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Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nation.

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Speaker 2: I see today is the day that your side hustle

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Speaker 2: double a chattery that you recorded with your good friend

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Speaker 2: Anita McGregor, who actually has real life qualifications. She's a

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Speaker 2: forensic psychologist. What does that mean.

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Speaker 1: She's a psychologist who works within the legal system in

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Speaker 1: terms of police work, prisoners, that kind of stuff. So

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Speaker 1: if you're on parole, that kind of thing. So I'm

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Speaker 1: not summing that up very well, but it's a psychologist

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Speaker 1: who works within the legal.

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Speaker 3: When I've come to your house and Anita and I

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Speaker 3: have just got into a corner and had a bit

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Speaker 3: of a chinwag about stuff, you know, the story about

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Speaker 3: the guy with the road killed and the lingerie.

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Speaker 1: There's some unusual there's people out there, and she has

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Speaker 1: a very generous heart considering the length and breadth of

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Speaker 1: humanity that she encounters every day. It's got a beautiful

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Speaker 1: Canadian lilt. Just listen to it for her.

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Speaker 2: Voice, did it for the disclaimer at the start when

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Speaker 2: she gives the medical advice to the start when.

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Speaker 1: She says, this is not you know, this is not

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Speaker 1: individual advice, blah blah blahah and then you come on, ooh,

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Speaker 1: I'm the horse's back end, that's for sure.

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Speaker 2: Last week you were talking about dolphin sex, which I've

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Speaker 2: found fascinating.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I've been listening to this other podcast about

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Speaker 1: a man in nineteen ninety who had to go to

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Speaker 1: court because he was accused of molesting a dolphin, and

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Speaker 1: we spoke about why why dolphins have captivated part of

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Speaker 1: our imagination, why we imbue them with some kind of

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Speaker 1: sympatico with us, some spirituality, and do they deserve it today? Well, Anita,

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Speaker 1: it's the same age as me, a couple of months older,

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Speaker 1: if she doesn't mind me saying. And she got her

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Speaker 1: first tat tattoo a tattoo. She got a matching tat

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Speaker 1: with her son when she was in Canada recently. And

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Speaker 1: the reason she got a tat and the kind of

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Speaker 1: tat she chose made us talk about how we honor

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Speaker 1: memory and moments in different ways. When we were younger,

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Speaker 1: we didn't get to choose the way we honored memory

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Speaker 1: in a way we all got our grandparents heavy old

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Speaker 1: furniture and the silverware and the blah blah. Were the

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Speaker 1: first generation to say no to taking our parents' stuff.

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Speaker 1: We want to live differently to them. We do live

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Speaker 1: differently to them. And I know that. When I left home,

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Speaker 1: I got a dining table from my mum's friend who

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Speaker 1: was getting rid of a dining tub. This's a big,

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Speaker 1: heavy wooden dining table. I was twenty one. I was

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Speaker 1: living with this big, heavy table and I took it

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Speaker 1: from flat to flat because you just did. You just

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Speaker 1: took stuff like that. These days younger people are taking

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Speaker 1: They're in smaller spaces as we were then too. But

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Speaker 1: you want an ikea card table, You wanted this or this.

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Speaker 1: You want to create your own space, so a lot

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Speaker 1: cheaper now.

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Speaker 2: The furniture is so much cheaper now that it was

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Speaker 2: back there.

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Speaker 1: But we are having to deal how we might as well,

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Speaker 1: how we on a memory without taking the stuff. So

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Speaker 1: you get a tattoo, Well, Anita got one because she

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Speaker 1: thought that will that will trigger a wonderful memory for

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Speaker 1: her of Canada without But while she was in Canada recently,

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Speaker 1: she threw out her old tea sets she'd been given

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Speaker 1: when she was sixteen from her grandmother. So it's about

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Speaker 1: what wechow, we honor and what we let go.

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Speaker 2: Wow, is that why you've got a dining table?

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Speaker 3: Tramp stamp?

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Speaker 1: Have you seen my stool? Do you mean to show

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Speaker 1: you my stool at the back?

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