1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: the land which this episode is being recorded. We further 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 1: acknowledge country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea 4 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: and community. 5 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 2: We pay our. 6 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: Respect to their elders past and present and extend that 7 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: respect to all Aboriginal and terrest raid Islander peoples. Today. Hello, 8 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: and welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This 9 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 1: is the podcast for ordinary people who want to do 10 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 1: extraordinary things. 11 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 2: Welcome back to the Rise and Conquer podcast. 12 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: It is your host, Georgie Stevenson, and today we are 13 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: going to talk about why you might not be achieving 14 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: your goals. Exciting one this one, So just a fair warning. 15 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:10,119 Speaker 2: This is a bit of a tough love episode. You guys. 16 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: Know, I get on these really, I get on a 17 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 1: bit of a mission and I really love to, you know, 18 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: dish it out, but I do it with love and 19 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: I just feel like it's necessary and it's kind of like, 20 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: you know, guys, we're at the end of jan let's 21 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: kind of check in with ourselves. 22 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 2: So if you're someone who has. 23 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 1: A big dream or goal, which I'm sure you are, 24 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: if you're listening, to this potty. But if you feel 25 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 1: like you're getting nowhere or you're constantly feeling stuck, this 26 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: may be exactly what you need to be. But before 27 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: we get into that, but before we get into the episode, 28 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: of course, guys, the Rise and Conquer Project is currently 29 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: open for enrollment. It is the last two weeks to enroll, 30 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: hair tier. 31 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 2: Is that right, am my mathing? 32 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: Right? 33 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 2: You are mathing correctly. 34 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: He's the last two weeks. 35 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 2: Guys. 36 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: I'm so excited about this round because I'm pretty sure 37 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:14,839 Speaker 1: our last live round, isn't it, dear. 38 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 2: Yes, we're very sure of that. 39 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: We're just having internal discussions vir on the potty, guys. No, 40 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: so at the moment, we have gone through our calendar 41 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: and everything and this is literally going to be the 42 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 1: last live round to do the project. Not last live round, sorry, 43 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 1: the only live round of twenty twenty three plan. 44 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 2: Oh it is the first and last. Yeah, I know. 45 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, is this making any sense in my head? 46 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 2: I hope so. 47 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: But basically, at like, you know, if you want to 48 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: be in the Facebook group, if you want to be 49 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:54,239 Speaker 1: like with the people doing the things with the live 50 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: calls with me, I'm really excited too because I probably 51 00:02:57,600 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: shouldn't tell you that, Stammy, it's gonna give me the 52 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 1: side eye, but I'm gonna throw in some like bonus 53 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: extra calls because I just feel like, you know, I 54 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: created this course. 55 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: What was that like three or four years ago? Now, yeah, 56 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 2: it's been three or four years, and. 57 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: There's just like a couple of you know, I guess 58 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: experiences that I've had personally about the principles and tools 59 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: that I talk about that I'm I kind of want 60 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: to I want to bring you into that new experience 61 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: because of course we're evolving. So I'm really excited because 62 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: it's gonna have it's gonna have a you know, a 63 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,359 Speaker 1: whole new twist to it. But of course, if you've 64 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: previously done the project, you get all that content, so 65 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: do not stress. But I'm very excited about this live round. 66 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: And also it's like the start of the year, so 67 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 1: I feel like everyone's just got this energy where they're like, fuck, yes, 68 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: let's do the thing. And I cannot wait for the 69 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 1: transformations me either. 70 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 2: I'm feel excited. 71 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: If you guys didn't hear our amazing episode on Friday, 72 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: which was a whole bunch of manifesting stories and a 73 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: whole bunch of alumni from the project who did the 74 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: project and then just fucking had amazing stories like me 75 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: and a tear joke all the time because we're like shocked, 76 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: but like, okay, we know, like we know we matter 77 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: first all the time, and we like hear these stories, 78 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: but we're like, oh my god, it's amazing. 79 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 2: It was. 80 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 1: So make sure you listen to that episode if you haven't. 81 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: But the project is open for enrollment. We don't start 82 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: until feb thirteenth. Feb thirteenth, thank you. I look at 83 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: you every type, even though I should know this, So 84 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: you've still got a bit of time to join. 85 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 2: But guys, it's gonna be good. It's gonna be good. 86 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 1: All the details are on the websites. So in conclusion, guys, 87 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:42,280 Speaker 1: if you're on the fence and you're feeling that poll, 88 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: listen to it. It is your intuition. And trust me, 89 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: like anytime you do personal development, like you just you 90 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: can't go wrong if you apply yourself. No, and especially 91 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: if you're getting a call to this course, it is 92 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 1: for a reason and it means like big things are 93 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: on the horizon. 94 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 2: It is your time. Should we just send me intro 95 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 2: this I'm so sorry, guys. It's like, but before we 96 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 2: get into the how has your week been, Georgie, thanks 97 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 2: for asking. You're welcome give us a little update, and 98 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 2: my week has been good. 99 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god. You guys may have seen it, but 100 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw my stories like a couple, 101 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 1: I'll just say a couple of weeks ago, but it 102 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: was actually last year. Last year, I did a sneaky 103 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: trip to Sydney with Ellie and my partnerships manager, Jacinta, 104 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 1: and I may have teased that we were like at 105 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: a big shoot for a household name and I was 106 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 1: very excited. And if you guys missed it, the announcement 107 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 1: went live yesterday and guys, I'm officially the face of 108 00:05:54,760 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: Best and Less Valentine's Day campaign. Oh my gosh, So 109 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 1: go watch the campaign video if you haven't seen it. 110 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 1: So what's really special about this and the reason why 111 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 1: I said yes to this campaign was, first of all, 112 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: I grew up buying from Best and Less and I 113 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: buy a lot of Ivy's basics from Best and Less 114 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 1: and a lot of like just like my underwear and stuff. 115 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 2: I feel like when. 116 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 1: I think of my childhood and shopping it is best 117 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:20,919 Speaker 1: and less. 118 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 2: That's so cute. 119 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 1: So when they contacted me, I was like, oh my god, 120 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 1: this full circle moment. And then also when they contacted 121 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 1: me and were like, we want you to be the 122 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:35,039 Speaker 1: face of an underwear you know campaign, I literally thought 123 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: to myself, I couldn't think of fucking anything worse. Me 124 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: half naked in front of all these people. I could 125 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 1: not think of anything worst. And then that's when I 126 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: had this huge epiphany moment that I had not yet 127 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: accepted my postpart and body, and that was an issue 128 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: because I can't. I thought I had yeah, and I 129 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: thought I had done all the work and I was 130 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 1: feeling so good. But that was my initial thought. And 131 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 1: that's when I thought, well, I'm gonna have to fucking 132 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 1: do it. Oh my gosh, I need to get over 133 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 1: myself and get over this like weird thing. 134 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 2: I love that that was your reaction. 135 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 1: I know that's I because I just said, like, it 136 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: was so interesting I was so aware. 137 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 2: Of And then I was like, well, I'm literally gonna 138 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 2: have to do it. 139 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: Now, and so I went along. 140 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: I did the shoot. 141 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: I was half naked in front of this whole Oh 142 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: my god, guys like shooting for a household name like 143 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 1: pest and Lass, like it is a whole it's a 144 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: whole other thing. There was like twenty people in the shoot, 145 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: and it's like the photographer was like a famous photographer. 146 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 1: He shot like guy Sebastian and shit cool, so many 147 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: other like babies people, but just so high level that 148 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: I hadn't really you know, been around. So the whole 149 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 1: experience was so cool and just the whole team was 150 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: so epic and to learn. 151 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 2: About it all. 152 00:07:55,200 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: But then after it, I just felt so liberate because 153 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 1: I went and did the thing I feared. 154 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you, Thank you so much. 155 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: Onto, and it's like I was like, you know, you 156 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 1: know what, I am going to show off my postpartum 157 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: body and I am going to be insanely proud and 158 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit here and you know, be my authentic self. 159 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: And literally, so they told me before the whole campaign 160 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: was Valentine's Day campaign literally going to be across all 161 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: their stores. 162 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 2: On YouTube ads and on TV ads. 163 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god, so like brook broadcasted everywhere. And so 164 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: that's when I was like, oh my god, no, I 165 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: have to do this and act I'm just so glad 166 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 1: I did it because after that shoot it was like 167 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 1: a clear turning point where I worked through my shit. 168 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 1: Obviously there was a lot of like journaling involved too, 169 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: and then the actual physical going there and turning up 170 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: and like like standing in those no, like my how 171 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: I look is not my you know, self worth? And 172 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 1: I am fucking proud of who I am and how 173 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: I physically am right now. Yeah, it was so liberating. 174 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: So I know you can't see that in the campaign video, 175 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 1: but it's just so beautiful and like sacred to me 176 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 1: because that's the story behind the campaign video. 177 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:18,959 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, love, that's so much. 178 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 1: I can't wait to show you, like the full campaign video. 179 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 2: Tea, I can't wait to say. I saw it yesterday. 180 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, of course. How was your week? It was 181 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 2: pretty good, pretty chill. 182 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 3: I think having Thursdays a public holiday really threw me 183 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:37,319 Speaker 3: off though, because I feel like I had a weekend 184 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 3: and then I did and then I worked for a day, 185 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 3: and then I had a weekend again. 186 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 2: I know on Friday we were like what the fuck 187 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 2: is happening? Yeah? Is it Monday? Is it Wednesday? 188 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: But also kind of nice to have like a little midwek. 189 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 2: Publicay, nice to have a little midweek brain. 190 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 1: I've worked a lot anyway, but yeah, it definitely threw 191 00:09:58,240 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: me off too. 192 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, like what days. Thank god we're back to a 193 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 2: normal week. I know. Grateful for no public holidays is going. 194 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:11,719 Speaker 1: All right in saying that, let's get into the episode. 195 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 1: All right, guys, but a tough love today. 196 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, so if you're not in the mood, maybe. 197 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:29,199 Speaker 1: Maybe skip this episode a little. I think I've expressed 198 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 1: to you guys that a big goal of mine, kind 199 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 1: of like a resolution, was at the end of last year, 200 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: me and my girlfriend went away and we did a 201 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: full audit of our year and our lives and then 202 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:45,080 Speaker 1: like created some goals and just something I realized that 203 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 1: I don't do is audit myself and like do it 204 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: more often a year, because you know, the reflection is 205 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 1: such an amazing tool. So, you know, we're getting towards 206 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 1: the end of the first month of a brand new 207 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 1: year twenty three. 208 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 2: I know, dude, Oh. 209 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,839 Speaker 1: My god, these these workdays are going so fast, wait 210 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 1: too quickly. 211 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 2: I just I can't but love that. 212 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 1: And so it's gonna be a bit of a tough love, 213 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 1: a bit of an audit, just like a let's have 214 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: a good think about what we've brought to the first 215 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: month of this new year, where we currently are, where 216 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: we're showing up in different avenues of our life, and 217 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: just be really honest with ourselves and go from there. 218 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 2: So I'm not attacking you. 219 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: If you're triggered, use this as this is interesting that 220 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 1: I'm getting triggered or upset by this. Maybe this is 221 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 1: what I need to look into. So like a big thing, 222 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: I just think it's so interesting and look it's it's something. 223 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 2: It's a trap that I fall into. 224 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: Is really having these exciting big goals and wanting this 225 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 1: big life and wanting all these things, but not doing 226 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: anything to change your current reality. 227 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 2: Hey have you done that? 228 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: Yes, It's literally a conversation I have to have with 229 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: myself and remind myself of every time I don't want 230 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 1: to do the work towards a goal, I have to 231 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: like almost get into like next level a tier and 232 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:34,239 Speaker 1: go stop. 233 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 2: Being a little bitch. 234 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 3: Like if you want something, you have to work for it, 235 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 3: and you're going to have to make changes because the 236 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:42,719 Speaker 3: reason you are where you are is because you've been 237 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,079 Speaker 3: doing exactly what you're doing. 238 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 1: Yes, so if you want something else, I actually have 239 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: to make conversation with my fitness coach about this this morning, 240 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 1: and I just I hate that he wants me to change, 241 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 1: but he's like, this. 242 00:12:57,520 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 2: Is literally what you're paying this. 243 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, can't I just do the same things and 244 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 3: you make it magic and fix, you know? 245 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 2: And he's like, what is happening right now? I'm like, 246 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 2: I know, I'm the worst person. 247 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 1: No, So I think I think this is such an 248 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 1: amazing thing of just getting really really honest, because it's like, 249 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 1: like you just you can't play with the same lovie people, 250 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 1: the same job you keep complaining about, you know, the 251 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: same routines that make you feel like shit and expect 252 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 1: a different result, because it's like, did you come into 253 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 1: this new year and you have all these amazing goals 254 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 1: and intentions and then show up in the exact same way? 255 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 1: Interesting or like maybe not to be as brutal, but 256 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: it's like where in your life are you wanting more 257 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: but you're not willing to change or you're not willing 258 00:13:55,960 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 1: to go to the extent of being curious to find 259 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: you know, something else or to find out what it 260 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 1: could be. 261 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 3: Like, Yeah, I think that's a big one, and I 262 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 3: think it's like a big thing. 263 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:14,679 Speaker 1: And this is like literally what I was having in 264 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 1: conversation with my fitness coach today is no one can 265 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: do it except you. 266 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 2: I have had the same It's. 267 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: The worst cart because you're like, I'm paying you, can 268 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 1: you just do it? 269 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 2: Literally, I had the same conversation with my coach. 270 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: And it's like, no one can do it except to you. 271 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: And so it's like where in your life are you 272 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:42,280 Speaker 1: kind of giving your power away and taking up a 273 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: lot of space in your head about wanting this thing, 274 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 1: but there's not actually any like implementation or change because 275 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 1: this is like I'm actually thinking of this the other 276 00:14:56,360 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 1: day of like when when I want something, whenever I 277 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: go after something, like it really does consume me and 278 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: it really does like ignite that fire. But if you, 279 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: you know, don't have the tools to then go get 280 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 1: that thing, or if you're literally just you're not willing 281 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 1: to invest in yourself, you know, you're you're not willing 282 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: to take any steps. You can't sit there and complain 283 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 1: that you're not having that thing, complain that others get 284 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 1: to have that thing. 285 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you're not sacrificing or taking the necessary risks 286 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 3: to get there, why do you deserve it. 287 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's like it's such a good like I 288 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 1: feel like I've said this in another episode. But you know, 289 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: like how you do one thing is how you do 290 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: everything in your life. 291 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 2: So if you what. 292 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 1: You'll find is when you show up in one area 293 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: of your life, it's going to be easier to show 294 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: up in the other areas. 295 00:15:57,720 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 2: Of your life. 296 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like this beautiful momentum that happens when you 297 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 1: just you get started. But the first thing is like 298 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: really being honest with yourself and being like, okay, where 299 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: can I shop? 300 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 2: So I want you guys. 301 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: To think of do a bit of an audit. I'm 302 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 1: gonna say some questions. 303 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 2: I'll leave some time. 304 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 1: Okay, are the people you're hanging around helping or hindering you? 305 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: Are you complaining about the same low vibe friends, but 306 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 1: you continue to contact them, You continue to, you know, 307 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: entertain their drama. Or are you someone who maybe attracts 308 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 1: drama there's always something happening, there's always something, or you know, 309 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 1: maybe you're someone who attracts people that literally treat you 310 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 1: like shit. Because if you see a common pattern, I'm sorry, 311 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 1: but you need to look where your responsibility is in 312 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: that know, if this thing keeps happening to you. 313 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 3: I think in this too, like what media are you 314 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 3: consuming and from who is that media from? 315 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 2: I love that. 316 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not even just talking about like people you 317 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:20,400 Speaker 1: physically spend time with. Yeah, like the people who it's 318 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: like I was listening to this podcast and he was 319 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: saying a very interesting like study was done and you 320 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 1: know adults. It's an adult had family who was obese. Yeah, 321 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: compared to their friends who were obese, they were more 322 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 1: inclined to also be obese if their friends were whoa 323 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 1: not necessarily their family. Interesting, it's the people they chose 324 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 1: to bring into their life they would mirror and have 325 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 1: a similar lifestyle and a similar you know, way of life. 326 00:17:58,400 --> 00:17:59,440 Speaker 2: That's so interesting. 327 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:03,159 Speaker 1: It's that same Jay Shatty podcast. So I'll link that 328 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 1: in the show notes. I just keep I keep referencing 329 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 1: that you should make it homework. It's a great episode. 330 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: But I just thought that was so interesting of like 331 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 1: the people you choose to have in your orbit. So again, 332 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:22,160 Speaker 1: this could be on social media. This could be physically 333 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:23,159 Speaker 1: very interesting. 334 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 3: I think even just people you're in touch with on 335 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 3: social media too, because people forget that like you can 336 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 3: have the people and the friends you physically spend time 337 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:34,719 Speaker 3: with be super high vibe. But you can have a 338 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 3: friend that dms with a different dramatic thing that's happening 339 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,640 Speaker 3: to them every week, whether it's on text or snapchat 340 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 3: or whatever they're sending it to you on You're still 341 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 3: around that energy and you're. 342 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 1: Still entertaining it if you're applying Yes. I actually had 343 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:52,199 Speaker 1: a really interesting thing happen where I had someone come 344 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 1: up who has previously, you know, given me drama in 345 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 1: my life and I have entertained it, and very you know, 346 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 1: got involved in that drama and then not loved that 347 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 1: experience with that person. 348 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 2: And this person on the weekend text me. 349 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 1: And it took everything inside me to not message this 350 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: person back because I felt like I wanted to defend 351 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: myself because they were, you know, personally attacking me. 352 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:22,240 Speaker 2: But I had to be like. The way that I. 353 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:25,919 Speaker 1: Kind of you know, came around to it was the 354 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:30,639 Speaker 1: boundary is you don't get to be in my proximity 355 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:34,159 Speaker 1: proximity and you don't get to you know, talk to 356 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 1: me like that and approach me like that. 357 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:38,560 Speaker 2: So the boundary is. 358 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:40,639 Speaker 1: I'm just not going to entertain that I'm not going 359 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 1: to reply. Yeah, I'm not even going to block you. You're 360 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 1: just not just like, no, I'm not acknowledging this, We're 361 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 1: not doing this. 362 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not giving you the attention you want. 363 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:54,360 Speaker 1: I love that, and I want to stress though it 364 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: was hard not to reply. I wanted to because I 365 00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 1: wanted to defend myself and be like. 366 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:01,360 Speaker 2: Because a lot of people they're. 367 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 1: Like, oh no, but it wasn't me getting involved in 368 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 1: the drama. I was just telling them the truth or 369 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:10,120 Speaker 1: y still getting involved in the drama. And I'm someone 370 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:11,639 Speaker 1: who loves drama. 371 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 2: But does it who doesn't. I'm gonna make sure it's 372 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 2: on the TV. 373 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 1: But in that moment, I was like, no, because I'm 374 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:22,959 Speaker 1: not even entertaining that. I'm not even entering this and 375 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: I'm not even like, I'm not even going down the 376 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 1: ladder to your low vibe. We just we're not yeah, 377 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 1: unless you're coming up here to my high vibe. We 378 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:35,199 Speaker 1: are not even conversing. I love that so much, and 379 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 1: that's it, and I just didn't message back, and that 380 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 1: was it. 381 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:39,639 Speaker 2: So proudy, thank you. 382 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 1: So it's interesting of even if you're not the one 383 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 1: who you know quote unquote starts it. But where is 384 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:49,400 Speaker 1: there something coming up in your life that you entertain 385 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 1: even if you're not involved. 386 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 2: In it well at all. 387 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 3: Like it's friends getting advice on situations therein, but it's 388 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,640 Speaker 3: still drama and it's still low vibe. Yes, I think 389 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:03,119 Speaker 3: it's completely fine. People should almost normalize sending your message 390 00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 3: to your friend being like, hey, like, that's a really 391 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 3: shitty situation to be in. I'm really sorry, but I 392 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 3: don't have the mental capacity right now to be dealing 393 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 3: with that with you. 394 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I don't appreciate when you emotionally dump on me. 395 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I don't have the space for it. 396 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 1: Never need to ask first, correct, Yeah, that's a boundary. 397 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my gosh. All right, guys, So have a 398 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 2: think about that. 399 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 1: Is the job you're in working towards something or contributing 400 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:38,640 Speaker 1: something to your purpose? Does it feel aligned? I think 401 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 1: with this too, To like put in perspective is that 402 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 1: your job might not always be directly contributing to your 403 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 1: higher purpose as a human, but as long as it 404 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,199 Speaker 1: feels good to you and facilitates and gives you the 405 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:56,679 Speaker 1: ability to fulfill your higher purpose, then it's worth it. 406 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 2: Yeah. And this is also. 407 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:02,160 Speaker 1: Like A great exam of this is like, for example, 408 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 1: you know, I really, I truly believe that my purpose 409 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 1: here on earth is to empower other women to step 410 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,159 Speaker 1: into their power and go after what they want and 411 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:16,160 Speaker 1: really love their authentic self. So I do that through 412 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 1: this podcast, I do it through my courses. I also 413 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: do that through Naked Harvests. Yeah, and they're completely different businesses, 414 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 1: but I feel like I am fulfilling my. 415 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:27,399 Speaker 2: Purpose in both. 416 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 1: So it can look really different, and also it can 417 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 1: be like, for example, I love how Tim used to 418 00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 1: see his job because you know, Tim used to be 419 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: a carpenter, and it's not like his you know, he felt. 420 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 2: Like social enterprise or anything. 421 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not like he felt like his you know, 422 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 1: purpose was to be on this earth to be a carpenter. 423 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: But what his job you know, did give him was 424 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 1: obviously being around you know, good people and giving him 425 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 1: the time and energy to do the other things that 426 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:02,479 Speaker 1: he liked on the weekend. And it's not always like 427 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 1: a straight thing. Yeah, if that makes sense. It's just 428 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 1: feel into your heart and be like, Okay, do I 429 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 1: feel like I'm on the right track now? Does this 430 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:18,400 Speaker 1: feel good? You know? For at the moment, yeah, all right, 431 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,360 Speaker 1: So now I want you to think about are your 432 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 1: routines supporting the person you dream of becoming? This is 433 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:30,160 Speaker 1: such a huge one, guys. We did a whole podcast 434 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 1: on kind of like routines I think a couple of 435 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: weeks back a tear, yeah, and maybe we'll link that 436 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,159 Speaker 1: in the show notes. And it's just about being really 437 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 1: raw and honest because I truly believe, like I said, 438 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 1: how you do one thing is how you do everything. 439 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 2: And it's really. 440 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,199 Speaker 1: Interesting because it doesn't have to be perfect, but you 441 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 1: just have to be really honest with yourself. Of For example, 442 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 1: something right now that I'm actually working on is my 443 00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:59,360 Speaker 1: nighttime routine. 444 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,880 Speaker 2: So my morning routine. 445 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,959 Speaker 1: Is like perfect aced it I really feel like in 446 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 1: my groove. That wasn't always the case. That's something I 447 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 1: worked on towards last year. But I really feel like 448 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 1: I've doubt like got my morning routine downpacked and it 449 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,000 Speaker 1: fills my cup up, it makes me productive, ticks my 450 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:21,160 Speaker 1: boxes at the moment, But my nighttime routine, I don't 451 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,439 Speaker 1: feel like I'm in a groove. And so I'm actually 452 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 1: kind of on this journey right now where I'm like 453 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 1: trying different things. I'm you know, dabbling in different things, 454 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:33,679 Speaker 1: different meditations, different ways of journaling, trying to see how 455 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 1: I can break this habit of scrolling on my phone 456 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 1: and because and that's the thing is that's okay, Like 457 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 1: I'm so happy to sit here and admit be like 458 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 1: I scroll my phone and this is you know, this 459 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 1: is an issue. 460 00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 461 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: But also I'm being very honest with myself and I'm 462 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,680 Speaker 1: like auditing and I'm like, okay, this is something I 463 00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 1: need to change, and I'm actively, you know, trying to 464 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: change it. So it's like we're in your routines? Are 465 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 1: you not actually a reflection of, like, you know, the 466 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 1: bigger goal? 467 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:13,679 Speaker 3: So many, so many places, so much room for improvement. 468 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 2: But how good? How I know you're so exciting. I'm 469 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 2: going to get my button to get to the next one. 470 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 1: Are your spending habits reflecting your big life? I love 471 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 1: this one so much because we did we answered a 472 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 1: hotline question about you know, what's the difference between feeling 473 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 1: abundant and just like spending all your money? 474 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:43,880 Speaker 2: Yep, And the. 475 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:46,719 Speaker 1: Shorter answer to that is the energy. 476 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:47,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 477 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 1: So I think it's so so important And it's actually 478 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: funny because me and Tim were talking about this, and 479 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,639 Speaker 1: we're on a bit of a health journey at the moment, 480 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:01,199 Speaker 1: and so a change that we are made king is 481 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 1: we're starting to buy organic food. This is something that 482 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 1: Tim is not necessarily on board with because it is 483 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,720 Speaker 1: more expensive, it is, yeah, and he's just like, I 484 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,400 Speaker 1: just don't understand, like. 485 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,439 Speaker 2: A tomato is a tamart kind of thing. Correct. 486 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,000 Speaker 1: And so we're going, you know, through this whole process 487 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 1: where I'm trying to explain to him, like, you know, 488 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 1: but it's not just the same because of the chemicals 489 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 1: and the food miles and all these different things that 490 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 1: are personal and a priority to me. 491 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 2: And so the way that I explain it to. 492 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,359 Speaker 1: Him is like I get that you may not understand it, 493 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 1: but this is a priority to me and my health 494 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 1: and because we eat as a family, this is something 495 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 1: I you know, want to implement. And so he's come 496 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 1: around and we are starting to buy you know, organic 497 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: and really focus on like the source of where our 498 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 1: food is coming from. Yeah, and that's like it's coming 499 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,679 Speaker 1: at a higher price, but it's something that I know 500 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,919 Speaker 1: is in my you know, long term goal, my higher 501 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 1: self and something that is really important. So it's something 502 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 1: that I'm going to do. 503 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 504 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 1: And this is even like, you know, I've decided, like 505 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,679 Speaker 1: even said before, to get a fitness coach, and this 506 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 1: is something I haven't had for years and years and 507 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,879 Speaker 1: years because I'm like, I'm you know, I know my 508 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 1: health and fitness blah blah blah blah, but I'm like, no, 509 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:20,160 Speaker 1: this is actually a priority for me. And I want 510 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,919 Speaker 1: someone to keep me accountable. Yeah, I want someone to 511 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 1: check in with me. And this is actually really important 512 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 1: to focus on this. 513 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 2: Goal and prompt that reflection. 514 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:32,439 Speaker 1: Yes. And so you know, even a big thing of 515 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,679 Speaker 1: if a big golf you you know this year is 516 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:39,880 Speaker 1: to do with going to your next level all these 517 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 1: big dreams or starting a business, but you're not investing 518 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,880 Speaker 1: in that journey or anything along the way. 519 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 2: You need to kind of be like, is it really 520 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:52,479 Speaker 2: a priority? Yeah? 521 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,199 Speaker 3: And I think even little things like not thinking of 522 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 3: it as such that maybe in your big life money 523 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,640 Speaker 3: is obviously not an issue and you're completely abundant and 524 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 3: it's amazing and you can go buy whatever you want, 525 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 3: whatever you want. It's not about embodying that and doing 526 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,439 Speaker 3: that now. It's more about what do I need to 527 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 3: invest in strategically to get myself there in the long run, Like, 528 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 3: is it a mindset course, is it a fitness coach? 529 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,719 Speaker 3: Is it what is going to get me to that 530 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,160 Speaker 3: next level that that human that lives that big life? 531 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 3: Because it is me and I need to figure out 532 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:24,920 Speaker 3: how I can get there. 533 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 2: I love it. 534 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:29,879 Speaker 1: And then because a big thing in that circumstance is 535 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 1: you know, for example, you know this fitness go I'm 536 00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:36,439 Speaker 1: talking about, is I know I can get there? I like, 537 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 1: I know I could personally get there myself, but I 538 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 1: know it's probably going to take two or three times 539 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 1: as long, right, and also a lot of mistakes and 540 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 1: a lot of me getting annoyed. Or I can just 541 00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 1: pay someone. 542 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 2: For the shortcut, for the shortcut. 543 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 1: And that's even like you know, I'm very open about 544 00:28:56,880 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: wanting a business coach, Yeah, because I I feel like 545 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 1: I feel. 546 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 2: Like I've told this story so many times, but like 547 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 2: one of. 548 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 1: The best investments I ever made was when I was 549 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: earning sixty thousand dollars. 550 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 2: This makes me sick. 551 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 1: I know when I was earning sixty thousand dollars, Wait, 552 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 1: I spent forty five thousand dollars on a business coach 553 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 1: because I like, my investment is myself is always going to. 554 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 2: Make a return. 555 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 1: I completely bet on myself, so I knew that was 556 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 1: a huge fucking investment. But I also had just so 557 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 1: much like I'm I know I'm going to make a return. 558 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: You know what, I love even more that I know 559 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,560 Speaker 1: you might not have thought of. Yeah, I telt me 560 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: that was probably one hundred percent of your income after dad. 561 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 2: Just me out on the street, but as a business coach. 562 00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 1: Actually, but you know what I was paying for. I 563 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 1: was paying for someone who had already done the thing 564 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 1: I wanted to do, to give me the formula and 565 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 1: be like, cool, here's how you did do it, and 566 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 1: that's one hundred percent. That's why I've been able to 567 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 1: like quantum leap and really like achieve. 568 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,040 Speaker 2: Huge things very quickly. 569 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm fucking willing to put skin in the game. 570 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, let's go. 571 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 3: It's like you get out what you put in, and 572 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 3: making that investment in yourself is literally screaming to the 573 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,440 Speaker 3: universe like I'm ready for my next level, bring it 574 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 3: to me quickly. 575 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 1: Yes, And also like, yeah, I'm willing to better myself, 576 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like I'm ready to put skin in the game. 577 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:42,600 Speaker 2: And it's I. 578 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:47,080 Speaker 1: Don't know, it's that's that was the biggest energy shift, 579 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 1: which was then you know, obviously such a byproduct or 580 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 1: what happened next, but that's a huge energy shift. 581 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:55,240 Speaker 2: And what did happen next? 582 00:30:55,720 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 1: I made lots of money, no, yes, well yes that 583 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 1: and then also I you know, learned how to start 584 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 1: a business. I learned how to do all the things. 585 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 1: And also that person like when you're paying that sort 586 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,520 Speaker 1: of money, You're like, fuck, I better have some results. 587 00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 1: And so every single week, like I would show up 588 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 1: in so much like we are doing this thing, and 589 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 1: we are launching, and I'm going to make sure. And 590 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:32,160 Speaker 1: that was really a pinnacle point in my career where 591 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:37,120 Speaker 1: I shifted from a quote unquote influencer yeah, to an entrepreneur. 592 00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 1: And it really took taking myself seriously and betting on myself. Obviously, 593 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: you know, everyone's journey is so so different. That was 594 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 1: just such a huge. 595 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 2: Moment for me. 596 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 1: And it's funny because I had then had a couple 597 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 1: of years where I didn't have a coach because I 598 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 1: was really in the doing, the doing stages and the implementing, 599 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,720 Speaker 1: and then I've only rea come around again where I 600 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm ready for like the next level, 601 00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 1: like the big big next level main big life, and 602 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: I want some help getting there. Yeah, and I want 603 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: to do it now, need it quick, Need it quick. 604 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 2: It's an even about that. 605 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 1: I also just like I love I love learning from people. Yeah, 606 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:23,720 Speaker 1: you know, like I think truly the moment that you're like, 607 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 1: oh no, I don't need to learn anymore. 608 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 2: Nah, yeah you did. Literally literally, my mum. 609 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 3: One of one of the things she always says that 610 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 3: I love is that when you find the right person 611 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,479 Speaker 3: that's meant to teach you something, you'll know and you 612 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,120 Speaker 3: just shouldn't question it because other people in your life 613 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:44,520 Speaker 3: can tell you the same things. They're telling you. You 614 00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 3: can hear it from everywhere, but when that person explains 615 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 3: it to you in their way, that's what's going to 616 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:52,320 Speaker 3: resonate with you. And when you feel that, don't question it, 617 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:53,400 Speaker 3: just keep going. 618 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 2: I love that so much. 619 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 1: It's literally like this is going off on a Tan 620 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 1: Trent but like it's literally my. 621 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,320 Speaker 2: Whole thing with Tim doing Jim in the morning. 622 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: Guys, you've probably heard the story, but so I have 623 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 1: been jimming in the morning literally since I was like nineteen. Yeah, 624 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 1: and I it's like for me, it's like it's when 625 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: I do my workout. There's no chance I'm working out 626 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 1: in the afternoon. I just don't work that way. Tim 627 00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 1: always worked out in the afternoons, but then once he 628 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 1: became a dad, he was really struggling because he just 629 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 1: would not get his work out in because of you 630 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 1: know this and that, and for so long, I'm like, babe, 631 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 1: just work out in the morning before Ivy wakes up 632 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 1: and then it's done. 633 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 2: You don't have to think about it. And he's like, no, 634 00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 2: can't work on the morning. I feel so shit, blah 635 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 2: blah blah. 636 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 1: Because he did it, like he did it once and 637 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 1: he felt like, yeah, no joke. He started working out 638 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 1: in the morning, and it's all he talks about. 639 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 4: And he goes up to random people and he's like, oh, yeah, 640 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 4: have you tried working out in the morning, And I'm like, 641 00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 4: I told you for years And he even comes up 642 00:33:59,920 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 4: to me it's like, Babe, working out the morning, it's 643 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 4: just the thing, like it's it's life changing. 644 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 2: I'm like, I know I told you this, and. 645 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 1: He said, I'm like, oh my god, you. 646 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 3: Really I really can't watch me the exact same thing 647 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:19,120 Speaker 3: when I start. 648 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 2: Working out in the morning. 649 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 1: Don't even fucking start with me, all right, I'm feeling 650 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 1: rapped up anyway, we got really off topic, sanded, but 651 00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:33,879 Speaker 1: think about your spinning habits, all right, guys. So I 652 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:36,719 Speaker 1: hope that kind of helped you really get in like 653 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 1: the juices of Oh, where are the blind spots? Where 654 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 1: am I currently wanting something but not willing to show up, 655 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: you know in that area, not willing to shift, not 656 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 1: willing to change the energy and do something different. But 657 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,359 Speaker 1: I'm wanting something different. 658 00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 2: Because this is huge. It's it's just like your. 659 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,840 Speaker 1: Future self is determined by all the little things you 660 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:09,360 Speaker 1: do right now. Your boundaries have a direct correlation to 661 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:13,040 Speaker 1: where your energy is going towards, and that will be 662 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:17,799 Speaker 1: a direct correlation to whether you build your dream reality 663 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 1: or not. And I know that's it's so brutal, and 664 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:26,799 Speaker 1: I get everyone's on different journal journeys, but sometimes it's 665 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 1: like you've just got to be really brutally honest with 666 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,280 Speaker 1: yourself and just be like, hmmm, this is so interesting, 667 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 1: what's actually happening here? And maybe where do I need 668 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:37,640 Speaker 1: to shift when I need to get some help? Where 669 00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,120 Speaker 1: do I need to show up differently? And like It 670 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: doesn't have to be easy, and sometimes you will have 671 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:46,800 Speaker 1: to sacrifice. Like for me, paying weekly for a fitness 672 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 1: coach wasn't something I've ever done before. I'm pretty sure 673 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 1: I spoke on the podcast last year where I said 674 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 1: spending money on Jim didn't feel good for me. So 675 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:56,880 Speaker 1: now to be spending money on Jim and a coach 676 00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 1: on top of that was huge. But I looked at 677 00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: my spending habits and I was like, Wow, I'm paying 678 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 1: or I'll like go to Mecca and buy something every week, 679 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 1: or I'll buy clothes every week, or I'll buy something 680 00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 1: every week. But for some reason, I feel like I 681 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 1: can't spend this money on would Why did I have 682 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 1: a block about spending that money on my fitness and 683 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,000 Speaker 1: when I tell myself it's my priority And also like, 684 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,960 Speaker 1: let's just do a season of that and see what 685 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:23,720 Speaker 1: fucking happens. 686 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, do you mean not gonna hurt. I'll just be 687 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,240 Speaker 2: fitter at the end of it, Like there's no harm. 688 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,000 Speaker 1: I love that so much, and it's like something I 689 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:35,280 Speaker 1: want to remind you guys, is like you can't always 690 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 1: wait for the right time. You can't always wait to 691 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,960 Speaker 1: have enough money or to feel ready or to feel 692 00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:44,680 Speaker 1: like you have enough experience, because you'll probably find that 693 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:49,520 Speaker 1: there's never a right time to like do things such 694 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,880 Speaker 1: a big thing, and it's like what you don't realize 695 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:56,239 Speaker 1: is like when you actually get uncomfortable, that is where 696 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 1: the magic is. That's when you get uncomfortable and you 697 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,720 Speaker 1: stick to it. You know, you were paving the way 698 00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 1: for a different reality, for something new. So if you 699 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:12,960 Speaker 1: do change things and you're getting uncomfortable, literally be like, amazing, 700 00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 1: this is so great because I literally I was here 701 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:19,600 Speaker 1: and it was really ingrained and now I'm shifting and 702 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:20,680 Speaker 1: I'm going over this way. 703 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:21,960 Speaker 2: I love it. 704 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,759 Speaker 1: All right, my love, So I hope you enjoyed that episode, 705 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 1: just you know, to recap, Like the people who have 706 00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 1: what you dream of, they didn't get there by playing 707 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:38,319 Speaker 1: victim to their excuses or limiting beliefs, staying in the 708 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 1: same programming. They got there by taking bold action, investing 709 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:47,399 Speaker 1: in themselves, taking risks. I love that your new thing 710 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:50,400 Speaker 1: is taking risks at here. By the way, Oh, it's huge, 711 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 1: my theme for the year, theme for the year, and 712 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 1: it's so exciting. I can even like CeNSE a difference 713 00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:55,400 Speaker 1: in you. 714 00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 2: Oh, thank you. It's awesome. 715 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 1: Like, at the end of the day, guys, like, anyone 716 00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: can dream big and have these like burning desires for more, 717 00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:10,120 Speaker 1: but not everyone takes action towards that, And that's what 718 00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:14,879 Speaker 1: sets people aside from being successful or creating their dream 719 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:19,160 Speaker 1: reality or just having you know, an ordinary nice to have. 720 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 2: Is that the right wording? I think so it's. Yeah. 721 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:29,560 Speaker 3: That's the difference between successful people and those that aren't 722 00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,200 Speaker 3: or like, the people that do the things is that 723 00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:33,720 Speaker 3: they have the guts to do the things. 724 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,239 Speaker 2: Yeah. Of course everyone can sit there and say they 725 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:36,880 Speaker 2: want something. 726 00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's the people who actually take the action 727 00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,800 Speaker 1: that's action is going to be so different for everyone. 728 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 1: But like, you've got to figure it out. Yeah, I 729 00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,880 Speaker 1: can't tell you exactly what it is. You've got to 730 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 1: try some things. Yeah, well I'm excited. I'm excited too. 731 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,560 Speaker 1: I hope you loved this tough love. I really this 732 00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,399 Speaker 1: was not an attack. I meant, this was so much love, 733 00:38:57,719 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 1: And I hope there was something that stood out that 734 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:03,640 Speaker 1: you're like, hmmm, gonna I'm gonna change something, all right, 735 00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:04,840 Speaker 1: Thanks so much, guys. 736 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 5: Bye bye, Thank you so much for listening to another 737 00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 5: episode of the Rise and Conquer podcast. 738 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:16,640 Speaker 2: If you enjoyed it and. 739 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:20,920 Speaker 1: Want more, come connect with us on Instagram at Riseinconquer 740 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 1: dot podcast and join our Facebook discussion group, a Rise 741 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:26,880 Speaker 1: and Concer podcast community. 742 00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:28,800 Speaker 2: We're an independent. 743 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,839 Speaker 1: Podcast and we have a small team, so we do 744 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:34,200 Speaker 1: appreciate your time and support. If you have a spare moment, 745 00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:38,360 Speaker 1: a follow or subscribe on whatever platform you listen to 746 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:42,800 Speaker 1: would be so amazing, And look, if you're feeling extra kind, 747 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,880 Speaker 1: a review on Apple Podcasts would be great.