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Speaker 1: And Amanda gem Nation. We've been a winning proposal that's

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Speaker 1: gone viral under the headline ungrateful wife won't say yes.

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Speaker 1: That's inflammatory language. Let me tell you what this before

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Speaker 1: we play it for you. What the image is. It's

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Speaker 1: a guy on his knee, you know, down on one

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Speaker 1: knee in his kitchen, next to a solitary small balloon

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Speaker 1: that says a r y me, can't even spell mary,

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Speaker 1: marry me, marry me, and he's obviously filming the moment

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Speaker 1: for himself. He's down on one knee with that balloon.

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Speaker 1: And here's how it went.

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Speaker 2: Seriously, ten years.

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Speaker 1: You can't even spell marry correctly?

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Speaker 2: Ten years, ten years? This is what I got. Yeah, well, Jesus,

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Speaker 2: choice drive. Everything is always so half hearted with you,

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Speaker 2: do you know what? I'm not being funny, fabulous, lovely rain,

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Speaker 2: but this is not for me. Ten years I've been

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Speaker 2: asking you for this, and you know I would have

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Speaker 2: thought you would make an effort. It's an engagement. People

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Speaker 2: get to say, I work difference if I was replacing

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Speaker 2: to you, and it's taking me somewhere on a beautiful

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Speaker 2: island to show you that is what you take me

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Speaker 2: to a local park.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, but marriage, life.

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Speaker 2: Living together takes effort.

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Speaker 1: And if you can't put an effort, now what happened?

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Speaker 2: No, I don't, so do you know what? Honestly I think,

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Speaker 2: I think couples canceling wuld be the best idea of

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Speaker 2: the marriage.

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Speaker 1: It's the comments are very interesting. People are saying, yes,

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Speaker 1: she should flick him ten years he obviously doesn't care enough.

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Speaker 1: Others are saying, run mate, You've done everything and she

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Speaker 1: doesn't appreciate any of it. All the two camps really,

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Speaker 1: which is very nuanced in that he's doing the bare

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Speaker 1: minimum enough. That's what he's saying, this is what you

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Speaker 1: want here it is, and she's saying, you know how

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Speaker 1: much this matters to me, and you still can't be

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Speaker 1: bothered making an effort. It's like if your partner goes

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Speaker 1: crazy if you leave dishes on the sink or or

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Speaker 1: something gives her enormous pleasure. If you think if you

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Speaker 1: bring her a cup of teen she loves that and

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Speaker 1: you don't do it, that shows that you don't care

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Speaker 1: about their feelings. And that's really important to people, and

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Speaker 1: particularly I think maybe two women. I don't know, but

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Speaker 1: she is seeing he's saying, I'm doing the gesture, isn't

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Speaker 1: that enough? And she's saying, no, it's not enough, And

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Speaker 1: it's okay to say that's not enough, the bare minimum

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Speaker 1: isn't enough. What do you think?

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Speaker 2: It's a tricky one because at the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: but ten years, have been together.

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Speaker 1: For ten years, and that's what people are saying. Why

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Speaker 1: she put up with it for this long?

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Speaker 2: And she sounds just because I thought at first it

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Speaker 2: might have been a bit fake. But then there's a

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Speaker 2: bit there where she's just over it and she says

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Speaker 2: maybe couples canceling. But then again, maybe there's a point

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Speaker 2: where you said, do you split up after ten years?

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Speaker 2: Are they going to break up? I've got kids? What's

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Speaker 2: their backstory?

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Speaker 1: Who would know any of that? But maybe this is

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Speaker 1: the moment where she's going, you know what this is.

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Speaker 1: He's not making any effort for the stuff he knows

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Speaker 1: matters to me.

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Speaker 2: I think I might A lot of guys that have

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Speaker 2: been in a long term relationship that aren't married. They

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Speaker 2: feel a lot of pressure from outside other people saying, oh,

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Speaker 2: you should get married, what are you going to ask

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Speaker 2: her to be engaged? And all that sort of stuff,

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Speaker 2: So in a way they almost go I'm just going

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Speaker 2: to do it this father.

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Speaker 1: So I'm going to do it today. It's Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: I'll buy a balloon, I'll misspell marry. But also there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of pressure because of all the internet footage

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Speaker 1: of credible gestures that are made. She's saying, I don't

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Speaker 1: need that, but I just need you to think about

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Speaker 1: what I'd like to put a bit of care into this.

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Speaker 1: And if he can't be bothered doing it for a

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Speaker 1: big moment like this, what's the other stuff he's going

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Speaker 1: to let slip.

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Speaker 2: Perhaps, you know, a bit of auto correct on his balloon.

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Speaker 1: And but I'm with her on this, and the fact

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Speaker 1: that the headline to this is ungrateful. Wife won't say yes,

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Speaker 1: this is where women are. Anyone is allowed to say.

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Speaker 1: I deserve better than this.

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Speaker 2: I said to see where he's coming from. I'm straddling

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Speaker 2: the two camps. Can I do that?

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen the video of that.