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<v Speaker 1>The Flex and Frooms daily podcast, tell.

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<v Speaker 2>It's with angels, we are back. I know for a

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<v Speaker 2>fact that when you hear the dulcet tones of Frumi's

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<v Speaker 2>voice and like my sometimes Baritoni tiney voice, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>weird combination, but we make it work. Your heart races,

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<v Speaker 2>you get excited, dope, mean level.

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<v Speaker 3>Spike Pavlov, Doggy's eel hit the nail on the head, Let's.

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<v Speaker 2>Do it, hit it DJ Flex, And I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>everything that I've come to know about Elon Musk has

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<v Speaker 2>been against my will. He sounds like you'd be part

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<v Speaker 2>of my community, but I don't vibe. But here is

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<v Speaker 2>the thing. When I was doing my daily Internet scroll

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<v Speaker 2>as I do, I came across what I thought was

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<v Speaker 2>a clickbait headline Elon Musk richest man in the world

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<v Speaker 2>couch surfs, and I was thinking, okay, cool, right, like

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<v Speaker 2>what you stay your famous friends places. It is worse

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<v Speaker 2>than that. He's on some kind of tirade trying to

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<v Speaker 2>convince all of us that he's just a regular guy.

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<v Speaker 2>And despite his bajillion quadrillionaire status, he does not have

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<v Speaker 2>any assets, none of it's liquid. He just like exists

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<v Speaker 2>as I don't know a corporate bum. So I'm reading

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<v Speaker 2>this article and he's like, I don't even own a

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<v Speaker 2>home right now. And when I did, it was one

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<v Speaker 2>that I bought for fifty thousand dollars in Boca Chica.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know where that is.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that a real thing? She didn't make that up?

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<v Speaker 4>Who knows?

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<v Speaker 2>Who knows? And what do we do here? We don't

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<v Speaker 2>fact check anyway. And then he says, and when I

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<v Speaker 2>come to LA, I just couch surf. I just hit

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<v Speaker 2>up a friend and I ask if I can stay

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<v Speaker 2>there and they say, yeah, that's cool, and that's what

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<v Speaker 2>I do. And I'm thinking, Okay. When I'm thinking couch surf,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking, you know a friend that lives in a

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<v Speaker 2>share house, five person sharehouse, three bedrooms terrace. But if

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<v Speaker 2>you're a billionaire with other billionaire friends, is it really

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<v Speaker 2>CouchSurfing if all of your friends have sixteen room properties.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably not. And I think he knows. I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>being very particular and the language is using. But then

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<v Speaker 2>it made me think, right, let's say he is telling

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<v Speaker 2>the truth, right, what is his networth two hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>eighty something billion dollars? Well, what would we do. What

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<v Speaker 2>is one bum adjacent activity that we would maintain if

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<v Speaker 2>we so happen to become multi billionaires? My one, for sure, Macas,

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<v Speaker 2>I am never giving it up.

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<v Speaker 4>I was gonna say it to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm never giving it up.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care what you say.

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<v Speaker 2>There is no reality in which I'm not giving up McDonald's.

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<v Speaker 2>And the thing is I should be giving up dairy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a Flemmy girl. You know. There's always a bit

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<v Speaker 2>of mucus just backed up in this throat. And I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure the Marcas isn't helping.

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<v Speaker 3>I reckon they make the one that doesn't have lucktose

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<v Speaker 3>in it so they can sell it to the most.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you can pump it into people. Ah, still not

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<v Speaker 2>giving it up. You gotta pick another one. You can't

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<v Speaker 2>just take mine. I can rattle off a few ideas,

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<v Speaker 2>always wanting to split at dinner. If you're a billionaire,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, Like it's all on you. It is always

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<v Speaker 2>on you.

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<v Speaker 4>See, this can go really badly.

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<v Speaker 3>I have this story about someone that I know who

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<v Speaker 3>was good friends with this couple that like multi multi

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<v Speaker 3>multimillionaires in Sydney. They're like in their thirties, and this

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<v Speaker 3>woman was really good friends with the.

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<v Speaker 4>Woman, and.

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<v Speaker 2>You lost me.

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<v Speaker 3>The man and the woman married the other woman. The

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<v Speaker 3>other woman has an Uber account that was linked nah

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<v Speaker 3>to the credit card of the other two Nah, And

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<v Speaker 3>for a whole year, every single thing you did on

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<v Speaker 3>Uber went to their credit card.

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<v Speaker 4>Then one day they get their bill.

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<v Speaker 2>How did they arrange that though? How did that happen?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe just once she was like, I need a card

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<v Speaker 3>tens of thousands of grass all at once.

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<v Speaker 4>And would you say that's on them? No?

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<v Speaker 2>Because how often are you going back to dinner with

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<v Speaker 2>your friends? Once a week on average? Maybe maybe less,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe more. I think you've got it. I'm not even

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<v Speaker 2>a millionaire. I would take it.

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<v Speaker 4>I say that for you though you're very magnanimous.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm like everyone can get it. It's like if

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<v Speaker 2>we're eating I got it anyway, So don't be a

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<v Speaker 2>billionaire around rooms.

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<v Speaker 1>This is flex and frooms.

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<v Speaker 4>We're both wearing denim today.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>It means where you're wearing denim pants. I'm reading a

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<v Speaker 3>denim dress. It's a year hard kind of situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think I'm giving? Yeh, You're always giving the

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<v Speaker 2>car my socks and slides, my mesh great imprint top,

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<v Speaker 2>and my denim trousers.

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<v Speaker 4>It's modern.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeha yimha. You know how we love doing am I

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<v Speaker 3>the Asshole? We do, which is basically when we give

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<v Speaker 3>you a dilemma and we have to debate the asshole. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>who'se asshole? Often it's everybody involved. Yeah, that's what we twist.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody sucks exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Well.

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<v Speaker 3>I have found an app online called You Are the Asshole,

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<v Speaker 3>which is a little AI bot and you can give

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<v Speaker 3>in your scenario and they'll give you like ready made answers.

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<v Speaker 3>Huh so it uses language generated powering systems. Every time

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<v Speaker 3>I've made that up. I don't know exactly what it is,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's artificial intelligence, which corroborates all of the different

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like words and phrases people use on Reddit

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<v Speaker 3>in those threads to throw out ones that are specific

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<v Speaker 3>to your question. Whow so for example, Yeah, here it is.

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<v Speaker 3>You just type in what you want to ask?

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<v Speaker 4>What did you ask? I asked my name is.

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<v Speaker 3>Through me and my co host flex Mummy smells like

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<v Speaker 3>Dorito's most cheesy flavor.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a lie. Let me just stop it there, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll stop it. There have it on good authority that

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<v Speaker 2>I smell good most of the time. Well, doritos is

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<v Speaker 2>not very me plus no free promo cecs.

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<v Speaker 3>Then my co host flex Mummy smells like most cheesy cecs.

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<v Speaker 3>Am I the asshole for telling her?

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<v Speaker 2>But you haven't. You have not disclosed one.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm trying it out. This is what the bot says.

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<v Speaker 4>There's three responses. Tell her straight, mummy, you are stinking

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<v Speaker 4>up the joint.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's a good one.

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<v Speaker 3>The second one is what the f The third one

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<v Speaker 3>is Honestly, this is getting worse. You're now asking if

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<v Speaker 3>you're the asshole for telling them their food tastes like shape.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait. So, essentially it's like giving this thing, this AI bot,

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<v Speaker 2>a scenario where you need to determine who's the asshole,

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<v Speaker 2>and they'll give you a list of pre generated responses

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<v Speaker 2>based on data that they've found from Reddit.

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<v Speaker 4>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>That's genius.

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<v Speaker 3>It's amazing, it's so so good. And yeah, this the

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<v Speaker 3>last one that I'll leave you on. This isn't a

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<v Speaker 3>competition to see who can be the freshest host. It's

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<v Speaker 3>a question of etiquette and respect.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Love that this is flex and frooms, Kita, I want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Read you out something. I want you to tell me

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<v Speaker 2>if I made it up or if it's in fact

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<v Speaker 2>a fact. I'm surprised people don't think I'm lying. Most

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<v Speaker 2>of the time it's something in my tone. I'dn't even

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<v Speaker 2>believe me sometimes. Okay. Headline is Walmart promises to stop

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<v Speaker 2>playing Selene Dion and Justin Bieber in stalls to improve

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<v Speaker 2>employee morale. Fact or cap.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna say it's a fact.

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<v Speaker 2>It's cap. Oh, I'm kidding, so you really pull it's

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<v Speaker 2>a fact. Basically, a couple of years ago, Walmart introduced

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<v Speaker 2>this plan to improve the livelihood of their employees. They

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<v Speaker 2>were getting a lot of bad feedback. They're okay, we're

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<v Speaker 2>taking it seriously. Now, this is what we're gonna do.

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<v Speaker 2>So in and amongst raising mimom wages and offering you know,

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<v Speaker 2>award rates and things like that, they agreed that it

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<v Speaker 2>would stop forcing staff to listen to the same songs

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<v Speaker 2>over and over and over again. And there was a

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<v Speaker 2>high proportion of that was purely Justin Bieber and Selene Dion.

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<v Speaker 3>As in, they made it Justin Bieber and Selendon what

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<v Speaker 3>as in they added.

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<v Speaker 2>More and those and they took more away because the

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<v Speaker 2>majority of the playlists were Slein and Justin. Really they

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<v Speaker 2>were like, we see a link between that and your attitudes,

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<v Speaker 2>and like what era of Justin? But I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>the questions? Am I on trial?

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<v Speaker 3>Here?

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<v Speaker 1>Say you're listening to flex and frooms on Keita.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to know how to make twenty two

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<v Speaker 2>million dollars in one year?

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<v Speaker 4>Sure?

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<v Speaker 2>I selling all those TikTok people. Are you not doing crypto?

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<v Speaker 2>You got to do cryptocurrency anyway? We are too entrepreneurs,

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<v Speaker 2>some may say as the kids like to say, kids

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<v Speaker 2>and boomers alike, And i'd know about you. But I

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<v Speaker 2>do like to do a bit of research on how

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<v Speaker 2>to add a zero to my P and L to

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<v Speaker 2>my income tax statement. Yeah, and I like to seek

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<v Speaker 2>out unique advice. I don't want to go to the

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<v Speaker 2>like how to get rich, you know, seven habits of

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<v Speaker 2>highly affected people, that's played out, it's done, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>almost working too well that there's no room for me

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<v Speaker 2>to capitalize on. So on, going to the alternate route,

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<v Speaker 2>I found out about a seven year old kid, a

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<v Speaker 2>YouTuber actually, who made twenty two million dollars in one

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<v Speaker 2>year on YouTube playing with toys. Let's just let that

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<v Speaker 2>sink in. Most people aren't making their first million ever. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and this kid, a whole seven year old, has made

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<v Speaker 2>twenty two Can seven year old even.

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<v Speaker 4>Spell when you say first million? Do you mean a

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<v Speaker 4>million in a year? No?

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<v Speaker 2>First million in their lifetime? People aren't making their first

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<v Speaker 2>million ever. But he actually did an interview right, and

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<v Speaker 2>he said, this is his formula on how he made

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<v Speaker 2>his millions first film yourself opening a toy. He plays

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<v Speaker 2>with everything from dinosaurs and legos to action figures and

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<v Speaker 2>surprise eggs.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Step two, explain all the toys features while playing with them,

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<v Speaker 2>and then step three is you upload the video to YouTube.

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<v Speaker 4>Three step And.

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<v Speaker 2>That might sound overly simple, but it's actually quite genius

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<v Speaker 2>because what he's done here is said, Hey, this is

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<v Speaker 2>just repetition, Pape. I do the same thing every time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's worked once, I keep doing it and now I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a millionaire. And the thing that gets me I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what is the breakdown of this twenty two million right?

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<v Speaker 2>Where's it all coming from? Sponos advertising? He makes twenty

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<v Speaker 2>one million dollars just from the ads that run in

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<v Speaker 2>the middle before and after His video is really twenty

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<v Speaker 2>one million. And I know they say that, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>making kid friendly content is where the coins is because

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<v Speaker 2>everyone can advertise to kids. He makes one million dollars

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<v Speaker 2>from sponsored content and that's it. That's in one year.

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<v Speaker 4>One year.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know, if you want to be rich and famous,

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<v Speaker 2>do what the kids do. The kids are the future.

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<v Speaker 2>Do not listen to anyone who tells you to.

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<v Speaker 4>Go to UNI.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I was watching Trade be a doctor. It's dead,

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<v Speaker 2>It's played out?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Every doctor I know stressed and broke hating it. How

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<v Speaker 2>many child millionaires do you know?

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<v Speaker 1>One?

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm sure there's plenty more where he came from.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Okay, Well I heard I was on a walk

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<v Speaker 3>yesterday with a friend and she was saying that her

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<v Speaker 3>friend's a primary school teacher and apparently at one school

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<v Speaker 3>they just don't even concentrate because they're like, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>need to learn because I'm going to become YouTube famous.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a real thing. Yeah, it is.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a real thing.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, Like, you're kind of not wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>They're very wrong. They're extremely wrong. The odds are not

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<v Speaker 2>in their favor. However, how can you convince the kid

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<v Speaker 2>that though you spend their whole you know, formative year

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<v Speaker 2>saying like, you know, do whatever you want and like

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<v Speaker 2>pick something you're really excited by and pick something that

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<v Speaker 2>makes you happy. And then they're like, I want to

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<v Speaker 2>be a YouTube and you're like, m would you be

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<v Speaker 2>studying medicine because I feel that for you. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like the world needs doctors. You know, who's bringing our

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<v Speaker 2>online shopping orders to the house, who's making them chickens?

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<v Speaker 2>If we're not going to do it because everyone wants

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<v Speaker 2>to be a twenty two million dollar making YouTube, and kid,

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<v Speaker 2>how do we get our gardens gardened flecks and frooms?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you like going braless?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a very odd thing for maybe wearing a

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<v Speaker 2>bra today, but alas we are at work, I am

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<v Speaker 2>wearing mesh. Nips are not allowed to be revealed.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, this is where it gets interesting because in New

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<v Speaker 3>York it's legal to be topless since when nineteen ninety two?

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<v Speaker 3>What yeah, you can go around topless in New York.

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<v Speaker 3>There is no way the nipple hath been freed.

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<v Speaker 2>And what are we find for?

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<v Speaker 4>I know, wrap them down? Ladies?

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<v Speaker 2>Do I need to fact check that you really know.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm fully serious.

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<v Speaker 3>The one thing that we don't need fact checks because

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<v Speaker 3>I know it to be a act. And in Australia

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<v Speaker 3>it's actually not illegal to not wear a top.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just frowned upon.

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<v Speaker 4>It's frowned upon.

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<v Speaker 3>And basically, if people complain, you can be charged for

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<v Speaker 3>being a public nuisance.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess it's good with anything, like it's not legal

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<v Speaker 2>to speak loudly, but if someone complains.

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<v Speaker 4>Ah, it can be a public nuisance. Really.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, what's not illegal to play music in your house,

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<v Speaker 2>but if someone complains you can be fined.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean then what happens though, if you're topless

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<v Speaker 3>on Bondi beach and someone is like, stop it, your

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<v Speaker 3>nips of scandalizing my eyes and my children's eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess you start doing that, like you know, according

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<v Speaker 2>to legislation, this is legal, and then you get into

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<v Speaker 2>that conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>According to legislation, legislation. Okay, well that's my fun fact.

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<v Speaker 2>That was a great one. I like that a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>It's interesting though, because let's say somebody is topless at

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<v Speaker 2>the beach sunbathing, somebody's uncomfortable. Both those two things can

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<v Speaker 2>exist and nothing shall happen, like this person should be

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<v Speaker 2>allowed to sunbathe, this person should be allowed to be uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 2>and then that is it. Go about your day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>nothing needs to change.

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<v Speaker 3>There doesn't have to be a moralizing moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Or like any like further action. It can just be

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<v Speaker 2>a thing. You can just be uncomfortable and mind your

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<v Speaker 2>business and you can make people get uncomfortable and brown

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<v Speaker 2>your breasts.

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<v Speaker 4>Let the browns be breasted, and the breasts.

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<v Speaker 1>Be brown, flex and frooms.

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<v Speaker 3>What if I sold online that is potentially a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit too close to home And what I realized the

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<v Speaker 3>other day I was on deepop and I was selling

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<v Speaker 3>all of my stuff during a spring clean and I

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<v Speaker 3>tried to sell a pair of bathers. I'd worn it once,

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<v Speaker 3>not even into the ocean. I wore it as a

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<v Speaker 3>bodysuit and I put it up and then I thought, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it did it touch koach? It was touching cooch and

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<v Speaker 3>it was a bit small, so it was right. And

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<v Speaker 3>then I realized what I was doing. I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 3>can't sell my.

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<v Speaker 2>Bathers, so you weren't gonna wash before sold?

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<v Speaker 4>Like I don't know how to wash bathers. Whoa cal.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool cool, cool, Nice.

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<v Speaker 4>How do you watched baths?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you take down a listing immediately or is it

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<v Speaker 2>still lurking.

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<v Speaker 3>You can do a thing called deepop, which is like

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<v Speaker 3>sould so it looks like someone bought it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, bump up that algorithm. Nice? Yeah, what have you

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<v Speaker 4>tried to sell?

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<v Speaker 2>I used to be a fiend for a little Facebook marketplace,

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<v Speaker 2>little gum tree mom, but then I just met too

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<v Speaker 2>many cookers. Like I was driving out to some real

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<v Speaker 2>sauce places for like a really great vintage table that

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<v Speaker 2>was going for thirty bucks. But I was finding myself

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<v Speaker 2>in really precarious situations, like I bought this tiger table,

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<v Speaker 2>like tiger based glass tabletop, real lovely, drove out to

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<v Speaker 2>Woop Woop together to get it, and when I got there,

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<v Speaker 2>they kept on trying to invite me inside, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like noah. They're like, come have a drink. What

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<v Speaker 2>do you want to drink? And then so this was

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<v Speaker 2>just one woman who came out to greet me, and

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<v Speaker 2>then there was a man, and then it was another man,

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<v Speaker 2>then there was another man, and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>just need the table. Then they were like, do you

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<v Speaker 2>want us to wrap up the table because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's glass and it might break. And I was like, okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 2>They gave me this bizarre stained weighted blanket like it

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<v Speaker 2>was baby blue. There was brownched green stains. It smelt

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<v Speaker 2>so sound, and I had agreed to it, so when

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<v Speaker 2>she gave it, she put it in my arms, so

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<v Speaker 2>all the scents were on me, and then I thought

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<v Speaker 2>I would throw it out in their front bind but

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<v Speaker 2>they were all standing at the window watching me.

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<v Speaker 1>Load at the table to the book.

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<v Speaker 2>As I couldn't do anything about it, I had to

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<v Speaker 2>take it, and that, to me was lustraw, because the

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<v Speaker 2>thing that got me about that situation is it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>uncanny enough for it to feel dane. It just rubbed

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<v Speaker 2>me the wrong way.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, go away, it wasn't great. Leave me be with

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<v Speaker 3>my tiger table.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm that silly person who has their real name

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<v Speaker 2>as their Facebook name and I can't change it.

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<v Speaker 4>I changed mine last week. Guess what I did?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to tell people?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, worms for brains. I changed my my pin number.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how I'm gonna spell it. Telly Tubby,

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean group chats, it's like Telly Tubby says, be

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<v Speaker 4>there in five, that's great.

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<v Speaker 1>This is flex and Frooms on Kada.

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<v Speaker 4>Lil says that she's going to tell me something enormous.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to ask something enormous. I told you that

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<v Speaker 2>I watched everything everywhere, all at once. This a twenty

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<v Speaker 2>four movie that I watched in the cinemas. Unfortunately, in

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<v Speaker 2>standard there was no Vmax or gold Class, not in

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<v Speaker 2>the rest.

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, that's not it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, and even then that's not a perk, that's taking

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<v Speaker 2>away an amenity. But a core scene in the movie

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<v Speaker 2>is existentialism, thinking about what we're doing here on the earth,

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<v Speaker 2>what does it mean? Why does it matter? I think

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<v Speaker 2>about it quite frequently, But what I don't do enough

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<v Speaker 2>is ask others what they think about it. So, Lucinda

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<v Speaker 2>Froom's Price, call me, baby, baby, what is the meaning

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<v Speaker 2>of life? In your opinion?

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<v Speaker 3>So prior to roughly two years ago, I thought about

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<v Speaker 3>this often and I thought there is absolutely no meaning.

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<v Speaker 3>One of those Yeah, a depression kind of vibe. Not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna lie, got it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's giving that.

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<v Speaker 3>However, in the past two years I've decided to do

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<v Speaker 3>something which you say is typical in Ghanian culture. Yep,

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<v Speaker 3>big enjoyment, big enjoyment. And so that's what goes through

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<v Speaker 3>my mind every day. Enjoyment, big enjoyment. And now the

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<v Speaker 3>meaning of life has become love.

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<v Speaker 2>Gosh, to love and be loved, that's all there is.

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<v Speaker 4>That's beautiful. What's your opinion?

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<v Speaker 2>I say, to love and be loved is the meaning

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<v Speaker 2>of life? Premium mode, Like, not everybody gets to experience that,

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<v Speaker 2>and sometimes your subscription just won't take you that far.

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<v Speaker 2>We can't all be you know, Tier one, some need

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<v Speaker 2>Tier two and Tier three, but the most universal, free tier.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you ready here to enjoy leisure and pleasure? Anyone

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<v Speaker 2>can do it if you really want to, if you

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<v Speaker 2>really really want to leisure and pleasure, and if that

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<v Speaker 2>is literally all you do, no milestone, some of that stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>just leisure and pleasure.

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<v Speaker 4>You've lived.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I was writing a newsletter about this yesterday because

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<v Speaker 3>I want to write a newsletter on it.

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<v Speaker 4>Sign up at Firmswold.

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<v Speaker 3>Substack and I wanted to write about this, but I

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<v Speaker 3>can't get into words because I don't want it to

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<v Speaker 3>sound like, oh like just do nothing. Because I've said

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<v Speaker 3>that healthcare workers, for example, will read my newsletter, and

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<v Speaker 3>here I am a delinquent, underemployed.

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<v Speaker 4>Bushpig on.

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<v Speaker 2>To your own adventure.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's true in your spare everybody has some element

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<v Speaker 3>of spare time or some element where you're allowed to

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<v Speaker 3>make a decision. And I think the decisions should always

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<v Speaker 3>be enjoyment. Don't go to gym if you don't enjoy it,

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<v Speaker 3>go for a walk, walk to McDonald's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like the age old quote, suffering is inevitable, pain is not.

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<v Speaker 2>We're all going to experience suffering in some capacity. You're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna fall out with your best friend. You're gonna get

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<v Speaker 2>fired from a job you really like, you're gonna get ghosted.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretty much. Inevitable pain is the emotional association you have

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<v Speaker 2>with those things. You have those people who are kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like, no bad stuff happens, and then I moved on.

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<v Speaker 2>But others make bad stuff like the corner stone of

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<v Speaker 2>their whole identity. It's hard to not do that. However,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not to say you can't acknowledge that bad stuff happened.

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<v Speaker 2>You just need to put an extra quota in, an

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<v Speaker 2>extra fifty percent trying to make stuff feel good. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like you need to stop looking for the party and

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<v Speaker 2>be the party. Need to stop looking for hot people

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<v Speaker 2>in a room and be the hot person. Yes, need

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<v Speaker 2>to stop looking for someone who's gonna start the conversation

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<v Speaker 2>and you start the conversation. That's it. That's the secret source.

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<v Speaker 2>That is the major key.

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<v Speaker 3>That is a major key. I completely relate to that.

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<v Speaker 3>For a long time, I was always like, I only

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<v Speaker 3>want to dress up and like use my night of drinking.

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<v Speaker 3>If there's gonna be somewhere there that I potentially want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Boots, yeah, oh that's the good one.

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<v Speaker 4>Butts yep.

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<v Speaker 3>But then I'm like, you come to me if you

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<v Speaker 3>like what you see, and if you don't, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be vibing.

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<v Speaker 2>So the meaning of life is to be hot at

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<v Speaker 2>all times and at all costs. Literally, it's the first

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<v Speaker 2>thing we've ever agreed on, I know, and it's a

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<v Speaker 2>good one. So I think we might have just figured

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<v Speaker 2>it out for everybody else.

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