WEBVTT - MINI: First Love Songs

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to them Christian Non Show podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Who wanted to call us up this morning and tell

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<v Speaker 2>us what is the song that reminds you of your

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<v Speaker 2>first love?

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<v Speaker 1>Patsy, what is it for you? It's Charles and Eddie.

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<v Speaker 3>Would I lie to you?

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<v Speaker 1>What a song? This is a brilliant song. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a banger.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a banger.

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<v Speaker 3>Every time I hear it, I think of Chris the

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<v Speaker 3>Love God picking me up for our very first date.

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<v Speaker 4>It was the summer of.

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<v Speaker 3>Ninety two and he had it on cas single which

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<v Speaker 3>was so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Layers in town.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me just rewind this so we can hear it again,

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<v Speaker 2>young lady Penny.

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<v Speaker 1>More that more singles in the booth. A life with

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<v Speaker 1>me is a life of singles.

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<v Speaker 4>Remember the cassette case you'd carry around in your car

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<v Speaker 4>with the handle.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, it's like fighting them. There were many fighting

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<v Speaker 2>cabinets for those tapes. And also, out of all the

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<v Speaker 2>music formats, the most unreliable that cassettes. Do you remember

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<v Speaker 2>if you left it in the sun or you son

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<v Speaker 2>to just get that pencil like re spoil it, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was sometimes it was just randomly like eat itself up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, because singles, but this is a great song.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a good song. We should play it this morning, actually,

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<v Speaker 2>Charles Eddie Jackie Boy tell us about the song that

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<v Speaker 2>reminds you of your first love?

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<v Speaker 1>All How old were you?

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<v Speaker 4>I was seventeen and the last year of high school,

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<v Speaker 4>and the girl I was dating. I tried to convince

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<v Speaker 4>her to do a White Stripes cover with me at

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<v Speaker 4>the end of year concert.

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<v Speaker 1>So were you in music class together or no?

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<v Speaker 4>She wasn't a musician, so she had to learn the

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<v Speaker 4>drums to be part.

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<v Speaker 2>Of that sort going on for you. Meg White there

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<v Speaker 2>and Jack White.

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<v Speaker 4>I would play the guitar and sing and she would

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<v Speaker 4>play the drums, and she's getting quite good, but not

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<v Speaker 4>good enough, and she felt confident doing it in front

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<v Speaker 4>of the whole school.

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<v Speaker 1>So much going on for your seventy year old Jack Post.

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<v Speaker 4>I also had seen the White Stripes of the year

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<v Speaker 4>before at Magic Park.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they were awesome, amazing live, weren't they? Great band?

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<v Speaker 1>Those twos.

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<v Speaker 4>He comes out in these tight red pants and I

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<v Speaker 4>had some actually had some red pajamas, so to wear

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<v Speaker 4>the red pajama pads on stage.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that my one, actually, because not all first love.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it's tinged with sadness of having you a heart

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<v Speaker 2>cracked open. So it was all about the end of

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<v Speaker 2>term school disco. When I was a teenager in the eighties,

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<v Speaker 2>it was the high night, right, It's all about.

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<v Speaker 1>Who you go?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you going to take?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? So Leanne and I went together, right, and it is, actually,

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<v Speaker 2>I would still say to this day one of the

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<v Speaker 2>top ten happiest nights of my life, until I found

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<v Speaker 2>out afterwards she'd asked my best friend Toby, and he

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<v Speaker 2>said no because he knew that I fancied her. She

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<v Speaker 2>asked him before she asked me, and I didn't know this,

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<v Speaker 2>And we slow danced to this song right, And now

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<v Speaker 2>wherever I hear it, it just breaks my heart again.

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<v Speaker 1>I should have known at a time guilty feet, they've

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<v Speaker 1>got no.

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<v Speaker 2>Rhythm bringing it back Againe helpit you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what a song.

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<v Speaker 4>Nice of Toby though, Are you still making Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? It comes up a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>It comes up a lot sometimes when I'm alone, I

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<v Speaker 2>go on Facebook and open I check in, I check in,

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<v Speaker 2>see what she's up.

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<v Speaker 5>To that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, am I okay with it? All those decades later,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fine with it. Nine four one four. This is

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<v Speaker 2>the Christian o'connells show podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>We got here, Jillian, Good.

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<v Speaker 6>Morning, Good morning, How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? So take us back there? So how old

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<v Speaker 1>are you? When was it?

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<v Speaker 6>How old was I? I was seventeen eleventh of August

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<v Speaker 6>nineteen eighty eight.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll really going there, right, Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>I had just spoken to him on a CB radio

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<v Speaker 6>a day before. We decided to have a date night.

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<v Speaker 6>He picked me up. We drove to the Frankston Fall Shore.

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<v Speaker 6>It was roughly about nine thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>The start of a true crime podcast. They worry about

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<v Speaker 1>people meeting on the internet online. You went out with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy? You on Cbee radio the.

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<v Speaker 6>Original everyone I bore me and I said yes, let's

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<v Speaker 6>go for it. Went to Frankston Beach, sitting along the

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<v Speaker 6>fourth book was the Beach. Back then we didn't have

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<v Speaker 6>a separation between the beach and the roads. And this

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<v Speaker 6>song came on and it's just stuck forever. He is

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<v Speaker 6>my first love. We have been married thirty years now.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that is amazing.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, engaged after three months of the meeting.

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<v Speaker 1>Radio break breaker broak up.

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<v Speaker 6>No, actually, he proposed to me in the car.

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<v Speaker 1>Same night.

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<v Speaker 6>Three months later, I arriving at the by the way

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<v Speaker 6>you married.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that is speed.

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<v Speaker 2>Say nice, lovely to meet you, marry me what you are?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't really offer more than this is me. I

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<v Speaker 1>am phil You take me as I am. Oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>that is great news. Well done.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to send you our two hundred dollars into

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<v Speaker 2>Flora voucher for some flowers on Monday.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's a lovely story. I love that.

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<v Speaker 6>That's He's the love of my life. I've been through

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<v Speaker 6>cancer and my mum was cooler car accident four days

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<v Speaker 6>after we got married, and he has just been my rock.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, a beautiful soul.

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<v Speaker 2>Well you are as well. You deserve soon of that.

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<v Speaker 2>And what is your your husband's Ashley?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Starting Valentine's today. That's a told Stan. How are you now, Jillian,

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<v Speaker 2>if you don't mind me asking.

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<v Speaker 6>I still have health issues, but I'm doing doing good.

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<v Speaker 6>I have an amazing husband and three amazing children. So

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<v Speaker 6>William yeah, yeah, Oh my gosh, I'm so emotional now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's amazing. What to survive you are. What a life story.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and just to think I was only seventeen, he

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<v Speaker 6>was eighteen, and you know we've been together we will

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<v Speaker 6>be thirty four years this year and Mary incredible thirty. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm lucky. So yeah, he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Lucky as well, Jillian.

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<v Speaker 6>Of course he is.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course he.

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<v Speaker 6>Wouldn't be anything without.

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<v Speaker 3>Me made.

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<v Speaker 2>Jillian, it's been a real joy, you know, checked everyone

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<v Speaker 2>up this morning, been a real joy here. If you okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you enjoy Valentine's Day Monday. And thanks for

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<v Speaker 2>sharing your story with us this morning as well.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, thank you so much. I will thank you all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well Christian Connell's show podcast. But Linda, good.

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<v Speaker 5>Morning, good morning team.

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<v Speaker 6>How are you a good team?

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<v Speaker 1>Officially? Good? And Belinda watched your.

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<v Speaker 5>Song Handsome Box Banger.

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<v Speaker 1>So first love? Did he look like one of them?

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<v Speaker 5>Or oh he had longish blonde hair.

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<v Speaker 1>I suppose now why that song was on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>at the time.

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<v Speaker 5>Or I was obsessed with handsome, so obsessed and I

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<v Speaker 5>had been listening to them all day. It was my

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<v Speaker 5>birthday and I'd.

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<v Speaker 2>Had friends just pause, I just need that to sink

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<v Speaker 2>and listening to them all day, Yeah, all day.

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<v Speaker 5>Look, I had a video that was just pulling handsome

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<v Speaker 5>videos and it helped us in pop on there about fifty.

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<v Speaker 4>Times they didn't have that many other songs.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember when you were a teenage fan, you

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<v Speaker 2>weren't just a fan if you liked to man, you

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<v Speaker 2>were an obsessive super fan.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what the repeat button was.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, So.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no link to him, it's just that you liked

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<v Speaker 1>them the band.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, and we so I listened to that song

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<v Speaker 5>all day. And then I've had friends over. We'd had

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<v Speaker 5>a movie night and he'd been over, and we had

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<v Speaker 5>our first kiss that night, and in my bedroom surrounded

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<v Speaker 5>by posters of Hanson.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's intimidating for you so much, I'll inane greens.

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<v Speaker 5>Well. The funny thing is he tracked me down years later.

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<v Speaker 5>One of the first things he said to me was,

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<v Speaker 5>do you still love Hanson?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a deal breaker.

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<v Speaker 4>And what's the answer, Belinda, We got to know it.

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<v Speaker 5>Look, there's a little part of me that still loves them.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not going to run.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad that's still in there. Let's do an hour

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<v Speaker 2>song shin off us up and let's put this in

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<v Speaker 2>there and on the chance neddie.

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<v Speaker 1>But then that's a great one. You have a great weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks to cooling.

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<v Speaker 6>Mate, you two, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Steve, that gang the song absolutely that that gets me

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<v Speaker 3>every time as Bonnie Tyler's totally cups at the heart.

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<v Speaker 1>It was what an awesome song and awesome song.

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<v Speaker 3>It is awesome eighty three I think it was. It

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<v Speaker 3>was at the Laser's disco adding Spring Barth had my

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<v Speaker 3>girlfriend ingrid vand even at the time, and this song

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<v Speaker 3>came on and we're on the dance floor and we

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<v Speaker 3>passed through the entirety of this song from fut start

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<v Speaker 3>to finish, and it was awful.

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<v Speaker 2>When you when you're that sort of teenage as it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't get any better than that, does it.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't. It was just one of those great times.

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<v Speaker 3>And the song was that loud and and you know

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<v Speaker 3>that great sound systems m days and every time I

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<v Speaker 3>hear that song on the radio, it takes you straight

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<v Speaker 3>back to black and way where when you were SnO.

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<v Speaker 1>Lasers given just a word lasers to help futures.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh lasers, that's a thousand years is the future.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the real aphrodisiac lasers Laser show.

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<v Speaker 2>Steve, that's a brady one. Thank you very much to

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<v Speaker 2>give us a call. You have a great weekend, mate.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Christian O'Connell Show podcast,