Speaker 1: The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the
Speaker 1: land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen Bear region.
Speaker 1: We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land,
Speaker 1: sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders
Speaker 1: past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal
Speaker 1: and terrestrid Islander peoples today. Hello, and welcome back to
Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer Podcasts.
Speaker 2: This is the podcast for ordinary.
Speaker 1: People who want to do extraordinary things. Jealousy and being
Speaker 1: spiteful towards someone is basically like drinking poison and hoping
Speaker 1: they die. Hello, welcome back to the Rise and Conker Podcast.
Speaker 1: It is your host Georgie Stevenson, and today are our
Speaker 1: fun Friday EPs where you send in your life dilemmas
Speaker 1: and myself and I Tea provide our very unqualified two
Speaker 1: cents on the situation. So, guys, today we are chatting
Speaker 1: what do you do if your boyfriend does not have
Speaker 1: the same passion and drive when it comes to Korea.
Speaker 1: Such a good question, you know, I had some tips
Speaker 1: on that. The next question was all about what to
Speaker 1: do when someone you know is getting promotions and achieving
Speaker 1: things and they don't deserve it. Yeah, that's an interesting one.
Speaker 1: And then the last one we just chat about limiting
Speaker 1: beliefs with finding a boyfriend. Now what that looks like.
Speaker 1: So this is a really fun Friday EP before we
Speaker 1: get into it a tear.
Speaker 2: What is your weekly recommendation?
Speaker 3: Ooh oh Season three of Never Have I Ever on Netflix. Oh, yeah,
Speaker 3: it's great. It's funny. It's a lot of secondhand embarrassment,
Speaker 3: but I absolutely loved it and it just makes me laugh.
Speaker 3: Like it's a good, lighthearted watch when you just want
Speaker 3: something funny that you don't have to think too much about.
Speaker 1: Yes, love, I loved the first season. I've got to
Speaker 1: catch up with that. Yeah, it's a very good show.
Speaker 1: Amazing good wreck. My recommendation, I don't have any media
Speaker 1: recommendations just because I've been moving a week. But something
Speaker 1: I did it was actually the other week and I've
Speaker 1: heard it on tiktoks and various podcasts of writing a
Speaker 1: hundred things you want to manifest? Wow, So I like,
Speaker 1: I only ever focus on like a couple of things
Speaker 1: because it's just I feel like I can't get my
Speaker 1: energy around.
Speaker 3: That many things out. Yes, yeah, if.
Speaker 1: Someone said, write down a hundred things you want to manifest.
Speaker 1: They can be big, small, they can be now, they
Speaker 1: can be in twenty years. It doesn't matter because it
Speaker 1: just like expands you to think about more of what
Speaker 1: you want to bring in and what you want to
Speaker 1: call in. And I did that for the first time
Speaker 1: the other day, and oh my god, it was actually
Speaker 1: like quite difficult.
Speaker 3: Like I was gonna say, I don't even think I
Speaker 3: have a hundred things I want.
Speaker 2: Well I didn't think so, but I ended up.
Speaker 4: Just like like writing, once you get started though, in
Speaker 4: all aspects of your life and like I just want
Speaker 4: on tangents Like I was like, I want a private chef.
Speaker 2: I want this, I want a private chef.
Speaker 1: I mean, like you've got to really think big. And
Speaker 1: it's like it was really cool. It was such an
Speaker 1: expander for me, and it was something that I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm going to do this yearly just to like I
Speaker 1: don't know, open my mind and like get past the ceiling.
Speaker 3: If it makes sense, I will be doing that.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: It was really fun, like put some good music on,
Speaker 1: light a candle and being like I'm gonna, you know,
Speaker 1: what is one hundred things I.
Speaker 5: Want to manifest it's really exciting and that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my recommendation for the week. All right, guys,
Speaker 1: let's get into the episode.
Speaker 3: Our first question. Dear g, I've been with my boyfriend
Speaker 3: for over two years now, and we are very much
Speaker 3: in love. He is the sweetest person and very caring. However,
Speaker 3: I'm worried that we just don't have the same passion
Speaker 3: and drive when it comes to our careers. I'm very
Speaker 3: ambitious and I'm constantly wanting to up level and grow,
Speaker 3: which he is not. He pretty much just works casually
Speaker 3: at the moment, which doesn't bother me too much as
Speaker 3: I work full time, but he doesn't seem to be
Speaker 3: striving for anything more, which does concern me. He is
Speaker 3: a beautiful human and I definitely thought he was my
Speaker 3: person until this. I'm just not sure what to do
Speaker 3: or how to broach this topic. Sos Oh, I know
Speaker 3: I love absolutely too well.
Speaker 1: I guess like I can resonate with this question with Tim.
Speaker 1: Obviously not too not that I like, just to the
Speaker 1: point of we are very different in regards to Korea, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and passions. I'm obviously very very career orientated. If you
Speaker 1: haven't noticed, very passionate about what I do, whereas Tim,
Speaker 1: you know, he was a carpenter. He then came and
Speaker 1: joined Naked Harvest when we grew and he was downstairs
Speaker 1: managing the warehouse. And then recently we had Ivy and
Speaker 1: Tim is a full time stay at home dad, so
Speaker 1: he's very different career wise. I don't know, Like I
Speaker 1: personally love how different we are, and sometimes, to be
Speaker 1: completely honest with you, I don't think there would be
Speaker 1: room for him to also have the same passion and
Speaker 1: career that I have. Like I'm just gonna be very
Speaker 1: honest with you and say that I don't think you're
Speaker 1: supposed to admit that, And I have actually thought about this,
Speaker 1: and I just I don't think.
Speaker 2: I just don't know if there would be enough room
Speaker 2: because of the.
Speaker 1: Time requirements and the pressure it puts on our relationship
Speaker 1: with just me, so like for us, it works really beautiful.
Speaker 1: And also I don't know what I would do if
Speaker 1: he wasn't looking after Ivy because we would have to
Speaker 1: have like a full time nanny, which is so fun
Speaker 1: and I know a lot of people do it, but
Speaker 1: I personally am just obsessed that he looks after his daughter.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really.
Speaker 1: Special and I just I'm obsessed with it and so
Speaker 1: I don't know. I love how different he is to me.
Speaker 1: And we've even spoken about I think in the future
Speaker 1: he will find, you know, whether it's a career or
Speaker 1: a hobby or something like, he's going to find a
Speaker 1: passion is going to take more of a front seat
Speaker 1: where I will have to take a bit of a
Speaker 1: back seat and go, Look, we've done Georgie for the
Speaker 1: last ten years or whatever.
Speaker 2: It's time to do Tim.
Speaker 1: And we've spoken about that, like, we've had that conversation,
Speaker 1: and I think that is, you know, a reality, and
Speaker 1: I'm excited for him for that. But at the moment,
Speaker 1: we're doing you know, this for us, and I couldn't
Speaker 1: be you know, more happy with it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I tryally get what you mean. I don't know
Speaker 3: if it's a limiting belief of mine, but you've said
Speaker 3: it too, in the sense that I feel like, can
Speaker 3: you have two crazy career ambition people filled with passion
Speaker 3: for their career and wanting to be like top of
Speaker 3: their game, actually have a good relationship together and have
Speaker 3: the time to make it work and like have kids too,
Speaker 3: Because I feel like if it was just the two
Speaker 3: people and you're both very well off in your careers
Speaker 3: and growing and that sort of stuff. But there aren't
Speaker 3: kids in the equation. It's a lot easier.
Speaker 2: I think you can, Like, of course you could.
Speaker 1: I think it would just be more difficult, yeah, because
Speaker 1: it would be. When I worked in family law, I
Speaker 1: remember there was a lawyer and she was a boss
Speaker 1: ass beach and she was like a partner and she
Speaker 1: was I think she wasn't even thirty and she was
Speaker 1: a partner, wow, and she was killing it, like her
Speaker 1: billables holy shit, Like she was billing like eight hundred
Speaker 1: grand a year, ridiculous for hours. And she had two kids,
Speaker 1: one was like one or two, and then she had
Speaker 1: a six month old. And then her partner was a
Speaker 1: huge high up bank person. I don't know his title,
Speaker 1: bank bro, like I don't know investment baker or you know,
Speaker 1: someone a bank bro who was also highly regarded in
Speaker 1: his field and doing it. And so I saw them
Speaker 1: like they would come into work together in the city.
Speaker 1: I used to see her like I think there was
Speaker 1: a childcare within where we worked in one of the
Speaker 1: other levels, yea, because I always saw her with her baby.
Speaker 1: And then I think she dropped him off. Yeah, which
Speaker 1: is awesome because it's in the same place.
Speaker 2: And then but they made it work. Yeah, they made
Speaker 2: it work.
Speaker 1: And like I remember speaking to her some of the
Speaker 1: time and she did say, it's obviously a lot more difficult,
Speaker 1: but yeah, we made it work. Yeah, so I think
Speaker 1: you definitely can. I think it depends on the person. Yeah,
Speaker 1: with this person who's written in though.
Speaker 5: It's obviously very different. They don't have kids.
Speaker 3: They don't have kids. But also, if you were working
Speaker 3: full time at your law job and Tim just did
Speaker 3: casual carp carpentry work, would that not get on your
Speaker 3: nerves a little bit? And did nothing else? Like he
Speaker 3: wasn't like trying to start a business or and he
Speaker 3: just like did not have the drive or the passion
Speaker 3: or like not even passion, but the sense to work
Speaker 3: more hours.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
Speaker 1: If Tim was just like sitting at home and not
Speaker 1: doing anything and I was having to you know, work
Speaker 1: and bring in the money, like, of course there might
Speaker 1: be a conversation. But for example, Tim worked full time
Speaker 1: for someone else's carpenter, that would never bother.
Speaker 3: Me, No, not at all. But she's said that she's
Speaker 3: working full time. He's only working casually, but he doesn't.
Speaker 3: He's not striving for anything more. He's not going, I
Speaker 3: want to be a full time in this casual position.
Speaker 1: But maybe he does want to be full time. I
Speaker 1: think she's saying more about his passion and drive for
Speaker 1: like a career in general. I don't know, I get
Speaker 1: what she means. But that's the thing is me personally,
Speaker 1: like that would never you know, tim not being this
Speaker 1: big career person or anything like that. That never bothered me.
Speaker 1: It's a good balance. It's a really good balance. And
Speaker 1: like I said, I think it would just be so.
Speaker 2: Much, it'd be so much.
Speaker 1: But also if you're someone who you do want a
Speaker 1: partner who has that drive and passion maybe to like
Speaker 1: you know, thrive off them.
Speaker 3: Like yeah. And even then, sometimes if someone's doing really
Speaker 3: well in their career, they might just not be at
Speaker 3: the point where they can sustain in an entire household
Speaker 3: and what they make and they actually need someone who
Speaker 3: is also working full time to be able to live.
Speaker 3: What what if she's not making enough money to be
Speaker 3: able to pay for him to live as well as her?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, and I know what you mean.
Speaker 1: I think I definitely think she needs to have a
Speaker 1: conversation with him and just say, look, you know, do
Speaker 1: you want to get a full time job? What's happening here?
Speaker 1: Because also something might be happening with his mental health. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, like check in with him and.
Speaker 3: Just and if you've been dating for two years and
Speaker 3: you love him and he's a very kind, caring.
Speaker 2: I know, he sounds so sweet.
Speaker 3: I love him.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I guess in conclusion, I personally would not let that
Speaker 1: bother me ether, because I don't think we all.
Speaker 2: Have to be career driven.
Speaker 5: And like passionate to the point of.
Speaker 2: I don't know, do you know.
Speaker 1: I mean, like personally I have girlfriends who their goal
Speaker 1: in life is to be a stay at home mum
Speaker 1: and I fucking love that absolutely.
Speaker 2: Like I would never be like.
Speaker 1: Oh, but you're not, you know, passionate about her career
Speaker 1: or anythink like that. So I think, I don't know,
Speaker 1: maybe she needs to know if this really is going
Speaker 1: to affect her, and I think just have a discussion with.
Speaker 2: Him and see where it goes from there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because maybe you're right, maybe there is just something
Speaker 3: stopping him in his head, or maybe he has a
Speaker 3: goalie hasn't spoken to her about.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, that sort of stuff exactly.
Speaker 1: And that's like going back to me and Tim, like
Speaker 1: we've had that conversation, and Tim's like, yeah, I definitely
Speaker 1: see myself doing something in the future, but I know
Speaker 1: for now, like we're doing your thing, We're doing ivy,
Speaker 1: and I'm so okay to take the back seat and
Speaker 1: just support you guys.
Speaker 3: I love that.
Speaker 2: I know, I love him all right. Next question.
Speaker 3: Question too, how do you deal with watching someone succeed
Speaker 3: who doesn't deserve it. I've been listening to you, Georgie
Speaker 3: for a really long time, and I know you talk
Speaker 3: about the limiting belief that you have to work hard
Speaker 3: for money. However, this person is so lazy and the
Speaker 3: only reason she's getting this job position is due to
Speaker 3: her family. I feel that having this experience watching someone
Speaker 3: so ungrateful, not aware of their privilege gaining this position
Speaker 3: has really shook me. I recently got a new job
Speaker 3: position I am really proud of. It's not amazing pay
Speaker 3: or anything fancy, However, I worked really hard to get there,
Speaker 3: and I guess watching someone get a position that potentially
Speaker 3: sets them up for life when they've only ever worked
Speaker 3: a few hours a week, it's really just dampened my spirit.
Speaker 3: Could you give me your insight on this?
Speaker 5: I think this would be more common than we think.
Speaker 3: Absolutely. I feel like everyone has had someone around them
Speaker 3: that's got something because of nepotism.
Speaker 5: What's nepotism?
Speaker 3: It's so say your dad's a see you? So you get,
Speaker 3: am I get?
Speaker 2: I get?
Speaker 1: I mean interesting new word.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So first of all, I've got two I've got two
Speaker 1: insights to this. So I think this is a very
Speaker 1: normal human emotion and experience because we are definitely taught that,
Speaker 1: you know, in order to be deserving, we need to
Speaker 1: work hard. And I personally have a very strong core belief,
Speaker 1: you know, growing up that you work hard for things
Speaker 1: and it's very important and that has a lot of
Speaker 1: your like self worth around it, which, to be honest,
Speaker 1: I'm like trying to undo a little bit because it's
Speaker 1: a bit full on. So I think this is very
Speaker 1: normal and I think it's very okay to feel like this.
Speaker 1: But in saying it, I just think what comes to
Speaker 1: mind is that whole because it is It's like, as
Speaker 1: much is you can say what you want, but I
Speaker 1: feel like this is a form of jealousy. Would you yes, Yeah,
Speaker 1: as much as it's like, oh no, like I'm not
Speaker 1: jealous of the person, like they're just they don't work
Speaker 1: for what they want, you know, have I would say
Speaker 1: it's a form of jealousy, which is okay, absolutely, it's
Speaker 1: a normal human, you know emotion. And I just think
Speaker 1: jealousy and being spiteful towards someone is basically like drinking
Speaker 1: poison and hoping they die.
Speaker 2: I love that, do me?
Speaker 1: Like it's having these toxic negative feelings towards this person,
Speaker 1: but really these feelings are going to hurt no one
Speaker 1: but you, and they're going to affect no one but you,
Speaker 1: and I don't know. Something that I've been really trying
Speaker 1: to And it's also it's so easy to judge people.
Speaker 1: I feel like it is just so normal and easy
Speaker 1: to judge people and just be like, oh, they didn't
Speaker 1: deserve it or you know this and that. And something
Speaker 1: I've been trying to do this yet is like take
Speaker 1: judgment out of the photo and out of sorry, the
Speaker 1: you know story, because I just feel like it doesn't
Speaker 1: do anything for us. It's not you know, it's not
Speaker 1: positive in any way. Yeah, and sometimes having these feelings
Speaker 1: it is just I don't want to say pointless. But
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, look, I get you know, this person
Speaker 1: probably doesn't deserve the role and you're working hard. But
Speaker 1: it's like, don't even worry, don't even look at that person. Look,
Speaker 1: be in your own lane, worry about yourself, and don't
Speaker 1: let anyone bother you, because again, it's just like drinking
Speaker 1: poison and hoping the other person, you know, dies, it's
Speaker 1: a bit pointless.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that on this one. Like I've obviously not,
Speaker 3: I've learned to not let stuff like this bother me
Speaker 3: from a very young age because I've seen it often,
Speaker 3: and I feel like stuff like this, especially when people
Speaker 3: get stuff because of things because of their parents or
Speaker 3: because of someone in their family rather than them by themselves,
Speaker 3: is very frustrating, whether they deserve it or not, because,
Speaker 3: like in my opinion, there's probably always someone more deserving
Speaker 3: than the next person to get a role, or to
Speaker 3: get a job or a position or an award or
Speaker 3: whatever it is you're after, there's always going to be
Speaker 3: someone that deserves it more than you do. Whether they
Speaker 3: were there or not doesn't matter. But at the end
Speaker 3: of the day, one, I really liked what you said
Speaker 3: on you can't really judge the person because what if
Speaker 3: they maybe were in the office for a few hours
Speaker 3: every day and then went home and worked till midnight.
Speaker 3: You don't know what they did.
Speaker 1: Even But also going off that you're saying, you know,
Speaker 1: the go to position that will set them up for life.
Speaker 1: But it's like, if they cannot perform in that position,
Speaker 1: they will fail, they will get fired. You can know
Speaker 1: all the people, but if you're not performing your role
Speaker 1: within there, within the you know the role description, I
Speaker 1: just don't see how this then sets the person up
Speaker 1: for life unless they can, you know, unless the role.
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely so I don't know. I like, I get
Speaker 2: what she's.
Speaker 5: Saying, but sorry, you go on, I interrupted, No, No,
Speaker 5: that's okay.
Speaker 3: I And the jealousy thing, I feel like people feel
Speaker 3: really guilty when they get jealous, and you shouldn't because
Speaker 3: it's normal. It's totally normal. Everybody will look at someone
Speaker 3: and be like, I want that. Yeah, why would you
Speaker 3: not want that? It's a nice thing to have. But
Speaker 3: I think I can't remember if I've read this or
Speaker 3: if it was a video or something, but it was
Speaker 3: about this guy that said, oh, if I sat next
Speaker 3: to someone they were talking about Apple and Apple's marketing
Speaker 3: and they said, if I sat next to someone at
Speaker 3: Microsoft and said, oh, I've been given the newest iPhone
Speaker 3: that's about to come out in three months, I would
Speaker 3: bet that they would ask me to see it and
Speaker 3: look at it and go through it and see what
Speaker 3: the features are and what it looks like. But if
Speaker 3: I sat next to someone at Apple and said, oh,
Speaker 3: Samsung or Microsoft's just given me, then you the phone
Speaker 3: that's coming out in three months, the vibe Apple gives
Speaker 3: off is that that person would then say, oh, that's great.
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because for so long they've only ever competed with themselves.
Speaker 3: And I think that that's what everybody needs to do
Speaker 3: a little bit more of, like don't worry about everyone
Speaker 3: around you, because there is enough space for you to
Speaker 3: get there too.
Speaker 1: I love that there is enough space for you to
Speaker 1: get there too, yeah, because I think that's what it is.
Speaker 1: The jealousy comes up where it's like, but if this
Speaker 1: person gets to that place, what does it mean for me?
Speaker 2: And it's so true to like, if you.
Speaker 1: Can have if you can have an abundant mindset where
Speaker 1: you're like, look, that's awesome for them, Maybe you know,
Speaker 1: maybe the universe is setting them up because they're going
Speaker 1: to go through something really bad, or you know, like
Speaker 1: they need a headstart, they need a headstart for whatever reason.
Speaker 2: It's not your problem.
Speaker 1: It's actually nothing to do with you. Yeah, And I
Speaker 1: think if you can separate yourself from that and not
Speaker 1: let it worry you is just huge. And like you said,
Speaker 1: you've been thinking like this from a young age, but
Speaker 1: it is something you've got to learn because I think
Speaker 1: it's so normal to feel jealousy, and that's like, let's
Speaker 1: even talk about jealousy because you had a great point
Speaker 1: of you know, it's a normal feeling. But can we
Speaker 1: like normalize jealousy in the way of it being quite positive,
Speaker 1: like oh my god, a tear. I need those fendy slides,
Speaker 1: like I'm jealous in the way of oh my god,
Speaker 1: I want them exactly in a positive way and like
Speaker 1: like sitting in a room sending me messages. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think because also when you see someone and I guess
Speaker 1: this person probably doesn't want that because you can see
Speaker 1: she has the ethic where she's like I want to
Speaker 1: work hard for that position, which I resonate with. But
Speaker 1: I think it's like It's fine to feel like that
Speaker 1: and also just be like, oh, look good for her.
Speaker 2: She needed the head start. I don't. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 2: and she saying like oh good for her, or good like.
Speaker 1: I'm happy to work for what I want to achieve
Speaker 1: and be really proud of it.
Speaker 3: Absolutely, And I think accept the jealousy and then move
Speaker 3: on because once you've accepted like, oh I'm jealous of her,
Speaker 3: Oh good, that means I want that too.
Speaker 1: That's all jealousy means is you want if it may
Speaker 1: not be like that very specific thing, but there's something
Speaker 1: around that thing that you want. And yeah, when you
Speaker 1: can acknowledge it and be like, oh, that's really interesting.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's really interesting.
Speaker 1: I'm going to be observant and aware of it, but
Speaker 1: I'm not going to let it affect me on my day.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 3: Next question. I'm twenty two and have just finished my degree.
Speaker 3: Congratulations woooo. I'm currently doing an internship in America and
Speaker 3: am starting my master's degree next month when I fil
Speaker 3: I have plans to travel and work abroad before moving
Speaker 3: somewhere new in the UK to start my dream career.
Speaker 3: I feel like I've been manifesting my dream boyfriend for years,
Speaker 3: I've had situationships, but nothing like I imagine for myself.
Speaker 3: I've realized about twenty minutes ago and came straight here.
Speaker 3: I love that that maybe with all of my plans
Speaker 3: that I've had in place, I've been blocking myself from
Speaker 3: this because unknowingly, I've been holding a belief that I
Speaker 3: cannot have my independence and follow this plan if I
Speaker 3: get into a relationship. It feels like a big realization
Speaker 3: that this may be the block, But I don't know
Speaker 3: what to do next. I'm struggling with surrendering and just
Speaker 3: letting the universe do its thing. Please help.
Speaker 1: She's just realizing limiting beliefs left right and center.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I love that for her.
Speaker 1: So this is Yeah, this is exciting, and I love
Speaker 1: that She's like, I've had this realization and I've come
Speaker 1: straight over to the body DMS.
Speaker 5: This is really exciting, Yes, because I love it.
Speaker 1: The first thing to a limiting belief is having awareness
Speaker 1: over it.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Once you have awareness, it honestly has no grip on
Speaker 1: you anymore.
Speaker 3: No, because you can kind of just like flick it off.
Speaker 2: Yeah, or just work through it.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So girl, this is really exciting and one hundred percent
Speaker 1: this is a limiting belief around having a boyfriend and
Speaker 1: traveling and freedom, because society tells you that when you
Speaker 1: get a boyfriend, you must settle down, settle down and
Speaker 1: stay on one spot and not have any fun and
Speaker 1: make babies and make a lot of babies.
Speaker 2: Oh I did all those things. Society got me good.
Speaker 1: No, I think it's about reworking your beliefs around this
Speaker 1: and going, you know what, I can have a relationship
Speaker 1: where there is freedom and there is love and he's
Speaker 1: doing his thing or she's doing his thing.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, she's doing her thing and.
Speaker 1: I'm doing my thing, you know yeah, And I think
Speaker 1: that's really exciting, that's really beautiful. I actually have a
Speaker 1: friend and she's a fellow and STI gal and she
Speaker 1: was telling me that she you know, she hasn't I
Speaker 1: think she's close to like twenty five is. She's never
Speaker 1: had a boyfriend, just situationships. And she lives in Sydney.
Speaker 1: He lives in Brisbane, and she's like, it's amazing. She's
Speaker 1: a flight attendant, so you know, she goes there and
Speaker 1: they see each other and he comes to her and
Speaker 1: she's like, it's amazing. We're making it work and it's
Speaker 1: so different to you know, any other relationship or what
Speaker 1: I thought. But we're making it work and I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, so happy and stuff. So I think it's
Speaker 1: about being like, you know what, I get to create
Speaker 1: the relationship that feels good to me that you know,
Speaker 1: ticks all my boxes and that's that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, how do you feel? I feel like either option
Speaker 3: is great and once you come to terms with that,
Speaker 3: then he'll come or he won't and that's fine.
Speaker 2: M Well, that's what that's what true surrender is.
Speaker 3: I guess. Yeah, you just sort of have to. And
Speaker 3: twenty two is not that old. No, So even if
Speaker 3: you don't have a boyfriend till after you get to
Speaker 3: the UK, that's not a big deal. If you have
Speaker 3: a really great boyfriend that you meet somewhere, you might
Speaker 3: end up staying there and never going back to the UK.
Speaker 3: You have absolutely no idea what'll happen over the next
Speaker 3: few years. Just enjoy it and let things come to
Speaker 3: you rather than worrying about Obviously, it's great to have
Speaker 3: a plan and goals and that sort of stuff, but
Speaker 3: don't worry so much that person will never come, because
Speaker 3: they absolutely will.
Speaker 1: Yes, I love that, and it's kind of like lock
Speaker 1: in that your person will find you and the right
Speaker 1: time at the right time, and it's going to be
Speaker 1: perfect for you, guys. And once you've locked that in,
Speaker 1: like you're good, Go have fun, go live your life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so young, take me back to when I was
Speaker 2: twenty two, is like, can't relate.
Speaker 5: Amazing, I'm so excited for this person.
Speaker 3: Me too.
Speaker 1: And she also said, ps, I love you guys as
Speaker 1: a duo. I listened to at least for episodes a day. Oh,
Speaker 1: we love you, We love you, no name. All right, guys,
Speaker 1: that is the end of geez Hotline. I hope you
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