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Speaker 1: New Jersey and Amanda jam Nation. Amanda does a podcast

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Speaker 1: called Double a Chattery with her good friend Anita McGregor,

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Speaker 1: who is a forensic psychologist. She has spoken to some

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Speaker 1: nuts in a time. Yeah, she's trained me a lot, Brandon,

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Speaker 1: I like talking to her. She takes notes when she

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Speaker 1: talks to you.

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Speaker 2: Excluding me from the nuts home after a few drinks,

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Speaker 2: I can tell.

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Speaker 1: Me about that guy. Well, she was fascinating. She's fascinating.

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Speaker 1: And what was interesting is that a few weeks ago

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Speaker 1: she spoke about how wonderful it was because she's a

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Speaker 1: member of she's on the academic staff at a university.

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Speaker 1: She runs the department for prinsts psychology department in South

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Speaker 1: was Union and in graduation week, how wonderful it is,

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Speaker 1: she said, you see the proud families, You see proud students,

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Speaker 1: this incredible achievement, the culmination all that hard work, and

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Speaker 1: you wonder where are they all going. How wonderful that

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Speaker 1: they have this momentum. So I thought it was timely

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Speaker 1: that we revisit something that you and I spoke about

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Speaker 1: on this show. This is the guy called Harrison Butker.

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Speaker 1: He is with the can the City Chiefs. This is

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Speaker 1: the same team that Travis Kelcey, Tyler Swift's boyfriend plays for.

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Speaker 1: He is a very committed Christian and he was giving

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Speaker 1: the graduation address at a Catholic university and he shocked

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Speaker 1: everyone when he said this for.

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Speaker 2: The ladies present today, Congratulations on an amazing accomplishment. You

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Speaker 2: should be proud of all that you have achieved to

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Speaker 2: this point in your young lives. I want to speak

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Speaker 2: directly to you briefly because I think it is you,

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Speaker 2: the women who have had the most diabolical lives told

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Speaker 2: to you. How many of you are sitting here now

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Speaker 2: about to cross this stage and are thinking about all

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Speaker 2: the promotions and titles you are going to get in

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Speaker 2: your career. Some of you may go on to lead

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Speaker 2: successful careers in the world, but I would venture to

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Speaker 2: guess that the majority of you are most excited about

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Speaker 2: your marriage and the children you will bring into this world.

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Speaker 2: I can tell you that my beautiful wife, Isabelle would

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Speaker 2: be the first to say that her life truly started

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Speaker 2: when she began living her vocation as a wife and

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Speaker 2: as a mother. I'm on this stage today and able

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Speaker 2: to be the man I because I have a wife

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Speaker 2: who leans into her location I'm beyond blessed with the

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Speaker 2: many talents God has given me. But it cannot be

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Speaker 2: overstated that all of my success is made possible because

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Speaker 2: a girl I met him being class back in middle

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Speaker 2: school would convert to the faith, become my wife, and

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Speaker 2: embrace one of the most important titles.

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Speaker 1: Of all Hallmaker. His mother is an accomplished physicist, and

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Speaker 1: he grew up in a wealthy family that allowed him

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Speaker 1: to pursue a career in playing football. He earns four

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Speaker 1: million dollars a year, so even if his wife can live, yeah, unsupported,

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Speaker 1: But how many amongst us can say that? So Anita

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Speaker 1: and I looked at the fallout of what his statements did,

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Speaker 1: and Anita said it made her want to weep because

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Speaker 1: she has seen all those people at their own graduations,

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Speaker 1: and she said, imagine the power he's stripped of them

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Speaker 1: on that day, that day, they should be so proud.

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Speaker 1: He stripped them of that Akola. He belittled their achievements.

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Speaker 1: And we looked at the fallout of this. It's been

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Speaker 1: very interesting. A lot of people were making comments saying, yeah,

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Speaker 1: my mum and dad had that traditional relationship and dad

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Speaker 1: left my mother when my siblings and I were two

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Speaker 1: and three years old. Mum had defend for herself. This

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Speaker 1: is what I said on this show too. You cannot

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Speaker 1: rely on anyone else to take care of you. Some

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Speaker 1: people are saying, if this life of staying home and

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Speaker 1: finding fulfillment in that is so good, why isn't Why

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Speaker 1: aren't the guys doing it? Why is it the women

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Speaker 1: that do this, and why don't we insist that all

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Speaker 1: our men earn four million dollars a year so that

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Speaker 1: they can do this for us? It was so short sighted,

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Speaker 1: and yet the same time I saw this story, and

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Speaker 1: you think and a completely different world on a completely

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Speaker 1: different algorithm. Other people that I don't normally follow are saying,

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Speaker 1: isn't he wonderful? And that educated white women are the

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Speaker 1: problem with society. Those crazy inseels are saying, it's uppity women.

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Speaker 1: You're creating the problems. I've got a porn addiction because

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Speaker 1: you're annoying. But how about this, The NFL has no

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Speaker 1: more Harrison butker Kansas City chiefs women's jerseys in stock.

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Speaker 1: They've sold out. Women are supporting him and buying the jerseys.

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Speaker 1: So this just falls into that same pattern of modern America.

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Speaker 1: These two extremes. On one hand, you have people going, well,

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Speaker 1: he's outrageous. On the other hand, people going he speaks

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Speaker 1: the truth. A Time to be Alive, Double a Chattery.

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