1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,679 Speaker 1: Jersey and Amanda jam Nation. 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 2: Well, my next guess is one of Australia's favorite people. 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 2: He's been an actor in some of our favorite television 4 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 2: shows and he's also extraordinarily loved for his dedication to 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 2: raising money for cancer research. One of the ways he's 6 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:20,440 Speaker 2: been doing this is through his beautiful book series. Here 7 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 2: to tell us about his latest book called Dear Lover 8 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 2: is our Dear Friend. See what I did there? Samuel Johnson, Hi, Samuel. 9 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: Red Eye, Hello, I wrote. 10 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 2: Something for your last one before this letter to your mum, 11 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 2: which was I must say my mum's been gone for 12 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 2: about eighteen years now, and it was the easiest thing 13 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: I've ever written. I just sat down and poured out. 14 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: So tell us about this one. What's Dear Lover? 15 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 1: I had? I had the same experience writing for Dear Lover. 16 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: I wrote my letter in about nine and a half 17 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: minutes and I didn't change it. It just came out. 18 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: Some of the letters just come out easily and others 19 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: are hard fought for after many weeks. It really does. 20 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 1: That really does depend on the book that we're doing 21 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: and the person that you're writing to. But basically, the 22 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: Lover is an assembly of letters to lovers from notable Australians. 23 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: So we've got famous people in there, like like we 24 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 1: had you for dear Mum. We've got famous people in there. 25 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: But did you know that there are traples? 26 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 2: I've heard of trupples. Have you got a letter from 27 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 2: someone in a thrupple? 28 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? And I mean I mean is it one 29 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: person with two others? Or is it? Or are all 30 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: three with each other? That's the question I've got. 31 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 2: I think it's all three with each other? Intriguing, isn't it? 32 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: Mate? It does me? Does it? Man? It's bananas, It's 33 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: absolutely bananas. Before I did this book, I'd never heard 34 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: of a traple. I'd heard of a threesome, but I've 35 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: never heard of a traple, but I reckon. The letter 36 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: that got to me the most was comedian Bev Kellix. 37 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: She wrote about her partner that it wasn't going very 38 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: well and maybe she should have left a year ago, 39 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 1: and maybe if she was patient for another year it 40 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 1: might improve, and it was. It's just kind of really 41 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: really honest and really sad. Anyway, she texted me two 42 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: days ago, she just she's just gone on a date 43 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: night with her partner. And things are going really well. 44 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: I'm glad to report. 45 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 3: And so did the partner read the letter? 46 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: No, not yet. They might go into another I reckon 47 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 1: they might go into another bed. Bet after. 48 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 3: As they walked past bookstores, she say, nothing to see 49 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:40,799 Speaker 3: in there. 50 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: Exactly, I mean people of people. One thing that really 51 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: surprised me Jonesy and Amanda is that people have and 52 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 1: I didn't ask this of them. They've been really honest. 53 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: Jackie Lamby's letter is very direct, very honest. She's currently single, 54 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: so she's got a list of rules for any partner. 55 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: They must like Rambo fair enough. That's but there's no 56 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:08,679 Speaker 1: argument there. 57 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 3: I love I love Rambo sept for I will say 58 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 3: this Rambo five, he disrespected the character. But up until that. 59 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 2: So you and Jackie can never be together. I like 60 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 2: the line. 61 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 3: I'd have to ask my wife, but I'd like to 62 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 3: discuss with Jackie what her thoughts of Rambo five. 63 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: I've been well, but but do you like dag with dogs? 64 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 1: Because because you've got to like dag with dogs as well, 65 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: you know what, I. 66 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 3: Do like them once a year. 67 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 2: Don't talk yourself into going out with Jackie Lamb if 68 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 2: it doesn't come naturally to you the. 69 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 3: Next minute, I'm married to Jackie Lamb. 70 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 2: But I like the notion that it's not all happy 71 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 2: long term partners. There's there's some challenges in here, or 72 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 2: people writing that as to people they didn't end up with. 73 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: Maybe exactly, it's not just stunning tributes. I mean, I'll 74 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: bet you know Grant and She's Dade's tributes to each 75 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: other are very brilliant. But it's not just that's so, 76 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: it's really I mean, it really goes everywhere this book, 77 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 1: like it's it's funny. It's funny that I've curated it 78 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 1: because for about four decades I didn't believe in love 79 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: at all. 80 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, how do you feel about Rambo? 81 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, Rambo is a bit more in my 82 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: old self. Rambo is a bit more albal. I just 83 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: I was very confused while love. I didn't know what 84 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: it meant. And you know, I'm in my mid forties now, 85 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: so I kind of know what it means now. But 86 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: it took a long time to grapple with. 87 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 3: Are you in a relationship very happily? 88 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,799 Speaker 1: Well, Well, we don't. We don't. We don't fight at all. 89 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: There's no tension, there's no there's like like, I don't 90 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: go oh no about anything. 91 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: Are you sure you're in a relationship with someone else. 92 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:53,119 Speaker 3: It was a person? Because you actors get a bit weird. 93 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 1: I know that. Oh well, I mean, yes, admittedly I 94 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 1: have to blow my girl friend up. 95 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:05,559 Speaker 3: Are you happy that you know because you played Molly? 96 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 3: Are you happy that you didn't have to blame? In 97 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 3: the most recent incarnation of him bearing his bum on 98 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 3: the stage at Elton John's. 99 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: Concept, hey listen, can I be honest? Can I be honest? Yes? 100 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 2: Please? 101 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 1: It's time for him to hang up his hat. Man. Well, yeah, 102 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 1: I look, there's a lot I haven't said, and I'm 103 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: trying really hard to be diplomatic, and and I've seen 104 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: the same type of thing happen over and over again, 105 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: including him when I told him not to coming up 106 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 1: on stage during my gold LOGI Win and ruining my 107 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: curried Beanie moment where I was going to try and 108 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: raise a lot of money for cancer research by getting 109 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: up uncles are skunk and babbling for eight minutes to 110 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 1: finish the logis that night? Not a word? Did we 111 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: understand who's looking after him? He must not be out 112 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 1: in public during the PM, not with the way that 113 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 1: he drinks. Hang up your hat on mate. 114 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 3: Well that's that's maybe that's what we need. That's the 115 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 3: message to Molly Well Sam. It's always great to catch up. 116 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 2: With you, Sam, and we love your level of honesty too. 117 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 2: Thank you. 118 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 1: My pleasure and thank you. So if anyone wants to 119 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:36,919 Speaker 1: buy the book, please buy it from Please buy it 120 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 1: from us, Love your Sister dot org. If you click 121 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 1: on market and buy it to us, you get bonus letters. 122 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 1: I'm happy to sign it for you, and more goes 123 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: to Kicking Cancer in the Face, which we quite like. 124 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: So please do buy it from us. 125 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 3: That should be in Rambo. That should be when he 126 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 3: kicks cancer in the face. 127 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 2: Samuel, love you to talk to you. You take care. 128 00:06:59,480 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 3: Bye.