1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: Fame, So whow me, so woone me no need to 2 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: feel sad and bloom am Jones and a man to find. 3 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 2: Love for here. We were watching Married at First Sight 4 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 2: and it finished, and you and I both sort of said, 5 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 2: anyone could do this job as a matchmaker. 6 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 3: We could put two people together better than these so 7 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 3: called experts. 8 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 4: Annoyed me and I didn't even watch the show, was 9 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 4: that there was no sincerity in it. When the show 10 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 4: first started, it was an experiment to put people with 11 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 4: like minded people and to see if that could work. 12 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:37,599 Speaker 4: Then it just became a TV experiment where you'd put 13 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 4: nut jobs with nutjobs, or you'd put someone who had 14 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 4: insecurities because they'd been hurt in. 15 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 5: The past with someone who was going to break your heart. 16 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 5: It was done for drama, and we thought there's a 17 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 5: whole lot of people who are. 18 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 4: Looking for love and sincerely, the left, white, right stuff 19 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 4: isn't working for people. 20 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 2: You know, it's interesting. We've been married to different people 21 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 2: for a long long time, five different people, five different 22 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 2: we've been married to the same people for a long 23 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 2: long time. 24 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 3: How many years? 25 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 2: You've been married to Halle for thirty three years? So 26 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 2: me and Helena, I think thirty one, thirty two. I 27 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 2: have no idea what I would be like to. 28 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 3: Be out there. 29 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 2: I will say this, that's experiment. But I remember when 30 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 2: I was on the ground floor of The Bachelor many 31 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 2: many years ago, and we're talking about how the Bachelor 32 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 2: would work and all that sort of stuff, and I. 33 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 5: Said, so what this guy, you weren't going to be 34 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 5: the Bachelor? 35 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 2: The Bachelor we according me being the host of the show, 36 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 2: and I really would have liked to have done it 37 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: because I found it was it was quite interesting. I 38 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 2: shouldn't have mentioned Andrew G's name. That was probably a 39 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 2: bad mistake because he ended up doing it. But anyway, 40 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 2: at the time, I said, what's that Does this guy 41 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 2: kiss all these girls? And they said, well, at the time, 42 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 2: they said, well, it doesn't. 43 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 3: Have to be like that. But really, when you look 44 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 3: at The Bachelor, that's a given. The guy kisses all 45 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 3: the girls. You know what I mean. There's too much 46 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 3: choice out there. 47 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 5: There's too much choice. 48 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,919 Speaker 4: I have a friend who is so attractive, she's smart, 49 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 4: she's got a great job, she's so interesting, and she'll 50 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 4: go on a date with a guy and she'll say, 51 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 4: well that was great, and never hears from again shed. 52 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 4: How hard does this have to be because there's always 53 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,679 Speaker 4: the idea that there'll be someone better, and so no 54 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 4: one is settling anymore. It's really hard, which is why 55 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 4: we thought we'd do our jam singles and let's see 56 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 4: what we can do about putting sincere people together with sincere. 57 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 3: And we're not going to dick you around. We're not 58 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 3: doing this for drama or anything like that. We genuinely 59 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 3: want this to happen. 60 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:29,399 Speaker 5: But we've hit a rich scene. 61 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 4: We've had hundreds and hundreds of applications from people saying 62 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 4: I would like to find love. 63 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 3: Hannah has joined us. 64 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 5: How is one of those? 65 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: Hello, Hannah agive morning. How are you guys? 66 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 3: We're very well. 67 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 5: So let's get a bit of the Hannah story. You're 68 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 5: thirty seven years. 69 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,679 Speaker 1: Old, thirty six nearly thirty six six. 70 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 3: Let's still going to Kiki too, Hannah, swing it on that. 71 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 5: So tell us a bit about the kind of person. 72 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 1: You aren't a person I am sorry, I'm a busy 73 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 1: single mom. I'm really active. I get out and about 74 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: like beet at the gym, and you know, live in 75 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: the outside world, not online. And yeah, it's just tricky 76 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: to find people that are kind of like into the 77 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: same thing nowadays and not into partying. 78 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 5: So you're not into partying? 79 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 1: No, No, those days are over, do you know what 80 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: I mean? Like I like to go out and have 81 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 1: an ice meal, or like I'll have a couple of 82 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 1: drinks or you know, do something nice. But yeah, that 83 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 1: whole kind of like old Lady Rache scene is a 84 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 1: bit beyond me now. 85 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 2: And that's a thing as well, because I've noticed something 86 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 2: as well with thirty something as these everyone's on the 87 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 2: drugs these days. 88 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 3: Like correct when I was when we. 89 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 2: Worked a triple Am, everyone was on the drugs. I wasn't, 90 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 2: but we worked in a rock star world. 91 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 3: Can I say that I was you weren't on the drugs, 92 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 3: but everyone else was. You know, these days you got 93 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 3: plumbers and stuff, they're all on the drugs. What's happened? 94 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 5: Yeah? 95 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 3: Am I right about that? Hannah? 96 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it seems to be this whole phase is like 97 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's like a single mum thing 98 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: or if it's kind of like you've done your kids 99 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: and then you go out there. But like you know, 100 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: these these girls can party harder than they did in 101 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: their twenties, you know, what I mean. So if that's 102 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: not you're saying that it's cool, but like, yeah, it's 103 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: just trying to find something in between, I suppose. 104 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 4: And what's your what's your experience been like as a 105 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 4: single person? Have you tried dating online? What's the experience been? 106 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: Like? Yeah, I have because my life's quite busy and 107 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 1: I don't really mix that sort of thing and with 108 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: work or soccer or you know, the git or whatever. 109 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: I have gone online. I've been a month for a while, 110 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: and yeah, it's just carnage out there, Like there are 111 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: so many people that don't actually know what they want. 112 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: So you'll have all of these little conversations trying to 113 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: pinpoint like you know, what you can get out of 114 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: each other or all this kind of small chit chat, 115 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 1: and then nine times out of ten someone will go somebody. 116 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 4: So it's just someone will ghost, you know, just disappear, 117 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 4: and the guys sincere are they asking you weird stuff? 118 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: There is a lot of weird stuff out there. So 119 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: I think I've actually spoken on the phone, which is 120 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:00,679 Speaker 1: what I do before I meet anybody, like three people 121 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: and I would have matched with hundreds, So there's this 122 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 1: real like Uber eats, Uber girls sort of thing where 123 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: people were, yeah, really just like okay, girls on demand, 124 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: it's a Sunday night, you know, Tinder or Hinge is 125 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: going to kick off, and yeah, there's just a lot 126 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: of this instant gratification stuff. So they're trying to suss 127 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 1: out what you're up for. How much? How much is 128 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: it going to take? And you know, for me, it's 129 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: all than a happy meal, So it's a bit of 130 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: a struggle. 131 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:30,480 Speaker 5: So how much is it going to take to get you, 132 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 5: like for a booty call? 133 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: Nice? 134 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 2: But you're just you've just kind of you haven't even met. 135 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 2: That's your husband got together with your boss. 136 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 5: Wow, how did that happen? 137 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 3: What does that mean? 138 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: Well, we were all the same organization and yeah we 139 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: were married and had our kids and everything like that, 140 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: and there was a bit of talk that something might 141 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: have been going on. But he was a nice guy. 142 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: Because I'd always been was like, you know, they're not 143 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: so nice guys. That was what I was into. But yeah, 144 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 1: he was the nice one, so I just didn't even 145 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 1: think you have the guy to do it. But it 146 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: all came out in the first week of COVID in 147 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 1: twenty twenty and I left the next day and I 148 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 1: stood together, so at least they've given it a go. 149 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 5: And is he still with your boss? 150 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 2: He is? 151 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:15,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I left the organization because they were both 152 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: higher up than me, and I left and gave my 153 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: my month's time, so I kind of went on my 154 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 1: merry way. But yeah, after kind of dealing with the 155 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: the betrayal of it, I'm actually quite pleased looking back 156 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 1: in hindsight, because yeah, I mean, it's just another case 157 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: of people not knowing what they actually want. You know, 158 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 1: this guy stood up and you know, we've had this 159 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: life and we got married and blah blah blah. But 160 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: I don't think he actually knew himself well enough to 161 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: know what he wanted. 162 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 5: So it was hard for you though. You lost your 163 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 5: job and your partner, the whole thing. 164 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a lot. 165 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 3: I didn't sack you imagine, that's how harder up than. 166 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: They were. Very understanding, but it was just a really love. 167 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 5: Some flowers. 168 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Hannah. Well, look we want to make you, 169 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 3: you know, our little we want to help you. 170 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, so look, thank you so much. We'll see what 171 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 4: we can do. We've got lots and lots of entrance. 172 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 4: We're going to be talking to a stack of them. 173 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 4: But you sound lovely, Hannah. 174 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 3: We wish we want to marry you. We think you're fantastic. 175 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: We say yes, Hannah, Thanks God, thanks Hannah for doing this. 176 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, let's hope. 177 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 3: Let's just see. 178 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 2: We're going to meet some more entrance over the next 179 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 2: couple of weeks, and then we'll choose people to pair up. 180 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 5: Hannah sounds love There's a lot. 181 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 3: Of responsibility on our shoulders now 182 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 4: Amanda, Let's see what we can do.