1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:05,519 Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. 2 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 2: It's the podcast for the time poor parent who just 3 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 2: wants answers. Now, I was so grateful to that little moment, 4 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 2: that little moment in time where there was an acknowledgment. 5 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 2: I know what you wanted me to do, but I'm 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: so glad that you let me be me. And now 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 2: here's the scars of our show. 8 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 1: My Mom and Dad. Today it's Black Friday. We have 9 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: specials galore happening all over the Happy Family's web shop, 10 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: all over our Facebook page. 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For 25 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: those who are new to the podcast, this is the 26 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: day where we reflect on the week that was and 27 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 1: try to figure out how we can be better parents 28 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: than we have been, or maybe we celebrate something that 29 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: we've done really really well. Would you like to go 30 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: first today or would you prefer that I go first? 31 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 2: You go? 32 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm going to dive in and talk about oh 33 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: so many experiences. I want to talk about how a 34 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 1: couple of days after work this week, I took the 35 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: kids down to the beach and we don't have a 36 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: pool at our house, like we've moved to Queensland. Had 37 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: a pool at our last house, but because we decided 38 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 1: to move to the coast, couldn't afford to buy a 39 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: house with a pool. Basically, so we've got a house 40 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: with no pool and we're having to go to the 41 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: beach and it's fantastic. I've been spending time at the 42 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: beach with the kids every afternoon. 43 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 2: Just love it. 44 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: And every day they winge and they whine, they complain, 45 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: say I don't want to go to the beach. I 46 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: don't want to go. 47 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 2: It's sand and waves. 48 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: And they winge and sook and we get there and 49 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: then they don't want to leave. 50 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 2: They just love it. And you've been dealing with that 51 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 2: for about twenty three years. 52 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: No, what is it with kids like kids? Trust me, 53 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: you're going to have a good time. It's going to 54 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 1: be really good to be there. Let's just get in 55 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: a car and go. But that's not what I'm going 56 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: to talk about. I wish that that was what I 57 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: was going to talk about, but I'm not. So what 58 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: I want to talk about is just celebrating the joy 59 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: of school. End of your assemblies, Well, because they're done, 60 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: we don't have to go to another one. Is that 61 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: what you mean? And holy dooley to anyone who works 62 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: in a school, I applaud your ability to sit through 63 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: endless assemblies, and I do also appreciate how hard school 64 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 1: leaders work to make these at least endurable for parents 65 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: who only have to come along once or twice a 66 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: year to set through them. But boy, boy boy, they're 67 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: just not that exciting. No offense kids, no offense teachers, 68 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: but school assemblies. I think that I would rather have 69 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: flaming bamboo shoots stuck under my nails sometimes than set through. 70 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: But that's a bit of a downer. You're looking at 71 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: me like I shouldn't have said that. I'm so sorry. 72 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: We did have the delight though, of going to the 73 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: Year twelve graduation night assembly night at the school, followed 74 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: by the Year twelve passing out parade the next day, 75 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: followed by the Year twelve formal the next day. We 76 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: got to do three of those events in three days, 77 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: and I just think any parent who goes through that 78 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: deserves a medal. I'm just putting it out there. I 79 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 1: was like, oh my goodness again. And we had to 80 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 1: get dressed up in suits and formal gear to go 81 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: to the fall. I had to put on a tie 82 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: and a show. 83 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 2: I can't believe you're winging about that. I actually think 84 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 2: that it was probably the best formal experience we've had. 85 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: Well we've had three and okay, yeah, hats off kudos 86 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: to the school who put on the formal that you're 87 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: putting up there as the best one. It probably was, 88 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 1: now do you say it? So? What did you like 89 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: about it? So? 90 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 2: Generally speaking, a formalist for the year twelve. It's a 91 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 2: celebration for them, yes, And as such, Mum and dad 92 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 2: go along to the park with all the other friends 93 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 2: and take photos, and then you say goodbye to your 94 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 2: kids and they head away. Sure, what I loved about 95 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 2: the school community that we're in is that the school 96 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 2: recognizes that this is actually a family celebration, and so 97 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 2: parents are invited at their own expense to attend the formal. 98 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 2: It was an expensive, mind, and there's a three course 99 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 2: meal that we all sit down to. The kids have 100 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 2: got their own tables, adults are sitting at their tables. 101 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 2: There's some acknowledgments, there's a couple of awards. Most of 102 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: the awards have already been done previously. But then the 103 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 2: joy was actually that about eight years ago, the kids 104 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 2: had asked for the progressive dances that they'd been learning 105 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 2: at camp to be added to the formal. 106 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 1: Like the and the I don't know, there was some 107 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: sort of it wasn't really a jibe, but a rock 108 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: and roll little number. There were a few what were 109 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: the other ones, like the Pride of. 110 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 2: Erine bar and the the Bumbo Salsa, and it was 111 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:51,119 Speaker 2: all progressive. So they did I don't know fifteen twenty 112 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 2: minutes of progressive dancing as a cohort, and then they 113 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 2: asked mum and dad to get up, and so mums 114 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 2: danced with their sons, dads dance with their daughters, and 115 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: they did the same set of dances, but again progressive. 116 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: And what I loved about that is too often we 117 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:10,840 Speaker 2: go to these events where we've got kids who are 118 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 2: either socially awkward or shy, or actually don't have any friends, 119 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 2: and they sit on the sidelines and they don't participate. 120 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 2: And yet with this event, everybody was up on the floor. 121 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 2: Everybody danced at their own you know, within their own capacity, 122 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 2: within their own level. 123 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: And is that a point of comment at me at 124 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 1: my dancing? You watched me doing that dance? I man, 125 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: I had no idea what they were. 126 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 2: Doing, but I just everybody was involved, literally everybody was involved, 127 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 2: and I just I thought it was such a wholesome 128 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 2: night and it actually I think that it was really 129 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 2: enjoyable for everyone. 130 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: So the reason that I wanted to bring it up 131 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 1: is because I'm giving myself some cuteos for my I'll 132 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 1: do better tomorrow. You'd get out of things what you 133 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:57,919 Speaker 1: put into things. And you know this, I was winking 134 00:05:57,920 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: and whining and grown. 135 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 2: Up we were supposed to be, and you see it so. 136 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: Hoping, Well, yeah, we signed up to go and do 137 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: the what was it, the Queenstown Marathon, half marathon, ten 138 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: k whatever it was that you and I were going 139 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: to go and do with some friends. We were going 140 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 1: to go over there and do that, and then we 141 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 1: had to cancel law so that we could be at 142 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 1: the formal wearing all the formal starchy, stiff kind of 143 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: clothes and listening to the talks and blah blah blah. 144 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 1: I decided on the day that I was going to well, 145 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: I decided about ten minutes before I left that I 146 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 1: was going to put my smile on my face and 147 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: wear it well and give it my very best. And 148 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: I did, and it was fun night. It was really 149 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:37,679 Speaker 1: nice to see another daughter finishing high school. That's three 150 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: out of six through. We're halfway there, and my older 151 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 1: better Tomorrow. Is really just a reminder you get out 152 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: of it what you put into it, whether it's parenting, 153 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: whether it's a school assembly, whether it's a time down 154 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 1: at the beach with the kids in the afternoon or 155 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 1: at the park, or even if you're just wrestling on 156 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: the floor or on the bed. You get out of 157 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:55,479 Speaker 1: it what you put in. If you go into it 158 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: with a lousy attitude, it's really hard to come out 159 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 1: of it with a smile on your face. But if 160 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 1: you've got a great attitude going in, it's a really 161 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,919 Speaker 1: enriching experience. So that's my older bit of tomorrow. 162 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 2: Well, my story ties in nicely with yours. It's about 163 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 2: the formal and watching our third daughter go through graduating. 164 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 2: But I had the other end of things because I 165 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 2: had to help her prepare, so there was, you know, 166 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,119 Speaker 2: all of the beauty trips that needed to be done, 167 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 2: and the buying of the dress and shoes and door 168 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 2: to number three is pretty laser fair. 169 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, totally last year. 170 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 2: Over the last twelve months, she's brought a couple of 171 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 2: secondhand dresses that she swore she was going to wear 172 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 2: to the formal, and a few months later decided she 173 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 2: didn't really like it, and then in the end she 174 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 2: actually just decided to borrow a dress or a friend. 175 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 2: But we're pretty conservative people and we've we've got some 176 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 2: kind of ideas on what kinds of dresses we'd like 177 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 2: our children to wear, and she didn't want to come 178 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 2: to the party with it, and in the past I 179 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 2: probably would have made it be deal about it, but 180 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 2: I've learned that what's most important is the relationship that 181 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 2: I had with my child, and so as it was hard, 182 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 2: but as hard as it was, I just decided to 183 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 2: let go and to just let her make her own 184 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 2: decision about what she was going to wear and let 185 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 2: it be. And on the day she came up to 186 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 2: me just before she was ready to walk out the door, 187 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 2: and she said, Mom, I know I'm not wearing the 188 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 2: dress you wanted me to, but I'm just so grateful 189 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 2: that you haven't made a big deal about it. And 190 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 2: it was just a really simple one liner, but it 191 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 2: meant so much because she understood that it meant something 192 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 2: to me, but she also knew that she meant more 193 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 2: than what she was wearing to me, and I just 194 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 2: I was so grateful for just that little moment, that 195 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 2: little moment in time where there was an acknowledgment. I 196 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 2: know what you wanted me to do, but I'm so 197 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,199 Speaker 2: glad that you let me be me. That's my odd 198 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 2: better tomorrow. It's just it was really just this I 199 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 2: think of reinforce for me to be more open to 200 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 2: letting my children be themselves. 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