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Speaker 1: Get a I'm Lola Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter,

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Speaker 1: and professional oversharer. This podcast is all about celebrating failure

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Speaker 1: because I believe it's a chance for us to learn,

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Speaker 1: grow and face our blind spots. Each week, I'll interview

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Speaker 1: a different guest about their highs as well as their lows,

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Speaker 1: all in a bid to inspire us to fearlessly fail.

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Speaker 1: Holy mackerel on the pod today is David the Medium.

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Speaker 1: He's a psychic and medium. This was incredible.

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Speaker 2: Get ready to have.

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Speaker 1: Your mind blown and have feel all the goosebumps. David

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Speaker 1: shared a lot of his I asked a lot about

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Speaker 1: his story, how he came to be a medium, What

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Speaker 1: happens when he's doing a reading? Does he feel, see, hear, smell, taste,

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Speaker 1: how he gets into taking a reading, Like, is there

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Speaker 1: a moment before or anything that happens before doing a reading?

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Speaker 1: I cannot wait for you to hear this. He does

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Speaker 1: do a reading on me and I've never ever seen

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Speaker 1: a medium before, so everything you hear is yeah for

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Speaker 1: a very raw, first time experience of it, and David,

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Speaker 1: you blew me away. You are an absolute legend. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna put all of his details in the show notes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just hope you love this.

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Speaker 1: I'm still I'm still like on a high from it.

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Speaker 1: You know that feeling when you're like, oh my godten

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Speaker 1: then this happened, Then this happens. So I hope you

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Speaker 1: love it. I'm going to jump straight into this episode.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. You are wonderful.

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Speaker 2: David the Medium, David.

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Speaker 1: The Medium, Lola bar how are you? Can I say

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Speaker 1: something straight off the bat.

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Speaker 2: Please, I'm nervous.

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Speaker 3: Why nervous?

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Speaker 1: Because I have literally like fanned over you. No, and

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Speaker 1: I've been listening to I'm pretty sure I've listened to

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Speaker 1: every single interview and reading and everything you've ever done

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Speaker 1: that I could find and get my eye.

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Speaker 3: Ut hahaa, you're too kind.

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Speaker 2: But you know what I mean. So I feel like,

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Speaker 2: oh my goodness, I feel like I'm meaning a star.

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Speaker 3: Wow. I thought the same about you. I was like,

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Speaker 3: Lola Berry's in my hotel room.

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Speaker 2: Beautiful hotel room.

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Speaker 3: By the way, just don't look behind me because there's

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Speaker 3: like a bomb site with my clothes.

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Speaker 2: But that's fine, beautiful, it's very clean. You have nothing

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Speaker 2: to worry about.

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Speaker 1: So I'm so excited to have you on the pod

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Speaker 1: for so many reasons. But first of all, I want

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Speaker 1: to start off with a few little just kind of like,

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Speaker 1: let's demister five few things and I want your story.

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Speaker 3: Sure.

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Speaker 1: First of all, you're a psychic and a medium, I am,

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Speaker 1: and a clearvoyant or are they?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, please educate me.

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Speaker 3: So I am what I call the psychic clairvoyant and

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Speaker 3: a spiritual meat. So a medium is someone who can see, hear,

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Speaker 3: and feel or essentially communicate with spirits, so those that

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Speaker 3: have crossed over. Yeah, And a psychic is someone who

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Speaker 3: can see, predict, and feel the future and go into

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Speaker 3: future timelines.

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Speaker 2: So good.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I am both. Most mediums are psychics, but

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Speaker 3: not all psychics are mediums. There you got a little

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Speaker 2: I did not know that, Thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I want to go back to when you're

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Speaker 1: twenty four years old.

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Speaker 2: You're working like quite corporate law.

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Speaker 3: Are you working legal? Yeah? So my background was legal. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I predominantly did paralegal and admin work. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So not super spiritual, one would say.

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Speaker 3: Not at all. I was honestly a skeptic in some ways,

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Speaker 3: Like I wasn't raised religious. I didn't really have a

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Speaker 1: A workmate that was like, Yo, have you ever had

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Speaker 2: Do you want to get one?

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Speaker 3: It was really weird, like I just started at this

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Speaker 3: I was like, Wow, if this medium is the real deal,

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Speaker 3: I went in so like arrogant and stubborn, like I

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Speaker 3: was like, if she asked any questions, I'm just giving

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Speaker 3: you know, really just obnoxious about it, and to say

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Speaker 3: me a question. I was like, well, clearly, like I mean,

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Speaker 3: the conversations that she just said to me, like, there's

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Speaker 2: How did that make you feel that?

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Speaker 1: Were you like confronted by that or were you like, oh, oh,

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Speaker 3: Well my brain kicked in and you know, the like

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Speaker 3: She's like, I actually thought you knew. But the more

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Speaker 3: But she ran a mentoring class and she wanted me

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Speaker 3: done your research this is great. Yeah. So yeah, in

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Speaker 3: So for everyone listening, like I basically got up off

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Speaker 3: and she's like, just say whatever you feel, whatever you

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Speaker 3: the mentoring in the training. And I'm a short guy,

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Speaker 2: That So were you scared when you were like, oh,

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Speaker 3: Well? Not even because I think I suddenly felt like

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Speaker 2: So then you kept doing like the mentorship.

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Speaker 3: I did mentoring with her for around yeah, about eighteen months,

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Speaker 3: two years.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: So and then I've heard you describe like the job

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Speaker 2: Like it was a game of throne style, like really was?

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Speaker 2: And you were studying as well, weren't you prosecution or something.

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Speaker 3: I was working from a prosecution. That was my last

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Speaker 3: job at studying counter terrorism. Yeah, so David when he

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was my goal. Yeah, like I was going

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Speaker 2: Because it wasn't your like aligning purpose.

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Speaker 3: Was it meant to be exactly right? It was just

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Speaker 1: So did you have to have like this sense of

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Speaker 3: Sort of like talk about more of these.

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Speaker 1: Balls in the Yeah, you know what I mean though, Like,

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Speaker 3: Not even I think, because I was so sort of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't tell everyone that because I gave you the

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Speaker 1: No, But seriously, like and I, both people were like

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Speaker 3: And I'm so grateful.

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Speaker 1: It's this is going to sound cliche, but do you

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Speaker 2: You are the first.

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Speaker 3: Don't you dare meet any others? Notice you're mine now

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Speaker 3: I'll cut them amazing. I come from love, but I

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Speaker 2: Okay, you are pH normal.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I want to ask and not nitty gritty now,

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Speaker 1: but like, I just want to understand. So I listen

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Speaker 1: to read for my lovely friend Sam like he's he's

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Speaker 2: You've got to hear the reading. Oh my goodness, lovely,

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Speaker 1: And it was really interesting to hear, like without knowing

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Speaker 3: That's your loved ones watching over you. By the way,

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Speaker 2: Oh I love I really really like that.

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Speaker 2: Twenty four to seven.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, under so I am David and David the medium.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that makes sense. I have actually very good on

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Speaker 3: And Spirit's very respectful as well, like they know when

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Speaker 1: I love that you've said that because like some I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like everywhere. Yeah, and all the buildings are

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Speaker 3: We're doing to read in like a CD old motel.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know, like you've probably picked up and

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: Like I can freak myself.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I was petrified.

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Speaker 1: But I just love the way you And I know

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Speaker 3: Well, that's the thing. That's also the energy that you

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean it's all about the intention that

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Speaker 1: So so do you have like before you read for

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Speaker 2: Do you take a little moment?

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Speaker 1: being like guilty, Yeah, you're strike rate was banged.

442
00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:04,280
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, so yeah, every time someone got arrested or

443
00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:06,680
Speaker 3: they came before the court, so i'n't always know whether

444
00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:09,240
Speaker 3: they were going to be like innocent, found innocent, guilty,

445
00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:10,920
Speaker 3: found innocent, guilty, found guilty.

446
00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:16,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's a TV show in itself, that right, amazing. Yeah,

447
00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:19,320
Speaker 1: So okay, the next thing I want I'm really excited

448
00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:21,520
Speaker 1: to know is like, so you're kind of like clear

449
00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:21,960
Speaker 1: your mind?

450
00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:26,040
Speaker 2: Is it then that you feel here, see taste, smell,

451
00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:26,760
Speaker 2: I feel like.

452
00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:31,760
Speaker 3: Five, yeah, oh lucky you Yeah, so yeah predominantly see

453
00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:35,040
Speaker 3: you here and feel so for everyone listening that maybe

454
00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:40,000
Speaker 3: doesn't get that. I mean seeing is I can when

455
00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:42,840
Speaker 3: I close my eyes, I see the exact same room

456
00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:44,679
Speaker 3: as I would see with my eyes open, but suddenly

457
00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:47,720
Speaker 3: there's maybe energy standing behind people, like predominantly shadows, but

458
00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:49,879
Speaker 3: you can kind of tell whether it's male or female.

459
00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:53,480
Speaker 3: And Spirit uses my brain like a library, so they'll

460
00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:55,960
Speaker 3: also bring up my own knowledge and things that are

461
00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:58,080
Speaker 3: culture culture exactly.

462
00:19:58,240 --> 00:19:59,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's what I love.

463
00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:02,000
Speaker 1: When I listened to the reading of my mate, you

464
00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:04,159
Speaker 1: started seeing a song right off the bat, You're like,

465
00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 1: does this song mean anything to you?

466
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:07,280
Speaker 3: If you said that, I can remember.

467
00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:10,320
Speaker 1: It's like a starlight song and it's really fair.

468
00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:12,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it. I remember that.

469
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's amazing though.

470
00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:20,040
Speaker 3: It really is just so special because I allow them

471
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:21,720
Speaker 3: to use my brain and that's the thing. They will

472
00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 3: do things like that, and sometimes they even show me

473
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,880
Speaker 3: parts of their lives, like I literally feel like I'm

474
00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,840
Speaker 3: watching home movies on like the nineties with video camera

475
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:34,800
Speaker 3: exactly legit. So that scene hearing is they will speak

476
00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:37,040
Speaker 3: to me sometimes in my own inner voice, but sometimes

477
00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,520
Speaker 3: I hear their voices as well. Spirit also plays yes,

478
00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,360
Speaker 3: as we were just saying, like music in my head,

479
00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,160
Speaker 3: and sometimes like I said, it sounds like my own

480
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:46,960
Speaker 3: inner voice, but sometimes it sounds like they're at the

481
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,760
Speaker 3: end of the whole way yelling out at me. Yeah.

482
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:53,960
Speaker 3: And feeling is yeah, I feel emotion, I feel senses,

483
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 3: I feel them in general, and also body feelings as well.

484
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,040
Speaker 3: So for example, knows who was saying before, or someone

485
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:02,719
Speaker 3: has a heart attack, my heart will get sor if

486
00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,560
Speaker 3: they have a stroke, my forehead will tingle.

487
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:07,920
Speaker 2: That is mind boggling to me.

488
00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 3: And it is a game of translation because spirit doesn't

489
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,680
Speaker 3: necessarily talk to me directly, but it's sort of like

490
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,119
Speaker 3: it's just become a very sort of decoding way. So

491
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:17,920
Speaker 3: they will show me certain things and I'll instantly know

492
00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:18,439
Speaker 3: what they mean.

493
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 1: Right, because when it wasn't before all the COVID stuff

494
00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,560
Speaker 1: blew up, weren't you getting all these messages about the

495
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:24,640
Speaker 1: Spanish are coming.

496
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:26,359
Speaker 3: In the Spanish should coming. Yeah, so a lot of

497
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 3: people listening. If I read you in twenty nineteen, I

498
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,760
Speaker 3: probably told you the Spanish were coming. And I was

499
00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 3: saying to people, I was like, oh, you're Chinese. It's

500
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 3: like you you don't have any like Spanish relatives. I

501
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 3: can't imagine. And I was saying to people. I was like,

502
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 3: do you have friends in Spain and they're like nah,

503
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 3: And I was like, well, the Spanish should coming, apparently,

504
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:43,400
Speaker 3: And it got to the point where spirit was saying

505
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 3: that really a lot of the whole of twenty nineteen,

506
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 3: and I got to the point where I was like,

507
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 3: I'm not even going to bother saying this to anyone

508
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 3: because no one's understanding how interesting. And then eventually the

509
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 3: Spanish came. So as everyone knows, corona is Spanish for

510
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 3: head or crown.

511
00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, this is what you're saying. But also my brain'

512
00:21:59,000 --> 00:21:59,919
Speaker 2: seeing strange flu.

513
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 3: Straight away, biggest pandemic, yes, yeah, and what I've found

514
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 3: in hindsight, and this is the cool part. Anyone that

515
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 3: I asked if the Spanish were coming, they were the

516
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,720
Speaker 3: ones that originally got COVID back in twenty twenty. Oh,

517
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 3: they've told me that, like I ended up with COVID.

518
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:18,960
Speaker 3: I'm like everyone I seemed to tell the spanishal company

519
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:20,160
Speaker 3: all ended up with COVID. Yeah.

520
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 2: Oh so it was a little heads up, but it

521
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:22,360
Speaker 2: was a little.

522
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're gonna get some Spanish, and maybe not the

523
00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 3: way that you want, Like you know, it's.

524
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 1: Sort of like, yeah, Oh my goodness, Okay, I've heard

525
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 1: this is a quote of yours and I frigging love it.

526
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:33,160
Speaker 3: Gosh.

527
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 2: Life is a classroom for the soul.

528
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 1: So everything you have going on in life is kind

529
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:42,440
Speaker 1: of like a subject. Like relationships might be maths, financial

530
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:43,680
Speaker 1: freedom might be English.

531
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:45,680
Speaker 2: Can you describe it?

532
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 1: Like I've probably explained it perfectly by quoting here, but like,

533
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:50,439
Speaker 1: is that what you say? Like is that the way

534
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:51,200
Speaker 1: you kind of look at it?

535
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 3: Hundred percent? So the biggest question we all have is like, well,

536
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 3: what is the meaning of life? And I think it

537
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 3: sounds so simple, but when you actually think about it,

538
00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,119
Speaker 3: it's like, well, why are we here? Why are we

539
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 3: doing this? Like why is the sky blue? Like you know,

540
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 3: all these questions about like why are we doing what

541
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 3: we're doing? And that's the simple answer, Like life is

542
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 3: classroom for the soul. The soul has to come to

543
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 3: this plane or this world and evolve and learn and

544
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 3: grow and expand like we do when we're in school. Yeah,

545
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 3: so interesting, and before we come here, we essentially the

546
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 3: soul knows why it has to and it knows it's

547
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 3: life journey and everything that it's going to pick up,

548
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:29,879
Speaker 3: kind of like us a role in for university, Like

549
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,119
Speaker 3: we know that we're going to study finance. We know

550
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,359
Speaker 3: that we're not randomly just going yeah, and then we

551
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 3: are obviously born into the human experience, and you know,

552
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 3: the human side of us literally has no idea what

553
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:41,640
Speaker 3: happens next week, but the soul dance because the soul

554
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,440
Speaker 3: knows why it's here. Ah. And that's also part of

555
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 3: being able to be psychic, because essentially, for the most part,

556
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 3: our timelines in a lot of ways are sort of

557
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 3: pre ridden. Oh yeah, so when we.

558
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 2: Were always meant to record this in La well we

559
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 2: were probably not the amount of times we tried in Melbourne.

560
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Yeah, well, yes, that's the thing, because yeah,

561
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 3: you were in Melbourne when I was moving house.

562
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 2: And it just wasn't aligning.

563
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 3: It wasn't happening a wad.

564
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 2: But now we're two minutes from one another, do you

565
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 2: know what I mean?

566
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 3: So random, isn't it?

567
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 2: And okay, I've got another quota of yours.

568
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 3: I really like, is it talk shit, get hit? Not?

569
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, you're amazing.

570
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 1: Okay, So we're all souls having a human experience, not

571
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:29,120
Speaker 1: the other way around, humans having a spiritual experience.

572
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 2: So that goes back on what you were just saying.

573
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly right. Like at the end of the day,

574
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 3: what we have that makes us us is our soul

575
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 3: and we are in a human body at the moment.

576
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 3: So we're not humans that are connecting with you know,

577
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 3: an afterlife and a weirder power and you know, voodoo

578
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 3: woo woo mediumship. It's sort of like we're all souls

579
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 3: that came from somewhere. We're all going somewhere after this,

580
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 3: and we're here for the human experience. Now, I love it.

581
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 1: I work with a hypnotherapist and therapist and he literally

582
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: says that to me on the rig. Come on, Lola,

583
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 1: So I have this is a funny question. What about

584
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: the dating game, Like you're asking the wrong person, but

585
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,680
Speaker 1: like what if you're on a date, right and you're like, yeah,

586
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 1: I'm a medium, and do they does it either go

587
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 1: one of two ways? One are they like show me

588
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: a party trick like let's or is it like do

589
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: you ever get bad vibes?

590
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,200
Speaker 3: Well, it goes one of twenty ways. Yeah, Like I

591
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,679
Speaker 3: mean that's the thing. So, I mean, I mean everyone

592
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 3: that knows me surprised I'm gay, But like amazing coming

593
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 3: out of the closet. It was it was easier to

594
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 3: be very fair because people may not agree with homosexuality,

595
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 3: they may not have an interest in it. I mean

596
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,879
Speaker 3: either way, I don't care like whatever, but people know

597
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 3: what it is. So if you tell someone that you're gay,

598
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 3: they know what that is and they accept it in

599
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,400
Speaker 3: their own ways. Yeah, you tell someone you're a medium,

600
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 3: oh my gosh. They I mean, I've got people that

601
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 3: are fascinated. I've got people that believe even that. I've

602
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,199
Speaker 3: got people that instantly think I'm a fraud. I've got

603
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 3: people that instantly think I'm mentally unwell. Like it's it

604
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 3: goes when it comes to dating. I mean, for anyone listening,

605
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 3: hit me up on Instagram because it's easier because people

606
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 3: already know what I do on Instagram. But I don't

607
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 3: date anyway because you know, like coaches don't you know,

608
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 3: coaches don't play like I just don't. Teachers don't teach

609
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 3: what they do actually, but so it's it's but again

610
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 3: it's my own self limiting beliefs, like if I go

611
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 3: into a date afraid that all they're going to judge me,

612
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 3: well sort of like well, who's doing the judging. I'm

613
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 3: judging them and I'm judging myself. So yeah, that's the thing.

614
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 3: I mean, it's always about alignment, like the right people

615
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 3: who always aligned. We do not everyone is meant to

616
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 3: be in your life. And dating I don't really do it.

617
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 3: It's so funny, like are you drawn more.

618
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 2: Though to spiritual like people that have got like a

619
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 2: sense of who they are spiritually? Would you say it helps?

620
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 3: But I don't want to date a medium. I don't

621
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 3: want to date anyone who wears like Fisherman's pants praise

622
00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 3: all day, like that's the thing. I want to date

623
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 3: a biki like, oh night, that's my ViBe's sons of

624
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 3: anarchy here we come. And like it's sort of like

625
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 3: if you're like got a gun in the glove box,

626
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 3: like let's do it.

627
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,400
Speaker 1: Like it's sort of but can I say a bikie

628
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: can be totally spiritual?

629
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 2: Likely?

630
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 3: Right, I'm just like like like probably a gay man,

631
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 3: like the ultra masculine kind of like hotness.

632
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, this is like a dating podcast

633
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 1: now no, no, but I remember so. And then this

634
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 1: goes back to how you say life is kind of

635
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:28,360
Speaker 1: like a classroom. I remember I'm very pro therapy, love therapy,

636
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: and I had been working my therapist.

637
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 2: I think I've been working them for five years now.

638
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 2: It's my non negotiable, right, And I'd always dated like

639
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 2: the belly super masculine, like kind of hot like that

640
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,399
Speaker 2: kind of but they're usually reasonably narcissistic. And it was

641
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 2: the same lesson over and over and over.

642
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 1: Now when I date with Bosco, my boyfriend, and he's

643
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 1: really creative and he's musical and like he's a producer

644
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 1: and supercretive, and I sat opposite my therapist, I was like,

645
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: I think, I think I'm going to end up with

646
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: a creative person. And he goes, ha, no shit, Lola, Yeah,

647
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,680
Speaker 1: but you know what I mean. It's it's like they

648
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 1: don't need necessarily be the same, but it's like that

649
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:13,640
Speaker 1: value system of just like being in chility, were connected

650
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: to yourself and what you believe in. I think that

651
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: that's they can be a bikie because.

652
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 3: I mean everyone that comes into our life usually is

653
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 3: the projection of our own emotions and thoughts as well

654
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 3: as mirror right exactly, So everyone mirrors us to be yeah,

655
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 3: like and that's really a spiritual hack one I won

656
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 3: for everyone listening, Like the people in your life are

657
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 3: mirroring your own thoughts and emotions because you're a lining

658
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:33,120
Speaker 3: with them.

659
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I.

660
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 3: I mean, well, now I'm trying to like sulfonalize myself

661
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 3: up like Jesus, It's like, what's that trying to say?

662
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: But like, no, but you got me thinking as well,

663
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: because I also think the stuff that I judge in

664
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 1: others is the stuff I often don't like myself about myself.

665
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 3: If you notice something in someone else that you don't like,

666
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 3: it only because it triggers you within one hundred everyone

667
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 3: And when people argue when they're you're literally just projecting

668
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 3: onto everyone. So that's again the spirit truk one. I

669
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 3: want if anyone's mean to you for any reason, it's

670
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 3: because they don't like themselves or because you're a bit.

671
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: No, totally, totally, I fully agree with you.

672
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: I've got to share a little story of a personal

673
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,479
Speaker 1: experience that has to do with you that You've got

674
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: no idea about this story, So I'm really throwing.

675
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 2: You out here, okay excited. So as you know, you

676
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 2: read for my dear friend Sam, and straight away he

677
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 2: was like blowing. He's like uploaded the file. It's in

678
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 2: your dropbox. Now listen to it. And I was like, okay,

679
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 2: so I listen and I'm close to Sam.

680
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 1: So everything you said, I was just like goosebumps the

681
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 1: whole time, right, you know, it was getting to like

682
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: nighttime and I'm, you know, finishing.

683
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 3: Up my day.

684
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: The sun's going down in la And at the very

685
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: end of the reading, you're like, hey, I know you're

686
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: flying to New York.

687
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 2: Tomorrow, but your flight's going to be delayed. And he's like, okay, which.

688
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 3: It was he he called me me the Oh my god,

689
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 3: he was right the flights I predicted the flight be

690
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 3: delayed in America. What a psychic.

691
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: And then you go also, just watch out, like lights

692
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: might flicker a little bit, Like that's just something that

693
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: can sometimes happen after a reading anyway, and I was like,

694
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 1: oh cool, okay, stop, I'm going to make dinner out.

695
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, sun's gone down, go turn the

696
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 2: light on. Flickers three times, wow, goes off.

697
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: And I was like, we'll just try that again, Lola,

698
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 1: turn it on, it flickers three times, blows oh wow.

699
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: And so then I just said hi to Sam's dad

700
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: because I was like well, I'm hoping that's who it is.

701
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, Wow, interesting, fascinating. I just love it, Like I

702
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 3: love hearing stories like this because it doesn't matter how

703
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 3: many people I read or how long I've been doing

704
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 3: it for every time my history is like this, it's

705
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 3: like hearing it for the very first time ever, Like right,

706
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 3: so cool and just amazing.

707
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 2: And I cannot have you.

708
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 1: On this podcast without asking if anything has come up

709
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: in this time that we're sitting here chatting, or if

710
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: you feel called to say anything. I'm an open book,

711
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 1: so you are more than welcome, and for people listening,

712
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 1: this is a little taste of your wonderfulness.

713
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, you were surrounded by females. You really are, Like

714
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 3: really that's tune in or just got goose comes down

715
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 3: my back. I was like, well hello, but no, seriously.

716
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 3: As soon as you sort of sat down and we

717
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 3: started this, like I sort of just felt things instantly,

718
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 3: like there is for me a mother and a daughter

719
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 3: that do step forward instantly as well, because there's a

720
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 3: reference of a lady older than you that does reference

721
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 3: being with her mother, if that makes sense. So it's

722
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 3: kind of like this sort of family bond, I would suggest,

723
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 3: now I don't know whether your family or not, but

724
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 3: it is a lady referencing being with her mother. There

725
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 3: is an older gentleman that also does step forward. Oh now,

726
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 3: the magic's happening, guys, like everyone's coming forty about five people.

727
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 2: Really, I love this.

728
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 3: And there's also a lady called Oh no, it's a

729
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 3: man called Fred. That's my grandpa.

730
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 2: Fuck that my grandpa.

731
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, because the reference in Fred Bassett, the basset hound,

732
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 3: and that would be Dad's dad. Correct, coming forward to

733
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 3: my So, males come forward on my right hand side,

734
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 3: females come forward on my left. And this is not

735
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 3: the same mother daughter family though perfect I was about

736
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 3: to say, I'm bringing it up. You probably understand what

737
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 3: I'm talking about because it's your family anyway.

738
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.

739
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 3: Have you ever had a reading before like something like this? No?

740
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 3: So like your oh wow, because I mean the only

741
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 3: reason I asked because I just actually didn't know for starters,

742
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 3: but they're all kind of like.

743
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 2: Tell me, do you want me to say anything about

744
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 2: the mother daughter thing or not?

745
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 3: No, because I'll let them do it. I don't like

746
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 3: asking question.

747
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 2: Yeah I've heard you say that.

748
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 3: So yeah, there is definitely a man called Fred, because

749
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,479
Speaker 3: there's the reference at the basset town Fred. Yeah, who

750
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 3: he's referencing as well. And he does also bring for

751
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 3: an older female, so this would probably be your grandmother

752
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 3: as well. Now he references taking care of her dape

753
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 3: because I helped her transition over here because she was

754
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 3: unwell before she crossed over. But she could also sense me,

755
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 3: so he would have probably passed first. There is a

756
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 3: reference of saying hi to my boy, which will be

757
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 3: like the father energy. Yeah, now I am more drawn

758
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 3: into again this this mother daughter energy. Now your mom

759
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 3: is still in the physical world, thank god, because I

760
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:15,239
Speaker 3: suddenly just panicked, like your mom is still here. They

761
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 3: are referencing the mother for you though, so this is

762
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 3: obviously your mum's family. Now there's a like a reference

763
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 3: of cancer actually or something to do with cancer. It's

764
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 3: not a warning as well, when we bring that up.

765
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 3: I would actually just love your mom to keep on top.

766
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 3: It's not a warning, but also to keep on top

767
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 3: of what they call the feminine. So when we reference

768
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 3: feminine cancers, it seems like breasts if you want me

769
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 3: to Now, I'm kind of intrigued because it's a bit

770
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 3: rounded to jump into that instantly.

771
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 1: Are you ready you're gonna well, I'm sure everyone does

772
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: this for you. So my nad and my auntie Annie

773
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: Karen has both passed away. So there's your mother daughter

774
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 1: perfect okay. And Annie Karen had ovarian stuff cancer okay,

775
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: but that wasn't what she passed from. She committed suicides.

776
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 2: That was a really younger. But my mom was like,

777
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 2: hold it all together. So she's going to be wrapped

778
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 2: to hear there together.

779
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the thing, because it's I don't know whether

780
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 3: you well apparently you have like told your mom that

781
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 3: you're doing this today or something about that. Yeah, because

782
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 3: they've got the element of like she can tell my girl,

783
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 3: which is daughter slash sister. Yes, I know, you just

784
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,879
Speaker 3: reference the name Karen, are referencing cash. She also wants

785
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 3: to take up an to say hello to her two children. Yes, perfect, Yes,

786
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 3: which would probably be a boy and a girl. Yeah, perfect,

787
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 3: because we're going both sides there. It's really the reference

788
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 3: of she calls her. I mean, it's such a personal

789
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 3: thing to talk about, but she does have this alm

790
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 3: of absolute freedom but understanding that my children also despare

791
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 3: my situation. Yeah that makes sense, which, of course, unfortunately

792
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 3: when someone takes her own life.

793
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 1: We do.

794
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 3: I mean, we can definitely cut this part out if

795
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 3: you want. But when she talks as a reference, have

796
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 3: not been able to breathe properly or the alman of

797
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 3: kind of like I'm overdosing, but act.

798
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 2: She's jumped in front of a drone. But she tried

799
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 2: other ways.

800
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 3: OKAYD two will three times beforehand, actually, and I think

801
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 3: was that's what you're because I just feel very peaceful.

802
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 3: So when you said train, she was not showing that

803
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 3: at all. She does reference being with her mother, which is,

804
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 3: of course you love your grandmother. My god. She she goes, well,

805
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 3: we're going to do this quick day. She goes, I

806
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:38,720
Speaker 3: don't you know, We've got a lot of things on today.

807
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 3: She goes, tell Laura or Lauren, I love her. Who

808
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 3: is like, what does that connect to you?

809
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: I'm Lauren. That's my real name.

810
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 3: Really if everyone can say, oh, my real name was Lola, Okay,

811
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,040
Speaker 3: well fuck, I mean people know, I mean.

812
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 2: No one really knows it, but I don't hide it

813
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 2: if that makes it.

814
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, perfect? Okay, yeah, okay, because I was like, okay,

815
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 3: it's like a scandal. Perfect. So what did your grandmother

816
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 3: call you because she does reference. I don't want you

817
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 3: to tell me when she crossed over, but she does

818
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 3: reference getting to know you as an adult. So your

819
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,800
Speaker 3: grandmother for me takes on the mother energy for you

820
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 3: at the same time because it is the reference of

821
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 3: the two women that raise you, which is kind of

822
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 3: a very much like me and I talk about this

823
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 3: very much myself with my.

824
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 2: Mum and my grandma. Yes, yes, but did did What

825
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 2: did she call you?

826
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 3: Which will you Lola or Lauren?

827
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 2: To her?

828
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 3: Lauren? She said to Laura, I love her l like

829
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 3: Lauren under the bed. So she's got the energy of

830
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:50,919
Speaker 3: like Dave you grew up. I said that. She says,

831
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 3: you are living around the corner from me. She says,

832
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:03,359
Speaker 3: Oh my god, no the area. That's my area too.

833
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,720
Speaker 2: So she's from Melbourne, Port Melbourne, South Melbourne.

834
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,919
Speaker 3: She's actually from Port Melbourne, grew up there. Oh my gosh,

835
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 3: what I live in Port Melbourne.

836
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 2: She's Port Melbourne.

837
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,879
Speaker 3: I live in that's she went to school and every wow, yeah,

838
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 3: do you know what street?

839
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 2: I don't. My mum will kill me for not knowing now,

840
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 2: because they all grew up there as well, in Port Melbourne. Yeah.

841
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 2: Initially yeah, I'm a Port Melbourn boy and myself there

842
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 2: for five years. Oh wow, good area, great area.

843
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, what was hard well, she says, oh, Dave hard

844
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 3: in the day, hard in the day, but Port Melbourne

845
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 3: was pretty rough back in the day. Yeah. And she

846
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 3: does bring fold an older man with her as well,

847
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 3: who does reference passing quite a longer time ago as well.

848
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 3: So I will assume this will be the grandfather energy

849
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 3: for you. He probably would have passed when you were

850
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 3: quite younger and before you're born, to be very fair

851
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 3: because as the end of kind of wanting to introduce himself,

852
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 3: So when spirit goes to shake your hand, that is

853
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 3: my symbol foot they did pass when you were young

854
00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 3: or before you were born. Essentially, it's quite handsome. It's

855
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,719
Speaker 3: going to live to him, and he does reference that

856
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 3: my girl, which will be your mother, that she does

857
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 3: have the picture of us and like, yeah, like of

858
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:14,919
Speaker 3: me and her mother when we're like young and hot,

859
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 3: according to him, So it's sort of like, I mean,

860
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,280
Speaker 3: but obviously, I mean there's a good chance that obviously

861
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 3: your mom would have like pictures of the family and

862
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 3: things like that. Anyway, but he's very excited that she

863
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:25,760
Speaker 3: still talks to it or the one of like referencing

864
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 3: it every day. Now what they also do want your

865
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 3: mom to know in particular because they understand that she

866
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 3: feels the pressure of kind of being like the leader

867
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 3: of the family now. And she says, Dave, my daughter

868
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 3: just sometimes wants to crawl up and hug me. And

869
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 3: because wow, So besides, Karen, your mom doesn't have any

870
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 3: other siblings. Both her parents have crossover. Okay, that's correct,

871
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 3: So tell one of like how she is kind of like,

872
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 3: even though she's created her own family, which is you.

873
00:38:56,040 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 3: Of course, she's never alone, Dave, because she still has

874
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 3: this element where my daughter doesn't feel like that she

875
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 3: can reach out or seek guidance anymore, she says, because

876
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 3: her and I were very close, we're very similar women.

877
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 3: And she says, but tell my daughter, which is your mum?

878
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 3: She says, as long as she knows that I've never

879
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:22,320
Speaker 3: left her side, Dave, I'm always hearing her and I

880
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:27,839
Speaker 3: don't want her to be embarrassed because she still does things, Dave,

881
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 3: and she wonders what I would think about it, or

882
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 3: she's like, oh, my mom's up there watching my God,

883
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 3: like what would she say? What would she do? And

884
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 3: she's like, I don't care. She's like, I love her, Dave,

885
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 3: and she's got I've got my own things going on,

886
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 3: like she's yeah, yeah. So it's just this almumt of

887
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 3: knowing for my daughter and my granddaughter, which is you

888
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 3: really about how sort of just excited and proud I

889
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 3: am And they said, you know, Dave, they always took

890
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 3: care of me. But she's stubborn in a really kind

891
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 3: of like old lady going away protocol and nobody. And

892
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 3: she's referencing Wizard of Oz as well. So usually when

893
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 3: we reference a Wizard of Vice, it's connected with the

894
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:04,240
Speaker 3: name Judy or Dorothy.

895
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:05,520
Speaker 2: Her name's Dorothy.

896
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 3: Yeah. It's kind of like otherwise I just put myself

897
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:09,320
Speaker 3: on the line down and you're like, I got nobody

898
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 3: who they are, Dave? So uh Dorothy, perfect Dorothy. I mean,

899
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:20,320
Speaker 3: it's don't tell me your grandfather's name. What was the

900
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 3: first letter of his name? This is mum's dad. B oh, okay,

901
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 3: know where I was going to? All okay, I was

902
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 3: going to call him Michael for some reason, unless you

903
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 3: can't connect with Michael. But if you can't, don't worry.

904
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:35,359
Speaker 2: Well. The funny thing is Nan is sassy is buck

905
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 2: and married three times.

906
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 3: I'm I kind of girl, and I wonder I like

907
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 3: good poplin girl.

908
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 2: Dorothy could be someone else, but yeah, very interesting?

909
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 3: Are they all up there? Dorothy so interesting? Yeah? Well,

910
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,839
Speaker 3: I mean Michael's so many older guys called Michael from

911
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 3: that generation, really, I guess. But there's reference of Mick

912
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 3: like m A. C. H. So it can also be Michelle,

913
00:40:58,480 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 3: but I don't really fill a Michelle within the f

914
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 3: in it anyway. But she says I'm happy that she

915
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 3: met him, which would probably be like the man that

916
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,719
Speaker 3: raises all of it's not her father, I don't know

917
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 3: what that means, or did your parents separate? Yeah, yeah, okay,

918
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 3: that's it because it's the alman of the man that

919
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 3: raises all. Yeah, he's not my son, or like he's

920
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,720
Speaker 3: not the father. Yeah, obviously he's your father. Don't stress.

921
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 3: We're not uncovering something. And she says, well, that's life, Dave.

922
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 3: My generation didn't talk about things like that. Did They

923
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 3: just broke down? But she's great, like she's just the

924
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 3: stubborn fun.

925
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:39,319
Speaker 2: Who loves my dad.

926
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, think because she still calls him the son even

927
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 3: though he's not the father. And she goes, Oh, I

928
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 3: just she goes, I did like him, Dave, but I

929
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 3: also like to stir my daughter up. So it's the

930
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 3: elmt of like even though she's their parace, she's like, well,

931
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 3: I'm still friends with him, Like I'm still going to

932
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 3: deal with it. There's a reference for paramedic or something

933
00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 3: that's someone who works in healthcare.

934
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:03,399
Speaker 2: What does that connect mom, Well, she's a she's head

935
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 2: theater nurse, but she's done everything with emergency and stuff.

936
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:10,280
Speaker 2: Perfect and Auntie they both were in health Because.

937
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 3: I kind of felt like, you know that old school

938
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 3: TV show All Saints, Like I kind of felt like

939
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 3: I was just doing like st vibe. Yeah, great show,

940
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 3: great show, isn't it my gosh, Georgia. But it's this

941
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 3: element of guidance for you where they're just like, well,

942
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 3: the whole world is Lola's oyster, isn't it, Dave? She

943
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 3: as long as she drops the element of feeling like

944
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 3: that she's faking it. That makes sense fake, don't You

945
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 3: don't have an imposter syndrome. You're good at what you do.

946
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 3: And it's sort of like talk about it more if

947
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 3: that makes sense, Like it's yeah, but it's sort of

948
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 3: like you know exactly what you're good at, and you're

949
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 3: so good at what you do in the ability that

950
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 3: you have on people's lives. It's like, don't feel like

951
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 3: that you're not good enough or don't feel like that

952
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 3: you should, you know, don't feel like you're faking it,

953
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:00,799
Speaker 3: if that makes sense.

954
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I get too nervous to introduce myself

955
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:05,360
Speaker 2: as an actor, Like I just get too scared to

956
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 2: do it. It's that exact imposter syndrome.

957
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's hard in Lay as well well.

958
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 2: Because there's five hundred thousand actors here.

959
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, that's literally, you know, it's a very creative

960
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:19,800
Speaker 3: entertainment slash that kind of city. So yeah, don't be

961
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:21,879
Speaker 3: afraid to be like that, or don't feel like you're

962
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:25,839
Speaker 3: not as good as you are. She says, we're all learning, Dave.

963
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter who you are, you're always going to

964
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 3: be developing. So it's sort of like, don't feel like

965
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 3: that you can't say that because you don't feel like

966
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 3: that you've reached that level. It's like everyone who does

967
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 3: it is developing, which I mean, it does make sense. Yeah,

968
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 3: and she says, well, at least we can go out

969
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 3: for seafood. We haven't seafood for lunch today.

970
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:47,320
Speaker 2: What is that about man's obsessive lobster?

971
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 3: Oh? My favorite? And I was like, I don't why

972
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 3: we're talking about seafood and oysters. Every time a visitor

973
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 3: took oysters, it's like it's actually taste really very fair

974
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 3: now that you say, because I was like, I think

975
00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:58,840
Speaker 3: that's salmon, but I couldn't work it out. But I

976
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 3: was like, it's oyster. They're a kind of favorite salty

977
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:05,879
Speaker 3: sort of sea. She goes, I'll have at least six

978
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 3: someone you have as many as you want. By that,

979
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 3: she's not about Kilpatrick, but she'll do it anyway.

980
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, And.

981
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 3: She says that's just the most important thing, Dave, for

982
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 3: her and her brother. Do you have a brother? Yes,

983
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 3: for her and her brother, as long as they know

984
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 3: that I'm watching over and they can always still talk

985
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 3: to me. We're doing everything up here for them. He like,

986
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 3: is he a dad yet?

987
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 2: No?

988
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:41,320
Speaker 3: But it's a thing. Yeah, Okay, I can't imagine. I

989
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 3: probably imagine he's around your age, like I don't feel

990
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 3: like your brother's ten or like lady. So it's just

991
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 3: as validation for him about the element of prioritizing fatherhood,

992
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 3: if that makes sense. So it's sort of like he's

993
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 3: got a lot of things going on in life, but

994
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:58,719
Speaker 3: that's maybe why it just hasn't got there yet, if

995
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 3: that sort of makes sense. But as soon as he

996
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 3: decides that, yes, I want to be your dad, I

997
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 3: imagine he's probably got a partner. The FIL's female. Yeah,

998
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 3: and you know she's ready now to be very fair.

999
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 3: So it's sort of like it's really the energy is

1000
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 3: just up to him. What's no, that's about how your

1001
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 3: brother's name. But I mean, I'll let them talk about

1002
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 3: that if they want. I don't get anything at the moment,

1003
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:20,240
Speaker 3: but when he's ready, it will happen sort of quickly,

1004
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 3: and I don't want him to be nervous about being

1005
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 3: a dad, which I think is very masculine thing anyway.

1006
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 3: But she's excited. They she seems to want to hand

1007
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 3: him a baby girl and and the boy to be

1008
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:33,839
Speaker 3: very fair in the family.

1009
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 2: A no, no.

1010
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 3: Them at the same time. So I was like, is

1011
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 3: someone falling pregnant twins or is he just having two kids?

1012
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 3: But he's younger than her. No, I would have said

1013
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 3: your brother was older.

1014
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 2: He's slightly I think slightly. He's younger than me, younger

1015
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 2: than you slightly. Kay, yeah, sorry, thing about that, that's

1016
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 2: what it felt like when you said that. And you're

1017
00:45:58,040 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 2: younger than her.

1018
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:03,879
Speaker 3: He's talking about you probably not partner, and yeah, it's

1019
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 3: time for my girl. So this would be your mom

1020
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:08,799
Speaker 3: to sort of start thinking about slowing down a little bit,

1021
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 3: because she already kind of has and she's still young.

1022
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 3: I mean, this is the thing that's not as though

1023
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 3: she needs to retire, but it's about the prioritization of

1024
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,840
Speaker 3: enjoying life now because especially towards the end of my

1025
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,280
Speaker 3: time on Earth days, like she did sort of focus

1026
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,399
Speaker 3: and care for me, and then when I crossed over,

1027
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 3: it doesn't feel that long ago. When did she.

1028
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 2: Crossover COVID recent Like in the last she did she

1029
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 2: have no.

1030
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah obviously in the last two years. So

1031
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 3: that's the thing for your mom. It's sort of like

1032
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 3: a lot of her energy and a lot of her focus,

1033
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 3: which I think is very normal for us to do,

1034
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:47,399
Speaker 3: went into caring about her mother. And then when it's

1035
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 3: kind of like they also to her to start it

1036
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 3: sort of like when I crossed over, they she kind

1037
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 3: of felt the sense of like, oh, now I'm kind

1038
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 3: of by myself, and I don't want her to feel

1039
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 3: like that because there's so many people that still not

1040
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:00,879
Speaker 3: only want and need her in their lives, but there's

1041
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 3: so many things that she's still got to do. Yeah,

1042
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 3: and she's busy. I mean it's not justly your mum's

1043
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 3: standing bed all day crying, but like you know, she's

1044
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 3: out in about and do no thing. But I yeah,

1045
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:14,479
Speaker 3: just especially if your auntie did unfortunately have a varying

1046
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 3: cancer at one stage as well, those want your mom

1047
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:17,800
Speaker 3: to keep on top of that. But yeah, did you

1048
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 3: agree with that dementia? Yes, yeah, that's got very cloudy

1049
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 3: in my head. So and I'm not worried about your

1050
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 3: mum getting that, to be very fair, According to her father,

1051
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:30,879
Speaker 3: she's always been forgetful. But and for you, it's yeah

1052
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 3: again like literally an oyster because she's holding one, but

1053
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:36,439
Speaker 3: it is the world is your oyster. And I agree

1054
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 3: with this as well. Stop feeling like you're too.

1055
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 2: Old for starting Oh my god, that's my number one.

1056
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 3: I'm guys, I'm looking at Lola right now. I was like,

1057
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 3: gotta cheese, old fuck, Like what am I doing? So

1058
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 3: it's it's all about timing not age, which I agree

1059
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 3: with as well, Like humans are the only things on

1060
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:58,320
Speaker 3: this planet that measure their age and time totally. Dinosaurs

1061
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 3: didn't invent clocks. That's one of my favorite and spiritual

1062
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 3: you know, so it's only humans that have to be like, oh,

1063
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:05,360
Speaker 3: we need to do this by this time and I'm older. No,

1064
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 3: it doesn't matter, and it doesn't in the biggest scheme

1065
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 3: of things either. So they've got this element of like,

1066
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 3: everything will happen at the right time, you just have

1067
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 3: to align with it.

1068
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 2: Oh.

1069
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 3: So it's this element of yeah, I don't think that

1070
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 3: you've missed the boat, or don't think that you're doing

1071
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 3: things too slowly, or don't think that you're doing things

1072
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 3: too quickly, or don't think that you should have done

1073
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:25,240
Speaker 3: that already, or don't think that you know you should

1074
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 3: wait till later. It's like, do it when you want

1075
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:32,959
Speaker 3: to do it. Lowls. Lowls from Lauren to Los Laura Lauren,

1076
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:35,399
Speaker 3: I've already asked that. L Lauren is yea, yeah, yeah,

1077
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 3: so and they love your partner.

1078
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

1079
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 3: She starts rubbing my chest. She goes, I like the

1080
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 3: hairy check, and I was like, wow, he's very hairy check.

1081
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 3: I might have seen a picture of him. I'm listening.

1082
00:48:56,680 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 3: It's like, we all like your hairy chest. And yeah,

1083
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 3: it's just the element of distance, which I understand as

1084
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 3: well because I know that he's in Australia, but apparently

1085
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 3: he's coming over this year, so as they've been talk

1086
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 3: about that because there's a reference of sort of the

1087
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 3: American fall off spring autumn.

1088
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 2: So I'm going to go there, back there for a

1089
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 2: month just for in that time in our spring. Yeah,

1090
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 2: he's over in the next year or so, he'll definitely

1091
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 2: be here in the next year.

1092
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:27,320
Speaker 3: They're going plus twelve, so it has to be like

1093
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 3: maybe not to move necessary. I think he probably can

1094
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 3: next year.

1095
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:32,399
Speaker 2: It's on to move.

1096
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 3: Yeah. As soon as I said that a lot, I

1097
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 3: was like, oh, actually they're showed me suitcases. You could

1098
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 3: literally be moving, yeah, of boxes, I mean with suitcases,

1099
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 3: which is a simpler move, not a holiday.

1100
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 2: Right.

1101
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't want him to be daunted by that

1102
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 3: because he's like he doesn't want to enter the La

1103
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:50,320
Speaker 3: environment apparently, which is I mean, when you're in Los Angeles,

1104
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 3: there's not really much of a shark tank, but it

1105
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 3: is at the same time, But I mean he'll be

1106
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 3: fine now. I mean there's always going to be opportunity

1107
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 3: in for both of you in a lot of ways.

1108
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 3: So it's just the element of like, stop playing it

1109
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 3: safe is their main message for you now, Yeah, you

1110
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 3: know with not necessarily with relationships about work and career

1111
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,319
Speaker 3: where you want to be. It's sort of like it's

1112
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 3: a very big thing and for everyone listening as well.

1113
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:17,440
Speaker 3: But the universe isn't going to create our life for us.

1114
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 3: The universe matches our energy. So if we want a

1115
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 3: new job, we have to work for it. We don't

1116
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 3: sit on the couch and hope that it gets delivered

1117
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 3: to us.

1118
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:25,760
Speaker 2: Balls to the walls.

1119
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 3: Ye, balls to the wall exactly right though. So we

1120
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 3: manifest our own reality and our own existence in life.

1121
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 3: So put the energy out there and if it's meant

1122
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 3: to be, the universe will align and deliver it back too.

1123
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 3: So it's sort of like the universes is waiting for

1124
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 3: us to make the first move everybody. So that's what

1125
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 3: they're saying to you now. It's sort of like as

1126
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 3: we head into the American spring and summer, it's sort

1127
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 3: of like, hustle, hustle, hustle, remove this feeling that you

1128
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 3: can't reach it all or get it all.

1129
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 1: And I do that all the time that well, I

1130
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: think we all do in a lot of I do

1131
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 1: this thing though I'm like, am I going to be

1132
00:50:58,440 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 1: a TV heros?

1133
00:50:59,040 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 2: Am I going to be an actor?

1134
00:50:59,840 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: Like?

1135
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,840
Speaker 2: I really do this for pressure on myself and I

1136
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,400
Speaker 2: limit myself as a result. Do you know what I mean?

1137
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:09,280
Speaker 3: I mean, I think everyone could probably sort of translate

1138
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 3: that to their own lives and so, you know, not

1139
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 3: that it makes it any easier for us when we

1140
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 3: feel that way, but it is its understanding that it's

1141
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 3: a very human thing to do. So when we sort

1142
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 3: of strip that away, it helps us evolve, and it's

1143
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 3: the rebirth. So I literally felt like the room was shakingquake,

1144
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 3: but it wasn't that. I kind of every time. I

1145
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:37,120
Speaker 3: mean la, But so then it's sort of like Dave,

1146
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 3: as long as she knows that we're here, we're going

1147
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 3: home with her. So and well, I'm sure you are

1148
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 3: and keep an eye for black cats as well. So

1149
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 3: I don't know, you don't have cats in the home,

1150
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 3: do you? Nan?

1151
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:52,800
Speaker 2: Dorothy obsessed with cats everywhere?

1152
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, because there's like tend in my

1153
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:56,919
Speaker 3: head at the moment. She probably had her own pets

1154
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 3: of course, but it's a reference of around you as well.

1155
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 3: So cats are very psychic animals to start with. But

1156
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 3: I think if you start seeing just random cats, which

1157
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 3: is a bit random in.

1158
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:08,479
Speaker 1: LLE, it is because everyone keeps them indoors exactly because

1159
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:09,760
Speaker 1: coyotes eat them exactly.

1160
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 3: So just give a knife for like cat cats or

1161
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 3: black coyotes does to be a black cat, but like you,

1162
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:17,359
Speaker 3: just give a nighte for cats and that will be them,

1163
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 3: sort of showing you the path. Numbers would be very

1164
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 3: significant with you as well, so you've probably seen repetition

1165
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 3: of numbers quite often as well. So for everyone who

1166
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:28,239
Speaker 3: always wonders what does three three three mean? I have

1167
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:30,400
Speaker 3: no idea myself. Google it like I google it like.

1168
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 3: It's actually funny because whatever you google and you'll align

1169
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:35,720
Speaker 3: with it when it feels right for you. So definitely

1170
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:38,879
Speaker 3: kep a knighte for numbers. Yeah, cats is a really

1171
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 3: random one because like I said, no one in LA

1172
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:41,720
Speaker 3: has them outside.

1173
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 2: It's dorothy to t though.

1174
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well that's the thing because when you see them,

1175
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:48,719
Speaker 3: it will be her showing you that you're aligning with

1176
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 3: where you're made to be. It can also be symbols

1177
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 3: of cats. It doesn't actually have to be an actual

1178
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:54,400
Speaker 3: cat itself, of course it can be, but it can

1179
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 3: be images of cats that can be the name cats

1180
00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 3: like Catherine, anything that has a cat vibe, Like you

1181
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:02,720
Speaker 3: might be walking down the street and be a billboard

1182
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 3: with like a panther on it. You know, things like that, Oh.

1183
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, my spirit animal really oh like a black jag

1184
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 1: r or pet. Yeah, I use it with all my

1185
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:10,799
Speaker 1: acting work.

1186
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 2: I'll like find a really.

1187
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 3: Well you go. Yeah, not only has that Dorothy showing

1188
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 3: you the symbol of her being around with cats, but

1189
00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 3: if you're using that already, it's part of your soul alignment.

1190
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,280
Speaker 3: I didn't even think if you're doing that with acting.

1191
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 3: Oh my god, thank you. You've taken it to the

1192
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 3: next level, putting me out of a job here.

1193
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, you are so wonderful and oh my

1194
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:35,720
Speaker 2: goodness for people listening.

1195
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 3: You have to someone of love.

1196
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 2: Really, how do you know when they leave? Do they

1197
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 2: tell you?

1198
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:43,839
Speaker 3: They just disappear. It's as funny as it is, it's

1199
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 3: kind of like they're done with me, so they like

1200
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 3: sometimes they always say goodbye to in their own ways.

1201
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 3: They don't just leave, but again they're respectful. So you know,

1202
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 3: when I do readings for people, I do our long readings,

1203
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 3: and they know when the hour is up, so they

1204
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:59,359
Speaker 3: don't leave the room. They just leave me. So they're

1205
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 3: always around you. And I say to everyone like I

1206
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:03,719
Speaker 3: don't open the portal for them to walk in. You

1207
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 3: bring them with you. They leave with you. They're watching

1208
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 3: over you when you want them there.

1209
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 1: I love this for anybody listening, and that being my

1210
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: first ever experience with not only you but a medium

1211
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 1: as well. Like that, stuff's uncanny, and it's interesting that

1212
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 1: the strong people that stood out there, the people that

1213
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 1: like I felt very connected to, and so I love that.

1214
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 2: Thank you so much, thank you for doing that. I

1215
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 2: think that's how there is. I was nervous as I

1216
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:41,280
Speaker 2: was like, oh, what's going to happen? No support, no love, Lola,

1217
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,800
Speaker 2: this is a really I know you can't read for yourself,

1218
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 2: but can I ask you? Can I go back to questions.

1219
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:50,360
Speaker 2: By the way, sorry about um.

1220
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: If you and I right now and you know, failure

1221
00:54:55,760 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 1: wasn't an option, and you know nothing nothing mattered, right

1222
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:03,839
Speaker 1: if we looked into a crystal bowl, pardon the pun

1223
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:05,800
Speaker 1: for today for two years.

1224
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 2: Down the track, Yeah, what would be the dream? Like what?

1225
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 2: Because I know you're living what you love right now,

1226
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 2: but like if nothing mattered, Yeah, would you be doing?

1227
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 3: Oh gosh, I honestly don't even know because I don't

1228
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:20,319
Speaker 3: think about it really that much anymore. Like I spent

1229
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,439
Speaker 3: so much of my twenties trying to plan my life,

1230
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 3: and I think for everyone that tries, it never really

1231
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:27,759
Speaker 3: necessarily works out how you did expect. I think for me,

1232
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 3: if I just have the element of freedom and opportunity

1233
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:35,239
Speaker 3: still like however that looks, but like, I never want

1234
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:37,279
Speaker 3: to stop doing what I'm doing, Like I know that

1235
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 3: this is definitely my calling on Earth and my life

1236
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:44,799
Speaker 3: path that I've aligned with. But I love acting as well, Like, yeah,

1237
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 3: if I got asked to be in a TV show

1238
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:48,239
Speaker 3: or a movie, I'd be like hell, yeah, Like that'd

1239
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:52,440
Speaker 3: be fun. But again like both, yeah, now we're going

1240
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:56,919
Speaker 3: to be like competitive against stuff. But like I Yeah,

1241
00:55:56,920 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 3: it's such a fascinating question because I don't necessarily want

1242
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:03,719
Speaker 3: to be famous because I'm not doing it for my ego,

1243
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 3: And I think that's a mistake that a lot of

1244
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 3: especially a lot of Australian psychics and mediums. They all

1245
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 3: do it for you know all. I want to be famous.

1246
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:11,359
Speaker 3: I want to be well known.

1247
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 2: There many in Australia.

1248
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 3: Well not that I know maybe, I mean I don't

1249
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 3: really I try not to deal with them, to be

1250
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:24,400
Speaker 3: very fair, but like, but like, I am happy to

1251
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:26,960
Speaker 3: take on what I can do in terms of a

1252
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 3: public image because I know that it helps sort of

1253
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 3: spread the word for one of the better phraates.

1254
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: So and your live readings, Oh my goodness that you

1255
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 1: put on Instagram. That's so because I obviously wake up

1256
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:40,799
Speaker 1: when you've gone to bed. Yeah, so when you did

1257
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 1: one the other day, I was like, oh yes, literally

1258
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 1: sat in bed having my coffee, just soaking you up

1259
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 1: my friends.

1260
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you.

1261
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 2: But I just loved a great way to like, yeah,

1262
00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:49,400
Speaker 2: educate people too.

1263
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 3: I just love being able to reach people. So uh

1264
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 3: and yeah, anythink that represents freedom and opportunity, Like, I

1265
00:56:57,080 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 3: just hope that that's what continues moving forward.

1266
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,640
Speaker 2: Do you see yourself being in Australia or do you

1267
00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 2: see yourself over here?

1268
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:06,360
Speaker 3: Well, my plan was always to move to Ala, Like

1269
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:07,959
Speaker 3: I always had that in my head that I wanted

1270
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:09,759
Speaker 3: to move here by thirty five and now I'm thirty

1271
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 3: five and two months, but admittably we lost two years

1272
00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:15,319
Speaker 3: because of COVID. So I think I would still love

1273
00:57:15,440 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 3: to live in America. I actually think that my future

1274
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 3: husband is American. I've always thought that since I was younger.

1275
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 3: But you know, for everyone in Australia, I mean, we

1276
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 3: all know how difficult it's been, especially with border closures

1277
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 3: and things like that, and I think I've just got

1278
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 3: that element where like I don't want to be out

1279
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:32,439
Speaker 3: of Australia now because what the borders closed, Like there's

1280
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 3: that sort of interim. See, yeah, I need to definitely

1281
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 3: heal and work on because I'm so close with my

1282
00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 3: own family that I'd hate it if I was trapped

1283
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:39,920
Speaker 3: away from them.

1284
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:42,440
Speaker 1: So I was able to get into Australia while it

1285
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 1: was completely lockdown and the travel cap was on fifteen

1286
00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 1: people a day yeah wow, And so like literally the

1287
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,919
Speaker 1: government had to approve every person on the flight.

1288
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 2: There was fifteen of us on the thing.

1289
00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 3: I still ended up in hotel quarantine for two weeks

1290
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:53,640
Speaker 3: I met.

1291
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I still got into Australia. Like you're an

1292
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 2: Australian citizen.

1293
00:57:57,360 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, oh yeah, but I mean for me, like,

1294
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 3: you know, healthy, she's good family. It just terrifies him

1295
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:04,200
Speaker 3: because you know, I've even and I'm sure a lot

1296
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,560
Speaker 3: of people listening to the same, but I had you know,

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Speaker 3: friends that had you know, sick and dying loved ones.

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Speaker 3: Not only that were you know, they were weren't just overseas,

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Speaker 3: but they were also in Australia. And you know, a

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Speaker 3: good friend of mine wasn't even able to get to

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Speaker 3: Perth and their dad, like you know, a little things.

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Speaker 3: It's just terrifying and it's so just tragic. So ah,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, why did we get so duck something?

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Speaker 1: No, No, but it's it's interesting even that Dorothy came

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Speaker 1: up because I was mum and I were the only

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Speaker 1: ones that are able to see her because of all

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Speaker 1: the lockdowns, and no one from other parts of Australia

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Speaker 1: could get there.

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Speaker 3: And it's like, holy mackerel. It's just a lot. But yeah,

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Speaker 3: I would like. America for me has always felt like home,

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Speaker 3: even before I came here for the first time. When

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Speaker 3: I was twenty one, I went to Loves twenty one.

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Speaker 3: There's no poet coming before your twenty one Ah likes

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Speaker 3: when you gonna drink. Yeah, I just knew that I

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Speaker 3: was meant to be here. And Ala, Yeah always has

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Speaker 3: felt like home. I usually, like, I mean even like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I arrived yesterday and I always have a like cried

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Speaker 3: at the airport. I get so cited and emotional by

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Speaker 3: being back here, though, usually like do you.

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Speaker 2: Know when you landed? I texted you welcome home.

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Speaker 1: Yes, do you know what?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 1: I'm an American permanent resident and when you cross the board,

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Speaker 1: so when you come in as a resident, they're like,

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Speaker 1: welcome home. And I was so nervous because usually customs

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Speaker 1: is really scary, as you know, when you come in

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Speaker 1: not as an American resident, you feel like you could get.

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Speaker 2: Grilled or something. And I went up this time. I

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Speaker 2: was like, this is my first trip since I've activated

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Speaker 2: my green cup.

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Speaker 3: What do I do?

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Speaker 1: And they're like, passport green cud, let's take a photo,

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Speaker 1: have a great night. Like they were just like chill out, lolla,

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Speaker 1: You're fine. Yeah, but yeah, it's an amazing place. I

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Speaker 1: can see why you would love being here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And America is a very spiritual energy as well,

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Speaker 3: Like I mean, even you La can kind of be

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Speaker 3: like the city of Lost Souls in a lot of ways,

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Speaker 3: but it is such a different environment to Australia. And

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Speaker 3: a lot of people say this, like, you know, mutual

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00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:59,680
Speaker 3: friends of ours that I have seen recently always said

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Speaker 3: that nothing feels impossible in America.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, it's the land of opportunity.

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Speaker 3: It really is. And I think, you know, even though

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Speaker 3: the world's very chaotic at the moment and there's a

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Speaker 3: lot of sort of ups and downs, and America is

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Speaker 3: still just has this beacon to it that is just

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Speaker 3: so made and so many spiritual people are drawn to it.

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Speaker 2: I am so obsessed with buying a ranch in Montana.

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Speaker 1: I cannot tell you, Like I'm literally like Matt's like

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Speaker 1: what and I'm like, ranch in Montana?

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Speaker 2: And it's like, what do you mean? And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you what.

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Speaker 3: A vibe though Montana's never been Oh yeah, I think

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Speaker 3: I've already told you as well.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I am going to buy. It's just that's

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Speaker 2: the other thing.

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Speaker 1: It's so it's so vast now I want to talk

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Speaker 1: about I know people have they've now listened, they've heard

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Speaker 1: your beautiful magic. It's it's so easy to book on

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01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 1: your website, Like it's so easy you've literally got to

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01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 1: like book in for a reading.

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01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:55,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you've got to be quick.

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01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I got to be quick. But I can have

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01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 3: I do have a Malee en list that people can

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Speaker 3: sign up to, so when we do larger general releases,

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Speaker 3: everyone who signs up to the main list will get

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Speaker 3: prior knowledge of that.

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Speaker 2: So doing that now, I'll be doing it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know. Unfortunately, you know, there's you know, quite

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Speaker 3: a lot of people on the main list and not

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Speaker 3: as many spots available, but you'll definitely get sort of

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Speaker 3: first knowledge it. Cancelation appointments do come up all the

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Speaker 3: time as well. I don't even know about them myself

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01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 3: because they just automatically go through the website. So it's

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01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 3: a bit of a lucky dip. You might sign on

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Speaker 3: they could already be one there.

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Speaker 1: So and you can be anywhere in the world as well,

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Speaker 1: So if you're listening to this in America, that's not

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Speaker 1: a problem at all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I do zoom readings as well, so I can Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I anywhere in the world at all. We can connect

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Speaker 3: sos good.

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Speaker 2: And there was one other question that I just had

1385
01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 2: like burning on my tongue and it just went out

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Speaker 2: of my head. So I cut you off, So what

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Speaker 2: were you going to say?

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Speaker 3: I'm really jet lagged, you know, I'm just glad to

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Speaker 3: be away so impressed.

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Speaker 2: I'm so impressed that you're doing this. You landed less

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Speaker 2: than twenty four hours ago.

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Speaker 3: I actually feel great. To be very fair, he also

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Speaker 3: looks great. I'll stop.

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Speaker 1: It's just saying, Oh, this is what I would I

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01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 1: was blown away by this. Yeah, spirit animals can come

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Speaker 1: through too, right.

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Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, for everyone listening. Animal souls are exactly the

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Speaker 3: same as human souls. So we are all energy and

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Speaker 3: this time around, they got put into an animal body,

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Speaker 3: but once they're in the afterlife with us again, they

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Speaker 3: have the ability to communicate. They have memories, they have personalities.

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Speaker 3: I mean we all know our dogs and cats have

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01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:30,160
Speaker 3: personalities anyway, but they don't have anything that limits them

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Speaker 3: from communication, so they become.

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Speaker 2: I love it. I love that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I remember my question now, and I love

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Speaker 1: that you say everybody has this ability. And so for

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Speaker 1: people that are listening that are like, oh, maybe maybe

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01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:47,560
Speaker 1: it's more than just gout intuition for me or you know,

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01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 1: what would your advice be if they wanted to hone

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Speaker 1: in or like start to develop do kind of something like.

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Speaker 2: What you did and learn and get mentoring.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I always say the universe wants us to

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Speaker 3: be able to do this, like I love ones and

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Speaker 3: Sir want us to be able to connect. This isn't

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Speaker 3: some secret club for humanity. It's better every single person

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Speaker 3: does this. So wanting to be able to do it

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01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 3: and wanting to be able to connect makes you already

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Speaker 3: ninety nine percent of the way there, because it means

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Speaker 3: that you're open to experience and feeling and everything like

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Speaker 3: that as well. But definitely focus on what your intuition

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Speaker 3: tells you, because you know, everyone talks about guflin and

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01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 3: insuation and that is a spiritual sense. And if it's

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01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 3: meant to be like mentoring classes will come up, your

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01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 3: dreams will get more intense, like your guides and your

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01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:35,160
Speaker 3: loved ones in the afterlife are working with you on this,

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Speaker 3: and it will naturally align with you in all sorts

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Speaker 3: of different ways if it's meant to be something bigger, fantastic.

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Speaker 3: But you know, it's a very Western thing that we've

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01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 3: sort of boxed ourselves into the feelings of individualism and

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01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 3: we focus on this like other ancient cultures were so

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Speaker 3: spiritual enough they had no doubt that there was an

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Speaker 3: afterlife and they connected with it every single day. It's

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Speaker 3: only a Western thing that's created this super natural, fearful

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Speaker 3: thing around. Yeah. You know, I always say myself, it's

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Speaker 3: not supernatural, it's actually super that's natural.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and finally I keep going.

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Speaker 1: Obviously it's been a really fullng couple of years for people,

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01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 1: and I think people probably feel like, oh, like especially

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Speaker 1: I know a lot of Ozzy' is like, oh no,

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Speaker 1: we were going to have you know, I'm gonna restrictions,

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Speaker 1: it's going to be how to travel again? Like, what

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01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 1: is your advice people that are feeling like I know

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01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 1: a lot of people have come out of this and

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01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 1: they're lost and they're like, shit, what do I do?

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01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 1: And I know you're someone that's like connected to their purpose.

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01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 1: So for someone that wants to be connected to their purpose,

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Speaker 1: no matter if they want to be a dog walker,

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01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 1: a doctor, a painter, out whatever it is, how do

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01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: you think people can get more connected to their purpose?

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Speaker 3: They already are connected with it. It's just about realizing

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01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:49,960
Speaker 3: and taking the jump and the lining with it. Take

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01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:52,360
Speaker 3: the jump exactly right, take the jump back to balls

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01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 3: to the wall and back to balls to the wall, Like,

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01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 3: there's going to be so many balls on this wall

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01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 3: by the time we're done. But that's the thing. What

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01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:01,800
Speaker 3: is stopping you? That question to yourself, what is actually

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01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 3: stopping you, Because what is stopping you is probably your

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01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:07,520
Speaker 3: own fears and anxieties, and they are based on reality.

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01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 3: Fear does not exist, you know, it's something that you

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01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 3: If we're fearful, it's because we've created situations in our

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Speaker 3: head or past anxieties that are no longer relevant. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: don't let anything stop you. I you know, I say

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01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:25,000
Speaker 3: that as someone who probably did let it stop him

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Speaker 3: for a very long time because I still, as we

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Speaker 3: were saying before, like I felt the need to structure

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Speaker 3: my life in a certain way. Yeah, roll with it.

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Speaker 3: You know what's the worst it's going to happen.

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Speaker 2: You're the best you are.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much, Thank you so much. And I

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Speaker 3: love being in Los Angeles with you, Lola.

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Speaker 2: So I'm going to go and show you that secret

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Speaker 2: haunted mansion.

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Speaker 3: There or driving we can do either all look at us,

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Speaker 3: like organizing my afternoon on your podcast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's this for people listening, there's this. It's called

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Speaker 2: the Murder Mansion. Of lost Fearless.

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Speaker 3: It's actually what it's called.

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01:05:56,800 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 2: Literally do you know about it?

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01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 3: Well, I only when you told me it in the night,

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Speaker 3: like googled it.

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Speaker 2: It's scary story.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Lola and I are going to break and got

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Speaker 3: no one, not really unless you want it. No, no,

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Speaker 3: we're doing it. Say on sir at ten pm, anyone

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Speaker 3: in La come and join us.

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Speaker 2: You are wonderful. Thank you so so much.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to put all of your details in the

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01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 1: show notes so that people can follow you and sign

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Speaker 1: up so they don't miss out on any chances reading.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Come and follow me on Instagram, everybody. David

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Speaker 3: the medium, and thank you so much for listening everyone.

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01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:31,919
Speaker 2: Thank you big love, bye bye.

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Speaker 1: That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing.

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Speaker 2: As always, thank you.

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Speaker 1: To our guests, and let's continue the conversation on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: I'm at yumo lollaberry. This potty my word for podcast

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Speaker 2: is available on all streaming platforms.

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Speaker 1: I'd love it if you could subscribe, rpe and comment,

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Speaker 1: and of course spread the love

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