1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome to another episode about Spoken. You're 2 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 1: joined by journalists Amy Sophie and Kate Torbert. Now, so 3 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,799 Speaker 1: can you tell us what's coming up on the show? Well, 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: on today's episode, we look at the reality of living 5 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: with your partner, whether social media is causing a rise 6 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: in health anxiety, and other sex lives of MATHS contestants 7 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: really our business before we dive into that, how was 8 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,639 Speaker 1: everyone's weeks? Well, I just got back from it's a 9 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: long weekend here in Adelaide, and I just got back 10 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: from a weekend at Port Hughes and have absolutely fallen 11 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: in love with a little Border Collie puppy called Ziggy. 12 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 1: It's my boyfriend's sister's dog and I just wanted to 13 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: steal it by the end of the trip. It's so cute, 14 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: cute dog. I know, I was so cute. I loved 15 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: how it was the captain of the boat in your 16 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: Instagram For anyone that follows Sophie, go check it out. 17 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: It's so cute. Well, my week last week was pretty funny. 18 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: I felt like my old world collided with me. I 19 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: was going to pick Kate up to take her to 20 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: the doctor, and while I was on a main road. 21 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: I saw this journals crossing the road and she was 22 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 1: walking towards a police officer, who then I noticed was 23 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: guarding a knife, as you do. Clearly we live in 24 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: the hoods and anyway, then I noticed some of my 25 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: old colleagues from seven walking across the road, and I 26 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: noticed that they hadn't seen the knife. So I was 27 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,479 Speaker 1: stopped at a red light and I was like, oh, 28 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: do I tell them? Like? Do I yell out the windows? 29 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: Wound my window down, like, Hi, there a knife over there. 30 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I was on the phone with when 31 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: Amy was doing this. Firstly, I didn't understand why the 32 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: hell you were helping them out? And then secondly I 33 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: was like then she hung up, and I was like, 34 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: has she been stucked? It was a really nice cameraman, 35 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: and I didn't want them to miss out on the exclusive. 36 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:40,559 Speaker 1: Thing I'm more disturbed about is the fact that there 37 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: was a robbery involving a knife right New York house. 38 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: So it was at the local petrol station. A man 39 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: had just walked in with a kitchen knife and taken 40 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: off with cash, but he kind of ruined the whole 41 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: getaway when he decided to catch a bus over the road. 42 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god. But just as summarize, I actually then 43 00:01:57,760 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: rang the cameraman. I'm like, I'm so sorry. I didn't 44 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: mean to look like complete psycho yelling at you. But 45 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: there's a knife. Well, my week, we'll probably touch on 46 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: it in one of the topics later. As Amy mentioned, 47 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:09,519 Speaker 1: I did go to the doctor. I'm eokay, but we'll 48 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 1: talk about that later. I had quite a funny incident 49 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:16,679 Speaker 1: after family dinner because on Wednesday we filmed our podcast. 50 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: Hopefully you guys have listened to your sorry recorded It 51 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 1: was about love life and questions about relationships. And it 52 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: was funny because we started talking about it at family 53 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: dinner and I think Recec got interested about what it 54 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: was about. Anyway, this is your boyfriend, this is my boyfriend. Yeah. 55 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: And on the way home, I was driving and he 56 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: started playing out loud. I don't know anyone else, but 57 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 1: it's so cringe hearing your own voice. And secondly, I 58 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: never thought he'd listen to the episode, and he was like, 59 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: oh my god, I didn't realize my name was mentioned 60 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: in this. And then it continued on and there was 61 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: more and more mentioned and was it more of like 62 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: a pleasant surprise or did he actually seem pissed off. Well, 63 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: I couldn't even tell. I think he was a little 64 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: bit annoyed because it cracked me up. Even his mum 65 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: and dad got to mention in last week's podcast. The 66 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: thing is, it's kind of almost like a secret girls 67 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,679 Speaker 1: chat that's been Yeah, that's what I felt. I felt like, 68 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: I don't mind everyone listening to it, but it was like, 69 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: when you're the people that you're talking about in it, 70 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 1: it makes you feel so like weird. Quite often Brandon 71 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: will say things to me and he'll actually remark, please 72 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: don't mention that on the podcast. I know. Well, I 73 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: think it serves Restale and Brandon right for not listening 74 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: to it. Well, I think as well. We are floating 75 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: the idea of having the three of them appear on 76 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:27,399 Speaker 1: an upcoming podcast, perhaps about relationships or things girls want 77 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: to know, So maybe hit up our Facebook page and 78 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: Instagram if you guys would like to see that happen. Well, 79 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: it's rather topical that we're talking about their distaste in 80 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: appearing in the podcast, but our first topic is actually 81 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: talking all about moving in with your partner, because obviously 82 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: it can signify such a big step in a relationship. 83 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: So these days, the amount of people moving in with 84 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: each other has skyrocketed because previously it was people got 85 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: married and then moved in. So I thought it'd be 86 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: fun to discuss if moving in with your partner is 87 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: all it's actually cracked up to be. And I think 88 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: we're the perfect people to talk about it because we've all, 89 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: I suppoy somewhat recently moved in with our boyfriends. So Sophie, firstly, 90 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: what was it that made you and Brandon decide to 91 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: move in together? Well, when I met Brandon, he was 92 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: living home with his mum and dad, so I think 93 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: he thought it was time to move out, and I 94 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: guess we felt like we were at that next stage 95 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: of our relationship where we wanted to spend more time 96 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: with each other and take the leap of faith. I 97 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: suppose I feel like it was the distance you guys lived, 98 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: because he's always seemed to complain about having to drive, 99 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: because that's apparently one big thing. One of the reasons 100 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 1: people more people are moving in together is because of 101 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 1: the distance they live from each other, and also just 102 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: because it's cheaper. Because we never had that, we always 103 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 1: were able to live with each other and not have 104 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 1: to rely on living with dodgy housemates. Yeah, well, I 105 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 1: think as well it is a very old school philosophy 106 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: for people to wait until they're married to move in. 107 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: I feel like it's really integral to live with someone 108 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: before you get married, because you don't know their little quirks, 109 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 1: You don't know if you're going to get along. Otherwise 110 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 1: it's just this fantasy land. I remember Nana was shocked 111 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: when you found out we were all living separately and 112 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: with our boyfriends. It was like, She's like, what, I 113 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: suppose that's a really old school view, isn't it that 114 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: you have to get married? But I mean I remember 115 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 1: our mum's saying that because she got married and then 116 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: moved in with dad, oh my gosh. And not to 117 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: be mean to dad, but I think that was a 118 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 1: real shock to the system because he went from I suppose, well, 119 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: I don't even know what they were like dating before, 120 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: but mom just had to do everything. She had to 121 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: take over the role of his mother. Well, a good 122 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 1: friend of ours who's also our hairdresser, she got married 123 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 1: at twenty three and moved in with her husband for 124 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 1: the first time as well, and she said that she 125 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: actually felt really really sad because she'd never been away 126 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 1: from her sisters before, and I suppose it would be 127 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: really strange going from living with all your friends and 128 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: your sisters to a guy your friends do you mean, 129 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: Oh well, I'm saying that your sisters are your friends. 130 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 1: Oh well. I feel like for us, it was at 131 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: the stage where it kind of reminded me of when 132 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: we moved out of home from mum and Dad's house. 133 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: It was at the stage where you know, there were 134 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:02,359 Speaker 1: arguments all the time, and Mum and Dad were ready 135 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: for us to go. I actually feel like with the 136 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 1: three of us, I mean, Amy and I stuck it 137 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: out for the longest. We were thirty when we moved 138 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: out from each other. I think that's a pretty good innings. 139 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: But I felt like our relationship has gotten better with 140 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 1: each other since we've moved out. To be honest, well, 141 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: I mean, looking at some of these starts, though, they're 142 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: actually saying it can have a negative impact on your relationship, 143 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 1: with not as many people getting married once they have 144 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: lived together. Amy, is that right? Yeah, that's right. And 145 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 1: there's actually been a study in the UK that's been 146 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 1: released that it actually says that people are now choosing 147 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 1: to live apart from their partners. I feel like a 148 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: huge group of people who are doing that because they 149 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 1: still want I suppose they're either unhappy with the way 150 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: their partner cleans up the house basically, or they just 151 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: want their own free time and don't want to have 152 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:51,039 Speaker 1: their partner around. It's funny you say that, because you 153 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 1: guys need to watch this show. I plugged it last episode, 154 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 1: but Love is Blind. It's on Netflix and it's trending 155 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 1: in Australia at the moment. But there were quite a 156 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:01,039 Speaker 1: few contestants on there who were in their mid thirties, 157 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: and one woman in particular, Lauren She I think she 158 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 1: was like thirty three and part of the reason why 159 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: she was unsure if she was going to go through 160 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: with the wedding was because she didn't like the idea 161 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: of her independence, like losing her independence. And her partner 162 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: lived in this amazing, huge house and there was so 163 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: much room for her, and then she lived in this 164 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 1: tiny flat, but she still wanted to keep the flat 165 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 1: just so she could have her time away. I think 166 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: that's such a good point though. I think the older 167 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: you get, the more set in your own personal ways. 168 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: You get and maybe it is harder to move in 169 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: when you are in your thirties because you're so used 170 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: to living on your own. Well, that is so true. 171 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: I lived up until thirty without living with a man 172 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: other than my dad. So I thought it'd be a 173 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: good question to throw out there. What is it that 174 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: I suppose maybe for people that haven't moved in, what 175 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 1: do you discover about men once you live with them. 176 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: I discover that they fart and burp a lot more 177 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: than I thought they did. See, I don't know. I 178 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: thought like, I don't know, he said it. He doesn't 179 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: want his name used all the time, but I would 180 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 1: just be no, I think it's fine now. But yeah, 181 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: I actually thought that would be the case. But he's 182 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: so respectful at the moment. He doesn't really like very 183 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: rarely does that. I feel like you guys are still 184 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: in that honeymoon phase though, where he's still trying to 185 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: kind of conceal that. Maybe it has been four months 186 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: though so or the other day. I don't know how 187 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 1: you guys feel about this topic, the whole toilet topic, 188 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 1: because I feel like, yeah, once you live together sort 189 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: of that obviously becomes an issue. You just have to 190 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: go to the toilet anytime when the person's around where 191 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,559 Speaker 1: you could just secretly go home. And I feel like 192 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: everyone needs to buy toilets. Bro Yeah, that's an essential. 193 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 1: I didn't have that in it house. That was the 194 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 1: first thing I bought when I moved in. We've got 195 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: two toilets, so one upstairs, one downstairs, which I've claimed 196 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: the upstairs well the other. The other day, I was 197 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: in the bathroom and Dale decided to just open the 198 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 1: door and say hello and surprise me while I was 199 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: sitting on the toilet, And I told him after that 200 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 1: I did not want to be that sort of couple 201 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 1: that watched each other or the toilet. My boyfriend does 202 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: that too, because when we have the way our house 203 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 1: is set up, you can sit on the couch and 204 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: then there's a toilet across from it in this kind 205 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 1: of little anyway, So as a joke joke, he will 206 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 1: leave the door open and piss and then give me 207 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:19,439 Speaker 1: I Actually maybe that's Gross's gross? Okay, So okay, Yeah, 208 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: any girls out there that think you of moving in, 209 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 1: so that might be one thing you might have to 210 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: have the chat about whether you're comfortable with that kind 211 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 1: of toilet etiquette. One thing I noticed talking about gross 212 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 1: things is that I don't know if it's with anyone 213 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 1: else's boyfriends, but they don't like they leave their toneails everywhere. 214 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: I remember used to do. Oh yeah, I've seen my 215 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 1: naming names, but I've seen toneails underneath the couch when 216 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: I've gone to sweep, and I've just been like, what 217 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 1: the hell that's repulsive. I haven't. I haven't found that 218 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: at all. That being said, I feel like I am 219 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 1: quite repulsive to live with as well, because I would 220 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: second that I shared a bathroom for so few for 221 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 1: two years, as many people will have known now by 222 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: listening to this podcast. According to any Kate, I'm quite 223 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: high maintenance. So once a week I like to do 224 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 1: my tan. And when I used to have my own bed, 225 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: that really wasn't an issue. Now give me just sleep 226 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 1: in stained sheets. Now that I live with someone ten 227 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 1: night becomes quite hellish for Brandon as well. The smell 228 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: or just I get in my cocoon with very wet 229 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: tan still on and it will smell putrid when I 230 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 1: wake up in the morning. And what I have been 231 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 1: caught out for is that because I have quite a 232 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: thick layer of tan on. We can clearly see who 233 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: has been taking up most of the bed as well, 234 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 1: because there will be a brown leg line. I actually 235 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: feel sorry for Brandon because I remember one time we 236 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: had a really early shoot when I lived with Kate 237 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: and she wasn't there. She wasn't home for some reason, 238 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 1: so you slept over and you insisted on sleeping in 239 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 1: the bed with me. She didn't tell me she'd just 240 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: done her tan I woke up and there was Oh surprisingly, 241 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 1: I couldn't and I woke up and there was just 242 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: this outline of her body in the bed. Do you 243 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: know what the funniest thing is? I probably shouldn't be 244 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: admitting it, but when I put my BONDI sands tan on, 245 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 1: it is so black and then my face is so white. 246 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: I literally look like an avid What are they called 247 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: an avatar? What are they called avatar? Avatar? But it's blue? 248 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 1: What are you talking to? I don't know. I just 249 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: look like this monster and I will walk down, just 250 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: burst out a lot. I know Reese always makes jokes 251 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: about it. He refused to hug me or give me 252 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 1: any like hug good night when I have my tan 253 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: on because he hates the smell I can't even I 254 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: don't even think it's that bad. Well, just moving on 255 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 1: a different kind of topic from ten there was a 256 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 1: great Muma Mia article I read and it was talking 257 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: about the seven questions you should ask your boyfriend before 258 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: moving in. And the first one is when are we 259 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:44,559 Speaker 1: getting a dog? Because I feel like a lot of 260 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 1: people move in and that's partly why we moved out 261 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 1: as well, because we wanted a dog, then our land 262 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 1: lord wouldn't let us. Well, the other topics are who's 263 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: going to cook? So is he going to expect you 264 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 1: to cook every meal? I feel like guys aren't as 265 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: backwards as they used to be. I feel like I 266 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 1: feel like some men like cooking. Yeah, no, definitely. And 267 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 1: then another question is the money side of things, like 268 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: do you split everything? I don't know what you guys do. 269 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: That can be awkward because most people, if they're not married, 270 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 1: obviously won't have a joint bank account. So I feel 271 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: like for anyone moving and you've got to be pretty 272 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 1: forthcoming with that topic and comfortable to talk about money. Well, 273 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 1: the fourth question is whose bed are you going to keep? 274 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: And avid listeners, oh g, listeners of this podcast will 275 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 1: know my distaste for Dale's furniture. When he moved in 276 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 1: and I got actually we kept his bed, but it 277 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 1: was a second bed. Was it your mattress? Yeah, it 278 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: was my mattress. Yees see, we kept well Reese had. 279 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 1: So when Reese moved out, someone well he didn't actually 280 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 1: have many possessions to move out with. Let's just say 281 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 1: because someone kept them all. So that's his ex girlfriend 282 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 1: she is referring to. We won't name her, but no, 283 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: hopefully she doesn't listen to the show and anyway, So 284 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 1: when he moved out, fortunately he got some hand me 285 00:12:57,280 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: down secondhand things through work and anyway, so he got. 286 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 1: One of the things he got was the secondhand King 287 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 1: bed and I could not sleep on it like it was. 288 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: It wasn't too I mean, kings are always nice, but 289 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: the mattress was so firm, so I felt like a bitch. 290 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 1: But I to put my foot down and say, no, 291 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 1: we're having my bed. Well, there was the discussion between 292 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: Brandon and I whose bed we would keep, and he 293 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: was trying to he was trying to persuade me to 294 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 1: use his like trying to win me over that it 295 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: was so much better. And then I later found out 296 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: that it was his grandma and grandpa's old bed. What. Yeah, 297 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 1: that's weird. Why would you want to that's the thing. 298 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: He's like, Oh no, it's pretty new. It's pretty new. 299 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: And then his mum and dad were like, oh, should 300 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: we throw out that old bed? Your grandma who used 301 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: to own that? Oh my god, that's foul. Sorry, but 302 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: that needs to go. I don't like the thought of 303 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: sleeping when I'm in hotels. I don't like sleeping on it, 304 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: let alone like knowing that it's I mean, that was 305 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: my issue with this secondhand king bed as well. Well. 306 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 1: One issue I've found probably the biggest issue for me 307 00:13:57,559 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 1: now living with a boy, is that they just don't 308 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:00,959 Speaker 1: want to watch what you want to watch on TV, 309 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 1: and I don't really want to watch. So we're having 310 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:05,439 Speaker 1: to find shows that we both like. It's bloody and 311 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 1: possible to find something. I think that's why I was 312 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: very impressed with myself for the gift I gave Reese 313 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: for Christmas, which was a PlayStation. Because we've set it 314 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 1: up in a different room so Reese would just be like, 315 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 1: you're watching maths and then walk out and turn the 316 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 1: PlayStation on, but like it's good That's a good point, though, 317 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 1: I feel like if you move in with someone, you've 318 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: still got to have time to see your friends and girlfriends, 319 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: or even go over to your friend's house to watch 320 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: your own TV as well. Like I feel like that's 321 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 1: still very important to remain independent, even though you are 322 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 1: now part of it, to watch maths as much as 323 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 1: positive Well, don't I think it's nice to have a 324 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: TV show you watched together. I mean, yeah, ours turned 325 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: into Love Ireland because I forced Reese to watch it, 326 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: and then it also turned into Love is Blind. But 327 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: I mean maybe Reese now that Love is Blind can 328 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: choose his own programm. But it is a good bonding 329 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 1: thing as well, having your own little show that you're 330 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 1: looking forward to watching together. Mine's all American. I've been 331 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 1: wanting to talk about this show for a while on 332 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 1: the podcast. Please people go and check it out. I'm 333 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: not sold on that our show has become Survivor because 334 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 1: Dale was friends on it, and actually it's been really 335 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: good watching it together. So you know what I would 336 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 1: I would say to people if you're thinking about moving 337 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: in with someone, make sure you've had your own single 338 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: time to enjoy life, but then just go for it 339 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 1: as Dale whistles in the backround. Shut up, we're filming recording. Okay, 340 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 1: So moving on to the pit and peak of our 341 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: social media week, and let's start with the peak, which was, 342 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 1: of course, the beautiful photo of Prince Harry and Meghan 343 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 1: Markle that sort of stopped the Internet in its tracks. Amy, 344 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 1: what were your thoughts on it? Well, being a videographer 345 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: and photographer, I have to say, I'm pretty sure that 346 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 1: photo is staged because you'd have to have a very 347 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 1: slow shutter speed to get those little rain drops. The 348 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: fact that there's a light coming through the backdrop that 349 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: is not a paparazzi style photo. I feel like that's 350 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: been taken by somebody. Yeah, they revealed it was taken 351 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 1: by royal photographer, so I mean he was clearly there 352 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: to capture the moment. But as you say, maybe it's 353 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: some good pr impressed on their behalf to have this 354 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: beautiful photo. It's a stunning photo, and I think props 355 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 1: to them because it does show this sort of like evolution. 356 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: It's almost like them walking into their future, isn't it. Well, 357 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 1: the photo was taken as they got out of a 358 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 1: car and arrived at one of their last royal official 359 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: royal events. I loved it because it looked like a 360 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 1: real kind of smug fuck you moment, Like it would 361 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 1: be the perfect picture to put up on Instagram to 362 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 1: like have some sort of vengeful quote or you know, 363 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 1: like I'm happy and you're not good, a sort of thing. 364 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 1: A lot of people said it looked like a real 365 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 1: life movie poster, which is quite symbolic seeing as Megan 366 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 1: is probably gonna go often does exactly do her career. 367 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: I actually thought it did look like a movie poster 368 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 1: as well, and I could see it being used like 369 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: one of those iconic photos of royal history. And so 370 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: can you fill us in on the pit of the week, Well, 371 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 1: the pit definitely has to be that viral video of 372 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 1: the two what's actually three women fighting for toilet paper 373 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: in a New South Wales store. Have you guys seen 374 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 1: this clip? I could not stop laughing. My stomach was 375 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 1: so sore. I probably watched it five times. Mam, we 376 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 1: had already seen it once. And then we went to 377 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 1: km up with each other to pick up a few things, 378 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: which ended up being a two hour round trip. And 379 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:22,879 Speaker 1: then as she dropped me off, she was getting all 380 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: like unpacking all the Kmart stuff from my car and 381 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 1: she was just pissing herself laughing. I was like what, 382 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 1: and she's like, this is video. It is very reminiscent. 383 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: I think we touched on this last week, but all 384 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: these memes are so reminiscent of the Elaine Seinfeld moment 385 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:39,199 Speaker 1: where she wants a square of toilet paper, because this 386 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 1: woman is even heard saying I just want one pack. Well, 387 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, who was that greedy family? They've put limits to, 388 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 1: you know, stop these ridiculous people going into the stores. 389 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 1: I actually wanted some toilet paper, but I was too 390 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 1: ashamed to even go into the store for fear of 391 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: looking like one of these idiots going in. But the 392 00:17:57,640 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 1: thing is, you can't even get it, like, you know what, 393 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: how if you're on your last role and you actually 394 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 1: need it. One of the things that cracked me up 395 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: in the video was the supermarket worker being like, ladies, 396 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 1: we're fighting over tissue. And I mean one thing though, 397 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 1: more seriously, is we've got to start thinking about the 398 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,679 Speaker 1: people working in these stores, like the abuse that they 399 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:18,880 Speaker 1: must be copying, because they're the ones that are having 400 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 1: to tell these absolutely hysterical people that they can only 401 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: have four bundles of toilet paper, which now has been 402 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 1: downgraded to one. Oh he's good. Well, police have actually 403 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 1: had to speak to this forty nine year old woman 404 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 1: who was assaulted in the incident. They shook, be good 405 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 1: for you. And there is now a court date in 406 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: place for the two women who were brawling with her, 407 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 1: so they'll be appearing in court on April twenty eight. 408 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 1: They wonder if media will be there for that one. 409 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:45,439 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I saw the full press conference and 410 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 1: it was so embarrassing what the policemen actually had to address, 411 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 1: like the fact that they're doing a press conference about 412 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:56,680 Speaker 1: people fighting about toilet paper. When will the media take 413 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 1: responsibility for this? Because there's a lot of fearmong green 414 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:01,919 Speaker 1: going on, and then you know, there's all the hysterical 415 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 1: people that actually think they need to bunker down because 416 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 1: of the coronavirus. But then there are the people like 417 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 1: you and me that are like, shit, I need to 418 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 1: get some toilet paper. Like I personally know, I go 419 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: through a lot of toilet paper. Can I just say though, 420 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:17,679 Speaker 1: as in I thought it was absolutely absurd that they 421 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:19,879 Speaker 1: were fighting over toilet paper, but I felt like it 422 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:23,919 Speaker 1: was symbolic of more of the actual greed of people, 423 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 1: like I don't know, you know when you have those 424 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:28,160 Speaker 1: blackout moments where you just see red, I could say 425 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: myself doing it. To be honest, you mean, what stop 426 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: piling the toilet paper? No being angry at the greedy 427 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:35,159 Speaker 1: people that take it? Yeah, you know that. You know 428 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: the mother that came over kicked off my daughter. It's 429 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:40,479 Speaker 1: like it's your daughters that attack the other limits they 430 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: why not help and be like, oh, okay, do you 431 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 1: actually really need some? Here's one packet of the folity 432 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,400 Speaker 1: because the joke of it was she was already over 433 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 1: the limit for how many you're allowed to take. Yeah, 434 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:52,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I can see how these things can get 435 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 1: out of hand. I'm just saying. My favorite bit was 436 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:58,920 Speaker 1: when the worker was like, call the police. You guys 437 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:02,640 Speaker 1: seen that other viral videos about these guys are looking 438 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,719 Speaker 1: for toilet paper and they can't find it, and then 439 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: they decide to go to Bunning's and instead they buy 440 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 1: sandpaper and they act like they use it, and they're 441 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: just like screamed. Well, I have actually seen a stat 442 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:14,400 Speaker 1: that says that the sales and toilet paper have gone 443 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 1: up by one hundred and ten percent this week. I 444 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: wonder what that means for the industry itself, because obviously 445 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 1: they're getting this weird peak, but then all the people 446 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 1: that are stockpiled are gonna then you know, not need 447 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: it for a while, so it's going to mess with 448 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: their books. Everyone's talking about shares being down there. I'm 449 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:31,879 Speaker 1: assuming the shares and toilet paper sky, how do we 450 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 1: put on almon? Yeah? Got texts message? Well, now moving 451 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: on to what's been making news in our feeds this week, 452 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,800 Speaker 1: and what's been making news in my feeds specifically today 453 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 1: has been all the backlash on the Maths experts who 454 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:52,400 Speaker 1: were basically not sex shaming, but sort of just asking 455 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 1: some really perverted questions to fan favorites a Van and 456 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,680 Speaker 1: Alex Okay, I'm not even gonna ask of you because 457 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,679 Speaker 1: she doesn't watch Maths. She told us last week that 458 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 1: she would catch up. I'm sorry, I've had a life 459 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:08,400 Speaker 1: this week. It is the most popular show in Australia 460 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,399 Speaker 1: at the moment. So anyway, for those who might have 461 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 1: missed the episode, it was Sunday Nights episode where they 462 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,400 Speaker 1: sit on the couch and you know, they reveal whether 463 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: they're going to stay or leave? And what's that judge 464 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: with the fringe. She's always asking all the sex questions. 465 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: She's like, no, can you tell me have you been intimate? 466 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:28,679 Speaker 1: And Yvonne has has had the same stance on the 467 00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 1: topic from day one that he will not talk about 468 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 1: his sex life, which I really respect. I just think 469 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:37,119 Speaker 1: it's really none of their business. And they do. I 470 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 1: feel like the experts obviously ask for the ratings and 471 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 1: they just get really personal. Well that's what I don't get, 472 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 1: because all the couples that have come out and shared 473 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 1: their intimate details then seem to have just gone off 474 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:52,160 Speaker 1: the tracks completely, Like look at Haley and David. They 475 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 1: were bragging about their sex life, and then she went 476 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: and cheated with Michael, and then Michael and Stacy were 477 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 1: bragging about it. The same things happened, and then Mikey 478 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: and that girl Natasha. Yeah. So I feel like, especially 479 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 1: because of the tone of the show, I mean, it's 480 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 1: an absolute train wreck of a show. Why has anyone 481 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 1: got to confide their real feelings and experiences on it? Well, also, 482 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 1: they come from European backgrounds, and I know alexand what's 483 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 1: her name, Alex. Alex said that her parents don't even 484 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,399 Speaker 1: know if she's a virgin or not, and she'd like 485 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 1: it to stay that way. So I think they're just 486 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,640 Speaker 1: trying to be respectful. Well, there has been a lot 487 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,159 Speaker 1: of backlash online with people agreeing that they thought the 488 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:34,440 Speaker 1: experts took it too far that actually just sounded so childish. 489 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 1: They were like, well, basically, you know, we've created this relationship, 490 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,719 Speaker 1: so we deserve to know what's happening. Yeah, does that 491 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 1: come from You're in this experiment, so you better tell 492 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 1: us what's going on. It's like, No, it's good that 493 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 1: people are. You know, they're coming under fire for this 494 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 1: because it does seem a bit absurd. Well, what I 495 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 1: find weird is they are the only couple that seems 496 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,919 Speaker 1: to have any you know, chance of making it on 497 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:57,160 Speaker 1: the outside, and they're trying to act like they're not 498 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 1: doing the right thing by spilling the beans. Yeah okay, 499 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 1: so what else is making news with such maths? Well 500 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 1: this did give me a bit of a chuggle. Jeordie 501 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,679 Speaker 1: Shaw's Charlotte Crosby has come under fire for holding what 502 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 1: people have deemed a Corona themed Hen's party for a friend. 503 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 1: So basically, she shared a photo on her Instagram of 504 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 1: her and her friends wearing face masks in a Barley 505 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 1: nightclub and they were kind they were specifically made for 506 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 1: this event, so they were black and had Barley Bitches 507 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,399 Speaker 1: written across the face mask. So could they have just 508 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,880 Speaker 1: been wearing them to be safe for How is it 509 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 1: like so obvious that it's a Corona themed Okay, they 510 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:39,920 Speaker 1: were personally made like Corona. Well, because at the moment 511 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: in Bali they're stopping people from going over there. I 512 00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 1: think I don't think Barley has any cases of Corona. 513 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,960 Speaker 1: I think there was a Chinese woman there apparently that 514 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:52,439 Speaker 1: might have been positive to Anyway, it's a bit of 515 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 1: a joke, really, I mean why I saw it, and 516 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:56,919 Speaker 1: I thought it was pretty funny. It was all in 517 00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 1: good fun. But a lot of people have hit A 518 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: lot of people have messaged on her Instagram saying this 519 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 1: is completely inappropriate considering people what's next on the feed? Well, 520 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys saw it, but I 521 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 1: kept seeing Kim Kardashian's KFC themed crocs. What I found 522 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 1: really interesting is Valencia have actually teamed up with Crocs, 523 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 1: and this collaboration has seen the rise in more people 524 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 1: wearing Crocs as a fashion statement. I went to what 525 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,040 Speaker 1: Sam Magnum thinks about that. What I found more interesting 526 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:28,200 Speaker 1: was the PR package was promoting the meatless chicken at KFC. 527 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,520 Speaker 1: When is that coming to Australia Because I've heard the 528 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 1: meatless chicken burger in England is amazing. I want to 529 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 1: try it. I saw Anastasia trying it on YouTube and 530 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 1: I really wanted it. What do you guys think about Crocs? 531 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 1: They would you be seen dead in them? No? Fuck no? 532 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 1: But I mean you think about the Birkenstocks. I remember 533 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:46,399 Speaker 1: thinking how dorky they were, and now I've got a 534 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 1: parent love them. They just shows you that anything shit 535 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,639 Speaker 1: marketed well people will buy. The funniest thing about sophs 536 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 1: Birkenstocks is she bought or she got given the full 537 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 1: quality Birkenstock real ones. And then I bought some copy 538 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 1: from like is it Ruby shoes yet the brand's Ruby 539 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,199 Speaker 1: I think or something like that for thirty and then 540 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,760 Speaker 1: Amy's trumped me and gone and got some from Kmart 541 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: for eight. Well let's see who's are more comfortable on 542 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 1: who's last test time? Wonderbar Amy kept stepping on mine 543 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: the other day, so they're trying to break them. That 544 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:21,919 Speaker 1: is so fetch, Gretchen. Stop trying to make fetch happen. 545 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 1: It's not going to happen. Now, moving on to a 546 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,640 Speaker 1: topic I think that's pretty close to Kate's heart. It's 547 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 1: health anxiety. Now we've been ripping her the last couple 548 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 1: of days because Kate is somebody that googles everything. If 549 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 1: she's got a little ache and paign, she thinks she's 550 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,760 Speaker 1: got cancer. And while you know, we're having a laugh 551 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 1: about it, it can be a really serious topic. Now, Kate, 552 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 1: you've got to tell us what's gone on this last 553 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 1: few months because you've had some fpic health concerns. Yeah, 554 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 1: we'll keep this short, but basically I thought I may 555 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 1: have some sort of gynological cancer based on something. It's 556 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: not funny for that, It's really not funny at all. 557 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 1: Un Fortunately, I'm just gonna put out there I am fine, 558 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 1: but I did have to have a perhaps smear, a coloscopy, 559 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,720 Speaker 1: I think that's how you say it, and a trans 560 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 1: vaginal ultrasound. Now, this still is started by a very 561 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 1: common result of being on the pill. So you had 562 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 1: a little bit of spotting, and the worst mistake you 563 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 1: did was actually google it, yeah, because I've had it before. 564 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 1: And then I sort of once I googled it, I 565 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 1: freaked myself out completely because it can be a very 566 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,439 Speaker 1: common symptom side effect of being on the pill, but 567 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 1: it also can be a sign of different cancers. So 568 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: how shit is it being a girl? I know? And 569 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 1: any men that are listening, I'm sorry if this is 570 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 1: too much tm I, but deal with it because we 571 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 1: all have to do it. Yeah, we have to worry 572 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,120 Speaker 1: about all this thing now from an outsider of someone 573 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 1: who's been a shoulder to cry and during this ordeal, 574 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,359 Speaker 1: I think the heart. Well, what's outed the most horrific 575 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 1: to me was the ordeal at the gynecologist when she 576 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 1: showed you something I don't think any woman wants to see. Well, 577 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:02,119 Speaker 1: so the procedure called the is basically sort of like 578 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 1: a perhaps mir where they open you up, but they 579 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,160 Speaker 1: look into your cervix with a telescope slash soul, yeah, 580 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 1: slash soul. So I'm having this done sort of like 581 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 1: pretending that it's not happening. And she decides to turn 582 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 1: the screen around that she's viewing so I can see 583 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 1: it too, And that's something that I never wanted to see. 584 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 1: I looked away in disgust, and she asked, what was wrong. 585 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,399 Speaker 1: I've actually heard of a nurse doing work experience and 586 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 1: she was called in to watch a perhaps me take 587 00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 1: place and she actually fainted. It. This was way worse 588 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 1: than a perhaps mere And so how do you feel 589 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 1: if you're the person's having the peraps me and someone 590 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 1: faints at the side of you. I just want to say, though, 591 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 1: this whole experience made me understand how important it is 592 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:45,679 Speaker 1: to stay on top of all these health checks. Like 593 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 1: I know that I was fine, and I was probably 594 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: being a little bit melodramatic about it all, but from 595 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 1: all of my over googling, it just just does show 596 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,359 Speaker 1: just be vigilant with those checks because they're really important. Well, 597 00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:00,439 Speaker 1: I found it really interesting because I've always said I 598 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 1: don't want to google any symptoms because all it does 599 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 1: is tell you that you've got cancer and you're dying. 600 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:09,679 Speaker 1: And that's actually what your doctor told you. Yeah, my 601 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 1: doctor said, because I kind of make excuses when I 602 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 1: go in there, I'm like, oh, I'm sorry, I've been 603 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: giggling and I'm a mood of a hypochondriac. And she said, look, 604 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,239 Speaker 1: they've seen an influx of patients because of Google, and 605 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:20,800 Speaker 1: the best thing to do is not to come in 606 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: and say, oh, I think I've got this. It's best 607 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 1: to actually list your symptoms. But for anyone, I mean, 608 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 1: the funniest thing was, I'm always looking up all these things. 609 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,360 Speaker 1: But I've actually self diagnosed myself with the health anxiety, 610 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,919 Speaker 1: which is formerly known as hypochondria. And it's often that 611 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:38,880 Speaker 1: you have these small, small symptoms that then you kind 612 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 1: of catastrophize in your head as being some sort of 613 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 1: serious health issue. I think so many young women would 614 00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 1: have that because I feel like due to social media, 615 00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,280 Speaker 1: there's been so many causes that have been sort of 616 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 1: pushed in our faces. I mean, there's all these amazing 617 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 1: ones about getting your skin checked and all of that. 618 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 1: And while I think that even Corona at the moment 619 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 1: says to be the hugest one, but you know what, 620 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: while I think that's great about the skin checks, when 621 00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 1: I spoke to one of my uncles who's adopted, he 622 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 1: actually said that, you know, most people who are young 623 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 1: don't actually need to get their skin checks. Not so 624 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: much about being young, it's if you're not in the 625 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 1: high risk. Yeah, that's what's going to say, I mean, 626 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 1: if you're out there burning yourself every summer and that 627 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 1: go get checked. But I mean that being said, though, 628 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 1: I think is important for people get checked. But I 629 00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: think it's very detrimental if people are constantly googling to 630 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 1: the point of making themselves feel sick, because at the 631 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,360 Speaker 1: end of the day, we've got to worry about our 632 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 1: mental health just as much as we've got to worry 633 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,320 Speaker 1: about it. And I think the thing for me was 634 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 1: I personally, because I do have health anxiety, I actually 635 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 1: find a lot of those updates and constant like things 636 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: about health are very triggering because if I hear someone 637 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 1: going on and on about melanoma, the first thing I'm 638 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,120 Speaker 1: going to start doing is googling what the symptoms are, 639 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 1: what to look out for. And for me, that's not 640 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 1: good because even preparing for this podcast, I started googling 641 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 1: it and I did a little test and it's like 642 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 1: you're at high risk, and I was like a lot 643 00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 1: of skincares. Oh, I think I'm gonna say, of your 644 00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,960 Speaker 1: being a hypochondriac. Oh No, I definitely am that. But 645 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 1: that's where it's really important as well, because at the 646 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 1: end of the day, you need to talk to a 647 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 1: doctor instead of googling. Like, Google is the worst thing 648 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 1: you can do. Well also because when you google stuff, 649 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: then you stress out because you think you've got it, 650 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 1: and that releases cortizone into the body, which is so 651 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 1: bad for you. So that's what I find disgusting about 652 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 1: the whole thing. It's kind of like the Internet's given 653 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: us all this information, but it's actually making us feel 654 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 1: so shit. Yeah. Well, there was actually a study done 655 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 1: into it, and it found that for people that are 656 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 1: anxious about their healthy internet definitely has a detrimental effect, 657 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: especially if people are searching sort of well known health 658 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 1: experts online, you know, like like sorry, a doctor or whatever, 659 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:44,959 Speaker 1: that sort of thing. Like if they're coming from a 660 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 1: very good source, it actually triggers people so much. Well, 661 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 1: I think we're witnessing firsthand this, you know, the mass 662 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 1: panic that can be caused by I suppose the media 663 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 1: pushing different illnesses. I mean, we're seeing that with people 664 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,960 Speaker 1: obviously fighting over toilet with the coronavirus. But it is 665 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 1: concerning because sometimes you don't really know what to believe. Yeah, well, 666 00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 1: you can't get away from the coronavirus at the moment. 667 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 1: It's all over social media, and now they're sort of 668 00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:14,960 Speaker 1: pushing the articles about, oh, how to tell the symptoms 669 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 1: if you've got it, and if for anyone who's read 670 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: it like myself, it's literally just a sore throat, a 671 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 1: runny nose, so any cold symptoms. So that's going to 672 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 1: be highly triggering for people. And I don't think that 673 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 1: it's been well enough publicized that yes, you can die 674 00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 1: from it, but it's a very small percentage. It's kind 675 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 1: of like a common cold for most healthy people. It's 676 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,280 Speaker 1: three point four percent I think of people that have 677 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 1: died from corona. And that's what I'm loving at the 678 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 1: moment on social media is that viral meme that will 679 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 1: not mean but post that is going around pointing out 680 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,840 Speaker 1: the other illnesses which have had more of a detrimental 681 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,160 Speaker 1: effect I suppose on people, obviously CanCERN. You know a 682 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 1: number of different illnesses which have caused so many which 683 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 1: have killed so many more people than coronavirus, particularly here 684 00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,320 Speaker 1: in Australia. It really puts it into perspective, I suppose. 685 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 1: And but I mean, for me, I was watching sixty 686 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: Minutes last night and I had this big expose on 687 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 1: this doctor from Hong Kong, that is the expert in Corona, 688 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 1: and he made these very sweeping allegations that you know, 689 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: it's going to affect sixty percent of the world's population, 690 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 1: but yet he didn't put those comments into perspective. It's 691 00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,760 Speaker 1: not like basically that it's going to mutate into the 692 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 1: basic common cold. I mean, because how many of us 693 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 1: have had a cold before. I think at the end 694 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 1: of the day, the old saying we've got to be 695 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 1: vigilant but not alarmed. Yeah, well, I don't know, because 696 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 1: like the government came out and said that, and then 697 00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 1: we've seen all the hysteria with toilet paper. Oh it's 698 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 1: the eight is the media. I watched, well, I didn't watch. Sorry, 699 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 1: there was a something from a current affair popped up 700 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 1: in my news feed and they were saying, oh, and 701 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 1: if Corona wasn't worrying enough, we're going into the flu season, 702 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 1: which is going to kill thousands of people. It's like, 703 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 1: for fuck, that's what the media rely on, is preying 704 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 1: on misery and upset. Well controlling factor, I mean, made 705 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,479 Speaker 1: people scared and then like the government can still control them. 706 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 1: And there's been some very strange messages coming from the 707 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,520 Speaker 1: government at the moment. In all honesty, Okay, we were 708 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 1: talking about the toilet paper thing before. Has anybody thought 709 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 1: of buying a mask in all honesty? No, not once. 710 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to be completely honest, and I think I 711 00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 1: said this to one of you. My priorities of stockpiling 712 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 1: things is so different and probably so sad. But I 713 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:25,640 Speaker 1: would be stockpiling makeup. That's one thing I would be upset. 714 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,320 Speaker 1: I don't see anyone if you're in self isolation. Well, 715 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 1: it's a long weekend at the moment, and I literally 716 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,200 Speaker 1: have no food in the house. I mean, I think 717 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,800 Speaker 1: that's you know, quite telling on how I will survive 718 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:37,160 Speaker 1: corona if it does get out of hand. So I think, well, 719 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,640 Speaker 1: I feel like because at the moment, I'm really not 720 00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:41,480 Speaker 1: eating that much sugar, so I feel like i'd be 721 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:47,200 Speaker 1: stockpiling like melential chips and middut chocolate. I feel silly 722 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 1: saying makeup, but I'm just going to be honest, Like 723 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,360 Speaker 1: if the whole thing about toilet paper is like, can 724 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,360 Speaker 1: we not just find something else to wipe out asses with, 725 00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 1: like jump in the shower if it's that, you know, 726 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,000 Speaker 1: if you've completely run out or as you say, no food, 727 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 1: no shit, Like, if you're not eating anything, you know, 728 00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 1: if you've got no access to food, you're not gonna 729 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 1: need the toilet paper. But like it's a condition that 730 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 1: makes us have gastro or diarrheair. Maybe if it was 731 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 1: like an epidemic of Barlei belly, you'd be stuck upon 732 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 1: toilet paper. I mean. Also, I mean there are people 733 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,759 Speaker 1: that deliver food. We'll worths and coals deliver. I don't know. Well, 734 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,239 Speaker 1: I suppose China's been completely sort of shut down. There 735 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,360 Speaker 1: are a lot of factories not doing anything. I feel 736 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 1: like that's where the fear initially came from. Well, at 737 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:25,400 Speaker 1: the end of the day, I think the news we 738 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,239 Speaker 1: can take away from this is just don't google and 739 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,320 Speaker 1: maybe just don't fucking follow all the news websites and 740 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 1: just stay calm, maybe have a bit of a social 741 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 1: media and internet detox. Yeah, well, thank you so much 742 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,840 Speaker 1: for listening to Outspoken. If you did enjoy the episode, 743 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 1: we'd love if you could share it on your Insta 744 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 1: story and of course tag us. And also if you 745 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 1: did love the show, please leave us ever review