WEBVTT - Should I Tell My Housemate She Has Poor Conversational Skills? 🏘️ 👎

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<v Speaker 1>The Flex and Rooms Daily podcast brought you.

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<v Speaker 2>to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Fleck and Fos.

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<v Speaker 4>is good.

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<v Speaker 3>Are wearing denim whish?

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<v Speaker 4>I would say, like it's a non academic style garment.

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<v Speaker 3>That's life, now that I think about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Great references. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>So last week I on the potty, I was telling

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<v Speaker 2>you about the guy that founded.

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<v Speaker 5>Silk Road, Bondi local. He was a Bondi local.

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<v Speaker 2>Silk Road was probably the biggest underground dark where marketplace

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<v Speaker 2>to have ever existed. Was worth like a billion dollars,

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<v Speaker 2>like a billion dollars worth of transactions using bitcoin and

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<v Speaker 2>stuff occurred.

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<v Speaker 4>On that platform. Early adopters selling guns, selling dirgs, selling

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<v Speaker 4>all kinds of things, those who know.

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<v Speaker 3>Who know, selling guns and dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, it turns out the guy that founded that website

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<v Speaker 2>was living in Bondai when he made it, so he's

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<v Speaker 2>got the beautiful background the rolling waves.

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<v Speaker 4>The sr own backyard, Yeah, my old apartment probably, and

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<v Speaker 4>just before oh yeah, eventually he got caught.

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<v Speaker 5>But people were like trawling.

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<v Speaker 2>Through his old Facebook and stuff and they found this

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<v Speaker 2>hypothetical that he posted on his wall, and I want

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<v Speaker 2>to pose it to you. Is it possible for someone

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<v Speaker 2>locked in a cage to be freer than someone who

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<v Speaker 2>isn't What if they are free from limiting beliefs and

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<v Speaker 2>can imagine experiences without limits, while the other limits themselves

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<v Speaker 2>to a prison full of doll routines.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, discuss I mean, are they really comparable?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>So he's comparing somebody who has had their basic agency

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<v Speaker 4>taken away from them, who is confined to the cacage

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<v Speaker 4>quote all day, who has the potential to imagine limitless

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<v Speaker 4>things if they are an imaginative person, versus somebody who

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<v Speaker 4>is not in jail, who feels trapped by their lifestyle,

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<v Speaker 4>who is likely to not have an imagination because they

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<v Speaker 4>have succumbed to working a dull, repetitive, monotonous life. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 4>I do not think it is possible that a prisoner

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<v Speaker 4>is freer than a person who is not in prison.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I guess the question is more, what do you

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<v Speaker 2>value more physical freedom or mental freedom?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that the question? Though?

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<v Speaker 4>I think so, because is it fair to say that

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<v Speaker 4>if you have physical freedom, then you are unlikely to

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<v Speaker 4>have mental freedom?

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<v Speaker 3>Well in this instance yea. In the compared and that

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<v Speaker 3>he's making, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Like one or the other.

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<v Speaker 3>Essentially, what would you pick?

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<v Speaker 2>Would you pick to be able to think and say

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<v Speaker 2>and believe whatever you want from prison?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeap? What makes that you can do that in prison?

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<v Speaker 3>In prison? It's a hypothetical.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're talking back to the gods having in my

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<v Speaker 4>own can do whatever I can.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, No, I'm still picking physical freedom.

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<v Speaker 4>Interesting, but there's involves you go into a factory every day.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>Look at how the world treats criminals, Like, even if

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<v Speaker 4>you do your time, you serve your punishment, you do

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<v Speaker 4>your penance, you still come out and you're held to

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<v Speaker 4>those same rigid ideas. The way you're perceived is so

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<v Speaker 4>limiting what you're able to do, the rights you're able

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<v Speaker 4>to exercise, those you should be freely entitled to are

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<v Speaker 4>still taken away from you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not doing that. Once a criminal, always a criminal.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean in the eyes of the law. Surely that

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<v Speaker 4>was quite sad. Yeah, what are you?

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<v Speaker 3>I do like my own personal space. Some prisons one

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<v Speaker 3>some prisons, you know, like you want to be where

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<v Speaker 3>Martha Stewart was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, precisely. Was she in an actual prison. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know how long FORO that was crazy. Yeah she's out now,

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<v Speaker 2>God bless. Kind of like the fullest life you can live.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a there's a stint in prison at some point.

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<v Speaker 4>No way, no way. I mean you're thinking prison break.

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<v Speaker 4>You're like, oh, Hoti is everywhere, like we're escaping. I

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<v Speaker 4>fell in love with the nerves. No, I'm thinking Riker's Island.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm thinking, like, we didn't even do anything that bad,

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<v Speaker 4>and we're you know, we're stuck in this hellhole awaiting

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<v Speaker 4>trial and not being said. Oh yeah, I wonder I

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<v Speaker 4>really have to know the food, what the food and

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<v Speaker 4>jail is actually like good. I don't think I know

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<v Speaker 4>a single person that's been to jail here. But you

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<v Speaker 4>know what you have access to?

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<v Speaker 3>What the internet?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, pardon me, pardon me, flex and frooms.

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<v Speaker 3>How comfortable are you with confrontation mis remaning? Pretty good?

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<v Speaker 3>In what way? I don't mind a bit of a

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<v Speaker 3>ref raff spice of life to be honest, I actually

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<v Speaker 3>don't mind it.

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<v Speaker 2>To be honest, it's probably my default personalities to fight

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<v Speaker 2>rather than flash.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, accepted my dreams. I'm big on freezing. Yeah. Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I It's like I'm running and I'm always drunk in dreams,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm trying to get away from someone, and but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm drunk, so I'm like dropping everything.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever had seen your phone in your dreams? No?

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<v Speaker 4>Somebody said that the other day, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>why haven't I seen that? I'm on this thing every day.

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<v Speaker 4>This should be glued to my hand in my dreams

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<v Speaker 4>when I see my phone once and that was when

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<v Speaker 4>I was being choked out by ventriloquistal and I said, hey.

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<v Speaker 3>Siri, you please, I said, hey, Siri, please call Grace,

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<v Speaker 3>and it did.

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<v Speaker 5>We need to ask everyone, have you ever seen a

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<v Speaker 5>phone in your dream?

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<v Speaker 4>Please let us know. And if you haven't, we need

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<v Speaker 4>to consult someone. Anyway, how do we get to that town?

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<v Speaker 4>The girls are getting near it? We've lost it. Someone

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<v Speaker 4>did message us with a dilemma, a moral dilemma. One

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<v Speaker 4>might say. I didn't read it through because I want

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<v Speaker 4>to be as surprised as you are. When I share this,

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<v Speaker 4>but it'll be fun. Should I say something to my

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<v Speaker 4>housemate about her poor conversational skills off the dome?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Oh no, tell me more. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I live in a close knit residential community where we

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<v Speaker 4>are all very close. Most people are lovely and very chill,

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<v Speaker 4>and we get on well. But one of my housemates

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<v Speaker 4>tends to dominate the conversation and lecture people and be

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<v Speaker 4>quite patronizing. I don't think that there's any malice behind it,

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<v Speaker 4>and I suspect she might be masking some insecurities. She

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<v Speaker 4>was lecturing me the other day on a topic that

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<v Speaker 4>I've literally written a book on, which I found kind

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<v Speaker 4>of rude. She literally talked of me for an hour.

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<v Speaker 4>Not a confrontational person, so I've just been avoiding her.

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<v Speaker 4>But now I feel bad about avoiding her because she

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<v Speaker 4>describes herself as someone who's never had any friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, there, it is there. It is be like that.

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<v Speaker 4>She was a bit of a nerd at school, not

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<v Speaker 4>in with the popular crowd. I think a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>her identity is wrapped up with being the smartest person

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<v Speaker 4>in the room. But there are a lot of very

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<v Speaker 4>smart people in our community, so I think that she

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<v Speaker 4>could that could cause problems. My belief is that she

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<v Speaker 4>has some underlying insecurities which lead her to behave in

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<v Speaker 4>a toxic way. But I'm unsure how best to handle that.

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<v Speaker 4>She tends to alienate people, so I'm a bit worried

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<v Speaker 4>about her well being in the long term. But I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want to be patronizing and tell her how to

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<v Speaker 4>run her life. We do have a pastoral care person,

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<v Speaker 4>but I feel like if I report my concerns to them,

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<v Speaker 4>it may come across as interfering. So in summary, should

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<v Speaker 4>I tell my friend that she's rude or just avoid her?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to say pastoral care persons like you know,

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<v Speaker 4>resident advisor.

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<v Speaker 5>They're living in a college.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's a close knit community through MENI what would

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<v Speaker 3>you do? Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind of similar as having this conversation with my

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<v Speaker 4>girlfriends the other day about how to tell someone if

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<v Speaker 4>they smell.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah, same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I think you have to wait. I think you

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<v Speaker 2>need to have another conversation with her. Wait till she

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't and say can you not talk over me? And

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<v Speaker 2>then you can get into a conversation. We can say, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll talk about this later, you and.

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<v Speaker 4>Me outside that's three o'clock at the bus stops. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>like I've said before, the only time I ever lived

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<v Speaker 4>with a housemate, it was a really good friend of

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<v Speaker 4>mine at the time, and it worked well.

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<v Speaker 3>We lived very, very similar lifestyles.

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<v Speaker 4>We're both full time DJs and yahoos, so it suited

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<v Speaker 4>and like nocturnal vibes, like I was always asleep in

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<v Speaker 4>the day type thing. We'd walk to King's Cross scat

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<v Speaker 4>a tattoo, the vibes are up, so it's good for

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<v Speaker 4>the lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 3>But I wouldn't do it again.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't done it since, and that was what like

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<v Speaker 4>eight years ago, just because I am far more picky

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<v Speaker 4>with my space than I thought I was, being the

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<v Speaker 4>youngest sibling and having you know, two older brothers and

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<v Speaker 4>a bunch of family who would live in my house

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<v Speaker 4>any given time.

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<v Speaker 3>The house is always busy, so I.

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<v Speaker 4>Think I've just repelled or over corrected too far to

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<v Speaker 4>the other sky, where I'm like, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>share my things. I don't want to be uncomfortable in

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<v Speaker 4>my own space. I don't want to make anyone else

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<v Speaker 4>feel uncomfortable. So it's just a non negotiable for me

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<v Speaker 4>in this instance. Though, I find that sometimes it's really

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<v Speaker 4>hard to reason with unreasonable people. And I hate that

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<v Speaker 4>feeling you get when you are considering a confrontation and

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<v Speaker 4>it's eating you up inside and you're like, ah, I've

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<v Speaker 4>got to hold this all on my own. I feel

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<v Speaker 4>terrible and I'm walking on eggshells and I'm comfortable. So

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<v Speaker 4>what I like to do is a little thing I

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<v Speaker 4>call sharing the burden. So the next time this person

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<v Speaker 4>would say something, I'd have to hit them with, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>the capital C confrontation and be like, hey, I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to need to talk to you, babe, Like it's getting

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<v Speaker 4>frustrating week on week. You've been aggravating, You're lacking self awareness,

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<v Speaker 4>you're making us uncomfortable and it's not on. I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to assume you don't mean to do it, but at

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<v Speaker 4>this point I can't deal with you. Unfortunately, now it's

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit tense, but now we're uncomfortable, so I

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<v Speaker 4>feel better.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, I see, I see.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm okay with like being down, so long as

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<v Speaker 2>I know everyone else is down in some capacity.

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<v Speaker 3>Generally, that's community.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh damn, it's pretty It sounds like, yeah, this is

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<v Speaker 2>like a archetype of a certain person we've all met

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<v Speaker 2>and you sounds like you're not close enough to really

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<v Speaker 2>care if they change, so then they just hop onto

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<v Speaker 2>the next house. And it's a self fulfilling prophecy. But

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<v Speaker 2>people who are know it alls, there's other no it

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<v Speaker 2>dolls in the in the world they can like meet

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<v Speaker 2>and prokate with.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I also think it sounds like this is

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<v Speaker 4>as worth it, This is as bad as it gets,

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<v Speaker 4>Like this is not like, oh, it's just like slightly

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<v Speaker 4>irritating and like, oh it's a bit of like a

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<v Speaker 4>niggling concern. No, it's it's frustrating. You can't even be

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<v Speaker 4>comfortable in your own home. Bring it up, but bring

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<v Speaker 4>it up in the midst of this person doing it.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's like, look, I'm holding up a mirror to

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<v Speaker 4>your actions, babe, do you see the team is shaking.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't want to be here because of you.

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<v Speaker 3>You do it?

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<v Speaker 4>Call her out, damn painful, but mustards and loves of.

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<v Speaker 3>Course, Okay, we're ladies.

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<v Speaker 4>This is flex and frooms on kDa. Flexi is wearing

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<v Speaker 4>the coolest T shirt I've ever seen. Flex is a

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<v Speaker 4>dry princess has made a meme top featuring some of

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<v Speaker 4>her favorite things, including a burger, some beautifully manicured nails,

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<v Speaker 4>ride beaner, a little Zipit emoji, her actual physical license,

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<v Speaker 4>which to me is a bit of a hazard. Yeah

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<v Speaker 4>that's a bit red hot. But I did photoshop at

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<v Speaker 4>the license number and the card number.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh god, it's so cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I need to copy you and get into that.

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<v Speaker 3>People should.

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<v Speaker 4>I am a taste maker through and through. Creativity is

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<v Speaker 4>my passion. So people just can't do it, but I can.

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<v Speaker 4>I heard some really bad news a couple of weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 4>and I thought about fact checking it because it did

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<v Speaker 4>come from it from an American source, and I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like often the way Americans do life the way Australians

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<v Speaker 4>do life not very similar. But in this instance, I thought,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a fun little fact and if it's wrong, then

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<v Speaker 4>it's up to you to do your own research.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, not a teacher, I'm an entertainer. I saw a.

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<v Speaker 4>Video that said that the clothes buttons on elevators don't

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<v Speaker 4>actually work and it's just the placebo.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, that makes sense. That makes sense because.

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<v Speaker 4>You yeah mm hmmm, like they'll you tap it. They

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<v Speaker 4>will light up for the drama the theater of the performance.

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<v Speaker 4>But in terms of like closing the doors prematurely rushing them,

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<v Speaker 4>they're just on like a timer. Yeah, it doesn't make

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<v Speaker 4>it go very much more fast, does it. This is

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<v Speaker 4>I think elevators are the untapped conspiracy of the inanimate

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<v Speaker 4>object world because tell me, you told me one of

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<v Speaker 4>the biggest fun tacts of flexes ever told me. What

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<v Speaker 4>I have held on to and that I think I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to reappropriate, is that people put mirrors in front

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<v Speaker 4>of elevators so that you've got something to do while

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<v Speaker 4>you wait. So it makes it seem like you're waiting

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<v Speaker 4>less time. Yes, so while you're preaming and you're distracted

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<v Speaker 4>with your own reflection, you're not necessarily aware of how

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<v Speaker 4>long or not long something is taking. Similarly, when you

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<v Speaker 4>get into an elevator with a mirror inside, again you're distracted,

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<v Speaker 4>you're preming, you don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't it so weird that we're given an avatar. We

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<v Speaker 2>can't really choose what it looks like, but we can

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<v Speaker 2>choose looks like up to a point.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I guess so, Wow, I think we should have

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<v Speaker 4>more choices TVH Like, if I want to be five ten,

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<v Speaker 4>that should be my choice.

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<v Speaker 3>Zup it up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's why when we when the universe explodes, but

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<v Speaker 2>our brains are still in like suspended in animation, and

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<v Speaker 2>we can go play sims, then we can change it

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<v Speaker 2>all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be good flex and fods.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just saying how I personally love when people

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<v Speaker 4>love stuff. I feel like too many young people, especially

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<v Speaker 4>are apathetic, very neat. Mommy, I'm not joking, babe, where's

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<v Speaker 4>the passion?

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<v Speaker 3>Where's the last? For life? But not for real? Like

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<v Speaker 3>you know, you ask people like what do you what

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<v Speaker 3>do you like to do? Like? What what gets you excited?

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<v Speaker 3>What are your hobbies? Hobbies? I don't have any Shopping

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<v Speaker 3>is shopping a hobby? I want to TikTok. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>okay cool, But what is the thing that gets you

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<v Speaker 3>excited for me? Please reveal baking, hanging out with my friends, rollerbating, reading,

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<v Speaker 3>but I haven't done any of them in a while.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okayque spiral wake up call, but I do that asap.

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<v Speaker 3>Start with the reading mine.

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<v Speaker 4>As I mentioned briefly earlier, personality assessments, not just the

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<v Speaker 4>tests themselves, but I like the experience of self reflecting

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<v Speaker 4>in that way. I like when my friends do them

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<v Speaker 4>and then we share our answers and then we talk

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<v Speaker 4>about our experiences and how we see the world so differently.

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<v Speaker 4>And someone DM me the other day, a friend of

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<v Speaker 4>my fellow DJ half Queen, and she's like, this is

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<v Speaker 4>a bit of you, and I said, thank you, it

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<v Speaker 4>is definitely a bit of me. I was so stoked

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<v Speaker 4>because number one, it's nice to be thought of, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Number two, it's nice to be thought of well, like

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<v Speaker 4>every now and then people send me memes like Twilight

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<v Speaker 4>memes like this one's not funny, babe, but I hate

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<v Speaker 4>this one, but I say thank you graciously because I

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<v Speaker 4>appreciate being thought of. Anyways, I'm doing the personality assessment.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm freaking out, like it's all spot on, it's incredible.

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<v Speaker 4>But then I'm like, what fun is it to know

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<v Speaker 4>more about myself? I want to know more about people

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<v Speaker 4>I like. So I wanted to get through me to

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<v Speaker 4>do it, but I know if I texted you it,

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<v Speaker 4>you wouldn't do it, because like, busy, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Be real, be real.

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<v Speaker 4>If I send you the link to dowbtload and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>can you do this?

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<v Speaker 3>You'd be like yeah, cool, and then crickets.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyway, So when we came into Cata the other day

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<v Speaker 4>we did the test.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you find it?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we sat down before we came in, sitting down together.

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<v Speaker 2>I was eating lunch with a fork and a knife.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a toasted forcature chicken schnitzel. Flex was asking

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<v Speaker 2>me the questions and I had like to reply straight

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<v Speaker 2>in the second how I how I agreed or disagree?

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<v Speaker 5>Do you like helping others disagree?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Do you think?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you like yourself agree? Do you think that people

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<v Speaker 4>should be treated equally?

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<v Speaker 3>Neutral?

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<v Speaker 4>But it was fascinating as well, And I also find

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<v Speaker 4>that doing that with an audience is a bit bizarre

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<v Speaker 4>as well, because it's one thing to have to contend

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<v Speaker 4>with how you think you feel about yourself, but it's

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<v Speaker 4>like how you think you feel about yourself when someone

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<v Speaker 4>who knows you is also aware of how you think

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<v Speaker 4>you feel about yourself. The whole thing is just incredible.

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<v Speaker 4>But what I like about it lot is generally when

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<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to convince my friends your personality test, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>gotta give them sixteen thousand different links.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not just one. We've got a couple.

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<v Speaker 4>You know that I go to got the disk assessment,

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<v Speaker 4>the NbTi, the enneagram.

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<v Speaker 3>You know it's a big commitment for someone.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, But this app has all the assessments in the

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<v Speaker 4>one app.

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<v Speaker 3>Do them at your own leisure.

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<v Speaker 4>It's gamified it and the best thing about it is

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<v Speaker 4>that when you download it, you are able to do

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<v Speaker 4>some compatibility like merging with you and your friends to

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<v Speaker 4>see how you are similar, on how you're a different

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<v Speaker 4>personality wise, and then also how it makes you compatible

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<v Speaker 4>if you are if you're not. It's honestly so hot

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<v Speaker 4>and so sexy and everybody should do it. Amazing tells

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<v Speaker 4>you stuff like when I did mine yesterday, it was

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<v Speaker 4>like you rank, Like, how did it work?

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<v Speaker 3>Listen to this. It honestly adds up. So, for example,

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<v Speaker 3>it says.

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<v Speaker 4>You you're higher, you rank highly on assertiveness hire the

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<v Speaker 4>most of your friends are ranked one hundred out of

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<v Speaker 4>one hundred.

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<v Speaker 3>Babes.

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<v Speaker 4>I want what I want, but then I ranked for

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<v Speaker 4>tran quick ninety seven percent higher than all users. That

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<v Speaker 4>means you trust in yourself and your abilities, and you

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<v Speaker 4>have a positive outlook and healthy coping mechanisms.

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<v Speaker 3>You know it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 4>However, I scored ninety eight percent lower than all users

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<v Speaker 4>on agreeableness.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's when you say, Okay, let's look out for

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<v Speaker 3>a second. Let's just see where they see them darted from.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me just ask that now, you know, honestly, I

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<v Speaker 4>wish it was a mandatory requirement for anyone who wants

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<v Speaker 4>to have just like any kind of friendship with me,

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<v Speaker 4>to do a personality test.

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<v Speaker 3>I squeeze me in.

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<v Speaker 2>See even like we're doing these personality tests and you

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<v Speaker 2>ask me all these questions. One of what kept coming

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<v Speaker 2>up is like tidiness and leaving a mess everywhere, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going through a crisis because I've become a messy bitch. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, I don't know if this is my

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<v Speaker 2>true is this my messy rising?

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<v Speaker 4>So this was a question that said, do you often

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<v Speaker 4>put things back in their place immediately? Rooms like yeah, agree,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm thinking, is this not the same fruit? It's like,

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<v Speaker 4>Hey Brook, I left smamoring Hey Brook.

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<v Speaker 5>Literally when we did a.

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<v Speaker 3>Cater phar what's my phone? What's my phone?

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<v Speaker 2>I did a cat to phone to shoot about three

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<v Speaker 2>months ago, and I lost this like two outfits that

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<v Speaker 2>someone lent me literally lost four clothes, and I was

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<v Speaker 2>sure that someone from the shoot had stolen them. I

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<v Speaker 2>did a company why the emile saying, hey, everyone, just

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<v Speaker 2>letting you know I've lost this two sets.

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<v Speaker 5>It's worth this much money.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, I know, you said, I think it's been taken.

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<v Speaker 4>Obviously, I wasn't copied on this email because rooms now

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<v Speaker 4>I'd roast.

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<v Speaker 3>Her, so she just told me about it. But she said,

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<v Speaker 3>I fear that this has been taken.

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<v Speaker 5>Anyway, this is fucking test.

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<v Speaker 3>You're sick.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know who's making these tests. I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>really fun. I like that you're interested. I've definitely gone

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<v Speaker 2>through periods of interest.

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<v Speaker 3>However, Wait, so.

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<v Speaker 2>This app I've in put all my data, can you, like,

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<v Speaker 2>have we become friends on that?

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<v Speaker 3>My friends?

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<v Speaker 4>You haven't been put you haven't even scratched the surface. Bape,

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<v Speaker 4>you did one out of like ten quizzes and that

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<v Speaker 4>took us, you know, fifteen minut that's to get through.

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<v Speaker 3>Was it was a tough go. But yeah, what's the

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<v Speaker 3>appcording dimensional? Does it cost money? No?

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<v Speaker 4>Not yet, but I'm driving traffic and it's not available

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<v Speaker 4>on androids.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm so sorry. You have to opt out. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>do we have any friends of friends with the Android phone?

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<v Speaker 3>Personally no, Personally no, but guys, I am aware.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to do a whole segment. My sister is

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<v Speaker 2>an Android, and it makes me look at it differently.

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<v Speaker 4>Now. Honestly, I think bring androids back. Like Samsung especially

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<v Speaker 4>has the cutest bloody phones.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, the flippies, yeah, the flipping bole.

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<v Speaker 2>It's for people who don't care about being online online.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like people who are not extroverts.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm standing by that. If you have a Samsung.

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<v Speaker 4>And you're by, you standing by, you hit me up

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<v Speaker 4>and put me wrong, you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Doing your own data.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>The app is called Dimensional. You should download it.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I said, the good thing about it is that

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<v Speaker 4>it will It integrates a bunch of different personality tests

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<v Speaker 4>and you're able to assess yourself in relation to your

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<v Speaker 4>friends and your close community. You're able to share results,

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<v Speaker 4>see results. It could definitely have a lot more information

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<v Speaker 4>As someone who is you know, thirsty for knowledge, thirsty

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<v Speaker 4>for knowledge, I feel like it's a bit light on

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<v Speaker 4>the knowledge. But if you're just there for like vibes

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<v Speaker 4>and top line stuff, I think it's really really awesome.

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<v Speaker 4>A good starting point for you to go seek out

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<v Speaker 4>additional information. But I just love seeing just getting an

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<v Speaker 4>opportunity to reflect in relation to my people. I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's the best. Like when Free and I were doing

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<v Speaker 4>the test together, there was a point where a question

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<v Speaker 4>that was like I often daydream and spend a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of time imagining fantasy, fantasy scenarios and forms, just like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh disagree.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a strong agree for me.

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<v Speaker 4>Like every second hour of the day, I'm like a

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<v Speaker 4>new storyline in my head.

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<v Speaker 3>God, that's constantly. I think you're dissociating.

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<v Speaker 4>Probably just life is, but I love it in here.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, ooh, what kind of stories will you tell today?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>My mum always says to me, I just have the

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<v Speaker 2>most amazing dreams. I just love daydreaming. Yes, so you

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<v Speaker 2>still used to dream about being a horse, yess.

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<v Speaker 4>I just feel like the real world is just so

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<v Speaker 4>red hot? How are you just in here full time?

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<v Speaker 4>Like the what happens? Like my nighttime routine? Right, so,

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<v Speaker 4>like do whatever I need to do. I'll work till

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<v Speaker 4>like eight nine o'clock whatever. Then I'm like, Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>gonna scroll on TikTok for a bit, maybe for like

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<v Speaker 4>two hours. Then usually I will read for like three

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<v Speaker 4>three hours ish, then spend about an hour and a

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<v Speaker 4>half daydreaming in order to sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, I'm like, oh, like that was a fun book.

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<v Speaker 3>What if the characters did this and this? What if

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<v Speaker 3>they I'm like excited.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, so much time just in your brain. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>You spend so much time and it's positive, positive outcomes.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, So join me, everyone, but don't try and ad me.

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<v Speaker 5>Flag no, come on, no, let me get.

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<v Speaker 3>My full word out. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't need to know the behind the scenes of

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<v Speaker 4>people I don't know, you know, so if you try

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<v Speaker 4>and ad me, I'm not got to accept. So not

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<v Speaker 4>even I haven't even got the flex use name either.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't even have friends of your use name?

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<v Speaker 3>Is this public? She said? My use name's cool guy?

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<v Speaker 3>I one two three.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm saying, don't add me because I just won't accept

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<v Speaker 4>because I don't fundamentally care about the personalities of people

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, Savage, But if you were acquaintances, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Go for it, Okay, ruffle some feathers, Calm down. I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't even been savage.

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<v Speaker 1>Yees, flex and frooms.

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<v Speaker 4>As we all know Miss Fremisha went on a euro trip.

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<v Speaker 4>Is the first time she visited Europe. She wanted a

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<v Speaker 4>couple of friends. It was about three weeks of complicated bliss.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll say complicated bliss.

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<v Speaker 4>Premier shared quite a few opinions on Europe. She's ruffled

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<v Speaker 4>a few feathers in the process as she does so well.

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<v Speaker 4>I have an expert in her craft. And now it

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<v Speaker 4>seems you know you're coming to the tail end of

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<v Speaker 4>your analysis on that experience, and you've got some new thoughts.

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<v Speaker 3>What are they?

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<v Speaker 4>I am Look, I'm not one to mince words when no,

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<v Speaker 4>I am one to mince Yeah. Absolutely, I'm changing my

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<v Speaker 4>mind every two minutes. And now I've changed my mind

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<v Speaker 4>on Europe. If you're a listener, you will know that

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<v Speaker 4>last week I was racking on Europe for probably five

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<v Speaker 4>days in a row, yeah, saying that it's overrated, it's expensive,

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<v Speaker 4>and also refusing to refer to the individual countries. You

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<v Speaker 4>went to, just the whole continent. Yurop is overrated, yarrap.

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<v Speaker 4>But then I went away and thought, damn, I hate

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<v Speaker 4>how negative I was last last last week, and surely

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<v Speaker 4>it couldn't have been that bad. So I sat down,

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<v Speaker 4>and as we know, people continually ask me, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 4>you got back from your power?

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<v Speaker 5>Was it booth far out?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let's stop that. I'm at the end of my tailor.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's stop asking people. How are you?

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<v Speaker 4>I know we've got ru AKA know it's necessary to

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<v Speaker 4>check in, but let's how are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Let's stop with that. How's your weekend? Take it out

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<v Speaker 3>of a cab kill me. It's just it's a format.

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<v Speaker 3>How's your trip? You saw the Instagram? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I've got nothing else to give you.

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<v Speaker 3>One thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd rather just not go at this point far out,

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<v Speaker 2>But no, I was thinking about it more and I

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<v Speaker 2>thought of some really positive things about Europe.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh good.

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<v Speaker 2>One of them is, now, this could be a positively

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<v Speaker 2>negative depending where you are. But I went out for

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<v Speaker 2>quite a few nights, big dogs getting near it, and

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<v Speaker 2>well I'll start with a negative.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Things actually aren't open all night every night. To me,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, yeah, London's twenty four seven. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>crazy city. Try to go out on Tuesday night. Nothing's open.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean literally the middle of London, nothing's open. I

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<v Speaker 2>find one bar full of finance bros. Meet a guy

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<v Speaker 2>married with three kids didn't tell me to at the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the night.

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<v Speaker 3>No, how did you find out he saw his lock screen? No,

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<v Speaker 3>he told me.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we won't get into it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so scary trauma. Yeah, I mean I could get

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<v Speaker 3>into that story.

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<v Speaker 5>But later later like.

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<v Speaker 3>We get that jump for me talks to essentially three kids,

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<v Speaker 3>change your gargain near it.

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<v Speaker 4>This is whyways with the real direct approach, because you

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<v Speaker 4>won't have me talking to someone for five hours.

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<v Speaker 3>Since he married. I'm like, do you think I'm cute?

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 4>Literally anyway, So that was that a positive or a negative?

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<v Speaker 3>That was a negative. That's negative, Okay, let's keep going.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, one positive.

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<v Speaker 4>It was like the movies, like in terms of the

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<v Speaker 4>comedy that I like to consume, British comedy.

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<v Speaker 5>It was like the movies in between.

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<v Speaker 2>There's like at one point I went to karaoke at

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<v Speaker 2>night with my friend and it was the most ragtag

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of people that's karaoke. It was like four am

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<v Speaker 2>and we get talking to these guys. The only way

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<v Speaker 2>I can describe them is geezers.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Had like a mini micro fringe like me, but even shorter,

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<v Speaker 2>like beautifully kept her kind of like Gavin route scene

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<v Speaker 2>but like a bridge lad. Yeah, and so friendly, so

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<v Speaker 2>off his face like looking at me like he's just

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<v Speaker 2>smiling and my eyes are glazing over and with the

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<v Speaker 2>funniest accents. So definitely Europe lun case say.

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<v Speaker 3>It with me.

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<v Speaker 2>London is like the funny in between the movies.

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<v Speaker 3>Great, So you're excited to go back?

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<v Speaker 2>Nah, Okay, Now I'm good with the British TV shows.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where I get my fix.

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<v Speaker 4>Especially like these days at these prices, me hun about

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<v Speaker 4>to take out alone just to see some things. I

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<v Speaker 4>want to go back to London. I really enjoyed myself.

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<v Speaker 4>I told you my technique of like getting in DearS

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<v Speaker 4>before I land. Yes, some about the verified tick. People

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<v Speaker 4>think that you're trustworthy, so that's another thing, like no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm not talking. I'm not hitting up other blue

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<v Speaker 4>tick as. No, regular people who look fun, catching vibes.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really awesome. Yeah, I want to go to London.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to go to Sweden, but I also do

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<v Speaker 4>not want to see money come out of my bank count.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. It hits you, hits different, It doesn't hit correctly

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<v Speaker 3>at all.

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