Speaker 1: The Rising Conker Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the
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Speaker 1: We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land,
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Speaker 1: past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal
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Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for
Speaker 1: ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello and
Speaker 1: welcome back to the Riise and Conquer Podcast. Today's episode
Speaker 1: is a Geez Hotline. These are our fun Friday where
Speaker 1: you send in your life dilemmas and I and sometimes
Speaker 1: it's here provide our unqualified two cents on the situation.
Speaker 1: So today we have some juicy questions. We're chatting about
Speaker 1: partners who don't support you on your business ventures or
Speaker 1: just whatever you're doing, Big rend Flag and we've got
Speaker 1: a couple of friend questions. So let's get into it. Though,
Speaker 1: before I do, you know, I give you my recommendation
Speaker 1: of the week. This is not our like, read, watch,
Speaker 1: listen recommendation. So my girlfriend, my bestie sent me this TikTok,
Speaker 1: and actually I'm gonna play the TikTok in the microphone
Speaker 1: so I don't have to explain it to you and
Speaker 1: it will make full sense.
Speaker 2: I'm want to share with you guys something I've been
Speaker 2: doing to manifest exponentially faster. So one of my best girlfriends,
Speaker 2: what we do is we'll send each other a text
Speaker 2: of a pineapple emoji.
Speaker 3: When we do this, it means that we're going to.
Speaker 2: Start talking about a manifestation that we're calling in as
Speaker 2: if it's already happening. So, for instance, they'll be like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, you're not going to believe that I
Speaker 2: meant this.
Speaker 3: Amazing guy today. He asked me how we're going on
Speaker 3: a date on Friday. I'm so excited.
Speaker 2: Then what she'll do is play along and start asking
Speaker 2: me questions like, oh my gosh, tell me all about him,
Speaker 2: what is he like? Where are you guys going to
Speaker 2: go when you're going to wear What this does is
Speaker 2: it actually helps you to tap into the energy of
Speaker 2: it already being done, and when we do that, it
Speaker 2: allows the manifestation to come in so much faster. It
Speaker 2: also helps you because you're speaking things into existence and
Speaker 2: by having a friend play along with you and ask
Speaker 2: you questions.
Speaker 3: It helps you also to tap into your.
Speaker 2: Imagination to be able to actually visualize and create mental imagery.
Speaker 3: Around the thing that you're calling in.
Speaker 2: And when we co create together, it is even more
Speaker 2: intense and energetically powerful. So pick a friend, grab an emoji,
Speaker 2: and start talking all about your manifestations.
Speaker 3: Is if they're already happening.
Speaker 1: Now. I love that. How good is that? So she
Speaker 1: sent that to me and was like, what emoji do
Speaker 1: you want to use? And so we decided we would
Speaker 1: use the unicorn emoji, and every time we sent that
Speaker 1: to each other, we would send a voicy of what
Speaker 1: we're manifesting. So we did this the other day and
Speaker 1: I was like, what are you manifesting? She told me.
Speaker 1: And then what she told me, she was like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, but I'm manifesting this, but I can't have
Speaker 1: this thing until I have this thing. And then I
Speaker 1: was like, that's a block, you know, that's a limiting belief.
Speaker 1: And then she was like, oh my god, I didn't
Speaker 1: realize it was limiting belief. And then we had a
Speaker 1: great chat about it. And then I did the exact
Speaker 1: same thing to her and she said the same. She
Speaker 1: was like, Georgie, that is a block because I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I just don't feel like I can do it because
Speaker 1: of this, this, this, And then she came at me with,
Speaker 1: you know, the reasons that I can achieve this thing
Speaker 1: or have this thing, and it was just so good.
Speaker 1: And now we have been doing this regularly where we yeah,
Speaker 1: send voices, and voices are great because it's not like
Speaker 1: we have to chat on phone. And she recently had
Speaker 1: a baby, so she's got two kids. I've got ivy.
Speaker 1: You know, all my businesses, no one has bloody time.
Speaker 1: So it's really great because she'll send a voice and
Speaker 1: then I'll just listen to it when I can. We
Speaker 1: go back and forth. But we have been doing it
Speaker 1: and it's so good because even though I'm someone who
Speaker 1: writes down what I'm trying to manifest and my goals,
Speaker 1: to actually have a conversation about it just has been
Speaker 1: really really cool. And I feel like I've been talking
Speaker 1: about what I'm trying to manifest, what I will manifest,
Speaker 1: and I just, yeah, I feel like this was such
Speaker 1: a cool thing to do. So me and my bestie
Speaker 1: have been doing it, and I reckon you guys, would
Speaker 1: love to do it. So choose a bestie. Make sure
Speaker 1: they're high vibe, make sure there's someone who can dream
Speaker 1: big and who will be in on this.
Speaker 3: Send them so.
Speaker 4: Honest with you about your blocks.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yeah, because literally my friends sent like what
Speaker 1: she was trying to manifest and she's like, oh, but
Speaker 1: you know I need this because it's within her business.
Speaker 1: She wanted to rebrand for you know, this reason, and
Speaker 1: I was like, but do you even need to rebrand
Speaker 1: because I feel like that's a block that you think,
Speaker 1: you know, the name represents blah blah blah. And we
Speaker 1: went back and forth and yeah it was. It was
Speaker 1: really good. And she's like, oh my god, I hadn't
Speaker 1: even thought about that. So yeah, that's something new I'm
Speaker 1: doing and highly recommend.
Speaker 4: That's such a good recommendation.
Speaker 1: Thank you, dear. All Right, guys, let's get straight into
Speaker 1: the first question.
Speaker 4: Al right. It question one? How can I deal with
Speaker 4: a partner that isn't supportive of me wanting to build
Speaker 4: my own business slash beyond social media. He doesn't like
Speaker 4: influences and doesn't like me showing my face on Instagram.
Speaker 4: We have constant fights about that because I like to
Speaker 4: show the face behind my brand, and I want people
Speaker 4: to see who they are potentially working with. I told
Speaker 4: him I don't want to become an influencer. I just
Speaker 4: want to build my own business. But he isn't supportive
Speaker 4: at all. Would love some advice on how to stop
Speaker 4: all the drama without giving up on my dream. So
Speaker 4: first of all, men are trash.
Speaker 1: Just every episode. This is how it's starting. Okay, so
Speaker 1: let's unpack this. I just yeah, I think this is
Speaker 1: a lot more normal than we would think.
Speaker 4: Really.
Speaker 1: I think so because I have kind of like a
Speaker 1: Unicorn partner, where Tim not Unicorn partner. But Tim has
Speaker 1: been supportive of me being on Instagram from the start,
Speaker 1: even when I used to just post like half naked photos.
Speaker 1: Not half naked photos, but like you know, Instagram glafey
Speaker 1: and guys don't judge me. I am now very lay it.
Speaker 1: I now have substance to me, I swear. But he's
Speaker 1: just been so supportive in the way he's like, do
Speaker 1: what you want, whatever makes you happy. I think you
Speaker 1: need to get to like the bottom of why does
Speaker 1: he care?
Speaker 4: Like is it his insecurities?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Why would he care? Is it a privacy thing?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Is it. He's insecure and he doesn't want you having attention.
Speaker 4: Thing. But it's weird because it's not like she's going
Speaker 4: to be posting any like bikini photos or anything. It's
Speaker 4: just like a video saying meet the owner of this
Speaker 4: small business.
Speaker 1: Which and this is a huge thing, guys. I feel
Speaker 1: like this is very obvious. But brands these days you
Speaker 1: have to show your face. Oh absolutely, Like the brands
Speaker 1: that are blowing up and doing well, you know who
Speaker 1: owns them. You know their story. Their story is the
Speaker 1: reason why you buy that product. Yeah. Absolutely, And I
Speaker 1: think like, for instance, like with naked harvests, huge thing
Speaker 1: we did was me and Cooper being prominent in the
Speaker 1: brand of you know who made these because it's a
Speaker 1: trust thing. And even though the brand is very much
Speaker 1: established away from us and our names. It's not like
Speaker 1: Stevenson's Supperlance or anything like that.
Speaker 4: But that on the list.
Speaker 1: No, oh my god, that's actually a huge thing. I
Speaker 1: could get into it. I could do a whole episode
Speaker 1: on why you shouldn't use your name in branding.
Speaker 4: Maybe we should.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's important because people these days, like
Speaker 1: they love to buy products from other people. Like I
Speaker 1: feel like gone in the days where you just buy
Speaker 1: a product because it's a big brand, Like, yes, that
Speaker 1: still happens, but I feel like people love to know
Speaker 1: the story. I personally love to buy from small businesses
Speaker 1: where I either know the backstory or I know the
Speaker 1: people's faces. So this, like this girl is so on point,
Speaker 1: this is so important, and so it's just really upsets
Speaker 1: me that her partner is not supportive, Like that's a
Speaker 1: bit of a red flag.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And for me, I'm like, that's just a little
Speaker 4: bit controlling, because even if you wanted to post bikini
Speaker 4: photos or half naked photos or naked photos, it's your
Speaker 4: body and yes, he's your partner.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, sorry to interject. One thing. This reminds
Speaker 1: me of girls back in the day where their partner
Speaker 1: told them they couldn't wear a certain dress like out yes,
Speaker 1: And I was like, that's a red flag. Yeah, if
Speaker 1: he's telling you what to wear, that's a red.
Speaker 4: Flag exactly, and like it's just not his place, no
Speaker 4: where the fuck you on, Yeah, exactly, what he's doing
Speaker 4: is very controlling and not okay. And you definitely shouldn't
Speaker 4: stop sharing your face because that will hinder your brain
Speaker 4: progress one and you shouldn't ever have to feel like
Speaker 4: you need to listen to him on what to put
Speaker 4: on your business or personal Instagram or anywhere.
Speaker 1: Ever, just don't listen to it, damned.
Speaker 4: In terms of navigating it, I would just say, have
Speaker 4: a chat with him and set clear boundaries on it.
Speaker 4: Like if it's just something that's better off not spoken
Speaker 4: about because he's great in every other aspect of your relationship,
Speaker 4: then maybe that's just what you kind of have to
Speaker 4: do for the next little bit.
Speaker 1: Lock him. No, I think you need to explain it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like you said, I think you need to be like, hey,
Speaker 1: this is actually a marketing strategy. It's not like me
Speaker 1: wanting to just like put my face over things. This
Speaker 1: is not an attention thing. Yeah, this is a marketing strategy.
Speaker 1: And it's like it's not like a like this is
Speaker 1: what everyone's doing, you mean, it's not like an unknown
Speaker 1: random strategy. So this is a marketing strategy, and this
Speaker 1: is something I want to do for my brand, but
Speaker 1: also I just want to do and I don't appreciate
Speaker 1: you having comments like that. And also if you're not
Speaker 1: going to support me, please just say nothing.
Speaker 4: Yes, And then potentially if he's up to it addressing
Speaker 4: his insecurities around you putting your face on Instagram.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's weird. I would just ask him, what's
Speaker 1: why do you not like it? Like, what's the issue here?
Speaker 1: He needs to address that? Yeah, for sure, And I like,
Speaker 1: I do get it. There are people who don't like
Speaker 1: social media. They don't like the whole thing and whatnot,
Speaker 1: and like that's fine.
Speaker 4: They just don't get it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't get it. They're like, oh, it's just
Speaker 1: a bunch of influencers blah blah blah. But that's fine.
Speaker 1: He's allowed to have his opinions. It's just don't make
Speaker 1: you feel a certain way and make you feel unsupported
Speaker 1: almost to say to him, can you just keep your
Speaker 1: comments to yourself? Because I'm really trying here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, perfect, Okay. Question two a bit of a long one.
Speaker 4: A few weeks ago, a friend and I had a
Speaker 4: disagreement where I pulled her up on some really unkind
Speaker 4: behavior that didn't sit well with me. I should note
Speaker 4: that these habits are reoccurring, but this is the first
Speaker 4: time that I've had the confidence to speak. I was
Speaker 4: immediately unfriended of all socials. I am now being made
Speaker 4: as the villain in the situation being accused of being
Speaker 4: petty and not having the guts to apologize when I
Speaker 4: was only speaking my mind in a mature way. I'm
Speaker 4: going through quite the spiritual slush self development journey, and
Speaker 4: I'm beginning to really step into my power and feel
Speaker 4: like my true self. I have said everything that I
Speaker 4: have to say, but the other person is wanting me
Speaker 4: to apologize. I'm not stubborn, but I really don't want
Speaker 4: to roll over and apologize for speaking my mind and
Speaker 4: standing up for what I believe in. To make it harder,
Speaker 4: our boyfriend's are best friends. My boyfriend has been amazing
Speaker 4: and is supportive of my journey and where my head
Speaker 4: is at. But now the others are still trying to
Speaker 4: get me to apologize and are not understanding where I'm
Speaker 4: coming from when I say I am content with not
Speaker 4: having that negative energy in my life anymore. I don't
Speaker 4: do conflict at allso this is really hard, especially when
Speaker 4: I truly feel like my life is a much more
Speaker 4: positive environment without her in it. I truly believe in
Speaker 4: the universe, and if I'm going to lose friends over
Speaker 4: something like this, then they are the people for me.
Speaker 4: Any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated. Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 4: this is a hard one because it sounds of it
Speaker 4: like a child, like the friend.
Speaker 1: Are the other friends. Yeah, it's kind of hard though,
Speaker 1: because to me this sounds like this person has, like
Speaker 1: she said, gone through a bit of a spiritual awakening.
Speaker 1: I actually spoke to a close friend about this literally
Speaker 1: this morning. And what kind of happens is as you
Speaker 1: evolve and grow, especially if you're going through a self development,
Speaker 1: you know, spiritual journey, you just move like you grow
Speaker 1: as a person in a different way than how you
Speaker 1: have been. Yeah, and so the relationships you have as
Speaker 1: that previous person either grow with you or they don't.
Speaker 1: And I think what has happened here is this person
Speaker 1: has grown, she's found her voice, and she's gone, Actually,
Speaker 1: you're not gonna treat me like this. Here's what I
Speaker 1: have to say about this. This other person is like,
Speaker 1: holy shit, this person's like, you know, brought this up
Speaker 1: with me, and it's probably like a bit shocked once
Speaker 1: an apology or whatever. But it's like, you guys are
Speaker 1: just on two different levels. It's very clear you're on
Speaker 1: a different wavelength. You're on a different frequency than this person.
Speaker 1: And I don't know, if you don't want to apologize,
Speaker 1: you didn't have to apologize. Yeah, I definitely do you agree?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Absolutely, I don't think she should because this person's
Speaker 4: first reaction to her speaking her mind for the first time.
Speaker 4: It's not like it's been an ongoing fine and she's
Speaker 4: the friend's like, I'm done with this now straight away.
Speaker 4: Just unfriends her from stuff I find. God, that's a
Speaker 4: childish yeah, very immature. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And also if she wants to unfriend you and block you, fine,
Speaker 1: but then why should you have to apologize?
Speaker 4: Yeah? If she cut the ties. And this is something
Speaker 4: that's weird because like normally you just turn around and
Speaker 4: be like, don't bother, like just cut him out, leave
Speaker 4: him out. But because boyfriends are friends, okay, Yeah, you
Speaker 4: don't want like you obviously don't want toxic energy when
Speaker 4: you all hang out. And you also don't want to
Speaker 4: have to say to your boyfriend, I'm not coming if
Speaker 4: you're going out with X group of people, because that's
Speaker 4: not fair on him, especially since he's been supportive of
Speaker 4: her not apologizing. But is it just a thing of
Speaker 4: they won't like when the best friend is hang out
Speaker 4: with his best friend, she goes and does her own thing. Yeah,
Speaker 4: girl friends aren't involved.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like I think that's fine, Like I don't
Speaker 1: ever especially now we're a baby, like someone's gonna look
Speaker 1: after Ivy. But like whenever Tim hangs out with his friends,
Speaker 1: I'm never there unless it's for like a thirtieth or
Speaker 1: an engagement party. Yeah, and like in those circumstances, you
Speaker 1: just don't have to speak to that person. Yeah. So
Speaker 1: I don't know, doesn't seem like the biggest deal in saying.
Speaker 4: That, it sounds like a friendship group though, Yeah, because
Speaker 4: she's saying she's been pressured by the others, which I
Speaker 4: can only assume is maybe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the other friends, the other.
Speaker 4: Friends, and you don't want to not hang out with
Speaker 4: your friends just because you don't get along with one
Speaker 4: person's girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you need to weigh up and go
Speaker 1: do I kind of you know, be the bigger person
Speaker 1: and just go, oh, sorry you felt that way, Sorry
Speaker 1: you felt that way. Let's agree to disagree here, and
Speaker 1: so the other friends can just be like, yeah, whatever
Speaker 1: and you can continue or I don't know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's interesting. I would maybe it's easy for me
Speaker 4: to say, don't apologize. But in this situation for the
Speaker 4: sake of peace, if this was a friendship group, not
Speaker 4: if it was just my boyfriend and his best friend
Speaker 4: and his best friend's girlfriend, but if it was a
Speaker 4: group situation and I actually valued the other people in
Speaker 4: the group, and you don't feel like you're growing apart
Speaker 4: from the other people in the group, I maybe just apologize,
Speaker 4: but set a really clear boundary with that person that
Speaker 4: I'm not interested in a relationship with you as a person.
Speaker 4: I'll be nice, I'll be civil, I'll greet you at
Speaker 4: group functions, but don't talk to me outside of that
Speaker 4: kind of thing. Yeah, and just have that relationship.
Speaker 1: I went through something similar and it was much like
Speaker 1: that a tea where I kind of thought, for the
Speaker 1: sake of everyone else not feeling, you know, too uncomfortable,
Speaker 1: let's just agree to disagree. I have no interest in
Speaker 1: you and your life, but I will be civil because
Speaker 1: I'd rather be the bigger person and not create drama. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: That sucks. So that really did stuff, especially because this
Speaker 1: person doesn't like conflict, which I can kind of like
Speaker 1: resonate with. But also proud of your girlfriend for sticking
Speaker 1: up for yourself, and you know, setting boundaries and yeah,
Speaker 1: you've clearly, you know, like you said, found your power,
Speaker 1: which that's a huge step. Yeah, should be like proud
Speaker 1: of yourself. And it's kind of sucks that it's, you know,
Speaker 1: come to that. But also I think, look at this again,
Speaker 1: Like I said, I was just chatting to a friend
Speaker 1: about this this morning. I think what's really exciting about
Speaker 1: this is when old friendships break away. Don't see it
Speaker 1: as a negative because you're just creating space for new
Speaker 1: things to come into your life.
Speaker 4: Yes, I love it alrighty. Last question, hotline help. I
Speaker 4: have a friend who I'm very close with, but I've
Speaker 4: been recently finding out that she is lying and keeping
Speaker 4: things from me. They aren't really lies that I can justify,
Speaker 4: not that any lies technically are, but they're just pointless
Speaker 4: and will obviously be caught out. I've already tried confronting
Speaker 4: her and trying to tell her it's unnecessary, but it
Speaker 4: just seems to be a bit never ending. For context,
Speaker 4: an example of this would be I saw her that
Speaker 4: she had her hair done recently, and I asked her
Speaker 4: about it, and she said she hasn't had her hair done,
Speaker 4: and then the next day shares opposed to Instagram from
Speaker 4: being at the hairdressers before I saw her. It's all
Speaker 4: very trivial stuff, and I just don't understand.
Speaker 1: I had a bit of a laugh at this one.
Speaker 1: It's because I also don't understand is this person like
Speaker 1: a compulsive liar? Because that's the thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but what is like why people compulsive liars?
Speaker 1: I don't know. We need to research it, I think,
Speaker 1: especially like you could go back to this person and
Speaker 1: just be like, like, why did you lie about this?
Speaker 1: And just like and then if their response is something
Speaker 1: where you're like, just an excuse, just an excuse, and
Speaker 1: they're like, oh shit, I'm a dill. I'm actually really silly.
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to lie about this, but I did.
Speaker 1: But if their excuse is kind of like, you know,
Speaker 1: oh I didn't lie, like defensive, it's kind of like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, why would you want to be friends
Speaker 1: with someone who treats you like that? Because even though
Speaker 1: it's trivial stuff, they're still lying to you and that's
Speaker 1: still deceit. And do you want to have a friendship
Speaker 1: where there's deceit? Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, why is it easy for them to even
Speaker 4: lie to you? In the first place.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a bit scary. I actually have a similar
Speaker 1: story with a friend literally years ago, and it was
Speaker 1: it was like little little bit it makes you feel stupid,
Speaker 1: I know, Oh my god. So you know what she
Speaker 1: used to do so with this is a friend i'd
Speaker 1: like party with. So back in the day when I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, eighteen and so you know, I
Speaker 1: would all get drunk and I have drinks and Georgia
Speaker 1: lump to party back in the day. She's a mom now,
Speaker 1: and she would often the night after be like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: and then you did this and almost say something like embarrassing,
Speaker 1: But it's like I had total like recollition, recollition, recollection, recollection,
Speaker 1: wow of the night. And I'm like, I didn't do that,
Speaker 1: but she was. And she did it to like me
Speaker 1: and my friend all the time. And then we would
Speaker 1: talk after and be like, so she just gasol it
Speaker 1: us yes, and we would be like why, she's just
Speaker 1: such a liar and it's so bit almost like lying
Speaker 1: but also over exaggerating things. And we just used to
Speaker 1: think of as the weirdest thing. But it started off
Speaker 1: like that, but then she used to lie about bigger
Speaker 1: things that were very drama. There was lots of drama
Speaker 1: in the group and just kind of yeah stuff that
Speaker 1: caused drama that I was just like, oh, fuck, this
Speaker 1: is unnecessary, and it just got to the point where
Speaker 1: I thought even so, at the start, I didn't mind.
Speaker 1: I just like, Oh, she's funny, She's just silly, She's
Speaker 1: so silly. What a silly girl. She's a silly girl.
Speaker 1: And then it got to the point where I had
Speaker 1: that or I got older, and I just thought, we
Speaker 1: all have limited energy and time. I do not want
Speaker 1: to spend my time with someone who even lies about
Speaker 1: small things, because what if something big happens, You're always
Speaker 1: going to question and you're always going to be like, wait,
Speaker 1: is she lying? Is she telling the truth? I actually had.
Speaker 4: This yeah with a friend in a friend group a
Speaker 4: while ago, and he which is weird because it's not
Speaker 4: normally guys, but he sort of just like puppeteered situations. Yes,
Speaker 4: And I ended up confronting him, not in the best way.
Speaker 1: I was like, drama.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would recommend that if you confront or when
Speaker 4: you confront this friend, just make sure it's calm. Because
Speaker 4: I went a bit at tacky and sent a massive
Speaker 4: paragraph being like, I know you did this this, how
Speaker 4: did that work out?
Speaker 1: He left the group chat? Oh my god, you did
Speaker 1: it in a group chat.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, I did it in a private chat, but
Speaker 4: then he left the group chat.
Speaker 1: But I just like powered through. That's something the puppeteer thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that is that's huge, And that's something that I realized
Speaker 1: in this previous person one hundred percent. I feel like
Speaker 1: they were addicted to drama and they liked like stirring.
Speaker 4: The pot and just like the control.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, huge. And I would notice she would almost
Speaker 1: do it in a way of like try and say
Speaker 1: things to like put a wedge between me and another
Speaker 1: girl or interesting. Yeah, and they were like minor things,
Speaker 1: but then like in the long run, it builds up,
Speaker 1: It builds up. Yeah, interesting, I'm so sorry. Back to
Speaker 1: the question. Yeah, I just think, you know, you could
Speaker 1: be like me back in the day and be like
Speaker 1: silly girl. Oh she's so funny, she's so silly. But
Speaker 1: I would not keep this And this is what I
Speaker 1: did with this person. I always kept her at a
Speaker 1: certain length because I just knew I could not be
Speaker 1: close to this person. Yeah, because I just couldn't trust her.
Speaker 1: But then it got to the point where I got older,
Speaker 1: and my friendship so call got a lot smaller, and
Speaker 1: I just got to the point where I thought, why
Speaker 1: am I wasting my time and energy in someone like this?
Speaker 1: They clearly got issues?
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then yeah, maybe it's just if she's that
Speaker 4: close of a friend and you value her popo message
Speaker 4: and be like, look, this is how I've been feeling
Speaker 4: with the thing you've been saying. I do value, happy
Speaker 4: to address it, but cannot go on like this, yeah,
Speaker 4: because it's a waste of time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, or like you could just ghost not ghost her,
Speaker 1: but like if you don't, because I get that that's
Speaker 1: like the mature thing to do it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But also like I'm someone who's like sometimes I just
Speaker 1: don't have the time and energy to confront people.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's just like just like distance yourself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, slowly distance myself from them because it's like a
Speaker 1: relationship where I just don't care about them that much.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Brutal but honest.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And if they come back a better person, then
Speaker 4: give them another shot.
Speaker 1: But yeah, one d sent I all about second chances.
Speaker 1: That's it. Ah, that's it, guys. I hope you enjoyed.
Speaker 1: Geez hotline. We will be back in your ears on
Speaker 1: Tuesday for another KIP episode. What does kipstand for?
Speaker 4: Knowledge is power?
Speaker 1: Knowledge is power? I forget every time I go to
Speaker 1: say called KPI. KPIs because you know I'm in the
Speaker 1: nah Warehouse FLA.
Speaker 4: Performance Indicator episodes, Slave Driver over here.
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