1 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: Hello, this is Lola on my own, which feels weird. 2 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: This is a six part Christmas series because I'm a 3 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 1: Christmas goober, and the idea is that every Friday We're 4 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: just going to bring out an episode. They're quite quick, 5 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 1: little chunky when I say chunky, like fifteen to twenty 6 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:49,599 Speaker 1: minute epps. And basically what I've just done is different 7 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: topics in the lead up to Chrissy, So six epps 8 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: in the layup to Christmas. This first episode is about 9 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: managing stress and anxiety around the silly season. The next 10 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: episode we're going to talk about sustainable gift ideas and 11 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 1: really cool ideas that actually look after the planet, but 12 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: also a really awesome quzzy presence. We're going to talk 13 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:16,320 Speaker 1: about like staying healthy, falling off the wagon. I'm really 14 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: I'm a pro at falling off the wagon movement and goals, 15 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: and also like how to deal Sometimes Christmas is amazing 16 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: as it is, it does bring up you know when 17 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 1: you have to sometimes like a family member will say 18 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: that thing and it just friggin triggers something in you. 19 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: Like for me, like if a family of a comments 20 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 1: on my body, I'm like, oh, that brings up all 21 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: my old disorder issues, So just about handling like if 22 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: you come across someone that you don't usually hang out 23 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: with and it can be quite triggering, so navigating that. 24 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: And this is just from my personal perspective. This is 25 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 1: not I'm not a psychologist or anything like that. I 26 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 1: just thought it'd be cool to do a little like 27 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: six Weeks to Chrissy pod Guide, And yeah, an episode 28 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: will come out every Friday morning in the lead up 29 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: to Christmas. Welcome. And I've also asked the boss, so Matt, 30 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: to do a Christmas jingle for us. So I really 31 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: hope that you get a Christmas jingle or got a 32 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 1: Christmas jingle before this episode started, right Episode one? Okay, 33 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: also Friday the thirteenth November. We're pretty much six weeks 34 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: out from Chrissy mind Blown. So the first episode is 35 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: about managing stress and anxiety as we come into the 36 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: silly season. I'm going to teach you some tricks around mindfulness. 37 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: But also I guess I just wanted to say, like, 38 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: it's totally normal to feel stressed around now. I know, 39 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: I do. I know at the moment, I'm finishing off 40 00:02:55,280 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 1: a manuscript and now I'm kind of like, oh, oh god, 41 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 1: there's so much to do. There's six weeks until Christmas. 42 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: I'm got I haven't even thought about a present. And 43 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: my dad's birthday is November the twenty fifth, so he 44 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: gets like double presies. But it's hard for the gift 45 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: Gibbe because you've got to think, Okay, well, I've got 46 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:15,839 Speaker 1: his birthday present sorted. Now I got to think about 47 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 1: it's chrissy present. Anyway, I want you to know it's 48 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 1: normal to feel stressed and edgy and anxious around this 49 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 1: time of the year, especially after the year that we've 50 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: had with COVID. Obviously, special Victorians they're gonna get to 51 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: be with their family this Christmas and it's so exciting, 52 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: but it's probably a little bit confronting as well, because 53 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: one thing that Matt definitely mentioned in a past podcast 54 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: is that coming out of COVID and lockdown comes with 55 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 1: its own set of social anxiety. So as exciting and 56 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: as fun and as amazing as Christmas is, it usually 57 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: comes with some stuff as well. So if you're feeling 58 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: stressed and anxious in the leader of to Christmas, it's 59 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: totally okay and normal to feel that way. I already 60 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: do six weeks away right. These are the things that 61 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: I use to help me through feeling discombobulated. I have 62 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: a therapist. You know, I'm very, very pro mental health. 63 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: I see my therapist once a week. He keeps me 64 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: in line and basically he calls out my bs pretty much, 65 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 1: and he helped me. Last week I had a few 66 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 1: Now that everything's opening up in Melbourne, I started to 67 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 1: get a little bit of food anxiety because I've got 68 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 1: some work things coming up. And he was like, never 69 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 1: eat for someone else. Eat because you want to be eating. 70 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: Don't be afraid of judgment. And he's like, you're not 71 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: doing it to please someone else. He's like, stop being 72 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: a people pleaser. So I think Christmas is a really 73 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:59,239 Speaker 1: easy time to get swept up in the people please 74 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 1: are kind of tornado. But at the same time, it's 75 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: just as important to keep your self care rituals primo 76 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: primo so therapy number one. If you don't have a 77 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: good therapist, don't worry. It takes a few tries, a 78 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: few clunky fits. It took me a little while to 79 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: find my therapist. That is my non negotiable. Now. The 80 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: other trick is when you do find a therapist and 81 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 1: you are trying it out, and you're like, oh, I 82 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know. Give it four sessions because 83 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:36,039 Speaker 1: you're literally learning about one another and you're figuring out 84 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: if it is a good fit, just like they're figuring 85 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 1: it out for you about whether you're a good fit 86 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: for them, and you're figuring out if they're a good 87 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: fit for you. And an active friend actually told me, 88 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: every time I go for an audition, I'm auditioning the 89 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 1: people that are auditioning me just as much so, which 90 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 1: I thought was kind of cool. Okay, so therapy, boom yogs. 91 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: You know, I'm big into yoga. Most people flip out 92 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: when I'm like, I can't do a handstand, so I'm 93 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: not a yoga guru at all, but I do it 94 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: every day because it's a part of my self care practice. 95 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: I feel clear when I do it. I feel connected 96 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: to myself. I feel like my mind and my breath 97 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: and my body are all interconnected when I do Yokes meditations. 98 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: This is boss is non negotiable, so he meditates every 99 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: single day before he gets out of bed. I'm a 100 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: little bit lax on the meditation. Personally. My mind is 101 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 1: very very active, and I find that When I slip 102 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 1: into meditation, I slip into a checklist like, oh, yep, 103 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 1: I've done that. I have I done that, Yep, I've 104 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:47,280 Speaker 1: done that. What am I doing after this? When I'm 105 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 1: making after this, I find that I do have a 106 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: very active mind. So for me, my mind and body 107 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: responds better to breath work. So I'm going to teach 108 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: you two breathing techniques that I find really helpful for 109 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 1: an active mind. And then other things for just switching off, 110 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: like Matt and I the other night just pop something 111 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 1: on Netflix and then had a mango, you know what 112 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: I mean, Like just putting your day aside, putting your 113 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: to do list aside, and just like chilling the f 114 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 1: out and enjoying the company and another or even just yourself. 115 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: Watch some Netflix. If you haven't seen Shit's Creek already, 116 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: please watch it. It is such a wonderfully written show. You 117 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 1: will feel good, you will cry, you will laugh, and 118 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: you will feel very wholesome after watching that. So great 119 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: for again in the silly season, because it all make 120 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: you feel connected when you're watching a show, which is 121 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: I think the ultimate goal. This is me probably bringing 122 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: the acting school stuff in a bit here. Okay, let's 123 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: talk about the two breathing techniques that I love. So 124 00:07:56,640 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: I usually practice these after yogus. I'm going to do 125 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: them or if I'm stressing out about usually acting school, 126 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: I'll stress out if my scene's going up that night, 127 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 1: so I'll do some breathing before my scene. So the 128 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 1: first one I'm going to teach you is called box breathing. 129 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 1: So the best way to describe it is literally, visualize 130 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:18,679 Speaker 1: a box. And if I was in a yoga studio 131 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 1: and teaching you this at the end or the beginning 132 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: of a yoga class, I would say, imagine one side 133 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 1: of the box. You'll inhale, right, so you're inhaling one, two, three, four, 134 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: and then stop there and you're going to draw the top. 135 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 1: And this is just in the mind's eye. You're going 136 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 1: to draw the top of the box while you hold 137 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: your breath for three two one, and then you exhale 138 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 1: that the exhale you'll be like, oh. The first few 139 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: times do it, you'll be like, oh my god, thank God. 140 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 1: Then you exhale as you kind of like it. Draw 141 00:08:55,559 --> 00:09:00,319 Speaker 1: the other side going down of the box for three 142 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 1: two one, and then this is the hardest bit. After 143 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 1: the xale, you hold your breath. You hold that for 144 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: four three two one, And basically that's why it's called 145 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: box breathing, because it's four different things you're doing. So 146 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 1: you're inhaling for a counter of four, then you're holding 147 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: for a counter four, then you're exhaling for a counter four, 148 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 1: and then you're holding for a counter of four. That 149 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 1: final hold is the hardest, and you'll literally be like 150 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: gasping for air. That's normal. The more you do it, though, 151 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 1: you can usually get that number of six even eight right. 152 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 1: They're like, you know, one, two, three, four five six 153 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: on an inhal. I'm obviously speeding it up because I 154 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: don't want to boil you. Four rounds of that, literally 155 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: just four boxes can reset everything. It's a really good one. 156 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: Great for mental clarity, great for refocusing, also great for 157 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: chilling the f out. I love box breathing. I often 158 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 1: include it in my yoga practice. The other one is 159 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 1: a great again, great if you have a really active mind. 160 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 1: I use this in my shavasna, but you can just 161 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: use it in a seed of meditation as well. So 162 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: all you're gonna do is shut your eyes and you 163 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: can totally do this right now, if you want to. 164 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: But all you're gonna do is shut your eyes. And 165 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:30,319 Speaker 1: when you shut your eyes, you start to notice what 166 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: you can hear. So I can hear that the wind 167 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: in the trees outside the window, I can I know 168 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: that there's birds. Usually I can eat birds, but I've 169 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,319 Speaker 1: got these noise canceling headphones on, so it's a bit tricky. 170 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,719 Speaker 1: I've got to focus real hard. But basically you'll be 171 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: able to hear the fridge, the clicking of the clock, 172 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: you know, like the ticking of the clock, not clicking, 173 00:10:55,600 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 1: the wind in the trees, cars driving down the road. 174 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: You know. You used to be able to hear aeroplanes 175 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: quite a lot in the sky, which we barely hear anymore, 176 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: maybe a dog barking. And then as you're doing it's 177 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: called active awareness. As you're doing that, notice how far 178 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: things are. So start to realize like spatial awareness. So 179 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: the fridge that might only be three meters away, the 180 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 1: clock that it might only be like two meters away, 181 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:27,559 Speaker 1: But like a bird outside is that just outside the window? 182 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: Is that further away? You know, if you're in suburban 183 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 1: Melbourne or Sydney, well Melbourne, for this spit can you 184 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: hear a tram Is that a block away, you know? 185 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 1: And so you start to kind of like dial up 186 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 1: your other senses. I love this form of meditation. It 187 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 1: recalibrates me without me going on shanty shanty with my 188 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: eyes shut, going nothing is happening. That said, there are 189 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 1: wonderful mindfulness and meditation apps out there. Use them, try 190 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: them a little bit like a therapist. Try it on 191 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 1: and figure out what works for you. The two that 192 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:10,440 Speaker 1: I've just taught you are box breathing, active awareness, meditation. 193 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 1: The final thing that I'm going to mention in regard 194 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 1: to dealing with stress and anxiety when it comes up 195 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: during the silly season is gratitude. And I know we 196 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: all know that like that attitude of gratitude, you know 197 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 1: what you are grateful for, brings more in. But if 198 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: I'm stressed out at the end of the day, I'll 199 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: just say to the boss, I don't even write it down. 200 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 1: You can totally write down. A lot of people have 201 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: gratitude journals, but I'll just say the boss, what's three 202 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 1: things we're really grateful for today? And sometimes they'll be 203 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: like really deep and loving, like waking up next to 204 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,319 Speaker 1: you loving you. But it can be really like, oh, 205 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: Matt loves burgers like we have literally we live on 206 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: the Surf coast. At the moment, we've toured every single 207 00:12:54,559 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 1: burger place all over lawn, Talkie, Port, Campbell, you name it. 208 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 1: And so if we've gone out for a hamburg it 209 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: could be like, today's highlight that I'm grateful for was 210 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: a Hamburger. So it can be anything you want. For me. 211 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 1: It's often like I'm grateful I still got to do 212 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 1: acting school even though it's via zoom and it's all online. 213 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 1: Or it'll be it can be like I love going 214 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 1: to it in for red sauna. I'm really grateful I 215 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 1: went with infrared sauna today. You know, it can be anything. 216 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 1: It can be grateful for your dog. It really doesn't matter. 217 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:33,200 Speaker 1: But that attitude of gratitude right before you go to 218 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: sleep can change the channel, especially if anything like me 219 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 1: and you have that really active nighttime kind of like 220 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: where you ruminate, so you go over and over and 221 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: over things, and often we spend so much time worrying 222 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 1: about what other people think and the what ifs and 223 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: things that are you know, the lead up to something 224 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: and you get there and there's nothing to worry about 225 00:13:57,960 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: So it's so much of it is in our head, 226 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: So why waste time worrying about something we don't even 227 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:09,319 Speaker 1: need to worry about. That's kind of my gist and 228 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 1: vibe for you. So attitude of gratitude, Try box breathing, 229 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: Try active awareness, meditation. Both of them are interchange. Between 230 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 1: the two of them, I love them both. Move your 231 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: bod yokes if you're if you want to go deeper 232 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 1: into the med definitely look into the apps. Chill out. 233 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: There are so many good Chrissy movies on Netflix. So excited. 234 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 1: I'm actually really excited. Dan Levy, who I mentioned off 235 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: Shit's Creek is actually in a Christmas movie that's about 236 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 1: to come out with Kristen Stewart. I'm pretty sure it's 237 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: called Holiday Class. I'll find out and I'll put it 238 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: in the show notes for you, and I'll put the 239 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: trailer for it in the show notes too. But if 240 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: anyone's a Shit's Creek fan, Dan Levy is in a 241 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: Christmas movie that is coming out really soon and it 242 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: looks awesome. So yeah, this is basically what our little 243 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 1: Christmas series is going to be all about. It is short, 244 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 1: little bite sizes to help give you little kind of 245 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 1: tools to just check in with yourself in amongst all 246 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: the craziness that is Christmas and the festive season. If 247 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 1: you're on your morning walk listening to this, whatever you're doing, 248 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 1: it's just a little check in and a few little 249 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 1: tools to make you think, ah, I got this today. 250 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 1: And that is the whole idea and ethos behind this 251 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: six part Christmas series. So Megal Love six weeks still, Chrissy, 252 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 1: I hope you're excited. I don't know why I'm singing 253 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: because I know arcant. Okay, Megal Love Mary Chrissy. Let's 254 00:15:55,000 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: enjoy Christmas the Spa in the Japan