WEBVTT - Here’s why you don’t have your dream life yet…

0:00:00.440 --> 0:00:04.440
<v Speaker 1>The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of

0:00:04.559 --> 0:00:07.880
<v Speaker 1>the land which this episode is being recorded. We further

0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:12.120
<v Speaker 1>acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea

0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:13.000
<v Speaker 1>and community.

0:00:13.440 --> 0:00:14.040
<v Speaker 2>We pay our.

0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:17.360
<v Speaker 1>Respect to their elders past and present and extend that

0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:31.240
<v Speaker 1>respect to all Aboriginal and terrest raid Islander peoples. Today. Hello,

0:00:31.400 --> 0:00:34.760
<v Speaker 1>and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This

0:00:34.840 --> 0:00:37.519
<v Speaker 1>is the podcast for ordinary people who want to do

0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:47.880
<v Speaker 1>extraordinary things.

0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:52.760
<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to the Rise and Conquer podcast.

0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:56.520
<v Speaker 1>It is your host, Georgie Stevenson, and today we are

0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:59.640
<v Speaker 1>going to talk about why you might not be achieving

0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:06.720
<v Speaker 1>your goals. Exciting one this one, So just a fair warning.

0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:10.119
<v Speaker 2>This is a bit of a tough love episode. You guys.

0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:13.360
<v Speaker 1>Know, I get on these really, I get on a

0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:16.040
<v Speaker 1>bit of a mission and I really love to, you know,

0:01:16.680 --> 0:01:19.440
<v Speaker 1>dish it out, but I do it with love and

0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like it's necessary and it's kind of like,

0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:25.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, guys, we're at the end of jan let's

0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:26.640
<v Speaker 1>kind of check in with ourselves.

0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:28.600
<v Speaker 2>So if you're someone who has.

0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:31.280
<v Speaker 1>A big dream or goal, which I'm sure you are,

0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:34.679
<v Speaker 1>if you're listening, to this potty. But if you feel

0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:38.840
<v Speaker 1>like you're getting nowhere or you're constantly feeling stuck, this

0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:48.520
<v Speaker 1>may be exactly what you need to be. But before

0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:53.920
<v Speaker 1>we get into that, but before we get into the episode,

0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:58.400
<v Speaker 1>of course, guys, the Rise and Conquer Project is currently

0:01:58.480 --> 0:02:02.880
<v Speaker 1>open for enrollment. It is the last two weeks to enroll,

0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:03.360
<v Speaker 1>hair tier.

0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:04.800
<v Speaker 2>Is that right, am my mathing?

0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:05.040
<v Speaker 1>Right?

0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:06.240
<v Speaker 2>You are mathing correctly.

0:02:06.320 --> 0:02:07.760
<v Speaker 1>He's the last two weeks.

0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:08.680
<v Speaker 2>Guys.

0:02:09.080 --> 0:02:12.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited about this round because I'm pretty sure

0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:14.839
<v Speaker 1>our last live round, isn't it, dear.

0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:18.680
<v Speaker 2>Yes, we're very sure of that.

0:02:21.960 --> 0:02:25.600
<v Speaker 1>We're just having internal discussions vir on the potty, guys. No,

0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:28.760
<v Speaker 1>so at the moment, we have gone through our calendar

0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:31.520
<v Speaker 1>and everything and this is literally going to be the

0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:35.800
<v Speaker 1>last live round to do the project. Not last live round, sorry,

0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:38.920
<v Speaker 1>the only live round of twenty twenty three plan.

0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:42.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh it is the first and last. Yeah, I know.

0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:44.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, is this making any sense in my head?

0:02:44.760 --> 0:02:45.400
<v Speaker 2>I hope so.

0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:49.080
<v Speaker 1>But basically, at like, you know, if you want to

0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:51.000
<v Speaker 1>be in the Facebook group, if you want to be

0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:54.239
<v Speaker 1>like with the people doing the things with the live

0:02:54.360 --> 0:02:57.600
<v Speaker 1>calls with me, I'm really excited too because I probably

0:02:57.600 --> 0:02:59.400
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't tell you that, Stammy, it's gonna give me the

0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:02.520
<v Speaker 1>side eye, but I'm gonna throw in some like bonus

0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:05.440
<v Speaker 1>extra calls because I just feel like, you know, I

0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:06.480
<v Speaker 1>created this course.

0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:08.720
<v Speaker 2>What was that like three or four years ago? Now, yeah,

0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:09.919
<v Speaker 2>it's been three or four years, and.

0:03:09.840 --> 0:03:12.440
<v Speaker 1>There's just like a couple of you know, I guess

0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:17.760
<v Speaker 1>experiences that I've had personally about the principles and tools

0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:19.520
<v Speaker 1>that I talk about that I'm I kind of want

0:03:19.520 --> 0:03:22.000
<v Speaker 1>to I want to bring you into that new experience

0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:26.160
<v Speaker 1>because of course we're evolving. So I'm really excited because

0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:28.000
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna have it's gonna have a you know, a

0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.359
<v Speaker 1>whole new twist to it. But of course, if you've

0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:33.120
<v Speaker 1>previously done the project, you get all that content, so

0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:36.720
<v Speaker 1>do not stress. But I'm very excited about this live round.

0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:38.840
<v Speaker 1>And also it's like the start of the year, so

0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:41.920
<v Speaker 1>I feel like everyone's just got this energy where they're like, fuck, yes,

0:03:42.440 --> 0:03:45.840
<v Speaker 1>let's do the thing. And I cannot wait for the

0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:47.880
<v Speaker 1>transformations me either.

0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:48.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm feel excited.

0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:53.000
<v Speaker 1>If you guys didn't hear our amazing episode on Friday,

0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:56.960
<v Speaker 1>which was a whole bunch of manifesting stories and a

0:03:57.000 --> 0:04:00.320
<v Speaker 1>whole bunch of alumni from the project who did the

0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:04.560
<v Speaker 1>project and then just fucking had amazing stories like me

0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:07.040
<v Speaker 1>and a tear joke all the time because we're like shocked,

0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:09.640
<v Speaker 1>but like, okay, we know, like we know we matter

0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:12.000
<v Speaker 1>first all the time, and we like hear these stories,

0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:14.160
<v Speaker 1>but we're like, oh my god, it's amazing.

0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:15.480
<v Speaker 2>It was.

0:04:17.000 --> 0:04:19.039
<v Speaker 1>So make sure you listen to that episode if you haven't.

0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:22.760
<v Speaker 1>But the project is open for enrollment. We don't start

0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:27.880
<v Speaker 1>until feb thirteenth. Feb thirteenth, thank you. I look at

0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:30.800
<v Speaker 1>you every type, even though I should know this, So

0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:32.680
<v Speaker 1>you've still got a bit of time to join.

0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:36.680
<v Speaker 2>But guys, it's gonna be good. It's gonna be good.

0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.560
<v Speaker 1>All the details are on the websites. So in conclusion, guys,

0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:42.280
<v Speaker 1>if you're on the fence and you're feeling that poll,

0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:45.760
<v Speaker 1>listen to it. It is your intuition. And trust me,

0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:50.040
<v Speaker 1>like anytime you do personal development, like you just you

0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:54.080
<v Speaker 1>can't go wrong if you apply yourself. No, and especially

0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:56.960
<v Speaker 1>if you're getting a call to this course, it is

0:04:57.040 --> 0:04:59.160
<v Speaker 1>for a reason and it means like big things are

0:04:59.160 --> 0:05:00.320
<v Speaker 1>on the horizon.

0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:04.320
<v Speaker 2>It is your time. Should we just send me intro

0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:12.440
<v Speaker 2>this I'm so sorry, guys. It's like, but before we

0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:16.279
<v Speaker 2>get into the how has your week been, Georgie, thanks

0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:19.800
<v Speaker 2>for asking. You're welcome give us a little update, and

0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:20.880
<v Speaker 2>my week has been good.

0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:24.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. You guys may have seen it, but

0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:27.159
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you saw my stories like a couple,

0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:29.280
<v Speaker 1>I'll just say a couple of weeks ago, but it

0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:35.080
<v Speaker 1>was actually last year. Last year, I did a sneaky

0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:39.800
<v Speaker 1>trip to Sydney with Ellie and my partnerships manager, Jacinta,

0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:42.560
<v Speaker 1>and I may have teased that we were like at

0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:44.760
<v Speaker 1>a big shoot for a household name and I was

0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:49.040
<v Speaker 1>very excited. And if you guys missed it, the announcement

0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:54.359
<v Speaker 1>went live yesterday and guys, I'm officially the face of

0:05:54.760 --> 0:06:00.760
<v Speaker 1>Best and Less Valentine's Day campaign. Oh my gosh, So

0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:03.160
<v Speaker 1>go watch the campaign video if you haven't seen it.

0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:06.560
<v Speaker 1>So what's really special about this and the reason why

0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:09.720
<v Speaker 1>I said yes to this campaign was, first of all,

0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:11.760
<v Speaker 1>I grew up buying from Best and Less and I

0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:14.000
<v Speaker 1>buy a lot of Ivy's basics from Best and Less

0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:16.040
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of like just like my underwear and stuff.

0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:17.640
<v Speaker 2>I feel like when.

0:06:17.560 --> 0:06:20.479
<v Speaker 1>I think of my childhood and shopping it is best

0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:20.919
<v Speaker 1>and less.

0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:22.160
<v Speaker 2>That's so cute.

0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:24.880
<v Speaker 1>So when they contacted me, I was like, oh my god,

0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:29.039
<v Speaker 1>this full circle moment. And then also when they contacted

0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:31.039
<v Speaker 1>me and were like, we want you to be the

0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:35.039
<v Speaker 1>face of an underwear you know campaign, I literally thought

0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:40.760
<v Speaker 1>to myself, I couldn't think of fucking anything worse. Me

0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:43.760
<v Speaker 1>half naked in front of all these people. I could

0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:46.359
<v Speaker 1>not think of anything worst. And then that's when I

0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:49.560
<v Speaker 1>had this huge epiphany moment that I had not yet

0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:53.160
<v Speaker 1>accepted my postpart and body, and that was an issue

0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:56.120
<v Speaker 1>because I can't. I thought I had yeah, and I

0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:57.840
<v Speaker 1>thought I had done all the work and I was

0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:01.720
<v Speaker 1>feeling so good. But that was my initial thought. And

0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:03.839
<v Speaker 1>that's when I thought, well, I'm gonna have to fucking

0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:06.520
<v Speaker 1>do it. Oh my gosh, I need to get over

0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:08.960
<v Speaker 1>myself and get over this like weird thing.

0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:10.920
<v Speaker 2>I love that that was your reaction.

0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:15.440
<v Speaker 1>I know that's I because I just said, like, it

0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:17.640
<v Speaker 1>was so interesting I was so aware.

0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:19.240
<v Speaker 2>Of And then I was like, well, I'm literally gonna

0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:19.840
<v Speaker 2>have to do it.

0:07:19.760 --> 0:07:23.520
<v Speaker 1>Now, and so I went along.

0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:24.480
<v Speaker 2>I did the shoot.

0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:27.160
<v Speaker 1>I was half naked in front of this whole Oh

0:07:27.160 --> 0:07:30.360
<v Speaker 1>my god, guys like shooting for a household name like

0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:32.560
<v Speaker 1>pest and Lass, like it is a whole it's a

0:07:32.600 --> 0:07:34.840
<v Speaker 1>whole other thing. There was like twenty people in the shoot,

0:07:35.280 --> 0:07:38.320
<v Speaker 1>and it's like the photographer was like a famous photographer.

0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:42.840
<v Speaker 1>He shot like guy Sebastian and shit cool, so many

0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:45.720
<v Speaker 1>other like babies people, but just so high level that

0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:48.920
<v Speaker 1>I hadn't really you know, been around. So the whole

0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:52.200
<v Speaker 1>experience was so cool and just the whole team was

0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:54.160
<v Speaker 1>so epic and to learn.

0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:54.560
<v Speaker 2>About it all.

0:07:55.200 --> 0:08:01.160
<v Speaker 1>But then after it, I just felt so liberate because

0:08:01.200 --> 0:08:03.840
<v Speaker 1>I went and did the thing I feared.

0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:05.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm so proud of you, Thank you so much.

0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:08.840
<v Speaker 1>Onto, and it's like I was like, you know, you

0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:11.960
<v Speaker 1>know what, I am going to show off my postpartum

0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:14.000
<v Speaker 1>body and I am going to be insanely proud and

0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:17.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna sit here and you know, be my authentic self.

0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:21.600
<v Speaker 1>And literally, so they told me before the whole campaign

0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:26.280
<v Speaker 1>was Valentine's Day campaign literally going to be across all

0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:27.640
<v Speaker 1>their stores.

0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:30.360
<v Speaker 2>On YouTube ads and on TV ads.

0:08:30.640 --> 0:08:35.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, so like brook broadcasted everywhere. And so

0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:37.920
<v Speaker 1>that's when I was like, oh my god, no, I

0:08:38.080 --> 0:08:40.520
<v Speaker 1>have to do this and act I'm just so glad

0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:42.800
<v Speaker 1>I did it because after that shoot it was like

0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:46.680
<v Speaker 1>a clear turning point where I worked through my shit.

0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:49.200
<v Speaker 1>Obviously there was a lot of like journaling involved too,

0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:53.160
<v Speaker 1>and then the actual physical going there and turning up

0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:58.120
<v Speaker 1>and like like standing in those no, like my how

0:08:58.160 --> 0:09:00.520
<v Speaker 1>I look is not my you know, self worth? And

0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:03.400
<v Speaker 1>I am fucking proud of who I am and how

0:09:03.440 --> 0:09:06.880
<v Speaker 1>I physically am right now. Yeah, it was so liberating.

0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:10.280
<v Speaker 1>So I know you can't see that in the campaign video,

0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:13.400
<v Speaker 1>but it's just so beautiful and like sacred to me

0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:16.079
<v Speaker 1>because that's the story behind the campaign video.

0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:18.959
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, love, that's so much.

0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:21.000
<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to show you, like the full campaign video.

0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:23.760
<v Speaker 2>Tea, I can't wait to say. I saw it yesterday.

0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:31.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, of course. How was your week? It was

0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:32.400
<v Speaker 2>pretty good, pretty chill.

0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:35.440
<v Speaker 3>I think having Thursdays a public holiday really threw me

0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:37.319
<v Speaker 3>off though, because I feel like I had a weekend

0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:39.240
<v Speaker 3>and then I did and then I worked for a day,

0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:40.520
<v Speaker 3>and then I had a weekend again.

0:09:40.679 --> 0:09:42.640
<v Speaker 2>I know on Friday we were like what the fuck

0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:46.600
<v Speaker 2>is happening? Yeah? Is it Monday? Is it Wednesday?

0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:52.400
<v Speaker 1>But also kind of nice to have like a little midwek.

0:09:52.280 --> 0:09:54.400
<v Speaker 2>Publicay, nice to have a little midweek brain.

0:09:54.880 --> 0:09:58.200
<v Speaker 1>I've worked a lot anyway, but yeah, it definitely threw

0:09:58.240 --> 0:09:58.640
<v Speaker 1>me off too.

0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:01.079
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like what days. Thank god we're back to a

0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:04.800
<v Speaker 2>normal week. I know. Grateful for no public holidays is going.

0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:11.719
<v Speaker 1>All right in saying that, let's get into the episode.

0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:20.520
<v Speaker 1>All right, guys, but a tough love today.

0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so if you're not in the mood, maybe.

0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:29.199
<v Speaker 1>Maybe skip this episode a little. I think I've expressed

0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:32.680
<v Speaker 1>to you guys that a big goal of mine, kind

0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:35.640
<v Speaker 1>of like a resolution, was at the end of last year,

0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:38.640
<v Speaker 1>me and my girlfriend went away and we did a

0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:41.520
<v Speaker 1>full audit of our year and our lives and then

0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:45.080
<v Speaker 1>like created some goals and just something I realized that

0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:50.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't do is audit myself and like do it

0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:55.360
<v Speaker 1>more often a year, because you know, the reflection is

0:10:55.440 --> 0:10:59.120
<v Speaker 1>such an amazing tool. So, you know, we're getting towards

0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:01.800
<v Speaker 1>the end of the first month of a brand new

0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:03.560
<v Speaker 1>year twenty three.

0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:05.320
<v Speaker 2>I know, dude, Oh.

0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:08.839
<v Speaker 1>My god, these these workdays are going so fast, wait

0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:09.520
<v Speaker 1>too quickly.

0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:11.680
<v Speaker 2>I just I can't but love that.

0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:16.960
<v Speaker 1>And so it's gonna be a bit of a tough love,

0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:20.320
<v Speaker 1>a bit of an audit, just like a let's have

0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:26.000
<v Speaker 1>a good think about what we've brought to the first

0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:30.280
<v Speaker 1>month of this new year, where we currently are, where

0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:34.480
<v Speaker 1>we're showing up in different avenues of our life, and

0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:37.920
<v Speaker 1>just be really honest with ourselves and go from there.

0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:40.480
<v Speaker 2>So I'm not attacking you.

0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:47.720
<v Speaker 1>If you're triggered, use this as this is interesting that

0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:50.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting triggered or upset by this. Maybe this is

0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:55.040
<v Speaker 1>what I need to look into. So like a big thing,

0:11:56.640 --> 0:11:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I just think it's so interesting and look it's it's something.

0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:02.880
<v Speaker 2>It's a trap that I fall into.

0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:09.000
<v Speaker 1>Is really having these exciting big goals and wanting this

0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:14.200
<v Speaker 1>big life and wanting all these things, but not doing

0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:16.520
<v Speaker 1>anything to change your current reality.

0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:18.880
<v Speaker 2>Hey have you done that?

0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:24.120
<v Speaker 1>Yes, It's literally a conversation I have to have with

0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:28.040
<v Speaker 1>myself and remind myself of every time I don't want

0:12:28.080 --> 0:12:30.720
<v Speaker 1>to do the work towards a goal, I have to

0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:33.000
<v Speaker 1>like almost get into like next level a tier and

0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:34.239
<v Speaker 1>go stop.

0:12:33.960 --> 0:12:34.720
<v Speaker 2>Being a little bitch.

0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:38.560
<v Speaker 3>Like if you want something, you have to work for it,

0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:40.520
<v Speaker 3>and you're going to have to make changes because the

0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:42.719
<v Speaker 3>reason you are where you are is because you've been

0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:44.079
<v Speaker 3>doing exactly what you're doing.

0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:49.240
<v Speaker 1>Yes, so if you want something else, I actually have

0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:52.600
<v Speaker 1>to make conversation with my fitness coach about this this morning,

0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:56.320
<v Speaker 1>and I just I hate that he wants me to change,

0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:57.679
<v Speaker 1>but he's like, this.

0:12:57.520 --> 0:12:58.800
<v Speaker 2>Is literally what you're paying this.

0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:03.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, can't I just do the same things and

0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:04.840
<v Speaker 3>you make it magic and fix, you know?

0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:08.240
<v Speaker 2>And he's like, what is happening right now? I'm like,

0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:09.760
<v Speaker 2>I know, I'm the worst person.

0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:13.040
<v Speaker 1>No, So I think I think this is such an

0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:18.200
<v Speaker 1>amazing thing of just getting really really honest, because it's like,

0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:22.360
<v Speaker 1>like you just you can't play with the same lovie people,

0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:26.080
<v Speaker 1>the same job you keep complaining about, you know, the

0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:30.760
<v Speaker 1>same routines that make you feel like shit and expect

0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:34.400
<v Speaker 1>a different result, because it's like, did you come into

0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:36.840
<v Speaker 1>this new year and you have all these amazing goals

0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:43.959
<v Speaker 1>and intentions and then show up in the exact same way?

0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:49.400
<v Speaker 1>Interesting or like maybe not to be as brutal, but

0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:52.520
<v Speaker 1>it's like where in your life are you wanting more

0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:55.800
<v Speaker 1>but you're not willing to change or you're not willing

0:13:55.960 --> 0:14:00.880
<v Speaker 1>to go to the extent of being curious to find

0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:04.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, something else or to find out what it

0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:04.880
<v Speaker 1>could be.

0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:10.560
<v Speaker 3>Like, Yeah, I think that's a big one, and I

0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:12.520
<v Speaker 3>think it's like a big thing.

0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:14.679
<v Speaker 1>And this is like literally what I was having in

0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:18.080
<v Speaker 1>conversation with my fitness coach today is no one can

0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:19.080
<v Speaker 1>do it except you.

0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:22.360
<v Speaker 2>I have had the same It's.

0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:24.360
<v Speaker 1>The worst cart because you're like, I'm paying you, can

0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:26.840
<v Speaker 1>you just do it?

0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:30.000
<v Speaker 2>Literally, I had the same conversation with my coach.

0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:33.040
<v Speaker 1>And it's like, no one can do it except to you.

0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:37.200
<v Speaker 1>And so it's like where in your life are you

0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:42.280
<v Speaker 1>kind of giving your power away and taking up a

0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:45.560
<v Speaker 1>lot of space in your head about wanting this thing,

0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:52.240
<v Speaker 1>but there's not actually any like implementation or change because

0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:56.280
<v Speaker 1>this is like I'm actually thinking of this the other

0:14:56.360 --> 0:15:00.480
<v Speaker 1>day of like when when I want something, whenever I

0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:04.640
<v Speaker 1>go after something, like it really does consume me and

0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:09.440
<v Speaker 1>it really does like ignite that fire. But if you,

0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:12.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, don't have the tools to then go get

0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:15.600
<v Speaker 1>that thing, or if you're literally just you're not willing

0:15:15.600 --> 0:15:19.040
<v Speaker 1>to invest in yourself, you know, you're you're not willing

0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:23.680
<v Speaker 1>to take any steps. You can't sit there and complain

0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:26.480
<v Speaker 1>that you're not having that thing, complain that others get

0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:27.240
<v Speaker 1>to have that thing.

0:15:27.920 --> 0:15:31.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, if you're not sacrificing or taking the necessary risks

0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:32.960
<v Speaker 3>to get there, why do you deserve it.

0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:36.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that's like it's such a good like I

0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:41.000
<v Speaker 1>feel like I've said this in another episode. But you know,

0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:44.320
<v Speaker 1>like how you do one thing is how you do

0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:45.800
<v Speaker 1>everything in your life.

0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:48.720
<v Speaker 2>So if you what.

0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:52.320
<v Speaker 1>You'll find is when you show up in one area

0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:55.880
<v Speaker 1>of your life, it's going to be easier to show

0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:58.000
<v Speaker 1>up in the other areas.

0:15:57.720 --> 0:15:58.360
<v Speaker 2>Of your life.

0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:03.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like this beautiful momentum that happens when you

0:16:03.320 --> 0:16:06.760
<v Speaker 1>just you get started. But the first thing is like

0:16:06.960 --> 0:16:09.880
<v Speaker 1>really being honest with yourself and being like, okay, where

0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:10.560
<v Speaker 1>can I shop?

0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:12.440
<v Speaker 2>So I want you guys.

0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:15.000
<v Speaker 1>To think of do a bit of an audit. I'm

0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:16.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna say some questions.

0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:17.160
<v Speaker 2>I'll leave some time.

0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:24.280
<v Speaker 1>Okay, are the people you're hanging around helping or hindering you?

0:16:26.960 --> 0:16:29.800
<v Speaker 1>Are you complaining about the same low vibe friends, but

0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:33.960
<v Speaker 1>you continue to contact them, You continue to, you know,

0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:39.320
<v Speaker 1>entertain their drama. Or are you someone who maybe attracts

0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:43.760
<v Speaker 1>drama there's always something happening, there's always something, or you know,

0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:47.200
<v Speaker 1>maybe you're someone who attracts people that literally treat you

0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:55.520
<v Speaker 1>like shit. Because if you see a common pattern, I'm sorry,

0:16:55.560 --> 0:16:59.280
<v Speaker 1>but you need to look where your responsibility is in

0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:02.320
<v Speaker 1>that know, if this thing keeps happening to you.

0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:08.879
<v Speaker 3>I think in this too, like what media are you

0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:12.240
<v Speaker 3>consuming and from who is that media from?

0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:13.520
<v Speaker 2>I love that.

0:17:13.680 --> 0:17:16.439
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're not even just talking about like people you

0:17:16.480 --> 0:17:20.400
<v Speaker 1>physically spend time with. Yeah, like the people who it's

0:17:20.440 --> 0:17:22.240
<v Speaker 1>like I was listening to this podcast and he was

0:17:22.280 --> 0:17:26.720
<v Speaker 1>saying a very interesting like study was done and you

0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:32.280
<v Speaker 1>know adults. It's an adult had family who was obese. Yeah,

0:17:32.320 --> 0:17:36.480
<v Speaker 1>compared to their friends who were obese, they were more

0:17:36.520 --> 0:17:41.560
<v Speaker 1>inclined to also be obese if their friends were whoa

0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:47.040
<v Speaker 1>not necessarily their family. Interesting, it's the people they chose

0:17:47.200 --> 0:17:52.280
<v Speaker 1>to bring into their life they would mirror and have

0:17:52.480 --> 0:17:58.160
<v Speaker 1>a similar lifestyle and a similar you know, way of life.

0:17:58.400 --> 0:17:59.440
<v Speaker 2>That's so interesting.

0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:03.159
<v Speaker 1>It's that same Jay Shatty podcast. So I'll link that

0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:05.640
<v Speaker 1>in the show notes. I just keep I keep referencing

0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:10.240
<v Speaker 1>that you should make it homework. It's a great episode.

0:18:10.359 --> 0:18:13.040
<v Speaker 1>But I just thought that was so interesting of like

0:18:13.480 --> 0:18:17.800
<v Speaker 1>the people you choose to have in your orbit. So again,

0:18:18.000 --> 0:18:22.160
<v Speaker 1>this could be on social media. This could be physically

0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:23.159
<v Speaker 1>very interesting.

0:18:23.800 --> 0:18:26.480
<v Speaker 3>I think even just people you're in touch with on

0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:29.680
<v Speaker 3>social media too, because people forget that like you can

0:18:29.720 --> 0:18:32.240
<v Speaker 3>have the people and the friends you physically spend time

0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:34.719
<v Speaker 3>with be super high vibe. But you can have a

0:18:34.720 --> 0:18:38.120
<v Speaker 3>friend that dms with a different dramatic thing that's happening

0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:40.640
<v Speaker 3>to them every week, whether it's on text or snapchat

0:18:40.760 --> 0:18:43.000
<v Speaker 3>or whatever they're sending it to you on You're still

0:18:43.119 --> 0:18:45.120
<v Speaker 3>around that energy and you're.

0:18:44.800 --> 0:18:48.680
<v Speaker 1>Still entertaining it if you're applying Yes. I actually had

0:18:48.680 --> 0:18:52.199
<v Speaker 1>a really interesting thing happen where I had someone come

0:18:52.280 --> 0:18:55.040
<v Speaker 1>up who has previously, you know, given me drama in

0:18:55.040 --> 0:18:58.760
<v Speaker 1>my life and I have entertained it, and very you know,

0:18:59.000 --> 0:19:01.600
<v Speaker 1>got involved in that drama and then not loved that

0:19:01.720 --> 0:19:03.880
<v Speaker 1>experience with that person.

0:19:04.040 --> 0:19:06.520
<v Speaker 2>And this person on the weekend text me.

0:19:07.760 --> 0:19:12.280
<v Speaker 1>And it took everything inside me to not message this

0:19:12.359 --> 0:19:14.720
<v Speaker 1>person back because I felt like I wanted to defend

0:19:14.720 --> 0:19:18.720
<v Speaker 1>myself because they were, you know, personally attacking me.

0:19:19.680 --> 0:19:22.240
<v Speaker 2>But I had to be like. The way that I.

0:19:22.280 --> 0:19:25.919
<v Speaker 1>Kind of you know, came around to it was the

0:19:25.960 --> 0:19:30.639
<v Speaker 1>boundary is you don't get to be in my proximity

0:19:30.680 --> 0:19:34.159
<v Speaker 1>proximity and you don't get to you know, talk to

0:19:34.200 --> 0:19:36.600
<v Speaker 1>me like that and approach me like that.

0:19:37.200 --> 0:19:38.560
<v Speaker 2>So the boundary is.

0:19:38.680 --> 0:19:40.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm just not going to entertain that I'm not going

0:19:40.680 --> 0:19:45.000
<v Speaker 1>to reply. Yeah, I'm not even going to block you. You're

0:19:44.160 --> 0:19:47.280
<v Speaker 1>just not just like, no, I'm not acknowledging this, We're

0:19:47.320 --> 0:19:47.960
<v Speaker 1>not doing this.

0:19:48.240 --> 0:19:50.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm not giving you the attention you want.

0:19:51.000 --> 0:19:54.360
<v Speaker 1>I love that, and I want to stress though it

0:19:54.440 --> 0:19:57.240
<v Speaker 1>was hard not to reply. I wanted to because I

0:19:57.240 --> 0:19:59.840
<v Speaker 1>wanted to defend myself and be like.

0:20:00.080 --> 0:20:01.360
<v Speaker 2>Because a lot of people they're.

0:20:01.160 --> 0:20:03.639
<v Speaker 1>Like, oh no, but it wasn't me getting involved in

0:20:03.640 --> 0:20:06.280
<v Speaker 1>the drama. I was just telling them the truth or

0:20:06.760 --> 0:20:10.120
<v Speaker 1>y still getting involved in the drama. And I'm someone

0:20:10.160 --> 0:20:11.639
<v Speaker 1>who loves drama.

0:20:12.119 --> 0:20:14.760
<v Speaker 2>But does it who doesn't. I'm gonna make sure it's

0:20:14.760 --> 0:20:15.160
<v Speaker 2>on the TV.

0:20:15.640 --> 0:20:18.760
<v Speaker 1>But in that moment, I was like, no, because I'm

0:20:18.840 --> 0:20:22.959
<v Speaker 1>not even entertaining that. I'm not even entering this and

0:20:23.320 --> 0:20:26.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not even like, I'm not even going down the

0:20:26.560 --> 0:20:29.600
<v Speaker 1>ladder to your low vibe. We just we're not yeah,

0:20:29.680 --> 0:20:32.160
<v Speaker 1>unless you're coming up here to my high vibe. We

0:20:32.480 --> 0:20:35.199
<v Speaker 1>are not even conversing. I love that so much, and

0:20:35.200 --> 0:20:36.800
<v Speaker 1>that's it, and I just didn't message back, and that

0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:38.399
<v Speaker 1>was it.

0:20:38.560 --> 0:20:39.639
<v Speaker 2>So proudy, thank you.

0:20:40.280 --> 0:20:42.879
<v Speaker 1>So it's interesting of even if you're not the one

0:20:42.920 --> 0:20:46.080
<v Speaker 1>who you know quote unquote starts it. But where is

0:20:46.119 --> 0:20:49.400
<v Speaker 1>there something coming up in your life that you entertain

0:20:50.160 --> 0:20:51.720
<v Speaker 1>even if you're not involved.

0:20:51.320 --> 0:20:52.840
<v Speaker 2>In it well at all.

0:20:52.920 --> 0:20:55.760
<v Speaker 3>Like it's friends getting advice on situations therein, but it's

0:20:55.760 --> 0:20:58.640
<v Speaker 3>still drama and it's still low vibe. Yes, I think

0:20:58.640 --> 0:21:03.119
<v Speaker 3>it's completely fine. People should almost normalize sending your message

0:21:03.160 --> 0:21:05.240
<v Speaker 3>to your friend being like, hey, like, that's a really

0:21:05.240 --> 0:21:08.840
<v Speaker 3>shitty situation to be in. I'm really sorry, but I

0:21:08.880 --> 0:21:12.760
<v Speaker 3>don't have the mental capacity right now to be dealing

0:21:12.760 --> 0:21:13.520
<v Speaker 3>with that with you.

0:21:14.000 --> 0:21:17.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I don't appreciate when you emotionally dump on me.

0:21:17.680 --> 0:21:19.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like I don't have the space for it.

0:21:19.920 --> 0:21:23.240
<v Speaker 1>Never need to ask first, correct, Yeah, that's a boundary.

0:21:23.560 --> 0:21:26.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh my gosh. All right, guys, So have a

0:21:26.160 --> 0:21:26.840
<v Speaker 2>think about that.

0:21:27.600 --> 0:21:31.560
<v Speaker 1>Is the job you're in working towards something or contributing

0:21:31.800 --> 0:21:38.640
<v Speaker 1>something to your purpose? Does it feel aligned? I think

0:21:38.680 --> 0:21:42.800
<v Speaker 1>with this too, To like put in perspective is that

0:21:42.920 --> 0:21:46.840
<v Speaker 1>your job might not always be directly contributing to your

0:21:46.920 --> 0:21:49.840
<v Speaker 1>higher purpose as a human, but as long as it

0:21:49.920 --> 0:21:53.199
<v Speaker 1>feels good to you and facilitates and gives you the

0:21:53.240 --> 0:21:56.679
<v Speaker 1>ability to fulfill your higher purpose, then it's worth it.

0:21:57.040 --> 0:21:59.639
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And this is also.

0:21:59.160 --> 0:22:02.160
<v Speaker 1>Like A great exam of this is like, for example,

0:22:02.760 --> 0:22:05.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, I really, I truly believe that my purpose

0:22:05.480 --> 0:22:09.480
<v Speaker 1>here on earth is to empower other women to step

0:22:09.520 --> 0:22:12.159
<v Speaker 1>into their power and go after what they want and

0:22:12.320 --> 0:22:16.160
<v Speaker 1>really love their authentic self. So I do that through

0:22:16.200 --> 0:22:19.399
<v Speaker 1>this podcast, I do it through my courses. I also

0:22:19.480 --> 0:22:24.080
<v Speaker 1>do that through Naked Harvests. Yeah, and they're completely different businesses,

0:22:24.160 --> 0:22:26.160
<v Speaker 1>but I feel like I am fulfilling my.

0:22:26.200 --> 0:22:27.399
<v Speaker 2>Purpose in both.

0:22:27.920 --> 0:22:32.240
<v Speaker 1>So it can look really different, and also it can

0:22:32.280 --> 0:22:35.240
<v Speaker 1>be like, for example, I love how Tim used to

0:22:35.280 --> 0:22:38.000
<v Speaker 1>see his job because you know, Tim used to be

0:22:38.000 --> 0:22:41.720
<v Speaker 1>a carpenter, and it's not like his you know, he felt.

0:22:41.560 --> 0:22:43.080
<v Speaker 2>Like social enterprise or anything.

0:22:43.280 --> 0:22:45.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's not like he felt like his you know,

0:22:45.119 --> 0:22:47.480
<v Speaker 1>purpose was to be on this earth to be a carpenter.

0:22:47.920 --> 0:22:51.600
<v Speaker 1>But what his job you know, did give him was

0:22:51.920 --> 0:22:55.480
<v Speaker 1>obviously being around you know, good people and giving him

0:22:55.640 --> 0:22:58.200
<v Speaker 1>the time and energy to do the other things that

0:22:58.240 --> 0:23:02.479
<v Speaker 1>he liked on the weekend. And it's not always like

0:23:03.200 --> 0:23:07.040
<v Speaker 1>a straight thing. Yeah, if that makes sense. It's just

0:23:07.400 --> 0:23:09.840
<v Speaker 1>feel into your heart and be like, Okay, do I

0:23:09.880 --> 0:23:12.320
<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm on the right track now? Does this

0:23:12.400 --> 0:23:18.400
<v Speaker 1>feel good? You know? For at the moment, yeah, all right,

0:23:18.480 --> 0:23:20.360
<v Speaker 1>So now I want you to think about are your

0:23:20.440 --> 0:23:26.600
<v Speaker 1>routines supporting the person you dream of becoming? This is

0:23:26.720 --> 0:23:30.160
<v Speaker 1>such a huge one, guys. We did a whole podcast

0:23:30.240 --> 0:23:32.200
<v Speaker 1>on kind of like routines I think a couple of

0:23:32.200 --> 0:23:35.320
<v Speaker 1>weeks back a tear, yeah, and maybe we'll link that

0:23:35.359 --> 0:23:38.159
<v Speaker 1>in the show notes. And it's just about being really

0:23:38.320 --> 0:23:41.240
<v Speaker 1>raw and honest because I truly believe, like I said,

0:23:41.280 --> 0:23:43.840
<v Speaker 1>how you do one thing is how you do everything.

0:23:44.080 --> 0:23:45.000
<v Speaker 2>And it's really.

0:23:44.760 --> 0:23:48.199
<v Speaker 1>Interesting because it doesn't have to be perfect, but you

0:23:48.320 --> 0:23:53.280
<v Speaker 1>just have to be really honest with yourself. Of For example,

0:23:53.760 --> 0:23:58.280
<v Speaker 1>something right now that I'm actually working on is my

0:23:58.400 --> 0:23:59.360
<v Speaker 1>nighttime routine.

0:24:00.119 --> 0:24:02.880
<v Speaker 2>So my morning routine.

0:24:02.480 --> 0:24:05.959
<v Speaker 1>Is like perfect aced it I really feel like in

0:24:06.000 --> 0:24:08.480
<v Speaker 1>my groove. That wasn't always the case. That's something I

0:24:08.520 --> 0:24:10.720
<v Speaker 1>worked on towards last year. But I really feel like

0:24:10.760 --> 0:24:14.000
<v Speaker 1>I've doubt like got my morning routine downpacked and it

0:24:14.320 --> 0:24:17.000
<v Speaker 1>fills my cup up, it makes me productive, ticks my

0:24:17.080 --> 0:24:21.160
<v Speaker 1>boxes at the moment, But my nighttime routine, I don't

0:24:21.200 --> 0:24:23.439
<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm in a groove. And so I'm actually

0:24:23.480 --> 0:24:25.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of on this journey right now where I'm like

0:24:26.200 --> 0:24:29.600
<v Speaker 1>trying different things. I'm you know, dabbling in different things,

0:24:29.680 --> 0:24:33.679
<v Speaker 1>different meditations, different ways of journaling, trying to see how

0:24:33.680 --> 0:24:36.840
<v Speaker 1>I can break this habit of scrolling on my phone

0:24:36.920 --> 0:24:39.359
<v Speaker 1>and because and that's the thing is that's okay, Like

0:24:39.440 --> 0:24:42.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy to sit here and admit be like

0:24:42.240 --> 0:24:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I scroll my phone and this is you know, this

0:24:44.600 --> 0:24:45.240
<v Speaker 1>is an issue.

0:24:45.400 --> 0:24:45.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:24:45.760 --> 0:24:49.040
<v Speaker 1>But also I'm being very honest with myself and I'm

0:24:49.080 --> 0:24:51.680
<v Speaker 1>like auditing and I'm like, okay, this is something I

0:24:51.800 --> 0:24:54.720
<v Speaker 1>need to change, and I'm actively, you know, trying to

0:24:54.840 --> 0:24:58.960
<v Speaker 1>change it. So it's like we're in your routines? Are

0:24:59.400 --> 0:25:02.600
<v Speaker 1>you not actually a reflection of, like, you know, the

0:25:02.640 --> 0:25:03.240
<v Speaker 1>bigger goal?

0:25:08.119 --> 0:25:13.679
<v Speaker 3>So many, so many places, so much room for improvement.

0:25:14.320 --> 0:25:16.760
<v Speaker 2>But how good? How I know you're so exciting. I'm

0:25:16.800 --> 0:25:22.480
<v Speaker 2>going to get my button to get to the next one.

0:25:23.359 --> 0:25:29.040
<v Speaker 1>Are your spending habits reflecting your big life? I love

0:25:29.119 --> 0:25:32.960
<v Speaker 1>this one so much because we did we answered a

0:25:33.000 --> 0:25:38.440
<v Speaker 1>hotline question about you know, what's the difference between feeling

0:25:38.480 --> 0:25:40.760
<v Speaker 1>abundant and just like spending all your money?

0:25:43.200 --> 0:25:43.880
<v Speaker 2>Yep, And the.

0:25:44.040 --> 0:25:46.719
<v Speaker 1>Shorter answer to that is the energy.

0:25:47.000 --> 0:25:47.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:25:47.720 --> 0:25:52.080
<v Speaker 1>So I think it's so so important And it's actually

0:25:52.080 --> 0:25:55.040
<v Speaker 1>funny because me and Tim were talking about this, and

0:25:55.080 --> 0:25:57.639
<v Speaker 1>we're on a bit of a health journey at the moment,

0:25:58.160 --> 0:26:01.199
<v Speaker 1>and so a change that we are made king is

0:26:01.280 --> 0:26:06.080
<v Speaker 1>we're starting to buy organic food. This is something that

0:26:06.200 --> 0:26:09.120
<v Speaker 1>Tim is not necessarily on board with because it is

0:26:09.160 --> 0:26:12.720
<v Speaker 1>more expensive, it is, yeah, and he's just like, I

0:26:12.800 --> 0:26:14.400
<v Speaker 1>just don't understand, like.

0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:16.439
<v Speaker 2>A tomato is a tamart kind of thing. Correct.

0:26:16.680 --> 0:26:19.000
<v Speaker 1>And so we're going, you know, through this whole process

0:26:19.000 --> 0:26:20.840
<v Speaker 1>where I'm trying to explain to him, like, you know,

0:26:21.560 --> 0:26:24.520
<v Speaker 1>but it's not just the same because of the chemicals

0:26:24.560 --> 0:26:26.720
<v Speaker 1>and the food miles and all these different things that

0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:29.679
<v Speaker 1>are personal and a priority to me.

0:26:30.520 --> 0:26:32.000
<v Speaker 2>And so the way that I explain it to.

0:26:32.000 --> 0:26:34.359
<v Speaker 1>Him is like I get that you may not understand it,

0:26:34.480 --> 0:26:37.320
<v Speaker 1>but this is a priority to me and my health

0:26:38.040 --> 0:26:40.760
<v Speaker 1>and because we eat as a family, this is something

0:26:40.880 --> 0:26:43.240
<v Speaker 1>I you know, want to implement. And so he's come

0:26:43.280 --> 0:26:46.320
<v Speaker 1>around and we are starting to buy you know, organic

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:48.840
<v Speaker 1>and really focus on like the source of where our

0:26:48.880 --> 0:26:51.960
<v Speaker 1>food is coming from. Yeah, and that's like it's coming

0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:54.679
<v Speaker 1>at a higher price, but it's something that I know

0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:57.919
<v Speaker 1>is in my you know, long term goal, my higher

0:26:57.960 --> 0:27:00.639
<v Speaker 1>self and something that is really important. So it's something

0:27:00.680 --> 0:27:01.720
<v Speaker 1>that I'm going to do.

0:27:02.400 --> 0:27:03.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:27:03.320 --> 0:27:06.560
<v Speaker 1>And this is even like, you know, I've decided, like

0:27:06.640 --> 0:27:08.679
<v Speaker 1>even said before, to get a fitness coach, and this

0:27:08.720 --> 0:27:10.800
<v Speaker 1>is something I haven't had for years and years and

0:27:10.880 --> 0:27:13.879
<v Speaker 1>years because I'm like, I'm you know, I know my

0:27:13.920 --> 0:27:16.480
<v Speaker 1>health and fitness blah blah blah blah, but I'm like, no,

0:27:16.600 --> 0:27:20.160
<v Speaker 1>this is actually a priority for me. And I want

0:27:20.160 --> 0:27:22.919
<v Speaker 1>someone to keep me accountable. Yeah, I want someone to

0:27:23.000 --> 0:27:25.080
<v Speaker 1>check in with me. And this is actually really important

0:27:25.080 --> 0:27:26.080
<v Speaker 1>to focus on this.

0:27:26.040 --> 0:27:27.960
<v Speaker 2>Goal and prompt that reflection.

0:27:28.720 --> 0:27:32.439
<v Speaker 1>Yes. And so you know, even a big thing of

0:27:33.480 --> 0:27:36.679
<v Speaker 1>if a big golf you you know this year is

0:27:36.720 --> 0:27:39.880
<v Speaker 1>to do with going to your next level all these

0:27:40.000 --> 0:27:44.240
<v Speaker 1>big dreams or starting a business, but you're not investing

0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:47.880
<v Speaker 1>in that journey or anything along the way.

0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:51.200
<v Speaker 2>You need to kind of be like, is it really

0:27:51.280 --> 0:27:52.479
<v Speaker 2>a priority? Yeah?

0:27:52.520 --> 0:27:55.199
<v Speaker 3>And I think even little things like not thinking of

0:27:55.240 --> 0:27:58.040
<v Speaker 3>it as such that maybe in your big life money

0:27:58.119 --> 0:28:01.640
<v Speaker 3>is obviously not an issue and you're completely abundant and

0:28:01.760 --> 0:28:03.800
<v Speaker 3>it's amazing and you can go buy whatever you want,

0:28:03.840 --> 0:28:06.760
<v Speaker 3>whatever you want. It's not about embodying that and doing

0:28:06.800 --> 0:28:09.439
<v Speaker 3>that now. It's more about what do I need to

0:28:09.520 --> 0:28:13.320
<v Speaker 3>invest in strategically to get myself there in the long run, Like,

0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:15.680
<v Speaker 3>is it a mindset course, is it a fitness coach?

0:28:15.880 --> 0:28:18.719
<v Speaker 3>Is it what is going to get me to that

0:28:18.880 --> 0:28:22.160
<v Speaker 3>next level that that human that lives that big life?

0:28:22.160 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 3>Because it is me and I need to figure out

0:28:24.080 --> 0:28:24.920
<v Speaker 3>how I can get there.

0:28:25.520 --> 0:28:26.080
<v Speaker 2>I love it.

0:28:26.119 --> 0:28:29.879
<v Speaker 1>And then because a big thing in that circumstance is

0:28:30.560 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, for example, you know this fitness go I'm

0:28:32.640 --> 0:28:36.439
<v Speaker 1>talking about, is I know I can get there? I like,

0:28:36.600 --> 0:28:41.520
<v Speaker 1>I know I could personally get there myself, but I

0:28:41.600 --> 0:28:44.080
<v Speaker 1>know it's probably going to take two or three times

0:28:44.280 --> 0:28:47.560
<v Speaker 1>as long, right, and also a lot of mistakes and

0:28:47.600 --> 0:28:49.680
<v Speaker 1>a lot of me getting annoyed. Or I can just

0:28:49.720 --> 0:28:50.760
<v Speaker 1>pay someone.

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:52.280
<v Speaker 2>For the shortcut, for the shortcut.

0:28:53.640 --> 0:28:56.320
<v Speaker 1>And that's even like you know, I'm very open about

0:28:56.880 --> 0:29:01.360
<v Speaker 1>wanting a business coach, Yeah, because I I feel like

0:29:01.760 --> 0:29:02.400
<v Speaker 1>I feel.

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:04.040
<v Speaker 2>Like I've told this story so many times, but like

0:29:04.480 --> 0:29:04.880
<v Speaker 2>one of.

0:29:04.840 --> 0:29:09.080
<v Speaker 1>The best investments I ever made was when I was

0:29:09.120 --> 0:29:10.800
<v Speaker 1>earning sixty thousand dollars.

0:29:10.840 --> 0:29:11.840
<v Speaker 2>This makes me sick.

0:29:11.880 --> 0:29:16.320
<v Speaker 1>I know when I was earning sixty thousand dollars, Wait,

0:29:18.800 --> 0:29:24.320
<v Speaker 1>I spent forty five thousand dollars on a business coach

0:29:24.400 --> 0:29:30.040
<v Speaker 1>because I like, my investment is myself is always going to.

0:29:30.000 --> 0:29:30.640
<v Speaker 2>Make a return.

0:29:31.040 --> 0:29:34.680
<v Speaker 1>I completely bet on myself, so I knew that was

0:29:34.720 --> 0:29:38.960
<v Speaker 1>a huge fucking investment. But I also had just so

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:41.560
<v Speaker 1>much like I'm I know I'm going to make a return.

0:29:41.760 --> 0:29:43.640
<v Speaker 1>You know what, I love even more that I know

0:29:43.720 --> 0:29:45.560
<v Speaker 1>you might not have thought of. Yeah, I telt me

0:29:45.840 --> 0:29:48.680
<v Speaker 1>that was probably one hundred percent of your income after dad.

0:29:51.120 --> 0:29:53.880
<v Speaker 2>Just me out on the street, but as a business coach.

0:29:57.760 --> 0:30:00.880
<v Speaker 1>Actually, but you know what I was paying for. I

0:30:00.960 --> 0:30:04.600
<v Speaker 1>was paying for someone who had already done the thing

0:30:04.840 --> 0:30:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to do, to give me the formula and

0:30:07.520 --> 0:30:10.040
<v Speaker 1>be like, cool, here's how you did do it, and

0:30:10.080 --> 0:30:12.880
<v Speaker 1>that's one hundred percent. That's why I've been able to

0:30:13.000 --> 0:30:16.640
<v Speaker 1>like quantum leap and really like achieve.

0:30:16.560 --> 0:30:18.040
<v Speaker 2>Huge things very quickly.

0:30:18.240 --> 0:30:20.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I'm fucking willing to put skin in the game.

0:30:21.200 --> 0:30:22.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, let's go.

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:25.000
<v Speaker 3>It's like you get out what you put in, and

0:30:25.880 --> 0:30:30.760
<v Speaker 3>making that investment in yourself is literally screaming to the

0:30:30.880 --> 0:30:34.440
<v Speaker 3>universe like I'm ready for my next level, bring it

0:30:34.440 --> 0:30:35.280
<v Speaker 3>to me quickly.

0:30:35.840 --> 0:30:39.440
<v Speaker 1>Yes, And also like, yeah, I'm willing to better myself,

0:30:39.480 --> 0:30:41.400
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like I'm ready to put skin in the game.

0:30:42.040 --> 0:30:42.600
<v Speaker 2>And it's I.

0:30:42.600 --> 0:30:47.080
<v Speaker 1>Don't know, it's that's that was the biggest energy shift,

0:30:47.520 --> 0:30:50.320
<v Speaker 1>which was then you know, obviously such a byproduct or

0:30:50.360 --> 0:30:53.560
<v Speaker 1>what happened next, but that's a huge energy shift.

0:30:53.920 --> 0:30:55.240
<v Speaker 2>And what did happen next?

0:30:55.720 --> 0:31:06.080
<v Speaker 1>I made lots of money, no, yes, well yes that

0:31:06.560 --> 0:31:08.960
<v Speaker 1>and then also I you know, learned how to start

0:31:09.000 --> 0:31:11.040
<v Speaker 1>a business. I learned how to do all the things.

0:31:11.440 --> 0:31:14.800
<v Speaker 1>And also that person like when you're paying that sort

0:31:14.840 --> 0:31:17.520
<v Speaker 1>of money, You're like, fuck, I better have some results.

0:31:17.920 --> 0:31:21.240
<v Speaker 1>And so every single week, like I would show up

0:31:21.840 --> 0:31:25.560
<v Speaker 1>in so much like we are doing this thing, and

0:31:25.600 --> 0:31:28.760
<v Speaker 1>we are launching, and I'm going to make sure. And

0:31:28.800 --> 0:31:32.160
<v Speaker 1>that was really a pinnacle point in my career where

0:31:32.440 --> 0:31:37.120
<v Speaker 1>I shifted from a quote unquote influencer yeah, to an entrepreneur.

0:31:38.400 --> 0:31:43.080
<v Speaker 1>And it really took taking myself seriously and betting on myself. Obviously,

0:31:43.080 --> 0:31:45.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, everyone's journey is so so different. That was

0:31:46.000 --> 0:31:47.960
<v Speaker 1>just such a huge.

0:31:47.720 --> 0:31:48.280
<v Speaker 2>Moment for me.

0:31:48.360 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because I had then had a couple

0:31:51.240 --> 0:31:53.680
<v Speaker 1>of years where I didn't have a coach because I

0:31:53.800 --> 0:31:58.000
<v Speaker 1>was really in the doing, the doing stages and the implementing,

0:31:58.560 --> 0:32:01.720
<v Speaker 1>and then I've only rea come around again where I

0:32:01.760 --> 0:32:04.880
<v Speaker 1>was like, no, I'm ready for like the next level,

0:32:04.920 --> 0:32:07.880
<v Speaker 1>like the big big next level main big life, and

0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I want some help getting there. Yeah, and I want

0:32:10.560 --> 0:32:13.800
<v Speaker 1>to do it now, need it quick, Need it quick.

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:15.200
<v Speaker 2>It's an even about that.

0:32:15.240 --> 0:32:19.560
<v Speaker 1>I also just like I love I love learning from people. Yeah,

0:32:19.760 --> 0:32:23.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, like I think truly the moment that you're like,

0:32:23.800 --> 0:32:25.720
<v Speaker 1>oh no, I don't need to learn anymore.

0:32:26.680 --> 0:32:30.840
<v Speaker 2>Nah, yeah you did. Literally literally, my mum.

0:32:31.000 --> 0:32:33.040
<v Speaker 3>One of one of the things she always says that

0:32:33.080 --> 0:32:36.440
<v Speaker 3>I love is that when you find the right person

0:32:36.920 --> 0:32:39.479
<v Speaker 3>that's meant to teach you something, you'll know and you

0:32:39.520 --> 0:32:42.120
<v Speaker 3>just shouldn't question it because other people in your life

0:32:42.160 --> 0:32:44.520
<v Speaker 3>can tell you the same things. They're telling you. You

0:32:44.560 --> 0:32:47.440
<v Speaker 3>can hear it from everywhere, but when that person explains

0:32:47.440 --> 0:32:49.200
<v Speaker 3>it to you in their way, that's what's going to

0:32:49.240 --> 0:32:52.320
<v Speaker 3>resonate with you. And when you feel that, don't question it,

0:32:52.520 --> 0:32:53.400
<v Speaker 3>just keep going.

0:32:53.960 --> 0:32:55.840
<v Speaker 2>I love that so much.

0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:58.160
<v Speaker 1>It's literally like this is going off on a Tan

0:32:58.200 --> 0:33:00.320
<v Speaker 1>Trent but like it's literally my.

0:33:00.280 --> 0:33:02.320
<v Speaker 2>Whole thing with Tim doing Jim in the morning.

0:33:05.600 --> 0:33:09.320
<v Speaker 1>Guys, you've probably heard the story, but so I have

0:33:09.360 --> 0:33:13.640
<v Speaker 1>been jimming in the morning literally since I was like nineteen. Yeah,

0:33:13.680 --> 0:33:16.480
<v Speaker 1>and I it's like for me, it's like it's when

0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:18.680
<v Speaker 1>I do my workout. There's no chance I'm working out

0:33:18.680 --> 0:33:21.240
<v Speaker 1>in the afternoon. I just don't work that way. Tim

0:33:21.560 --> 0:33:24.240
<v Speaker 1>always worked out in the afternoons, but then once he

0:33:24.280 --> 0:33:27.240
<v Speaker 1>became a dad, he was really struggling because he just

0:33:27.280 --> 0:33:29.120
<v Speaker 1>would not get his work out in because of you

0:33:29.160 --> 0:33:32.680
<v Speaker 1>know this and that, and for so long, I'm like, babe,

0:33:32.920 --> 0:33:34.960
<v Speaker 1>just work out in the morning before Ivy wakes up

0:33:35.040 --> 0:33:35.880
<v Speaker 1>and then it's done.

0:33:35.960 --> 0:33:38.320
<v Speaker 2>You don't have to think about it. And he's like, no,

0:33:38.440 --> 0:33:40.640
<v Speaker 2>can't work on the morning. I feel so shit, blah

0:33:40.680 --> 0:33:41.040
<v Speaker 2>blah blah.

0:33:41.040 --> 0:33:42.760
<v Speaker 1>Because he did it, like he did it once and

0:33:42.800 --> 0:33:46.520
<v Speaker 1>he felt like, yeah, no joke. He started working out

0:33:46.560 --> 0:33:49.360
<v Speaker 1>in the morning, and it's all he talks about.

0:33:49.560 --> 0:33:52.240
<v Speaker 4>And he goes up to random people and he's like, oh, yeah,

0:33:52.520 --> 0:33:55.840
<v Speaker 4>have you tried working out in the morning, And I'm like,

0:33:56.840 --> 0:33:59.880
<v Speaker 4>I told you for years And he even comes up

0:33:59.920 --> 0:34:03.640
<v Speaker 4>to me it's like, Babe, working out the morning, it's

0:34:03.840 --> 0:34:06.360
<v Speaker 4>just the thing, like it's it's life changing.

0:34:06.480 --> 0:34:09.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I know I told you this, and.

0:34:09.640 --> 0:34:15.480
<v Speaker 1>He said, I'm like, oh my god, you.

0:34:15.680 --> 0:34:18.279
<v Speaker 3>Really I really can't watch me the exact same thing

0:34:18.320 --> 0:34:19.120
<v Speaker 3>when I start.

0:34:18.920 --> 0:34:19.920
<v Speaker 2>Working out in the morning.

0:34:20.800 --> 0:34:23.480
<v Speaker 1>Don't even fucking start with me, all right, I'm feeling

0:34:23.600 --> 0:34:26.600
<v Speaker 1>rapped up anyway, we got really off topic, sanded, but

0:34:26.760 --> 0:34:33.879
<v Speaker 1>think about your spinning habits, all right, guys. So I

0:34:33.920 --> 0:34:36.719
<v Speaker 1>hope that kind of helped you really get in like

0:34:36.920 --> 0:34:42.600
<v Speaker 1>the juices of Oh, where are the blind spots? Where

0:34:42.800 --> 0:34:47.080
<v Speaker 1>am I currently wanting something but not willing to show up,

0:34:47.520 --> 0:34:51.120
<v Speaker 1>you know in that area, not willing to shift, not

0:34:51.160 --> 0:34:54.640
<v Speaker 1>willing to change the energy and do something different. But

0:34:54.680 --> 0:34:56.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm wanting something different.

0:34:56.719 --> 0:35:01.000
<v Speaker 2>Because this is huge. It's it's just like your.

0:35:00.880 --> 0:35:04.840
<v Speaker 1>Future self is determined by all the little things you

0:35:04.880 --> 0:35:09.360
<v Speaker 1>do right now. Your boundaries have a direct correlation to

0:35:09.400 --> 0:35:13.040
<v Speaker 1>where your energy is going towards, and that will be

0:35:13.200 --> 0:35:17.799
<v Speaker 1>a direct correlation to whether you build your dream reality

0:35:18.000 --> 0:35:22.080
<v Speaker 1>or not. And I know that's it's so brutal, and

0:35:22.160 --> 0:35:26.799
<v Speaker 1>I get everyone's on different journal journeys, but sometimes it's

0:35:26.960 --> 0:35:29.440
<v Speaker 1>like you've just got to be really brutally honest with

0:35:29.480 --> 0:35:32.280
<v Speaker 1>yourself and just be like, hmmm, this is so interesting,

0:35:32.680 --> 0:35:35.640
<v Speaker 1>what's actually happening here? And maybe where do I need

0:35:35.680 --> 0:35:37.640
<v Speaker 1>to shift when I need to get some help? Where

0:35:37.640 --> 0:35:40.120
<v Speaker 1>do I need to show up differently? And like It

0:35:40.160 --> 0:35:43.640
<v Speaker 1>doesn't have to be easy, and sometimes you will have

0:35:43.680 --> 0:35:46.800
<v Speaker 1>to sacrifice. Like for me, paying weekly for a fitness

0:35:46.800 --> 0:35:50.239
<v Speaker 1>coach wasn't something I've ever done before. I'm pretty sure

0:35:50.280 --> 0:35:52.200
<v Speaker 1>I spoke on the podcast last year where I said

0:35:52.239 --> 0:35:54.759
<v Speaker 1>spending money on Jim didn't feel good for me. So

0:35:54.880 --> 0:35:56.880
<v Speaker 1>now to be spending money on Jim and a coach

0:35:56.920 --> 0:35:59.520
<v Speaker 1>on top of that was huge. But I looked at

0:35:59.520 --> 0:36:01.640
<v Speaker 1>my spending habits and I was like, Wow, I'm paying

0:36:02.560 --> 0:36:05.160
<v Speaker 1>or I'll like go to Mecca and buy something every week,

0:36:05.239 --> 0:36:08.080
<v Speaker 1>or I'll buy clothes every week, or I'll buy something

0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:12.080
<v Speaker 1>every week. But for some reason, I feel like I

0:36:12.120 --> 0:36:15.480
<v Speaker 1>can't spend this money on would Why did I have

0:36:15.480 --> 0:36:18.040
<v Speaker 1>a block about spending that money on my fitness and

0:36:18.280 --> 0:36:21.000
<v Speaker 1>when I tell myself it's my priority And also like,

0:36:21.160 --> 0:36:22.960
<v Speaker 1>let's just do a season of that and see what

0:36:23.040 --> 0:36:23.720
<v Speaker 1>fucking happens.

0:36:23.840 --> 0:36:26.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do you mean not gonna hurt. I'll just be

0:36:26.239 --> 0:36:29.240
<v Speaker 2>fitter at the end of it, Like there's no harm.

0:36:29.880 --> 0:36:32.000
<v Speaker 1>I love that so much, and it's like something I

0:36:32.040 --> 0:36:35.280
<v Speaker 1>want to remind you guys, is like you can't always

0:36:35.320 --> 0:36:37.719
<v Speaker 1>wait for the right time. You can't always wait to

0:36:37.760 --> 0:36:39.960
<v Speaker 1>have enough money or to feel ready or to feel

0:36:39.960 --> 0:36:44.680
<v Speaker 1>like you have enough experience, because you'll probably find that

0:36:44.760 --> 0:36:49.520
<v Speaker 1>there's never a right time to like do things such

0:36:49.560 --> 0:36:51.880
<v Speaker 1>a big thing, and it's like what you don't realize

0:36:51.960 --> 0:36:56.239
<v Speaker 1>is like when you actually get uncomfortable, that is where

0:36:56.280 --> 0:36:59.279
<v Speaker 1>the magic is. That's when you get uncomfortable and you

0:36:59.400 --> 0:37:02.720
<v Speaker 1>stick to it. You know, you were paving the way

0:37:03.040 --> 0:37:07.719
<v Speaker 1>for a different reality, for something new. So if you

0:37:07.800 --> 0:37:12.960
<v Speaker 1>do change things and you're getting uncomfortable, literally be like, amazing,

0:37:13.360 --> 0:37:16.600
<v Speaker 1>this is so great because I literally I was here

0:37:16.640 --> 0:37:19.600
<v Speaker 1>and it was really ingrained and now I'm shifting and

0:37:19.680 --> 0:37:20.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm going over this way.

0:37:21.239 --> 0:37:21.960
<v Speaker 2>I love it.

0:37:24.320 --> 0:37:26.759
<v Speaker 1>All right, my love, So I hope you enjoyed that episode,

0:37:26.960 --> 0:37:30.480
<v Speaker 1>just you know, to recap, Like the people who have

0:37:31.280 --> 0:37:34.200
<v Speaker 1>what you dream of, they didn't get there by playing

0:37:34.280 --> 0:37:38.319
<v Speaker 1>victim to their excuses or limiting beliefs, staying in the

0:37:38.360 --> 0:37:43.400
<v Speaker 1>same programming. They got there by taking bold action, investing

0:37:43.400 --> 0:37:47.399
<v Speaker 1>in themselves, taking risks. I love that your new thing

0:37:47.440 --> 0:37:50.400
<v Speaker 1>is taking risks at here. By the way, Oh, it's huge,

0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:52.560
<v Speaker 1>my theme for the year, theme for the year, and

0:37:52.600 --> 0:37:55.160
<v Speaker 1>it's so exciting. I can even like CeNSE a difference

0:37:55.200 --> 0:37:55.400
<v Speaker 1>in you.

0:37:55.640 --> 0:37:57.520
<v Speaker 2>Oh, thank you. It's awesome.

0:37:58.520 --> 0:38:01.080
<v Speaker 1>Like, at the end of the day, guys, like, anyone

0:38:01.200 --> 0:38:05.000
<v Speaker 1>can dream big and have these like burning desires for more,

0:38:05.440 --> 0:38:10.120
<v Speaker 1>but not everyone takes action towards that, And that's what

0:38:10.360 --> 0:38:14.879
<v Speaker 1>sets people aside from being successful or creating their dream

0:38:14.920 --> 0:38:19.160
<v Speaker 1>reality or just having you know, an ordinary nice to have.

0:38:21.080 --> 0:38:25.040
<v Speaker 2>Is that the right wording? I think so it's. Yeah.

0:38:25.160 --> 0:38:29.560
<v Speaker 3>That's the difference between successful people and those that aren't

0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:32.200
<v Speaker 3>or like, the people that do the things is that

0:38:32.239 --> 0:38:33.720
<v Speaker 3>they have the guts to do the things.

0:38:34.160 --> 0:38:36.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Of course everyone can sit there and say they

0:38:36.239 --> 0:38:36.880
<v Speaker 2>want something.

0:38:37.120 --> 0:38:39.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's the people who actually take the action

0:38:39.520 --> 0:38:41.800
<v Speaker 1>that's action is going to be so different for everyone.

0:38:41.840 --> 0:38:45.080
<v Speaker 1>But like, you've got to figure it out. Yeah, I

0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:47.880
<v Speaker 1>can't tell you exactly what it is. You've got to

0:38:47.920 --> 0:38:52.120
<v Speaker 1>try some things. Yeah, well I'm excited. I'm excited too.

0:38:52.239 --> 0:38:54.560
<v Speaker 1>I hope you loved this tough love. I really this

0:38:54.719 --> 0:38:57.399
<v Speaker 1>was not an attack. I meant, this was so much love,

0:38:57.719 --> 0:38:59.600
<v Speaker 1>And I hope there was something that stood out that

0:38:59.640 --> 0:39:03.640
<v Speaker 1>you're like, hmmm, gonna I'm gonna change something, all right,

0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:04.840
<v Speaker 1>Thanks so much, guys.

0:39:04.600 --> 0:39:12.520
<v Speaker 5>Bye bye, Thank you so much for listening to another

0:39:12.560 --> 0:39:15.040
<v Speaker 5>episode of the Rise and Conquer podcast.

0:39:15.480 --> 0:39:16.640
<v Speaker 2>If you enjoyed it and.

0:39:16.600 --> 0:39:20.920
<v Speaker 1>Want more, come connect with us on Instagram at Riseinconquer

0:39:21.160 --> 0:39:25.080
<v Speaker 1>dot podcast and join our Facebook discussion group, a Rise

0:39:25.120 --> 0:39:26.880
<v Speaker 1>and Concer podcast community.

0:39:27.400 --> 0:39:28.800
<v Speaker 2>We're an independent.

0:39:28.320 --> 0:39:30.839
<v Speaker 1>Podcast and we have a small team, so we do

0:39:30.920 --> 0:39:34.200
<v Speaker 1>appreciate your time and support. If you have a spare moment,

0:39:34.280 --> 0:39:38.360
<v Speaker 1>a follow or subscribe on whatever platform you listen to

0:39:38.520 --> 0:39:42.800
<v Speaker 1>would be so amazing, And look, if you're feeling extra kind,

0:39:43.000 --> 0:39:45.880
<v Speaker 1>a review on Apple Podcasts would be great.