1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:05,519 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families Podcast. 2 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 2: It's the podcast for. 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 3: The time poor parent who just wants answers. 4 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 2: Now today this stops justin Colson. We are so excited 5 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: for today's podcast. Normally on the podcast, all we do 6 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 2: is give you heaps and heaps of ideas for how 7 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: you can make your family happier. Today, we're going to 8 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 2: tell you about something that's going to absolutely make your 9 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: family happier if you are raising teens or tweens. One 10 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 2: of our premium offerings every six months or so is 11 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 2: a Happy Family's Summit. But we're going to run our 12 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 2: last summit next week, your last one just around the 13 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 2: corner like it's creeping up quickly, and we've put so 14 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 2: much work and effort into this one. I'm so excited 15 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 2: about it. So basically it's called the Smells Like Teen 16 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 2: Spirit Summit, and today in the podcast, we want to 17 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 2: tell you about the summit because it will undeniably change 18 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 2: what you do as a parent as you raise your 19 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 2: tweens and teens. The Smells Like Teen Spirits It happens 20 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 2: next Thursday. Today the Early Bird Special finishes, and so 21 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 2: we want to make sure you've got all the information 22 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 2: that you need so that you can make an informed 23 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: decision and join us for the summit. It's going to 24 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 2: be amazing. Now, one of the things that we've done 25 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 2: with the Smells Like Teen Spirit Summit is we're going 26 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 2: back to the nineties because we were usually most of 27 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 2: us were teenagers in the nineties, some of us the eighties, 28 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 2: some of us maybe even a bit later than that, 29 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: but nineties is kind of our formative years, and so 30 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 2: we've put together a Spotify playlist. You can actually look 31 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 2: this up. The Happy Family team has put together a 32 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 2: Spotify playlist called the Smells Like Teen Spirits Summit, And 33 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 2: essentially what we've done is we picked up a nineties 34 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:42,639 Speaker 2: tune for every speaker that matches their topic. 35 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 3: That's like fun. 36 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 2: Now, before I want to do something in this podcast 37 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 2: that's going to put you on the spot. You don't 38 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 2: know that this is coming. But before I do this, 39 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: I just want to emphasize the quality of the speakers 40 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 2: we've gotten for this summit is world class. It's literally 41 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: the best summit we've ever put together in terms of lineup. 42 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 2: I don't think I've seen a better summit anywhere on 43 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 2: the planet, Like even your Ted Talks all that sort 44 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 2: of stuff. This is as good as it gets. 45 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 3: It's my question. 46 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 2: Incredibly good is yes? 47 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 3: Is your music line up just as good? 48 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: I think it's amazing. So here's what we're going to do. 49 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you the person okay, and they're 50 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,839 Speaker 2: I'm going to play their song. Once I've played the song, 51 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 2: you've got to guess what they're talking about, and then 52 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 2: we'll talk about who they are and why they're so amazing. 53 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 2: Then we'll go to the next person. 54 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 3: I don't know if I can do this. 55 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 2: I'm so excited for this, but we need to do 56 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,079 Speaker 2: it quickly because we've got so many speakers and it's 57 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 2: just so darn good. So we're going to start with me. 58 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 2: I'm going to be speaking at my summit. Oh hang on, 59 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 2: I need to get you to guess the name of 60 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 2: the summit. So this is the first song, which highlights 61 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 2: what the what it's about. What do you think this 62 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 2: one might be? Like, what's the name of the summer? 63 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 2: Based on this song? 64 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:56,959 Speaker 3: Teenage? 65 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 2: You don't know who this is? Come on a Metallica. Okay, 66 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 2: I'm so glad. I'm so glad that you don't know. 67 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 2: So this is Nirvana and it's and the song is 68 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 2: smells like teen Spirit because it's the smells like Teen 69 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 2: Spirit Summit. This is going to be a long podcast, 70 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 2: really bad, and I think that's really important that we do. 71 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: This. 72 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 3: Was listening to Mariah Carey and. 73 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, you just you totally totally did not get that 74 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 2: at all, did you. Okay, So that somebody is called 75 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 2: the smells like teen Spirit Summit, and we've thrown in 76 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 2: a little tagline more Nirvana, less drama, okay, because raising 77 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 2: teenage's lots of drama. Nirvana the idea of heaven peace, 78 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 2: more Nirvana. But Nirvana sang the song smells like teen spirits. 79 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 2: See what we've done there? 80 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 3: Loss so clever, so much. 81 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 2: Thinking, so much thinking. So, like I said, I'm just 82 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 2: going to save the speaker. We'll talk about who the 83 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 2: speaker is once you've heard the song and guess what 84 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 2: they're talking about. Are you ready? 85 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 3: Okay? 86 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 2: Okay, So the first speaker is me and here's my 87 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 2: song the radio. All right, then come on spin. 88 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 3: Are you talking about? 89 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 2: Say? Yes, I am, because it's important and I happen 90 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 2: to know a lot about it in terms of what 91 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 2: our teenagers are getting up to and what they need 92 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 2: to know. Okay, that's one for me, it's one for you, 93 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 2: and we don't need to talk about me, because if 94 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 2: you're listening to a Happy Family podcast, you know that 95 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 2: I've got a whole lot of stuff to say, done, 96 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 2: a whole lot of research, and it's going to be useful. Okay. 97 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 2: Our next speaker is a New York Times bestselling author 98 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 2: by the name of Amy Morin. Amy has written a 99 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 2: handful of New York Times bestsellers, and they're all starting 100 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 2: with the same title idea thirteen Things Strong People Do 101 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 2: or thirteen Things Strong Parents Do, or thirteen Things Strong 102 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 2: People Don't do. This one, Oh, well, I can't tell you. 103 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 2: I've almost given it away, but I'm not gonna I'm 104 00:04:53,960 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 2: not gonna give it all the way. Here's her song. Okay, 105 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 2: so you remember the song, montell Jordan, this is how 106 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 2: we do it. So what do you think she might 107 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 2: be talking about? Based on that song and based on 108 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 2: what I told you about the name of her books? 109 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 3: Thirteen Things Strong People Do. 110 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 2: No, well, you're so close. You got one word wrong. 111 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 2: Thirteen Things Strong Teens. Yes, because it's the smells like 112 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 2: teen Spirits Summit. It's about teenageres thirteen Things Strong Teens Do. 113 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 2: Amy is phenomenal. She's an incredible speaker and literally world class. 114 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 2: She's got a TED talk. It's one of the most 115 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 2: viewed TED talks of all time. She is just exemplary 116 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 2: and I think that people are going to love her. 117 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 1: Okay. 118 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:36,720 Speaker 2: The next speaker is a guy called Josh Ship. Josh 119 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 2: Ship is literally known as one of the best youth 120 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 2: speakers in the United States. The guy is incredible. He 121 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 2: was a foster kid and he grew up going through 122 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 2: foster home after foster home after foster home until one family. 123 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 2: I'm going to get weepy saying it one family once 124 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 2: at a parents loved him so much that even though 125 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 2: he tried to leave a thousand times, he finally realized 126 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 2: what love is all about. So here's his song. Okay, 127 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 2: So there's you, Mariah Carey, right, this is in your wheelhouse. 128 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 2: What do you think Josh Shipp might be talking about 129 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 2: based on what I've told you? 130 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 4: So? 131 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 3: Is he going to be talking about belonging or togetherness? 132 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:31,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're really close. The name of his talk is 133 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 2: One Caring Adult. I'm going to talk about how our 134 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 2: teenagers just they just need to have that one person 135 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 2: who is unconditional. 136 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 3: Oh I love that. 137 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 2: I'm getting I'm getting a good pup just thinking about it. Okay, 138 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 2: one of my favorite people on the planet just happens 139 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 2: to live in Brisbane and she is I think Brisbane, 140 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 2: I said, one of my favorites. Her name is Rebecca 141 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 2: s Barrow. I'm not going to say anything about her. 142 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 2: I think I'm giving you too many hints, so I'm 143 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 2: just going to play her song. You've got to tell me. 144 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 3: After my first attempt, I think that you need the hints. 145 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 2: Well, I think that this one will be really easy. Okay. 146 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 2: Beck Sparrow is going to be speaking. Here's her theme song. 147 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 2: She's going to talk about French. She says, friends navigating 148 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 2: teenage friendships. I decided not to bring it in on 149 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 2: the hook, but we need to hear it just to 150 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 2: make it really, really clearist again second year? Yea, how good? 151 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 2: How good is it going to be? I'll be there 152 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 2: for you is what Rebecca Sparrow is going to be 153 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 2: talking about. The importance of friendships. This is all for 154 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 2: the smells like teen Spirit Summit one week away, Early 155 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 2: Bird finishes today. Okay, we need to go faster. There's 156 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 2: a whole bunch of other speakers who are incredible. There's 157 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 2: this guy. He wrote Girls on the Edge, he wrote 158 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 2: Boys Adrifts. He has more qualifications coming out of every 159 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 2: orifice of his body than most people would even consider. 160 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 2: His name is Leonard Sax and his theme song is 161 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 2: this one from the nineties. How good is this playlist? 162 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 2: I just want to prop the playlist on Spotify and 163 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 2: make that the podcast today. It's a Pearl Jam better man. Right, 164 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 2: So what do you think that Leonard Sacks might be 165 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 2: talking about. I don't look at me like that. Isn't 166 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 2: that hard? Really? 167 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 3: Well, he's going to talk about boys? 168 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:33,559 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, what's going on with our boys? Why are 169 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 2: there so many challenges for our boys? Raising teen boys? 170 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 2: All the issues around pornography and the objectifying culture that 171 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 2: we're part of, why they're not doing as well at. 172 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 3: School, and how we can raise a better man, How 173 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 3: we can raise. 174 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 2: A better man? Yeah, it's going to be great, Okay. 175 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 2: Next one that we've got to talk about is doctor 176 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 2: Betina Hone and she has written a best selling book 177 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 2: called Understanding the Teenage Brain. I might have just told 178 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 2: you a little bit about what this is about, but 179 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:06,559 Speaker 2: here's her themes from our Spotify playlist have Good with 180 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 2: the nineties. This is a really good playlist, isn't it great? 181 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 2: And you get you get the vibe right? So do 182 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:19,599 Speaker 2: you need to guess what Betina Honan is going to 183 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 2: be speaking about? Doctor Petina Honan, I should say, come on, complicated? Yeah, teenagers? 184 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:29,959 Speaker 3: How teenagers complicate this? 185 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 4: Well? 186 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 2: What's going on in their brain? What's going on in 187 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 2: their brain? What's so complicated? And I need to emphasize 188 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:38,959 Speaker 2: as well. Doctor Petina Honan will also be speaking quite 189 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:42,319 Speaker 2: a lot about neudiversity and adolescents. She's a world expert 190 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 2: in this and she's so good. Does this just make 191 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 2: you want to sit down and listen to every single 192 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:51,199 Speaker 2: one of these conversations? 193 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 194 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 2: Like I know that I actually. 195 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 3: Love how quirky you've got with this, and you know, 196 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 3: kind of adding a song to each it's brilliant. 197 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 2: It sounds self interested by saying you got to do 198 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 2: this because it's going to be so good, but it 199 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,439 Speaker 2: actually is so good and you got to do this. 200 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 2: The smells like Teen Spirit Summit is on Spotify. The 201 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 2: next person that we're speaking to is Julie Lithcot Haymes 202 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 2: Julie Lithcot Hayms. Now again, I want to tell you 203 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 2: all about her, but I might tell you about her 204 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 2: once you've heard the song, because otherwise it's going to 205 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 2: give away the topic. But here we go with the 206 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 2: nineties hit that is aligned with her topic. 207 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, all. 208 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 2: Right, what are you thinking? 209 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 3: Optimism? 210 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 2: Hope? No, no, or maybe for us, maybe for us. 211 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 2: We're actually talking about how to raise an adult. She's 212 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 2: got this New York Times best selling book called How 213 00:10:54,840 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 2: to Raise an Adult. This is an accomplished woman, Julie Lilythcots. 214 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 2: She worked at Stanford as the admissions dean for some time. 215 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:08,119 Speaker 2: Stamford University one of the Ivy League fanciest pants universities 216 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 2: on the planet, and she has her resume is the 217 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 2: kind of thing that you would make up if you're 218 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 2: trying to create the most impressive human on the planet. 219 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 2: She's just a phenomenon. But she is an incredible speaker 220 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 2: New York Time's best selling author, but an incredible speaker 221 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 2: who really is all about how do we help our 222 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 2: kids to grow up to be amazing human adults? So 223 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 2: this is Hope, Well, yeah, I guess I guess it is. 224 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 2: I guess it is. 225 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 3: Listen to her and your kids will move out of home. 226 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 2: I'm eventually. One of your favorite people is Karen Young. 227 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 2: She runs the website Hey Sigmund Love Karen, and in fact, 228 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 2: we just recently caught up with her for dinner last 229 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 2: week because she and her husband Dan are good friends 230 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 2: of ours and we just we love them to bits. 231 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 2: But her topic is going to be aligned with this 232 00:11:56,040 --> 00:12:26,439 Speaker 2: song from Tony Bratton again, I got carried away. I 233 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 2: pushed the wrong button. I started to sing falsetto. I 234 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 2: shouldn't have done that. I need to just stick with 235 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 2: what I do right. I should never ever try that again. 236 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 2: That was Breathe Again by Tony Braxton. What do you 237 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 2: think that our good friend Karen Young might be talking. 238 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 3: About, Well, because I know Karen. 239 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 4: It it has to be around anxiety and just that idea. 240 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 4: You know that we've got so much going around in 241 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:52,359 Speaker 4: our brains, these teenagers trying to work out all their emotions. 242 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 2: She's world classed helping your team with anxiety. It's going 243 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:56,599 Speaker 2: to be so good, all right, This one's going to 244 00:12:56,640 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 2: be a really tricky one. Professor Gene Twaingey is going 245 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 2: to be speaking about a topic and her song is 246 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 2: black Hole Sun from Soundgarden. 247 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 1: So what do you reckon? 248 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 2: Just did you even know the song? You don't know 249 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 2: the song? No, okay, I don't think I've ever heard it, 250 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:27,560 Speaker 2: and I'm not actually playing words. 251 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 1: Drummupp all right. 252 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 2: So that's the song. That's the black Hole Sun by Soundgarden. 253 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 2: What do you think that she could be doing risk taking? No, 254 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 2: although there is an element of that in her talk. 255 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 2: Professor gen Twainy is one of the most vocal people 256 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 2: on the planet about what's happening with our teens in 257 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 2: social media and the impact that social media is having. 258 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:53,679 Speaker 2: I guess the black Hole exactly. Yeah, we were being 259 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 2: a little bit obtuse, there you were. 260 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 3: But I can see I can see. 261 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 2: It now, Okay. The most incredible speak that we have 262 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 2: for the entire lineup is a guy called Professor Lawrence Steinberg. 263 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 2: He's literally written the textbook on adolescents. In fact, I 264 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:10,319 Speaker 2: have it on my shelf. This guy has written more textbooks, 265 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 2: more university papers, more connected, aren't you. I've got some 266 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 2: good people involved. And here is the song that goes 267 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 2: along with his talk. 268 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 3: Friends and your own mind, Hanging Honor Shell. 269 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: Then good out, then good time. I love this song 270 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: that dos and memories and skin. 271 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 2: On trial, who is well of the wild? It's something 272 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 2: un predectable in the end. That's see, that's more in 273 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 2: my range. 274 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: If you are the time of your life? 275 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 2: All right, what do you reckon? I just that was 276 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 2: a hard stop. I was supposed to fade it out. 277 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 2: That's a hard stop. 278 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: Sorry. 279 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 3: Is he going to talk about all things teenagers? 280 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's going to talk specifically about how to make 281 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 2: the most of this age of option? 282 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 283 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 3: I love that he's. 284 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 2: Written a book called Age of Opportunity. It's my off 285 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 2: just there. And Professor Steinberg, he just loves teenagers. He's 286 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 2: now in his I think late seventies, early eighties, but 287 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 2: he speaks with so much vigor and such incredible He's 288 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 2: such an impressive man, so impressive, and he's going to 289 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 2: help us to make the most of this stage of 290 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 2: opportunity while our teenagers are young. I'm getting weepy about 291 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 2: that because I know how good the conversation is going 292 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 2: to be. 293 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 3: We need more people who love our teenagers. 294 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, we do. Oh, there's one more session at the 295 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 2: end of the day. As if that wasn't enough, there's 296 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 2: one more session. It's me again right at the very 297 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 2: end of the day. Here's the song for this one. 298 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 3: Damn. 299 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 2: So the song is What's up by the fawn on Blonde? 300 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 2: What do you reckon? I'm going to be speaking about 301 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 2: at the end of the day. I love the blank. 302 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 3: Look, I don't know what's up with our teenagers? 303 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's actually a Q and A session. You say, hey, 304 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 2: what's up? Like, what do you want to talk about? 305 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 2: You've listened to all these incredible speakers all day. Let's 306 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 2: break it down. 307 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 3: That was a bit tricky. 308 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, now here's the stuff that you need to know. 309 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 2: Not only do we have these incredible speakers and. 310 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 3: An amazing playlist and. 311 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 2: An amazing playlist which you can download now. You don't 312 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 2: even have to sign up for the summit together. 313 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 3: I'm gonna say, just get you download now this. This 314 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 3: is fantastic. Like I've been grinning from here to just 315 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 3: listen to the music. 316 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 2: The early Bird finishes today. The summit is incredible. But 317 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 2: there's one really big thing that I want to emphasize. 318 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 2: You don't have to watch the whole thing in one day. 319 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 2: So once upon a time, that's what we used to 320 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 2: do right, That's how Summit's worked. But now you get 321 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 2: the video, you get it for this extraordinarily long time 322 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 2: where you can watch it whenever it works for you. Okay, 323 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 2: but we're also giving you access to podcast versions. 324 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 3: So a lot of people brilliant. 325 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:50,760 Speaker 2: Yes, So a lot of people say, oh, I don't 326 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 2: have time to sit there and watch this stuff, and 327 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 2: we're aware of that. So you can get the video, 328 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 2: or you can just get the audio, and that way 329 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 2: you can listen to it when you're walking the dog, 330 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 2: or you've dropped the kids off from school and you've 331 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 2: already listened to our podcast, and then you're going to 332 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 2: listen to the Summit. 333 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:05,919 Speaker 3: You've got me hooked. 334 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 2: It's all there, and it's so damn cheap, like you 335 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 2: would pay. You'd pay over two hundred dollars one hundred 336 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 2: and fifty dollars just to hear one of these people speak. 337 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 2: In many cases the whole thing. I'm not going to 338 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 2: go through the price list, but the early Bird Special finishes. 339 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 3: Today, okay, So I do need to ask you a question. Yeah, 340 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:28,160 Speaker 3: you've got this amazing playlist. If I buy the audio, yeah, 341 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:29,440 Speaker 3: is it going to start with this song? 342 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:35,120 Speaker 2: There are copyright issues around that, But you can get 343 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 2: the playlist on Spotify right now. This Smells like Teen 344 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 2: Spirit Summit playlist is there. The Happy Families team has 345 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,400 Speaker 2: put it together and it's ready to go, and it's 346 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:47,479 Speaker 2: an absolute cracker. I think you can tell that I 347 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 2: really believe in this summit. I think you can tell 348 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:51,439 Speaker 2: that this is the sort of summit that is going 349 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 2: to help you to have more navana and less drama 350 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,120 Speaker 2: when it comes to raising your teens. And I think 351 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 2: you can tell that we're talking about the big topics, 352 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 2: the stuff that really really matters with raising teams, team 353 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 2: raising teams, raising teams of teens even Please have a 354 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 2: look at the website Happy Families dot com dot au, 355 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 2: or our Facebook page Doctor Justin Colson's Happy Families, or 356 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 2: our Instagram or even our TikTok. You can get all 357 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:14,640 Speaker 2: the information. So I'm on TikTok. Did you know that 358 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 2: I've got a TikTok. Yeah, I've got my TikTok going 359 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 2: as well. Wow, the smells like Teens Spirit Summit. It 360 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 2: happens just over a week. It happens on a week 361 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 2: from now Thursday of next week. We would be so 362 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:28,719 Speaker 2: delighted I know that you will be so delighted if 363 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 2: you can get on board and enjoy what the summit offers. 364 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 2: The summit happens on Thursday, the fourteenth of September. The 365 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 2: early bird finishes today. 366 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 3: After all, we all need some more Nevada unless R.