WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Are piñatas too violent for kids? 0:00:10.379 --> 0:00:14.219 My Heart podcasts, hear more Kiss Podcast playlist and listen 0:00:14.259 --> 0:00:20.819 live on the Free iHeart app. Good Pickup with Britt 0:00:20.859 --> 0:00:22.979 Hockley and Laura Ben Rady. 0:00:23.139 --> 0:00:27.219 Your work, our windows done, that's my world. Reason the 0:00:27.379 --> 0:00:29.579 dust only go fabs all down. 0:00:30.659 --> 0:00:34.699 I've done much, but yeah, I know I'll big get 0:00:34.699 --> 0:00:35.619 and what a lot. 0:00:35.939 --> 0:00:38.818 It don't matter where does? This is the pickup? 0:00:39.219 --> 0:00:41.819 Happy Friday everyone, you're listening to the Pickup with Britt 0:00:41.819 --> 0:00:42.779 Hackley and Laura Ben. 0:00:43.339 --> 0:00:45.138 I don't want to be a mood killer, but it's 0:00:45.179 --> 0:00:46.979 not actually a happy Friday for me. 0:00:47.219 --> 0:00:51.458 It's actually really sad Friday. So my husband Ben's been 0:00:51.459 --> 0:00:54.019 here for the last month and he lives overseas in Italy. 0:00:54.179 --> 0:00:55.459 We got married twice. 0:00:55.659 --> 0:00:59.299 It was wonderful, how many honeymoons. 0:00:58.179 --> 0:01:01.219 Three mini ones, but like only three days, you little 0:01:01.259 --> 0:01:01.819 turd burger. 0:01:02.259 --> 0:01:04.539 But today's the day, Like we have had the best 0:01:04.578 --> 0:01:05.819 six weeks of our life. 0:01:05.539 --> 0:01:09.098 Like yeah, it's been really beautiful, like the happiest I've 0:01:09.099 --> 0:01:09.538 ever been. 0:01:09.699 --> 0:01:12.499 And tonight he's leaving. He's going back to Italy. 0:01:12.658 --> 0:01:13.938 I thought he was leaving tomorrow. 0:01:14.219 --> 0:01:17.619 Well it's technically tomorrow, but it's two am. So for me, 0:01:17.699 --> 0:01:19.339 that's nighttime, that is in the middle of the night. 0:01:19.378 --> 0:01:21.499 Do you know how long it's going to be until 0:01:21.499 --> 0:01:22.339 you see him again? 0:01:22.499 --> 0:01:27.499 I think the moment Tember, so September, So what are 0:01:27.539 --> 0:01:30.578 we now, July August, like, that's a lot nearly three months. 0:01:30.658 --> 0:01:33.178 Yeah, it's exactly three months because when you go and 0:01:33.179 --> 0:01:35.139 see Ben, I'm having a baby, so I'm counting down 0:01:35.139 --> 0:01:35.419 as well. 0:01:35.458 --> 0:01:36.499 Oh what a time to be long. 0:01:36.738 --> 0:01:40.258 It's literally we have timed both the holiday and also 0:01:40.619 --> 0:01:45.378 the coming of this pregnancy perfectly. I can only imagine, 0:01:45.458 --> 0:01:48.179 especially after coming from such a high of having your 0:01:48.179 --> 0:01:50.779 wedding to then having to go back to doing long 0:01:50.779 --> 0:01:53.379 distance now, I can only imagine how hard. 0:01:53.259 --> 0:01:53.819 That's going to be. 0:01:53.939 --> 0:01:54.219 It is. 0:01:54.979 --> 0:01:56.419 It came in so hot with Happy Fridays. But for 0:01:56.459 --> 0:01:57.579 everyone else, happy Friday. 0:01:58.259 --> 0:02:01.579 But if you're everyone but Brittany, happy Friday. No. 0:02:01.779 --> 0:02:03.659 I do you know what, though, anyone who's ever done 0:02:03.739 --> 0:02:06.939 long distance will sympathize because it is it's so hard. 0:02:07.219 --> 0:02:10.619 People think the goodbyes get easier, and I don't know. 0:02:11.179 --> 0:02:13.779 Maybe before I got married, I would have said they did, 0:02:13.819 --> 0:02:14.939 but I think now they're harder. 0:02:15.339 --> 0:02:16.978 Like I would have said, yeah, you do get used. 0:02:16.859 --> 0:02:17.619 To it, it's like whatever. 0:02:17.779 --> 0:02:19.859 But now that we're in a different chapter, I feel 0:02:19.859 --> 0:02:21.459 like it is harder. For sure, I'm gonna cry like 0:02:21.459 --> 0:02:23.458 a little baby. Well, don't do that yet. 0:02:23.499 --> 0:02:26.219 Hold on to them now, Laura. 0:02:26.258 --> 0:02:29.219 I'm not one to usually want to highlight my competition. 0:02:29.418 --> 0:02:31.698 I am currently on Dancing with the Stars. But if 0:02:31.698 --> 0:02:33.859 there's one person I'm gonna get on this show to 0:02:33.899 --> 0:02:36.299 have a chat to, it's Sean mccaliff. Now, if you 0:02:36.418 --> 0:02:39.779 don't know Sean mccalliff, he's been in Australian TV for 0:02:39.819 --> 0:02:42.978 a very long time. He's a comedian, actor, writer, presenter, 0:02:43.258 --> 0:02:45.859 he's a lawyer. There's not a lot the man can't do, 0:02:46.019 --> 0:02:50.099 and he can now add dancer to his repertoire Sean mccaliff, 0:02:50.258 --> 0:02:52.739 my competition on Dancing with the Stars, welcome to the show. 0:02:53.418 --> 0:02:56.619 Ah, yes, Bruce, my nemesis, speak to you. 0:02:56.579 --> 0:02:58.219 Too, sen to you. 0:02:58.379 --> 0:03:00.258 I do like that we rattled off all the successes. 0:03:00.619 --> 0:03:02.819 I saw the quick step that you did. It was 0:03:03.059 --> 0:03:06.339 very impressive. Do you think that you can dance now 0:03:06.339 --> 0:03:09.698 and add dancer to this long list of success. 0:03:10.299 --> 0:03:13.539 No, I, in all conscience, I don't think I could 0:03:13.538 --> 0:03:15.859 add that to my CV. I think it's like a 0:03:16.698 --> 0:03:20.099 like a freak lightning storm. You know, it lights up 0:03:20.138 --> 0:03:24.179 the sky, quite impressive and awesome, but then you know 0:03:24.418 --> 0:03:26.339 it's gone in the in the blink of an eye, 0:03:26.418 --> 0:03:27.618 and then you forget about it. 0:03:27.739 --> 0:03:30.619 Johan, I, we were like doing our dance practice in 0:03:30.659 --> 0:03:32.459 the same studios, and sometimes I don't know if you 0:03:32.459 --> 0:03:33.858 know this, but I'd pick my head around and what 0:03:34.019 --> 0:03:35.619 you practice because I was like, I want to check 0:03:35.659 --> 0:03:36.459 what the competition is. 0:03:36.699 --> 0:03:38.899 I'm not gonna light I thought I was going to 0:03:38.979 --> 0:03:39.379 be safe. 0:03:39.419 --> 0:03:42.179 I thought I was pretty good. And then first ques, 0:03:43.819 --> 0:03:46.099 first week you beat me. You got twenty four. I 0:03:46.099 --> 0:03:47.979 only got twenty one, and I thought, Wow, this guy's 0:03:48.019 --> 0:03:49.299 pulling out some secrets. 0:03:49.779 --> 0:03:51.259 You're bringing a lot of comedy to. 0:03:51.259 --> 0:03:53.659 Your dance, Like are you banking on that to get 0:03:53.739 --> 0:03:55.339 you through or do you have some secret dance skills 0:03:55.379 --> 0:03:56.459 you're gonna pull out. 0:03:56.779 --> 0:03:59.099 No, I have no secrets, no at all. That I 0:03:59.099 --> 0:04:03.419 think that very first dance that I did was probably it. 0:04:04.379 --> 0:04:08.459 Everything else that follows will be some some refaults. Gami. 0:04:08.499 --> 0:04:10.379 It's an a four piece of paper. We folded it 0:04:10.379 --> 0:04:12.259 into a swan, and that's what you saw in the 0:04:12.259 --> 0:04:14.459 first show. And then the next thing will be slightly 0:04:14.499 --> 0:04:17.058 more limp looking opera house, and then it'll be a 0:04:17.139 --> 0:04:17.899 servs and. 0:04:17.859 --> 0:04:18.739 We won't know what it is. 0:04:18.859 --> 0:04:19.738 I got nothing left. 0:04:19.899 --> 0:04:20.939 This is the problem though. 0:04:21.499 --> 0:04:23.019 Was On the other hand, I could always tell, because 0:04:23.259 --> 0:04:25.059 when britt did look around the corner, I made sure 0:04:25.099 --> 0:04:28.499 I was really bad, just to give her a sent 0:04:29.379 --> 0:04:31.739 she got too much confidence. Yeah, yeah, I did well. 0:04:31.779 --> 0:04:32.539 I was humbled, you know. 0:04:32.579 --> 0:04:34.539 But this is the thing that people don't realize unless 0:04:34.539 --> 0:04:36.339 you've done it. So you get so much time to 0:04:36.339 --> 0:04:38.539 practice the first dance. So often a lot of the 0:04:38.579 --> 0:04:41.179 celebs have the first dance down pat and then the 0:04:41.179 --> 0:04:43.779 wheels just stuff falling off the bandwagon. 0:04:43.259 --> 0:04:44.739 As you get further into the competition. 0:04:45.419 --> 0:04:49.219 Yeah, quite right. It's diminishing returns because you're guaranteed at 0:04:49.339 --> 0:04:52.139 least one appearance. You guarantee two appearances, so the first 0:04:52.139 --> 0:04:55.859 two are usually okay, and then as the Brittain I 0:04:55.859 --> 0:04:59.619 will experience you know this Sunday, you know someone's got 0:04:59.659 --> 0:05:02.459 to go. Yeah, it does get too serious. 0:05:02.499 --> 0:05:04.699 Then what I will say is I'm taking a piece 0:05:04.699 --> 0:05:05.099 a little bit. 0:05:05.259 --> 0:05:07.819 You were a delight to work with and watch, and 0:05:07.819 --> 0:05:11.379 you were actually such a good dancer. But why now, 0:05:11.499 --> 0:05:14.139 because I'm sure you've been last many times over the years. 0:05:14.179 --> 0:05:16.219 What's happening in your life, and you're like, oh, I'm 0:05:16.219 --> 0:05:17.219 gonna put the tap shoes on. 0:05:17.779 --> 0:05:17.979 Yeah. 0:05:18.099 --> 0:05:20.979 Look, I think, in all seriousness, I think I probably 0:05:21.099 --> 0:05:25.899 hit the point where it didn't matter anymore. I had 0:05:25.939 --> 0:05:29.419 done I had nothing to lose by doing it. It 0:05:29.459 --> 0:05:31.939 seemed like something that if I didn't do it now. 0:05:31.979 --> 0:05:34.099 I remember reading about Christopher Walken, you know, and Christopher 0:05:34.139 --> 0:05:37.419 Walken did that dance routine in Weapons of Choice. He 0:05:37.539 --> 0:05:39.179 was about my age, he was about sixty, and he 0:05:39.859 --> 0:05:42.459 actually had trained as a dancer in his early years, 0:05:42.499 --> 0:05:43.939 and he said, look, if I don't do it, if 0:05:43.939 --> 0:05:46.299 I dont get it on a film now, I'll be 0:05:46.339 --> 0:05:48.139 too old to do it. So there was a little 0:05:48.179 --> 0:05:50.179 bit of that in me. I thought, well, if I 0:05:50.259 --> 0:05:52.459 can do it, it'd be good just to see if 0:05:52.499 --> 0:05:55.299 I can. Anyway, and the habit done on probably the 0:05:55.299 --> 0:05:58.819 biggest dance stage on television. To do it. In fact, 0:05:58.899 --> 0:06:01.859 I reckon within two weeks of the show finishing, I 0:06:01.899 --> 0:06:04.219 wouldn't have been able to do it. So I'm done 0:06:04.499 --> 0:06:06.139 and dust it. There's no way I'm ever going to 0:06:06.179 --> 0:06:06.699 do it again. 0:06:07.939 --> 0:06:09.619 This is good as get and you have to ask 0:06:09.659 --> 0:06:10.459 yourself why not? 0:06:10.619 --> 0:06:13.019 I think when an opportunity presents itself, it's not like, 0:06:13.179 --> 0:06:15.339 don't write the reasons why? Maybe say why not? And 0:06:15.779 --> 0:06:17.859 you've probably thought, well, what else have I got gone on? 0:06:18.979 --> 0:06:21.339 Yeah? Exactly, Well, I mean I've done everything in my 0:06:21.419 --> 0:06:24.779 glittering career, and you know, never terribly well. I think 0:06:24.779 --> 0:06:27.099 that one of his dances mediocre. 0:06:26.739 --> 0:06:28.539 Like I am, that's absolutely untrue. 0:06:28.579 --> 0:06:30.059 Did you get a chance? No? 0:06:30.139 --> 0:06:31.859 But you Yeah, I didn't mean that the right way. 0:06:31.979 --> 0:06:33.299 Sorry, do the same thing forever. 0:06:33.459 --> 0:06:34.739 I didn't mean what am I got going on? I 0:06:34.779 --> 0:06:37.179 was speaking. I took that too personally. Sean and I 0:06:37.219 --> 0:06:38.939 were talking on the show about the shows. 0:06:38.659 --> 0:06:40.259 He's got upcoming and stuff like that, and then he 0:06:40.299 --> 0:06:41.178 had a time frame. 0:06:41.219 --> 0:06:41.859 I said that wrong. 0:06:41.979 --> 0:06:45.899 He had space in his schedule to do dance Digger Brittany. 0:06:45.899 --> 0:06:47.099 The way I said that, I was like, Wow, that 0:06:47.139 --> 0:06:48.899 came across like he's not doing anything. 0:06:48.939 --> 0:06:50.299 He had time in his schedule. 0:06:50.499 --> 0:06:50.699 Yeah. 0:06:50.739 --> 0:06:52.699 But also, Sean, what did your wife think of the 0:06:52.739 --> 0:06:54.219 whole thing? When you were like, do you know what, 0:06:54.419 --> 0:06:56.339 I'm going to go away for thirteen hours a day 0:06:56.339 --> 0:06:59.739 and start dancing? Did like was it well received. Was 0:06:59.779 --> 0:07:01.499 it a moment of like, really. 0:07:01.379 --> 0:07:02.299 How did that go down? 0:07:03.899 --> 0:07:06.259 Well, she knew that I loved because I love those 0:07:06.259 --> 0:07:08.299 old MGM musics, and she kind of knew that I'm 0:07:08.539 --> 0:07:12.299 said that anyway. So she's always been very encouraging. In fact, 0:07:12.339 --> 0:07:14.259 she's the one who who said to me when I 0:07:14.299 --> 0:07:16.379 was a lawyer many years ago, she said, look, you 0:07:16.419 --> 0:07:18.699 know you keep talking about comedy and comedy shows, and 0:07:18.779 --> 0:07:20.499 you know, having all these opinions, why don't you just 0:07:20.699 --> 0:07:23.179 take a year off and do it. I wouldn't have 0:07:23.219 --> 0:07:25.899 done it had she not said so, it's all her fault. 0:07:25.979 --> 0:07:28.899 And she was equally supportive, equally supportive on this. 0:07:29.819 --> 0:07:31.939 Well, we can't wait to watch you on Sunday. And 0:07:32.099 --> 0:07:33.899 I mean, although it might have been said that you 0:07:33.939 --> 0:07:36.259 were technically rubbish, that was one of the comments. 0:07:35.859 --> 0:07:38.499 Of no, sure, the judges you were amazing. 0:07:38.539 --> 0:07:41.019 And honestly, I watched on the I watched on the 0:07:41.019 --> 0:07:43.059 couch with my mother in law and we both sat 0:07:43.059 --> 0:07:44.659 there and looked at each other and we were like, yeah, 0:07:44.699 --> 0:07:45.699 it was fantastic. 0:07:46.539 --> 0:07:47.539 We're your bigger fans. 0:07:47.699 --> 0:07:48.539 He's the one to watch. 0:07:48.659 --> 0:07:50.699 I'm looking forward to Sunday too, and it's one of 0:07:50.699 --> 0:07:53.339 BRIT's Hurricane dancers. That's how she describes us. 0:07:53.579 --> 0:07:55.059 All of them are hurricanes. 0:07:57.819 --> 0:08:00.459 Thanks Shan, You're an absolute delight and I absolutely loved 0:08:00.499 --> 0:08:02.979 working with you. And if anyone wants to check it out, 0:08:03.059 --> 0:08:05.899 Dancing the Stars continue seven pm Sunday on seven and 0:08:06.019 --> 0:08:06.659 seven plus. 0:08:06.939 --> 0:08:07.979 Thank you, Thank you, Laura. 0:08:09.419 --> 0:08:11.899 You guys might be familiar with the Reddit thread Am 0:08:11.979 --> 0:08:12.859 I the A Hole? 0:08:13.419 --> 0:08:15.379 Yes? I am. We get a lot of. 0:08:15.299 --> 0:08:17.179 Content from it, doing a lot of content from that 0:08:17.259 --> 0:08:21.019 through Are you laying down now? Britt give her? If 0:08:21.099 --> 0:08:23.499 this was a visual medium. Brittany's actually just laid down 0:08:23.499 --> 0:08:25.259 in her chair. She's say she's doing the rest of 0:08:25.299 --> 0:08:27.259 the show today Friday. 0:08:27.339 --> 0:08:27.819 You give it. 0:08:27.739 --> 0:08:30.299 Home, Okay, we'll hear this story out. Am I the 0:08:30.339 --> 0:08:33.019 A Hole? I want everyone's opinions on this. So this 0:08:33.059 --> 0:08:35.259 woman has been married to her husband for over twenty 0:08:35.379 --> 0:08:38.699 years and she's been dealing with the same issue from him, 0:08:39.099 --> 0:08:41.979 which I'm not really convinced it's an issue firstly, and secondly, 0:08:42.019 --> 0:08:44.299 I don't know whether her retaliation to. 0:08:44.379 --> 0:08:45.619 This issue is justified. 0:08:45.739 --> 0:08:47.859 Well, I do love to be judge and dura, so 0:08:48.099 --> 0:08:48.419 hit me. 0:08:48.579 --> 0:08:48.899 Okay. 0:08:48.939 --> 0:08:51.339 So for twenty years, this woman has been asking her 0:08:51.419 --> 0:08:54.619 husband if he can switch the shower vout of rod 0:08:54.699 --> 0:08:56.339 you know, so like you know, imagine you get into 0:08:56.339 --> 0:08:59.739 a bath shower, so you're standing in the bath. You 0:08:59.779 --> 0:09:02.299 can either have different settings on your shower head, so 0:09:02.459 --> 0:09:04.739 either the water comes out of the shower head or 0:09:04.819 --> 0:09:06.699 you turn the valve and the water comes out of 0:09:06.699 --> 0:09:07.579 your bath I'm. 0:09:07.499 --> 0:09:08.819 Just like that butt shower. 0:09:09.019 --> 0:09:10.979 Yes, and so it can switch between right. 0:09:11.259 --> 0:09:13.899 Anyways, She's been asking her husband for years if when 0:09:13.899 --> 0:09:16.659 he finishes his shower, can he please switch it to 0:09:16.699 --> 0:09:18.979 the bath mode so that way when she gets in 0:09:19.019 --> 0:09:20.819 the shower and turns it on, she doesn't get sprayed 0:09:20.819 --> 0:09:24.019 by cold water. This has been going on back and forth. 0:09:24.019 --> 0:09:25.739 Apparently he will do it for a couple of weeks, 0:09:25.779 --> 0:09:28.579 then he'll forget. She hates getting blasted in the face 0:09:28.619 --> 0:09:31.339 by cold water. She gets upset by it. It's been 0:09:31.379 --> 0:09:33.739 a real point of contention in their relationship, which makes 0:09:33.779 --> 0:09:35.539 me think that they need better things to argue about. 0:09:36.259 --> 0:09:38.139 I know exactly what she's referring to. 0:09:38.259 --> 0:09:41.179 It is really annoying when you think it's on one 0:09:41.219 --> 0:09:42.819 setting and it's not and it blast you with. 0:09:42.779 --> 0:09:45.859 Cold w When you get startled, absolutely well, you know 0:09:45.859 --> 0:09:47.499 when you get in and you're like, didn't expect to 0:09:47.499 --> 0:09:48.979 get sprayed in the face by cold. 0:09:48.819 --> 0:09:49.939 Water in the middle of winter. 0:09:50.019 --> 0:09:52.338 Okay, well, can I bring you my verdict? Wait, I 0:09:52.459 --> 0:09:53.339 already decided that. 0:09:55.259 --> 0:09:56.819 You haven't even heard her retaliation. 0:09:56.979 --> 0:09:59.699 Okay, So, after twenty years of putting up with this, 0:10:00.299 --> 0:10:03.779 week in week out, her husband saying, sorry, I'll try harder, 0:10:03.899 --> 0:10:04.539 I'll be better. 0:10:04.939 --> 0:10:05.619 I'll remember. 0:10:05.819 --> 0:10:09.059 Yeah, this day, she gets in the shower, she gets 0:10:09.099 --> 0:10:10.539 sprayed in the face by cold water. 0:10:10.659 --> 0:10:11.299 She's freezing. 0:10:11.459 --> 0:10:13.939 She gets out, she gets a cup, she fills it 0:10:13.979 --> 0:10:16.099 with cold water. Now her husband is also naked in 0:10:16.099 --> 0:10:18.099 the kitchen. For some reason, it didn't go into details 0:10:18.099 --> 0:10:20.939 as to why that he was naked, And she walked 0:10:20.939 --> 0:10:22.859 straight up to him and she threw a cup of 0:10:22.899 --> 0:10:25.779 freezing cold water in his face, and she said to him, 0:10:25.899 --> 0:10:26.619 does the naked just. 0:10:26.619 --> 0:10:27.578 Have to do with the throw in the face? 0:10:27.619 --> 0:10:29.339 I thought she was gonna throw it somewhere else, because 0:10:29.339 --> 0:10:29.659 I think. 0:10:29.579 --> 0:10:31.179 If you're naked, it makes it worse if you get 0:10:31.179 --> 0:10:32.859 a couple of water thrown at you, because it goes 0:10:32.899 --> 0:10:35.099 down your whole body. Why are you shaking her head 0:10:35.099 --> 0:10:35.579 at me, Grace? 0:10:35.619 --> 0:10:37.819 I think it would be better to be thrown waters. 0:10:38.139 --> 0:10:39.659 Thanks Grace, I'm so good. 0:10:40.379 --> 0:10:42.779 Yeah, because then no clothes get wet. Fair. Yeah, I 0:10:42.779 --> 0:10:43.739 think you just be colder. 0:10:43.859 --> 0:10:46.139 Imagine being naked and someone throwing cold water on your 0:10:46.259 --> 0:10:49.419 entire body in the morning. Anyway, whatever, we're bogged down. Okay, 0:10:49.619 --> 0:10:51.819 So she's gotten on to am I the a hole? 0:10:51.859 --> 0:10:55.139 And her question is did she overreact or should she 0:10:55.419 --> 0:10:59.099 just every morning that her husband now forgets, spray him 0:10:59.179 --> 0:11:00.578 like you do to a dog when they do the 0:11:00.579 --> 0:11:00.979 wrong thing. 0:11:01.179 --> 0:11:01.939 Let me spray bottle. 0:11:02.019 --> 0:11:03.899 Let me just go to the jury. Okay, I have 0:11:04.019 --> 0:11:06.019 my verdict. Yes, she's the a hole. 0:11:06.099 --> 0:11:07.099 I reckon, she's the a hole. 0:11:08.579 --> 0:11:11.099 You're saying it's up to you to switch the shower 0:11:11.179 --> 0:11:13.699 back when you're done, then it's equally up to you 0:11:14.059 --> 0:11:15.979 to make sure the showers on your setting. If it's 0:11:15.979 --> 0:11:17.939 that much of an issue that you're asking your partner 0:11:17.979 --> 0:11:21.379 to remember to switch it back, it's an equal issue 0:11:21.419 --> 0:11:23.179 for you to remember to do it. Like I think 0:11:23.219 --> 0:11:25.099 for you to put that on him, you're just angry 0:11:25.099 --> 0:11:26.299 that you forgot. 0:11:26.419 --> 0:11:30.179 You only that you forgot to do it. Like that's 0:11:30.179 --> 0:11:31.019 so silly to me. 0:11:31.179 --> 0:11:34.259 She's blaming him for something that she could easily fix. 0:11:34.579 --> 0:11:36.699 Yeah, but then if you've forgotten something, you need someone 0:11:36.699 --> 0:11:37.059 to blame. 0:11:37.139 --> 0:11:39.139 It's hard to blame yourself. I'm joking. 0:11:39.379 --> 0:11:41.499 Obviously, I do think she's the eight hole in this situation, 0:11:41.619 --> 0:11:42.379 even though I do like to. 0:11:42.339 --> 0:11:44.099 Blame my husband for things he probably didn't do. 0:11:44.659 --> 0:11:47.539 But I think that the reaction that she's received online 0:11:47.579 --> 0:11:49.579 is absolutely not what she expected. 0:11:49.619 --> 0:11:51.619 I think she was expecting people to be like, yes. 0:11:51.459 --> 0:11:53.499 Get it, queer, the poor thing. You'd be putting up 0:11:53.499 --> 0:11:56.059 with this for twenty years. You've been startled with Cold War, 0:11:56.219 --> 0:12:01.099 and the entire internet was like, your poor husband. 0:12:00.779 --> 0:12:03.259 He's divorcing for sure, do you reckon one hundred percent? 0:12:03.379 --> 0:12:05.299 Imagine what she's reacting over when she finds out he's 0:12:05.339 --> 0:12:05.859 cheating on us. 0:12:09.379 --> 0:12:13.579 Over the weekend. Last weekend, it was my oldest daughter, 0:12:13.819 --> 0:12:16.339 Marley May. It was her six year birthday party. 0:12:16.459 --> 0:12:17.579 Six years. 0:12:18.059 --> 0:12:22.659 What it is, sixth six? It's her sixth year, just 0:12:22.819 --> 0:12:25.859 six on the planet. Yeah, she was six. 0:12:25.859 --> 0:12:28.459 We had a birthday party for her and we had 0:12:28.499 --> 0:12:31.019 a pinata. I think the pinadas are just like the 0:12:31.059 --> 0:12:34.379 most staple kid's birthday party. If you need something to 0:12:34.459 --> 0:12:36.299 do that's going to tie them over for ten minutes, 0:12:36.499 --> 0:12:37.899 and you also want to get all all these out 0:12:37.899 --> 0:12:39.779 of your own house. You stuff a pinada, you hang 0:12:39.819 --> 0:12:41.499 it up, and you let the kids whack it. 0:12:41.419 --> 0:12:43.219 For a while. I'm a pinard A super fan. I'm 0:12:43.219 --> 0:12:43.739 not gonna lie. 0:12:43.819 --> 0:12:44.979 You're a Pinada super fan. 0:12:45.139 --> 0:12:49.259 Every year. I pinada once a year, YadA. People don't 0:12:49.259 --> 0:12:49.859 know this about me. 0:12:50.299 --> 0:12:55.059 I am a secret pinata just by yourself for hi Pinada. 0:12:55.219 --> 0:12:59.499 It is my family's Christmas tradition since literally there's not 0:12:59.539 --> 0:13:00.979 a year we don't have a photo since we were 0:13:01.019 --> 0:13:03.819 like three years old. Like our whole family, all my 0:13:03.899 --> 0:13:07.259 cousins and Nannie's and everyone, pinard is every single Christmas. 0:13:07.259 --> 0:13:09.939 So I posted it on Instagram. Right there was a 0:13:09.979 --> 0:13:11.739 couple of photos from the birthday party that I put 0:13:11.779 --> 0:13:13.699 up and I posted one of my stories on Instagram. 0:13:14.059 --> 0:13:17.819 I never realized that pinadas were controversial. I didn't know this. Well, 0:13:17.819 --> 0:13:20.139 apparently they are. And the reason why I say this is. 0:13:20.099 --> 0:13:21.419 Because not you, I mean. 0:13:21.699 --> 0:13:25.338 Sorry, people like, just have some fun, let's go home. 0:13:26.099 --> 0:13:28.179 No. There was quite a few people in my dms 0:13:28.259 --> 0:13:30.859 who firstly, the question was raised. 0:13:30.619 --> 0:13:34.659 Around the violence of pinadas. There was also questions. 0:13:34.219 --> 0:13:38.939 About you're trying to get a lolly. You're getting a lolly. 0:13:39.299 --> 0:13:41.739 I'm sorry, I can't even I'm gonna go home. 0:13:41.819 --> 0:13:44.619 I even listen. It is okay. Let let me explain 0:13:44.659 --> 0:13:46.979 to you. And when it was raised. 0:13:47.059 --> 0:13:48.979 Firstly, I did read one of these comments that was 0:13:49.019 --> 0:13:50.899 sent to me and I was a bit like, oh, 0:13:50.939 --> 0:13:52.859 I see your point, but I think it's a stretch. 0:13:53.379 --> 0:13:56.819 So we always talk to our kids about not being violent, 0:13:56.939 --> 0:14:00.019 right about like never hit things, don't hit people, don't 0:14:00.059 --> 0:14:03.739 throw your toys, like behave in a way that's showing kindness, 0:14:03.819 --> 0:14:05.099 I guess, and that's the thing that you always try 0:14:05.139 --> 0:14:09.659 and uphold with your children. And then birthday parties or 0:14:09.699 --> 0:14:12.259 once a year, apparently if you're Brittany Hockley, you get 0:14:12.419 --> 0:14:15.218 your kid's favorite thing, like what's their most favorite thing 0:14:15.219 --> 0:14:16.299 in the entire word world? 0:14:16.339 --> 0:14:17.098 A unicorn. 0:14:17.499 --> 0:14:20.659 Let's stuff it, Let's fist it with lollies and then 0:14:21.019 --> 0:14:22.619 give it a noose and hang it up by the 0:14:22.699 --> 0:14:24.659 neck and get all the kids in the line to 0:14:24.779 --> 0:14:25.619 smack it with a pole. 0:14:25.939 --> 0:14:30.299 Now, this person, I know, I know, I know, and 0:14:30.379 --> 0:14:32.379 I agree with you. I was like, guys, I think 0:14:32.419 --> 0:14:34.699 that we've gone too far. The PC police need to 0:14:34.699 --> 0:14:35.259 calm down. 0:14:35.779 --> 0:14:39.539 However, someone then sent to me that there are a 0:14:39.579 --> 0:14:43.739 type of pinnata called a no hit pinada. So it's 0:14:43.739 --> 0:14:46.699 a pinada that's been specifically designed. 0:14:46.539 --> 0:14:49.659 For parents who want to have no violence. 0:14:50.339 --> 0:14:52.339 It's not violent, wait for it. 0:14:52.379 --> 0:14:54.419 And it comes with all these strings in the belly, 0:14:54.579 --> 0:14:56.059 and so it's kind of like a lucky dip. So 0:14:56.059 --> 0:14:58.499 it's got all these different strings that hang down from it, 0:14:58.699 --> 0:15:00.659 and the little kids go and they pull a string 0:15:01.059 --> 0:15:03.219 and then oh, that one didn't do anything. Another pull 0:15:03.259 --> 0:15:05.059 a string that one didn't do anything, And if you 0:15:05.099 --> 0:15:08.139 get the right string, you go boom, and then the 0:15:08.179 --> 0:15:11.299 belly the unicorn opens up and all the lollies rained 0:15:11.339 --> 0:15:13.939 down on the kids downing underneathun does. 0:15:14.219 --> 0:15:17.179 No kid wants to pull a string. 0:15:18.059 --> 0:15:18.419 Guys. 0:15:18.939 --> 0:15:22.139 I'm all for being progressive, but this is ridiculous. 0:15:22.219 --> 0:15:25.339 Like, just okay, hear me out. You don't have to 0:15:25.379 --> 0:15:26.179 have a unicorn. 0:15:26.499 --> 0:15:29.459 Why don't you get a criminal a pinata in the 0:15:29.499 --> 0:15:31.299 shape of a house and call it renovation. 0:15:31.579 --> 0:15:33.659 Teach your kids young, we're knocking the house down, We're 0:15:33.659 --> 0:15:34.219 gonna rebuild. 0:15:34.259 --> 0:15:35.419 It's an episode of the block. 0:15:35.619 --> 0:15:36.579 It's not violent. 0:15:36.779 --> 0:15:39.859 You're literally trying to have fun to it's like like 0:15:39.859 --> 0:15:42.979 playing baseball. You're swinging about what we're gonna not play baseball? Like, 0:15:43.219 --> 0:15:45.579 what's the problem here? Stop taking away all the fun 0:15:45.579 --> 0:15:46.259 from the kids. 0:15:46.459 --> 0:15:48.579 Okay, well you heard it here first. Brittany's against it. 0:15:48.739 --> 0:15:51.899 I'm not giving I can see that, and no one, 0:15:51.979 --> 0:15:53.099