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Speaker 1: My Heart podcasts, hear more kiss podcasts, playlists, and listen

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Speaker 2: You've had the baby five weeks of build up more

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Speaker 2: than a Harry Potter movie. You mean really, we were

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Speaker 2: in here talking about it as r as it wasn't

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Speaker 2: a sponsored bit, we could have made some money off.

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Speaker 1: It, but you had the sales team have really missed five.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why we got in our heads that.

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Speaker 1: So Remy came at that's my first dorder. She came

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Speaker 1: at thirty eight and a half weeks, and we were

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Speaker 1: just like, oh, if Remy came, then second baby will

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Speaker 1: come earlier than that.

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Speaker 3: Hence why five weeks ago I came.

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Speaker 1: On here and was like, oh, any money, I could

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Speaker 1: be dragged out of the studio, and I think this.

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Speaker 1: I mean this really mentally played with my wife and

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Speaker 1: I where we were like every night we went to bed,

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Speaker 1: we were like, we do this joke.

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Speaker 3: We'll be like, could be tonight, Yeah, could be tonight.

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Speaker 1: Five weeks every night we go could be tonight, And

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Speaker 1: then I had a little thing.

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Speaker 3: I would wake up and then go no baby funny for.

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Speaker 1: Three nights like five weeks of like you would roll

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Speaker 1: live and by the end, it was just it was

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Speaker 1: almost like quite a sad, dejected no baby.

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Speaker 4: Well, it was funny for three days on air.

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Speaker 2: I mean I got home the other night and said

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Speaker 2: was like, if I have to hear that drop Zone

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Speaker 2: song one more time, I will, do.

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Speaker 3: You want to hear it?

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Speaker 2: We're out of there.

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Speaker 3: Let's because we're in the love zone.

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Speaker 4: Baby, got a baby, got a baby. So I start

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Speaker 4: with the gender, the name.

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Speaker 3: It's a girl.

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Speaker 1: So we've had our second little girl. I've got a

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Speaker 1: I've got a just a three of the most wonderful,

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Speaker 1: lovely women at home now.

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Speaker 3: Which is extraordinary.

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Speaker 4: That's so nice.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Murphy, Yeah, beautiful, which is nice.

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Speaker 3: That was funny. So I was telling the team that.

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Speaker 1: So for the whole pregnancy, we were we didn't know

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Speaker 1: what gender we were having for the whole pregnancy, and

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Speaker 1: we love the name Murphy, so we were calling the

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Speaker 1: baby and the worm Murphy for the whole time. It

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Speaker 1: was only I'm going to say within the last five

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Speaker 1: was like.

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Speaker 3: Maybe it's a boy. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It was the first time that I was like, there

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Speaker 1: is a chance this is a boy. And then especially

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Speaker 1: when it was overdue, I was like, it's a prick,

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Speaker 1: it's a boy. He's making this way. It's definitely a boy.

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Speaker 1: So we actually we had a different name for a boy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but then obviously it's a girl. So we got to

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Speaker 1: call herm Murphy Beautiful, which was really really nice.

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Speaker 4: And how to go? How did it all go?

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Speaker 2: Like in the birth suite, like the lead up, because

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Speaker 2: I mean, I just got a message from you just

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Speaker 2: saying we're on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry I didn't. Yeah, I had no time to run.

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Speaker 4: No, no, I knew exactly what you were talking about. I

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Speaker 4: assumed you weren't talking about a game of tennis.

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Speaker 2: That I'd missed something. No, no, no, I knew that

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Speaker 2: that was going on. So what happened?

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Speaker 3: So wild?

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Speaker 1: It was, It was totally wild. Yeah, went into labor

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Speaker 1: at home and so in the morning. Yes, and so

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Speaker 1: we knew from our first birth. And this is conversations

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Speaker 1: we've had with our ob and the midwives. Is that

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Speaker 1: because MIM's labor last time was quite fast? Yeah, they

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Speaker 1: were like, don't labor at home, Like as soon as

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Speaker 1: you think you're in labor.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah that's right, Yeah, come in straight away.

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Speaker 1: So we drove in straight away, and thankfully we did

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Speaker 1: because in the car things started amping up very similar

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Speaker 1: pretty decent contractions out yeah, and then so got straight

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Speaker 3: Ways of dealing with the labor pains. So it was

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Speaker 3: like flash cards.

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Speaker 4: Did you get the flash cards out? So that what

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Speaker 3: Thank you for bringing up, because I mean, I didn't

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Speaker 4: We've been talking about it for ages on the show.

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Speaker 2: We've been talking about you taking these buddy lemonaded flash cards.

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Speaker 1: On the most cards. So caught a bit of blue tag.

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Speaker 1: So blue tacked up the flash cards.

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Speaker 2: Are you actually so you were just saying, before the

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Speaker 2: contractions are ramping up substantially in the car, you still

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Speaker 2: spent the time in the birth suite to blue tack

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Speaker 2: up each flash card.

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Speaker 4: So I respect the hell out of that man.

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Speaker 1: Under under the guard no no, no, under the guards

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Speaker 1: of my wife because she also got friends of hers

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Speaker 1: to write down motivational things to her. Oh nice, so

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Speaker 1: she was them on the wall really badly. So she

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Speaker 1: kept looking at them, so I blue tacked them. Then

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Speaker 1: blue tacked the flash cards there, and these were little

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Speaker 1: offerings that I was providing tom of like trying to

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Speaker 1: get in the shower. Let's change position, you get in

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Speaker 1: the birth swing, going to roll over? Do you want

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Speaker 3: Kind of thing?

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Speaker 1: So had them up, but to be honest, things ramped up.

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Speaker 1: I didn't look at the flash cards once. So good,

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Speaker 1: so good say this. And also I think I argued

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Speaker 1: myself though, because I loved the flash card. I just

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Speaker 3: We hitch ower early, which was good because we have

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Speaker 3: mims in pain.

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Speaker 4: How much to give me here?

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Speaker 3: Well, how much do you want? I think people like

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Speaker 3: birth stories.

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Speaker 2: But that's fine, I mean explain at this point, I

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Speaker 2: had a cup of tea.

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Speaker 4: So she's in the shower.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so hitch out.

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Speaker 1: want to go drug free nice, which was like, awesome,

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Speaker 3: So we were in shower.

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Speaker 1: Which meant I was I was down to my jocks

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Speaker 3: So I'm.

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Speaker 2: Details in the shower, you're in the jock, the flash

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Speaker 4: I don't know much more about the berth.

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Speaker 1: Here because Mims nude in the shower, and that's like,

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Speaker 1: I think it's fine when it's the pregnant woman. Mem

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Speaker 1: and I have discussed this recently or like since the birth.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's no one was prepared for you in

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Speaker 1: your jocks though in the shower with me, and then

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Speaker 1: also when we made the move to the bed, there's

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Speaker 3: I'm just I wrapped it how around my waist?

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Speaker 4: Why did you get in the shower?

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Speaker 3: So I wanted to provide to her pelvis.

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Speaker 2: But why couldn't you just take your shirt off or

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Speaker 1: So I was and then then was like take that

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so we hadnecessary It is actually strange.

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Speaker 3: It is a bit strange.

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Speaker 1: And then these three midwives that the exceptional job that

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Speaker 3: So moved to the bed. I'm getting So.

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Speaker 1: The producers ay more up next. I'm sorry, I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: giving every I'm a.

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Speaker 3: Little bit sleep little bit slip deprived as well. Obviously

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Speaker 1: I do want to talk about I think the main highlight,

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Speaker 1: I mean again birth, get to the main the main

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Speaker 1: highlight my first daughter meeting Murphy was yeah, it's pretty yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's pretty hard to find the words to describe that moment.

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Speaker 1: I apologize, my filter is gone. I'm a bit sleep deprived.

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Speaker 1: So I just spent seven minutes telling the birth story

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Speaker 1: and I didn't really get anywhere.

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Speaker 4: And we only got half an hour in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, so I'm.

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Speaker 4: Gonna, I mean, how long was the labor overall?

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Speaker 3: About six hours?

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Speaker 4: So you know you can get the podcast there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, I'll actually go blood.

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Speaker 1: It'll be like a director's commentary on the DVD's on.

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Speaker 2: Australian Australia's birth stories, mate, and just jump on there

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Speaker 2: to the whole thing.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure they'll tell I'm sure I have you if

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Speaker 4: they'll take me.

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Speaker 2: should maybe fast forward to yeah, absolutely, the actual birth.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, so if you're just join us.

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Speaker 1: So mim did want to go for a drug free

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Speaker 4: We're back in it, mate, take me to the extrawdinary.

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Speaker 1: And then I was moving between that and oxytosin seated

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Speaker 1: do when we cuddle. But then but then my growling,

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Speaker 1: I started yelling, and so in my head I was like,

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Speaker 3: About yelling, like get it out. I'm yelling as well.

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Speaker 3: No not doing it, No, go back up, go back

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Speaker 3: Yeah, old, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Like, nah, I just want to do it anymore.

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Speaker 4: Time talking about the bloody showering, your jocks.

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Speaker 1: So within twenty seconds, Murphy had taken a big pool

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Speaker 4: I reckon taking a pooh, it's just very me.

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