WEBVTT - FULL SHOW! MAFS Relationship Expert Breaks Down Britt’s Long Distance Relationship ✈

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<v Speaker 1>Laura, come on, we made it the last week of

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<v Speaker 1>the last week, the last show of the first week

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<v Speaker 1>of the pickup.

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<v Speaker 2>You know where I was trying to go, the last

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<v Speaker 2>day of the week, the last day of our first week.

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<v Speaker 3>It's all happening today. It's Friday.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I wanted. I'm so glad at the end

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<v Speaker 4>of the week.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't sound surprised that we made it through the week. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, do you know what, It's been a big

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<v Speaker 2>week of shows. You know else, it's been a big

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<v Speaker 2>week of married at first sight. Who is watching is

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<v Speaker 2>sick for it? Like it's disgusting, how obsessed? Every season

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<v Speaker 2>gets better and better. But the reason why I'm excited

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<v Speaker 2>is because on today's show, we have John Aiken joining us.

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<v Speaker 2>He is one of the relationship experts.

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<v Speaker 5>I've got some questions for him, like how these people

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<v Speaker 5>actually end up on that show?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>And are you a trained expert? How do you get

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<v Speaker 4>the expert title? I want to be an experts. Also,

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<v Speaker 4>I have been banned from a social media and it's

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<v Speaker 4>ruining my life coming up with a big pickup right

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<v Speaker 4>around Australia, all thanks to Chemists, ware House TGF. Everyone

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<v Speaker 4>it's in the vibe, It's in the air. It's the

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<v Speaker 4>pickup with brit Laura and Mitch heading to Chemists ware house,

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<v Speaker 4>purchase any new Ego qv Seramides product and go in

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<v Speaker 4>the running to win a car. We got a car

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<v Speaker 4>for you to win. The competition ends on the twenty

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<v Speaker 4>second of February. Teas and seas. Apply it now, ladies.

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<v Speaker 4>I was trying to tell you what's going on with

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<v Speaker 4>my Facebook situation in the songs. But long story short,

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<v Speaker 4>I've been banned from Facebook marketplace.

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<v Speaker 5>How do you get banned from a marketplace? Is it

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<v Speaker 5>what you were trying to sell?

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<v Speaker 4>Listen? If you know me, you know I love a deal.

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<v Speaker 4>Like My dad's a salesman, right and my mum was

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<v Speaker 4>in sales. That's how they met. So it's in my blood.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just a haggler and we went on a trip

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<v Speaker 4>to Balley together. Anytime I'm on Facebook Marketplace, I mean

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<v Speaker 4>i feel like I'm in semon yak im like deal,

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<v Speaker 4>give me this price.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing is is that there's getting a bargain and

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<v Speaker 2>then there's just haggling. For haggling's sake, You're telling me

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<v Speaker 2>that you got to a point where you haggled so

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<v Speaker 2>much that now you had to create a fake account

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<v Speaker 2>because of the haggling.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if you're on Facebook Marketplace, you'll know you have

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<v Speaker 4>a five star you I got to half a star

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<v Speaker 4>at a five and then I got a warning and

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<v Speaker 4>then it said your band from selling on Facebook Marketplace

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<v Speaker 4>as Mitch Jury.

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<v Speaker 3>What were you do? Were you swearing at them.

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<v Speaker 4>That someone wanted to sell an electric scooter for ten

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<v Speaker 4>dollars under market price? And I told him he was joking.

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<v Speaker 4>And I may have also said that his profile picture

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<v Speaker 4>was ugly.

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<v Speaker 3>You did not.

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<v Speaker 2>You tried to tell me that you weren't a troll,

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<v Speaker 2>but that is troll behavior, Mitchchu.

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<v Speaker 4>He also did say I love listening to your radio show,

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<v Speaker 4>and you said, and you're ugly, and you're ugly.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So what I've had to do is I've had to dyer.

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<v Speaker 4>I've had to create a fake Facebook account. Ladies and gentlemen,

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<v Speaker 4>I love to introduce you to Elizabeth Libby Tree. Okay, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>pototos on the pickup.

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<v Speaker 2>We should be so annoyed by Vid looking.

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<v Speaker 5>At this for you guys know we're looking at We've

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<v Speaker 5>got the screen here with Mitch's fake profile Elizabeth, we've

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<v Speaker 5>got okay, we've got some blue eye shadows. She looks

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<v Speaker 5>about sixty odd. She has very short, short perms.

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<v Speaker 3>She doesn't look like she could make a great Greek feast.

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<v Speaker 5>No, she looks like a bit of a horder for me.

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<v Speaker 5>Can She shops a lot on Facebook marketplace and keeps

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<v Speaker 5>them all at a house.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen, no one ever give a bad deal to a

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<v Speaker 4>gorgeous old woman like Liby Tricketts.

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<v Speaker 5>You just put a bikini photo off.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm having fun with it. I needed to create

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<v Speaker 4>the library. It's a bikini photo. But have a look here,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm selling a pair of DJ decks right to Jamie

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<v Speaker 4>and look, thanks for the offer. I'm having a civil conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm growing and I'm learning.

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<v Speaker 2>So, okay, how is your star rating going when you're

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<v Speaker 2>Elizabeth Libby Trickett turned out?

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<v Speaker 4>Now I'll have to check. I'll have to check someone this.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm looking at a message that says I totally feel

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<v Speaker 5>your mate. Have you written that or have they written

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<v Speaker 5>that to you?

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<v Speaker 4>That's then what did I say?

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<v Speaker 3>You're a six year old woman, have never written to you?

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<v Speaker 4>I feel your mate?

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<v Speaker 3>If you can do three nine hundred dollars, it's yours.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you selling your car?

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<v Speaker 4>My star rating on lib trickat is five out of

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<v Speaker 4>five and that's exactly the reason why I have her.

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<v Speaker 5>I can't I'm putting this on the record. I can't

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<v Speaker 5>condone this. I think that you need to retire Liby.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't condone it because marketplace is so great. I'd

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<v Speaker 2>be really upset if I got kicked off there as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Which the greatest loss in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't make you realize how you have to Like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>when you lose something and you're like, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>be better. I'm going to be a better man for

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<v Speaker 2>because you realize what you've lost, you've regained it and

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<v Speaker 2>you'll never make the same mistake.

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<v Speaker 5>I had someone impersonating me though.

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<v Speaker 3>This is why I've got a veto it.

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<v Speaker 5>I had someone impersonating me on dating sites and stuff

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<v Speaker 5>that it didn't go down well.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, Brittany, real Brittany would never say that.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what. I give this woman a break. Libby's a

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<v Speaker 4>beautiful old lady. And if you want to add her

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<v Speaker 4>on Facebook because I need to add to the fake profile,

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<v Speaker 4>please add Liabey Elizabeth Trickett on Facebook.

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<v Speaker 3>Or if you'd like to find her on Tinder. Mitch

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<v Speaker 3>also has a pro while set up on that.

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<v Speaker 4>Unpack that next week. All right, it's a pick up

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<v Speaker 4>around Australia. Up next to the maths expert John Aiken,

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<v Speaker 4>not only talking about this season of Maps, but Britney's

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<v Speaker 4>Doomed to Fail relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>No, don't say it's a doom to fail relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>It happened.

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<v Speaker 5>Now if I get married, you're not invited.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh please, you'll ask me to MC the day he proposes.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm already. It's the pick Up. It's Friday edition of

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<v Speaker 4>the Pickup with Britt, Laura and Mitch. Oh thanks to

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<v Speaker 4>Chemist's Warehouse. Now the world has gone absolutely maths mad.

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<v Speaker 4>It's back on on Channel nine. Laurie officially, You've got

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<v Speaker 4>the you've got the bug you love married at first site.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh like you've lost me every night of the week

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<v Speaker 2>and it's it's my favorite show. It's good because it's

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<v Speaker 2>all the things that you shouldn't do in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>But we have today John Aiken joining us. He is

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<v Speaker 2>one of the relationship experts who's on the show, who

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<v Speaker 2>matches the couples and handholds them throughout the whole experiment.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I have so many questions.

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<v Speaker 3>John, Welcome, Welcome to the pickup.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, it's good to be here. And look, Laura, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>so glad that you've come out as a maths progic disgusting.

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<v Speaker 6>But Fritz Britt, you and I need to talk. I

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<v Speaker 6>can't believe you haven't watched it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't watch it because I know I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to get hooked into it. But I do keep up

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<v Speaker 2>with what's happening, like I always go the next day

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<v Speaker 2>and read all the news articles and I get the

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<v Speaker 2>lowdown from Laura because I am interested in I love relationships.

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<v Speaker 5>We have a relationship podcast. But I just know I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to lose hours of my life every night if

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<v Speaker 5>I allow myself to.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, it does tend to suck you in, and I

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<v Speaker 6>think there are a lot of ingredients in Maths that

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<v Speaker 6>makes it so compelling. I mean, it is a show

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<v Speaker 6>that kind of appeals to both singles and couples. And

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's also based on a fairy tale. And

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<v Speaker 6>you know the experts, we sort of get in there

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<v Speaker 6>and really try and hold them to account.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, John, we know that there's like tens of thousands

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<v Speaker 2>of people who apply for this show, and you have

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<v Speaker 2>the job of helping to match people together.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you go about actually matching these couples?

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<v Speaker 2>Like some people seem particularly not well matched, which might

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<v Speaker 2>come as no surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's quite a diplomatic way of saying.

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<v Speaker 4>What were you.

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<v Speaker 6>Day, John, That's what I'm getting from that question. Absolutely. Look,

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<v Speaker 6>people do look at it and are often confused. The

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<v Speaker 6>bottom line, it's a quite exhausting two month process. We

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<v Speaker 6>give them tests around things like communication, their values. We

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<v Speaker 6>kind of put them together and then sit back and

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<v Speaker 6>watch like everybody else, to see whether or not they

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<v Speaker 6>can fall in love as complete strangers. We are matching

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<v Speaker 6>them with the eyes on them getting over the line

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<v Speaker 6>and finding the fairy tale. But in saying that, there

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<v Speaker 6>are a lot of things that are uncontrollable, like chemistry.

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<v Speaker 6>They can be difficult to date, let's be honest, and

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<v Speaker 6>so when we put them together, a number of them

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<v Speaker 6>simply do not work out well.

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<v Speaker 5>There's one other women that I've seen, and I've seen

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<v Speaker 5>her everywhere actually since the show ed. That's Melissa, the

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<v Speaker 5>self proclaimed freak in the sheets. She loves to get

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<v Speaker 5>freaky and I'm all about it, and I think there

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<v Speaker 5>are everyone in a strateag is like singing her praises

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<v Speaker 5>right now? How important do you think this matched intimacy

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<v Speaker 5>and matched chemistry and sexual exploration? How important is that

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<v Speaker 5>in a relationship?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, well, that's a very good question that I think

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<v Speaker 6>a lot of people are going to be asking as

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<v Speaker 6>they watch this season. You know, how you talk about sex,

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<v Speaker 6>who initiates sex? How much is enough in a relationship

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<v Speaker 6>to keep it healthy? All of that starts to become

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<v Speaker 6>quite a conversation topic, not just between the couple, but

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<v Speaker 6>also in the group. For me, sex is important because

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<v Speaker 6>it's a good gauge of a temperature in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, if you're having it regularly, then you know

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<v Speaker 6>you're connecting and you're reaffirming to your partner that they're special.

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<v Speaker 6>When it's not around, you know, it can start to

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<v Speaker 6>create a distance. It's not the only thing. You've got

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<v Speaker 6>to have a lot more than just sex, but I

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<v Speaker 6>do think it's got to be made a priority in

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<v Speaker 6>a relationship for it to keep the connection going.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, John, you mentioned distance there, and that's something that

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to bring up and lack of sex. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>those things go hand in hand. How very un Brittany

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<v Speaker 4>Hockey has just entered into a long distance relationship. So

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<v Speaker 4>not only is she not getting it daily, which I'm

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<v Speaker 4>sure she'd love to do, but her new boyfriend is

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<v Speaker 4>thousands of kilometers away living in Scotland. So do you

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<v Speaker 4>have any advice for couples that are new ely long

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<v Speaker 4>distance and can they last?

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<v Speaker 6>Well? They can last, But I think what you've got

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<v Speaker 6>to do, Britt, is to make sure that you have

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<v Speaker 6>a number of things in place outside of that. Britt,

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<v Speaker 6>what I would say is that you've got to know

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<v Speaker 6>the time zones. You've got to be constantly contacting them

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<v Speaker 6>at regular parts of the day. You also need to

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<v Speaker 6>see them face to face on a regular basis, so

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<v Speaker 6>you fly to him or he flies to you. So

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<v Speaker 6>anytime you have a big calendar, you've got to really

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<v Speaker 6>make it special. But I think, ultimately, Brett, if it's

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<v Speaker 6>going to work, then you two have to have an

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<v Speaker 6>end date in mind where he's either going to come

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<v Speaker 6>and live here or you're going to live there.

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<v Speaker 5>He's going to be listening to this, so it's probably

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<v Speaker 5>pretty important that he's like consistently buying me presents and

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<v Speaker 5>stuff as well. Is that right?

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<v Speaker 6>Well? Absolutely, and feel very special.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have to agree with your expert, John, Brittany

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<v Speaker 3>is a hijack. The is a therapy session for herself.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very sorry about that, but we are all I mean, well,

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<v Speaker 2>actually I won't speak on behalf of britt. I am

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<v Speaker 2>thoroughly enjoying mass and we can't wait to see what

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<v Speaker 2>unfolds this season.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, it's all going down. I married at first

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<v Speaker 4>Sight on Channel nine and give it a watch, John

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<v Speaker 4>Ak and there one of the experts. Thank you, buddy. Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>next we are going to unback. We've asked the experts.

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<v Speaker 4>But now what we've done is we've asked the pick

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<v Speaker 4>up audience. Have you been in a long distance relationship

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<v Speaker 4>and has it succeeded? Did it go the distance? Or

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<v Speaker 4>did it fail? We have the responses on.

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<v Speaker 5>The edge of my seat.

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<v Speaker 4>The pickup pole next and the pick up around Australia.

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<v Speaker 4>Friday afternoon on the pickup with britt, Laura and Mitch

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<v Speaker 4>head into chemist warehouse, go purchase any new Ego qv

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<v Speaker 4>Seramides product and go in the running to win a car.

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<v Speaker 4>That competition ends on the twenty second of feb gees

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<v Speaker 4>and sees apply Now, Laura, we got the results of

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<v Speaker 4>our online competition.

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<v Speaker 2>What an online competition it was? Hey, poor Brittany over here, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>poor Brittany.

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<v Speaker 3>We got the maps relationship expert giving me grilly.

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<v Speaker 5>We've got you guys, give me a grilling. We got

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<v Speaker 5>the listeners, given me a grill. And I just want

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<v Speaker 5>to be in my happy long distance relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Because we love you so much and we have seen

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<v Speaker 2>how the past long distance relationship worked out.

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<v Speaker 3>We were a bit worried put it that way, so

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<v Speaker 3>we did a call out. We wanted to know.

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<v Speaker 2>We just kind of wanted to canvas the audience and

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<v Speaker 2>see who's done long distance, who did it work out for?

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<v Speaker 3>And who didn't it work out?

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<v Speaker 2>It?

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<v Speaker 4>Did your long distance last the distance? We put it

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<v Speaker 4>up on the pickup website. We got Emily on thirteen

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<v Speaker 4>one oh sixty five. What happened in your long distance relationship?

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<v Speaker 7>Were together for about three years and I found out

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<v Speaker 7>that my partner had moved on through Facebook when a

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<v Speaker 7>friend contacted me during a lunch break and decided to

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<v Speaker 7>tell me that my relationship was over. So they how

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<v Speaker 7>did they find out his Facebook? Status had changed.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, did it change to being single or in a

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<v Speaker 3>relationship with someone else?

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<v Speaker 4>Complicated? It's competent in a relationship with someone else and

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<v Speaker 4>you had no discussion about it? How long had you

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<v Speaker 4>not spoken since that happened?

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<v Speaker 7>A week?

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<v Speaker 5>What a little ship?

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<v Speaker 3>At least you gave it some breathing room, right, one week.

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<v Speaker 4>Was the death of the relationship the long distance aspect?

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<v Speaker 4>Or was the death of the relationship? That he was

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<v Speaker 4>just a flop?

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<v Speaker 6>Ah, he was a flop.

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<v Speaker 7>I think he just thought he could have a woman

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<v Speaker 7>in two states.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean he really made it quite a grave

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<v Speaker 2>error when he put it on Facebook, didn't he.

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<v Speaker 3>That really foiled the plan.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, well apparently he didn't even know about it.

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<v Speaker 4>She did it?

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<v Speaker 6>Did you?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh what happened when you?

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<v Speaker 5>Obviously you went to your partner and said, Yo, you're

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<v Speaker 5>in another relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>What's up?

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<v Speaker 6>What did he say?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, he screened my calls for about a day and then.

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<v Speaker 3>Well we had it a heart attack and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>what am I going to do?

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<v Speaker 7>And then he denied it initially and then and then yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>broke it to me, and I just sort of said,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, we could have done this a different in

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<v Speaker 7>a different manner.

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<v Speaker 4>But okay, yeah, definitely could off. Oh listen, Emily, we're

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<v Speaker 4>going to give you a five hundred dollar chemist way

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<v Speaker 4>House gift card if I've been.

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<v Speaker 5>Where you are before, so you definitely get the five

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<v Speaker 5>hundred dollars. But I'm still feeling optimistic, guys. I'm feeling

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<v Speaker 5>great about my relationship. I think man is an angel

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<v Speaker 5>and I will eat my words if his Facebook status updates.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, Emily. I think you've listening to the first

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<v Speaker 4>week of the pick up done and dusted. That's our

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<v Speaker 4>first week done.

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<v Speaker 3>That is our first many more to come. Well, let's

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<v Speaker 3>just see what the bosses say over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>But it would be fine.

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<v Speaker 3>That was great fun, guys, so much fun. And we'll

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<v Speaker 3>be back next week.

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<v Speaker 4>Guys. Yeah, big show. We'll see you Monday. Thanks for listening, guys,