Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the
Speaker 1: hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I
Speaker 1: Amy Torba and coming up on today's show, Rachel Dylan
Speaker 1: and Toby Pierce have tied the Knot for a second time.
Speaker 1: Nadia Bartel and Beck Judd's Tanning win. Tommy Fury vows
Speaker 1: to win back Molly May and our Highs and Lows
Speaker 1: of the Week, but first. Sophie Gwidland has hit back
Speaker 1: at critics who slammed her for submitting a very demanding
Speaker 1: and contradictory job ad. Yeah. So, Sophie is currently on
Speaker 1: the hunt for a highly experienced executive assistant and decided
Speaker 1: to release a three page ad on her website. I
Speaker 1: for some reason, get a sick kick out of seeing
Speaker 1: ad descriptions which are written by influencers, particularly those who
Speaker 1: have never worked in corporate environments before. I don't think
Speaker 1: I've ever seen such a long ad description though. I mean,
Speaker 1: when I see influencers creating job descriptions, they do generally
Speaker 1: try to con these roles to make them look important,
Speaker 1: and I feel like they purposely put these long lists
Speaker 1: of tasks and this is exactly what she has done.
Speaker 1: What is it like go and pick up my laundry?
Speaker 1: As pretty much Before we get into the tasks though,
Speaker 1: I want to point out that Sophie also linked the
Speaker 1: job description on her Instagram story, and in response to
Speaker 1: a follower asking about the new role, she wrote, Guys,
Speaker 1: the amount of DMS I've had from people has added
Speaker 1: so much to my workload. This role I'm after is
Speaker 1: a unicorn position. It's not for someone who wants to
Speaker 1: help me out or lend a hand. It's a very
Speaker 1: high level executive assistant slash second in charge type position
Speaker 1: I need. I have put the details here. Please please
Speaker 1: please only reply if you have the right skill set
Speaker 1: and experience as it unfortunately isn't a mental role. So
Speaker 1: is this her trying to tell her followers, Look, if
Speaker 1: you just want to be my friends and hang out
Speaker 1: with me, this is not the role for you, pretty much?
Speaker 1: I also think she is touching on this mentor role thing, because,
Speaker 1: as we reported on laslast year, she has started this
Speaker 1: online mentoring where she basically charges upwards of twelve grand
Speaker 1: to mentor different followers. So I think what she's trying
Speaker 1: to say is you won't be spending heaps of time
Speaker 1: with me and learning off me because I charge for that. Well,
Speaker 1: how much is she willing to pay this person for
Speaker 1: this unicorn role? Well it wasn't outlined in the job description,
Speaker 1: of course it was, But what really stood out to
Speaker 1: me is just how conflicting and contradictory this role is
Speaker 1: because there's such a wide range of tasks that this
Speaker 1: one individual is expected to do, because they range from
Speaker 1: really menial tasks to very demanding ones. So in the
Speaker 1: description it's said in bold writing that the role will
Speaker 1: not require personal of family support and that this is
Speaker 1: purely a business position. But then it started to dive
Speaker 1: into all of the personal errands that this assistant will
Speaker 1: be required to run for the CEO aka Sophie Gwidlin.
Speaker 1: So the job description said that the app applicant must
Speaker 1: wear many hats, be a personal shopper, home manager, manage
Speaker 1: Sofie's calendar and emails, and be the go to fielder
Speaker 1: for every single touch point from lawyers, teams, and accountants.
Speaker 1: It then continued that the applicant must master logistics and
Speaker 1: handle everything from picking out the perfect gifts to orchestrating
Speaker 1: seamless travel plans. That's a really fancy way of saying,
Speaker 1: you will be my personal shopper this Christmas, and you
Speaker 1: will also book all of my travels. It even listed
Speaker 1: personal errands, saying need the laundry folded, question mark schedule
Speaker 1: in the car, detailing did the plants get watered? You're
Speaker 1: on it faster than we can say? Go God, Why
Speaker 1: does that just sound so patronizing? It doesn't, as you said,
Speaker 1: just so contradictory. So do you want a high flying
Speaker 1: exec to join your team or do you want a butler? Well?
Speaker 1: I also have to point out that in this job description,
Speaker 1: Sophie wrote that she wanted them to water the pants
Speaker 1: instead of plants, which made her subsequent line about needing
Speaker 1: an assistant who presents information clearly with no errors even funnier.
Speaker 1: She may have to add spell checker to the list
Speaker 1: of tasks that they do for the CEO. I wonder
Speaker 1: if she wrote it or did it sound more like
Speaker 1: chat GPT had written it. I definitely think this was
Speaker 1: a chat GPT job because it just didn't sound like
Speaker 1: the normal way a job description is written. So much
Speaker 1: of this role not providing personal support to Sophie because
Speaker 1: the description then went on to say that as this
Speaker 1: position touches and manages every corner of my life. So
Speaker 1: you're saying that it doesn't, but then you're saying that
Speaker 1: every corner of your life is being managed by this person.
Speaker 1: It's all very odd and it seems like Sophie should
Speaker 1: be hiring two different people for two different roles because
Speaker 1: on top of all the personal life admin, this system
Speaker 1: is also required to essentially run the whole show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because then it goes on to say that this person
Speaker 1: needs to handle all of the day to day activities
Speaker 1: of the business and that they should also be open
Speaker 1: to embracing the entrepreneurial lifestyle. I think this line really
Speaker 1: sums up the whole job description because it's said you
Speaker 1: take a lot of pride in your outcomes, whether that's
Speaker 1: booking just the right dinner reservation or facilitating the final
Speaker 1: signing of a business acquisition. This really shows the spectrum
Speaker 1: of task that this assistant is required to me it
Speaker 1: sounds like she's asking for a mind reader. It sounds
Speaker 1: almost like a partner, like a husband or a mom, Yeah,
Speaker 1: a mom or dad. Well, this job ad went on
Speaker 1: further and it said that the perfect candidate must crave
Speaker 1: personal growth without ever wanting to be the CEO. So
Speaker 1: what she's basically saying is you'll be doing all of
Speaker 1: the tasks of the CEO but not getting paid the
Speaker 1: CEO salary. And also, don't you dare come for my job?
Speaker 1: That's what it feels like, isn't that most workplaces they
Speaker 1: where you're doing all the work and getting paid less
Speaker 1: than the CEO. But then it's weird to say, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, you should be motivated and want personal growth,
Speaker 1: but don't ever take the top job like that. That
Speaker 1: just seems bizarre. I just want to know who ends
Speaker 1: up getting this job and what kind of experience this
Speaker 1: person actually has. Now, one request that a lot of
Speaker 1: people are talking about Slash laughing about online is that
Speaker 1: the assistant must protect the time and energy of the CEO.
Speaker 1: So how the fuck do you do that? I have
Speaker 1: is just doing all of their jobs and like not
Speaker 1: bringing stress to them. I'm so confused. Just take all
Speaker 1: of this wanky, airy fairy language. I mean, this would
Speaker 1: be a really difficult cover letter to write a job
Speaker 1: application for a lot of people are saying that this
Speaker 1: reminds them of The Devil Wears Prita, where they've got
Speaker 1: the boss who basically will fire anyone if they make
Speaker 1: the slightest mistake. Now, so you mentioned earlier that there
Speaker 1: was no wage listed on Sophie's website. However, one eagle
Speaker 1: eyed follower of Sophie's said they saw this advertisement on
Speaker 1: seek and that the job offering was between sixty thousand
Speaker 1: to eighty thousand a year. But it's not clear how
Speaker 1: accurate this is. Yeah, because Sophie has since come out
Speaker 1: and clarified that the role has a salary ranging between
Speaker 1: one hundred and ten thousand to one hundred and eighty thousand,
Speaker 1: depending on the experience of the person she hires. Wow,
Speaker 1: so that's actually not that bad. I mean, this person
Speaker 1: is responsible for reorganizing Sophie's whole life. Well, you'd want
Speaker 1: them to be paid a bit. But I wonder if
Speaker 1: she's just coming out saying that now, because she never
Speaker 1: listed the wage, but now suddenly, oh no, it is
Speaker 1: very high paying. It's rather interesting because since all of
Speaker 1: the backlash, Sophie has had to come out and explain
Speaker 1: this job ad. So she actually said that she was
Speaker 1: inspired by other ads she's seen entrepreneurs and business experts
Speaker 1: like Gary Vee put out there. So I wonder how
Speaker 1: much inspiration she actually took from them, Like did she
Speaker 1: try and reword things that they'd written or did she
Speaker 1: just take slabs from what they'd written. I don't think
Speaker 1: Gary Vee's ever writing a three page advert though, because
Speaker 1: he's always one who's talking about cutting the bullshit. But
Speaker 1: you know what, now that she's clarified that the role
Speaker 1: is worth one ten to one eighty, I think she's
Speaker 1: going to get a lot of people coming forward, Yeah,
Speaker 1: who are open to watering her plants and booking her.
Speaker 1: But is she going to get the right sort of
Speaker 1: person Because if you're super experienced and you're used to
Speaker 1: doing jobs that are at the higher end, are they
Speaker 1: really going to want to do these meaning your jobs
Speaker 1: and be going out picking presents for her and watering
Speaker 1: her plants, etc. Fun fact, I'm not actually legally married,
Speaker 1: but I am about to be, and I'm going to
Speaker 1: take you guys with me. Finnis influencer Rachel Dillon an
Speaker 1: entrepreneur Toby Pierce have tied the knot for a second
Speaker 1: time in the space of six months now. Back in May,
Speaker 1: the couple got married in a very lavish ceremony overlooking
Speaker 1: the Amoufi coast, However, the ceremony wasn't legally binding. Here's
Speaker 1: what Rachel said, do you guys know I got married
Speaker 1: in Italy, but trying to get legally married there was
Speaker 1: just super complicated. We have to get legally married here
Speaker 1: in Australia and it's taken months to be able to
Speaker 1: get an appointment. I'm not surprised by this because I
Speaker 1: have heard a number of influencers discussed just how difficult
Speaker 1: it is to legally get married overseas, because there are
Speaker 1: some foreign authorities who expect couples to have a period
Speaker 1: of residency over in that country before they actually allow
Speaker 1: them to marry legally there. Yeah, and some countries also
Speaker 1: require for a couple to be of the same faith
Speaker 1: that's recognized by the government. There's also some additional legal
Speaker 1: requirements such as providing freedom to marry, so it can
Speaker 1: get very complicated. So we have this year seen a
Speaker 1: lot of influencers going to the registry office before they
Speaker 1: tie the knock overseas. But this is quite interesting that
Speaker 1: they tied the knot after I have it made it
Speaker 1: more special, I think so, because it seems a little
Speaker 1: bit anticlimatic. If you go over for this beautiful wedding
Speaker 1: and you're like, well, actually, technically we're already married. And
Speaker 1: I had to laugh because I, for some reason, thought
Speaker 1: that Rachel might be one of those girls who made
Speaker 1: this huge effort for the Registry office, like at least
Speaker 1: wearing maybe a white dress. But she turned up in
Speaker 1: a black shoulder top with jeans, and Toby wore a
Speaker 1: white T shirt. You could tell that he had just
Speaker 1: snuck out of a work meeting or something to attend
Speaker 1: this Brisbane Registry office. I mean, Rachel would look good
Speaker 1: in a paper bag like she looked insane. And she
Speaker 1: actually revealed that her toxic trait is that she's always late.
Speaker 1: Girl after my own heart. And Toby warned her that
Speaker 1: she couldn't be late to their wedding, particularly because it
Speaker 1: had taken them so long to get this booking. And
Speaker 1: she did a TikTok where she took people along for
Speaker 1: the ride, and she was only a couple of minutes late.
Speaker 1: But I think that the bride is always allowed to
Speaker 1: be Yeah, and there were only three people in attendance,
Speaker 1: yet the room was filled with white empty chairs. So
Speaker 1: it was Rachel's mum who walked out down the aisle
Speaker 1: and they seemed to take the piss a little bit
Speaker 1: because they were waving to their imaginary guests in this
Speaker 1: very empty room. Yeah. I liked that they had some
Speaker 1: fun with it, because, as you said, Amy, there's some
Speaker 1: influencers who seemed to take the whole registry moments so seriously.
Speaker 1: But it's clear that they just really wanted a chance
Speaker 1: to make it official. I mean, it was in total
Speaker 1: contrast to their very lavish wedding in Italy. I found
Speaker 1: it weird because they included a very close up shot
Speaker 1: of their signatures on the marriage certificate. I don't know
Speaker 1: if this is just an old school thing, but people
Speaker 1: forge people's signatures anymore, because you could clearly practice their signatures. Now,
Speaker 1: they're both worth a lot of my Now that you've
Speaker 1: just given people a lot of ideas, maybe people will
Speaker 1: be going and looking at that. I don't think so.
Speaker 1: I don't think it madters as much anymore because it's
Speaker 1: not like people use checks. Yeah, they're true, Yeah, like
Speaker 1: what would you really need to sign off? And I
Speaker 1: suppose like some legal documents, but yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just saw that and I was like, oh, I
Speaker 1: hope that's okay. As part of this video, Rachel also
Speaker 1: revealed some things that she would have done differently if
Speaker 1: she had her wedding in Italy again, and she did
Speaker 1: preface that she loved every single moment, but if she
Speaker 1: had her time again, she would have read their vows
Speaker 1: privately and also left more time for photos. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: I agree with her because I watch this video and
Speaker 1: I was like, that is so true about photos, because
Speaker 1: it's such a rush before you actually go to your ceremony.
Speaker 1: And I think it's because you spend so much time
Speaker 1: doing the hair and makeup that there's that small window
Speaker 1: of opportunity to get those perfect photos with your bridal party,
Speaker 1: and it's always a stress. If I was super rich,
Speaker 1: I reckon I would just have a couple of days
Speaker 1: before the wedding, get all your photos out the way,
Speaker 1: get everything done on a separate day, and then just
Speaker 1: enjoy the party. Like that would make so much more sense.
Speaker 1: I also agree with the reading of the vows because
Speaker 1: I think because everyone now does vows and then usually
Speaker 1: the couple now speaks as well, and sometimes you can
Speaker 1: be going over the same points or I don't know,
Speaker 1: it just feels like you're really putting yourself out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've seen all these tiktoks and people are like, nobody
Speaker 1: realizes until the big day that your wedding day is
Speaker 1: actually very embarrassing. It is embarrassing to say all of
Speaker 1: this stuff. And you've got to think some of the
Speaker 1: people at your wedding, they're like your friends of your parents,
Speaker 1: and they're like aunties and other people who just say
Speaker 1: this sort of stuff in front of about your partner. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And a lot of the time it's the older generation
Speaker 1: who generally don't put their feelings out there, who are
Speaker 1: probably like, wow, this is a lot of this lame Yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh God. One of my close friends tant her and
Speaker 1: went to the hotel and she was just so down
Speaker 1: to earth. Now, so for you. The other week, we
Speaker 1: spoke about Katie Perry's tanning experience while she was in Australia.
Speaker 1: So right before her big show at the AFL Grand Final,
Speaker 1: she received a spray tan from a company called spray
Speaker 1: Oz and the founder shared her excitement on TikTok. Now.
Speaker 1: This company was founded in twenty fourteen by Emily McKay
Speaker 1: and Ellie Pearson, but it's also co owned by your
Speaker 1: favorite people, Sophie Nadia Bartel and Bet Judd. So they
Speaker 1: came on board in twenty fifteen, and boy has this
Speaker 1: business done well. I'm not saying it's just because of
Speaker 1: Nadia and Beck, but how it helps. Yeah, it has expanded.
Speaker 1: They've now got four stores in Melbourne and Nadia recently
Speaker 1: did an interview on the Morning Show and she revealed
Speaker 1: just how lucrative they're spray tanning of Katie Perry has been. No.
Speaker 1: She wore a pair of earrings as well from a
Speaker 1: certain brand and the sales have gone off as well. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we've had so much interest because we're really trying to
Speaker 1: launch the brand overseas. I think that will really help
Speaker 1: us in the future. As someone who is quite a
Speaker 1: connoisseur of fake tans, I can see because Katie had
Speaker 1: such a deep orange, well I don would say orange.
Speaker 1: Actually that's quite bad. Not an orange tan, but just
Speaker 1: a deep tan that was really nice. It really popped
Speaker 1: on the ground final especially with the white that she
Speaker 1: was wearing. It looked so good. And the founder of
Speaker 1: spray OL's, she shared a TikTok of Katie, who popped
Speaker 1: up at Paris Fashion Week days after her appearance at
Speaker 1: the AFL Grand Final and her tan was still popping.
Speaker 1: Do we know if it was the same ten, Well,
Speaker 1: they're claiming that it was the same tan. Sometimes you
Speaker 1: can get a professional spray tan that looks great for
Speaker 1: the first two days, but then I noticed that it
Speaker 1: seems to fade very quickly unless you take proper care
Speaker 1: of it. Now, the amazing thing about this story is
Speaker 1: that now Nadia has revealed old spray tan and getting
Speaker 1: all of these requests from international clients. And this is
Speaker 1: because the video of Katie Perry appearing at the AFL
Speaker 1: Grand Final has received over two point two million views
Speaker 1: on YouTube and it's also had over four million collective
Speaker 1: views on the AFL's TikTok account. So a lot of
Speaker 1: international people are seeing Katie's tan, they're then linking it
Speaker 1: back to that tanning TikTok video and they're saying, I
Speaker 1: want this tan. And so Nadia has said they now
Speaker 1: have plans to launch the brand overseas, which is huge.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of keen to try out the tan now
Speaker 1: you can get online. Yeah, I'm definitely going to try it.
Speaker 1: Hello guys, and welcome back to the channel. Today. I'm
Speaker 1: going to take you along and a little Bit of
Speaker 1: a Day in the Life. Tommy Fury has attempted to
Speaker 1: set the record straight following his split from UK influencer
Speaker 1: Molly May. In an exclusive interview with The Daily Mail
Speaker 1: just days before the release of his autobiography, Tommy declared
Speaker 1: he will keep fighting to win Molly back. Now. So
Speaker 1: for you, this autobiography is the one that Tommy was
Speaker 1: recording the audio book of when Molly announced the couple
Speaker 1: split on Instagram. There's been so many jokes about this
Speaker 1: book online because a lot of people said that they
Speaker 1: didn't believe that Tommy could actually read. So how is
Speaker 1: it actually recording? A bit unfair? Well, what's amusing is
Speaker 1: Tommy has actually come out and said, look, I am
Speaker 1: not the reading type at all. I've only ever read
Speaker 1: two books in my whole life, one of those being
Speaker 1: the Bible and another one of those being a children's
Speaker 1: book called The Tigers Who Came to Tea and they way,
Speaker 1: are we counting children? This is but he's counting it.
Speaker 1: So he said, this is a book that he reads
Speaker 1: to baby. But thankfully for this autobiography, Tommy has sat
Speaker 1: down with a ghostwriter who is basically penned the novel. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but that's not all celebrities and influences. They all have ghostwriters.
Speaker 1: At the core, it's his story we want to hear, though.
Speaker 1: We want to hear all of the scandalous details, and
Speaker 1: it seems like his ghostwriter has probably been quite busy
Speaker 1: over the past couple of weeks because they would be
Speaker 1: inserting a lot of this drama into the book. There's
Speaker 1: one more chapter that has been added to the book,
Speaker 1: and we will get to one of the very juicy
Speaker 1: excerpts of this book. But I want to touch on
Speaker 1: these cheating rumors that Tommy has spoken out about so
Speaker 1: long time listeners have outspoken. Will know that Tommy has
Speaker 1: been plagued by cheating rumors since the split, but he
Speaker 1: has denied every one of them, and Molly has also
Speaker 1: stayed tight lipped on the reason for the breakdown of
Speaker 1: the relationship. Like the queen she is, she has told
Speaker 1: her YouTube followers she's staying quiet for the sake of
Speaker 1: their one year old daughter, Bambie. So this Daily Mail
Speaker 1: article Sophie is so juicy. The journalists called Jenny Johnson,
Speaker 1: which I'm sorry that is clearly a fake name. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm so surprised that he would do an interview with
Speaker 1: the Daily Mail, considering they were at the forefront of
Speaker 1: posting a lot of those scandalous cheating because it's some
Speaker 1: huge ad for his autobiography, and obviously they agreed to
Speaker 1: do it just to ask the questions about Molly and
Speaker 1: this journalist she hit Tommy hard with the question, so
Speaker 1: she started with the cheating rumors, which he has shot down.
Speaker 1: So he said the allegations were made up and completely false,
Speaker 1: and he said, I quote, the truth will come out
Speaker 1: in time, and when it does, I think a lot
Speaker 1: of people might regret their actions and unkind words, the
Speaker 1: whole world will I reckon. I do feel a bit
Speaker 1: uncomfortable about all of the trolling he's been receiving. I
Speaker 1: know you can have a bit of a laugh and
Speaker 1: have a bit of fun with it, but some of
Speaker 1: the people who are sending him death threats every single day,
Speaker 1: it's just going a bit too far. It is. It's
Speaker 1: quite ominous though those words, I mean, like a wee
Speaker 1: going to feel really terrible? Is he Is he implying
Speaker 1: that Molly has done something? Or is he implying there's
Speaker 1: some other issue? I just don't even know. Molly basically
Speaker 1: came out and danced around the fact that he cheated
Speaker 1: on Yeah, like she made it fairly obvious that that's
Speaker 1: what has gone down. Ye. I wonder if it's because
Speaker 1: he's so delusional and he thinks that Molly may take
Speaker 1: him back, and then she'll come out and have to
Speaker 1: lie and say, oh, no, nothing, what happened. Well, when
Speaker 1: Tommy was asked directly whether he cheated, he said absolutely not.
Speaker 1: I think if you were going to cheat on someone,
Speaker 1: you should just sit down and say I don't love
Speaker 1: you anymore, clearly because you want to go and pursue
Speaker 1: other people. When you get to that stage, I think
Speaker 1: you should just call it a day. If you want
Speaker 1: to go there and have affairs with women, then you
Speaker 1: definitely shouldn't be with your partner. Definitely not. And have
Speaker 1: I ever reached that point. No, that is very solid
Speaker 1: advice from someone who has been accused of cheating. Well,
Speaker 1: we don't know if he has cheated. And he was
Speaker 1: also asked whether he's ever been tempted to cheat on
Speaker 1: Molly and he responded no, never, and then he said
Speaker 1: that Molly was the perfect woman, so he is clearly
Speaker 1: trying to win her back. Yes. Publicity he has declared
Speaker 1: that he's going to win her back. So he also
Speaker 1: added we were together for five and a half years.
Speaker 1: You don't stay with someone, have a child with them,
Speaker 1: get engaged. If it's only a bit of a fling,
Speaker 1: it is proper love. Do I still love Molly one
Speaker 1: hundred percent? I will love her until my final breath?
Speaker 1: Why is this reminding me of the Jordan Simmy and
Speaker 1: sammyel Hobbinson boxing fight where he had a fight to
Speaker 1: try and win her back. Are you going to see
Speaker 1: the same thing for y Well, he literally told the
Speaker 1: publication that he wants to win her back. He said
Speaker 1: he knows what he has to do to resolve things
Speaker 1: and it's all down to him. He said, nobody else
Speaker 1: can do this other than me. Look, if he hasn't cheated,
Speaker 1: what what does it come down to? Then? Like, why
Speaker 1: can't he tell us what the reason for the breakup is? Then? Well,
Speaker 1: he touched on that question slightly because he said what
Speaker 1: the public thinks is going on isn't what is going on.
Speaker 1: It's not something I envisaged happening, but it didn't come
Speaker 1: out of nowhere. It's a thing that was there previously.
Speaker 1: To all this happening, But the only people who know
Speaker 1: what is going on in our relationship is me and Molly.
Speaker 1: I wonder if it's to do with his partying, because
Speaker 1: anyone who watches Molly's YouTube channel knows that she's very
Speaker 1: much a homebody and she doesn't really drink, whereas Tommy
Speaker 1: loves to be out and about with his friends at nightclubs.
Speaker 1: We saw that viral clip of him with Chris Brown.
Speaker 1: Maybe the partying and the going out is at the
Speaker 1: core of this, not necessarily the cheating, but I mean,
Speaker 1: to me, they both tie in. I'm not buying all
Speaker 1: of this well. Molly has said previously in her YouTube
Speaker 1: vlogs that she and Tommy have had issues with his
Speaker 1: partying in the past, that it really has been an
Speaker 1: issue for her because she doesn't like to go out
Speaker 1: to the club. But Tommy touched on his partying ways
Speaker 1: in this interview and he said, it's nothing, isn't it.
Speaker 1: I think every twenty year old, twenty three year old
Speaker 1: lad in the country is in a club, and believe
Speaker 1: it or not, it was work. Oh so he was
Speaker 1: doing paid appearances. I hate that. Oh, it's my job,
Speaker 1: it's my work. I missed partying and drinking, I speak
Speaker 1: to these young girls at the pub or just moving
Speaker 1: on to Tommy's autobiography because it goes on sale officially
Speaker 1: today and so far there are media outlets which have
Speaker 1: dropped very juicy excerpts from Tommy's book. I mean, no
Speaker 1: one really cares about his boxing creage. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm going to download this as soon as I get
Speaker 1: in the car. We'll do a recap on what actually goes.
Speaker 1: Don't want to listen to all the boring parts about
Speaker 1: his box and passed forward. That's an audiobook. But so
Speaker 1: in this excerpt, Tommy revealed that whilst trying to surprise
Speaker 1: Molly with his proposal in twenty twenty three, she believed
Speaker 1: she'd caught him out cheating on her. So Tommy had
Speaker 1: put in a lot of effort to keep the proposal
Speaker 1: a surprise, and he'd roped in her manager, Fran. So
Speaker 1: they were pretending that they were taking Molly to a
Speaker 1: brand event, and they even created these fake invites. And
Speaker 1: I remember Molly talking about this whole surprise in one
Speaker 1: of her vlogs. So while in the car, Molly asked
Speaker 1: Tommy if she could have a look at the pictures
Speaker 1: on his phone because they just had taken a whole
Speaker 1: load at their house. Tommy said he panicked because his
Speaker 1: camera roll was full of photos he had previously taken
Speaker 1: of the proposal setup, and he made a lame excuse
Speaker 1: that he couldn't hand his phone over because he was
Speaker 1: in the middle of a texting debate with his dad
Speaker 1: about a fight contract. So Molly didn't believe this and
Speaker 1: assumed that Tommy must be messaging another woman, and she
Speaker 1: spoke about this on her engagement vlog. But what we
Speaker 1: didn't hear is how bad this argument got. So Tommy wrote,
Speaker 1: I was fuming. I couldn't believe she would think that.
Speaker 1: But also I reminded myself that I was acting shifties,
Speaker 1: so it was fair enough. Ten minutes before I was
Speaker 1: due to propose, we were in the middle of this
Speaker 1: blazing route. This seems to happen a lot with proposals.
Speaker 1: The person being proposed to they get the vibe that
Speaker 1: this energy or something is off with their partner, and
Speaker 1: quite often men being stupid, they'll think, Oh, I'm going
Speaker 1: to take my partner away for this romantic holiday, but
Speaker 1: I'm not going to propose on the holiday. I propose
Speaker 1: the following week, which usually causes a lot of tension.
Speaker 1: No one wants that. No, just propose on the holidays, obvious. Anyway,
Speaker 1: the most awkward thing about this car ride was they
Speaker 1: were being taken can buy a driver who would have
Speaker 1: been able to hear this whole fight kicking off, and
Speaker 1: he was part of this whole plan. So Tommy said
Speaker 1: that the driver just continued with the mission and he
Speaker 1: drove the pair up on top of this cliff at
Speaker 1: the back of the hotel and this is where Tommy
Speaker 1: got down on one knee. And even more awkwardly, Tommy
Speaker 1: revealed that when he jumped out of the car, he
Speaker 1: shut the door to stop Molly from following him, and
Speaker 1: he said this made things ten times worse because at
Speaker 1: this stage Molly was crying and she thought he had
Speaker 1: abandoned her. Doesn't this just show how fake social media
Speaker 1: is because you watch the proposal video and it all
Speaker 1: looks perfect, and you know those tears were probably from
Speaker 1: her being pissed off. Yeah, because remember their proposal video
Speaker 1: was shot by some renowned videographer in the UK. It
Speaker 1: was his beautiful black and white piece. She looked so
Speaker 1: happy and it just sheds a really new light on
Speaker 1: this whole video. I'm really interested to see if Molly
Speaker 1: responds to this at all, whether it's in a cryptic
Speaker 1: Instagram post or something on her YouTube channel. Surely she
Speaker 1: is got to want to rebut this because I have
Speaker 1: just seen so many articles lately saying, oh, Tommy and
Speaker 1: Molly are getting back together. Well, if I was her
Speaker 1: and Tommy has cheated, I'd be pretty pissed off he
Speaker 1: was coming out to the media with all this crap about, oh,
Speaker 1: I'd never cheat and I want her back just to
Speaker 1: sell his autobiography. Do you okay question? Would you want
Speaker 1: them to get back together? I mean I kind of
Speaker 1: would be happy because they have a child together, and
Speaker 1: if he hasn't cheated and if there's something they can
Speaker 1: work on in their marriage. I'm not a post to
Speaker 1: them getting back together. What do you also think about
Speaker 1: the theory that people are saying that both of them
Speaker 1: have just had this huge fake breakup for publicity, because oh,
Speaker 1: it was quite interesting timing the fact that he is
Speaker 1: bringing out a autobiography that really no one would be
Speaker 1: interested in until this breakup's happened, Like I would not
Speaker 1: have down like we don't need the cash that badly.
Speaker 1: Let's get into our highs and lows of the week,
Speaker 1: and my low of the week is bees. It's obviously
Speaker 1: spring at the moment, and I live in the hills
Speaker 1: and we have just had so many bees in our
Speaker 1: garden and I'm so paranoid about our dog getting bitten
Speaker 1: by them. My partner will always be on bee duty,
Speaker 1: so he is always making sure that there's no bees
Speaker 1: on the lawn. We have a little area for Archie
Speaker 1: and it was quite funny because I won't go too
Speaker 1: much into it, otherwise he will be not happy with me.
Speaker 1: But my partner hurd his toe a couple of days
Speaker 1: ago in quite a dramatic fashion. He stopped his look,
Speaker 1: he stopped his little baby toe and we've I've been
Speaker 1: having a bit of a laugh about that because he
Speaker 1: said his foot is so bruised and it's very painful
Speaker 1: to walk, and of course I gave him a lot
Speaker 1: of sympathy for it. I then cop a message when
Speaker 1: we were out on a walk saying, oh my god,
Speaker 1: and I've also stepped on a bee and it's the
Speaker 1: same foot. Doesn't that just bring you back to childhood?
Speaker 1: Stepping on bees? Yeah, I haven't had a bee sting
Speaker 1: for ages. But that being said just as we were
Speaker 1: recording this episode. So if he's like, is that a
Speaker 1: bee at your window and I'm like, no, I don't
Speaker 1: have any shows, you have to listen to me. There
Speaker 1: were two bees, Like, I don't even know how they
Speaker 1: got in. I think maybe the chimney or something. There's
Speaker 1: so many bees out at the moment. Be careful everyone.
Speaker 1: My high of the week has been online shopping for
Speaker 1: my new summer wardrobe. I don't know if anyone else
Speaker 1: is like me, but I will spend hours and hours
Speaker 1: and hours scrolling through different outfits and I get such
Speaker 1: a kick out of it, but then I will never
Speaker 1: actually buy anything, Like I'll add all of these options
Speaker 1: to my basket, but then think I'm going to come
Speaker 1: back to it. Because my whole philosophy now is like
Speaker 1: I previously could be quite impulsive and be like, I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna get that, and then I end up hating
Speaker 1: the thing I've bought, so I have to come down
Speaker 1: with you to return it at the shop. I've got
Speaker 1: so many vouchers at the moment, because you know when
Speaker 1: they return the things for you. Yes, anyway, that is
Speaker 1: my high work. So have you actually done any purchasing
Speaker 1: or you've been I've been perusing. This has been an
Speaker 1: ongoing thing for weeks now because I'm going to put Douglas.
Speaker 1: It's going to be really hot. I need some I
Speaker 1: don't really have many summary clothes that I like anymore,
Speaker 1: and I've got a folder on my phone called poss
Speaker 1: Summer Outfits, so I need to bite the bullet and
Speaker 1: actually buy some. So my high of the week has
Speaker 1: been watching an incredible Netflix documentary and it's called Jail Break,
Speaker 1: Love on the Run and so so for you know,
Speaker 1: my love of jail shows, like I used to love
Speaker 1: that Love After lock Up, which is a reality show
Speaker 1: where prisoners would meet civilians and they start writing letters
Speaker 1: to each other. You fall in love with jail shows
Speaker 1: so good. So this documentary is about a prison guard.
Speaker 1: So she was the assistant director of operations at an
Speaker 1: Alabama prison and she fell in love with this inmate
Speaker 1: who was in for murder. So it's all about their
Speaker 1: love story and as it sort of indicates via the title,
Speaker 1: love on the Run, so basically, she helped this guy
Speaker 1: break out of prison. They have all of these recordings
Speaker 1: of their phone calls to one another, so she had
Speaker 1: a secret phone where she was talking to this guy
Speaker 1: called Casey White in prison. It is sensational. I think
Speaker 1: it's number one at the moment on Netflix. You have
Speaker 1: to watch it because I want to talk to somebody
Speaker 1: about what it's crazy. Fun fact. I used to date
Speaker 1: a prison guard and a prisoner, not a prisoner, a
Speaker 1: prison guard. Matter of fact, I actually wrote to a
Speaker 1: man in the county Jale. But he used to have
Speaker 1: the funniest stories about prison life. It would be well,
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, a fascinating job, but fascinating in
Speaker 1: some parts. Or Dale's one of his friends works in
Speaker 1: a prison, but as the fitness instructors that he comes
Speaker 1: in and you get paid a lot for that, just
Speaker 1: out of the risk. It's a danger money. And he
Speaker 1: said that he tries to because he has to have
Speaker 1: a lot of fun with the guys and he wants
Speaker 1: them to respect him. He sets up all these little
Speaker 1: games and has prizes that they win. And he said,
Speaker 1: you can tell there's a bit of a hierarchy because
Speaker 1: some of the big, tough like scarier guys, they always
Speaker 1: seem to win, and it's like a power raid that
Speaker 1: they're fighting over. Now. I know that this isn't a
Speaker 1: recommendation section. It is supposed to be highs and lows
Speaker 1: of the week, but I want to cut in. This
Speaker 1: is probably the most basic bitch recommendation because everyone is
Speaker 1: watching it and talking about it at the moment, it's
Speaker 1: nobody wants this. This is the show of the year
Speaker 1: for me. I have been obsessed with it. My partner said,
Speaker 1: it's just because you think that you're like the main character,
Speaker 1: and it is because the main character is a podcast host. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it's Kristin Bell, She's the actress who plays the
Speaker 1: main character. And then there's Adam Brody. My god, he
Speaker 1: has aged well, oh my god. I never liked him
Speaker 1: in the OC, Like I didn't watch the OC, so
Speaker 1: he wasn't a heart throb. But geez, I mean, as
Speaker 1: everyone has been saying on TikTok, he is now like
Speaker 1: every millennial's heart throb. Yeah, I think it was his character.
Speaker 1: Would you make one of those slam cakes? Have you
Speaker 1: seen those face popping up on a few? But I
Speaker 1: really I did really resonate with Kristen Bell's character because
Speaker 1: Brandon and I laugh so much. In the scene where
Speaker 1: Kristin Bell said that she had already stalked the ex
Speaker 1: girlfriend's LinkedIn to catch up and what she'd been doing
Speaker 1: that week, and I was like, oh my god, that
Speaker 1: is literally something I would do. My favorite scene is
Speaker 1: when they're all in the car, So it's Adam Brodie,
Speaker 1: Kristen Bell and it's whoever plays Kristen's sister and also
Speaker 1: Adam's brother, and the sister tries to send her a
Speaker 1: text message about how gross the brother is, except it
Speaker 1: plays out on Apple airplay and it is just so
Speaker 1: fucking funny. It's like he's grossmit face face. It was
Speaker 1: also so relatable how the sisters were arguing about the
Speaker 1: podcast and there was this big blow off about anyway,
Speaker 1: which fantastic they always saying, because he really enjoys it too.
Speaker 1: That the mum in it. It's kind of like she's
Speaker 1: actually not anything like our mum, but you know how
Speaker 1: it's almost being the most mean girls, like I'm the
Speaker 1: cool mom. Anyway. He just said it was like the
Speaker 1: movie version of Mum. Anyway, go and watch it. It
Speaker 1: is so good. Now, what is your low of the week? Amy,
Speaker 1: My low of the week is cafe etiquette, So I
Speaker 1: have decided it's coming to the end of the year,
Speaker 1: there's beautiful weather, and I want to be that person
Speaker 1: who works from a cafe. So Sophie and I tried
Speaker 1: to do this this morning and fucking this cafe. We
Speaker 1: went to great Food, Great Chai lash well not really
Speaker 1: blaring music. Well, it's been taken over by new owners,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, hold in a second, turn that down,
Speaker 1: like yeah, And the thing was we were like, wow,
Speaker 1: I wonder if they've been blaring this music how old
Speaker 1: we sound for quite some time now? Because it was empty,
Speaker 1: because usually this place is packed. It was around twelve
Speaker 1: thirty prime time to be nothing's changed except literally the
Speaker 1: staff members and also the music they're now blaring. Amy Winehouse.
Speaker 1: No one wants to hear loud music when they're out
Speaker 1: at dinner or at lunch. Maybe it's an unpopular opinion,
Speaker 1: but like we were even trying to work out where
Speaker 1: to go for dinner on Saturday night, and we were
Speaker 1: tossing up whether to go to a pub nearby, and
Speaker 1: we're like, we just want to talk, like I don't
Speaker 1: want to have to yell over people. Yeah, my other
Speaker 1: Low's were still unable to get a sandwich at Dante's
Speaker 1: down at Glenelge. Anyone in Adelaide will fill this pain.
Speaker 1: Every time we go there, it is sold out. So yeah,
Speaker 1: cafes aroughunt Adelaide, please start stocking the sandwiches for longer
Speaker 1: and also stop playing music so loud. But what I
Speaker 1: don't get is if they're sold out by lunchtime every time,
Speaker 1: wouldn't a business think, okay, strategy wise, let's make more
Speaker 1: sandwiches them. They're fucking great. They're great, but I'm taying
Speaker 1: make more sandwiches. But they've also just released this strawberry matcher,
Speaker 1: which has been all over my YouTube and TikTok page
Speaker 1: influencers sipping this strawberry matcher. And I don't even like matcher,
Speaker 1: but tend to try it. It looks so to know what,
Speaker 1: no one fucking likes it. Everyone's pretending like, well, they
Speaker 1: only like it when it's laden with ten tons of sugar.
Speaker 1: I don't see again, I'm trying to sound it sounds
Speaker 1: like I'm a fucking pick me. I don't mind the
Speaker 1: taste of it, but it would not be my drink
Speaker 1: of choice. Well, I think that's all we've got time
Speaker 1: for today. Thank you for listening to another episode of Outspoken.
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Speaker 1: of my week reading them. I should add that to
Speaker 1: my hurt heis and most listen. Kate has one more
Speaker 1: week left of Maternityly doesn't she way? I thought she
Speaker 1: was back next week. No, she's seventeen weeks. She's hat off.
Speaker 1: So we've got one more week until Kate is back.
Speaker 1: I think we're all feeling excited to have it back.
Speaker 1: But it'll just be interesting to have the three of
Speaker 1: us back again. It's quite easy, just with two back
Speaker 1: and forth. It is easy. But yeah, so another week
Speaker 1: of just Sophie and I and then back to the
Speaker 1: three of us. Enjoy your last week, okay, Yeah, and
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Speaker 1: on the traditional land of the Ghana people of the
Speaker 1: Adelaide Planes. We pay respect to elders past and present,