1 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the 2 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm 3 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: Kate Torber and coming up on today's show. More red 4 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: flags for Tammy Hembro ahead of her wedding next month, 5 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: Sarah's Day Is Dramatic final days of pregnancy and Steph 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: glare Smith's anti climactic life update. But first, A bizarre 7 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: rant about sausages and saunas has sparked breakup rumors between 8 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: Sky Wheatley and her baby daddy, Locky war Yeah. So 9 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: Lockie has been missing from Sky's social media for a 10 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 1: couple of weeks now, and it's quite odd because initially 11 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: Lockie never wanted to be included on Sky's channel. He 12 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 1: made it pretty clear he didn't want to get involved. 13 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: But since she won I'm a Celeb, he has started 14 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 1: being featured more and more. And at the time a 15 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:50,559 Speaker 1: lot of people said possibly it was because his business 16 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 1: wasn't doing so well, so maybe he realized that he 17 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: might have to go on and start a social media 18 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: career of his own or be more supportive of Sky's career. 19 00:00:58,560 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: Well. 20 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: A couple of months ago, there were media reports that 21 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: his business shop fit Co, had gone into administration just 22 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: last week. He hit back at those claims, saying that 23 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: his business was still solvent. I have always loved seeing 24 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: Lockie on Sky's channel. He is hilarious, even without trying 25 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: to be. I have a soft spot for him as well, 26 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: because I don't think he intentionally tries to be funny. No. 27 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: I think he's just I don't want to say, an 28 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: odd ball, but I think he's just a bit weird. 29 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: And he and Sky just play off each other really 30 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: well because he'll give it to her. Yeah, a lot 31 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 1: of people have noticed that he's actually a bit of 32 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: eye candy as well. He was never really my type, 33 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: but he seems to have matured a bit. I don't 34 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: know if he's just been hitting the gym or not. 35 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: I think it's when guys reach thirty and they start 36 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 1: to look like real men. Yeah, maybe that has something 37 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: to do with it. So I had a big laugh 38 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: on Sunday because I don't follow him on social media, 39 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: but one of the comments on Sky's photos said to 40 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: go check it out because he was being a little 41 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: bit unhinged. And his usurname is sweet Tooth, isn't it. 42 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: It's actually not his real name. Yeah, so when I 43 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: clicked over, I was surprised his page actually has fifty 44 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: one thousand followers. I'm guessing all of Sky's followers have 45 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: gone over. I haven't seen someone be so real on 46 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: social media for such a long time. Let's throw to 47 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: some of what he said. 48 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 3: It just a bit of fucking turpeto, you fucking buy, 49 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 3: and you know what happens when you have a bit 50 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 3: of Chariza. It was a bit falking. So you're gonna 51 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 3: be back back and that that Genta baby, you fucking beer, 52 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 3: and you know what they say when you've had too 53 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 3: much Chriso, then too many Gent's, You're just gotta take 54 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 3: yourself downtown. 55 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,800 Speaker 4: You're gotta have a really serious thing about what you've done. 56 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 5: And you've got a sweet of their baby. And then 57 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:55,639 Speaker 5: you might find yourself sitting down pondering wondering why did 58 00:02:55,680 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 5: I just eat three or four lengths of sausage? He 59 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 5: might be thinking do. 60 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 4: I really need to eat three pieces of sausage? 61 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 5: And then I lay here, sit and wonder, and I think, well, 62 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 5: you probably didn't need to eat three pieces of sausage. 63 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 5: Maybe one sausage would have done, Maybe. 64 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 4: Two bit three three pieces of sausage. 65 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 5: That's one sausage too much. 66 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 4: I don't know about you, guys, but I thought, I 67 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 4: hope you guys enjoy that, because I'll tell you what. 68 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 4: I'm fucking sick to death of just seeing fucking fake shit. 69 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 5: I don't know what's gone on in the fucking world anymore. 70 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 4: But everyone's so just fucking serious, and everyone's just doing 71 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 4: fitness and shit. I mean, that's all good, be fit, 72 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 4: but like, don't live alive, just like do shit? Who cares? 73 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 4: Stop being so fucking serious. 74 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: I tend to agree with him. I want to see 75 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: more content like that on social media. I want to 76 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: see people being unhinged saying it how it is. There 77 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: was a part of me that was thinking, is he 78 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: taking aim at Sky? But let's be honest, Sky is 79 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: exactly like that on social media. She does post fitness stuff, 80 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: but she also never filters herself. I really enjoyed the 81 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: content too. However, there was a bit of a mixed 82 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: reception in our Facebook community. So one of our listeners 83 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 1: said his stories are giving midlife crisis ha ha ha. 84 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: Another said guys who jump on social media and yap 85 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: are generally super embarrassing. To be honest, whilst another said 86 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: I'm finding it odd because he hated being on social media. Well, 87 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: the reason people think that Locke has broken up with 88 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,239 Speaker 1: Sky or that they're on a break is the fact 89 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 1: that all of that footage was actually filmed at people 90 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: are speculating his mum's house. It was a very nice house. 91 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 1: It had a beautiful pool, it was very Hampton Styler 92 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 1: even had a sauna, as you could hear. I remember 93 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 1: seeing Locke's parents appear in a very early vlog when 94 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 1: Sky and Locke started dating, and I think that they 95 00:04:57,160 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: were meeting for a Christmas celebration, and his parents very 96 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 1: how to do, and they looked rather taken back by 97 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 1: some of the things that Sky was saying. So I 98 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:08,279 Speaker 1: think that they are very wealthy. Some people think that 99 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: he must just be house sitting for his mum, who 100 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 1: appears to be holidaying at the moment. I wonder if 101 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: he went rogue on social media because he's a bit lonely. 102 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: He's probably used to being in this very chaotic and 103 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: loud house with Sky and their kids, and maybe he 104 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: just felt like getting some of that energy out online. 105 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 1: I just think he went rogue because he was enjoying himself. 106 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 1: I mean, if you're a father of two and you 107 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 1: used to being in a family environment and you've got 108 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: this beautiful house by yourself. He ate three or four 109 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 1: tritzo sausages and when in a sauna, I mean, what 110 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: a perfect evening for some people. Yeah, it's just interesting 111 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 1: that he would choose to share it, particularly when he 112 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: has been so against appearing in Sky's social media content. 113 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 1: I'm officially five days away from my dune date. 114 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 2: I'm thirty nine weeks and two days. 115 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 4: Ugh, you'll just have to believe me. I currently give 116 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:53,919 Speaker 4: you a. 117 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 2: Bob up date. 118 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 1: Sarah's Day is definitely making the most out of her 119 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 1: third and final pregnancy. The controversial influencer has been keeping 120 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: her one point two million followers regularly updated on her 121 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 1: final weeks of pregnancy, from sharing induction methods to a 122 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 1: daily tally of her gestation period. For the record, she's 123 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: officially forty weeks today. I keep checking in on her 124 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 1: Instagram account to see if the baby's finally here, and 125 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: I just can't believe that it still hasn't arrived, because 126 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: two weeks ago she did this big update saying, oh 127 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: my god, everyone, I've lost my mucus plug baby must 128 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 1: be on its way. But then she plugged her pilates 129 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 1: or pregnancy workout guide as part of that update. Of 130 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 1: course she did, because that has been a theme throughout it. 131 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: You can tell that she really is trying to monetize 132 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: this pregnancy, because pregnancy has been such a big part 133 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 1: of her brand for the last five years. I mean, 134 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: you almost get this sense of desperation of ensuring that 135 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 1: she milks this final pregnancy. Well, I think she realizes 136 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: that now that she's going to have three very young children, 137 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:58,719 Speaker 1: there's no way that she's going to be able to 138 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: push out the volume of content that she used to. 139 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 1: I mean, in the past couple of years, we've seen 140 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 1: a huge decline in the amount of videos that she's 141 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: put out and also the amount of views that she 142 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: receives on videos and the hype around her. Well, her 143 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: pregnancies have always created a lot of hype and also 144 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: acted as distraction from some of the biggest scandals that 145 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: she's been involved in. For instance, her first pregnancy with 146 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: Fox was the perfect distraction away from that Sin three drama, 147 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 1: and his birth ended up being the most watched moment 148 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: on her YouTube channel to date, and she is definitely 149 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: trying to build suspense with her content around baby number three. 150 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 1: So at thirty eight weeks pregnant, Sarah revealed the methods 151 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: that she was trying to induce labor. So one of 152 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: those was a pregnancy leg massage, so she shared that 153 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: the massage had brought on labor not only for her 154 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: but also her friends within twenty four hours of having it, 155 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: and the following day she was mia from her Instagram account, 156 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,119 Speaker 1: which caused a lot of speculation that she had gone 157 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: into labor. She then returned on the Monday and told 158 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: her followers that she doesn't post much on the weekend. 159 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: That was despite sharing about the massage on Saturday. Well, 160 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: she's a business woman. It's a great way to draw 161 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: up engagement and get people coming in to check back 162 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: in on your page, which I was doing now. One 163 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: of the reasons that Sarah seems so keen to induce 164 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: labor is because of the looming date of Halloween. So 165 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 1: she revealed that she does not want her baby born 166 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: on Halloween because of religious reasons. So a follower wrote 167 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: on her page, I wonder if you're going to have 168 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 1: a Halloween baby, to which she replied, I will put 169 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 1: my pelvic floor to the ultimate test and keep him 170 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: inside of me if my body tries to go into 171 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: labor on Halloween, my worst day of the year, No thanks. 172 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: A follower asked Sarah why, and she responded saying, I 173 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:45,559 Speaker 1: just think it's super demonic and totally goes against my faith. 174 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 1: But if baby decides to come on Halloween, then I'll 175 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: actually celebrate that date for a different reason, including a 176 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: birthday cake emoji, as well as clapping hands and balloons. 177 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: At first, I thought it was a little bit of 178 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: a joke the reference to Halloween, but then I realized 179 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 1: there were some religious reasonings behind not wanting to give 180 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 1: birth on that date. It's actually funny to hear and 181 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: influencer talk badly about Halloween, because normally they're using it 182 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: for content and posting costume. My deears this didn't particularly 183 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: surprise me because Halloween is one of those holidays which 184 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 1: isn't embraced by a lot of religions, particularly the Christian faith, 185 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 1: and she does speak a lot about her religious views, 186 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,679 Speaker 1: so she's entitled to not want her baby born on Halloween. 187 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: My husband's birthday is actually a day before Halloween, and 188 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,680 Speaker 1: he has grown up hating Halloween. I think it's because 189 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 1: as a child, the day after your birthday is always 190 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,320 Speaker 1: so disappointing, and I think he felt like Halloween took 191 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: the shine off the fact that it was his day. 192 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 4: Yeah. 193 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: Well, moving on to the drama surrounding this last week 194 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 1: of pregnancy. On Monday last week, while doing a tutorial 195 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:48,080 Speaker 1: on how to express colostrum, Sarah flagged that she was 196 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: starting to feel unwell. So during Sarah's last labor with 197 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: her son Malachi, she actually had rhinovirus and she was 198 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 1: very unwell, and she said the fact that she was 199 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 1: getting a scratchy throat actually was truggering her because she 200 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: has opened up about having birth trauma surrounding both of 201 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: the births of her sons. Oh I felt so sorry 202 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: for her. She looked incredibly unwell and it seemed like 203 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: she was trying anything to get better. She then asked 204 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 1: her followers for some home remedies to help fight off 205 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: her sickness, but unfortunately, the following day, she refilled that 206 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 1: despite all of the attempts, she was struck down with 207 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 1: the flu. She wrote on Instagram, went to bed with 208 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 1: onions on my feet, onions next to the bed ate 209 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,439 Speaker 1: raw garlic, took all the vitamins and have still woken 210 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: up incredibly sick. I do feel very sorry for her 211 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 1: that she was feeling sick and that this triggered her. 212 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: But I did have a laugh because it was like, 213 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: can you believe it, I've done all of these things, 214 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 1: and it's like, why didn't you go to the doctor? 215 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: Like why would you be trying all these home remedies. 216 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: I also saw she went to this very expensive health 217 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 1: food store and said, I will buy everything you tell 218 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: me to, And of course she came home with a 219 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 1: huge supply of things because they probably saw dollar signs, 220 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:55,559 Speaker 1: and she had these three large smoothies that she literally 221 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 1: sculled on her Instagram story. I would hate to think 222 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:00,440 Speaker 1: how much they cost. No wonder she ended up vomiting. 223 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: She did say it could have had something to do 224 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: with the raw garlic that she also ate. I think 225 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 1: when you're that heavily pregnant and you've had such a 226 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: bad experience with your other labors, that you're going to 227 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: try and do anything to feel like you've got control 228 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: over the situation. Well, she even asked her followers to 229 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 1: pray for her so she put out what she called 230 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: a prayer request, asking for quote health and healing over 231 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: my body and that baby stays in me until I 232 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:26,559 Speaker 1: can fight this off. Please Lord, just protect this baby 233 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:28,719 Speaker 1: and keep him cooking so I don't give him this 234 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 1: sickness or have to go through labor like this again. Now, 235 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 1: despite saying that she didn't want to give birth, she 236 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 1: then ended up having a bath with clary sage oil, 237 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 1: which actually can stimulate the uterus to contract, and people 238 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 1: normally use it to induce labor. So I'm not sure 239 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: if she just wasn't thinking in that moment, but she 240 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: has been trying so many remedies to bring forth this labor. 241 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 4: Now. 242 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 1: After taking two days off to recover from her cold, 243 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:56,679 Speaker 1: Sarah returned online, and this time it was to share 244 00:11:56,760 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 1: what she called her favorite optical illusion. She filmed herself 245 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: front on in the mirror before turning to the side 246 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 1: to show off her baby bump. She captured the reel 247 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 1: forever my favorite Optical Illusion and went on to share 248 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: that she was thirty nine plus two days pregnant now. 249 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: Since the time of recording, this reel has a massed 250 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 1: one point three million views and has sparked a lot 251 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: of debate. Yeah, so the majority of the commentary was 252 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: positive towards Sarah. Many followers were praising her for her 253 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: amazing physeike. One person wrote, everyone must be so envious 254 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 1: that you have a waste, even when so pregnant. Another 255 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: person added, your body is going to bounce right back. 256 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:38,559 Speaker 1: You look absolutely incredible. One person actually passed her bump 257 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 1: size off as being to do with the gender of 258 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: the baby, so they wrote, that's a boy bump for you. 259 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:46,719 Speaker 1: Sarah seemed to take offense to that comment, responding, I'd 260 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:49,839 Speaker 1: say it's more a combo of being raging healthy, working 261 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: out for the entirety of my pregnancy following a Core 262 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: Strength program, body and bump and some genetics sprinkled in, 263 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: rather than the gender of my baby. I love how 264 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 1: she uses this moment to plug her fitness program. It's 265 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 1: clear that a lot of people actually felt inadequate after 266 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 1: seeing this real One person wrote, this makes me depressed. 267 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 1: Happy for you, but I'm struggling not to hate myself. 268 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: This is my issue, not yours. I totally understand where 269 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 1: that person is coming from, because when I was pregnant, 270 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 1: I didn't feel ultra comfortable showing off my bump. There's 271 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: some people that get these. I want to use inverted 272 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:25,199 Speaker 1: commas around it, designer bumps that you see them everywhere 273 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 1: on influencers, on models. It's just a little bump and 274 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:29,680 Speaker 1: you can't tell the rest of them is pregnant. And 275 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: that doesn't necessarily mean that you're fitter or healthier than someone. 276 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: That's just how your body holds on to weight and 277 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:38,719 Speaker 1: a growing baby. Also, a lot of women have a 278 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 1: lot of fluid in their face, which makes them feel 279 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 1: not like themselves. I've seen on TikTok a lot of 280 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 1: women saying also that they get pregnancy nose and a 281 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 1: lot of their features just look different and they don't 282 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: feel like themselves. So I think that that is why 283 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 1: it's particularly jarring to see someone saying, oh, look, this 284 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: is an optical illusion. Everything else about me looks exactly 285 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 1: the same except my little bump. 286 00:13:57,480 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 287 00:13:57,840 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 1: I think I held a lot of fluid in my 288 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 1: face towards the end, and I only realized now that 289 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 1: I'm not pregnant. Looking back at your wedding photos, I 290 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: was like, my face looks completely different. But that's just 291 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: what happens when you get pregnant. You are creating life 292 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 1: inside of your body. You are allowed to look different. 293 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: It's just ridiculous. And if you don't look different, that's 294 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: also fine. But it does make me feel a little 295 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 1: bit uncomfortable. The fact that Sarah is using these opportunities 296 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: to constantly plug her fitness program. Is not a cheap guide. 297 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: It cost one hundred and twenty dollars and it seems 298 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 1: like at every opportunity she is making sure people know 299 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 1: I look like this pregnant because of this fitness guide. 300 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 1: And it really is playing on people's vulnerabilities because I 301 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 1: don't think that there's a more vulnerable time in a 302 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 1: lot of women's life than when they're pregnant, because so 303 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 1: much is happening to them hormonally, they don't look like 304 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: they once did, and they'll probably try anything to get 305 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 1: an ounce of that. 306 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 4: Bat. 307 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it does concern me for what Sarah is 308 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: going to be like postpardon, because last pregnancy she was 309 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 1: accused of pushing bounce back culture. Now that she actually 310 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: has her guide out there, I think she gets only 311 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: going to be worse. Yeah. I really hope that we 312 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: don't see body checks. That is my least favorite thing 313 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: to see online. It is never helpful for anyone. I 314 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: don't know why people put it out there unless it's 315 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: a flex for them. Well, it is only a matter 316 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: of days before she has this baby, if not today, 317 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: do you think she's going to update her followers. My 318 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 1: feeling is that she'll do a bit of a cryptic 319 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: update like she did when she was in labor with Malachi. 320 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: So from memory, she took a photo in the car. 321 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: I think it was very late at the time and 322 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 1: they were heading into the hospital, and she did a 323 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: couple of emojis referencing clues to Malachi's name. I think 324 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: we'll get something similar to that. We might get a 325 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 1: few photos of her in labor, but she will keep 326 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 1: a lot of it for her YouTube channel, I think. 327 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: And also TikTok I love you say it's cryptic, like 328 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 1: she was literally on the way to the hospital. It's 329 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: not too cryptic. Well, it was cryptic in the sense 330 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 1: of she was still trying to tease about his name. Ah, 331 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 1: I see. I think differently. I think that because this 332 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 1: is her last pregnancy and she's really trying to crack TikTok, 333 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 1: I think that she's going to host live updates a 334 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 1: little bit. How Indy Clinton did so. Indy Clinton was 335 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 1: popping tiktoks up as she was at the hospital and 336 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: in labor. I think Sarah is going to want to 337 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 1: copy that. 338 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 4: Oh. 339 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 2: I just fucking hope that this process helps me. 340 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 1: Over the weekend, Steph Claire Smith revealed she would be 341 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: sharing a life update on her latest podcast episode, which 342 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 1: would air on Monday. Now. She broke the news first 343 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 1: to her broadcast channel before sharing this statement on her 344 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: Instagram story on Sunday. She wrote, So tomorrow on the Kickpod, 345 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 1: I'll be sharing something relatively fresh but really important to me. 346 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 1: It's something I've been working through for quite some time now, 347 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 1: and in ways the journey's only just begun. I'd really 348 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: appreciate you listening with kindness as it's something i'd be 349 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 1: nervous to share. Or my love kiss kiss Kiss. As 350 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: soon as I saw this, I was like, what is 351 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 1: going on? This must be a huge life update and 352 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: it did lead to a lot of speculation and theories online. 353 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 1: The most popular theory was that Steph and her husband 354 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 1: Josh were breaking up. Now I knew this wasn't true 355 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: because Steph has been posting with him as normal. They're 356 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:06,919 Speaker 1: actually away on a weekend together. I actually thought there 357 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 1: could have been some validity to those theories, particularly because 358 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: Josh was holidaying with his friends in Europe without Steph 359 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 1: just a couple of weeks ago, and the only times 360 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:18,959 Speaker 1: I saw Josh pop up on Steph's Instagram story well 361 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:21,439 Speaker 1: when they were out and about with Harvey, and I thought, well, 362 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:24,640 Speaker 1: perhaps they're just being amicable and showing that they're joint parenting. 363 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: I love that their parents and so they're going to 364 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 1: be with their child all the time. But you thought that, what, Yeah, 365 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 1: but their parents. Of course they're going to be out 366 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 1: with their child all the time. Yeah, but it's not 367 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 1: like we were seeing content of them at home together 368 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: or them going out on dates or anything like that. 369 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:40,439 Speaker 1: I know it's difficult when you have a child, but 370 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 1: I thought that there could be some truth to it, 371 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:45,199 Speaker 1: particularly in the way that she led in that she 372 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 1: was very nervous about it and it's something that she's 373 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:50,400 Speaker 1: been working through. The Other theory was that she could 374 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 1: be opening up about fertility issues or even a health scare. 375 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 4: Now. 376 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 1: This came off the back of Steph sharing a post 377 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 1: of her in the car saying that there was a 378 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:00,719 Speaker 1: lot going on in her life, and you never know 379 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:03,400 Speaker 1: what's going on behind the scenes. She looked quite sad 380 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 1: in the photo, and this has been worrying a lot 381 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 1: of her followers. 382 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. 383 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 1: In the post, she said, there's a lot happening behind 384 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:12,240 Speaker 1: the scenes at the moment, things bringing a multitude of 385 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 1: emotions on. But I'm okay, so grateful for my beautiful 386 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: friends and family. Teared up today thinking about it. You 387 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 1: never know what someone's got going on. Just remember that, 388 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 1: and if you have got something at the moment, lean 389 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 1: on your loved ones, give them the opportunity to be 390 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:28,199 Speaker 1: there for you, because I know a lot of us 391 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:30,160 Speaker 1: feel like we need to figure it out on our own, 392 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,679 Speaker 1: but you don't. Lots of love, hope your weekend is 393 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 1: filled with joy. To me, I was like, oh my god, 394 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:38,639 Speaker 1: there is something drastic going on in her life, and 395 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:40,400 Speaker 1: I felt a lot of sympathy for her. 396 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:40,880 Speaker 4: Yeah. 397 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 1: Well, someone actually hit the nail on the head. In 398 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:45,399 Speaker 1: our Facebook group, they said, watch it will be something 399 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 1: totally underwhelming again. Now, this is in reference to Kicks 400 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 1: promo about their concierge service. Yeah, and that's the issue 401 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 1: when you really do breadcrumb information like this and hype 402 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 1: it up in order for people to consume something, so 403 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:02,360 Speaker 1: in this case clear that Steph and Laura wanted their 404 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 1: audience to all tune into this episode. And in the episode, 405 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 1: Steph revealed that she has ADHD. Let's throw it to 406 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 1: some of what she said, I have a bit of 407 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 1: a life update for everyone. 408 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,399 Speaker 2: For me, I've spent the whole last decade of my 409 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 2: life publicly online, and I've always been really open about 410 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 2: what's going on in my life, and I just feel 411 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 2: like with this, it's been something that's been taking up 412 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 2: a lot of my mental capacity. Just the other week, 413 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 2: I was diagnosed with ADHD. It was probably about over 414 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 2: a year ago now where I started to get curious 415 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 2: about it. 416 00:19:31,760 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: Now. In terms of making this announcement, Steph said it 417 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,919 Speaker 1: felt inauthentic not to share the news as she's been 418 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: sharing her life online for ten years now, and then 419 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 1: she went on to speak about why she got assessed 420 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:44,200 Speaker 1: and also how she went about it, as well as 421 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: how she felt during the process. Now, Steph said that 422 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 1: she expected to cop criticism and also unwavering support, and 423 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:54,479 Speaker 1: she said that she actually shared the news to help others. 424 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 1: I am all for Steph telling her story about her diagnosis, 425 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 1: and I agree it probably will help others who maybe 426 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:05,159 Speaker 1: feel alone, and it is a serious thing. What I 427 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 1: take issue with, though, is breadcrumbing this information and trying 428 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 1: to hype it up and click bait it. That's what 429 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:14,199 Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable with. Yeah, I think it's very 430 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:17,479 Speaker 1: commendable for Steph to open up about her diagnosis, but 431 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 1: I also think it would have been a lot more 432 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 1: powerful if she didn't tease it for clickbait, especially when 433 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 1: there have been so many high profile women talking openly 434 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 1: about having ADHD. Yeah, it's been something we've seen spoken about, 435 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:33,879 Speaker 1: particularly about women's experiences over the past two years, even 436 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 1: to the point where there's been a lot of jokes 437 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,439 Speaker 1: and ridicule on TikTok that everyone thinks that they have 438 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,920 Speaker 1: ADHD because it seems to be popular at the moment. 439 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 1: So maybe that's where Steph's hesitation and worry came from. 440 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 1: She didn't want people to feel like she was jumping 441 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 1: on some sort of trend, which I hate to call 442 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 1: it a trend because it's not well. She did talk 443 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 1: about that on her stories afterwards, so she said she 444 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:57,199 Speaker 1: had a bit of an oversharing hangover, but it really 445 00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 1: seemed to rile her up because she did cop negative. 446 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: So one person wrote, oh spare me, everyone has ADHD 447 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:07,120 Speaker 1: these days. It's a scale chase the diagnosis and you'll 448 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: find it now. That comment had sixty four likes. Someone 449 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:13,119 Speaker 1: else wrote, does actually every member of the population have it, 450 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 1: as I've never heard of anyone not diagnosed with it 451 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 1: when being tested. Ever since the kickpod took a new direction, 452 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 1: Steph and Laura have opened themselves up to a lot 453 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 1: more criticism because a lot of the material and information 454 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 1: they share about their lives now is very click baity. 455 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 1: Every time I see a real promoting their podcast, they 456 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 1: are talking about very personal details, either about their sex 457 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 1: life or controversial arguments with their partners. Yeah. Well, when 458 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 1: I tuned into this episode, the first thing Laura shared 459 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,159 Speaker 1: with everyone was that she had thrush, and then she 460 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 1: went into this very personal conversation that she and her 461 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,439 Speaker 1: husband Dalton had about how he had asked if they 462 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,080 Speaker 1: could have sex that day and she said no, she 463 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,920 Speaker 1: had thrush, and then he said, oh, what about your mouth? 464 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,120 Speaker 1: And then she said, god, I've got a cold saw 465 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: and then he said what about your hand? And then 466 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: they started laughing about how hand job's seen very high school. 467 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 1: I was actually blown away. And I'm not trying to 468 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: shame Laura for talking about her sex life. I think 469 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,680 Speaker 1: it's great that people are open about their sex life, 470 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 1: but surely there is a line when it comes to 471 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:19,119 Speaker 1: sharing those types of details about a conversation that you've 472 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: had with your husband. I think, particularly because you don't 473 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:23,959 Speaker 1: have any of the tone of that conversation, because that 474 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 1: could be taken out of context and look particularly bad 475 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:29,719 Speaker 1: upon him, like it sounded like he was really pushing 476 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,159 Speaker 1: for it when she was clearly saying no. 477 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. 478 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 1: It made me feel uncomfortable because yeah, there definitely wasn't 479 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 1: much context given. And we have spoken about this previously, 480 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:41,120 Speaker 1: but the way that Laura speaks about her husband isn't 481 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 1: really in a very glowing light. I would not be 482 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,439 Speaker 1: impressed if I was Dalton, particularly the information that she 483 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 1: shares about their sex life. 484 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 4: Yeh. 485 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,120 Speaker 1: It's almost like they're selling their souls for this podcast, 486 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 1: and I kind of don't understand it because they already 487 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: have an absolutely flourishing business. Their kick app is fantastic. 488 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: I have been using it for five years, I think 489 00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 1: even longer than that. They also have this amazing line 490 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,640 Speaker 1: of products in Woolworths. They're both huge influencers in their 491 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 1: own right, but I feel like they are diluting their 492 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,840 Speaker 1: brand by putting out this podcast. I mean, it must 493 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 1: be making them enough money for them to do it. 494 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 3: I'm the executive creative director, chief buyer and lifestyle coordinator. 495 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a huge responsibility. 496 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:21,879 Speaker 2: I'm very important. 497 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,679 Speaker 1: Let's get into a highs and lows of the week. 498 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: My high and lower actually intertwined. So my best, of course, 499 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,640 Speaker 1: is returning to the podcast from maternity leave. It's hard 500 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,400 Speaker 1: to get my head around the fact that it's been 501 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 1: eighteen weeks. It feels like I've never left, and then 502 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 1: also it feels like I've had this whole other life. Ironically, 503 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 1: you can probably hear Jack crying in the background because 504 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,119 Speaker 1: we're recording from my house. So I am at the 505 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,879 Speaker 1: moment trying to balance motherhood and being back on the podcast. 506 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,359 Speaker 1: And that's why it's my lower as well, because I 507 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,439 Speaker 1: do miss Jack when I'm not around him. We had 508 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 1: a babysitter the other day, Thank you Mum for looking 509 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,159 Speaker 1: after him, and it was so sad, and it was 510 00:23:58,200 --> 00:23:59,879 Speaker 1: so nice to come home to him and see him 511 00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 1: and I feel so lucky that I've got the flexibility 512 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,680 Speaker 1: where I can work during his nap time or when 513 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,439 Speaker 1: Reese's home, or if we've got a babysitter, But it 514 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 1: is just so sad to leave him when I have 515 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,199 Speaker 1: to go to work. Yeah, I feel like we've got 516 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 1: a bit of a co host happening in the background 517 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,480 Speaker 1: with his cute little crying. But it is really nice 518 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,119 Speaker 1: to have you back on the show. I'm going to 519 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 1: get into my high of the week, and it has 520 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 1: been discovering an incredible Christmas appeal which is called It's 521 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 1: in the Bag, and it's run by a charity called 522 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:28,920 Speaker 1: Share the Dignity Australia and it encourages people to put 523 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 1: together bags filled with essential items and also some luxury 524 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 1: items for women and girls who are spending their Christmas 525 00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 1: in a domestic violence refuge or a homeless shelter. My 526 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 1: husband's auntie has been making bags for this charity for 527 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 1: quite some time now and it's just such a beautiful 528 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 1: thing to do to make someone else's Christmas morning a 529 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 1: little bit brighter. It's really easy to get involved and 530 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 1: you can either put together an adult, teen or mum 531 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,199 Speaker 1: and bub bag. They do ask for the bags to 532 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 1: be filled with essential items and then the rest is 533 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 1: up to you. And once you you've made your bag, 534 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 1: you can then easily drop it off at your local 535 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 1: Bunning store between the fifteenth of November and the one 536 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 1: of December. I know everyone might not be in the 537 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: position to do so, but if you are, I would 538 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 1: highly recommend getting involved because the charity was down one 539 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 1: hundred thousand bags last year and they did not meet 540 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,920 Speaker 1: the requests of those who needed them, so I think 541 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 1: we should all try and get behind them. Mine low 542 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,160 Speaker 1: of the week, and I think that this will be 543 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 1: a low shared by many others is Liam Payne's tragic passing. 544 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 1: We spoke on Tuesday's episode in depth about what happened 545 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:36,199 Speaker 1: and our complex feelings towards it, but I just still 546 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,879 Speaker 1: can't shake the feeling of being sad. I've been listening 547 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: to a lot of One Direction in the car, which 548 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,399 Speaker 1: has been bringing me a bit of happiness and joy, 549 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:47,119 Speaker 1: particularly because Liam sings so many of the verses, and 550 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,479 Speaker 1: I think that all of us are holding a bit 551 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 1: of a heavy heart this week because of it. Now, 552 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 1: that is all we have time for today. Thank you 553 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 1: so much for joining us for this episode. If you 554 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,399 Speaker 1: have enjoyed it, could you please make sure you are 555 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 1: subscribed on Apple podcast and also Spotify