1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: I'm sitting here and I'm like, yeah, it's super shitty. 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: My car got stolen, and I beg, you know, I 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: could go into victim mentality and I could save these things. 4 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: But also it's exactly and I could, you know, not 5 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: work today, not create a podcast, not you know, really 6 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: see the lessons in this, and I could just sit 7 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: in this pity party. But it's also like, like what 8 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 1: good is that going to do? Welcome back to the 9 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer Podcast. I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, former 10 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: lawyer turned entrepreneur, social media personality and personal development junkie. 11 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: This podcast is for my girl gang who want to 12 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: feed their mind with positive and expansive thoughts to help 13 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: them step into their power and live their most authentic life. 14 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: We chat a variety of topics including mindset, business, relationships, health, 15 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: and so much more. Basically, wherever you are on your journey, 16 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 1: I want to help you feel inspired and empowered to 17 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: rise up and conquer your next bold move. I know 18 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: that's going to look different for everyone, but just no, 19 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 1: I'm right here by your side and that you have 20 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: the rn C community behind you. 21 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 2: Let's do this. 22 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: Hello guys, and welcome to another episode of the Rise 23 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: and Conquer podcast. It is your host Georgie Stevenson and 24 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: oh my goodness, do I have something to chat about 25 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: you today? And just a lot happening. So it is 26 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: Thursday morning, so you will hear this on Friday morning. 27 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: Last night, me and Tim got back from our holiday, 28 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: so we went to Northern Territory Ularu and oh my god, 29 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: we stayed at this resort it's called Longitude. It was 30 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: the most beautiful experience I have definitely like yet been through. 31 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 1: So it's just it was just the most amazing experience. 32 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: So before I chat to you guys any more about 33 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: the experience, I definitely want to acknowledge and think that 34 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: Ananu I hope I'm pronouncing that right, people who are 35 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: the traditional are landowners and first Australians of Ularu. And 36 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: it was just the most amazing experience because we visited 37 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:45,399 Speaker 1: Ularu in the morning, we did a base walk, we 38 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: visited at sunrise and had like you know, drinks and cannapis. 39 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: We went to Cadajudah, which is another like rock formation, 40 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: and that was just beautiful. 41 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 2: So it's really cool because in the morning we would 42 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: get up. 43 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: At like sunrise, so like quite early and then we 44 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: would quickly have breakfast go on an adventure. So then 45 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: we learned about their chukrapa, which basically just means their 46 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: you know, traditions, the culture, the stories they tell, the 47 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:21,959 Speaker 1: lessons and yeah, so we learned about, you know, all 48 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: that sort of stuff. We saw some beautiful, beautiful, like 49 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: I don't know, just the presence there, like you get there. 50 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: And I was actually talking to Mel about it this morning, 51 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: but it's like you can feel the energy, you can 52 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: just not like it just feels like this like really 53 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: spiritual high vibe. I don't know, I don't even know 54 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: how to explain it, but it was just the most 55 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: amazing experience. I go to my Instagram, have a look 56 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: at my posts. I've got a bit of a highlight 57 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: there too, and I've got to add some more content 58 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: because it's just a holiday that I didn't think I 59 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: would ever do, Like it just almost never occurred to me. 60 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: And then we had some friends recommend it to us 61 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: last year it was on my vision board and then 62 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: we did that. So yeah, it was just like a 63 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: very surreal experience and it was so good. Me and 64 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: Tim didn't take too much time off at Christmas because 65 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: e commerce business you don't really get to and it 66 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: was just really much needed for us to you know, 67 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 1: have that time together. And it's just been last year. 68 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: It was just like, you know a bit of a 69 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 1: hard long year, as you know, everyone feels that way. 70 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: But such an amazing holiday. Oh my god. I could 71 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: not recommend it enough. And the hotel we stayed out Longitude, 72 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: this is not a plug in any way. We you know, paid, 73 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: it was not hashtag gifted or sponsored or anything like that, 74 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: but holy crap, I've never it is definitely on the 75 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: pricier side. But the experience, the staff, the food. It 76 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: was like every single lunch was four course, every dinner 77 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 1: was five course, but like really amazing food that's like 78 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: very enriched with culture and Australian flavor and just oh 79 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: my god. And yeah, so they take you on all 80 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: the tours as well, so everything was inclusive, all your food, alcohol, tours, walks, 81 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: everything like that. So, oh my god, amazing experience that 82 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 1: has been on the bucket list. 83 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 2: So very cool that we got to do that, very grateful, 84 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 2: had the best time. And then. 85 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 1: So last night at three am, I woke up to 86 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: Wolf barking, this is not unusual because he gets scared 87 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: very easily, and he will bark at things like I've 88 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: woken up and he's barking at like, you know, a 89 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: plastic bag in the room or something like that. 90 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 2: So he was. 91 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: Barking, but I instantly got up, turned the light on. 92 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 2: And it was really weird because I just had this. 93 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 1: Intuitive feeling and I got up straight away walked to 94 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: the window. And then from our bedroom window we can 95 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: see our cars in the car pork because it's like 96 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: an open car port, not a closed one, and that's 97 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 1: like just legally what we had to do for our house. 98 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 1: And I could see my car was in there, but 99 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: I noticed the garage door was open, and so instantly 100 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:09,119 Speaker 1: I woke up Tim. 101 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 2: And again I. 102 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 1: Wasn't on full alert because a couple of months ago 103 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 1: we had an incident when I checked outside and you know, 104 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: me or Tim had forgotten to shut the garage door, 105 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: and so I was like, oh, you know, maybe just 106 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 1: Tim forgot shut because we did get take out late 107 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: at night. But then I woke up to him and 108 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: he's like, no, I definitely shut it. So he went 109 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: downstairs with a bat, and. 110 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 2: I was very scared. 111 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: He went downstairs, checked everything everything, Everything seemed fine, and 112 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,159 Speaker 1: then we kind of just like, I don't know, I 113 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 1: just thought wolf was barking. Went back to sleep, woke 114 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 1: up in the morning again, I had this weird intuitive feeling, 115 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 1: went straight to my window, which again is weird for me, 116 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,239 Speaker 1: looked outside and I could see my car was gone, 117 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: and so I instantly lack said that to Tim. He 118 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 1: ran downstairs and yeah, my car was stolen. Literally, they 119 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 1: would have had to break into the house and get 120 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: the keys because I have a Porsche, so you can't 121 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 1: actually start those cars without the keys. It's not like 122 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: you can hot wire it or anything like that. So 123 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: they needed the keys, and they've literally broken in the 124 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: back door, got the keys off the hook, opened the 125 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: garage door, and just driven the car away. So when 126 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 1: Tim went down, they must have been like hiding somewhere, 127 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: which is just the most grossest feeling anyway, So obviously 128 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: very shaken up. Called the police, put in a report. 129 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: There are forensic people coming later on this afternoon, you know, 130 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 1: called my insurance let them know what's happening, and the 131 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: police have just said we will. 132 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 2: Let you know. 133 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: And I spoke to my podcast manager and she was like, 134 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 1: because I actually had a completely different episode planned, and 135 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: she was like, you know, do you have an episode 136 00:07:57,760 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 1: do you want to skip it this week? And I 137 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 1: messaged and I was just like, look, I want to 138 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,559 Speaker 1: skip it. I just feel so shaken up. I feel 139 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: so just weird. Yeah, like I just felt a bit 140 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: beside myself, and so I just said to her, I 141 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: want to skip it. And then I was actually driving 142 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: to the Naked Harvest warehouse and I was doing my affirmations. 143 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: I was reframing my mindset, and then I voiced my 144 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: podcast manager and I was like, no, like, let's let's 145 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: actually do this episode. Because in on this podcast, I 146 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: talked to you guys about mindset shifts. I talked to 147 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: you about perspective. I talked to you about, you know, 148 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 1: what to do when you aren't having a good day, 149 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: and all that sort of thing. And I think I 150 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: do tend to you know, do these solo PEP talks 151 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 1: and I talk about it after the fact. And I'm 152 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: very much a big believer in, you know, everything happens 153 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: to me. I'm a big believer like I turn you know, 154 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 1: shit into gold. I make bad situations better. And I 155 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: thought to myself, like right now. Now I'm in the 156 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 1: thick of something, you know, really terrible happening, and so 157 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 1: I thought it would be like a cool episode to 158 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: actually just tell you what is going through my mind 159 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: and how I'm kind of reframing this and looking at 160 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:17,559 Speaker 1: this during that, like during while it's happening, rather than 161 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 1: after the fact, when you know everything's okay or it 162 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:23,679 Speaker 1: turned out a certain way. So a huge thing, like 163 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: what I'm doing right now is perspective. And I think 164 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: when something bad happens, we instantly, you know, we want 165 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:35,320 Speaker 1: to blame, we want to get angry. And I totally 166 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: did that. Like I was upset at Tim and was like, 167 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 1: oh my god, you didn't you know, find those people 168 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: and what's going to happen. I felt so upset and 169 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 1: so angry. And I think we're all entitled to those 170 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: very human emotions, and that's so fine, like reacting to 171 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: a situation and feeling a certain way. I think it's 172 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 1: really good to feel feelings. But also a huge thing 173 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 1: is what we do move for it. So I really 174 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: thought to myself, I was like, you know what I 175 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 1: can do right now is I can sit here, like 176 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: I can sit here and I can throw a Pea 177 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: party and I did, you know, go my stories. I 178 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 1: posted a photo ask people to share it, and so 179 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: many people are sharing. 180 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: It, which is so lovely. 181 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: But I was like, you know, I can spend all 182 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 1: day on my DMS being like, yes, I know, I 183 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: can't believe my car was stolen and poor me and 184 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 1: all that sort of thing, or I can sit here 185 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 1: and move forward, look at the positives and really use 186 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 1: this as I like, you know, a lesson, a turning point. 187 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 1: And so I actually journaled this morning and I'm like, 188 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: what is the lesson here? And I think sometimes we 189 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 1: don't know the lesson until the end, but I think 190 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 1: there's always lessons with anything. So a big lesson that 191 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: I first thought was Georgia, you had. 192 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 2: This intuition feeling. 193 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 1: So it's so weird that wolf bark. I got up 194 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 1: straight away, which is something not usual, and I went 195 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 1: to the window and looked at my car. It's like, 196 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: subconsciously I kind of knew, but I didn't kind of 197 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: listen to it, like even when Tim went downstairs, like 198 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: I didn't follow it through and think it could be 199 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:17,839 Speaker 1: that I almost pushed that feeling away because I just thought, 200 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: oh my God, like my car's not gonna be stolen. 201 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 1: And even in the morning, the fact that I got 202 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: up and checked it, it's like I had this intuition feeling, 203 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: and it's kind of like I'm a bit annoyed to 204 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: myself that I didn't tap into that. More So, a 205 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 1: lesson I'm taking from this is like just realizing that 206 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: intuition is everything, Like my gut knows everything, and I, 207 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 1: you know, have to make sure I'm listening to that. 208 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 1: So the next lesson was, you know, even though my 209 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: very expensive car that I worked very hard for and 210 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,599 Speaker 1: you know, I have a lot of attachment to this 211 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 1: certain car just because it, you know, was on my 212 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: vision board and I worked really hard to you know, 213 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 1: save for it and just you know, all these things, 214 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: and then to have someone just like come and take 215 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: it with no, I. 216 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 2: Don't know, I just feel very violating. 217 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,199 Speaker 1: But even though that happened, and that really sucks, is 218 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: looking at the you know, lesson of me and Tim 219 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: and the puppies are okay, but it could have been 220 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 1: a lot worse, Like you know, they could have if 221 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 1: we went downstairs and Tim had found them or you know, 222 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:22,719 Speaker 1: something like that. 223 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 2: You just never know. 224 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 1: So another big lesson is we literally today, I've called 225 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 1: a whole security team and we're getting the house fully 226 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 1: set up with security like on our gates, cameras and 227 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: all angles and just a lot happening because we do 228 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: have a camera, but it just really didn't give us 229 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 1: too much more than what the police already know. And 230 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 1: I think also something that we do need is like 231 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 1: a deterrent. So we're having systems in place where someone 232 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: can't even like you know, get to the point of 233 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: stealing because they will be heard. 234 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 2: So that's even a big lesson. 235 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: Like, you know, I'm even thinking about like me and him, 236 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: you know, don't have kids or anything like that, and 237 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: I'm not pregnant, but like in the future if we 238 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 1: do have kids, because we do plan to have kids 239 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: in this house is like, you know, making sure they're safe. 240 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 1: So putting that security in there too, I'm like, you know, 241 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 1: it could have been a lot worse. 242 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 2: This is a huge lesson. 243 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 1: This episode is brought to you by Naked Harvest Supplements, 244 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: the natural supplement company I co founded with my brother. 245 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 1: This company was really brought to life because I have 246 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: been using supplements for such a long time since the 247 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: start of my fitness journey. 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So 278 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 1: even though this is a shitty situation, I choose to 279 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 1: believe that, you know, I am supported, I am guided. 280 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: Much like you know, other bad things that have happened, 281 00:15:57,000 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 1: I'm going to look back and be like this was 282 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 1: actually a good thing. Whether that is, you know, to 283 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 1: upper security so something you know worse doesn't happen, or 284 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 1: you know, maybe they find my car and it's a 285 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: ride off, but I don't know, I get a new 286 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 1: a better car, or I don't know. It's kind of 287 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 1: like really just thinking that Yep, it's a bit shitty 288 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 1: right now. But also I have perspective and I have 289 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 1: choice in this situation. And I was actually reading a 290 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 1: book the other day and it's called I was actually 291 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: reading it on my holiday because I'm interviewing these authors 292 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 1: for the podcast soon, so you will hear from them soon. 293 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: And it's called Raising Girls Who Like Themselves. The author 294 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 1: is Casey Edwards and Christopher scan Scanlon. I'm probably butchering 295 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 1: that last name, but I was actually reading this on 296 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 1: my holiday, and they have a chapter called A Girl 297 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: who Likes Herself has a Power Perspective. And in that 298 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: chapter they really talk about, you know, raising and sorry, 299 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 1: I will get to a point with this, like raising 300 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 1: children and perspective is everything. And they talk about this 301 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:12,959 Speaker 1: concept which is, let me just get it, the power 302 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 1: of the power perspective, and they talk about, you know, 303 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: these two girls where one can have like this very optimistic, 304 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:25,919 Speaker 1: resilient life happens for me, not to me perspective, and 305 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 1: then another girl can have this very like victim mentality, 306 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 1: poor me, I'm very anxious mentality, and it's very much 307 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 1: like they have. They could have the exact same teachers, 308 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 1: school parents, everything, but your perspective is just so important, 309 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:44,439 Speaker 1: so I just want to read a little something about it. 310 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,159 Speaker 1: So again, guys, this is not my own words. This 311 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 1: is from the book I just referenced, and it says 312 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 1: so a perspective, it's not reality. It's the stories we 313 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 1: tell ourselves about reality. It's how we describe the world 314 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:01,919 Speaker 1: to ourselves. It's what we think is important. It's whose 315 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: opinions we think out. It's seeing the glass half fall, 316 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:09,879 Speaker 1: verse half empty, same glass, same contents, but it's a 317 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: completely different way of looking at it. Everything we experience 318 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: is filtered through our own internal interpretations and descriptions of 319 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: the world. If our girls don't view the world from 320 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: a power perspective, then in some ways, it doesn't matter 321 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 1: what reality throws at them, whether it's good or bad, 322 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: they will interpret interpret it from a perspective of powerlessness. Powerlessness. Wow, 323 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, guys. If every day setbacks crush them, 324 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: or if they see their future through a haze of negativity, 325 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:47,160 Speaker 1: then they will approach the future with fear. Similarly, if 326 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: they achieve amazing success, but they believe their achievements are 327 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: nothing more than dumb luck, or that they fall short 328 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 1: of their perfectionist standards, then they may as well also 329 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:02,479 Speaker 1: believe they themselves are failure. This is why perspective is 330 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 1: so fundamental. 331 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 2: To raising a girl who likes herself. 332 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:10,920 Speaker 1: And then in the chapter, it just goes on to say, unsurprisingly, 333 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: people who have a power perspective are more resilient and 334 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 1: tend to be more successful than people who feel powerless 335 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: in their lives. They work harder because they believe their 336 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 1: hard work will pay off and that they will eventually 337 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 1: achieve their goals, even though they will deal with setbacks 338 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:31,199 Speaker 1: along the way. The benefits of the power perspective go 339 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 1: beyond the psychological Adopting a power perspective can also improve 340 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: people's physical wellbeing. And then basically the opposite to a 341 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 1: power perspective is people who believe that their life is 342 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 1: determined by chance, events, faith, luck, or other people who 343 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 1: are more important to them. Basically, just to summarize, this 344 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 1: book just talked about this power perspective and if you 345 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 1: kind of take control and you really choose to see 346 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:06,439 Speaker 1: things in a positive and you reframe things even in 347 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 1: a sucky situation, that's what makes resilience. So, like I said, 348 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 1: I'm sitting here and I'm like, yeah, it's super shitty 349 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 1: my car got stolen, and I beg, you know, I 350 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 1: could go into victim mentality and I could save these things. 351 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 1: But also it's exactly and I could, you know, not 352 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 1: work today, not create a podcast, not you know, really 353 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 1: see the lessons in this, and I could just sit 354 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: in this pity party. But it's also like like what 355 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 1: good is that going to do? And so I actually 356 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 1: sat here, and like I said, I journaled, I reframed everything. 357 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,520 Speaker 1: I told a new story where I was like, you know, 358 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 1: the shitty thing happened, but I choose to believe that 359 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 1: I am supported. Life is happening for me, and just 360 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:01,119 Speaker 1: because I can't see it right now, I know that, 361 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 1: you know, everything is okay. And also if this is 362 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 1: just like a purely shitty thing, like I know, the 363 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 1: whole everything happens for a reason, some people like you know, 364 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: what of the shittiest things, also realizing that it's like 365 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:19,680 Speaker 1: fine to just feel a bit shitty, but also it's 366 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 1: like what am I now going to do moving forward? 367 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:27,280 Speaker 1: And I think it's like, you know, I don't know 368 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: what's going to happen. Who knows if they're going to 369 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,679 Speaker 1: find my car. It could be today, it could be 370 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 1: you know, in five days, I won't have a car 371 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:40,400 Speaker 1: that's obviously crappy, or you know, these people can completely 372 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:44,359 Speaker 1: right off my car and it. You know, I've got insurance, 373 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:47,399 Speaker 1: but I really don't think it's insured for the amount 374 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: it actually cost. And you know, different things like that. 375 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:53,920 Speaker 1: So long story short, guys, if you're also going through 376 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:57,440 Speaker 1: something just like shitty where you're just like why me, 377 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:00,399 Speaker 1: I really want you to sit there and I should 378 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 1: think what are the lessons I can learn here, even 379 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:09,120 Speaker 1: like the smallest little things like mine, where it's like Georgia, 380 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: you have an amazing intuition and you need to trust 381 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 1: it because it always knows what's to do. And that 382 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 1: was such a good like a reminder for me to 383 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 1: check in with my intuition, just because I I am 384 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:24,359 Speaker 1: someone who strongly listens to their intuition, so it was 385 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: just like a great reminder. And then also just the 386 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 1: lesson of need to up my security, need to you know, 387 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:32,920 Speaker 1: make sure our keys are locked up and all that 388 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 1: sort of thing, and also just the huge perspective of 389 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,680 Speaker 1: me and Tim are safe, the puppies are safe. Yes, 390 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 1: my car is gone, but in the end, it's a 391 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 1: material thing I can buy a new one. You know, 392 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:50,679 Speaker 1: I will get insurance. The police have been notified, and 393 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 1: it is okay. And so, like I said, if you're 394 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 1: going through something negative, reframe it and see a different perspective. 395 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,199 Speaker 1: Because if we can do this, guys, and if we 396 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 1: can be resilient even in shitty times, this is like, 397 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: you know, it's so easy to be positive when everything 398 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 1: is going good and life is great. But these sorts 399 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:19,880 Speaker 1: of times, this is where we retrain our brain and 400 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 1: we make new pathways and we really need to tap into, 401 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 1: you know, all these different mindset techniques that I teach 402 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,879 Speaker 1: you on here and in my course and whatnot, because 403 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:32,920 Speaker 1: this is where it matters. 404 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 2: And so I choose not to be a victim right now. 405 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 1: I choose to see it differently. I choose to know, 406 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 1: I am supported, I will get through this. It's all 407 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: going to be, you know, fine in the end. There 408 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 1: might be some shittiness, but it is okay. And this 409 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 1: is what I choose and perspective of everything. So that's 410 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 1: what I've chosen my reality. 411 00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 2: As we all we. 412 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 1: All have the chance to change our reality reality, to 413 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 1: reframe our the story and think something new. So I 414 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,879 Speaker 1: just know, if something like this is happening to me 415 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 1: like someone else needs. 416 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:12,199 Speaker 2: To hear it. 417 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 1: So if you did need to hear this, you know 418 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 1: this is for you, sending my love. Yeah, thanks for 419 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: listening to my little podcast and I will see you 420 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:22,119 Speaker 1: guys in my next episode. 421 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 2: Oh my god, guys, I. 422 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: Just wanted to come back on here and give you 423 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,960 Speaker 1: an update because my car was found. So I just 424 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,439 Speaker 1: want to say a big thank you. If you're one 425 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 1: of the people who shared it on Instagram. I did 426 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 1: put up a story asking you know, people to share it, 427 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 1: and I just honestly my commuted on here I just cannot. 428 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,920 Speaker 1: And yeah, so the police actually called me and they 429 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 1: found my keys. 430 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:47,160 Speaker 2: They did a raid. 431 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,359 Speaker 1: They found my keys in like a juvenile's room, a 432 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 1: female juvenile's room, and so that means like at least 433 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: I knew people went like driving it anymore. So they 434 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 1: found my keys, and then a couple hours later they 435 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:05,400 Speaker 1: actually found my car too, and a sixteen year old 436 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 1: female has been charged for stealing my car. And I've 437 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 1: also spoken to the police, and so supposedly it's this 438 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 1: like group in the Gold Coast of like young kids 439 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 1: who are like thirteen to sixteen who steal cars like 440 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 1: luxury cars. They then post it on Instagram bragging and 441 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 1: like sometimes fuck it up. But I was very lucky, 442 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:36,199 Speaker 1: so there's no damage done. Wait, so there was a 443 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: tiny bit damage. The side mirror is smashed, but other 444 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 1: than that it's completely fine, which is so lucky because 445 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 1: I know a lot of the other cars that got 446 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 1: stolen a complete write off. So so lucky. But yeah, 447 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 1: the police are saying it's like this group and they 448 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:56,200 Speaker 1: literally will take photos of them stealing the car and 449 00:25:56,320 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 1: post it up. It's the most disgusting, like low life 450 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 1: thing I have ever seen. And it's this group of 451 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 1: like young sixteen year olds and honestly, like, all I've 452 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: got to say is I fucking feel sorry for these 453 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: kids because as much as it's like they clearly are 454 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 1: just like fucking little assholes, it's also I guarantee you 455 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 1: they've got fucked up lives. Like to get to the 456 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 1: point where you're stealing cars and you're like thirteen or sixteen, 457 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 1: like something bad must have happened to you. So honestly, like, 458 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 1: I just feel really sorry for these children and like, ah, yeah, 459 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 1: their parents and it's just like supposedly this happened, has 460 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 1: happened a lot in the area and they're getting charge, 461 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 1: but then nothing is actually happening because they are so young, 462 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 1: and so I. 463 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,679 Speaker 2: Just hope, you know, I don't even know, because I 464 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 2: have these. 465 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 1: Mixed feelings of obviously being so angry and feeling so 466 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 1: violated and like, how dare these people come into my 467 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,959 Speaker 1: house and take something I've worked so hard for, But 468 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 1: then also these feelings of like feeling really sorry for 469 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:11,120 Speaker 1: these group of kids because, like I said, if you're 470 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: to this point of doing this sort of shit and 471 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 1: also like the whole posting it on Instagram and bragging, 472 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 1: like mentally, I can just like tell they're a bit 473 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:23,359 Speaker 1: fucked up, and I like I say that in a 474 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:25,320 Speaker 1: way of like I don't know, I kind of just 475 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 1: feel sorry for them in their lives and if you're 476 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 1: doing this when you're sixteen, like imagine you know, when 477 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 1: they're adults, Like, oh, I just can't Yeah, I just 478 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,359 Speaker 1: can't even imagine. So I've got these mixed feelings of 479 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:42,080 Speaker 1: being like super you know, annoyed, and like a lot 480 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 1: of hate towards these people, but also just feeling really 481 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: sorry for them because obviously, yeah, they don't have a 482 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 1: lot going for them, but Oh my god, the car 483 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: was found. I just actually can't believe it was stolen. 484 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 1: They literally broke into the house, took the keys, opened 485 00:27:56,560 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 1: the garage, drove away, took it for a joy right 486 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 1: joy ride, and then lucky the police raided that house, 487 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 1: got the keys, found the car, and someone has been charged. 488 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 1: So a bit of a well wind. I hope you 489 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode. It was very kind of like mid 490 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,160 Speaker 1: crisis going through something. Like I said, I'm a big 491 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 1: believer in turning shit into gold, and so I just 492 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,400 Speaker 1: really wanted to jump in the mic and be very 493 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,960 Speaker 1: in the moment of how is how I was feeling 494 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 1: and how I deal with situations when something is out 495 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 1: of my control, but not giving away my power because 496 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:35,679 Speaker 1: we always have the power to, you know, feel a 497 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:37,720 Speaker 1: certain way, like no one can make us feel a 498 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 1: certain way. 499 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 2: We always have the power for that. So, oh, bit 500 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 2: of a well wind. 501 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 1: I'm so happy I wouldn't get my car back for 502 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 1: a while because they're doing some forensic stuff. But look, 503 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 1: it is all good. I know it's safe, and you know, 504 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,920 Speaker 1: the person who did it has been arrested. Like I said, I. 505 00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 2: Hope, I hope she gets helped because yeah, not a 506 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 2: good life. Feel sorry for her. 507 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 1: But anyway, guys, I hope you enjoyed this little episodes 508 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 1: so it was a bit random. We'll be back to 509 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 1: the normal stuff next week. I've got a really cool 510 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,400 Speaker 1: interview for you and also very exciting solo at Plant 511 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 1: as well. So send you, guys heaps of love and 512 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 1: I'll chat to you my next episode. Bye. Thank you 513 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 1: for listening for another rn C episode. I really appreciate 514 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: taking the time to be here with me, and also 515 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 1: for taking the time for yourself. If you found this 516 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:32,280 Speaker 1: episode helpful, it would be so amazing if you shared 517 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: it on your stories and tagged us, or simply just 518 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 1: send it on to a girlfriend or family member who 519 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: would benefit from listening. 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