WEBVTT - ☕️ A Life Update - Your Questions Answered! 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.640 I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:06.279 land on which this episode is being recorded, the Combomb 0:00:06.360 --> 0:00:11.119 Merry people. They've been having conversations and telling stories on 0:00:11.160 --> 0:00:14.320 this land for thousands of years, and we show our 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:19.240 gratitude and respect for their contribution to our environment and culture. 0:00:25.600 --> 0:00:31.520 This is Rise and Conquer, the podcast where we strive 0:00:31.680 --> 0:00:37.520 to become the highest version of ourselves through curious conversations, 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:43.120 healthy mindsets, laughter, connection, and a deep desire to evolve. 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:50.839 I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson. Join me as we explore parenthood, business, manifestation, 0:00:51.120 --> 0:00:54.840 and so much more. It's positive, it's practical, and it's 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:58.480 about putting you in the driver's seat of your own life. 0:00:58.720 --> 0:01:01.880 Are you ready? 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:06.679 Hello, my loves, and welcome back to the potty. We're 0:01:06.680 --> 0:01:09.440 doing an episode that I haven't done in a very 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:12.440 long time, and it is a simple Q and A 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:16.440 I actually I asked these questions on Instagram on my stories, 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:17.840 and honestly, I just. 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:18.360 Forgot about it. 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:20.840 I'm the worst for putting a Q and a box 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:24.800 on my stories and then not answering it. I think 0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:28.039 it's because I love long form, like when you ask 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:31.280 me the question, are you planning to have more kids. 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:34.560 It's a long form question. The simple thing that I 0:01:34.600 --> 0:01:37.440 put on my story is like, yes, of course. But 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:39.920 then on the podcast, I can sit down with you 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:43.319 and be like blah blah blah blah, so Q and 0:01:43.360 --> 0:01:46.080 I on the potty, let's go. 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:49.160 Okay. 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:51.600 There is all the mum questions, which I won't do 0:01:51.680 --> 0:01:54.080 too many, just because we're not all mums here. But 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:59.200 the first question is would love to hear Tim's experience 0:01:59.320 --> 0:02:01.480 being a stay at home dad? 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:03.560 How do you share the load? 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:06.240 So first of all, I feel like I curnrt really 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:10.600 answer this because it's his experience. I feel like with 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:14.960 any new evolution, like me becoming a mom, you know, 0:02:15.040 --> 0:02:17.600 Tim becoming a dad, especially a stay at home dad, 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:21.720 it's a process, it's an experience. So it's definitely not 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:26.080 been all smooth sailing in saying that Tim was born 0:02:26.160 --> 0:02:29.239 to be a dad, like he is just so naturally 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:35.000 maternal and good with Ivy, so like he's just the 0:02:35.040 --> 0:02:38.320 best stay at home dad. I am so bloody lucky 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:42.639 and Ivy is so lucky. But you know, there's definitely 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:46.240 been a lot of things to navigate. I don't know 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:50.280 if the masculine and fem Energy episode will be live 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:53.040 when this goes live, but I talk about in that 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:56.800 episode how we really had to establish like our routine 0:02:57.240 --> 0:02:59.880 because for example, when I'm at work, I'm in my 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:02.560 masculine energy, like I'm telling people what to do, I'm 0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:05.840 deciding things. And then so we had issues because I 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:08.240 would be in my masculine energy all day and then 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:11.239 I'd come home and I'd still be in my masculine 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:13.600 energy and I'd like decide what we're having for dinner, 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:18.000 help cook, decide when we're having things. Whereas Tim was 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:20.919 in his feminine energy all day like with a child, 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:24.200 with a baby, and then when I when I got 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:27.040 home too, he would also stay in that feminine energy. 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:29.680 And feminine energy is just like it's relaxed, it's go 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:33.600 with the flow. But then I was, you know, experiencing 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:36.040 burnout because I was like designing everything all the time. 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.720 And then also you can imagine if you're a male 0:03:38.800 --> 0:03:41.240 and you're like constantly in this feminine energy, it's like 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:44.760 it's just it's not balanced. So now we kind of 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:49.400 have this very interesting dynamic where he's obviously looking after Ivy. 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:52.400 She does go to daycare two days a week and 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:54.800 so you know, usually one of those days is kind 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:56.920 of doing stuff around the house, and then another day 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:59.800 he just has for himself. But basically, I got a 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:04.600 work and when I come home, I go full feminine mode. 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:10.320 So I don't really do anything. I don't cook dinner, 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:12.520 I don't decide what we're having for dinner. I don't 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:15.080 decide what time we're having for dinner. I come home 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:18.520 and I go straight into my feminine energy, which is 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:23.400 very just like relaxed, receive, flowing, and obviously just go 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:26.640 straight into spending time with Ivy, putting my stuff down. 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:29.640 And Tim will. 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:32.520 Kind of step into that more masculine energy where he 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:36.560 is on dinner duty, so he always cooks dinner. He 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:39.799 kind of stays downstairs where me and Ivy go upstairs 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:41.440 and we have a shower, we just have some time 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:44.920 together and I get already, and then we come downstairs 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:48.560 and we eat dinner, and then you know, like we 0:04:48.640 --> 0:04:50.800 watch TV and go to bed, and that's kind of it. 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:54.320 But we've had to kind of like really establish like 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:57.400 our needs and how we're feeling. But yeah, so we 0:04:57.480 --> 0:05:00.159 kind of share the load in regards to Once I 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:04.320 get home, I pretty much predominantly and just like Ivy time, 0:05:04.400 --> 0:05:08.400 so looking after Ivy, getting Ivy ready, but I want that, 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:13.240 and he then is still like cooking dinner and doing things. 0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:15.640 But you know, as you can imagine being with a 0:05:15.680 --> 0:05:19.200 toddler all the day, like that's a treat. That is 0:05:19.240 --> 0:05:22.040 a treat, and it's just what works really well for us. 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:24.240 He really enjoys doing it well. Usually when he's cooking 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:26.320 dinner too, he like puts in a podcast and just 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:29.800 has some hymn time, or he might like go get 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:32.279 out of the house if he needs to. But it's 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:34.760 working really well. I feel like, if you think about it, 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:37.400 Ivy is, you know, nearly three in November, so I 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.640 feel like we've really found our feet and it's feeling 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:43.320 really good. But it did take some time. It did 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:47.279 take some tweaking. Why are you hiring a new personal 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:52.000 assistant content creator? I love how you guys ask these 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:56.880 sorts of questions. My old personal assistant content creator she 0:05:57.279 --> 0:06:01.320 moved on to another job, so I'm getting a new one. 0:06:01.600 --> 0:06:05.839 And there's honestly, like no tea here or anything like that. 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:09.520 Just like a dream role came up for her and 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:11.560 so she just took a chance and she got it. 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:14.760 And I'm so so happy for her and I have 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:19.159 hired someone new and she seems incredible. She hasn't yet started, 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:21.559 but I'm really excited to have her on the team. 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:25.880 And I like when someone leaves, you know, Naked Harvest 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:30.120 or Rise and Conker, I just have endless amounts of 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:33.600 like love and gratitude for the work that they did. 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:34.839 But I never, like, I never. 0:06:34.760 --> 0:06:37.440 Want someone to stay here if it's not right for them. 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:40.720 And also it's like, not everyone's supposed. 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:42.479 To be in your life for your whole life. 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:46.440 People come in for seasons, so I don't ever, you know, 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:49.280 take a fence or be weird about it. I think 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:51.000 it would be weird if you stay in a job 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:54.039 forever personally, you know, unless it's your own business. So 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:58.120 that's there's honestly no to that. Oh, what are your 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:06.000 next big goal theme? Okay, so I am definitely stepping 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:12.040 into more is less error more is less. I feel 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:15.840 like the last year there just has been a lot 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:19.360 happening externally, you know, I've been doing a lot of 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:24.360 things with goals and in the businesses, but then also internally, 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:28.440 in my inner work and in my personal life. I 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:32.239 feel like just so much has happened this year, guys 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:36.160 like sad and return vibes, like one thing after the other, 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:41.560 dealing with triggers, dealing with relationships turning upside down, dealing 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:45.920 with just like a lot of shit. It has felt 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:48.560 like I've been dealing with a lot of shit, but 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:53.360 like huge growthier in regards to like personal growth. So 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:56.080 I am very grateful for being in the shit and 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:59.520 I feel like what it has made me realize is 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:02.600 less is more, And I feel like that was my 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:04.760 focus honestly for a while, Like as soon as I 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:08.920 had Ivy, it was like, Okay, I've got limited time. 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:10.800 What do I want to focus on? And it's like 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:14.960 narrowing in, But I feel like even more refinement is 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:19.600 needed where I'm really really clear on what are the 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:23.680 goals for R and C, what are the goals for NH, 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:26.440 you know, what are the goals and my businesses and 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:31.720 then scratch everything else and then obviously you know, family time, 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:36.360 Tim and Ivy and again just like narrowing in. Because 0:08:36.400 --> 0:08:39.360 I am a manager, I do get quite excited about 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:42.560 opportunities and things happening, and I feel like I have 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:44.320 been really great with my boundaries this year, but I 0:08:44.360 --> 0:08:48.960 do really feel like less is more and I really 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:51.160 am going to sit down at the end of this 0:08:51.280 --> 0:08:55.680 year and create a goal blueprint for a new course 0:08:55.720 --> 0:08:57.240 we're bringing out at the end of the year. It's 0:08:57.280 --> 0:08:59.520 like a new year course where you like create goals. 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:01.920 I'm going to sit down and really do that because 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:05.160 I do this concept of like milestones throughout the year, 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:08.160 which has really excited me. I think sometimes you can 0:09:08.160 --> 0:09:11.320 set goals and they're they're so big and they're so exciting, 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:13.400 but it's like when you actually look at a calendar, 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:15.080 it's like when are those happening? 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:16.280 Like what are you doing? 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:18.760 And so I actually want to sit down with like 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:21.200 a twelve month calendar and be like, how do I 0:09:21.240 --> 0:09:24.440 actually want the year to go. So the theme is 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:28.120 less is more and I really feel like stepping into 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:32.800 this season of the word privacy comes up and not 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:37.880 like not telling you guys anything, but like very private, 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:40.800 like in my own lane, doing my own thing, so 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:45.360 clearly focused on what I want and where I'm going 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:49.120 that it's like it's just it's not touching anyone else. 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:52.400 I'm not even in the noise anything like that. Yeah, 0:09:52.400 --> 0:09:55.080 for some reason, the word privacy comes up. Yeah, it 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:57.640 feels very next level. I'm very very excited about the 0:09:57.679 --> 0:10:00.520 next season for myself and this next year. But in 0:10:00.600 --> 0:10:04.560 saying that, like it is November and I'm just honestly 0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:08.040 slowing down because i really want to enjoy the Christmas 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:18.440 period with Tim and Ivy. What is your working schedule alike, 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:23.320 working for home or in the office. So the day 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:25.679 to day changes so much for me because I have 0:10:25.760 --> 0:10:29.040 multiple businesses. But let me get up my Google calendar. 0:10:32.040 --> 0:10:38.600 So basically mondays, I do back to back meetings, so 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:42.240 you know, I have a meeting. I'm looking right now 0:10:42.960 --> 0:10:45.240 at my Monday next week and it says like the 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:49.120 first meeting is with my pa. We're gonna go through 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:53.040 content just like admin stuff. And then the next one, 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:55.800 I have a catch up with Chantel, the marketing director 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:58.320 of Naked Harvest, and then I have a catch up 0:10:58.320 --> 0:11:00.640 with Jamie, the brand manager for and Conker. 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:02.880 We then have our weekly. 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:06.200 Rn C meeting, our weekly and H meeting, and then 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:09.680 I've got a specific meeting in there about we're shifting 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:12.199 the Rise app so that's in there too, and that 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:16.320 I basically try and not do any other meetings for 0:11:16.360 --> 0:11:17.760 the rest of the week. If you want a meeting 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:20.480 with me, it's on a Monday otherwise why not having it? 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:23.240 Because my meetings used to be scattered throughout the week 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:29.280 and I just was not productive. So basically Monday meetings, Tuesday, 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:36.119 I'm usually recording or I'm creating course content, ad content. 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:40.079 It's like a very creative but I'm like actually filming. 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:43.840 Then Wednesday and Thursday, I work from home and I 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:46.680 actually block out these days so no one can book 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:49.319 in time with me. And these are days that are 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:53.719 completely for myself where I get to pick what I 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:57.200 am doing, creating and working on. I might be like, 0:11:57.280 --> 0:11:59.040 all right, I want to create a new course and 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:01.760 I'll go out to like a beautiful cafe and nature 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:04.680 and just like a brainstorm. Or it literally might be 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:07.000 a day where I'm like, hey, I have been really 0:12:07.040 --> 0:12:09.560 disconnected from myself. I'm gonna take the day off and 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:12.240 have a meet day. Like I have those options in 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:15.560 the Wednesday and Thursday. Otherwise that's also when I book 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:17.679 like personal appointments because I know I won't be in 0:12:17.720 --> 0:12:21.480 the office. And then Friday is genuinely like my catch 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:24.280 up day. So again I try and keep that spare 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:28.480 but it usually fills up with like leftover shit. So again, 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:31.920 like I'm recording the podcast on the friday meetings that 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:36.440 are like quite urgent stuff like that. Otherwise we all 0:12:36.480 --> 0:12:38.320 have like an early finish on the Friday, so we 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:41.680 generally only are working the morning. But I love kind 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:46.319 of just catching up and wrapping up everything on a Friday. Okay, 0:12:46.360 --> 0:12:48.880 this is a good question. How to be good in 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:52.920 your energy when you're living in a toxic home? 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:56.640 Oh, that is very very hard. 0:12:57.200 --> 0:13:00.720 I think for this, it's just about realizing that other 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:05.800 people's energy and how they're feeling is such a reflection 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:10.720 of what's happening to them that you don't actually need 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:11.320 to take it on. 0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:14.319 So like, for example, someone. 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:16.720 Being in a bad mood or like you know, treating 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:19.760 you like shit or whatnot. I love this saying that 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:22.720 it's like no one can actually make you feel a 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:26.280 certain way. Only you can make yourself feel a certain way. 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:29.120 And look, it's very reasonable to be like I've got 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:33.079 shitty people at home. Obviously that would be harder it's 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:39.640 your environment. But taking a huge self responsibility piece here 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:43.079 and being like, just because someone treats me like this 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:46.320 or access way, do I need to take it on? 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:51.160 Do I need to mirror that energy because you absolutely don't. 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:54.120 You obviously need to work on your emotional intelligence to 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:56.440 not get triggered, because that's the thing is if you 0:13:56.480 --> 0:14:00.280 are getting triggered by people being in bad moad modes 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:03.679 or like those sorts of things, it's because you do 0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:06.280 have triggers. You do have stuff you need to work on. 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:09.320 So it's kind of showing you where you could be 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:12.880 doing the inner work. Obviously, I'm not talking about toxic 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:18.080 toxic relationships like anything hardcore, but you know, like toxic 0:14:18.160 --> 0:14:23.560 relationships in the nature are usually our greatest teachers. They're 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:27.280 teaching us things about ourselves. We honestly have the greatest growth. 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:30.840 So you could be looking at this is a period 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:34.120 of you having your greatest growth. But also I am 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:35.960 sending you so much love because that is just it's 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:38.520 hard if you're in that situation and you feel like 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:41.240 you can't get out. But obviously the first alternative would 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:43.520 be to get out of that environment. But I understand 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:52.480 if it's parents or something like that. Guys, I literally 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:56.520 took a call from Cuba. It was like twelve o'clock 0:14:56.760 --> 0:14:59.120 when I was recording. I took a call from Cooper 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:01.480 and then I ended up on a call with Lil 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:02.640 and then I ended up on a. 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:04.000 Call with Kelly, our CFO. 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:07.520 And now it's two pm and I'm coming back, so 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:10.160 sorry if my energy is different. I also like had 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:15.000 lunch during that time. But going straight onto the next question, 0:15:16.200 --> 0:15:19.560 how do you and Tim keep the spark in your 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:24.960 relationship alive? Great question, I think like with relationships and 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:29.280 keeping the spark alive, just realizing that, like everything else, 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:34.760 there is going to be seasons when you guys are 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:38.360 just focused on the kids or the kid and it's 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:41.080 about them, or you know, maybe you're going through something 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:43.400 and you know you maybe don't have that much of 0:15:43.440 --> 0:15:46.160 a spark or this's not as much moments, and then 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:49.080 you'll go through seasons where like you're really hard in 0:15:49.120 --> 0:15:52.040 your work goal, your fitness goal, or like you know 0:15:52.080 --> 0:15:54.320 what I mean, and it's like the relationship takes a 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:58.320 back seat, And it's just noticing when the relationship is 0:15:58.360 --> 0:16:01.800 taking a little bit of a back seat and then 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:05.400 switching it up and putting a bit more effort. Like 0:16:05.440 --> 0:16:08.840 I love the saying the grass is greener where you 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:11.680 water it, And so for example, if you have these 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:14.920 thoughts of like I wish he would just like randomly 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:17.880 come home with flowers, or I wish he would book 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:22.640 me a date night, or those thoughts. It's okay, great, 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:24.640 it just means you're craving connection. 0:16:24.760 --> 0:16:25.760 But take a step back. 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:28.920 And be like, do I randomly bring him home something? 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:31.560 Do I randomly book in dates? Or am I just 0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:34.000 like wanting him to romance me? But I'm not putting 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:37.240 any effort. And so when I noticed that I want 0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:40.040 to put a bit of a spark in the relationship, 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:43.160 I will kind of go out of my way to 0:16:43.200 --> 0:16:46.480 be extra affectionate, to book in a date night and 0:16:46.560 --> 0:16:49.440 those sort of things. And then like I find, you know, 0:16:49.600 --> 0:16:53.440 Tim will kind of follow suit, or they will kind 0:16:53.440 --> 0:16:55.800 of be moments where he does it. Like, for example, 0:16:56.480 --> 0:17:00.640 we're in a very interesting point because Ivy sleeping in 0:17:00.640 --> 0:17:06.720 our bed. And it's honestly, if you told Georgie a 0:17:06.800 --> 0:17:08.880 year ago that her baby was sleeping in her bed, 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:10.919 she would be so shocked because I was like very 0:17:11.520 --> 0:17:13.840 against it and very like my sleep so important, she 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:16.119 can't sleep on my bed, blah blah blah blah, And 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:19.360 then she is quite scared at the moment. So we 0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:21.960 live in a house that's like two. Her room is 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:26.399 two levels down, which is not ideal. It is not 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:29.760 the most family orientated house, which is something we've been 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:33.919 thinking about. So she gets quite scared because like her 0:17:33.960 --> 0:17:37.560 bedroom is like downstairs, if that makes sense. So, you know, 0:17:37.680 --> 0:17:41.040 having your beautiful little toddler be like, Mummy, I can't 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:43.880 sleep in my bed. I'm scared, Like I'm not gonna 0:17:43.920 --> 0:17:46.600 be like, no, Ivy sleep in your bed. So she's 0:17:46.640 --> 0:17:48.800 been sleeping in our bed and I just kind of 0:17:48.800 --> 0:17:52.320 love it, like so snugly. We have a king bed, 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:57.320 so she definitely will roll over and smack me and 0:17:57.440 --> 0:18:00.480 kick me, but it is big enough. I've been sleeping 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:02.320 in the bed and that used to be like me 0:18:02.359 --> 0:18:05.040 and Tim's you know, time to talk, to be intimate, 0:18:05.080 --> 0:18:08.000 to disconnect, and now she's in the bed. So we're 0:18:08.080 --> 0:18:10.600 noticing we have to make even more efforts. So we 0:18:10.720 --> 0:18:14.320 have been Ivy goes to daycare two days a week, 0:18:14.560 --> 0:18:17.639 and I have been working from home those days just 0:18:17.680 --> 0:18:19.560 so me and Tim have a bit more time and 0:18:19.600 --> 0:18:22.120 we usually do like a date breakfast or a date day. 0:18:22.800 --> 0:18:25.120 And so it's just a season where we don't have 0:18:25.440 --> 0:18:28.040 as much connection time in bed because we've. 0:18:27.960 --> 0:18:30.880 Got a little toddler in with us, but we are, 0:18:31.160 --> 0:18:32.720 you know, making it work. 0:18:33.840 --> 0:18:37.080 Next person asks do you want another Bubba or feeling 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:41.639 complete with Ivy girl, Yes, we want another Bubba. We 0:18:42.160 --> 0:18:48.240 have actually been trying for another baby and it's been 0:18:48.520 --> 0:18:52.320 a bit of a journey. I'm actually going to do 0:18:52.440 --> 0:18:56.439 a whole episode about it because again we are having 0:18:56.880 --> 0:18:59.919 a trying to conceive journey which we had with Ivy. 0:19:00.200 --> 0:19:03.359 So I am finally at a stage where I am 0:19:03.440 --> 0:19:07.520 able to open up about that with you guys. But yes, 0:19:07.880 --> 0:19:11.800 we'd love another baby. Do you have any tips on 0:19:12.040 --> 0:19:18.600 finding life's purpose or clarity on what you want in life? 0:19:18.880 --> 0:19:27.960 Feeling stuck? I think everyone's purpose is to be uniquely them. 0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:35.040 For example, my purpose isn't a supplement business or a 0:19:35.080 --> 0:19:39.000 podcast business or do you know, like my purpose is 0:19:39.040 --> 0:19:43.720 definitely weaved in my businesses, but it comes from this 0:19:43.880 --> 0:19:50.600 beautiful place of me being uniquely and wholeheartedly myself, and 0:19:50.680 --> 0:19:53.359 then a business has like come off the back of that, 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:56.080 if that makes sense. And so I just think if 0:19:56.119 --> 0:20:01.119 you feel like you're lacking purpose, I would say start 0:20:01.119 --> 0:20:05.640 connecting back to yourself, start connecting back to like your 0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:11.120 authentic you. Again, I have been kind of creating a. 0:20:11.080 --> 0:20:11.760 Course around this. 0:20:12.000 --> 0:20:14.560 So I'm really in the midst of it and that 0:20:14.600 --> 0:20:18.760 will be coming out probably in December. But when you 0:20:19.000 --> 0:20:24.000 are connected to your authentic self, holy shit, guys, like 0:20:24.280 --> 0:20:29.119 you can move mountains. Like the power that comes with 0:20:29.320 --> 0:20:33.560 being connected with your authentic self is just wild and 0:20:33.640 --> 0:20:38.800 you can see so clearly. So when people say like 0:20:38.920 --> 0:20:42.000 I have no purpose, I have no clarity, that would 0:20:42.000 --> 0:20:44.880 be my first step is like, start connecting back to yourself, 0:20:45.480 --> 0:20:47.560 and I'm happy to do. Like obviously a podcast on that, 0:20:48.040 --> 0:20:51.960 so I will absolutely do that. Another person asked, how 0:20:52.000 --> 0:20:55.360 do I know when the next level is around the corner. 0:20:55.840 --> 0:20:58.280 There are so many changes happening right now, and I 0:20:58.320 --> 0:21:03.280 feel so lost. Honestly, I swear when things are going 0:21:03.400 --> 0:21:07.320 to shit, like if you think it, your old life 0:21:07.640 --> 0:21:12.040 has to crumble if you want a brand new life. 0:21:12.520 --> 0:21:16.040 So if you notice that you have been asking the universe, 0:21:16.400 --> 0:21:20.760 I want change, I want this new thing, I want 0:21:20.760 --> 0:21:25.680 this new reality. If everything is going to shit, I 0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:30.080 swear that is when your next level is right on 0:21:30.160 --> 0:21:34.520 the horizon. You are on the cusp. And if you 0:21:34.640 --> 0:21:37.240 think about it, if you have been asking the universe, 0:21:37.520 --> 0:21:40.439 I want a different reality. I want this thing that 0:21:40.560 --> 0:21:44.480 is over here that is different from your current reality. 0:21:44.600 --> 0:21:49.399 Things have to break down, they have to crumble in 0:21:49.680 --> 0:21:53.760 order for new things to happen. So every time like 0:21:54.040 --> 0:21:56.560 things are going to shit in my life, I know 0:21:57.040 --> 0:21:59.960 I'm about to up level. I know there's a whole 0:22:00.520 --> 0:22:07.240 new existence reality me coming in because like that's that's 0:22:07.280 --> 0:22:10.440 what it means. Things have to crumble, And often we 0:22:10.520 --> 0:22:14.359 say we want these things, but there's no room, and 0:22:14.400 --> 0:22:18.760 so the universe will purposely push people out. It will 0:22:18.800 --> 0:22:23.960 make you uncomfortable, it will make situations really hard, so 0:22:24.000 --> 0:22:26.400 you have to leave. So you have to get out 0:22:26.840 --> 0:22:29.159 in order for you to go to the next level. 0:22:29.560 --> 0:22:32.640 And it's so funny because we usually are like, oh 0:22:32.680 --> 0:22:33.919 my god, everything's. 0:22:33.560 --> 0:22:34.800 Going wrong and whatnot. 0:22:35.200 --> 0:22:37.480 And then there will be some time and then you'll 0:22:37.480 --> 0:22:39.720 get everything that you wanted and you'll look back and 0:22:39.760 --> 0:22:42.840 you'll be like, oh, wait, no, this is what I wanted, 0:22:42.960 --> 0:22:45.440 but like I had to you have to almost go 0:22:45.520 --> 0:22:48.520 through the ship. But if you can change that to it, 0:22:48.520 --> 0:22:51.399 it's like you're not going through the shit where you are, 0:22:51.520 --> 0:22:54.840 but it's like this is for the purpose of your 0:22:55.320 --> 0:22:59.320 new reality of everything you want. That is how I 0:22:59.320 --> 0:23:03.800 look at it okay. Another good question, how do you 0:23:03.920 --> 0:23:10.600 feel now leaving some long term friendships behind? Sad Lighter, 0:23:10.880 --> 0:23:16.360 don't overthink it. It's like that beautiful saying of people 0:23:16.480 --> 0:23:19.399 aren't meant to be in your life forever. So when 0:23:19.600 --> 0:23:23.679 I have friendships that you know end or even like 0:23:23.720 --> 0:23:26.320 what I was saying, like when you know Lannie left, 0:23:26.920 --> 0:23:29.479 that was obviously on beautiful terms, even if it's like 0:23:29.560 --> 0:23:32.800 not on the greatest terms, it's I never think it's 0:23:32.840 --> 0:23:34.920 a bad thing. I never think it's a negative thing. 0:23:35.000 --> 0:23:37.400