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Speaker 1: Christ Christian O'Connell show, Jack Boast.

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Speaker 2: What's the song that sums up your weekend?

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Speaker 3: Well, let me take you back to Saturday night where

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Speaker 3: we had our happy hour date night. It's something that

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Speaker 3: started during isolation where we make cocktails. Take it in

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Speaker 3: terms to make cocktails for each other and snacks every weekend.

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Speaker 3: So it was my week weekend to make the cocktails.

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Speaker 3: I made the Godfather, which is a never had one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really good.

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Speaker 3: It's a Scotch whiskey with ameretto, which is an Italian liqueur.

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Speaker 2: That's a heady combination.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well turned into a bit of a heady combination

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Speaker 3: because we were enjoying the cocktails and I was making

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Speaker 3: guacamole as our snack. Oh yeah, And I was telling.

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Speaker 1: You, by the way, how do you make it guacamole?

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Speaker 1: I made one yesterday followay a new recipe. It's the

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Speaker 1: best one I've ever tasted. How do you make Oh?

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Speaker 3: Mine was really good. Actually, I looked for a spicy

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Speaker 3: guacamole recipe yep, because I wanted to achieve. I actually

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Speaker 3: cut chilies up into it.

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Speaker 1: Oh, this one had a little bit of chock onion

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Speaker 1: in there.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 3: I had read on in your mind.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very nice and a little bit of line juice

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Speaker 1: as well. We give it some tang.

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Speaker 3: I think we're making from the same remp.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, Sorry, let's pres play again on the story.

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Speaker 3: I'm squishing up the avocados for guacamoli, and I'm telling

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Speaker 3: Bianchor about the thing you talked about on Friday Show

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Speaker 3: where you handed a Joy Division hoodie onto your daughter Lowess.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Joy Division an indie band from the eighties.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was explaining how I once saw a

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Speaker 3: not a documentary about Ian Curtis and Joy Division, but

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Speaker 3: a movie remake of his life. And I mean he

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Speaker 3: had a super sad life had he had epilepsy and

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Speaker 3: he took his own life at twenty three.

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Speaker 1: It was the lead singer of the band, and then

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Speaker 1: the rest of the band went on to form New Order,

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Speaker 1: which was instead It's a huge band in the British

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Speaker 1: kind of rock and indie scene. But yeah, Ian Kurt's

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Speaker 1: a lead singer. Yeah, took his life when he was

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Speaker 1: only in his twenties. But yeah, I guess you're best

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Speaker 1: know Joy Division from Love Will Terrorist Apart, which is

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Speaker 1: an amazing song.

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Speaker 2: One of the greatest love songs ever.

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Speaker 3: So I put the song on so that we could

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Speaker 3: listen to it, and we were talking about the band,

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Speaker 3: and then she's reading from his Wikipedia page and we're

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Speaker 3: learning more about them. So we go through their first album,

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Speaker 3: and then we went through their second.

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Speaker 2: Drinking and you're having strong drinks.

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Speaker 3: And we're having strong drinks, and then all of a sudden,

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Speaker 3: the mood has really changed.

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Speaker 1: It's not I stay away from the top shelf a

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Speaker 1: you know one of my life will stay away from

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Speaker 1: the top shelf.

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Speaker 2: It just doesn't doo many favors of stuff up there.

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Speaker 3: So now we have the albums on repeat and we're

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Speaker 3: into the second cocktail, and it's become a real somber

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Speaker 3: It's a happy hours long gone, it's now. It's now

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Speaker 3: somber affair.

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Speaker 2: And I am.

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Speaker 3: Texting you on Saturday night telling you, hey, we're really

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Speaker 3: deeply listening to Joy Division and it's really connecting with us.

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Speaker 3: And then you said, oh great, after that, try new Order,

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Speaker 3: which we did, and then a few more cocktails go by,

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Speaker 3: and go next, try Nick Cave into my Arms.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what a song. It's like a hymn. It's that

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Speaker 2: beautiful sad song.

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Speaker 3: So this is by the end of happy hour and

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Speaker 3: picturing me on a bean bag in our living room

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Speaker 3: with a cock tail in hand, deeply, deeply connecting with

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Speaker 3: this nick Cave.

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Speaker 2: Song into my Oh Lord, into my oh lor.

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Speaker 3: You know those moments where you do just go like

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Speaker 3: you're you're at a moment in time where a song

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Speaker 3: just hits you so strongly, And this hit me I guess.

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Speaker 3: I mean the whiskey probably helped, yeah, but.

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Speaker 1: Still you could have just as paused to go, look,

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Speaker 1: let's let's put something else on now, and to cheer

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Speaker 1: us up. But it's a there's it's a beautiful, beautiful song,

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Speaker 1: but it's not your happy hours Saturday night song.

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Speaker 3: It's not a happy hour Saturday night song.

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Speaker 1: And then when did this move? It does something to you,

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Speaker 1: It just changed your internal being this song.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so but we had them, we had I guess

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Speaker 3: you would call it a sad hour instead of happy hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm really sorry for.

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Speaker 1: Ruins your night, but there is there's a there's a

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Speaker 1: melancholy is the the emotion about what I'm talking about here.

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Speaker 1: It's an underrated one. There is when there's a beautiful

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Speaker 1: sweetness to listening to sad song.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love doing it.

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Speaker 3: It's not like we had a bad night and it's

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Speaker 3: not broken up. It's a very different thing and it's

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Speaker 3: not a negative experience. But there is something about sitting

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Speaker 3: in that sad, the.

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Speaker 1: Heart opening songs. But once you really drop into this

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Speaker 1: with Nick, where did you go next to you?

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Speaker 2: Did you listen to more sad songs?

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Speaker 3: We went back to join vision.

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Speaker 2: Now? And then what happened? Did you too?

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Speaker 1: Did you have a nice and Because sometimes when my

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Speaker 1: wife and if we're both your conspirats, so one of

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Speaker 1: us is that it's a it's a tinder box. It

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Speaker 1: can be a combustible. If we're getting on, it's fine,

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Speaker 1: but if there's a slight just one degree in the atmosphere,

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Speaker 1: it just you know, that's it.

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Speaker 3: Because I was connected so heavily into the music, which

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Speaker 3: I said, the anchor was telling me a story, but

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Speaker 3: I was locked in on the music. Then we had

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Speaker 3: a bit of a rebicked about the fact that I

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Speaker 3: wasn't listening to her and and I mean, she'll kill

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Speaker 3: me for saying this because I said that I understand,

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Speaker 3: but she said, when I'm telling you a story, you're

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Speaker 3: not listening. Just tell me you're not listening because I

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Speaker 3: tell you the whole story, And he.

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Speaker 2: Went, sorry, are you saying?

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Speaker 1: Son't get out of this bean bag?

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Speaker 2: It's like life. Sometimes you can't get out the bean

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Speaker 2: bag of life.

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Speaker 4: Christian Christian i'connell Christian o'connells Show podcast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes you catch yourself saying something which part of

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Speaker 1: you knows isn't true, just to keep the conversation going.

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Speaker 2: That just happened with Patsy.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me, Well, we were chating about nick Cave and

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Speaker 1: we were just talking about that beautiful song into my

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Speaker 1: arms of his and you went, I went to school

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Speaker 1: with him, Jack goes, Jack went really, and you went yeah,

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Speaker 1: And then you went, I think he's dead.

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Speaker 2: No one, no one has a story like that. And

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Speaker 2: you go, if someone called in and produce a brad.

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Speaker 1: Witness go on the line thinks he went to school

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Speaker 1: in nick Cave, I go, we don't need time wasteff,

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Speaker 1: don't need them on the air.

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Speaker 2: Whereas, yeah, I think he's dead. About half a second, you.

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Speaker 1: Knew you were lying, and you couldn't even live I'm

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Speaker 1: not lying in three months and don't come back with

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Speaker 1: a fake lies trying to impress us Jones.

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Speaker 4: His dad was a teacher at one grat a high

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Speaker 4: where I went, and I believe I believe he was

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Speaker 4: Nick was in like year eleven or twelve, as I

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Speaker 4: was kind of starting earlier because he's a bit older.

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Speaker 1: True, you're a journalist. Facts truth, fake facts as that

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Speaker 1: they gave us.

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Speaker 3: Let's look at how are you happy to say?

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Speaker 2: How old?

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Speaker 4: I'm forty eight two?

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Speaker 2: Oh, I couldn't go with an old shows one the radio.

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Speaker 3: You'll see what year that he was there, Jack, he's

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Speaker 3: sixty two, so he's fifteen years older than you.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, so he wasn't there.

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Speaker 3: He was there. Take a few year school with that cave.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he was in the year fifteen years ahead of me.

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Speaker 3: He's repeating year twelve for the eight years.

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Speaker 2: A really slow reader.

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Speaker 4: The facts get in the way of a good story.

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Speaker 2: Boy. I think it's that year nine kid in our class. Everyone.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's well done.

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Speaker 2: The only kid in year seven.

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Speaker 1: He's got a fully formed beard in his school photos

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Speaker 1: for three piece suits.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, yeah, I went to school then. I think anyway,

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Speaker 2: the news is coming up really soon. She thinks it

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Speaker 2: will

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