1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Fearlessly Failing Hot Seat. In this EPP, I 2 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: fire rapid questions at one of our fearlessly failing guests. PS. 3 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm not so good 4 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: at the rapid part. I get too intrigued by the 5 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 1: awesome answers. Now a new EPP is going to drop 6 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: every Wednesday, so enjoy this shorter style episode of fearlessly 7 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: Failing Hot Seat. 8 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 2: Hello, bonsoir, Hey, Bonsoir, Hot Seat Lola Berry roles reverse today. 9 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm in the hot seat. I haven't seen your question. 10 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 2: I haven't seen my questions. I'll be the host. I'll 11 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 2: keep this nice and snappy. Hopefully we won't chitty chat. 12 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,279 Speaker 2: Oh you can tribute chat too much. But these are 13 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 2: meant to be a rapid fire shorter never seen it. 14 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:52,840 Speaker 1: I've got always start with full name. You know that, right, Yep? 15 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 2: I know that full legal name. 16 00:00:56,360 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: Lauren Avery Smith. Mum's last name is Avery. Dad's last 17 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: name is Smith. 18 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: Very cute. Lauren. Dad named me loss still Casey Lozenger, Lozenger. 19 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: Where does Lola Berry come from? 20 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 1: M first boyfriend's sister was called Lauren, and he said, 21 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 1: I'm really uncomfortable to be dating song with the same 22 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: name as my sister. He said, can I call you? 23 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: Can I call you Lola? And I said yeah. And 24 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: then when I worked at this fashion shop in Paran, 25 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: tom My co worker would go, how's my little loller 26 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: berry going today? 27 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 2: Very cute? 28 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:36,119 Speaker 1: So Tom named me. 29 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:41,119 Speaker 2: That is a very Are you still friends with Tom? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 30 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 2: that's really nice? Okay, sweet or savory. 31 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: Sweet, old day pumpkin pie, sticky date pudding, toffee solder, caramel, 32 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: cookies and cream, white chocolate, you name it, all of 33 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: the things. 34 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 2: Marvelous creation. 35 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: I want to try the marvelous creations power man. 36 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's not that good. No, it's not. 37 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 2: It's not as good as the original. I want to 38 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 2: try the birthday cake, but I don't think it's as 39 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:11,079 Speaker 2: good anyway. Favorite flavor white chocolate. It's your favorite flavor 40 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 2: pumpkin pie? Would you say, like maybe like spice, like 41 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 2: Christmas spice? Yeah? Like one flavor? What is the one flavor? 42 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: Pumpkin spice? 43 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 2: Pumpkin spice? Okay, that leads to my next one favorite dessert, 44 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 2: pumpkin pie, pumpkin bye of all time? 45 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: Okay, but not the gluten free version of air wine 46 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: or the actual one with the gram cracker. Yeah, like 47 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: the proper o G deep dish. 48 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 2: Does gram cracker mean when they crunch up the crackers, Yeah, 49 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 2: add butter and then they do the. 50 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: That's the base deep dish pie pump fine cracker. 51 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 2: Stop it. I made you a full like pie crust 52 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 2: for your birthday. I should have just done the gram 53 00:02:58,160 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 2: cracker thing. 54 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, because we've got with three brand crappers crackers in Australia. 55 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 2: Okay, you'll do something fun or do you want to 56 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 2: go straight into something serious? 57 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: Fun? 58 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 2: Okay? Fuck Mary kill? 59 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: Oh my, okay, we'll marry you. No, what do you 60 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 1: mean you're not in it? 61 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 2: No? Fuck Mary Kill Chris Hemsworth, Liam Hemsworth, Cole Sprouse. 62 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: I knew you could jug get in there. Okay, okay, 63 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: so fuck Merracle Okay, okay, okay, okay, marry Cole Sprouse 64 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: is my favor. Okay, kill Chris Hemsworth. Have to, you'd 65 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 1: have to, and fuck Liam because I think he's got 66 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: a bit of like tortured artist part. So I reckon 67 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: you'd be good in the sact no other choice? Do 68 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: you did you? Did you presume that I presumed. 69 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I still wanted to to throw that in there, though, 70 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 2: good one I couldn't deal with like people we know, 71 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 2: or like fuck merkle Oh I'll marry you, Like that's boring. 72 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: Oh no, you did a good list. I'm not. I 73 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: don't drink like I think the hym'sworths are amazing, but 74 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: I'm not like, oh my god, yeah, take me there. 75 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 2: But they are good looking guys. 76 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: I like their voices. For me, it's the voice. 77 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 2: I was gonna do something funny like fuck Mary Kill, 78 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 2: like Scott Morrison, Anthony Albanezi, or like Gladys Ji. 79 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: No, glad she didn't do it. 80 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 2: An that would have been a hard one. Okay, more 81 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 2: serious ones now. Favorite achievement M So it doesn't have 82 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 2: to be like work or anything specific. It just has 83 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 2: to be something that you feel like you've achieved and 84 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 2: you love that you achieved it. 85 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: So this is a crossover of work and helping others. 86 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 1: I was working for a morning show for Channel ten 87 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 1: in New York, and I was doing a TV segment 88 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,359 Speaker 1: where we volunteered at the New York Souper Kitchen in 89 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: West Harlem. Have I told you this? 90 00:04:57,640 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 91 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:01,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I remember, but I was. We got the 92 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:04,720 Speaker 1: train there and I was like, so concerned about how 93 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 1: I looked. And we got there and I interviewed one 94 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 1: of the people. They go, go interview him. I can't 95 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: even remember his name. They go, he's been coming for 96 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,359 Speaker 1: the last thirteen years straight. And I interviewed him. I go, 97 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 1: what do you love so much about the West Hallem 98 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: Soup Kitchen? And he goes, I love Thanksgiving. And I 99 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: thought he was going to be like, there's turkey, there's 100 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,280 Speaker 1: pumpkin pie. And he's like, I love it because they 101 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 1: put tablecloths out. And I was like, Lola, get a 102 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,280 Speaker 1: grippy yourself, like you're here worried about how you look. 103 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 1: This guy he gets excited if there's a tablecloth on 104 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: the table. And I was quite young and early in 105 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 1: my career that I had that experience. So I felt 106 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: really early on never to take my career or my 107 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: life for granted. 108 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 2: I put things in perspective. 109 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, would have been like early twenties, Okay, Yeah. 110 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 2: The first time in your life that you felt that 111 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 2: everything made sense. 112 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: I probably the feeling of passion, like the feeling of 113 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 1: like finding something that you love and it sparks something 114 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: that feels bigger than you within your heart, and for me, 115 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: that is passion. The most recent time that has happened 116 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 1: for me was doing a theater play and just fully 117 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 1: giving over the experience. Had a wonderful director, and I 118 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: remember I was like it fell out of body and 119 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: I could feel like electricity running through my veins and 120 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, this is why people act. It's 121 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: something that is bigger than you. But I have had 122 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: those moments of passion not on the stage as well, 123 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: like I've had it when I'm filming something that I'm 124 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: really passionate about, or working in TV or any of that. 125 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 2: You know what about early on, was there like you 126 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 2: know moment early in Korea where we just kind of 127 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 2: look back and you're like, oh, fuck, this is all 128 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 2: starting to make sense like everything. 129 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: I had a YouTube series called Fruits and Roots, and 130 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: I remember this might mean the second series and that 131 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: will filming it where I lived on the Gold Coast 132 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: and I was talking to camera and I was like, 133 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: this chili is great for metabolism, warming you up, Da 134 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: da dad, And I was looking down the battle of 135 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: the camera and I was like, this is what I 136 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 1: meant to be doing right now, and that was we've 137 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 1: only been like twenty I love that, or twenty one. 138 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 2: I love that. It's beautiful passion, passion. Biggest fear. 139 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: Uh, probably like not achieving to my best potential desire. No, 140 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: not potential, because I'll always know that I'll push everything. 141 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: I'll push the envelope as far as I can. But like, 142 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: I've got big dreams, and I think, like seeing how 143 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: hard it is now having lived in La, it's a 144 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 1: very real possibility that those dreams won't come true. Like 145 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: it's a two percent success rate, and so like if 146 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 1: they didn't come true, that'd be pretty heartbreaking. 147 00:07:56,960 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 2: Biggest irrational fear Ah, Like spider snakes. 148 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: They're rational, I think more. My irrational fear is like 149 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: I have, Well, I have a history of eating disorders 150 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: and so body dysmorphea comes with that. So I have 151 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 1: an irrational fear of weight gain probably and I still 152 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: have that, Like I'm very scared of that and he's 153 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: still working on it with the freezing embryos and injecting hormones. 154 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: I'm afraid that I'll put weight on, which I won't, 155 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: but I'm afraid. 156 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 2: That I will. 157 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 1: I'll be here for you, I know, but yes, what 158 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 1: my irrational fear is it. 159 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 2: Like that biggest lesson? 160 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 1: Oh, there'd be so so many, but like just trusting yourself, 161 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: trusting your intuition, and also not giving a shit about 162 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 1: saying no, like I learned that this last time I 163 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:51,079 Speaker 1: was in LA. I have some really cool friends, and 164 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: one of them it just knows when they don't want 165 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: to be there anymore. It is like, Okay, I see yeah, 166 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 1: I'll see you in a few next time. I see yeah, 167 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: And I think I've bought that back with me, Like 168 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: you went out last night. I went to the beach 169 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 1: with you and your gang during the day and then 170 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 1: you went out and I was like, see, I'm not 171 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 1: coming out, And I like that. I like that ability 172 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: to say no when you really want to say no. 173 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that. Do That's very nice. What's a 174 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 2: big challenge you've overcome? 175 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: Eating disorder? Pretty big one, and learning not to give 176 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: a shit about what people think of me, and judgment 177 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 1: and people pleasing. I was a big people pleaser, and 178 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 1: I'd really compromise myself to please others, which I don't 179 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: really want to do anymore. 180 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 2: So you saying that that was a big challenge, huge 181 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 2: and still holding you back. 182 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it would ruin my day. If I had like 183 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 1: a food thing I was freaking out over and ruined 184 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: my week, I'd freak you know, I'd freak out the 185 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 1: whole lead up into it. 186 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 2: And of course, yeah, we would. You say you like 187 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 2: were your worst nightmare is? 188 00:09:59,160 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: Like? 189 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 2: Based on that, like, what's your worst. 190 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: No, my worst night mayor is being around fake people. Yeah, 191 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 1: I can't handle the thought of life. 192 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 2: Most people like that though, No, so. 193 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: Many people are faked in gooes. I would hate to 194 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: be in a scenario where I have to be around 195 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: someone that is fake, and sometimes, unfortunately it happens, and 196 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: it's quite heartbreaking when the moment someone will say something 197 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: and I'll be like, oh, we're not going to be 198 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: friends anymore, and it's quite sad. Yeah, you know, it's 199 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 1: heartbreaking when someone lets you down like that. 200 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 2: Totally. I think everyone that I generally meet, I know 201 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 2: pretty much instantly, and then we all do who is real, 202 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:42,439 Speaker 2: who's not, and who you know a lot of people say, oh, 203 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 2: you know you get a very short like tolerance. I 204 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 2: was like, no, I'm very patient, but I'm very understanding 205 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 2: of people's energy and who you kind of let in. 206 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: We both really enjoy reading human behavior as well, when 207 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 1: you and I because it is totally it is also 208 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: beautiful the other side, when you meet somebody that you've 209 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 1: never met before and you feel like you've known them 210 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 1: your entire life, and often that's just that they're a 211 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:06,199 Speaker 1: cool human And for me as well, it's that feeling 212 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: of not being judged and just being myself. And I 213 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: think that I love those kind of spiritual meetings where 214 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: you meet someone and you're like, it feels like you're 215 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 1: meeting a kindred spirit and you just share really cool 216 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: conversational meal. 217 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 2: I think we've got a few new friendships like that 218 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 2: that have like kindred spirits. Yeah, but it kind of 219 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 2: popped up pretty recently that have been. 220 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: I've lost some friends in the last twelve months, and 221 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 1: not through death other than a metaphoric death of a friendship. 222 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: Like I've lost friends in the last twelve months, and 223 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 1: that's been really really confronting because I don't think people 224 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 1: talk about it that much, but as an adult, losing 225 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: friends just because they don't like you anymore, you don't 226 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 1: know why, that's really confronting. But the flip side is 227 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: when you make a friend that is real as an 228 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 1: adult is like a fucking gift and like such something 229 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:01,199 Speaker 1: to be reveled in, like something so beautiful and very healing. 230 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: There's something really healing in that. 231 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 2: I feel like I've lost a couple of people. 232 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: Yeah you've gained heaps. 233 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 2: Though, gained heaps, but yeah, like people I've gained like 234 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 2: two Yeah, but people that I grew up with that 235 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 2: I thought would be around for a but like it 236 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 2: was when I moved because I wasn't in like the proximity. 237 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 2: That's I don't know that I thought that. But then 238 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 2: you know, I have like my best mate that lives overseas, 239 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 2: Like our friendship is stronger than ever. 240 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that Adam's going nowhere? Yeah he's here, right 241 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 1: or die right? Or let's changed the pace up a 242 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 1: little bit. Best celebrity meeting, Oh maybe probably Moby. Yeah. 243 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 1: I was working at health food store and I just 244 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:51,959 Speaker 1: got back from New York. By this stage, I was 245 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: fully in love with America and was like it took 246 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: me a very long time to become an American residence. 247 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: So I had this dream for a long time. I 248 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: just got back this I came into a health food 249 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 1: store I was working at, and he was buying all 250 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: these organic ingredients and I was just helping him, just 251 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 1: helping him. Didn't realize it was Moby at all cheer chatting, 252 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:13,480 Speaker 1: but I picked up on the accent. I was like, Ah, 253 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 1: where are you from. He's like New York and I 254 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I'm going back soon. I 255 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 1: want to move there. And he made me this list 256 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 1: of all his vegan restaurants to go to health places 257 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: on the spot. He owned one of them, like thirteen 258 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 1: Candles or something that was called and he paid with 259 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: his credit card. I remember his credit card, said Richard Hall. 260 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 1: So again I thought nothing of it, and I go, oh, 261 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 1: here's my card. I said it. You know, I'll be there. 262 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: You know that. Within five minutes, he'd sent me an 263 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 1: email going, hey, it's Moby. Do you an your mates 264 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: when I come to my gig tomorrow night? And I 265 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 1: was like, oh shit, that was my I had no 266 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 1: idea that it was him the whole time. And then 267 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 1: we went to the gig. We went to backstage. It 268 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 1: was a clean party, like no booze. He had like 269 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: hormics and crackers and dips and juice, and we stayed 270 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 1: pen pals for like two years. 271 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 2: That's hilarious. 272 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I've met people that were also underwhelming that 273 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 1: weren't that and always celebrity, big celebrity celebrities if they're 274 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 1: in Australia. Jas he's a good one. So this is 275 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: a shout out to Jane Neglene, the best, most incredible mate. Jane. 276 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: We're at some Sony party or something or some like 277 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: Universal music party on a rooftop in Sydney and I 278 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 1: get there and she's like, that's James Bay. He's so 279 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 1: hot and I was like, yeah, he is. And she's 280 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: like you should you just go over and say hello? 281 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: And I was like, can you do an introduction? She goes, 282 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: fuck no, you're on your road line. She goes fucking 283 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 1: walk over there, and I was like, so I've walked over. 284 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 1: I got a selfie. He was so loved. He was 285 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 1: like a manager or something. So I'm fair bit older 286 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: than him and he was real sweet. I got my photo. 287 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 1: I was fucking beside myself. Thank you Jane for making 288 00:14:57,520 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: me do that. 289 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 2: Jane the boss, negline best, She's the best. She's unreal, right, 290 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 2: something we're nearly at the end now, something you are 291 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 2: truly proud of. 292 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: You probably expected me to say my books, but do 293 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 1: you know what, in all honesty, I love this podcast 294 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 1: so much and it brings me so much joy, and 295 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: I just hope that it gets to grow to the 296 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 1: level that I think it could grow, because it's an honest, real, 297 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: genuine podcast that is created to help and inspire others. 298 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 2: Yes, I agree, Oh I love that. Okay. Last two. 299 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 2: Something you love about Australia And I know it's a 300 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 2: hard question for you. 301 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: Oh no, I just love the nature, especially living here 302 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: in Byron Bay. Like you can swim in the ocean 303 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 1: and it's so healing and clean and it's I love 304 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 1: the safety of Australia. It's so safe. I'll never take 305 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: it for granted. 306 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 2: Absolutely not. Yeah, it's beautiful. One thing you love about America. 307 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 1: Opportunity, the dream to be around dreamers. Like you're constantly 308 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 1: around dreamers. Whereas in Bairon, you and I went to 309 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 1: a market this morning. All you see is dogs, babies 310 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: and pregnant people, which is beautiful as well, and that's 311 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 1: why I like this would be the great place to 312 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 1: raise a kid. But in America, you are around dreamers. 313 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: The energy of that is intoxic, like it's so anything 314 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: as possible. Like I was like, I think I'm going 315 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 1: to write an animation. Everyone's like, Okay, cool, what do 316 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 1: you say here? And it almost feels weird coming out 317 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 1: of your mouth because you're like, wow, I. 318 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 2: Just feel so distant here. 319 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 1: It feels a little bit far away, whereas opportunity is 320 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: there and Americans love to hear your dreams, so they're 321 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 1: both different, Like I don't think it could beat the 322 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 1: quality of life from a lifestyle perspective here to I mean, 323 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: I haven't traveled enough to know what it's like in 324 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: different parts of Europe and whatnot, But I would say 325 00:16:55,920 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: America for opportunity and for the energy of being in 326 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:04,159 Speaker 1: the entertainment like Mecha and melting part. I think I 327 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 1: told you this last year. I was in his acting 328 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 1: class and the teacher said to this one actor, congrats 329 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:12,199 Speaker 1: who've just booked a movie. As I'm driving home, that 330 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 1: same actor is on a Billward billboard for a different movie, 331 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:19,360 Speaker 1: separate to the one she's said congrats for, and I'm like, whoa, 332 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 1: You're so close to it, Like even I didn't tell 333 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 1: you this, but I was at air one with my 334 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: mate Mo, like a week before I got on the plane, 335 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 1: maybe even closer, and I was like, that's mac Steamy 336 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 1: and she's like, what that's like? Steam me off Gray's 337 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:38,679 Speaker 1: Anatomy and he's the dad off Euphoria and he's just 338 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 1: strolling the aisles of Air One getting a few greens 339 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 1: and you do a bit of kombocher. Yeah, So it 340 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 1: is nice being in that close and like's sitting next 341 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 1: to Conan O'Brien at dinner. It just doesn't get to 342 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: happen here. And it's it's not that you're getting to 343 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 1: see famous people. It's that you're getting to see people 344 00:17:57,480 --> 00:18:00,159 Speaker 1: that have got the careers that you're dreaming of, and 345 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 1: so it fills you up with hope. And that hope 346 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 1: is so like when you see Hemsworth here in Byron, 347 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 1: because they all live here, you're like, oh, handsome devil. 348 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 1: You don't feel like because they're not here working, they're 349 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 1: here living, right, It's quite a different energy to like 350 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:16,679 Speaker 1: being where. It's like, you know, I went to a 351 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: tape in with James Corden and you just feel so 352 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,440 Speaker 1: much closer to like your. 353 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:25,119 Speaker 2: Dreams, beautiful, any parting gifts. 354 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 1: When will leave with there, I thought you were going 355 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 1: to ask me for like the best advice or like, no, yeah. 356 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 2: That's your whole podcast. They can listen to the whole thing. 357 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: Thanks for interviewing me. I'm it's nice to be on 358 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 1: the receiving end of a hot seat. It's easier than 359 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 1: I thought. I'm now I'm going to go harder on 360 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 1: my guess. 361 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 2: I was just going to do heaps of fuck Mary kills. 362 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 1: But I thought, oh, do you want to another one? 363 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:43,359 Speaker 1: That was quite funny? 364 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 2: No, I can't think of any other ones at the morment. 365 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: Can I do one on you back? 366 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 2: Okay? 367 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: Okay, fuck Mary kill, Gwyneth Poultro, Yeah, yeah, Zendaya and 368 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:05,159 Speaker 1: Ariana Grande easy, Marry Guenos. Of course he's got a 369 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 1: huge gross foxindea. Yeah, and kill Ariana? Oh cool easy. 370 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:15,120 Speaker 1: I just saw that on my top of my Yeah, 371 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 1: she should be on your I mean, we don't even 372 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 1: need to have an open relationship for that to be 373 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:21,400 Speaker 1: totally okay with me. Just so you know, we've got 374 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: it on the pod now. And who am I allowed? 375 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 2: Whoever you want? Boss, I love you, love you