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Speaker 1: Welcome to them Christian Non Show podcast.

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Speaker 2: Who wanted to call us up this morning and tell

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Speaker 2: us what is the song that reminds you of your

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Speaker 2: first love?

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Speaker 1: Patsy, what is it for you? It's Charles and Eddie.

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Speaker 3: Would I lie to you?

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Speaker 1: What a song? This is a brilliant song. This is

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Speaker 1: a banger.

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Speaker 2: He's a banger.

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Speaker 3: Every time I hear it, I think of Chris the

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Speaker 3: Love God picking me up for our very first date.

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Speaker 4: It was the summer of.

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Speaker 3: Ninety two and he had it on cas single which

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Speaker 3: was so cool.

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Speaker 1: Layers in town.

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Speaker 2: Let me just rewind this so we can hear it again,

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Speaker 2: young lady Penny.

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Speaker 1: More that more singles in the booth. A life with

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Speaker 1: me is a life of singles.

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Speaker 4: Remember the cassette case you'd carry around in your car

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Speaker 4: with the handle.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's like fighting them. There were many fighting

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Speaker 2: cabinets for those tapes. And also, out of all the

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Speaker 2: music formats, the most unreliable that cassettes. Do you remember

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Speaker 2: if you left it in the sun or you son

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Speaker 2: to just get that pencil like re spoil it, and

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Speaker 2: it was sometimes it was just randomly like eat itself up.

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Speaker 1: Yes, because singles, but this is a great song.

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Speaker 2: It was a good song. We should play it this morning, actually,

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Speaker 2: Charles Eddie Jackie Boy tell us about the song that

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Speaker 2: reminds you of your first love?

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Speaker 1: All How old were you?

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Speaker 4: I was seventeen and the last year of high school,

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Speaker 4: and the girl I was dating. I tried to convince

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Speaker 4: her to do a White Stripes cover with me at

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Speaker 4: the end of year concert.

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Speaker 1: So were you in music class together or no?

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Speaker 4: She wasn't a musician, so she had to learn the

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Speaker 4: drums to be part.

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Speaker 2: Of that sort going on for you. Meg White there

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Speaker 2: and Jack White.

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Speaker 4: I would play the guitar and sing and she would

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Speaker 4: play the drums, and she's getting quite good, but not

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Speaker 4: of the whole school.

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Speaker 1: So much going on for your seventy year old Jack Post.

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Speaker 4: I also had seen the White Stripes of the year

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Speaker 4: before at Magic Park.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they were awesome, amazing live, weren't they? Great band?

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Speaker 1: Those twos.

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Speaker 4: He comes out in these tight red pants and I

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Speaker 4: had some actually had some red pajamas, so to wear

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Speaker 4: the red pajama pads on stage.

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Speaker 2: I love that my one, actually, because not all first love.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's tinged with sadness of having you a heart

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Speaker 2: cracked open. So it was all about the end of

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Speaker 2: term school disco. When I was a teenager in the eighties,

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Speaker 2: it was the high night, right, It's all about.

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Speaker 1: Who you go?

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Speaker 4: Are you going to take?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? So Leanne and I went together, right, and it is, actually,

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Speaker 2: I would still say to this day one of the

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Speaker 2: top ten happiest nights of my life, until I found

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Speaker 2: out afterwards she'd asked my best friend Toby, and he

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Speaker 2: said no because he knew that I fancied her. She

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Speaker 2: asked him before she asked me, and I didn't know this,

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Speaker 2: And we slow danced to this song right, And now

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Speaker 2: wherever I hear it, it just breaks my heart again.

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Speaker 1: I should have known at a time guilty feet, they've

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Speaker 1: got no.

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Speaker 2: Rhythm bringing it back Againe helpit you.

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Speaker 1: Oh what a song.

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Speaker 4: Nice of Toby though, Are you still making Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? It comes up a lot.

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Speaker 2: It comes up a lot sometimes when I'm alone, I

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Speaker 2: go on Facebook and open I check in, I check in,

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Speaker 2: see what she's up.

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Speaker 5: To that.

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Speaker 2: No, No, am I okay with it? All those decades later,

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Speaker 2: I'm fine with it. Nine four one four. This is

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Speaker 2: the Christian o'connells show podcast.

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Speaker 1: We got here, Jillian, Good.

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Speaker 6: Morning, Good morning, How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? So take us back there? So how old

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Speaker 1: are you? When was it?

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Speaker 6: How old was I? I was seventeen eleventh of August

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Speaker 6: nineteen eighty eight.

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Speaker 1: We'll really going there, right, Okay?

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Speaker 6: I had just spoken to him on a CB radio

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Speaker 6: a day before. We decided to have a date night.

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Speaker 6: He picked me up. We drove to the Frankston Fall Shore.

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Speaker 6: It was roughly about nine thirty.

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Speaker 1: The start of a true crime podcast. They worry about

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Speaker 1: people meeting on the internet online. You went out with

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Speaker 1: a guy? You on Cbee radio the.

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Speaker 6: Original everyone I bore me and I said yes, let's

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Speaker 6: go for it. Went to Frankston Beach, sitting along the

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Speaker 6: fourth book was the Beach. Back then we didn't have

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Speaker 6: a separation between the beach and the roads. And this

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Speaker 6: song came on and it's just stuck forever. He is

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Speaker 6: my first love. We have been married thirty years now.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that is amazing.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, engaged after three months of the meeting.

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Speaker 1: Radio break breaker broak up.

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Speaker 6: No, actually, he proposed to me in the car.

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Speaker 1: Same night.

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Speaker 6: Three months later, I arriving at the by the way

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Speaker 6: you married.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is speed.

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Speaker 2: Say nice, lovely to meet you, marry me what you are?

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Speaker 1: I can't really offer more than this is me. I

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Speaker 1: am phil You take me as I am. Oh god,

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Speaker 1: that is great news. Well done.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to send you our two hundred dollars into

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Speaker 2: Flora voucher for some flowers on Monday.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, thank you.

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Speaker 1: So that's a lovely story. I love that.

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Speaker 6: That's He's the love of my life. I've been through

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Speaker 6: cancer and my mum was cooler car accident four days

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Speaker 6: after we got married, and he has just been my rock.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, a beautiful soul.

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Speaker 2: Well you are as well. You deserve soon of that.

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Speaker 2: And what is your your husband's Ashley?

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Speaker 1: I feel like we're.

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Speaker 2: Starting Valentine's today. That's a told Stan. How are you now, Jillian,

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Speaker 2: if you don't mind me asking.

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Speaker 6: I still have health issues, but I'm doing doing good.

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Speaker 6: I have an amazing husband and three amazing children. So

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Speaker 6: William yeah, yeah, Oh my gosh, I'm so emotional now.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing. What to survive you are. What a life story.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and just to think I was only seventeen, he

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Speaker 6: was eighteen, and you know we've been together we will

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Speaker 6: be thirty four years this year and Mary incredible thirty. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I'm lucky. So yeah, he's.

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Speaker 1: Lucky as well, Jillian.

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Speaker 6: Of course he is.

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Speaker 1: Of course he.

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Speaker 6: Wouldn't be anything without.

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Speaker 3: Me made.

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Speaker 2: Jillian, it's been a real joy, you know, checked everyone

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Speaker 2: up this morning, been a real joy here. If you okay,

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Speaker 2: I hope you enjoy Valentine's Day Monday. And thanks for

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Speaker 2: sharing your story with us this morning as well.

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Speaker 6: Oh, thank you so much. I will thank you all right.

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Speaker 1: Well Christian Connell's show podcast. But Linda, good.

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Speaker 5: Morning, good morning team.

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Speaker 6: How are you a good team?

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Speaker 1: Officially? Good? And Belinda watched your.

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Speaker 5: Song Handsome Box Banger.

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Speaker 1: So first love? Did he look like one of them?

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Speaker 5: Or oh he had longish blonde hair.

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Speaker 1: I suppose now why that song was on the radio

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Speaker 5: Or I was obsessed with handsome, so obsessed and I

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Speaker 5: had been listening to them all day. It was my

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Speaker 5: birthday and I'd.

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Speaker 2: Had friends just pause, I just need that to sink

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Speaker 2: and listening to them all day, Yeah, all day.

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Speaker 5: Look, I had a video that was just pulling handsome

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Speaker 5: videos and it helped us in pop on there about fifty.

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Speaker 4: Times they didn't have that many other songs.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember when you were a teenage fan, you

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Speaker 2: weren't just a fan if you liked to man, you

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Speaker 2: were an obsessive super fan.

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Speaker 1: That's what the repeat button was.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, So.

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Speaker 1: There's no link to him, it's just that you liked

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Speaker 1: them the band.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, and we so I listened to that song

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Speaker 5: all day. And then I've had friends over. We'd had

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Speaker 5: a movie night and he'd been over, and we had

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Speaker 5: our first kiss that night, and in my bedroom surrounded

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Speaker 5: by posters of Hanson.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's intimidating for you so much, I'll inane greens.

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Speaker 5: Well. The funny thing is he tracked me down years later.

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Speaker 5: One of the first things he said to me was,

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Speaker 5: do you still love Hanson?

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Speaker 1: It's a deal breaker.

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Speaker 4: And what's the answer, Belinda, We got to know it.

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Speaker 5: Look, there's a little part of me that still loves them.

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Speaker 6: I'm not going to run.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad that's still in there. Let's do an hour

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Speaker 2: song shin off us up and let's put this in

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Speaker 2: there and on the chance neddie.

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Speaker 1: But then that's a great one. You have a great weekend,

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Speaker 1: thanks to cooling.

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Speaker 6: Mate, you two, Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Steve, that gang the song absolutely that that gets me

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Speaker 3: every time as Bonnie Tyler's totally cups at the heart.

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Speaker 1: It was what an awesome song and awesome song.

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Speaker 3: It is awesome eighty three I think it was. It

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Speaker 3: was at the Laser's disco adding Spring Barth had my

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Speaker 3: girlfriend ingrid vand even at the time, and this song

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Speaker 3: came on and we're on the dance floor and we

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Speaker 3: passed through the entirety of this song from fut start

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Speaker 3: to finish, and it was awful.

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Speaker 2: When you when you're that sort of teenage as it

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Speaker 2: doesn't get any better than that, does it.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't. It was just one of those great times.

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Speaker 3: And the song was that loud and and you know

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Speaker 3: that great sound systems m days and every time I

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Speaker 3: hear that song on the radio, it takes you straight

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Speaker 3: back to black and way where when you were SnO.

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Speaker 1: Lasers given just a word lasers to help futures.

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Speaker 2: Oh lasers, that's a thousand years is the future.

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Speaker 4: That's the real aphrodisiac lasers Laser show.

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Speaker 2: Steve, that's a brady one. Thank you very much to

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Speaker 2: give us a call. You have a great weekend, mate.

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