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Speaker 1: The Rising Conker Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of the

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Speaker 1: land which this episode is being recorded, the yugen Bear region.

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Speaker 1: and terrestrid Islander peoples. Today, Hello and welcome back to

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Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is the podcast for

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Speaker 1: ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello and

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Speaker 1: welcome back to the Riise and Conquer Podcast. Today's episode

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Speaker 1: is a Geez Hotline. These are our fun Friday where

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Speaker 1: you send in your life dilemmas and I and sometimes

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Speaker 1: it's here provide our unqualified two cents on the situation.

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Speaker 1: So today we have some juicy questions. We're chatting about

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Speaker 1: partners who don't support you on your business ventures or

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Speaker 1: just whatever you're doing, Big rend Flag and we've got

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Speaker 1: a couple of friend questions. So let's get into it. Though,

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Speaker 1: before I do, you know, I give you my recommendation

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Speaker 1: of the week. This is not our like, read, watch,

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Speaker 1: listen recommendation. So my girlfriend, my bestie sent me this TikTok,

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Speaker 1: and actually I'm gonna play the TikTok in the microphone

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Speaker 1: so I don't have to explain it to you and

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Speaker 1: it will make full sense.

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Speaker 2: I'm want to share with you guys something I've been

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Speaker 2: doing to manifest exponentially faster. So one of my best girlfriends,

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Speaker 2: what we do is we'll send each other a text

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Speaker 2: of a pineapple emoji.

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Speaker 3: When we do this, it means that we're going to.

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Speaker 2: Start talking about a manifestation that we're calling in as

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Speaker 2: if it's already happening. So, for instance, they'll be like,

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Speaker 3: Amazing guy today. He asked me how we're going on

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Speaker 2: Then what she'll do is play along and start asking

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Speaker 2: me questions like, oh my gosh, tell me all about him,

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Speaker 2: what is he like? Where are you guys going to

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Speaker 2: go when you're going to wear What this does is

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Speaker 2: it actually helps you to tap into the energy of

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Speaker 2: it already being done, and when we do that, it

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Speaker 2: allows the manifestation to come in so much faster. It

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Speaker 2: also helps you because you're speaking things into existence and

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Speaker 2: by having a friend play along with you and ask

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Speaker 3: It helps you also to tap into your.

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Speaker 2: Imagination to be able to actually visualize and create mental imagery.

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Speaker 3: Around the thing that you're calling in.

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Speaker 2: And when we co create together, it is even more

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Speaker 3: Is if they're already happening.

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Speaker 1: Now. I love that. How good is that? So she

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Speaker 1: sent that to me and was like, what emoji do

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Speaker 1: use the unicorn emoji, and every time we sent that

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Speaker 1: And then what she told me, she was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: And now we have been doing this regularly where we yeah,

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Speaker 4: Al right. It question one? How can I deal with

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Speaker 1: Which and this is a huge thing, guys. I feel

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's important because people these days, like

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Speaker 4: Flag exactly, and like it's just not his place, no

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Speaker 4: In terms of navigating it, I would just say, have

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Speaker 4: Like if it's just something that's better off not spoken

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Speaker 1: And it's like it's not like a like this is

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Speaker 1: is something I want to do for my brand, but

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Speaker 1: also I just want to do and I don't appreciate

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Speaker 4: Yes, And then potentially if he's up to it addressing

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's weird. I would just ask him, what's

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, huge. And I would notice she would almost

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Speaker 1: It builds up. Yeah, interesting, I'm so sorry. Back to

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Speaker 1: certain length because I just knew I could not be

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Speaker 1: But then it got to the point where I got older,

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Speaker 1: I just got to the point where I thought, why

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Speaker 1: They clearly got issues?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then yeah, maybe it's just if she's that

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Speaker 4: and be like, look, this is how I've been feeling

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Speaker 4: to address it, but cannot go on like this, yeah,

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Speaker 4: because it's a waste of time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, or like you could just ghost not ghost her,

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Speaker 1: but like if you don't, because I get that that's

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Speaker 1: like the mature thing to do it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But also like I'm someone who's like sometimes I just

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Speaker 1: don't have the time and energy to confront people.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's just like just like distance yourself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, slowly distance myself from them because it's like a

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Brutal but honest.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And if they come back a better person, then

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Speaker 4: give them another shot.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, one d sent I all about second chances.

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Speaker 1: That's it. Ah, that's it, guys. I hope you enjoyed.

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Speaker 1: Geez hotline. We will be back in your ears on

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Speaker 1: Tuesday for another KIP episode. What does kipstand for?

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Speaker 4: Knowledge is power?

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Speaker 1: Knowledge is power? I forget every time I go to

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Speaker 1: say called KPI. KPIs because you know I'm in the

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Speaker 1: nah Warehouse FLA.

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Speaker 4: Performance Indicator episodes, Slave Driver over here.

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