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Speaker 1: The Rising Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the

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Speaker 1: land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen Bear region.

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Speaker 1: We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land,

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Speaker 1: and terrestrid Islander peoples today. Hello, and welcome back to

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Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer Podcasts.

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Speaker 2: This is the podcast for ordinary.

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Speaker 1: People who want to do extraordinary things. Jealousy and being

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Speaker 1: spiteful towards someone is basically like drinking poison and hoping

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Speaker 1: they die. Hello, welcome back to the Rise and Conker Podcast.

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Speaker 1: It is your host Georgie Stevenson, and today are our

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Speaker 1: fun Friday EPs where you send in your life dilemmas

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Speaker 1: and myself and I Tea provide our very unqualified two

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Speaker 1: cents on the situation. So, guys, today we are chatting

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Speaker 1: what do you do if your boyfriend does not have

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Speaker 1: the same passion and drive when it comes to Korea.

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Speaker 1: Such a good question, you know, I had some tips

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Speaker 1: on that. The next question was all about what to

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Speaker 1: do when someone you know is getting promotions and achieving

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Speaker 1: things and they don't deserve it. Yeah, that's an interesting one.

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Speaker 1: And then the last one we just chat about limiting

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Speaker 1: beliefs with finding a boyfriend. Now what that looks like.

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Speaker 1: So this is a really fun Friday EP before we

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Speaker 1: get into it a tear.

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Speaker 2: What is your weekly recommendation?

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Speaker 3: Ooh oh Season three of Never Have I Ever on Netflix. Oh, yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's great. It's funny. It's a lot of secondhand embarrassment,

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Speaker 3: Like it's a good, lighthearted watch when you just want

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Speaker 1: Yes, love, I loved the first season. I've got to

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Speaker 1: catch up with that. Yeah, it's a very good show.

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Speaker 1: Amazing good wreck. My recommendation, I don't have any media

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Speaker 1: recommendations just because I've been moving a week. But something

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Speaker 1: I did it was actually the other week and I've

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Speaker 1: heard it on tiktoks and various podcasts of writing a

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Speaker 1: hundred things you want to manifest? Wow, So I like,

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Speaker 1: I only ever focus on like a couple of things

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Speaker 3: That many things out. Yes, yeah, if.

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Speaker 1: Someone said, write down a hundred things you want to manifest.

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Speaker 1: They can be big, small, they can be now, they

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Speaker 1: can be in twenty years. It doesn't matter because it

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Speaker 1: just like expands you to think about more of what

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Speaker 3: Like I was gonna say, I don't even think I

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Speaker 2: Well I didn't think so, but I ended up.

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Speaker 4: Just like like writing, once you get started though, in

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Speaker 4: all aspects of your life and like I just want

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Speaker 4: on tangents Like I was like, I want a private chef.

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Speaker 2: I want this, I want a private chef.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like you've got to really think big. And

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Speaker 1: it's like it was really cool. It was such an

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Speaker 3: If it makes sense, I will be doing that.

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Speaker 1: It was really fun, like put some good music on,

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Speaker 1: what is one hundred things I.

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Speaker 3: Our first question. Dear g, I've been with my boyfriend

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Speaker 3: Because I feel like if it was just the two

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Speaker 2: And then but they made it work. Yeah, they made

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Speaker 3: They don't have kids. But also, if you were working

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Speaker 1: Because also something might be happening with his mental health. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Just and if you've been dating for two years and

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Speaker 1: Even But also going off that you're saying, you know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely so I don't know. I like, I get

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Speaker 3: And I think that that's what everybody needs to do

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Speaker 1: It's actually nothing to do with you. Yeah, And I

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Speaker 1: That's all jealousy means is you want if it may

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Speaker 1: I'm going to be observant and aware of it, but

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Speaker 3: Next question. I'm twenty two and have just finished my degree.

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Speaker 1: She's just realizing limiting beliefs left right and center.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I love that for her.

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Speaker 1: So this is Yeah, this is exciting, and I love

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Speaker 1: Once you have awareness, it honestly has no grip on

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Speaker 3: No, because you can kind of just like flick it off.

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Speaker 1: So girl, this is really exciting and one hundred percent

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Speaker 1: this is a limiting belief around having a boyfriend and

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Speaker 1: traveling and freedom, because society tells you that when you

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Speaker 1: stay on one spot and not have any fun and

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Speaker 1: make babies and make a lot of babies.

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Speaker 2: Oh I did all those things. Society got me good.

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Speaker 1: No, I think it's about reworking your beliefs around this

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Speaker 1: and going, you know what, I can have a relationship

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Speaker 1: doing his thing or she's doing his thing.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, she's doing her thing and.

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Speaker 1: I'm doing my thing, you know yeah, And I think

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Speaker 1: that's really exciting, that's really beautiful. I actually have a

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Speaker 1: think she's close to like twenty five is. She's never

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Speaker 1: had a boyfriend, just situationships. And she lives in Sydney.

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Speaker 1: He lives in Brisbane, and she's like, it's amazing. She's

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Speaker 1: a flight attendant, so you know, she goes there and

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Speaker 1: she's like, it's amazing. We're making it work and it's

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Speaker 1: so different to you know, any other relationship or what

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Speaker 1: I thought. But we're making it work and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: about being like, you know what, I get to create

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how do you feel? I feel like either option

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Speaker 3: then he'll come or he won't and that's fine.

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Speaker 2: M Well, that's what that's what true surrender is.

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Speaker 3: I guess. Yeah, you just sort of have to. And

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Speaker 3: twenty two is not that old. No, So even if

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Speaker 3: you don't have a boyfriend till after you get to

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Speaker 3: the UK, that's not a big deal. If you have

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Speaker 3: a really great boyfriend that you meet somewhere, you might

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Speaker 3: end up staying there and never going back to the UK.

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Speaker 3: You have absolutely no idea what'll happen over the next

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Speaker 3: few years. Just enjoy it and let things come to

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Speaker 3: you rather than worrying about Obviously, it's great to have

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Speaker 3: a plan and goals and that sort of stuff, but

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Speaker 3: don't worry so much that person will never come, because

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Speaker 3: they absolutely will.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I love that, and it's kind of like lock

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Speaker 1: in that your person will find you and the right

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Speaker 1: time at the right time, and it's going to be

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Speaker 1: perfect for you, guys. And once you've locked that in,

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Speaker 1: like you're good, Go have fun, go live your life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so young, take me back to when I was

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Speaker 2: twenty two, is like, can't relate.

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Speaker 5: Amazing, I'm so excited for this person.

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Speaker 3: Me too.

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Speaker 1: And she also said, ps, I love you guys as

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Speaker 1: a duo. I listened to at least for episodes a day. Oh,

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Speaker 1: we love you, We love you, no name. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: that is the end of geez Hotline. I hope you

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Speaker 1: enjoyed it and we will chat to you guys soon.

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