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Speaker 1: Well and Woody podcast many should you be honest about

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Speaker 1: your partner's cooking? And I, you know, as I so

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Speaker 1: often do Woods, I get down into the doldrums, you know,

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Speaker 1: I find I find the grassroots of the question, I extrapolate,

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Speaker 1: I expand, and then all of a sudden we're dealing

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Speaker 1: with a classic philosophical quandary, which is should you should you?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Should you? Is the better thing to do to white

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Speaker 1: lie to your partner because I.

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Speaker 3: Want to look after their feelings a lot of the time,

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Speaker 3: like you know, raw honesty can hurt them. But as

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Speaker 3: you've said, we identified in this in this quagmire of

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Speaker 3: a philosophical question where you lie once. If you lie once,

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Speaker 3: can they ever take a compliment seriously from you? Because

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Speaker 3: every time you say to them, then, hey, that dress

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Speaker 3: looks amazing, They're going, I remember the time that you

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Speaker 3: said something looked great, and I looked like an oh, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, yeah, that was actually looked like turned out that

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Speaker 1: it was a Williwogger themed party and they actually nailed it,

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Speaker 1: really bruised by it anyways, called one of the six five.

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Speaker 1: Hey Ben, Hello, he who, good afternoon, welcome to show you.

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Speaker 1: So you and your partner are on completely different pages

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Speaker 1: with this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, my partner is very an honest person. She's

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Speaker 4: fully into like, you know, anything, just be honest, clear, transparent,

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Speaker 4: like how you said it. And I personally grew up

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Speaker 4: sort of very like, oh, you know it's okay to say.

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Speaker 5: A white life.

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Speaker 4: Okay, people are so exactly so when it comes to it,

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Speaker 4: I think you pick and choose your battles, and you know,

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Speaker 4: if you can get let go of that fragile ego

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Speaker 4: that we have as males, then yeah, you can be

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Speaker 4: honest about anything and you'll be happy. I think in

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Speaker 4: the end.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, can I run into a situation, Ben, Your partner's

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Speaker 1: cooked you a vegan, dairy free, lactose free, all the

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Speaker 1: enjoyables free, past cardboard noodles. She puts it down in

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Speaker 1: front of you. You've you've tasted better ship on a stick?

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Speaker 1: What do you what do you say that? Because you've

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Speaker 1: you've had sit in a stick before, obviously when you're

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Speaker 1: twelve years old on Scout camp?

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Speaker 5: What do you say? What do you go with? There?

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Speaker 4: I would tell her, hey, babe, thanks for cooking this meal.

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Speaker 4: I'm starving. It could be better, but you know, I

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Speaker 4: appreciate you cook.

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Speaker 5: It could be better then that is not a lie.

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Speaker 1: That is not a white lie. That's that's that's too honest.

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Speaker 4: She's destroyed.

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Speaker 5: Thanks for the call.

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Speaker 1: That's the issue.

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Speaker 5: You probably do.

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Speaker 3: You think it's easier if you get specific with it,

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Speaker 3: so it could be better.

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Speaker 5: That's pretty much saying the meals crap?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 5: Is it better off if you go, oh, maybe a

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Speaker 5: touch more salt?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So you so Woods, You're you're the ultimate events hitter,

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Speaker 1: and you brought us something before in the song, which

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Speaker 1: I think is important. And this is to do with

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Speaker 1: if your your partner shows you an outfit, you need

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Speaker 1: to know that there's an alternative to the outfit, like

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Speaker 1: you have to be able to go I don't like this,

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Speaker 1: but I did like that other Florally number that I

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Speaker 1: saw in your closet the other day, right, because if

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Speaker 1: you just reject them, and as you said, it's the

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Speaker 1: wedding day and you know you look like an ob

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Speaker 1: bloomber in that dress all of a sudden, that's my

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Speaker 1: only dress.

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Speaker 5: That's a tragedy.

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Speaker 1: But you called it.

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Speaker 5: That's a code read. That's a stressful day.

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Speaker 1: The Diana is called or Diane on thurday when I

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Speaker 1: six live, Diane, your husband gives you certain feedback.

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Speaker 4: Oh he's brutal.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, and do you like that? Do you like that? Doe?

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Speaker 5: Can you give me an example of when he gave

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Speaker 5: your brutal feedback?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So I spent the other day cooking a steak,

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Speaker 2: a mash vei whatever. So I tried this to new

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Speaker 2: marinate and it took me forever. You know how it is.

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Speaker 2: I was waiting, resting all that crap, kind of overbooked it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was edible. However, he just ship in the kitchen. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and then there's something else to eat.

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: No, then here goes Okay, I'm like, you want to

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Speaker 2: cheese toast soon? That's where he had for dinner.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Well, there you go. That's give you the alternative. That's

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Speaker 1: what we're talking about. Before good on, you.

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Speaker 3: Cheese toast the marinetta steak.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, takes pretty hard to have good all right, Lucas

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Speaker 1: gold On. I don't want to sound like that, Lucas Gone, Lucaut.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about white lives in relationships. You think you

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Speaker 1: should be honest.

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Speaker 6: Absolutely have to be okay.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So why do you think that, Luke. Why well, I.

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Speaker 6: Don't know about you, but if I want meal, I

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Speaker 6: don't want to keep having that ship.

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Speaker 5: Yeah that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, yeah, I don't think the whole clothing thing

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Speaker 6: is the same because, yeah, that's in front of everyone else.

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Speaker 6: I feel like if they were wearing something, you should

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Speaker 6: just like sort of build the confidence.

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Speaker 1: Great point. That is a great point from Luca. So

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Speaker 1: e meal cooked at home, feedback away because nobody, that's

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Speaker 1: just between the two of you.

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Speaker 5: M h a dress.

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Speaker 1: There's going to be something that she wears in public,

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Speaker 1: so other people are going to be able to see that, right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: interesting Luca.

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Speaker 3: That's a look good point that and other people might

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Speaker 3: like that dress at the end of the day, he's

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Speaker 3: just one opinion. So the confidence by going you look amazing.

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Speaker 5: Right, interesting?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So Luke, And also you're in trouble though. You're

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Speaker 3: in big trouble though, Luca, I'm going to pick a

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Speaker 3: big hole in your thing here. If she's about to

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Speaker 3: wear a dress in front of a group of people

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Speaker 3: and you have just said that dress looks amazing. If

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Speaker 3: she goes to the event and turns out she is

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Speaker 3: wearing a horrible dress, and she doesn't look good for mine.

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Speaker 3: She can be more angry at you because you just

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Speaker 3: sent me in there like a lamb to the slaughter

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Speaker 3: wearing a shocking dress than your boy.

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