 301 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 2: What are we going to spend our money on? So 302 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 2: the kids know that there's a budget, that there's an 303 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 2: intention to spend, but it's going to be limited to X, 304 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:47,559 Speaker 2: Y and z. As those money conversations that teach them 305 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:49,559 Speaker 2: to be money literate, and the one that we've started 306 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 2: with our kids because housing affordability is such a big issue, 307 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 2: we're talking to our kids from twelve and up about 308 00:13:55,880 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 2: saving up for their first house so that they actually 309 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 2: got this big picture goal in mind, and that what 310 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 2: we're seeing is that our young kids, like twelve and fifteen, 311 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 2: they're making money decisions now with a house in mind, 312 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 2: or a unit in mind or something like that. 313 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. 314 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 2: They'll never save for a unit based on the amount 315 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 2: of pocket money I give them. I mean they get 316 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 2: like ten bucks a week, and if they get a 317 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 2: part time job, it's not going to be that much either. 318 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 2: But they're putting the money away with a recognition that 319 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 2: if they want to have the house, they're going to 320 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 2: have to save their backsides off. So hint number one, 321 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 2: talk about money. 322 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 1: I love that. Now you said there were three, what 323 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: are the next two? 324 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 3: So number two is give your children hands on experience 325 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 3: with the money. So let them make their own decisions 326 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 3: about money, obviously in a controlled way, so you know, 327 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 3: giving pocket money. I think the average from our survey 328 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 3: that Australian kids are getting these days is twelve dollars 329 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 3: a week. Just let them spend that money however they 330 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 3: want to spend that money. Allow them to make mistakes. 331 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 4: That is how they'll earn. 332 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 3: So it's much better they waste, you know, the twenty 333 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 3: dollars on lollies and then realize that it's that they 334 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 3: wanted to buy this toy. Now they don't have anything 335 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 3: that they do that now, then have like a five 336 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 3: thousand dollar credit card, get down the track. It's really 337 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 3: interesting how they will then teach themselves, and you, as 338 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 3: a parent don't have to be the bad guy and 339 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 3: say no. So one of somebody I know gave us 340 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 3: David the anecdote that you know, his kid went and 341 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 3: spent all his money on jelly beans, and they were 342 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 3: in kmart, and the kid wanted to buy this twenty 343 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 3: dollars toy and get nothing left of his pocket money. 344 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 3: And the next day the kid, actually, I'm prompted, said 345 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 3: to his dad, you know, I really regret buying all 346 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 3: those lollies. I think next time, before I make a 347 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 3: purchase like that, I'll wait for twenty four hours and 348 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 3: think about it if I really want to buy it. 349 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 3: And this is with no pumpting from the parent whatsoever. 350 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 3: Like the fact that the kid had understood the consequences 351 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 3: and thought about how to prevent that from happening in 352 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 3: the future taught him everything with that parent needed to be. 353 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 4: The bad guy. 354 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I really like that. 355 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 2: Of course, we need to courage your kids and give 356 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 2: them something to save for and look forward to things. 357 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: But letting the kids have the learning can be so powerful. 358 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 1: What's the last one? 359 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 3: And the last one is about looking for ways to 360 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 3: collaborate with your child to find win with I love 361 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 3: that you show your credit card statement your kids. I 362 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 3: think it won't be too long till you can ask 363 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 3: them to buy your better deal and your electricity and 364 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 3: to put the savings. 365 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 1: So nice idea. I like that. 366 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, but yeah, collaborate with them so you know, if 367 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 4: you have a holiday that you are going on, if 368 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 4: you are saving up for a family holiday, can you 369 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 4: get them to save up for something that they might 370 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 4: want to buy when they're on the. 371 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 3: Holiday as well, so that you're doing something together as 372 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 3: a family. You know, have you got things lying around 373 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 3: that you could sell on Facebook marketplace and you know 374 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 3: maybe they can take the charge and then you know, 375 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 3: take a bit of a fee for that. So finals 376 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 3: and ways that can make your life easier. But teach 377 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 3: them about money and give them the opportunity to earn 378 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 3: a little bit as well. 379 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 1: I love it. 380 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 2: What a great conversation. Tell us a little bit about KIT. 381 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 2: Since you've been so kind sharing all of these great 382 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 2: money tips for parents and kids. What is this money 383 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 2: up for kids? 384 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: What is KIT? 385 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 3: So? Kit is a money up for kids. It is 386 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 3: designed because we're now in a world where we're going 387 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:19,880 Speaker 3: cashless and so money and payments are becoming invisible. So 388 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 3: Kit is all about, in this new world of digital money, 389 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 3: making money visible for kids and helping them to have 390 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 3: an experience for kids that feels like it's for them. 391 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 3: It gives them that level of autonomy, but where parents 392 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 3: have oversight control. So with the Kit account, it comes 393 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 3: with a prepaid card. Kids can own pocket money by 394 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 3: doing chores. It's linked to a bank account of parents 395 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 3: that's up when they set up the account. They can 396 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:49,400 Speaker 3: save their money, set their goals. It's all customizable with stickers, 397 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 3: and it's highly visual so that kids can understand it. 398 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,120 Speaker 3: And then they can also spend with the free paid card, 399 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 3: and it all comes with customizable controls spend the MITS 400 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:01,359 Speaker 3: card and pin protection and so forth. And Kit is 401 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 3: a little black balancing ball. It's a character itself who 402 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 3: actually educates kids about money as they use the app. 403 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:10,159 Speaker 3: So when certain things happen the app, Kit will nudge 404 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 3: the kid and say, hey, it looks like your goal 405 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 3: might be coming up. You've still got some money left 406 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 3: to save. Do you want to check it out? 407 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 4: You know? 408 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 3: Kickballs explain when they first activate their prepaid card. For example, 409 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 3: what is this card and you know, unfortunately there isn't 410 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 3: an unlimited source of money on it, so we've designed 411 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 3: it so that it really is for young people first 412 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 3: and foremost. 413 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 2: Okay, super If people want to learn more about Kit, 414 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 2: is there a website or. 415 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 3: Kit dot com dot Au is our website and you 416 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:41,359 Speaker 3: can sign up with in the process of a beta 417 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 3: at the moment, so sign up on that and you 418 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 3: can get access to the app. We have a cap 419 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 3: of five thousand. 420 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 2: Okay, y Ish co the MD of a new app 421 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 2: called Kit. You can find out more at Heykit dot 422 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 2: com dot You. Really appreciate your time, y Ish, and 423 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 2: good luck with the app. I hope that it helps 424 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 2: a whole new generation of kids become so much more 425 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 2: financially literally savvy and accomplished. 426 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 3: Well done, Thanks so much, Justin appreciate it. 427 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:07,119 Speaker 2: The Happy Families podcast is produced by Justin Ruland from 428 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,919 Speaker 2: Bridge Media. Craig Bruce is our executive producer. 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