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Speaker 1: Welcome back everyone to Navigating in Between with Jamie and Georgina,

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Speaker 1: our brand new series, if you will, the best.

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Speaker 2: New podcast series you've ever heard in your absolutely your

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Speaker 3: Watch out, Georgie, we are coming for you. So if

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Speaker 3: you missed the last episode.

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Speaker 1: Basically, this is a brand new series we are bringing

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Speaker 1: out that is all about navigating different things in your twenties,

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Speaker 1: but not exclusive to your twenties. We are talking about

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Speaker 1: navigating grief, friendships, relationships, moving into state. All of the

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Speaker 1: questions that we see in the community. We are bringing

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Speaker 1: them to you.

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Speaker 2: We're the guinea pigs and we're bringing it to you.

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Speaker 2: You guys asked to have a segment with us and

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Speaker 2: chat about these relatable topics, so we're bringing them to you.

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Speaker 2: We've gone through them first, and we're bringing you all

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Speaker 2: of the tips. So we've gone through the hard stuff

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Speaker 2: so you don't have to. Honestly, we're such you welcome.

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Speaker 1: So today we are talking all about drum roll please,

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Speaker 1: how to reinvent yourself.

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Speaker 3: Yes, the rebrand, the.

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Speaker 1: Life rebrand, because we have both done it. We moved

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Speaker 1: as you would have heard in our last episode. If

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Speaker 1: you didn't go and listen because it's great. Right now,

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Speaker 1: we have moved into State and basically completely changed our

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Speaker 1: whole change our whole life, reinvented ourselves, changed our name.

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Speaker 3: We didn't change that it.

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Speaker 1: We reinvented ourselves. We made a big change and now

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Speaker 1: we're just going to tell you all about how to

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Speaker 1: do it. It doesn't mean that you have to move into State. No,

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Speaker 1: sit back down.

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Speaker 2: We get so many questions about you know, I don't

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Speaker 2: like this about my life, or I want to change,

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Speaker 2: I want to make this sleep or this transition.

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Speaker 3: How do I do it?

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Speaker 2: So, reinventing yourself can mean your identity, your beliefs, maybe

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Speaker 2: you know who you hang around with, your energy, your lifestyle,

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Speaker 3: It can really mean anything.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't ev to mean completely moving away and literally

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Speaker 2: starting a whole new life, but it could be that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it can be because we have done it.

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Speaker 1: But let's start with why would you reinvent yourself?

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Speaker 3: What is it sign?

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Speaker 1: What are some tell tale signs that it's signed for

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Speaker 1: a rebrand? And it may come up every few months.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's okay, it's I feel like you go through phases.

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Speaker 2: You definitely have phases where you're like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: I want to be this powerful business owner. I'm going

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Speaker 2: to start this business. A few months later, you're like,

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Speaker 2: you know what, I just want to be free and

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Speaker 2: You will have phases, You're going to have different cravings

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Speaker 2: and yearnings in your life. God listen to them, got

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Speaker 2: to honor them. But on a general level, if you

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Speaker 2: feel like you're not happy with your lifestyle or how

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Speaker 2: like something's not right, uninspired, I would say, by flat frustrated. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think it's also another tell tale sign is when

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Speaker 2: you are feeling too comfortable. If you were stuck inside

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Speaker 2: the comfort zone, you won't achieve anything from in the

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Speaker 2: comfort zone. It's all about leaning out discomfort change because

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Speaker 2: if you want something you haven't had before, you've got

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Speaker 2: to do something you haven't done before. So this is

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Speaker 2: all about how to navigate that period between where you

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Speaker 3: Next stage of life.

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Speaker 1: So that's why I said it can be every few months,

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Speaker 1: because if you move quickly in life, this is going

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Speaker 1: to be a process that you constantly go through if

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Speaker 1: you're constantly evolving in those sorts of things. But how

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Speaker 1: can we reinvent ourselves? How can we make ourselves different?

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Speaker 2: For me personally, and it's different for everybody, my environment

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Speaker 2: was just feeling really flat in my environment, Like we said, uninspired.

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Speaker 2: I felt like I'm not supposed to be here, like

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Speaker 2: supposed to be here. And you know, the universe, it

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Speaker 2: will send you signs, it will send you little nudges.

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Speaker 2: This coach that I used to work with, she told

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Speaker 2: me that there's this thing called a feather brick truck,

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Speaker 2: which basically means the universe will send you a sweet

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Speaker 2: If you don't listen, it sends you a brick, which

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Speaker 2: If you're supposed to be on a different path or

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Speaker 2: somewhere else. The universe will help you to move.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 1: It's almost like I love that quote that's been going

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Speaker 1: around recently that's the universe will never give you peace

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you feel it, You'll feel it.

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Speaker 1: And I think it's also if you kind of feel

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Speaker 1: doing all the things, but it's not fitting, it may

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Speaker 1: be time to reinvent yourself and maybe time for a rebrand,

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Speaker 1: to look at things in a different way, to change

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Speaker 1: your environments, to change through you around, to change your

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Speaker 1: habit's routines. Because if things just aren't falling into place,

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Speaker 2: So for me, I knew my environment was wrong and

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Speaker 2: I was needed to be somewhere else, So I sought

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Speaker 3: I knew I wanted to be somewhere else.

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Speaker 2: Spiritually, I had always felt really pulled to the Gold Coast.

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Speaker 2: I just kind of knew that was where I was

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Speaker 2: supposed to be. But I was telling Jamie, Jamia, Jamie.

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Speaker 2: For me, Jamie, I was telling Jigi earlier on that

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Speaker 2: I felt like I couldn't just get up and move,

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Speaker 2: like I couldn't just tell everybody that was my whole life. Hi, guys,

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Speaker 2: I'm going because I just want to be somewhere else,

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Speaker 2: and you all suck jokes, that's not what it was.

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Speaker 2: But I needed a reason, like an out, if you will.

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Speaker 2: So I manifested my boyfriend to get a job somewhere

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Speaker 3: So for me, it was my environ.

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Speaker 2: I knew I had to change because my home environment,

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Speaker 2: my lifestyle where I was going, it was just bringing

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Speaker 2: So I personally had to have a whole new environment.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I was sort of similar, but I didn't

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Speaker 1: place came into place because I was in a brand

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Speaker 1: new environment. I had really changed everything. One of the

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Speaker 1: the same habits, the same environments, it can be so

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Speaker 1: hard to change because you're doing the same things. You're

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Speaker 1: almost like allowing your brain to just keep seeking that

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Speaker 1: comfort because that's what's available to you. So even if

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Speaker 1: it's not necessarily changing the state that you're in. Is

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Speaker 1: new events you can go to? How can you switch

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Speaker 2: Yeah, even like a fresh schedule, a fresh habit, like

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Speaker 2: get clear on how you want to feel. I suppose

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Speaker 2: that would be the first thing you would do, is Okay,

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Speaker 2: I want to feel really excited each morning, and I

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Speaker 2: connect with myself. So then you would look at Okay,

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Speaker 2: where can I be? What can I change? How can

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Speaker 2: I make this my routine? So if it's not like

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Speaker 2: a full on move of environment, in your same environment,

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Speaker 2: how can you make small changes to still get that feeling.

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Speaker 1: It's like when you're a little kid and you would

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Speaker 1: just redo your whole room and you feel like a

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Speaker 3: Purple honestly.

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Speaker 1: Please, three light purple and one dark purple, like a

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Speaker 1: I had one of those don't do that fly net things,

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Speaker 3: It is giving Royal.

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Speaker 1: Number one was changing your environment, and now they're part

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Speaker 1: of reinventing yourself or navigating the pivot. Navigating the change

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Speaker 1: the thing, because you're doing something different to what you

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Speaker 1: You're never going to feel ready, You're never going to

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Speaker 2: And something I told myself when I was moving was like,

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Speaker 2: what is the worst that can happen? Like in this situation,

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Speaker 2: even if you're you know, if you want to move

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Speaker 3: The worst that could happen?

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Speaker 2: It was that I moved away and I didn't like it,

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Speaker 2: and I came back like, it's really not that bad.

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Speaker 2: And for you it might be that you know, you

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Speaker 2: go out of your comfort zone and try something new

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Speaker 2: or join a new gym, get a new job, whatever

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Speaker 2: always go back and change. You have the freedom and

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Speaker 2: flexibility to pivot and change your life at any moment.

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Speaker 1: And giving yourself the permission to do that too, and

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Speaker 1: just being like, if it doesn't work out, But if

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Speaker 1: tried it and you know that's not for you, and

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Speaker 1: you would have grown as a person because every part

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Speaker 1: of discomfort comes with lesson many lessons.

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Speaker 3: That's what I think.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm biased because I've moved away from home, so

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Speaker 2: I think like I've learned a lot from it. I

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Speaker 2: think everybody should do it because I changed so much

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Speaker 3: You're only going to be this young and hot once, Like,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we do find a way.

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Speaker 2: Oh sweetie, failing.

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Speaker 3: Will judge you if you don't do nothing.

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Speaker 2: Finding those different edges of yourself when you do something different,

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Speaker 2: like dying hair a different color, doing a whole different

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Speaker 3: There is no downside of it.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're going to wrap this episode up. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for listening and tuning in. Please remember

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Speaker 1: to come into our Rise community Facebook group d M

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Speaker 3: Because our wish is your commit here is our command.

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Speaker 3: We will see you in the next episode. Thanks for listening,

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Speaker 3: Thanks for listening.

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