WEBVTT - If You Could Love Everyone 💞 How Would You Pick Your Partner? 🧑‍🤝‍🧑

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Ladies and gentlemen, It's time for Flexi's Big Question of

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<v Speaker 1>the week.

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<v Speaker 3>It is Flexing Rooms on CATA. It is time to

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<v Speaker 3>read you out the responses to my big question of

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<v Speaker 3>the week.

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<v Speaker 2>The question in particular was if you could.

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<v Speaker 3>Love everybody in the entire world, if it was absolutely

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<v Speaker 3>possible to fall in love with literally anybody, then how

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<v Speaker 3>would you pick your partner? Controversial? I'm going to read

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<v Speaker 3>out fore your responses from our favorite of VIPs i e.

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<v Speaker 3>The people who responded via our Instagram. It's Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's go height and personal hygiene. Yep, personal hygiene, I

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<v Speaker 3>think is a huge one. We don't talk about that enough.

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<v Speaker 3>Shared hobbies and interests, someone to enjoy life within the

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<v Speaker 3>day to day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm going to stop here.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying, if you could fall in love with anyone,

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<v Speaker 3>how would you choose them? So how are we choosing

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<v Speaker 3>them now? If it's not share hobbies and interest and

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean? Yeah, anyway, pick the one

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<v Speaker 3>who was the best at meeting my needs as defined

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<v Speaker 3>by Maslow's hierarchy. I'd pick a vegan for the animals,

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<v Speaker 3>someone that I already think this is how life is.

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<v Speaker 3>I think even if this is how life is, it's

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<v Speaker 3>not how we act. I think we have limitations on

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<v Speaker 3>who we can love based on things that might seem

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<v Speaker 3>arbitrary but actually matter a lot, or things that are

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<v Speaker 3>actually arbitrary they don't matter at all, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Height, for example.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, it doesn't really matter unless you're trying to

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<v Speaker 3>specifically make NBA babies. Let's go through some more. I'd

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<v Speaker 3>pick them by how much fun we have together. Similar values, morals,

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<v Speaker 3>and lifestyle choices for harmony, I think loving and being

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<v Speaker 3>in love are different. I love all my friends, but

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not in love with them.

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<v Speaker 1>But then why is it that some people are in

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<v Speaker 1>love all the time for the rest of their lives.

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<v Speaker 3>We've got people who are always in love and always

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<v Speaker 3>in relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>But like with the one person, like you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>see those whole I'm like, how did you guys do that?

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a choice, Yeah, but if it's a choice, it's

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<v Speaker 1>you choosing to love them. Where It's like some people

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<v Speaker 1>are just in love forever?

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<v Speaker 2>Are they? That's the tea?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm not any this person says Zerbetim whatever Froom says.

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<v Speaker 3>So for me, what do you say if you could

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<v Speaker 3>love everyone in the entire world, it was possible to

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<v Speaker 3>fall in love with anybody in the entire world, how

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<v Speaker 3>are you picking a partner?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, if I'm choosing same sense of humor? Yeah, one

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<v Speaker 1>brain very important.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the most important thing to me. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>keep it real.

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<v Speaker 4>I love I love that and not like oh not

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<v Speaker 4>the like, not the like we're so funny together, just

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<v Speaker 4>like I look at you and you get me, because

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<v Speaker 4>all my besties get it, particularly Madison.

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<v Speaker 2>I like one brain, one brain core.

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<v Speaker 1>I need that, like I have that with my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm gonna need it with a partner.

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<v Speaker 2>Otherwise you're just not up to par.

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<v Speaker 3>What if the reason why you can't have that with

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<v Speaker 3>a partner is because romance erodes the part of your

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<v Speaker 3>brain that can do telepathy. Ooh you know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I think I've said that phrase before. I've had this

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<v Speaker 3>kind of standard relationship with a friend. Why can't I

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<v Speaker 3>have with a partner? And it's like, because you're in

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<v Speaker 3>a romantic dynamic and that's eroding at the skill that

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<v Speaker 3>your brain has.

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<v Speaker 2>To do telepathy. I don't discritche that well, not in.

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<v Speaker 3>This scenario, because we can love ever we want. Okay, facts,

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<v Speaker 3>do you know what I mean? Like that's the vibe,

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<v Speaker 3>the one brain thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Is beautiful, it's amazing. We get into a degree I

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<v Speaker 1>would say, okay, that someone who like same understanding of

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<v Speaker 1>like nostalgia.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, oh I hate it, but it's me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna keep you be serious, like someone who will

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<v Speaker 1>understand when I say a meme from two thousand and seven.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like somebody who truly understands you the knooks and crannies,

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<v Speaker 3>not just someone who understands the part of you that

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<v Speaker 3>you've decided to show for them in this moment.

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<v Speaker 2>That's cool.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not kind of like how would you pick your partner?

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, who is the person you'd pick if you

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<v Speaker 3>could love it? Because I feel like if you could

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<v Speaker 3>truly love anyone, if I could guarantee I spend a

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<v Speaker 3>day with Mickey and we've fallen in love, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>I'd be like, Okay, well, I'm gonna be pickier. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't need to be falling in love with everybody every day,

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<v Speaker 3>the heartbreak of it at all.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you never get love. This is exactly it.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's like it's more so like who do I

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<v Speaker 3>actually want in that criteria, And it's that I want

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<v Speaker 3>not myself but the best version of myself, So like

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<v Speaker 3>the person who can do one brain. But it's like

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<v Speaker 3>more principal than me, smarter than me, funnier than me,

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<v Speaker 3>healthier than me, Like I really want to I want

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<v Speaker 3>all the idealistic things in a person.

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<v Speaker 2>I want someone.

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<v Speaker 1>Nicer than me hundred percent. That's that's my criteria where

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<v Speaker 1>I like, let's get a little bit more of that politeny.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it'd be awesome. Oh I love this. Oh have fun?

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